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Dearest Sugars,

Record a SeekingArrangengement Testemonial, and have your clip rotated with other sugar testimonies on the homepage! Give potential SD’s or SB’s a front row seat to You!

On Valentines day (Feb.14), SeekingArrangement.com will bestow the makers of the 10 most viewed clips with a special gift pack, and a signed copy of the new SD/SB Dating book!


-Clip should be short & sweet (15-30sec is good) – no longer than 1 minute.

-Clip must tell why you think “SeekingArrangement.com” is Great!

-When your finished, email Stephan (at) SeekingArrangement.com

Kudos to anyone who gives a sugarblog family shot-out!

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  1. Farrall says:

    This is an excellent article! I hope to check back for more

  2. Hillen says:

    Nice post. There’s a similar topic thats related to this in Yahoo answers or Google groups, I think. I’ll find the link and post it back here.

  3. Dunsmore says:

    I agree with you 99% but wonder if you have really looked at the whole picture. DOn’t mean to be critical just food for thought.

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  19. Osowski says:

    Anyone know if this cologne is good? JEAN PAUL GAULTIER SUMMER by Jean Paul Gaultier. Personally I am sick and tired of having this ACQUA DI GIO be the only cologne I know of as smelling good. I guess I could get a tester of the Jean Paul stuff, but impatient person like me wants a quick response lol!

  20. sweetredhead says:

    I am sorry recent comments not posts that is below it.

  21. sweetredhead says:

    HenriLouis look on the right side of the blog main screen you will see recent posts. This is where everyone is chatting :)

  22. HenriLouis says:

    Hi Atalanta,
    I just stumbled on this blog.
    So much chitchat, stopped half way.
    By the way how many different blogs are there ?
    Thanks Atalanta for redirecting me to Wikipedia.
    What a wonderful mythological tale forms the source of your name.
    Are you a linguist or an historian ?
    What a delight to meet you, beauty, brains and culture, a rare combination.
    To be honest, I could not help laughing you wished for a mythological SD with golden balls. Sorry I cannot help you out here, since I do not boast three as the hero in your myth.
    Keep up the fun !

  23. Elizabeth says:

    I still can’t figure out how to type in the number to see a profile. Don’t know what I’m doing wrong!

  24. Elizabeth says:

    Mine is 290114

  25. Gordon says:

    Elizabeth, what is your profile number?

    Mine is 284482

  26. Elizabeth says:

    Thanks for your help! Thanks Gordon… always like your comments!

  27. Gordon says:

    Hello Elizabeth, welcome to the family.

  28. sweetredhead says:

    go to your profile, choose similar profiles. Go to any sb look at the profile. in address bar you will see the number at the end. take that number out and replace with the new profile number. I will take you to the person you want to see. For SD’s do the same thing but in the SD profiles.

  29. Elizabeth says:

    I have never posted before but read the blog every once and a while! Anyways… I’m dying to put a face to some of these names that always post! haha. When someone writes their number how do you look it up? I can’t figure it out!! You all have been very helpful… still trying to find my SD though.

  30. Jai says:

    Just testing out my avatar pic :) hope everyone is having a great weekend!

  31. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    Hey Lisa, Hope you feel better tomorrow morning…

  32. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Lisa, if you can take a hot bath, grab a book and sit and relax, okay ??

  33. lisa says:

    I just have a little gash in my chin. Headache is a little better now, I layed down for an hour. Chiropractor?, not in my budget. I haven’t been to any doctor since my daughter was born 18 years ago and then I just went to the hospital the day she was born, no prenatal care at all but a healthy baby, no problems.

  34. sweetredhead says:

    Lisa you need a chiropractor, you knocked you neck out.

  35. lisa says:

    Good evening BlondieNYC
    I’ve got a really bad headache, I was so busy today I forgot to eat till this evening and that bump on the sharp edge of the dresser didn’t help either. I have a big gash on the bottom of my chin now. Think I’m going to go lay down for awhile, see if this headache goes away, i’ve already taken like 10 aspirin. lol

  36. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Lisa congrats on the digital hook up, whooo hooo!
    You don’t want him, he’s a freak!!

  37. lisa says:

    I just finished a chicken tv dinner. You can’t get anything delivered to my apartments, the pizza guys won’t even come here, lol. I live in walking distance of lots of restraraunts but i’m broke. Need a sugardaddy to help me out, I need a little frosting in my life. lol

  38. sweetredhead says:

    Yay!! Lisa you got digital!!

    I am hungry and my Chinese is not here yet :(

  39. lisa says:

    the landlord had an 18 wheeler flatbed with a red sportscar on it , 3 bulldozers out by the burnt out office, he’s riding around on one of the bulldozers . I hope he doesn’t plan on tearing down the building on his own, he is reallly weird.

  40. lisa says:

    oh and while I was at starbucks in the randalls grocery store, some guy hollered ‘starbucks is an evil empire” and some guy on the bus that must have weighed 400 lbs told me my tights were ugly. so much for that, they were bought by a sd on a shopping trip.

  41. lisa says:

    Hi everyone, I’m back. Gee I feel left out, I didnt’ get an email from the guy you’re talking about.lol
    Well my trip was a sucess. I found the cheap digital converter, and have it hooked up already, and only have one gash on my chin where I ran into the corner of the dresser when I was trying to plug it in (the tv is on my dresser and the plug in behind my dresser. so now I’m digital, ho hum.

    Gotta go back to work tomorrow, it was really nice to have 2 days off together. still no 1099 in the mail though

  42. sweetredhead says:

    Back from getting my hair cut. I do look marvelous!!! hehe. How is everyone’s day going?

  43. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    he contacted you too?

  44. BettieGirlDD*273192 says:

    ohhhhhhhh that was that guy. he has no intent of having a sb.. f that guy.

  45. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    It’s all the way up on top- but here it is again- this is in response to what I wrote after he requested More photos of me-

    “I’d love to send you another photo, but there are a lot of men on this site who ask for photos and you never hear from them again. Would you mind sending me your photo first? That way I do know that you’re not one of them.

    His reply is below

    “Try and analyze the comment you just made – You dont get what u want, so u become sour – That would also translate into how u will behave in a relationship.

    Now if have been sending your picture to 200 or even 20 people and they did not reply back to you – Then I agree that they may be jerks – But u also have to agree about the indiscretion on your part!!

    Having said that, my advice would be to use caution – As u currently are – And also a bit of discretion and common sense when sending your picture.

    If u can read how well I write – Then u must be aware that I am not someone who works at the local deli across the street.”

  46. BettieGirlDD*273192 says:

    actually i forget could you refresh me?

  47. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Looking for several women? What, he wants a harem to follow him around? LMAO. Sorry, but he’s a loser, not upfront, uses a form email and I truly doubt he is what he is, remember the email he sent me yesterday…

  48. BettieGirlDD*273192 says:

    Blondie and Euro.. i just talked to him again and aparently hes not a “faker jerk off loser” he is looking for several women, he just finds it easier to copy and paste. Whoops our bad.

  49. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    I’m going out for dinner, i’ll be back later :) x

  50. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    So, he’s basically hit on every woman on this site with the same email, and all he really wants is photos- Is this it?

    LOVED your profile.

    Would really like to acquaint with you.
    I am in process of launching a new Fashion Label and do travel to Europe a lot. Do you like travelling :)

    Email me a few pictures that are not on the site and I will return the same to you.

    My email address is xxxx
    Looking forward to getting to know you.


  51. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    That’s him! Jesus, he’s the king of form emails…too freaking funny!

  52. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    LMAO YES!!!!

  53. BettieGirlDD*273192 says:

    King of Muses!!

  54. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    SweetEuro- let me guess, he says, ” I LOVED your profile. I want to acquaint with you” am I right? Does he mention travel too? LMAO

  55. lisa says:

    I’ve got to do some things now before I go out, be back aroud 6
    Have a great afternoon

  56. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    LMAO Blondie, your strange email man from yesterday has just sent me a message!!

  57. lisa says:

    it’s 261545 I think but it’s not changed that much, just some rewording and a picture switch, but it’s the same pictures I had on before.

