10 years ago
Top 4 Most Beneficial Sugar Daddy Arrangements

10 years ago
Top 4 Most Beneficial Sugar Daddy Arrangements

For all of you who haven’t heard, the American tax payer is set to become Wall Streets biggest ever Sugar Daddy. Sugar Daddies may be finding themselves in need of their own benefactor if things don’t shape up soon.

Finding himself relatively secure in today’s murky economic times, today’s Sugar Daddy can’t afford to be tied down by conventional thinking, or dating for that matter. He may pilot an airplane, or drive a truck. He might run an office, or maybe even an entire country. He may or may not have been married, but either way, now he seeks intimacy with no-strings-attached. He can be any of the unsuspecting men you see in your Starbucks waiting line, or he may be your brother, pastor, or perhaps even your husband.

“A truck driver can be a sugar daddy, as long as he has enough disposable income at the end of the month to spoil his sugar baby with.” – says Brandon Wade, founder and CEO of SeekingArrangement.com speaking on Playboy Radio

Top 4 Most Beneficial Sugar Daddy Arrangements:

  1. Mistress (Personal Assistant) — The company, not the man behind it will do most of the giving in this type of Sugar Daddy/Sugar Baby arrangement. Often chosen as way to maintain privacy while having an excuse to stay in close contact with each other, the Personal Assistant arrangement is commonly practiced by small and big time players alike, but beware; this type of arrangement, if exposed, can lead to potentially severe consequences… just ask John Edwards!
  2. Travel Companion — The Sugar Daddy who travels regularly will often seek a sugar baby who can accompany him on his private jet, stay at a posh hotel during a weekend business trip, or fly across the world at a moments notice just for the fun of it.
  3. Arm Candy — This type of arrangement is very simplistic. Many Sugar Daddies simply enjoy the pleasure of spoiling a woman, especially gorgeous, young and appreciative ones. This sugar daddy takes his sugar baby on shopping trips galore, standing back far enough to give her space, but not far enough to miss the excitement he brings her. He takes her to a fine dining restaurant and, without knowing perhaps, he enjoys watching her eat and takes pleasure in fulfilling the ‘provider’ role- a feeling he may have seldom experienced while climbing the corporate ladder…
  4. Mentorship — It’s not always about money, honey.The value of making connections and learning from first-hand experience can be worth more than gold to women looking for professional advancement… “give a girl a fish and you have fed her for a day, teach her how to fish and you have fed her for a lifetime.”

I think the best arrangements involve a mixture of all of the above; a little mentoring here, some pampering there, a flight to Toronto  on a whim perhaps, and maybe even some showing off at the company party (arm candy) during the holidays.

Shout-out to Yael and others who addressed a very intriguing sweet & sour here!

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33 Responses to “Top 4 Most Beneficial Sugar Daddy Arrangements”

  1. sweetpea says:

    Yes if you want a person with low self confidence? Or?? should I go on? I really hate to be mean! It is like saying to you CEO.. go pay for a blow job?

    A truck driver can be a sugar daddy, as long as he has enough disposable income at the end of the month to spoil his sugar baby with.” – says Brandon Wade, founder and CEO of SeekingArrangement.com speaking on Playboy Radio

  2. SuthrnExec says:

    Hang in there – do you have two profiles up? You should probably just have one – that might be part of the problem – just guessing.

  3. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    =] I still haven’t had any luck on this site. Too many creepy people it seems.

  4. SuthrnExec says:

    Mishell, I’d enjoy the opportunity if were closer.

  5. MishellBocaRatonGrl says:

    I’ve been trying to find a good SD for mentorship. But they all just want me as Arm candy.

  6. SuthrnExec says:

    I would say that I am looking for a mixture of mostly travel companion, mentorship with a touch of mistress! Discretion is an absolute requirement, so the arm candy idea is out.

  7. AlaskanQT says:

    Some gentlemen are really into Arm Candy. Honestly that has been the majority of the people I’ve met on thsi site. They want someoen pretty and intelligent to talk to when they are out of town… One gentleman said that he loved his wife dearly and woudl never leave but sometimes he just needed to look at pretty eyes and talk about something other than baby vomit, diaper changes and grocery trips. He said that Arm Candy made him feel like he was 30 again and he loved that :)

  8. nycblondiebay says:

    And while we’re talking about mentors, someone in publishing or fashion could rock my mind!

  9. Ms. V says:

    Hello all! Long time, no see.
    Whoa baby. I see you SG2- cocky suits you…

    Oh, and you guys are so right about the mentor thing- there is an abundance of profiles claiming the desire to be one, but scarcity in replies that confirm that intention.
    I want a mentor. You cannot learn if you don’t ask, right? And we have to be very careful who we listen to…I don’t listen to anyone that I don’t want to end up being like, ya dig?

    SO- anyone so comfortable and confident that you’re not affected by the downturn in the market? VV needs a mentor to teach her how to make her money grow faster than she can plant new seeds.

