Not all Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies have the same story. I don’t think everyone’s here because they’re bitter about love, but rather because they’re realistic about life and the importance of being happy NOW. Is there a turning point at which you chose to play a different role in the dating game?
For all you arrangement virgins, keep in mind that just because this is a Sugar Daddy site, you don’t have to “play the role” of a Sugar Daddy or Sugar Baby. I was chatting with a friend this morning who says that she uses SeekingArrangement not for the money, but for the company; “I like to surround myself with successful, considerate, high-quality people… any Joe Shmoe 20 something can take me to a ball game, grab me a bite and call it a date… but I want a maverick”.
I’ve also met some Sugar Daddies who put sex near the bottom of the Sugar Baby wish-list. Plenty of Sugar Daddies favor conversation with a hot, sultry and stimulating woman over a quick romp.
Sugar Daddies: Is the idea of “becoming a Sugar Daddy” ridiculous, or is the term well suited? Before you started sugardating, did you have a different look/style than you do now? Has it enhanced your confidence? Do all of the young and attractive Sugar Babies make you want to hit the gym, buy a new car, address your MPB, etc? Basically, has becoming a Sugar Daddy made you beef-up your peacock feathers?
Sugar Babies: Come a long way in getting here? Probably! Most Sugar Babies take more than just a moment to decide whether finding a Sugar Daddy is the next “right step” for them. Are you like my friend Alicia who only dates Sugar Daddies for their company and business connections? I’d love to hear what or who gave you the extra push in getting here…was it your best friend? Reality TV shows? Your MOM?!