  58. sweetredhead says:

    Lisa what your profile # I want to see your new profile pleaseeeee

  59. Atalanta says:

    I don’t think NCGent has my email, but I think Stephan can arrange something….stephan?

    Oh, I like the part that the only guy deserving of Atalanta had to use golden apples to finally attain her. And I’m a runner, too. :-)

  60. BettieGirlDD*273192 says:

    Bree’s my favorite. Crazy, crazy Bree.

  61. sweetredhead says:

    Yes green does look great, But my mom always dressed me in green gresses lol.

  62. sweetredhead says:

    I also have alot in that new green color that was so popular last year.

  63. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    Isn’t green supposed to look good against red hair? I remember the woman from desperate housewives (Bree!) wearing an emerald green dress once and it looked fabulous!

  64. sweetredhead says:

    I have very fair skin, so black looks great on me :)

  65. lisa says:

    I have so many shoes I can’t walk in but it’s been a while since i’ve did major shopping. still waiting on that stupid 1099 form. Mail was not even delivered to my apartments yesterday, when the mailman is running behind, he skips my mailbox.

  66. sweetredhead says:

    I do have some pink (light pink) and coral and navy, gray I don’t wear. but Black I do.

  67. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Brown works great with red hair, try navy, charcoal gray, coral and pinks. Yes, redheads can wear pink and it makes the complexion glow!

  68. sweetredhead says:

    Like today I have a Brown baby doll shirt on and jeans and brown shoes. Gawd I am boring!!

  69. sweetredhead says:

    I think I may do some shoe shopping. Like I don’t already have ALOT. lmao I always seem to buy brown shoes and I have no new colored or black one :( Because I have red hair I always seem to go for the brown outfits.

  70. sweetredhead says:

    morning BlondieNYC!! I got up early this morning. Already been out to eye doctor check up. Perfect vision yay! In an hour I am going to have my hair done.

  71. lisa says:

    I wasn’t allowed to wear pants as a child so I got used to wearing dresses so I leave the open legs sitting for when i’m at home alone, lol

  72. sweetredhead says:

    I paid all my bills through the month of February already. So I have a month of freedom before they come again lol

  73. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Good gosh, we’ve got action on both blog entries!

    Good morning everyone.

  74. sweetredhead says:

    I prefer dress pants lol I am the type to sit on my leg in a restaurant hehe. I like dresses too, but I like the freedom pants gives you.

  75. lisa says:

    I haven’t even had my hair cut in 3 years
    I gotta run errands in a couple hours, probably fruitless though, can’t get my rent money order yet cause the landlord hasn’t put my bill on the door yet, never know what the water bill is going to be from month to month so I can’t get my money order while i’m out. I’m working all weekend so I won’t be able to get to the bank then.

  76. lisa says:

    I prefer to put on a nice skirt and top or a dress and stay indoors, lol
    We don’t have any water anywhere in the city of Houston, everyone is out in Galveston and all and that’s not accessible if you dont’ have a car. I’ve lived in Houton 22 years, been to Galveston only a few times.
    I like adventure but not into taking risks, can’t afford to get injured. I won’t even iceskate

  77. sweetredhead says:

    Finally got an appointment with my hairdresser yay!! going in a bit. Can’t wait :)

  78. sweetredhead says:

    I like adventure :) So I am open to most things. I like trying new things :)

  79. sweetredhead says:

    I love the outdoors, Don’t get me wrong I like being a woman. But give me a pair of jeans and boots to go hiking or boating and I am in heaven :)

  80. lisa says:

    I’m actually don’t think i’m really interested in him, just being open to meeting new people, I don’t get much response so you have to check everyone out

  81. lisa says:

    I dont think I like that, lol And being outdoors doesn’t really interest me, not much room for shopping or relaxing, Houston summers are scorches, and i’m not into being outside in the cold either

  82. sweetredhead says:

    I just talk to him, so don’t worry about stepping on my toes lisa. Go for it :)

  83. sweetredhead says:

    Long story lisa. If he is interested he will get to those with you lol

  84. sweetredhead says:

    He is a man who is very knowledgeable about technical things and ALL out doors.

  85. lisa says:

    rules? tests?

  86. lisa says:

    I can’t even understand half of what he writes, it gives me a headache, lol

  87. sweetredhead says:

    Wait till he tell you his rules, and his tests lmao

  88. sweetredhead says:

    Yes its the same one lmao. His name is not really Dan :)

  89. lisa says:

    I don’t have a camera so I have very few pictures, lost most of my good ones when my desktop crashed. I don’t think he wants pictures my daughter took of me up my nose or a closeup of me eating

  90. sweetredhead says:

    I agree with Nico. I have no problem sending more picture (tasteful and clothed) But if he asked for nudes then I move on.

  91. lisa says:

    sweetredhead, that’s the same guy, Dan
    He wrote back but I don’t know, alaska is way out there, I wish there was someone in my big city.

    Nice avatar sweetredhead

  92. sweetredhead says:

    Nico I am in the St Pete area.

  93. sweetredhead says:

    Don’t think its the same man Lisa. He has never asked me for more pictures. I still talk to him. His picture I think he is fishing by a lake.

  94. lisa says:

    Have a great day everyone. I have someone coming over and then have to run errands all afternoon. tried calling walmart about that converter box but they put me on hold and never picked it up, tried it 3 times, I just hope I don’t end up going all the way over there for nothing, but they won’t answer me on the phone. Be back before dark

  95. lisa says:

    I think there are too many guppies in my tank, or they are all floating on their sides, lol

  96. BettieGirlDD*273192 says:

    Oh well, plenty of fish!

  97. lisa says:

    I responded to his first message a few hours after he wrote but then he responded right away and we wrote back and forth. I don’t like to send additional photos because I really don’t have many that I haven’t already posted. And it would be nice if the sd had a decent pic, this guy’s pic is small and he is a little tiny creature in the distance. Can’t see his face or anything. We were having a great conversation (we have similiar political views) and then the pic thing came up.

  98. Yasmine says:

    SV you go girl, I am working more hours at my secong job too! You know we are counting on you to be the life of the party :)

  99. Yasmine says:

    Flowerpush is IN for the LV trip Yay!
    Morning everyone! :)

  100. BettieGirlDD*273192 says:

    Nico thats a good point.. i’m very on the defense for guys wasting my time that I may give a true blue sd the wrong impression when i refuse to provide any more pics.. either that im being difficult or that I”m not really me.

  101. BettieGirlDD*273192 says:

    Lisa a good test for that is to wait a while before you read the email and write back.. if a guy wants a SB he’ll still be interested when you reply 6 hours later. If he’s just looking for entertainment he’ll be moved on to something else and won’t write back.

  102. Nico says:

    Hello Lisa. My personal experience has been, because men tend to be more ‘visual creatures’ that they would like to see additional photos. Not as much because they’re photo collectors but more because they are more easily convinced that you, in alternate settings can be just as beautiful as in the pictures you’ve posted to your profile. If your conversation on e-mail and the phone is going well, I don’t see the harm in providing a few more ‘tasteful and clothed’ pictures; however, if he begins to ask for the nudies…I would move on.

    Just my 2cents.

  103. lisa says:

    Good morning everyone. Gurlnextdoor, that sounds like the laundry room at my apartments.lol actually the city code closed them all down a few months ago so I got drag my laundry 4 blocks down the street, got it done yesterday though.
    A beautiful sunny but cold morning here. Just going to stay in and go out this afternoon to try to find that stupid digital box. cooking some plain rice for breakfast, rent time so no money for food :(.
    I chatted with a sd last night from Alaska and was having a nice conversation and then he hinted for more pics (I already have 3 posted and he only has one pic and you can’t even see him,it’s dark and small and at distance) well I sent him a nice email back and said I had 3 posted already, and well, he disappeared. I wasn’t sure if he was the same on sweetredhead had been talking to since Alaska doesn’t have that man sd ads on here I don’t think

  104. Gordon says:

    Brynn wants to walk, I’ll check-in later

  105. Nico says:

    THANK YOU Sweet European :) I am always looking for a good movie!!!!