  10. lisa says:

    I think this site makes it easier for sds to be direct about what they want. It is more difficult to just go up to a girl in the street or at work and make the offer. Also whenever you meet by chance, you don’t know upfront what the other person’s relationship goals are. the girl that a sd might meet casually might mistake it for a long term relationship rather than a fun arrangement.
    When it comes to online dating, it seems the most normal men are on the sds sites or the married men looking for discreet relationships. Afterall it is acceptable by society to meet someone and date but sugardaddy dating is not accepted by everyone and a married man can’t exactly meet a woman to have an affair with through family or friends or at work, he has to be discreet so online makes sense. I am most suspicious of men who are on regular dating sites that are single, sucessful and claim to be very social and popular. I can understand that a shy man who stays home all the time might have difficulty meeting women but I am always suspicious of the man who claims to have everything and is in the country club, health club, and hobnobs with society. This type of man should be able to meet someone like himself at one of his many social outings. after all if a man can’t meet a lady when he is out socializing with his type and social circle, how does he expect to meet someone off of a dating site. I have a feeling alot of men on the regular dating sites (especially those men in their 40’s and 50’s who have never been marrried) are more social misfits and not as popular as they claim. On the other hand the men on a sd dating site probably have more to offer and since they are not looking for the regular dating situation but rather something somewhat controversial to many.

  11. blueeyes says:

    man said to me today that he loves the idea of having a sugar baby.. and then we were talking about places we were going to go and such.. conversation was going really well tilll he said .. well as long as my stocks continue to crash we are not going anywhere. So why did he tell me we were going places. silly man. I said bye bye

  12. lostinwonderland says:

    I’d feel like I was cheating a SD if I was just arm candy…unless, of course, he really and truly only wanted that. Even then, I’d be skeptical. Is it so hard to find a pretty girl to buy things for? Idk if you’d need a website for that.

    Maybe it’s just the element of it being easier on here, where your chances of being rejected are much slimmer and you don’t know the girls.

    Come summer I’ll be looking to be a travel companion. This site is perfect for me, since I have barely enough money to get by but I want to see the world. :)

  13. dreamer says:

    idk, SG2 when i think of arm candy, i think of someone he wants to take out and be seen with in public. Im not sure what you think it is. But im just saying if some rich man wants me only to show off in public, and still wants discretion about our relationship, especially if its sexual, its a conflict of interest..

  14. dreamer says:

    when you cant get your nails done, the glue on ones can be a good temp replacement if you have a date or anything, make sure to get glue on ones and press it into your cuticle a bit (not to where its hurting) and most ppl could never tell. For working, buy shorts nails. And never peel them off! this will destroy your nails. More luck wishes for you lisa!

  15. lisa says:

    It is great and he is the last person I expected to help but he did. But my poor nails, they look awful I will never get another sd looking like this, nails ragged from opening boxes and i’m still very stiff. I walk like an old person, need a walker or cane. lol I’m off tomorrow and friday so i can unwind and spend some time with family. I like the fact that I work alone and don’t have to deal with customers the way I used to. I do my job and don’t have to do a million other things. I spent the last hour today looking busy, straightening the makeup and toiletries.

  16. Caligirl says:

    That’s wonderful news Lisa :) I am so happy for you!!! There more good things that are going to happen!!!

  17. lisa says:

    Hi everyone

    well my ex married lover become a temp sugardaddy to me today. He saved me from being out on the street. He came by a brought me money to pay my rent. I never expected it because in the time we were together he never gave me any money as we were simply having an affair but after mentioning it to him in an email (we do keep in touch regularly although he is committed to his wife, we are till friends). so although he isn’t an official sugardaddy, I did get some sd treatment today after a long rough day at work. So I will be able to get my rent check tomorrow and keep a roof over my head thanks to my ex playing sugardaddy for a day.
    Oh and my friend that is really religious sent me his prayers…. yeah right as if that will pay the bills.

  18. SouthernGent2 says:

    I must be missing the point somewhat. Of course I would prefer the benefits of having a sb, but of course she has to look great too. Come on, you know SG2 only goes after the finest!

  19. dreamer says:

    i dont guess i would object to being arm candy, as long as thats all he is interested in. I couldnt have a sexual relationship with him, because if anyone confronted me about it, I cant lie to save my life…

  20. SouthernGent2 says:

    Nothing wrong with arm candy.

  21. bostonTerrier says:

    blondie girl – both are going pretty good. i like both of them more than i thought i would and i planned of dropping one after i liked one more than another … it hasn’t happened. i plan on keeping both until either one of us decides to move on.

    good luck with your meeting tomorrow! it’s good that he is assuring you he’s not only into sex, just hope for the best!

  22. girlygirl says:

    arm candy happens. sometimes a guy is just an old bachelor who wants to show off!

  23. dreamer says:

    yes, the only people i could think that would want arm candy and such would be celebs and the like. And they wouldnt need this site to pick up a hit chick and say, ”hey, will you be seen with me?” yeah.

