12 years ago
Sugar Dating: Jolly Jolly Joy Joy

12 years ago
Sugar Dating: Jolly Jolly Joy Joy

Sugar Daddy dates aren’t completely predictable, but they’re supposed to be about fun, happiness, and mutual benefit.

Many here have been lucky enough to have a Sugar Daddy date go right, and sometimes more lasting connections can result from a good pairing. It’s not about finding a committed relationship, but it’s certainly about having a stress-free relationship with someone you can care about without becoming attached to.

Isn’t it great – sharing pleasure, experiences, and ‘newness’ with someone else, without being obligated by anything except to share the joy with each other as long as it lasts?

The knowledge of not being out in the cold next month because your SD will help you pay your rent might bring some joy, no doubt.

Knowing you can make a beautiful girl feel appreciated in ways that she has never felt before might bring you joy also.

Is there a type of feeling you seek with a Sugar Daddy or Sugar Baby not found in past, or current, relationships?

How do you make sure that the time you spend with a Sugar Daddy or Baby will be a joyful?

Is your profile effective in making a potential SD or SB relaxed and comfortable in contacting you, and does it make them look forward to having fun with you?

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394 Responses to “Sugar Dating: Jolly Jolly Joy Joy”

  1. Sex Starved Mature Woman says:

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  2. CARTIER says:

    well i definitely can offer a more nontraditional, date….. i want something so much more then what regular rich guys can offer… someone with the same caring state of mind and wild unpredictable side!

    i hope santa brings him to me!!!!

  3. sweetredhead269443 says:

    night Lisa

  4. lisa says:

    Good night everyone. think I will have some coffee and a swig of nyquil and listen to some tv, gotta be in bed by 11 and get up at 6 am.

  5. lisa says:

    Good night may you be awaken by the phone.
    I’ve got to try to call my friend tomorow evening if I get a chance. she usually gets off work at 8 pm but with the holidays she has to work till 10:30 and by that time I’m getting ready to go to bed (can’t call her that late as she keeps me on the phone for hours). can’t call her before work because her new phone plan gives her very few before 9 pm minutes, so I have to catch her after 9pm whenever she’s off. I hate being out of touch with friends.

  6. BlkButtafly says:

    Well ladies. I’m going to go to sleep and maybe just maybe he’ll call me in the morning or sometime tomorrow…..goodnight!

  7. lisa says:

    my kleenex box is empty though, lol

  8. BlkButtafly says:

    Go Lisa!!!! I loved the Kleenex metaphor! That’s being positive….or @ least not you know all down and what not

  9. lisa says:

    I have the spongebob cd and dvd, lol can’t watch it cause my dvd player broke. I love spongebob.

  10. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    Need to go watch spongebob with my son!! be back on later!

  11. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    Lisa, I was just about to kick you, but then I read the rest.. I just loved the kleenex part.

  12. lisa says:

    I live 6 blocks from walmart but I would never go there at 1 am

  13. lisa says:

    I have a lot of those, they read my email but never answer back. I don’t email them anymore and get 0 messages in my box.
    Men are like kleenex, they get soggy and limp and we toss them away and another one pops up, lol

  14. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    SweetRed… Just couldn’t get that shopping done? Wait until about 1am and go to Walmart!! no crowds.

  15. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    Well, I see that the SD that I was talking to read my last email, but didn’t email me back. Must not have liked what I had to say. His loss… next!!

  16. lisa says:

    edit the party she is going to TOMORROW NIGHT not last night lol see I am getting confused

  17. lisa says:

    ok i’m getting forgetful here, I was about to go for a hot bath but just remembered I took one about an hour ago. it’s been a long day. Had to take my daughter some shoes to wear at the party she is going to last night, she has so many parties to go to and I have none. Our store isn’t doing anything for christmas for the employees.

  18. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    Thanks Lisa.. be ready if SweetRed doesn’t kick you, I will.. Keep positive!!

  19. sweetredhead269443 says:

    evening Jennifer 🙂

  20. lisa says:

    enjoy your days off. I have to work early tomorrow. I Have sunday and friday off

  21. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    Hello to everyone.. Just home from work.. I have the next 3 days off..

    Have to make cookies for Santa.

  22. lisa says:

    OUCH thanks now I have another bruise to go with the one on my side and thigh, lol

  23. lisa says:

    cant do that sweetredhead, I don’t have a table. gonna have to kick me under the sofa or under the bed, lol

  24. sweetredhead269443 says:


  25. lisa says:

    I am weary when they say they are busy as I have found my relationships have ended soon after my boyfriend was too busy, my last boyfriend dumped me because he was too busy, but I think he was just tired of me

  26. sweetredhead269443 says:

    lisa everytime you are negative i am going to kick you under the table lol

  27. bostonTerrier says:

    i agree with letting him call you – i doubt he forgot about it. if he doesn’t then clearly he is in the wrong.

  28. sweetredhead269443 says:

    hi lisa. have I taught you nothing yet…its not he might want to back out…its he is busy and will call as soon as he is able….darn girl THINK POSITIVE!!!

  29. lisa says:

    I would wait to see if he calls , don’t call him as he might not know how to back out and might end up telling you he will be there when he won’t

    Good evening sweetredhead

  30. sweetredhead269443 says:

    let him call you. and when he does say Oh hi all cool and chit lmao

  31. sweetredhead269443 says:

    Back from shopping how is everyone tonight. ( sigh… shopping done finally)

  32. BlkButtafly says:

    Should I call him or just leave it alone?

  33. BlkButtafly says:

    I agree, Boston

  34. lisa says:

    edit stood up by ONE guy but twice does that count as twice or once since it’s the same guy

  35. lisa says:

    I have only been stood up once, of course I have had only 5 meetings, 4 showed up, one guy stood me up twice and swore that he was there at the second meeting and seen me but still he didin’t come up to me and described my outfit completely wrong

  36. bostonTerrier says:

    aw 🙁

    that sucks on so many levels. hopefully it won’t happen tomorrow and if it does, he isn’t worth your time anyway and it would be his loss, not yours.

  37. BlkButtafly says:

    let’s hope so. I’m so use to being stood up, it’s a shame 🙁

  38. bostonTerrier says:

    maybe he’ll contact you first thing tomorrow?

    i’ve had meetings with potential SDs who wouldn’t contact me for a few days until the day of a meeting or the day before.

    my SD didn’t send the “we’re meeting today” text until the day of our first meeting because he was pretty busy

  39. BlkButtafly says:

    I think I’m being stood up this weekend. A potential SD was supposed to be flying in town to spend the weekend but I haven’t heard from him all day 🙁

  40. BlkButtafly says:

    hey every1! What did I miss? Lol

  41. NC Gentleman says:

    OK just for clarification, SE and I were not exchanging notes on the side. I don’t even have his email address nor does he have mine.

    I was working out, and I am just checking in for a bit from my blackberry. I hope everyone has a great night/weekend!

  42. SuthrnExec says:

    we’re talking on the side – exchanging notes… hang on – he said he will get back to y’all in a few

  43. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    Where did NC run off to?

  44. SweetEuropean says:

    Wow, you were lucky! lol. I was in the north, in Manchester, so we always had worse weather than London, constant rain! Nice is a nice change!

  45. lisa says:

    there is a party store down the street from where I live and they have these skinny manniquins dressed up like santa clause, sickly, thin looking santa clauses, it just looks weird

  46. lisa says:

    I have been to England 4 times including in the winter and have never seen snow there. The first time I went (back in 85) it was january and when I flew out of Houston (dad drove me into houston from the valley and I spent the night with relatives) and it was 32 degrees, when I got to London it was in the 40’s and sunny. the last couple times I have been to London in 2000 and 2003 there was not one drop of rain in the two weeks I was there, umbrella never left the luggage.
    we had a light snow here last week but it mostly mild except for all these artic fronts we keep getting, including this coming weekend. one day shorts, the next day heavy winter coat

  47. SweetEuropean says:

    Ooops I meant * trees not tree’s!

  48. SweetEuropean says:

    It’s odd, it doesn’t feel like winter at all! I’m originally from England so i’m used to snow and cold weather but here it’s still hot and theres palm tree’s with christmas lights lining the beach lol

  49. lisa says:

    I was in Nice in 92. It was really nice and I was able to leave the winter coat back at the hotel when we went out.

  50. SweetEuropean says:

    Aaah Lisa you like Nice! I’m living there at the moment, it’s beautiful in winter with all the decorations! 🙂

  51. lisa says:

    all my evenings are quiet evenings, can’t get out alone after dark

  52. lisa says:

    I agree you need more time in each city. I have been to London 4 times, and Paris twice along with a tour of Europe where you see alot of cities in a short time. I have spent been able to spend a week or more in London 3 times and spent 3 days in Paris so those are the cities i am most familiar with. I can get around great in London and tourist even stopped and asked me for directions and I could actually give them directions. lol I loved riding the tube and just going about on a routine of buying groceries each evening and shopping and sitting in the parks, and of course taking the corny jack the ripper tours, I love anything about jack the ripper

  53. KITTYLAINY says:

    A quiet evening never hurt anyone
    Have a good time

  54. lisa says:

    I’m going down to the hospital in a couple hours to meet my daughter when she gets off work, she is on christmas vacation from school starting today. I will take her her beauty items I picked up for her today and ride half way home with her, then it’s back home for me for the rest of the evening. gotta work at 8 tomorrow.