  106. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    I have a black and white picture of Audrey Hepburn in Breakfast at Tiffanys hung up on my bedroom wall in England. I’ve never seen the movie but I love Audrey Hepburn! :)

  107. Gordon says:

    In the movie George Peppard played Patricia Neal’s sugar boy.
    I would be Ms Neal’s sugar boy any time.

  108. BettieGirlDD*273192 says:

    Gordon Priceless is sort of a retelling of Tiffany’s. But French!

  109. BettieGirlDD*273192 says:

    Oooh I saw that movie in the theater. I love Audrey! It was such a sweet little flick.

  110. Gordon says:

    My vote for sb movie goes to Breakfast at Tiffanys.

  111. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    Nico – It’s a French movie called Hors de prix, the English title is Priceless. It’s with Audrey Tatou.

  112. Gordon says:

    I had to run away from a shark the other night. In Bici restaurant there is a great sb bar, but there are man-eaters and tiger sharks in there.

    You can always tell a tiger shark, they have great teeth and no souls.

  113. Nico says:

    SweetRedHead ~ where in FL are you?

  114. Nico says:

    SweetEuropean ~ What movie are you referring to?

    Gordon ~ I agree…a Floridian chapter would be fun. Anything sounds like more fun than sorting through your cardboard box *wink*

  115. Gordon says:

    I don’t know if my beach report got posted last night. Brynn is banned from the beach for a few days. Packs of sharks are migrating along the shore and Brynn likes to body surf a little too much.

  116. Gordon says:

    Yes, I am inside this morning, my accountant is making me go through that cardboard box sort it out somehow. I would rather chat with all of you.

    Also I can only blog when the blog is open.

  117. sweetredhead says:

    Do my eyes deceive me? Gordon having morning coffee with us :)

  118. Gordon says:

    Good morning everyone, I see the blog is up for a few minutes.

    Nico I enjoyed your profile, we will have to start a South Florida chapter of the blog.

  119. sweetredhead says:

    Very Nice profile Nico. Glad to see another Florida girl :)

  120. BettieGirlDD*273192 says:

    morning everyone… check out my new top picture. I like to switch it up…

    and has anyone heard from Mish?

  121. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    Good Morning to all Sugars!!!

  122. Nico says:

    THANK YOU ALL…for such a warm welcome!!! I am a SB and here’s my profile # 213385. I’ve had some, shall I say, interesting experiences on this site but, in general they’ve all been very informative. I am currently chatting (online) with a couple of gentlemen (welcomed treat) and I hope to meet them in person soon. Ideally, one gentleman can more than satisfy my needs and desires :)

  123. sweetredhead says:

    Good Morning everyone :) Your very welcome Jennifer. I just ordered 2 myself. The place I get them is a bit far, just easier to order them. They are organic and not easy to find the exact brand.

  124. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    Bonjour :) It’s a beautiful day here, i’m sitting on my balcony watching the SD/SB movie Priceless again, i’m in love with this movie!

  125. flowerpush says:

    HI Everyone!

    I had such a productive day sleeping off a stomach issue and my post got lost in moderation. :(

    Kitty, YES! Come to Detroit and we can fly out of Detroit Metro. I plan to have enough money to book my flight in the beginning of Feb.


    Atalanta, I like the new name but I don’t really get it…are you a runner? ;x Can you give me your e-mail address too? I don’t know how to do it really but I think NC Gent has something to do with it.

    Hi Nico! Welcome.

  126. Spanish Vixen says:

    Just dropping by to say good evening to whoever is on! Had a great night tonight.

    I’m getting some work done and more hours at the bar, so I may be able to afford a flight out to LV 😀

  127. bostonTerrier says:

    responding to the topic … i don’t think i could ever make a youtube video. i’d totally make a *private* one but being broadcast on the site on the 14th without anonymity is too risky. i do have my life/privacy/future career to think about.

    that aside, i do look forward to hearing what others [if anyone actually does it] have to say.

    if this was something like “write about your SA experiences” i’d do that.

  128. gurlnextdoor says:

    Hello everyone and welcome Nico to the blog!!! Just finished dinner with some friends and I’m now tired. I was supposed to do laundry tonight but apparently the laundry room is flooding with sewage. :( So no laundry for me tonight, oh well.

  129. lisa says:

    Good evening everyone

  130. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    So…what’s everyone doing for the superbowl???

  131. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Sweetredhead it tastes great, a little smokey and a little sweet. YUM!

  132. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    Hello to everyone

    SweetRed.. thanks for the info.

  133. Atalanta says:

    And I kinda want to do it just for the prize too, Bettie! haha.

  134. Atalanta says:

    haha Sam, are you condoning having fakes?

    I actually do have one, but I just never thought it would pass anywhere else besides these college towns, haha.

  135. Gordon says:

    The beaches are closed this week, packs of sharks are migrating along the coast. So poor Brynn can’t play in the surf.

  136. ~*kittylainy*` says:

    Evening all, I just finished dinner.. I ate WAY too much

  137. BeautifulBluegrass says:

    My question got lost amongst the welcomes; what is NCs profile #?

  138. sweetredhead says:

    BlondieNYC sounds good. I like sweet potatoes, especially sweet potato fries :)

  139. sweetredhead says:

    Evening Gordon :) and Everyone.

  140. Yasmine says:

    Welcome Nico :)
    Kitty you have mail :)

  141. Gordon says:

    Good evening everyone.

    Welcome to the family Nico

  142. Gail says:

    Welcome Nico:) We look forward to your post and becoming part of our Sugar Family!!!

  143. Yasmine says:

    Hey guys!!!

  144. Yasmine says:

    I’m back! crazy and stressful day this has been for me..
    BBG is in! :) Yay!!!

  145. Sam 267369 says:

    Under 21 will need some form of over 21 ID. Don’t forget this!

    NC and other SDs who want to come to Vegas, welcome! You may coordinate through Yasmine or Kitty, so make your email known to them. No, I’m not getting the SD hotel rooms. 😉 But as soon as I have necessary info Kitty or Yasmine can get you the hotel they’ll be in (it depends on the count of people) and SD can be nearby. Y&K are final arbiters of who comes or not.

  146. BettieGirlDD says:

    Welcome Nico… are you a SB? SD? post your profile number? Some of us are very busy too but once you get involved you make time to post!

  147. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Hello Nico! Welcome to the sugar family, we’re here for ya!

    Lisa, please for the last time, I didn’t write that nasty note- I copied it so that everyone could read it.
    Sweetredhead your dinner sounds amazing. Just got a great recipe for sweet potatoes, you cook them like you’d cook reg potatoes, add carmelized onions and mash together with a drop of milk and butter. Heavenly!

  148. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    Nico, welcome to the blog :) Are you an SD?

  149. BeautifulBluegrass says:

    Hi Rigazzi!!! Welcome to our family. Are you new to SA? Are you a SB or SD? Can’t wait to hear your thoughts and questions.

    kitty- what is NCs profile #?

  150. sweetredhead says:

    Welcome Nico To the Blog Family. I look forward to your posts. :)

  151. Nico says:

    Hello bloggers….I hate to call you that but cannot name each person individually. Took some time today to read through the many posts and I see your names many many times throughout a post and have realized how close you are all with each other, and the honesty and advice that flows on the page is sincere.

    I hope to post (some days are busier than others) but imagine I might have insight or receive insight through your collective experiences.

    Thank you for all that you have all shared thusfar….

    Ciao Rigazzi

  152. sweetredhead says:

    I am going to make you all jealous I am eating homemade Gumbo. Shrimp, scallops, sausage, crab meat…yummy!!!

  153. =-^..^-= Kittylainy says:

    awesome thanx BBGL….
    u can get my e-mail from NC

  154. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    I still think we need an SB party in France! And the legal drinking age here is 18 so everybody could come :) Am I convincing anybody?!

  155. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    NC Gent. Have a safe flight back. :)

  156. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Hey NC- if I give you my email, would you pass it on to the gals?