  24. Blondiegirl says:

    that sounds nice boston terrier- how are both going for you? Are you planning on keeping both for a while still… I like the idea of the mentor/friend one you have- that would be awesome to find one who has a lot of interest in my life and wants to see me succeeed. Yay Im meeting one for dinner tomorrow.. YAY! Im worried he is more concerned with sex than the other points of the relationship but he keep assuring me that is not the case. Ill let you all know how it goes.

  25. bostonTerrier says:

    my 2 sds fit different categories … one is simply looking for a mistress because, as he put it, there is nothing between him and his wife be it physically or emotionally. the other is more of a mentor/friends with benefit type of sd. he wants to see me succeed in undergrad & law school which makes me happy – like my own personal cheerleader, friend, and mentor :)

    both are into discretion so i think it’d be odd to find an sd into the arm candy thing – most, if not all, sds i’ve talked to on this site are into discretion.

  26. nycblondiebay says:

    Lisa- why aren’t you asking for a photo of the guy before you meet him? If I can’t get a photo of someone I’ve been emailing or talking to on the phone, I won’t meet him.

  27. lisa says:

    I put all the pics I have one , and change them from time to time. I leave off the ones that my daughter took of me such as the closeup of me eating a hamburger or the video of me shopping for flip flops. lol

    It is equally important that a guy have some photos up because maybe they get the girls with their money but even if the girl doesnt’ care what the guy looks like, it sure makes it a lot easier to meet the person when you know what you are looking for. White male with brown hair/blue eyes 5.11, or black male hair, brown eyes, etc could fit many guys especially if you meet them in a public place where there are alot of people around. I am equally surprised that clothing is never discussed when I meet guys. I remember years ago when you went on a date with someone you told them what you would be wearing so they would know who took look for but now I have had not one guy tell me what he would be wearing so i have to look at every man who goes by that fits the hair/eyes description.

  28. nycblondiebay says:

    Lisa there are some guys who just want to collect photos and there are some guys who want to collect phone numbers and there are some guys who will never get past the email stage. If anyone wants a bunch of photos tell him to move on. You’ve got more than enough up I’m sure.

  29. lisa says:

    this last “gentleman???” had rejected an email I sent months ago and popped up a few days ago and I thought well maybe he decided to try me, well I read his email and he had it lined up that he wanted to trade pictures, talk on the phone, and then if we were compatible,possibly meet. How many more photos does this guy need?? I have 3 on at all times and I know he has probably seen the other 6 that I have had on my profile. He has one really bad picture, blurry and a face shot. He needs to provide more pics. I sent him an email but no additional pics and he has disappeared, has been online several times in the past couple days and read my email, but no answer.
    I agree, lets skip the email tag and photo swap and meet. That’s how you find out if you are compatible. I got rejected by one guy after talking on the phone. I guess I didn’t have enough to say to him. I was tired though and really didn’t feel like talking. He too is still on this site in sugardaddy eternity.

  30. nycblondiebay says:

    Lisa- you hit the nail on the head girl! I’ve gotten too many of those emails to count.

  31. nycblondiebay says:

    I also agree with Dreamer about the arm candy idea. After spending half my afternoon in another fruitless email exchange, I can only think that many of the potential SDs here are looking for either an afternoon delight or porn email.

    I haven’t been here long, but I am getting annoyed. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve gotten emails stating from men who (a) want to come to my house and _____ or (b)want sexy pictures or (b) want to jerk off to porn emails. Yeesh.

    I’d love to meet a real live MAN here. One that would like to meet for drinks-not at Starbucks, thank you very much and have a conversation.

    I think the relationships mentioned in this topic are few and far here.

  32. lisa says:

    It seems to me there is another type of sugardaddy on here and he isn’t really a sugardaddy at all. He is looking for sex and is upfront about it on his profile, not seeking intimacy or anything discreet, he is crude and indelicate and no serious sugarbaby would want a man who is obviously out to get some. And these guys that have these kinds of profiles are usually the ones that offer very little as think that the sex is equal and a woman should settle for that. I see so many profiles on here where the men offer very little.
    I have been a mistress to some extent although I did not gain anything financially. I met a married man several years back and had an ongoing relationship with his for several years. He was the best I had ever had and the longest lasting relationship. I knew him better than I knew my ex husband. He made me feel good about myself and complilmented me all the time and appreciated my quirkiness and fashion sense rather than criticise me and try to change me like my last boyfriend did. I think the mistress situation would fit me best. I am at a point in my life where I have given up trying to find mr right and if I could find a nice man to see on a regular basis that would help me financially, i wouldn’t really need a regular boyfriend.

  33. dreamer says:

    I have not found many sd’s looking for arm candy, which seems really intreguing when you think about it, but it is probably the least desireable position, because all the discreet-ness is lost. Being a mistriss would be fun, but the blog is true, when the sh*t hits the fan, its gonna be a huge mess!!! and i would love to find a sd that would mentor me, i love to learn and become sucessful myself, but that does not seem to be what is on most of their minds!