  55. KITTYLAINY says:

    I went on a mediterrean cruise several years back, i got to see all of Europe in 2 weeks, but a day in each city is just not enough.

  56. KITTYLAINY says:

    iT’S FRIDAY! 🙂 I want to go for a nice dinner and dancing tonight! :p

  57. lisa says:

    I would love to go to Europe againg but would feel guilty if I ever did get the chance with a sd because my mom loves it so much, I couldnt’ enjoy myself if she couldnt’ go. I love London, Paris, Nice, Lucerne, and Venice. Amsterdam and Brussells (went back in 92) were fun too. I used to get a nice tax refund every year and would save it for 3 years and the family would take a nice 2 week vacation.

  58. KITTYLAINY says:


  59. KITTYLAINY says:


  60. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    Geez. I think I have a new SD crush =x

  61. CutipiNYC says:

    good afternoon everyone

  62. lisa says:

    thanks KITTYLAINY
    I loved Chicago when I lived there as a child but I have lived in Houston for 22 years, it’s dirty, crime infested and very unpedestrian friendly (I don’t have a car and do alot of walking, half the time on the road due to torn up sidewalks. I like the walkability of the other more pedestrian cities, especially Europe.

  63. NC Gentleman says:

    Welcome back Euro!

    I am about ready to head to the gym! Everyone have a great weekend!

    I grew up in Michigan and Wisconsin, so I am a midwest person also 🙂

    Remember to look both ways before you talk to strangers!

  64. SweetEuropean says:

    Aaaah i’m back, missed you all! 😉

  65. KITTYLAINY says:

    I always thought Chicago was a gorgeous city

  66. KITTYLAINY says:


  67. lisa says:

    I was born in a small midwestern town, spent my early years in a suburb of Chicago, then Chicago, then in a rural area of the rio grade valley, back in the city for the past 22 years. I LOVE city life but hate the city I live in.

  68. sweetredhead269443 says:

    I am a country girl at heart. city crowds make me nuts

  69. lisa says:

    I don’t the like the crowds in the stores but than God I don’t work in a department store at the mall anymore, that was horrible. I would be willing to brave the crowds if I could go shopping.

  70. lisa says:

    261545 I have horrible pics though, gotta change them when I upgrade

  71. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    I have a human heart on my back w/ chains and a lock on it…w/ wings coming out from behind of it, it’s in black & grey

    And 3 nautical stars w/ barb wire intertwining them down my left arm…

  72. SuthrnExec says:

    the stallion needs his filly!

  73. sweetredhead269443 says:

    I went to one store and it was so crowded, I gave up and came home. Next year its online shopping for me.

  74. sweetredhead269443 says:

    SuthrnExec: Don’t pout about us just cause your white stallion doesn’t stray off your business route!

    LMAO tha’ts too funny

  75. BettieGirlDD says:

    SuthrnExec: Don’t pout about us just cause your white stallion doesn’t stray off your business route! :p hehe you know I’m playin.

    Lisa: what’s your profile #? We were all sharing yesterday.

  76. KITTYLAINY says:

    Lisa- i WISH i WAS SWEATING,,, it’s freezing here in Toronto 🙁 Snow stormy actually

  77. BettieGirlDD says:

    Afternoon, everyone. I have a paid snow day from work! Woohoo!

    Mish- what’re your tattoos of that are “too dark”? My SD from Tuesday said “wow thats kind of scary” about mine LOL.

  78. lisa says:

    Hi everyone, i’m back. I was actually sweating walking back from the store, but will be freezing when that nasty cold front comes in this weekend. I would like to return it, lol
    Had some nice caramel butterscotch coffee at the market (they have free coffee and food samples everyday, if I lived closer i’d go everyday.
    Planning to upgrade and redo my profile at the beginning of January, should be able to afford it then and give it a month, I am doubtful though.

  79. KITTYLAINY says:

    Thank you Mish!
    You as well!!!

    Long-timers: How many SDs have you had?

  80. KITTYLAINY says:

    awww… Why wouldn’t we? You all seem awefully friendly. I am at a lost about the blog mostly. Not used to the RSS platform I guess. So how do I find your profile to look at exec?

  81. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    Welcome 🙂

    live long and prosper.

  82. SuthrnExec says:

    kitty, we’re mostly a bunch of old farts (the SDs anyway) that are legit – pursuing some hot SBs that won’t have anything to do with us!

  83. KITTYLAINY says:

    Thank you Exc, NC, RedHead, boston n buttafly
    I’m a baby sugar baby 🙂
    It’s snow storming here.. 🙁 I wish I was in LA

  84. SuthrnExec says:

    Good to meet you Kitty – welcome aboard!

  85. bostonTerrier says:

    kitty –

    I don’t think reading all the past blogs are *that* much help … but it kind of gives you many different perspectives with regards to this sort of relationship. good luck in your search!

  86. sweetredhead269443 says:

    Ok time for me to go shopping think I have put it off long enough.

    A SB that hates to shop? I truly am one of a kind lol

  87. BlkButtafly says:

    Welcome Kitty! Thanx, NC! Mwah!

  88. sweetredhead269443 says:

    Hi Kitty. WELCOME!

    feel free to ask questions. There are a lot of great people here.

  89. NC Gentleman says:

    Hi Kitty — welcome to the blog — reading the old blogs is a good start.

  90. KITTYLAINY says:

    How is everyone doing this afternoon?
    I just joined this morning, and I’m at a lost..

  91. sweetredhead269443 says:

    isn’t that what a sb job is 🙂 make Daddy’s day special 🙂

  92. NC Gentleman says:

    OK — all of you ladies made my day 🙂 Thanks!

  93. OCSugarBaby says:

    NC- Thank you Daddy! 😉

  94. sweetredhead269443 says:

    Nc don’t get any idea mr!! lmao

  95. sweetredhead269443 says:

    18 will be 19 soon

  96. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    How old is your daughter?

  97. sweetredhead269443 says:

    lmao you sound like my daughter she is a lot like you. Just glad she doesn’t know about SD’s (no offense meant)

  98. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    Okay so, this SD told me my Tattoo’s were too dark, and that they scared him =x

    OoOoOooo That’s not good.

  99. NC Gentleman says:

    haven’t heard freak flag in a while — too funny!

  100. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    *covers mouth*


    *lowers my freak flag, and backs up out the room*


  101. sweetredhead269443 says:

    thank you for the pic NC, very nice 🙂

  102. MishBocaRatonGrl says:



  103. NC Gentleman says:

    I would definitely gently spank Mish, given the opportunity 😉

  104. sweetredhead269443 says:

    my friend is here and she says (the smart arse) ITS MORE LIKE I WILL CORRUPT YOU. oops caps. I am innocent I tell ya

  105. MishBocaRatonGrl says:


    I hope you wouldn’t….

  106. sweetredhead269443 says:

    sorry but I am NOT spanking you lmao

  107. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    Uh oh… I guess I need to be spanked then


  108. NC Gentleman says:

    Yeah — I am just looking out for you Sweet — you know that Mish sounds like trouble lol 😉

  109. MishBocaRatonGrl says:


    I am a trouble maker…

  110. sweetredhead269443 says:

    ut oh I am thinking what kind of trouble is she going to get me into lol

  111. NC Gentleman says:

    I would never do that for you. That would be against the rules you know!

  112. sweetredhead269443 says:

    he has my email already, NC you can send it to mich 🙂 If you would please

  113. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    You could message NC, your email or something, and have him send it to me…

    NC darling *bats eyelashes* do you mind?

  114. sweetredhead269443 says:

    MishBocaRatonGrl we will have to get together and get some coffee 🙂

  115. Gail says:

    Oooh…Laaa…La!!! that’s NC Gentleman:)
    Muuuuaahhhh, Muuuaahhh!!!

    Kisses for you Suthrn Exec!!! Muuuaahh!!! Muuuaahh!!! Keep wishing…so Santa will hear your desires..(smile)

  116. sweetredhead269443 says:

    aww ty 🙂

  117. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    *sips coffee*

    Sweet, I’m coming up to Tampa next week 🙂

  118. NC Gentleman says:

    You have mail SweetRed 🙂

  119. sweetredhead269443 says:

    I really need to get a camera those pictures I have are from a web cam and they look horrible

  120. sweetredhead269443 says:

    I can’t find him, so just tell me what he looks like 🙂

  121. sweetredhead269443 says:

    NC Gentleman I have gotten the same thing. I am 40 but everyone thinks I am in my early 30’s. When I was 30 I got Id’ed to buy wine all the time.