  157. gurlnextdoor says:

    Kitty I’m under 21 too…only 19

  158. lisa says:

    Hi everyone that’s me up there

  159. sweetredhead says:

    The supplement is Goji 100, best stuff. just do a search and you can read about it

  160. BeautifulBluegrass says:

    This may be a repeat post-
    Yasmine and/or kitty (haven’t had a chance to catch up) count me IN for the trip.

  161. sweetredhead says:

    That’s great BettieGirlDD. Can’t wait to see all your videos!

  162. NC Gentleman says:

    OK — I am in the Birmingham AL airport waiting to go back home… late night coming…. I am the honorary email exchanger I guess :)

    Yes SweetEuro is very mature for her age…. and SE the people who want you at the Las Vegas party are the bloggers including me :)

  163. hello it's me says:

    Hi everyone. Just got back from doing laundry. It’s a little cool out but a beautiful day. As long as the sun is shining I am ok.
    I wish there was some way to post the pic collectors, time wasters, etc on here, so no one would waste their time on these players.
    BlondieNYC you know I can’t hardly even get a legit date in my town because guys look down on us if we don’t have cars, odd I have never heard of a breakup or divorce yet that occured because the wife didn’t drive a car, lol. Everyone I ask wants to know what my future plans are, and it’s odd you know, I’m nothing but I am happy with were I am, content and have no desire to become anything else, I just want to find a real relationship and someone to grow old with but for the meantime I want to have a little indulging with a sd, I spent my teenage years preparing for the end of the world (my nutty mother) and now I’m living my teen years, lol. As long as I have a place to live and the basics and something to eat I am ok, but not happy, I need a little spoiling for that. I want to be able to go to the grocery store and buy some nice fruit, I never eat fruit, too expensive.
    I’m exhausted now, have a little over an hour till I pick up some burgers and meet my daughter when she gets off work.

  164. Spanish Vixen says:

    So a flight for me to LV would be $258 for the like 26-28. Not too bad. Give me a week or two and I’ll see if I can def afford it 😀

  165. =-^..^-= Kittylainy says:


  166. BettieGirlDD*273192 says:

    I’m going to do a sugarmony! I just really like prizes…

  167. Spanish Vixen says:

    Back for a little bit. I’m gonna look at plane tickets. I suppose I could try to get it pretty cheap :D.

    Ooooh Las Vegas…I’m excited 😀

    I haven’t been there since I was 8 years old, lol

  168. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    I’m off to ebay, going to create some auctions :)

  169. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    Thank you Kitty :) lol How old are you?

  170. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    I’m of legal age in Europe though :)

  171. =-^..^-= Kittylainy says:

    UR ONLY 18 SWEET EURO?? wow you are extremely mature for your age

  172. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    Im 18 :(

  173. sweetredhead says:

    Although standing next to a young woman in a bathing suit my prove unflattering to me lol

  174. sweetredhead says:

    That;s why having a Florida one this summer is going to be great. Some live out here. And for the ones under drinking age, we can plan activites that don’t involve clubs and bars :)

  175. OCSugarBaby says:


  176. =-^..^-= Kittylainy says:

    OC: suddenly remembered that the drinking age in US is 21.. are there any under 21 SBs here?

  177. OCSugarBaby says:

    Vegas sounds fun, but I think I am going to show my solidarity for my sugar sisters that can’t make the drinking age or afford the flights. Very generous Sam, thanks for the offer!

  178. =-^..^-= Kittylainy says:

    redhead; i know.. I harrass him too much.. always making him do things for me

  179. sweetredhead says:

    Nc is an honorary member of the Sb club lol

  180. sweetredhead says:

    He is so busy flying all over the place lol. I sure he likes you. Poor man doesn’t have time to breathe between us harassing him and his schedules.

  181. BlondieNYC*233868 says:


  182. =-^..^-= Kittylainy says:

    no he never asked for mine either…
    I contacted him first :) so dun worry

  183. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Kitty- he’s never ever asked for my email, so I just don’t know. Get the feeling he doesn’t like me.

  184. sweetredhead says:

    An all out war on creepy sd’s I think lmao

  185. sweetredhead says:

    Anyone who wants mine just ask NC :) Or OC she has it also. Kitty you have mine don’t you already?

  186. =-^..^-= Kittylainy says:

    Can I get NC to send u my e-mail blondie?

  187. sweetredhead says:

    I have made the first move with some. Others have seen me on the blog.

  188. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    he doesn’t have mine, never asked for it…feel so unloved…waah

  189. BettieGirlDD*273192 says:

    I think the blog gets shut down when we start showing too much solidarity. maybe we should tone it down..

    So girls.. who makes the first move sometimes? Or do you always let the SD move in on you?

  190. sweetredhead says:

    He passes them around like cheap wine hehe. He is such a doll!

  191. sweetredhead says:

    NC gentleman has all our emails I think lmao

  192. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    we should all exchange email addresses, so we can touch base about what goes on–just a thought

  193. sweetredhead says:

    Some of the creeps you will find on the other sites. The same ones!! They have multiple accounts all over different sites.

  194. BettieGirlDD*273192 says:

    Well I met him on modelmayhem and after crap went sour I googled his screenname from there, and found a site called the “Review and posting society” and for the same city.. he was writing about street hookers. When I called him out on it (I should have just stopped writing, I know) his rebuttal was “I’ll admit my stepson doesn’t always use the computer responsibly” yeah cause everyone in a family has to use the same screen name… mind you this was a photographer not a SD.

    Kitty send me his name again the email is totally buried! Other ladies; background checks, free for the price of one martini!

  195. =-^..^-= Kittylainy says:

    I do too.. this one is my fav. I was initially really attracted to the blog.. and the community of it.. the others seem a tad.. fake

  196. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Bettie- in this instance I really don’t care about getting the last word in; he’s a freak and it was waaay more fun to post his stupid email here for everyone to laugh at than anything else.

    I actually have three different profiles on here- and it’s interesting to see how many men write form emails.

    Kitty-been on a couple of other sites, this is actually the best.

  197. sweetredhead says:

    Some of the men I just talk to, no meeting planned ect. I like it on this site :)

  198. =-^..^-= Kittylainy says:

    just wait.. a bit :) I’m working on it… (I am so getting banned from this site lol)

  199. =-^..^-= Kittylainy says:

    Bettie: let’s do it…

  200. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Kitty where to go? Where to go?

  201. sweetredhead says:

    Trust me I was on other sites, Its WORSE!!! I have talked to some really nice men here.

  202. BettieGirlDD*273192 says:

    Blondie even if you can’t get the last word in, remember that if you’re for real and someone else is pretending to be something they’re not, you win no matter what.

    oh and kitty and I have a much more harmless buddy who has about 40 different profiles. …and no job. I vote we prank call him when we get together. “sale on fur legwarmers!!!”

  203. =-^..^-= Kittylainy says:

    I think we perhaps.. should start branching out of SA….

  204. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Bettie, OH MY GOSH, I’m so sorry. That must have been horrific! You have to wonder about people who lie like that all day long.

  205. =-^..^-= Kittylainy says:

    Bettie: there are websites that rates street hookers?
    speaking of which did u looking into my Cali boy yet?

  206. sweetredhead says:

    BlondieNYC I know you did. I didn’t misread it :) It is hard sometimes to know where people are coming from when they write. Or we look at it to quick and respond. Its all good. At least we are able to get past it :)

  207. BettieGirlDD*273192 says:

    Blondie.. that guy reminds me of a situation I had with a photographer I tested with when I was doing retro pinup.. it’s a long weird story that involves him making up a dev. disabled stepdaughter who died, and me finding his screenname on a message board that reviews street hookers. but the point is when I busted him lying he just wouldnt let it go! he was like a madman making hazy arguements… so defensive!

  208. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    I’d like to, that would be helpful to us all.

  209. =-^..^-= Kittylainy says:

    can’t we just put a profile # up with an x beside it?

  210. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Sweeteuro- that would be an excellent idea! There are waaay too many men on here that are photo collectors, pen pals or think we’re all call-girls.

  211. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    Don’t worry about it Blondie, she’ll read your posts explaining it was him when she gets back :) I wish I could see his profile! If onloy there was a way of warning people on the blog about fools like him!

  212. gurlnextdoor says:

    Hello everyone, back from classes for the day finally. I think I’m becoming addicted to Papa John’s pizza but it’s all good, I’ll dance off the weight this weekend before my meeting with a potential SD. :) Anyway, Atalanta that is so sweet of him to write you a poem…awww. I’m so happy for you. Oh and I found out where my date will be, some nice Italian restaurant in the city next to mine since we have next to nothing here in Chapel Hill, lol.

  213. =-^..^-= Kittylainy says:

    I write without thinking sometimes…

  214. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Sweetredhead I even had quotation marks around it and mentioned that this was from him…..argh

  215. =-^..^-= Kittylainy says:


  216. sweetredhead says:

    BlondieNYC, welcome to my world lol. I don’t mean to insult anyone, sometimes my posts just get misread :( Or I write them in an odd way they they can be misinterpreted. Whichever way, I get upset with myself ughhh.

  217. sweetredhead says:

    I agree Kitty, you get to know someone through talking :) You get a great connection before you even meet.

  218. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    SweetEuro, I have no desire to waste any time on him at all. I blocked him- before it went through he sent me three more emails! I deleted them without reading them, gee who wants to read the ravings of a lunatic.

    I’m just worried that Lisa didn’t realize that I posted/pasted his email here, she think I’m the one putting down people who work in the service industry.

  219. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    Well, I should go and do something productive. NOT!!!!

    Will be back soon.

    Hugs and Kisses

  220. Mina says:

    BlondieNYC – in your next email to him, simply write “pass”

  221. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    I should have said, I got my picture up. Oops!

  222. ~*kittylainy*` says:

    jEN: yay!!! I was so determined to find out how to get it work…. :) and when it worked for me, I was so happy!!! I’m glad that most people got theirs up too it seems like we have more personality now

  223. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    Blondie – You should block him and not waste any more time emailing him back, he sounds horrific!!! lol

  224. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    Kitty, I get my picture up, had to email avatar, would not get an activation email back from them in 2 days!!

  225. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Lisa- I pasted what he wrote me, he’s the one saying that he’s better than the deli counterman.

  226. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    thanks Blondie, now it I could get a SD to think so!!

  227. ~*kittylainy*` says:

    Hello Everyone…
    I’m back from lunch… had a Chicken BLT Salad with honey mustard dressing… delicious~

    Redhead: It’s kind of sweet if you two continue to talk daily (or close to) until April. Because when you meet, there’s bound to be already some chemistry.

  228. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    I an try, can’t promise anything though :(

  229. lisa says:

    BlondieNYC please don’t put down us little people who work in the service sect, if there weren’t dumb people like me, the educated would have no groceries on the shelves, no place to eat. The trash collector is as important as the lawyer. lol

    Gotta run now, be back later :)

  230. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    Blonde, would you be able to come to Florida this summer?

  231. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Jen- you look hawt!
    Bettie- anyone who claims they can’t meet for awhile, will never meet.

  232. BettieGirlDD*273192 says:

    can’t meet for a while… i think that’s #4 on the ‘top ten red flags hes a phony’ list.

  233. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Lisa, you’re hysterical! He keeps sending me emails! I love the fact that he contradicts himself in the email that I pasted here.

  234. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    Look at what I did!! My picture is up!!

  235. lisa says:

    BlondeNYC whats wrong with you? now get back on there and send him a bunch of pictures, dont’ you know you are on seekingfreephotosforpicturecollectors.com?

  236. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    Sweetred, thanks for the suggestion, awaiting for the name. I cannot type today.

    I have emailed 2 SD’s, haven’t heard back from either, also, they haven’t read the mail yet. They both say open to possibilities, we will have to wait and see.

  237. lisa says:

    jennifer, I have to work every weekend in retail. no weekends off for me either.
    Just got back from breakfast with parents. Getting ready to drag my laundry 4 blocks down the street to the laundrette. At least it’s sunny and I can take my heavy coat off.
    I got home from the store without getting ran over or bit by a dog, so that’s an accomplishment. I see those people with the two huge dogs haven’t replaced that little 3 foot fence yet though. The dogs were barking and lunging at me from across the street. one of these days they are going to jump over the fence and hurt someone.
    Gotta go wash now, be back in a couple hours.

  238. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    his reply to me was hysterical. I’m sour because I don’t get what I want! Um, I asked you to send me a photo, you emailed me back “pass” and I’m the sour one???

    “Try and analyze the comment you just made – You dont get what u want, so u become sour – That would also translate into how u will behave in a relationship.

    Now if have been sending your picture to 200 or even 20 people and they did not reply back to you – Then I agree that they may be jerks – But u also have to agree about the indiscretion on your part!!

    Having said that, my advice would be to use caution – As u currently are – And also a bit of discretion and common sense when sending your picture.

    If u can read how well I write – Then u must be aware that I am not someone who works at the local deli across the street.”

    This is too funny, he’s supposed to be highly educated and can’t spell the word you and doesn’t know contractions.

  239. sweetredhead says:

    Yeah I got one of those too. “do you have more photos” But did I get one from him…NOPE!! Not sending him anything unless I get one. Makes me think he is some fat short bald guy with pimples lmao.

  240. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    I sent him back an email that said, “oh, you’re one of those”. Now he’s emailing me back…gee. You guys have seen my profile- I have three photos- full body and head…yeesh.

  241. sweetredhead says:

    I would Pass too , on HIM!

    I will let you know :)

  242. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Sweetredhead- please let me know too, it never hurts to have it in the house :)

    Just wanted to vent right now- I sent an email to a pot sd yesterday. He emailed me back saying he “LOVED my profile” and wanted me to send him MORE photos. Well I have three on my profile. I email him back and politely ask him to send me one of his first. I very gently explain that unfortunately there are many men on this site who merely ask for photos and are never heard from again- they’re called photo collectors. I get a one word email back
    Hmm, what does that tell you?

  243. sweetredhead says:

    I am going later today to pick some up. I will let you know the exact name. Its only $35 a bottle and it lasts about a month.

  244. sweetredhead says:

    yes that is the berry. But there is many false ones. This is one that does not claim to make you lose weight. Its gojo100 or something like that.

  245. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    I always receive random emails about Acai berries!

  246. Atalanta (formerly Atlantian) says:

    Is it Acai?

    Well that’s popular, so you would probably remember the name.

  247. sweetredhead says:

    Jennifer. I can’t remember the name of the stuff I will find out and tell you later. I get it from an all natural health food store. It’s a berry sort of drink. I lost 15lbs and did NOTHING! No side effects. Its actually for your health but one of its properties is that it turns fat to muscle. Which in turn burns fat for you :)

  248. sweetredhead says:

    He can’t meet till April. He lives out of state. Already asked him about that lol

  249. Atalanta (formerly Atlantian) says:

    I’d love to come to Florida…we’ll see.

    VS has some of the cutest bathing suits this summer. I need to get my tan lines together haha.

    And congrats on the 10 lbs! That’s fabulous!!!

  250. BettieGirlDD*273192 says:

    sweetred maybe the offer means that he’s serious and will have met you by the end of feb.. but of course invite him!

  251. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    I will be back on later..

    Hugs and Kisses

  252. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    Very True!!!!! Not a pretty sight on this end!!

  253. sweetredhead says:

    Gives us both time to get into that dreaded bathing suit lmao

  254. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    Sweetred, now I just need to know where everyone wants to go. I know the beach is # 1, but what city? The flights will be cheeper for those on a budget to come into either Orlando, Ft. Lauderdale or Miami.

    First we need a city and then a month. I am thinking late June or late July.

    I need some feed back from you all!!

  255. sweetredhead says:

    Jenniferbbwsb 10lbs!!! thats GREAT!!

    Sounds like a plan. Florida party in the summer :)

  256. sweetredhead says:

    He still sends me roses every year also. He says she is part of me :)

  257. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    Hello to everyone! I had my walk today, added some distance on and I am proud to report that I am down 10 pounds!! *dancing* :)

    Atalanta, I have to work that dreaded day!! So, no time to think about it. Never had a valentine, so I am not missing much!