  122. Gail says:

    Imagine the possibilities…making our debut in a movie with NC Gentleman…RealSugar on seeking arrangements:) smile…

    Thank you NC for giving me a peek…you have always been a mystery to me.

  123. SweetEuropean says:

    I’m going out for a few hours, hope everyone has a great day 🙂

  124. NC Gentleman says:

    Thank you OCS — I get told I look younger than my age, and that I look better in person…. or one I don’t know quite how to take …. that I look good for my age lol

  125. sweetredhead269443 says:

    I’ll just ask Santa for a SD to come to me. I am not looking anymore 🙂

  126. OCSugarBaby says:

    Gail- You crack me up! I look like Laurie from OC housewifes?? LMAO
    Thank you for the compliment!

    Ladies, we have a hottie in the Sugar House! NC your picture is very handsome. You look MUCH younger than your posted age… ooooh weee

  127. Gail says:

    Going to start my morning….leaving for now:) Have a great day everyone!!!

  128. sweetredhead269443 says:

    NC put the number in where and refresh?

  129. Gail says:

    Keep wishing and maybe Mrs. Claus will deliver it to you…but remember you have to be nice…naughty later…LOL…

  130. NC Gentleman says:

    doh! you’ve got mail

  131. Gail166538 says:

    LOL….I added it up there just for you:)

  132. SuthrnExec says:

    Gail, I want that “a long passionate note” — seems to be the best I can get from you SBs… 😉

  133. NC Gentleman says:

    What is your profile number Gail — or view my profile and send me a note.

  134. Gail166538 says:

    I want a message too:) NC!!!!

  135. SuthrnExec says:

    you’re right – that will work – didn’t think about that.

  136. NC Gentleman says:

    SE — to a search by profile number, view someones profile of the same sex as the person of interest, then put the number in at the end, and refresh. Can’t do a search but you can find them that way if you have their number.

    Happy searching!

  137. Gail says:

    OC is easy to find…she has this beautiful smile in her pic…she looks better than Laurie on the Real Housewives of Orange County…and no…I do not like girls…LOL…

  138. NC Gentleman says:

    Ok — two of you have mail!

  139. SuthrnExec says:

    But you cannot search by Profile number. It helps to at least know the state someone resides in or when they became a member. Profile numbers typically are in ascending order by the date you became a member.

  140. Pantherbot says:

    OCS –

    Everyone is happy because we’re taking vacation all next week!! So work is very laxed today, even though i have to tie up lose ends in the office tomorrow it’s on my schedule.

  141. NC Gentleman says:

    OCS – click on the the profile tab on top and then “view my profile” your number is 276895.

  142. Gail says:

    LOL….I’m making cookies for you today SuthrnExec….I wrote to you the other nite…a long passionate note….then poof….that’s why I love the blog….anyways cookies for everyone today!!!

  143. OCSugarBaby says:

    How do you search my number?

  144. OCSugarBaby says:

    It is a SUGAR filled day, boy everyone here at work is on a sugar high. Myself included! Cookies, candy and wonderful homebaked things… I will be hyper all day! Plus it is har to get work done when you would rather be blogging! 😉 I missed all of you! Kisses to all

  145. NC Gentleman says:

    Hi All — I just upgraded to premium. If you send me your email address, I will send you a picture… 252554 is a big hint…. I send a few of you emails that viewed me. Take care!

  146. SuthrnExec says:

    Gail didn’t speak to me. 🙁

  147. SweetEuropean says:

    It is a nice day! 🙂 It’s sunny and hot here today, hard to believe it’s winter lol. I do wish I could have a white christmas though! Mmm i’m going for a meal tonight with a friend, i’m looking forward to it I haven’t eaten a proper meal in a long time! (I’m a useless cook!!) What are everyones plans for the day?

  148. Gail says:

    OCSugarbaby…Is it a wonderful day? Tried to respond to your post last nite…poof…and tried to respond again this morning…poof…we are doing it again…just love this blog…love it…love it….:)

  149. lisa says:

    Good morning everyone. slept till 9 today, getting ready to go to the market for some food and junk. It’ s a nice day here and the fog is finally gone.
    Have a great day, be back this afternoon.

  150. OCSugarBaby says:

    Good Morning to You All! It is a wonderful day isn’t it!? 😉

  151. Gail says:

    Good moring Everyone…goofing off? NO…doing well? YES

    Dreamer…you must have gone over your ten word limitation for the day…LOL…Good Morning Sunshine!!

    Annon….Christmas cookies for today instead of shopping…making Rosettes with lots of powdered sugar:)

    SweetEuropean…all is well here…simply cold…and plenty of snow in the mountains. Hope all is well with you.

    Mikababy(alias Darn)Welcome back! Get ready for you Xmas SD with you new profile:)

  152. BlkButtafly says:

    Hello everyone! I’m dying to hear about your date also, Mish

  153. sweetredhead says:

    oops Anonymous was me. good morning 🙂

  154. NC Gentleman says:

    Good morning all…. working and goofing off today…. Hope everyone is doing well.

  155. dreamer says:

    oh no. Whered my post go? it took forever to write 🙁

  156. Anonymous says:

    Morning all. Save me from Christmas shopping today ughhhhh. I don’t wanna go!!

  157. SweetEuropean says:

    Hey, how is everyone today?


  158. SuthrnExec says:

    Mish, it must not know that a goddess is trying to post!

  159. Pantherbot says:

    Good morning all. 1 day closer to vacation time

  160. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    I was trying to inform anyone but it won’t let me post.

  161. SouthernGent2 says:

    Mish – I had the same problem and same message yesterday when I was telling you how you had broken my heart by going for SoExec over me.

    How are you today anyway? How was the date last night with Mr Armani smelling flat bellied stud man?

    Someone is correct above. Maybe we do live vicariously through you.

  162. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    Okay, I swear I’ve copied and pasted and stuff, and it’s telling me “you already said that”


  163. SuthrnExec says:

    Mikababy, I read your profile and it is a bit sassy. I like your picture too – seems to say that your are playful and like to have fun. Good luck!

  164. Mikababy. says:

    Hey guys this is darn!
    Just changed my name.

    But anyway I re did my profile. I have a cute picture of me in bright opaque blue tights laughing at the camera.

    I also shortened my profile’s wording.
    I had a really long profile entailing all my wants and dislikes and thoughts.
    But truth is not every one wants to read something that long.

    LOL so it sounds a little cutthroat a bit.
    I did state to the gents
    To be prepared to have brains.
    And I stated that if I was interested they would get my pictures.
    To weed out pic collectors.

    I also stated that I would like to have a monthly allowance and I would to pampered and spoiled rotten.

    I don’t like to think of myself as hot I prefer cutie.
    After all I am fresh and young
    (18 baby!!!!!!)

    Any thoughts you know I love you guys. It’s been awhile since I’ve Been on I’ve especially missed you lisa.

    Hopefully this renovation will draw some great potential SD’s the fact is I was straight & 2 the point

  165. wildwon says:

    Okay, I’m curious Mish, how did it go? Let me live vicariously through you, I have been working on a presentation for a job interview for 6 1/2 hours straight! I need to know someone was having at least a LITTLE fun???

  166. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    yeah I just got back from watching the game too, … I took the guy I met somewhere less uppity

  167. BlkButtafly says:

    I just got back from watchin football….the jags suck!

  168. sweetredhead269443 says:

    Wow now that’s scary

  169. lisa says:

    Good night sweetredhead I know you need to recover from shopping, have a good night. I might stay up late cause I’m sleeping till 9 tomorrow.
    I hope I don’t have another weird dream tonight, had a weird one I can’t remember last night but ozzy osbourne was in it

  170. sweetredhead269443 says:

    think I am going to go watch some Tv and relax. night Lisa have a great day off tomorrow 🙂

  171. lisa says:

    Good night Suthrnexec, hope the team you’re for wins
    never been to NC , I have been as far as Wisconson north, Indiana East, california west, and Texas south, never been to Florida either but I have been to 14 countries back when I lived with my family and got good tax refunds. London 4 times, Paris twice, and other parts of Europe (those were the days now I haven’t been out of my city in almost 6 years. Been to mexico hundreds of times, used to live in the valley on the border

  172. sweetredhead269443 says:

    good night SuthrnExec sweet dreams

  173. SuthrnExec says:

    I think I’ll go watch the football game – have a nice night ladies. Ti sognero’ tutta la notte fino al mattino. (Translation: I will dream of you all night until morning.)

  174. sweetredhead269443 says:

    Have anyone ever been to raven Rock in NC

    Its so beautiful there. You hike through the woods. to this rock formation bridge. its breath taking.

  175. lisa says:

    Well I do have one of those cheap tool sets they sell at target with pink handles. lol I keep them hid in the back of the closet because I’m afraid someone will break in and use them on me, too many horror movies, tool box murdered

  176. SuthrnExec says:

    arrgghh arrrgghhh!

  177. sweetredhead269443 says:

    should we talk about power tools lmao

  178. lisa says:

    if something fits me on the waist, it’s too tight on my hips and if it fits my hips, too loose around the waist. I would like to get down to a 0 like my daughter but darn she has her dad’s behind, flat

  179. lisa says:

    ok then we can talk about skirts. lol or maybe shoes?? I have a closet full of cute shoes I have aquired over the years that I haven’t been able to wear as they are not comfortable for all the walking I have to do. I need a sugardaddy that can take me somewhere in his car and who will hold me up so I don’t tip over, lol

  180. sweetredhead269443 says:

    I used to wear a 7, I am shaped like Dolly parton lmao (not joking) always had trouble with pants because they were to big in the waist. but now I wear a 14 ughhhhh so its to the gym I have going!

  181. SuthrnExec says:

    OK ladies, you’re losing me on the pant discussion…

  182. lisa says:

    I like the look of the high waisted pants just like the high waisted skirts but they don’t fit me right so I end up wearing mini skirts on my hips most of the time. my hips are too wide for a little girl like me, got that from my mom. I fit into the hollister skirts in size 7 because they are cut smaller but usually I wear a 3-5, 5 in pants but they are always too long

  183. lisa says:

    well i’m going to take the bus to the store and walk home a mile. as soon as thy put the sidewalk back, I can walk both ways. it’s a nice walk because my neighborhood is weird, ghetto where I live , one block down the street nice and expensive houses so the walk home after I pass the construction mess is quite nice all shaded with houses on both sides. I like to walk but can’t as much as I used to and forget it in the hot summers. it’s great for relieving stress

  184. sweetredhead269443 says:

    they are more like a pant in jean material

  185. sweetredhead269443 says:

    you see them on the runway, its a really new style Got them on sale for $65

  186. lisa says:

    high waisted jeans? it seems like the jeans nowdays fall at the hip. lol I have one pair that barely sits on my hips and I need not bend over, if I didnt’ wear a belt I would lose them. I usually only wear dressed and skirts, I like jeans but if they fit me around the waist,they are too long. lol

  187. SuthrnExec says:

    Yes she does. R&R Lisa – you are ccertainly deserving!

  188. BlkButtafly says:

    Lisa, I’m glad you have the day off tomorrow. You work so hard!

  189. sweetredhead269443 says:

    yup and i am wiped out. the mall was soooo crowded!!I finally bought the jeans I wanted, high wasted button front and wide bottom style, merry christmas to me lol

  190. SuthrnExec says:

    Evening ladies. Been shopping have you?

  191. lisa says:

    my credit cards died two years ago and I have been getting those nice calls everyday for 2 years. I like victoria’s secret but there is a fredricks of hollywood here too and I like there stuff better. I don’t get in there very often though.

  192. sweetredhead269443 says:

    went to Victoria secrets too hehe and bought my self something sexy 🙂

  193. sweetredhead269443 says:

    Hi everyone, Back from shopping ughhhhh my CC went into cardiac arrest!!

  194. lisa says:

    I’m off tomorrow so I will go to the new grocery store near me that has alot of food sampling and free gormet coffee. I need to pick up some toiletries for my daughter and a pie for our after christmas meal. gonna sleep late too.

  195. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    Good Evening to everyone.. Been home for a bout an hour. Took me about that long to read and catch up.

    Long day at work and very busy… back again tomorrow..

  196. lisa says:

    darn I just lost my entire post. 🙁

    just got in from work.
    My best christmas was when I was a child, since then they have been so so. when i was married my husband who was a moslem, wouldn’t even come to the dinner table when my parents came over for christmas dinner.
    after my daughter was born and I was living with my parents, we had good christmas times watching my daughter open her gifts.
    working in retail makes me hate christmas because I don’t get christmas eve or christmas day off. I will be off at 4 both days and maybe get home by 5 which is too late for my family to come over on the bus since it would be dark by 5:30. I will not see them till the day after christmas.
    I look forward to seeing the holidays pass and everything get back to normal and hopefully finding a sd in the new year

  197. Gail says:

    LOL…I just love the blog:) Love it…love it…love it:)

  198. OCSugarBaby says:

    hahahahaha You are sooo funny SE!

  199. SuthrnExec says:

    When i put up my Speedo shot, I get inundated with mail!

  200. bostonTerrier says:

    yep, it definitely is … it’s the first impression and it’s best to make a great one [but not so great as to the point where the picture is so skewed that when you meet whoever in person you look completely different – that is not a good experience].

  201. SuthrnExec says:

    Boston, I agree that changes pics does get additional attention. I have made that recommendation to other SBs as well.

  202. sweetredhead269443 says:

    I am taking my walker and heading to the store to go christmas shopping. I can’t keep up with these young whipper snappers lol

  203. bostonTerrier says:

    “Is there a type of feeling you seek with a Sugar Daddy not found in past, or current relationships?” nope, not really but i always improve upon who i am in a relationships … kind of like my last sd set the bar and and sd thereafter has to jump over that bar.

    “How do you make sure that the time you spend with a Sugar Daddy will be a joyful?” i completely forget about school and anything else stressing me out in my life and i think my sd does the same. it’s kind of like our relationship provies a nice break/moment of relief from life.

    “Is your profile effective in making a potential SD relaxed and comfortable in contacting you, and does it make them look forward to having fun with you?” yep, it is. i’ve gotten a countless # of replies and of the few i get really interested in leaves me with lots of options. also, i’ve found changing pictures, as opposed to profile wording, is more effective.

  204. SuthrnExec says:

    naw dood, i ain’t going down without a fight – she’s wavering…

  205. sweetredhead269443 says:

    because you are a very handsome man, stop saying your not!

  206. SouthernGent2 says:

    SoExec and I are going to get left in dust anyway since Mish has found her a flat bellied stud man for the holidays. We should both be jealous.

  207. SuthrnExec says:

    sweetredhead, why are you hittin’ me??

  208. SuthrnExec says:

    think there were 5 or 6.

  209. Pantherbot says:


  210. sweetredhead269443 says:

    SuthrnExec i’m going to smack you.

  211. BettieGirlDD says:

    I wasn’t around the site last spring: how many people came to your cabin and what’d you guys do?

  212. SuthrnExec says:

    Thanks SGent – Brad Garrett is a marked improvement over what I usually get!

  213. sweetredhead269443 says:

    get out the boxing gloves, I see a fight brewing lmao

  214. SouthernGent2 says:

    Mish picking SoExec is like picking Brad Garrett when she could have Brad Pitt instead.

  215. BlkButtafly says:

    LOL! I am cracking up!!!

  216. sweetredhead269443 says:

    maybe its just me, but I rather go hiking, or have a picnic then go to a fancy restaurant and go shopping. Does that make me less of a girly girl?

  217. sweetredhead269443 says:

    ok did I miss something?

  218. SuthrnExec says:

    Now that’s no way to treat a lady! at least take her to a nice BBQ joint!

  219. SouthernGent2 says:

    I had MishBoca on my five star dining list for the day I meet her. But now if I fly her to ever meet me, I’m going to stick her in a middle seat on the last row of the airplane. And after I pick her up, its off to a good greasy hamburger spot that we all know and love!

  220. SweetEuropean says:

    Spa weekend sounds good!

  221. SuthrnExec says:

    Awesome sweetredhead! welcome to the PREMIUM side!

  222. sweetredhead269443 says:

    spa weekend? now you have my attention SuthrnExec 🙂 not that you didn’t before lol

  223. sweetredhead269443 says:

    I just upgraded my account weeeeeeeeeeee

  224. SuthrnExec says:

    Ladies, why don’t we have another spa weekend like we had at my mountain cabin last spring. I’ll bring in the masseuse just like last time and I will send you the “menu” out a few weeks in advance. How does that sound??

  225. BettieGirlDD says:

    Mish I was gonna suggest the same thing as SG2. Keep your cards close to your chest for a while. I also like to meet a couple of a guys friends or at least hear about them enough to get a sense if he hangs with a pack of d-bags. Well.. I did when i was single (I’m “married and looking” married to a musician. ’nuff said.)

  226. SuthrnExec says:

    SGent, I can’t either!! You must be 85 and top out at 290#

  227. SouthernGent2 says:

    Mish – go for it and keep the guy challenged and guessing. If he is as hot as you say he is, then he might be used to girls falling all over him. Play extra hard to get and see how he deals with it.

    btw, i can’t believe you are choosing SoExec over me. I’m crushed.

  228. BlkButtafly says:

    Hmmm sounds like I need to start doing my grocery shopping down there with you, Mish!