    On the get together in Florida, I was thinking about sometime this summer. That way everyone who is in school will be out and those who are not in school can have time to save up the money to come and play in the sand.

  258. Atalanta (formerly Atlantian) says:

    sweetred, I love it! I’ve gotten roses once from my boyfriend (now ex) or almost 2 years. We were very tumultuous, (He was a Taurus, and I’m a Libra if that’s any indication) but we loved each other. We’re best friends now, so at least things turned out well.

  259. sweetredhead says:

    The best Valentines day I ever had was the day I had my daughter :) Well she was born on the 13th in the evening but close enough. Her father sends her roses every birthday since she has been born :)

  260. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    Oooh the dreaded 14th! I don’t have a clue what to do yet, i’m going to make sure I have fun though :)

  261. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Love them golden apples!

  262. sweetredhead says:

    gurlnextdoor I am sure he is not one of them :)

    Atalanta awww how sweet a poem! I like the name change :)

  263. Atalanta (formerly Atlantian) says:


    That’s soo nice of him! Maybe you both could spend some quality time together in Vegas? You’ll have your sugar family with you :-)

    My SD wrote me a poem before he headed off to work today. It’s so cute! Alas, I think we might not be able to see each other until V-Day due to scheduling conflicts.
    Is anyone else thinking about what to do for the dreaded 14th?

    And I changed my name to Atalanta from the mythological story. I think it fits the whole sugar daddy theme haha.

  264. gurlnextdoor says:

    Good point sweetred, I wouldn’t take such a generous offer without meeting the guy first either. Some people, not saying he’s one of them, like to use that to put you on a guilt trip where they try and make you feel entitled to do stuff.

  265. sweetredhead says:

    Yes it was :) He is very sweet.

  266. sweetredhead says:

    I would not use a SD like that. We haven’t even met yet. What if there was no chemistry? Or it didn’t work out.

  267. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    Redhead: well it’s still super sweet of him~ fingers crossed on this pot.

  268. sweetredhead says:

    No, I can’t wish I could :(

  269. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    redhead: aww.. that’d be awesome! :) yay so maybe we’ve got redhead on board too :)

  270. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    did we miss a new blogger? My apologises..

  271. sweetredhead says:

    I know kitty, was trying to divert it to the florida a party hehe

    I was talking to a Pot SD about the Vegas party, He said to let him know if I wanted to go lol. Awww how sweet is he. :)

  272. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Pina Colada shrimp sound amazing!

  273. OCSugarBaby says:

    MELISSA- Welcome! Sorry I we didn’t welcome you earlier. Where are our manners… I also posted a reply on the old blog to you question about meeting that pot SD that is so Pushy. :)

  274. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    redhead: the patio BBQ is in response to Bettie’s Niagara trip idea… I have that problem with my halo too~

  275. sweetredhead says:

    My horns always seem to knocking my halo off. I just don’t understand it :(

  276. sweetredhead says:

    No no, a beach BBQ lol

  277. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    Bettie & Yasmin: I do not do anything bad… I’m a good girl…
    those devil horns and tail are just a disguise

    I am up for the Niagara Falls trip :) mm patio bbq

  278. sweetredhead says:

    Let see how do I make this interesting. We could all go in on a beach home rental on the beach. help me out here lol

  279. Yasmine says:

    Bye NC!!
    I can see us all partying it up in Vegas until the wee hours! lol :)

  280. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    Oooh who?!

  281. NC Gentleman says:

    OK — I have to catch a plane to lovely Birmingham Alabama — you all have a great day!

  282. BettieGirlDD*273192 says:

    I can see Kitty doing bad stuff like hiding the tv remote and stealing all the bar garnishes. anything else isn’t naughty.. shes just being herself.

    Unless my SD is taking me on a trip, I call next meeting end of march in Niagara Falls or Buffalo. I’ve always wanted to have a hotel party where we cook out on a portable grill on the patio. haha.. I’ll do pina colada shrimp and then we can go dancing.

  283. NC Gentleman says:

    How about both a Vegas and France Party! I am in if you can do it during the week :) I know someone who might be interested in seeing you come to the States, SE :)

  284. Yasmine says:

    Lol Kitty you know what I was thinking

  285. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    lol awww…. I couldn’t spend only a weekend in France… but I would love to go there too….

  286. sweetredhead says:

    SweetEuropean I think we would all need SD’s for that lol

  287. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    How about we forget the Vegas trip and party in France instead?! :) LOL

  288. sweetredhead says:

    Even SD’s who what to come can come :) maybe we should make it a different weekend so those who go to Vegas are not left out if they want to come to Florida too.

  289. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    I miss frolicking in the surf and falling off surfboards in Florida…lol!

  290. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    Yasmin: I jumped on their couches and threw a tantrum.. what were u thinking? lol….

  291. sweetredhead says:

    Of course kitty :) anyone is welcome.

  292. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    NC- do you have any oats, they’re quieter :)

  293. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    redhead: can I come if I’m not a Florida Sbaby? I have never been to Florida.
    AH!! so many travel opportunities.. so little money!

    Bettie: you can be a canuck like me! We can build igloos together

  294. Yasmine says:

    Lol Kitty you are bad! dont give the poor man a heart attack lol

  295. Yasmine says:

    lol NC I will personally make sure Kitty repays you :)
    Lol at the horse lady

  296. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    NC: I’ve done naughty stuff at an airport Marco Polo Club room in Toyko…

  297. sweetredhead says:

    Jennifer that sounds like a great idea!! All Southern Sb’s to Florida :) How does a Disney trip sound? Or their are some great beaches and bars :) Boat rentals for the day. Let’s get the started. That way everyone has somewhere to go :)

  298. BettieGirlDD*273192 says:

    I just applied for a job in Quebec: pourquoi pas!?

  299. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    NC- oh you poor baby, think pleasant thoughts!

    Yasmine- I’ve studied shaolin kung fu, I’m cute, but don’t &^(*&(&)( with me, lol!

  300. NC Gentleman says:

    Hi Yasmine — you have mail and kitty knows what she owes me now.

    SV – a ticket to LV isnt that much if you buy 21 day advance

    Hope you are all having a great day.

    ughhhh this lady next to me in the Crown Room at the airport is eating an apple and she sounds like a friggen horse!!! lol

  301. Yasmine says:

    OOOh Lara Croft is hot! That means that you are smoking Blondie! lol

  302. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Bettie, too funny! Personally I think of myself as a petite blond version of Lara Croft…..lol.
    Oh you guys are going to have a blast.

  303. BettieGirlDD*273192 says:

    I thought we already established Blondie stars as a sexy cylon on the sci-fi network on my show, Battlestar!
    Gals I have money + alibi to work around… I’m “not single.” There is a professional conference that week, though…

  304. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    lol @ Blondie

  305. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Kitty- hell no! SD’s want discretion and so do I.

  306. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    I wish I could go, but have to work!!! The one bad thing about being a nurse! Weekends!
    I am all for a Weekend in Florida!! I know the beach, but where in Florida would people like to go? Palm Beach, Miami, Ft. Lauderdale, Tampa.

    Maybe between myself and a few other SB’s in Florida, we can make it happen!!

  307. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    n/p blondie… :)
    so guess u won’t be making a testimonia video

  308. ~*kittylainy*~ says:


  309. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Kitty- I can’t/won’t mention what I do on the blog, you’d have to email me to find out…sorry, but in my field DISCRETION is all….lol.

  310. Spanish Vixen says:

    kitty: okay, I’m headed out. If I can find a ticket for like $300 and can pull that in less than a month…I’m totally in.

  311. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    Blondie: lol at your analogy… We’re not going to force you.. we know how tight money can be. that’s why we need SDs :) what kind of freelance do u do?

  312. Spanish Vixen says:

    Hmm okay. How much is a ticket out there? I may be able to go.

    I mean…seriously…I feel I’m a crucial part of this trip 😉 j/k

  313. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    SV: ok.. so let’s think of a plan… how much is it to fly from ur cuty to Vegas? Mine would cost me $250US round trip leaviing from Detroit. I have no idea how I am going to save up the money, but I am determined so I am going to hopefully find a way.