  229. wildwon says:

    There are diamonds in the rocks, girl! You’ll be on guard enough to know his intentions, it seems…just keep looking for your perfect SD and let the chips fall where they may!

    If he treats you bad send him here and Bettie and I will spank him into submission ;o)

  230. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    I’m just in shock that’s all… usually the men around here are jerk-offs they come onto you so rudely, so even if they have $$ or look good you really never want to be bothered.

  231. CutipiNYC says:

    you can have your cake and eat if to for now Mish..you arent attached to anyone so enjoy the moment!
    if you meet a nice boy and flirt with a wealthy oldergentleman..nothing wrong with any of it

  232. wildwon says:

    What am I missing here Mish? If you don’t want him, send him over here!! ;oP

  233. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    He looks wealthy, he was spritz with armani cologne and had business attire on…
    Expensive shoe’s too…cufflinks… he was dressed very nice

    I live in a very expensive neighborhood… So I run into men of wealth all the time

  234. wildwon says:

    Well why you are waiting for that perfect SD you can still have fun, no? I have been on a few dates with pot SD’s, one I really like in particular, but so far I have no idea if I’ll see him again. Of course he said he’d call when he was coming back to town, but that’s no guarantee. I’ve been on a regular date since then, with a guy from off this site, he wants nothing serious, barely divorced, but we had fun and have been texting since. I see no harm in it, personally.

  235. BettieGirlDD says:

    Well then I think you have your answer! Have fun and be safe!

  236. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    No I’m very interested.

    He’s physically , astounding!

    I’d give him a 10+ for sure.

    Broad shoulders. Perfect Smile. Facial Hair is on point. Emerald eyes. Full lips, totally kissable. Dark tan, he looks dominican actually, or like he could be mixed with black and white or some kind of spanish, I really don’t know…

    I think he’s a model, and if he’s not… I’d be shocked.

    I could just see his structure through his clothes, he’s built. an Athletic build, not too bulky…

    He’s asking all the right questions, and saying the right things.

  237. BlkButtafly says:

    I think she’s interested but she would prefer an SD or a guy that doesn’t know that he is one yet

  238. wildwon says:

    Uh-oh SExec is jealous!!

  239. SuthrnExec says:

    Why are you texting him if you’re not interested?

  240. BlkButtafly says:

    Hmmm I say go for it. But then what wildwon said about liking him too much could be a problem….or it could be a good thing!….hmmm I say go.

  241. wildwon says:

    Why not? Get out have some fun, if you are not interested in a boyfriend just tell him you’re not looking for anything serious. If he’s young, he probably isn’t either…Go for it!

    Well, that’s what I would do anyway. You aren’t in any committed relationship right? What’s the harm? Are you afraid you’ll like him too much?

  242. SweetEuropean says:

    Go for it! I’m sure you’ll have fun 🙂

  243. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    Okay so this guy from the Market just asked me to meet him for drinks tonight, at this tendy spot on the beach, so that we can get to know each other.

    I don’t know if I should or not…

  244. BlkButtafly says:

    Heck yea! I’m down…. 🙂

  245. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    Stephan I think you should let me & BlkButtafly switch emails too

    Like the boys did =x

    Be, Sugarbff’s lol

  246. BlkButtafly says:

    Wow I remember that all for one song. Throwback! Yes let’s all pray for an Sd that says, “I can love you like that!”

  247. wildwon says:

    mish –

    flirting is always fun, you just met go with it and have some fun, plus he sounds cute!

  248. BlkButtafly says:

    Ooh la la! Are you gonna keep him til you find your SD, Mish?

  249. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    It kind of does, yes. But…

    I like being spoiled with affection too! So if he’s just a boyfriend, as long as he still gives what he can and treats me like a princess. He’ll still be my prince.

    I like romantic movies, and I never will forget the way I felt when Romeo kissed Juliette.

    I know I’m a very adaptable person, I can be comfortable, and happy in many kinds of relationships.

    Though I’d love some financial relief. If, having a man who showers me with love and affection, is what I settle for… I swear I’d never be settling because I’d be happy. I know I’ll always be able to take care of myself.

    Would I prefer if a Boyfriend wined and dined me abit? Oh, of course…

    but I’ll pass if that means I’m unhappy in the other avenues of the relationship.

  250. BettieGirlDD says:

    Mish, doesn’t the idea that men (in theory) are willing to spoil us taint your perceptions of those who can’t/don’t offer?

    My favorite coworker who I just adore just told me she’s getting let go Jan 15. :'( I think they started asking too much of her because she’s not a dippy yes-woman.

    I get paid christmas eve and am going to do all my shopping then.

  251. Pantherbot says:

    Mish –

    Give it time, he may be a gentleman and able to handle you. 😉

  252. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    I did meet this charming young fella at the market this afternoon though, about 6’2, built, clean cut, hazel eyes, mixed w/ some kind of spanish…

    ughhhhh We’ve been texting for like 2 hours ! But he’s not a SD , just a boy…

  253. sweetredhead269443 says:

    I would not make a good Sb
    I tend to be a sale shopper.
    Mall of America I think would make me nuts lol

  254. SweetEuropean says:

    Mish, same here! All talk no action! I don’t like people wasting my time!

  255. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    Yet I’m SDless

    All the SD’s I come across are all talk!

  256. Pantherbot says:

    You want power shopping? I will head to the MALL of AMERICA tomorrow evening to bask in the light of over 300 stores on 4 levels of pure shopping frenzy. Might as well start shopping myself. I will probably opt for gift cards though…

  257. sweetredhead269443 says:

    Finally going Christmas shopping tomorrow think I put it off long enough lmao. Nothing like waiting to the last minute. Power shopping time lol

  258. sweetredhead269443 says:

    Pantherbot move over and share some popcorn 🙂

  259. NC Gentleman says:

    That “bromance” is looking better and better huh SG2!!??? (jokingly)

    SweetEuro — I had a 2 yr relationship with an SB — we are great friends, had some great shared experiences, and some awesome sex! In the end, the friendship was the best part. We have parted ways but we still talk occasionally.

  260. Pantherbot says:

    Got it!!! I got a bag of pop-corn. This is better then reading the paper…

  261. BettieGirlDD says:

    Panther – In summary: Mish chose SExec over SGent and wildwon and i are here to pick up the pieces but only if we call the shots 😉

  262. SouthernGent2 says:

    Mish just broke my heart.

  263. Pantherbot says:


    Ooooo i see i missed a lot there. What is the current topic?

  264. SweetEuropean says:

    I have a question!

    What, so far, has been your best SD/SB experience? And what made it so special?

  265. wildwon says:

    HAHA Bettie, exactly! They may not know they are into it until someone like you or me comes along…I only hope they are not too intimated by it afterward and get embarassed…like I can’t believe I liked that and I need to put it back in a box forever. If it feels good, do it, that’s my philosophy!

  266. BettieGirlDD says:

    wildon – yup. i think we think alike. Whether a guy realizes he’s ‘into that’ i just immediately get a sense of what he responds to most and like to push those buttons. it’s too fun! even when im feeling sweet and cuddly im nobody’s fool!

    I may have turned off some nice sincere SDs by declining to aimlessly talk shop but they’ll just have to understand.

  267. sweetredhead269443 says:

    When I first came on this site I had someone ask me if I was submissive. I replied REDHEAD hello!! I don’t think so. But honestly I am not dominate either.

  268. wildwon says:

    One guy got way too graphic with me on the phone, then the next time he called I told him it wouldn’t work for us because of that. He then asked if he could be my friend and get advice from me on how to change his approach. Now I’m giving advice to SD’s! How did that work out???

  269. OCSugarBaby says:

    Mish- Maybe let them know in your first response that the “getting to know you” banter is what you are looking for. I know that you are not too shy to say what you need. It is all about making you feel comfortable and you are looking for the chemistry to shine thru. Lol

    To me nothing is SEXIER than a man that can ask me questions like…
    “What is your favorite type of food?”
    “What is your favorite movie?”
    “What is your favorite sport?”

    Silly maybe, but oooh how sexy to see that the p-SD is (again I have stated this several times before) PRESENT in this banter not just cutting and pasting from the last SB he inquired about. Jeeze guys we can totally tell as I am sure you can if an SB does it.

    Who wouldn’t want an SD who has initiative and stands out from all the others. Make me take notice and start looking at YOU!
    Ok, I will step down off my soap-box. Nuff said. 😉

  270. wildwon says:

    Spank bank, LOVE IT! It’s so true, though, as the weeks go by that I have been on this site I get wiser and wiser to the shenanigans!

    And Bettie, I think I attract the submissive types as well and I’m happy to oblige ;o)) well…to a point I guess. no way someone with my personality could be dominated and you seem the same!

  271. BettieGirlDD says:

    wildwon you’re right on about the surprizes.. I’m going to turn the ol brain off best I can and be surprized if/when Prince Daddy swoops in. I’m going to go back to how it was my first week on SA and enjoy the search process, as a wise blogger (one guess who) recently told me. I updated my profile and am anxiously awaiting it to get approved so I can write to one who lookslike we’d have a lot in common.