    … hmm.. think my pot. SD would be mad if I use the tix he bought me to go to vega in 2 weeks and move it until feb 27th?….

  314. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    I just worked my butt off on a big project, but won’t be paid for quite a while- the joys of being a freelancer. My budget is tighter than an overweight mouse stuck halfway in/out of a mousehole. Right now, I’m happy that I’ve got dog food and coffee, okay.

  315. Yasmine says:

    Bettie is not going? :(

  316. Yasmine says:

    Gail is going yay!

  317. Yasmine says:

    It’s still a month away so I think I will have enough time to save for my ticket by then. Come on guys we will have sooo much fun!

  318. Spanish Vixen says:

    Well…how much in advance would I need to book tickets? I’m DYING to go. But right now I’m completely broke, not joking. lol. If I can pull some cash together…GAH I wanna go…lol

  319. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    and bettie!

  320. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    SA: How much is it?

    Yasmin: hey…

  321. Yasmine says:

    What am I reading? Blondie and SV can’t go :(

  322. Yasmine says:

    Hello Everyone :)

  323. Spanish Vixen says:

    Kitty: If I can find a way to pay for the flight I’ll be all about it and tear that city uppp!

  324. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    Blondie: Well I guess we’ll just have to find us all great SDs to give us allowance so we’ll have money for the flight then.

  325. Spanish Vixen says:

    kitty: I can’t afford the flight. That’s it. lol

  326. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    KItty- sadly some of us are broke.

  327. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    SV: why not?… I thought u were the crazy adventurous one. I am sad now…

  328. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    SV: oo I see.. I love eventful days… I wish I didn’t have to work! grr…

    Blondie: too bad :( It’s sad when not everyone can go

    Bettie: stop it with the negativity… get ur ass to Vegas. What does it mean giving up ur spot on the roster.. if it means that u’ll be out of the team, that’d be bad cuz I know how much u love the team

  329. Spanish Vixen says:

    I’ll be up for a virtual slumber party. I don’t think I’ll be able to swing a trip to vegas :(

    Maybe this summer we can do florida 😀

  330. BettieGirlDD*273192 says:

    Blondie maybe we can stay home and have a virtual slumber party.. we can chat and make smores and do our nails.. maybe both watch some campy 80’s movies at the same time.

  331. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Good morning all! Just took the dog for a walk, can we say brisk weather, I knew we could.
    I’d really love to go to Vegas, but financially I just can’t swing it, even with a discounted flight. I’ll just have to hear about it from everyone on the blog.

  332. BettieGirlDD*273192 says:

    I know I know.. It might not be a game it might just be a scrimmage road trip.. Well if I can get a west coast SD to sponsor my flight maybe I’ll give my spot on the roster to another skater.

  333. lisa says:

    Good morning everyone. I slept late and am getting ready to meet my parents at the mall for breakfast. A ver cold day here. Have a lot of errands to run. Will be back from time to time.
    Have a great day.

  334. Spanish Vixen says:

    kitty: several phone calls to return that I’m excited about, lunch with friends, and going out tonight for a few hours. I was on the phone a lot yesterday. It was exciting.

  335. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    that’s unacceptable bettie… u have to come

    SV: why is today so exciting?

  336. Spanish Vixen says:

    kitty: Yea, it was pretty tacky. Ah well.

    Good morning all you lovely people! I actually just got out of the shower. Going to run around and get ready and head out in a few hours. Exciting day today for me!

  337. BettieGirlDD*273192 says:

    Ok I’m catching up… I think I have a game that weekend! D’oh!

  338. BettieGirlDD*273192 says:

    I was too sick to blog for a couple days.. and am back now! What’s all this I’m reading about Vegas?

  339. melissa says:

    although I would love some more attention I dont think I would want my face so “out there”. thats a little scary to me.

  340. ~*Kittylainy*~ says:

    flower: if you would like, I can drive to detroit and we can fly out of detroit together

  341. ~*Kittylainy*~ says:

    Good Morning Everyone~
    Wow, I miss a lot in the evenings when I am out and about.. perhaps I should stay home more often at night lol…

    Yasmin: I’d love to coordinate this Vegas trip with you. Do you have Sam’s e-mail? NC’s sending my e-mail to you. 27th-1st would work best for me. Are there other SDs going as well, or just SBs? I am very excited :) I just need to find a way to purchase a plane ticket.

    SV:It’s too bad that your pot. scheduling sucks. What did does sound really really tacky.

    Lisa: I hope your day gets better today~ xoxo

    Blondie: lol at your story about your date and you running lol…

    Flower: Guys like that are horrible, you just need to be strong and not let them get the upper hand.. say to them, if YOU don’t send ME a pic, I’ll stop talking to you! and wait… they always come crawling back.

    Everyone who’s planning on going to Vegas, please put kitty: profile#
    thanx dollies.

  342. Gail says:

    LOL…Every minute that ticks I have to say…now that’s .50 cents for Vegas..every brain cell I strain is another $1.00….I am going to Vegas tommorrow, but my accomondations will be different.(friends house)

    Now time for coffee:) I am wide awake with excitement…Yasmine I don’t have your e-mail, but I have Kitty’s…I’ll send her a note later today:)
    I am smiling so hard my cheeks hurt:) LOL….

  343. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    Gail!!!!!!!! Try not to have too much fun at work today!!

  344. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    Good Morning to everyone!

    SweetEuro, how is the new apartment? Getting everything settled?

    Sam, you are the greatest. I wish I was able to go that weekend. I have to work and I have the next weekend off. Darn healthcare and working every other weekend!!

    To all my wonderful Sugar friends, have a wonderful day.
    Hugs and Kisses

  345. Gail says:

    Morning Everyone!!! HiHo, HiHo, it’s off to Vegas we go…

    I too am excited about Vegas:) Wheeew…it’s gonna be fun!!! Now I have to go towork so I can afford it….LOL….

    Blondie, OC Sugar, Sweetbluegrass, Dreamer, please try to come!

    Thank you Sammy, our SD:)

  346. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    Morning everyone! Wow the Vegas trip sounds amazing, it’s times like these where I wish I was in the states!!!

    Sam – It’s really kind of you to arrange the trip for the girls, I hope you can make it there at some point and join in the fun!

  347. sweetredhead says:

    I was in bed. My son was snoring so loud it woke me up :( was a strange noise he usually doesn’t snore. But he has a cold.

    Night Yasmine, back to bed for me too :)

  348. Yasmine says:

    Ok Sam I will send you an email tommorrow and I will also get in touch with Kitty to see if 2/27 is good for her. Thanks a lot for taking care of everything you are a gem!!!
    Anyone who wants to come with us should email me or Kitty so we can coordinate the dates, time of arrivals and where we will meet. :) This is sooo exciting! *jumping up and down* lol
    Here is my profile number guys 274450
    Blondie I would loooove for you to come with us so I could meet you I could email you a few websites where you can find tickets at discounted prices.
    Ok I’m off to bed now or else I will fall asleep in class tommorrow.
    Good night everyone :)

  349. Sam 267369 says:

    Kitty/Yasmine, please coordinate and send me an email with the count of attendees and final dates. I will arrange limo, a 2 BR suite probably at the Encore Towers (can easily sleep 4 or more if you use the sofas in the suite or the massage room), and club and the bottle service for one or two nights.

    I think Kitty may have trouble making 2/26-28 because 2/26 is a Thursday. So you guys should decide if it’s 2/26-28 or 2/27-3/1.

    In fact, you guys should send me an email anyhow; I have some logistics issues to discuss. I’ll be on a flight for a while, though.

  350. flowerpush says:

    I got it Blondie lol.

  351. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Am I the only one who remember Elmer J Fudd?? Chasing Bugs Bunny…cartoons, hello???
    Atlantian, I can’t afford the airfare, so I’ll keep you company :)
    Night all, going back to drinking theraflu and trying to get some rest

  352. Atalanta (formerly known as Atlantian) says:

    I’m changing my name. Because I like the mythological Atalanta. If a sugar daddy wants to catch me, he’ll have to show me some golden apples! (no dirty minds, girls! lol!)

    In case you’re interested in some light reading.