    And I think SDs who want all kinds of pics are full of it.. you can tell im hot from my profile. im not here to add material to everyone’s spank bank. One SD wrote saying he wants someone to boss him around and take control, which I said Im def. qualified for (im generally assertive but can take that up a notch when a guy’s turned on by it) and i said “but im not running a free 900 number so i dont want to discuss how i’ll boss you around at length til I know you’re serious.” No response! Surprize!

    Sharing these wacky stories is much more fun than discussign the theory of sugar dating!

  272. sweetredhead269443 says:

    o0o present from my cell phone company 2 free ring tones for Christmas. LMAO it doesn’t take much to please me 🙂

  273. sweetredhead269443 says:

    Very true OC 🙂 good advice!

  274. OCSugarBaby says:

    Why do you girls engage in banter with “time wasters”, you should not even waste your time! Go with your GUT and stop there.

  275. wildwon says:

    That’s funny MishBocaRatonGrl. I don’t think you’re wrong, I had a guy ask me to send a full body shot on the second email. I decided to just ignore it and not respond and now he is emailing me again asking if we can talk. ;o)) I just think it sounds too much like shopping when they ask for a full figure photo, I don’t ask for a bank statement sheesh!! I have a cute figure but if playing with a body is more important than a connection, then look elsewhere. I’m not looking for a boyfriend but I’m also not looking to be boiled down to body parts.

    As for reading into things, totally doing that right now! But not knowing is kind of exciting too. Like will I get a surprise in 2 weeks and get a call that he’s coming to town? Nevermind, knowing might be more exciting, then I could engage my mind in fun things to do next time ;o)

  276. sweetredhead269443 says:

    I am not getting any messages, but after I hear what you girls are getting I am not so disappointed lol

  277. BettieGirlDD says:

    ..oh and he started off by writing me with the subject line “Id love to be your sugar daddy”


  278. sweetredhead269443 says:

    I think you get treated the way you treat others. I always have believed that. what comes around goes around. If someone treats be badly I don’t do anything, I always think you will get it back somehow.

  279. SuthrnExec says:

    DAYUM! Don’t mess with the girls today!

  280. MishBocaRatonGrl says:


    I’ll just wait until Sexec , realizes he is my dream SD 🙂

  281. BettieGirlDD says:

    When trying to click with someone is like pulling teeth I just move on. One guy said he liked to read and when i asked what he liked to read he was like “who cares lets just have fun lol” and I finally said im not looking to go bang some stranger in a hotel room sight unseen, id like a friend/lover to give me X ammt of gifts and support and he said “thats a lot more than i was thinking of spending on you. what do you think some guys gonna give you money and lavish you with attention? cause thats never gonna happen honey.” and I wrote back “it will happen and you need to admit to yourself youre looking for a h ooker” and blocked him.

  282. SweetEuropean says:

    Wow Mish he sounds terrible! Lucky escape you had there!

  283. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    I just really hate when a guy comes off like that…makes me wanna punch him

  284. SuthrnExec says:

    Mish, block him. That’ll show him!

  285. sweetredhead269443 says:

    Then you found out before wasting your time that he is a jerk 🙂

  286. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    Okay, Someone tell me if I’m wrong here please.

    So I emailed a guy on here, short and sweet… Asking him to check out my profile, and write back, and how his day was…

    so he responds with “If you’re willing to drive to miami (an hour away) and have dinner with me we can talk then & there.”

    I mailed him back saying, i’d rather exchange photo’s and get to know him (he had no photos on his profile)

    and he writes back

    “Ok then, do as follows:

    Please send non-modeling full body everyday type pics to (email addy) ”

    like, extremely boss and… I don’t know too generic… very cold and stiff…

    So I write back “Actually I’ll pass, you’re making things a bit too technical for my taste, I’m not a professional. Generic/Robotic sounding write backs seem to turn me off a bit. ”

    he emails me back cursing me out telling me to join match or eharmony , and I quote

    “I guess your looking for poetry”

    And he blocks me… lol

  287. sweetredhead269443 says:

    I know exactly what you mean bettie! I try not to think about it, because I know how busy He is but…..he has time to come on here and read mail but not message me back? makes you wonder. There could always be something innocent and reading into it can be a dangerous thing. But you still wonder.

  288. BettieGirlDD says:

    I know my family just wants have quality time with me but I felt there was a “nobody make her feel bad about being so down-and-out” kind of mood looming. Or maybe Im reading too much into things. I tend to look for meaning in everything – including the SD I met tuesday not responding to my “had a good time, thank you” email that he read!

  289. sweetredhead269443 says:

    wildwon I am not sure…Some things I am concerned about. But I will keep those to myself right now.

  290. sweetredhead269443 says:

    I have been really lucky to have wonderful Christmas. When I married a military man, I was away from family for christmas. But I had a military family to share it with. Everyone was away from their families too, so we made it special anyway.

    I myself use my family traditions with my kids and added my own.

    My parents didn’t always have the money to buy expensive presents but Christmas was always a special time. I can’t say that I ever had a bad Christmas.

  291. dreamer says:

    exec, i love jimmy buffet…

  292. wildwon says:

    Didn’t you just find one sweetredhead? Is it not working out?

  293. sweetredhead269443 says:

    sweetredhead sings….All I want for Christmas is a new SD 🙂

  294. wildwon says:

    I know how that feels OCSugar, I left my family about a year ago to move to another state and this will be my first Christmas without them…It’s like I’m not even excited for Christmas for the first time in my life! But I am looking forward to a new year! I’m ready for this one to be over and start fresh in 09!

    Interesting, I was just looking through my messages and discovered that the last pot SD I met with deleted his profile. I wonder if that means he’s found what he is looking for or decided that this wasn’t for him? I hope it’s the former!

    Ugh, have to study for an intense job interview tomorrow, but procrastinating by reading the blog!!

  295. sweetredhead269443 says:

    SuthrnExec EXACTLY! I could not tell you what I received for Christmas. But I could tell you stories that would make you smile when you remember. Like the time we were driving to Vermont to my grandmothers house.

    It was Christmas eve and late and snowing. We seen a red light in the sky. my dad says he thinks its Rudolf and santa was already here (we were almost to my grandparents house. Dad said you guys better hop into bed right away when we get there. My sister and I were so excited. We really thought it was Santa!

  296. SweetEuropean says:

    We should have a christmas blog party OC!

  297. sweetredhead269443 says:

    morning everyone, well afternoon now. Wow I went and laid down after I said good morning before and fell asleep again.

  298. OCSugarBaby says:

    I am trying to draw on my memories this year. Since moving to California I do not have family out here. I do have to say that my friends are the best, they never let me feel like I am alone. Trust me there are moments that that big ‘ol pity party comes knocking at the door. I just don’t answer it. I have a feeling that Christmas on the BLOG will be a hoot! 😉

  299. SuthrnExec says:

    Bettie, et al., I think we have all been there at one time or another. But think about this – since you have been an adult, think about all the wonderful Christmases you have experienced. More than likely, you can’t remember what was given to you (unless it was a car or house or something) but it is the great times that you’ve had that you remember. Those are the memories that last for me – so make some of those kinds of memories this year. They won’t remember if Bettie got them anything or not, but they remember the fun they had with Bettie staying up late, playing games, drinking cider, etc.

  300. Pantherbot says:

    Bettie –

    Ahh i see. Hmmm.. I was thinking along the lines of ” Panther I’m trapped somewhere, my car died, i need roadside assitance, I need to fly to X cause something happened to mom/dad, my wallet was stolen while at dinner and they need payment!”

    Those type of life threatenting , well being type of issues. ” I broke my heal” does not quite make the list. Hehehe

  301. wildwon says:

    I know what you mean Bettie, I have always been very generous at Christmas because I love to see people happy! But this is my first year without a job and it’s depressing. I did meet one SD that was very generous and gave me a cash gift so that I could have a nice Christmas, but had to use that for bills. Oh well, Christmas is about spending time with Family and not gifts so I am going to be thankful that they are all still here, gifts or no gifts!

  302. CutipiNYC says:

    Yeah Bettie I know what you mean.

    I didnt even ask my SD for a gift..i told him to write me a check so i can pay some bills..lol

  303. BettieGirlDD says:

    Panther: That makes sense.. I was more curious about if a call-me-at-home emergency in your book was like youd send her a locksmith if she locks her keys in the car or like “I broke my boot heel! get me a new pair!”

    Gals/everyone else: Right now Im wishing for a SD to take me christmas shopping: as it stands now all my relatives are getting fudge because Im pretty broke. Yes its tasty and thoughtful but in years prior I was a great gift giver and when I did cookies last year I felt like them seeing me struggle adds an aire of stress to the get-togethers.

  304. Pantherbot says:

    Hi Bettie –

    It’s not that complicated or sophisticated like something in a James Bond movie. I would simply have her contact me on a company device that only I answer. Since I am always on-call it’s not uncommon for me to get calls since my team consist of international employees. I do get tired of calls from India or Hong Kong and I can’t understand the person since i am half sleep at 3am.

  305. BettieGirlDD says:

    Hey Pantherbot: I had a question I couldnt get posted yesterday – you said you had an emergency way for your SB to contact you. What do you consider an emergency and if you dont mind my asking, what was the method?

  306. OCSugarBaby says:

    Hey does anyone else TOTALLY want those shoes! How HO HO HO are they! lol

  307. OCSugarBaby says:

    😉 Thanks Mish! I missed you too, all of you actually. I have started a 12 step program to stop my evening blog addiction. I have actually made it 1 solid night so far. But I had to stop this morning at Star Bucks and get a triple shot to combat the shakes!

  308. Pantherbot says:

    Good morning all. Took a while to work my way over.

  309. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    *Runs and jumps on OC*

    I missed you!


  310. OCSugarBaby says:

    Good Morning All!

  311. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    ugh, don’t get me hungry… I’ve been starving all morning.

  312. CutipiNYC says:

    Good morning everyone!

  313. SuthrnExec says:

    I’ve had a cheeseburger in Paradise, but that’s about it for me…

  314. BettieGirlDD says:

    You have a point but I already have mental image of you encountering us in our “natural habitats.” I like Chicago: is that an option?

  315. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    I live in Paradise. I’m not traveling to BFE.

  316. SuthrnExec says:

    OR, y’all could move to the cities where I travel…

  317. BettieGirlDD says:

    SuthrnExec: I was in a calendar in 2008! September, dressed as a pirate girl 🙂 You need to change your business zones to start dating all us bloggerbabies!

  318. BlkButtafly says:

    I think it’s so addictive being on here because most if not all of us don’t have ones close to us that we can talk to or bounce ideas off of but here we have that and more!

  319. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    SE, chk ur inbox

  320. SuthrnExec says:

    Oh really Mish? Someone just told me I act like I’m 12 – so there!

    Bettie, surely SDs will find you – I’d hang your calendar on my wall anytime!

    If I lived or traveled to the cities of most of you SBs here, I’d drive you nuts asking you out to dinner!

  321. SouthernGent2 says:

    Mysteriosa – submissive you think? Interesting. I can take on many roles and personalities at times. If we ever met, I may have to bend you over my knee and discipline you for the submissive comment 😉

  322. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    I feel old today, someone told me I looked 24


  323. SweetEuropean says:

    haha BettieGirl, that’s clever!

  324. SuthrnExec says:

    I am so young at heart, I don’t mind!

  325. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    Indeed 🙂

    You know it!

  326. BettieGirlDD says:

    I’m not getting as many write-backs as I was at first so I changed my title thingy and added a little catchphrase: “im not a pro so i expect you’re not a con” badumching.

  327. SuthrnExec says:

    Mish, I know you were directing that “Good morning boys” to me! 🙂

  328. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    I’ve already pissed some older woman off… (I’m not used to such good brakes)

    OoOOOoOoo Well, she can suck it.

  329. Gail says:

    No speeding Mish….LOL….or wreckless driving…(smile) Have a beautiful day Mish…

    Bye everyone….gotta take care of business this morning:) 6:06am CA time

  330. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    Good morning boys, and girls, ladies and gents.

    It is a good day in the neighborhood today, I got to drop off my brother in law at the airport this morning, he treated me to starbucks, and driving his lovely Benz.

    (which I will be driving until he returns, whether he likes it or not)

  331. Gail says:

    Always a mix of the unique personalities of all…and the safety of speaking behind the screen…allows you to express yourself in a way that you have never before. (smile) you can be whoever and however you want SweetEurepean.

  332. SweetEuropean says:

    Good morning SuthrnExec! 🙂

  333. SweetEuropean says:

    How does it become so addictive?! Before I discovered the blog I only used to log onto SA once a day or if I received messages, but now i’m on here all the time when i’m home!

  334. SuthrnExec says:

    Good morning all!

    My my my! Mysteriosa, you hardly even know us!

  335. SweetEuropean says:

    Deal NC! I’ll start working extra hard! lol

  336. Gail says:

    SA Blog addiction…another good topic….LOL!!!

  337. NC Gentleman says:

    Hi Gail — yeah I love shopping at home improvement stores, garden nurseries, and lingerie shops…. for everything else, I shop online. I am way addicted to lingerie (and blogging lol), and no I don’t wear lingerie but I sure do appreciate it.

    If you learn Italian, you can be my tour guide ok, SweetEuro??? lol

    I better do some work now!

  338. Gail says:

    Sugar for all!!!! Told ya so:) Watchout…you may need counseling for the additction next…hee,hee!!! Have a great day across the world many miles away…wee, wee? (my attempt at a second language) LOL….

  339. SweetEuropean says:

    Hey Gail! I am enjoying myself, becoming slightly addicted to this blog now! Yay, i’m part of the sugar family now!

  340. Gail says:

    Coffee!!!!!Need cups…trying to start my morning…(smile)

    Blkbuttafly…Funny stories…I will have to think about that one…still trying to wake up.

    NC….I take it lingerie shopping is a turn-on for you…

    Sweet Euro…there you are…I keep missing you, when your signed on…I am not. I hope you are enjoying yourself on here. You are no longer a newbie:)

    Mysteriosa-LOL…welcome…I see you have started dishing it out to the fellas…they can take it:)

  341. SweetEuropean says:

    haha NC thats hilairious! I haven’t had an SD so far so no embarrasing stories yet! You should learn Italian, i’m trying to learn it at the moment, it sounds beautiful!

  342. NC Gentleman says:

    I’ve got a funny one Buttafly…. I was lingerie shopping with my SB and we were in the dressing room and things got rather passionate and somewhat loud… when we came out a puritan looking sales woman snidely said, “I’m assuming you will be buying everything your brought in there.” So we were checking out and she was carefully lifting the pieces like they were toxic diapers, and making some more comments. I could see my passive-aggressive SB getting more and more irritated and was waiting for the ensuing train wreck… well finally my SB says out loud to me, “I will meet you outside in a few minutes I have to go to the ladies room because I’m dripping.” I about died laughing and I think the sales woman almost had a stroke… it was a very awkward and funny moment that we still laugh about 🙂

  343. NC Gentleman says:

    Good morning all! My blackberry is still on crack and it looks like they are fedexing me a new one!

    SweetEuro — I was looking at a map of Italy last night because I am going there in June — saw Nice, thought of you, and it became clear why you haven’t been to Paris — long way. I am slowly learning my European geography. Now if I could just learn a second language lol

  344. BlkButtafly says:

    good morning…. I thought of something last night, don’t ask why lol but for those who are experienced….what would you say is the most embarassing thing you’ve done around your SD/SB? It may not have mattered to them but it was embarassing to you or @ the least caused alot of laughter…..we always talk about the serious things or sexual things. I want to see what funny stories everyone has. That’ll put some jolly jolly joy joy in your day 🙂

  345. SweetEuropean says:

    Morning sweetred&Lisa!

  346. sweetredhead269443 says:

    good morning all 🙂

  347. lisa says:

    Good morning everyone. Another really foggy morning here. Headed out to work, later

  348. Mysteriosa says:

    Oh me oh my Sugar Papa’s and Sugar Mama’s!
    I have been on this site for months now: browsing the goods, tasting the rainbow.
    I have gotten a feel for the gentlemen on the site, but I am finding myself amused by the moment reading the thoughts of these two here on the blog! SExec is an undercover freak (me likes), and SGent, maybe a submissive? DON”T Answer that, fellas I’m just guessing 😉

    What could a woman like me do with men like you? do you two know each other? that could work, ya know…

  349. BlkButtafly says:

    oh ok sweeteuro. i will definitely look it up.

  350. BlkButtafly says:

    I have to admit to that in my usual relationships I’m the one that’s always thoughtfully thinking of the other. I remember just about everything they say and think of things to do for them constantly. I wasn’t doing things for them because I expected anything back but at the same time it would have been nice to feel appreciated. So when it comes to my SD, I know ahead of time I won’t have to feel like it’s one-sided all the time. That is what I most look forward to in my newfound relationship, making him happy and KNOWING he appreciates it.

  351. SweetEuropean says:

    oops *newspaper

  352. SweetEuropean says:

    British newaper called the Daily mail 🙂

  353. BlkButtafly says:

    Whoa SweetEuro. Where did you find that article?…..wait nevermind i’ll do a google search when i get to work

  354. SweetEuropean says:

    Hmmm I just stumbled across a very interesting article! It seems a british journalist has gone undercover on SA as a Sugar Mommy and she’s written up her experiences. I didn’t read too much though because the start of the article was littered with words such as “escort” and “gold digger” which I thought was an unfair judgement of people here, she clearly hasn’t been reading the blogs!

  355. Mina says:

    “I just joined the site like a day ago. I haven’t had an SD yet”

    lol, give it at least a couple days. 😉

  356. Gail says:

    LOL….I am nasty nice:) but you will never know Dreamer…only my SD will get to taste my sugar….LOL again…good nite one and all:)

    SE…this is late nite Gail:) imagine the possibilites:)(wicked laugh)

  357. dreamer says:

    lol Gail. Youre so sweet all the time, so you prolly have the dirtiest side out of us all. Anyway.. Goodnight girl

  358. dreamer says:

    me too. Goodnight everyone. Have fun girls

  359. Gail says:

    Dreamer…naw…not me:) sorry about your dates…hopefully they brought you holiday gifts…NEXT….

  360. sweetredhead269443 says:

    Good night all, bed time for me.

  361. sweetredhead269443 says:

    No Sugar Daddy Jolly Jolly Joy Joy for the evening…ME either 🙁

  362. dreamer says:

    oh goodness. Getting dirty haha. I have had two dates that where completely terrible, tomorrow is my third and I thi it will be a charm! I know when I find my SD that I will do everything in my power to make sure he enjoys himself while he is with me and that he will be thinking about it until he is with me again hehe. Oh redhead.. We have so much in common- my moms first husband was Italian, and she was a little stupid blonde girl, but his family didnt let her off that easy. She had to do all the cooking. So growing up, she still cooked Italian, and it is like it is embedded in my genes now. Just come natural. Haha.

  363. Gail says:

    (Smile) I know all about those toys:) enjoy!!!

  364. sweetredhead269443 says:

    [email protected] you crack me up!

  365. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    eh, lucky for me I have a drawer of toys, and not the kind santa brings…

    I’ll keep entertained w/o a SD

  366. Gail says:

    No Sugar Daddy Jolly Jolly Joy Joy for the evening….

  367. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    If I didn’t now think that Stephan was such an oober babe, I’d be annoyed that my post was lost…

    but, i can’t be.

  368. Gail says:

    Mish…mine are gone too….oh well….funny the short ones always appear…

  369. Gail says:

    Tried to post again….poof again…SE…you will never know…LOL:)

  370. babytonnie says:

    oh I’m on a sugar high so I dnt see that my name needed to be on the comment….I think I’ll go get some black tea.

  371. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    ok so all my posts are disapearing 🙁

  372. Anonymous says:

    I’m so new at this (hey guys), I just joined the site like a day ago. I haven’t had an SD yet but I do know what I’m looking for, a mature relationship with no emotional set backs. As for having a joyful time that’s easy, I tend to transform in to a mother goose every time I care for someone this would probably mean I’ll cook and make sure he is very comfortable. I also believe in communication, if he lets me know what he likes I wile definitely go out of my way to give it to him. hhhmmm about my profile, I am a very strong willed hard headed young woman. Life has not been kind so I think that contributes to my tough and honest personality. I think my profile reflects my personality so I just sit back and hope that people will take me as I am….straightforwardness and all.

  373. SuthrnExec says:

    I will catch them in my dreams.. 🙂

  374. Gail says:

    I just posted…poof…gone…my thoughts that SE will never know…:(
    I’m done….goodnite:)

  375. SuthrnExec says:

    My attention span is a micron wide and so i missed the last part about the profile. I think my profile pretty much lays it out there as to who I am and what makes me tick and if someone contacts me, I would think it’s because they are comfortable with the picture I painted.

  376. SuthrnExec says:

    Of course you all know the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach…

    Not having a regular SB, I really can’t address the questions specifically, but I would say that any amount of time spent with a SB right now would be savoured because it would be a new relationship – so the fact that it is near Christmas would not really have a lot of bearing on it. If I were in an ongoing relationship, I would want to spend all the time I could with my SB – mostly just being together – doing nice, “holiday” things.

    {can you tell the difference between “late night” SuthrnExec and “morning” SE? LOL}

  377. Gail says:

    Mish, Thats where you share the cookie or the brownie…one bite for him…two bites for you. Especially if the brownie or cookie is chocked full of chocolates…:) And for the record it is okay to be selfish about certain things..remember we are women of the world, and we reserve the right to change our minds. (smile) He”ll understand we have majic…LOL…

  378. sweetredhead269443 says:

    isn’t that what a SD/Sb relation is based on. SD provides monetary things, gifts whatever is your case. SB provide what they need emotionally, physically, a escape from the real world. At least that is my understanding. So in other words you HAVE to be unselfish and a giving person.

  379. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    The only thing I’m selfish with is cookies, and brownies…and gummy worms…

    I might just fight someone over 1 of those things.

  380. SouthernGent2 says:

    Another one of those interesting answers MishBoca. You are so unselfish about all this, which is so refreshing.

  381. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    Hmmmm… I have had brief profiles, and profiles like mine is now, long and detailed. I’d say it filters out 80% of the things I’m not looking for, though I still get emails from random people, whom appear to have not read anything on my page.

    I’ll be keeping mine the same for awhile. I have gotten some quality responses/emails as of lately so I don’t plan on changing my details.

    Keeping it joyful,
    Anyone whom I decide to have this sort of relationship with will be someone I can have fun with. So happiness should come easy, but I’m usually always going out of my way to make sure everyones having a good time.

  382. sweetredhead269443 says:

    goodnight Lisa, wake up happy 🙂

  383. lisa says:

    Have a great night everyone. I have to get up early tomorrow to work. I’m gonna climb under the covers and watch some tv for a couple hours, it’s been a busy day.

  384. lisa says:

    that’s the best part of nsa, you can enjoy each other’s company without worrying about whether he puts the cap back on the toothpaste or owes the irs. My lover works as a consultant and trainer and his work varies and he has had a little time without work (of course he has good luck and seems to bounce back even better, one minute he is a couple payments behind on his house, a month later he is buying a new car cash, buying new kitchen appliances and sending his daughter to college in Europe.
    Our relationship has been consisitant through the years and we have never raised our voices at each other or got anywhere close to a conflict.

  385. sweetredhead269443 says:

    I like this type of relationship because its new and exciting. Yes on my first meeting I was extremely nervous, but the excitement was a great feeling. We can talk freely, and its not strained. There is no daily life that gets in the way. Its all about being together and away from the stress of work and home (if that’s the case) Its about enjoying each others company. I can’t tell you if it will last, as it is a new relationship, can’t tell you if it will work out past the first meeting. We both had a wonderful time. But everything is new and we do live a ways apart and his schedule is crazy.

  386. lisa says:

    well at the hospital that I had my baby (one of two county hospitals) there were 5 nurseries with about 20 babies in each, and that was only the babies that required special care, the healthy babies like mine,were brought to the mother’s bedside 12 hours after being born. I was awaken from a restful sleep (after being in labor for 2 days (false labor they call it, yeah right) at 3 am when my baby was brought in. I didn’t get to rest in the 48 hours I was in the hospital as I had to be up all night messing with formula and diapers.

  387. lisa says:

    my ancestors were German and Dutch. I am disiplined , punctual (only been late for work a few times in my entire life, haven’t missed a scheduled day of work in over 10 years (perfect attendance on my last 3 jobs) and have a temper. I can ‘add water” and microwave, well I do end up with rubber food some time, lol
    My daughter loves to cook. She watches all those cooking shows and stuff. My ex liked to cook, he cooked mostly middle eastern foods. My favorite were samosas (floury things with groundbeef and spices inside)

  388. sweetredhead269443 says:

    my gowd how many babies can a man deliver in one night sheeh. only get a few minutes to talk and he is off again.

  389. sweetredhead269443 says:

    I come from an Italian family, I can cook. I think its inbreed lol

  390. lisa says:

    If I ever baked for a sd, he would become a saltdaddy, lol
    I am useless in the kitchen.

  391. sweetredhead269443 says:

    Sounds like a wonderful relationship. We would all be lucky to have one like it 🙂

  392. Mina says:

    I do what I can to keep the relationship fresh, fun, and interesting. Things like roleplaying and lingerie (for me, I mean) different spa treatments, new book & movie recommendations for when he’s on the road, and trying new restaurants & cuisines. I also bake from time to time and surprise him with baklava, maamoul, chinese almond cookies and other “exotic” treats.
    Our time together is pretty much always joyful because it’s a break from reality and “the real world.” He can talk to me about anything, whether its business or family life and I listen, and vice versa. He turns off his business phone and we do whatever we want, whether it’s talking (I’ve traveled quite extensively and he loves to hear about that) an afternoon rendezvous, or curling up in bed to a classic film and noshing on the sweets I baked. I dont burden him with my problems, mostly because they are as major as the B I got in a class… But he knows that if I ever had an issue, he would listen and do his best to solve it.