  353. Atlantian says:

    I’d love to come to Vegas, but I won’t be able to enjoy the drinks with you! Alas, being young and underage is rough. haha

  354. Spanish Vixen says:

    I’ve really slowed on my posting today. Well, I have to wake up tomorrow, run a million errands, meet friends for lunch, and then meet someone special. I will try to pester you all at some point tomorrow!

    Good night!

  355. Mina says:

    I wonder if I’ll run into Gail while in Vegas, ha!

  356. lisa says:

    Leave those rabbits alone. lol
    Well i’m going to go watch a little tv and go to bed. I get to sleep till 8 tomorrow and then i’m off to run errands and will be in and out all day.
    Have a great night everyone.

  357. Gail says:

    Blondie…U r a nut…you must be only 5 ft 2…and stop hunting rabbits…Lisa is the kind of person that will try to save them:) Leaving for real now:)

  358. flowerpush says:

    You crack me up when you aren’t completely depressing me*

  359. lisa says:

    goodnight Gail I havent’ been on this late lately. I’m off tomorrow so I can sleep a little later.

  360. flowerpush says:

    Night Gail.

    Lisa, you crack me up.

    Lol Blondie.

  361. lisa says:

    but my life has been downhill from the start. I met my first boyfriend when I was 3 weeks away from being 16 and I was walking home from the schoolbus stop. He called me for 3 years and when I was 19, I finally went out with him. He turned out to be a rich and from a family of movie producers from Mexico city. It was like a dream so I thought but he was cheap and only wanted booty calls and ended up dying in his new sportscar at age 27. when I think of what could have been if he would have been different, but that’s how my luck goes.

  362. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Flowerpush, they lurk, some of them are here, lurking….sssshhh! Be vewy vewy quiet, we’re hunting wabbits…lol!

  363. Gail says:

    Thank you everyone for an entertaining evening. I have to go to work tommorrow…and Friday I am off to Vegas:) Good SugarDaddy dreams for everyone!!!!

  364. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    BTW Lisa, if he owned the company than I’m six feet tall and a double d…lol

  365. lisa says:

    I know flower push and I had to push him to answer that. We had chatted for a couple weeks, I kept putting off meeting because I was new on here and wanted to get to know as much about him as I could, well when the time came he stood me up twice but said he was there, yet couldn’t describe what I was wearing even though he said he saw me. I decided to meet him because I thought he wasn’t serious about the 65 dollars, turns out he wasn’t serious about meeting either.

  366. flowerpush says:

    I agree Lisa. Now if more SDs would get on the blog it would be absolutely perfect.

  367. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Yeah Lisa :) :) we rock!

  368. lisa says:

    The best people I have met on this site are on this blog, not the site

  369. flowerpush says:

    ROFL Lisa!

    Seeing a man 8 times a month for $65? Standard relationships pay more than that.

  370. Spanish Vixen says:

    Blondie, I agree! I’ve met some wonderful people off this site that I’ve never made arrangements with!!

  371. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    You know there have been times when I’ve wanted to say to the guy, “strap some balls on,” but realized they wouldn’t know what to do with them…lol!

  372. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Oh Flowepush, I know, I know.
    Gurl, excellent, pick a place that makes you happy and you’re comfortable there. You’ll be much more relaxed.

  373. lisa says:

    flowerpush I once chatted with a guy who wanted to see me twice a week at my place, he would pay my phone bill, lol wow 65 dollars a month, moneybags but this is the same guy who couldnt email me because his boss was in the office , even though HE owned the company

  374. gurlnextdoor says:

    Good idea Blondie…I think I’ll tell him to meet me at this cute lil cafe downtown, they sell the best hot chocolate. :) I think they mix mocha and cocoa together, tres delicieux.

  375. flowerpush says:

    Lol! Aw Blondie. The way it goes for me is:

    The guys that say they’re interested but then disappear off the face of the Earth without reason or rhyme before you’ve had a chance to even really speak to them.

    The guys that say they’re interested but disappear off the face of the Earth (but not really because you see them on-line on your messenger) after you IM and e-mail for a while.

    The guys that ONLY want to IM and e-mail and never want to meet.

    The picture collector guys that want nudes and cam shots we before you meet supposedly “to see if your pictures are accurate.” psht.

    The guys that list open amount/negotiable on their profile but when you speak to them its like, “I will take you out on dates and shopping trips.” Erm.

    Tons more I bet.

  376. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    I have met lovely men on this site – in a virtual way- and I either give them advice about sbs, or they give me advice about writing dreaded cover letters….lol!

  377. lisa says:

    Oh you scared me there for a moment gail, 9 years old

  378. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    sorry about the typos.

  379. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Hey Gurl:
    meet him at a place your’re comfortable with for a short drink. I don’t mean order a short drink :) but spend about an hour with him to see if you have a connection, then make plans, if it works out, for dinner or something else.
    Best of luck!

  380. Gail says:

    Time…Patience…The first time I opened an account…I closed it after a month because I too ran into creeps. I did keep in touch with a SD friend…who told me I didn’t belong on this site. He is my one of best friends now. I wanted to prove him wrong…lol…so when I told him that I set up a new account, he coached me and told me what to look out for…he pretty much screened my mail for me. (smile) We talk daily …he has a new SB…she is 9 years old…Actually he decided to financially take care of this little girl of a woman he met on this site. I have met alot of great SDs on this site.

  381. gurlnextdoor says:

    Hey everyone, stopping in again after watching some TV. I’m meeting a new potential SD for the first time on Monday! :) I don’t really know what we’re doing yet since he wants me to choose what we do, that way I’ll “feel comfortable” as he says. But he seems really sweet and sincere. He hinted at the allowance bit, the other day when we were on the phone. He said that since he was single with no wife and kids, it freed up a lot of his money, hehe. Not that I want that much, but I’m going to take that as a good omen and see where things go from here.

  382. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Lisa, it’s interesting how you divvied them up. I did that too recently. Here’s mine…
    33 1/3 % email me sporadically for months, they claim they want to meet in person, when I suggest it, they disappear, only to reappear a few months later…they have no intention of meeting ANYONE – this emailing strokes their egos
    33 1/3% are men who within the first email want to come over to my house IMMEDIATELY- yes, I am a parking meter
    33 1/3% of emails are men who have become “fans” from reading me on the blog and ask me advice about dating and their SBs.
    There you have it.
    I am site’s freaking dear abby!

  383. lisa says:

    you know that my daughter is so self righteous (thanks to my mom) that she would never accept anything I got from a man that I was involved with. I remember last year when I didn’t have money to give her because i was really bad off but I had that boyfriend who bought me groceries and I would have liked to have shared them with her but she would have been like “you don’t have money to give me but you buy this fancy food?” and it’s not like I could say “I didn’t buy it, he bought it for me” it would open me up to criticism and being shunned by my family again. they are the type that would starved and go without before taking anything aquired as a result of being with a man.

  384. Spanish Vixen says:

    Wow! So busy, everyone!

    LV huh? I could only make it out for that thurs-sat.

  385. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Gail that’s wonderful!

  386. flowerpush says:

    I have been on several chat room meet ups and forum meet ups and when it finally happened lol they were tons of fun. Usually it’s really confusing planning them and getting the right information to people. Someone will say it’s in Miami one day and the next day its supposedly in Texas. I feel for the planners of this thing lol.

    Its kind of weird getting past the feeling of “Is this person really Yasmine?” so you feel kind of uncomfortable at first even if you’ve talked to that person everyday for months until their personality that you saw online comes out in person then it’s like “OH it IS her.” rofl. That might sound weird but it’s true.

  387. lisa says:

    I find 2 kinds of guys on this site, well besides the chatters, lol

    one contacts you and wants to meet right now, with no getting to know each other first, if you say you want to email a little first, he disappears and reappears from time to time, again let’s meet now

    other guy wants to meet next month or next month, or next because he lives out of town and will be in your town at a certain time or he is in the process of moving to your town. He doesn’t seem interested in using the time to get to know each other and writes sporaticaly, and then stops writing and disappears, never to be heard from again I have had no luck with meeting guys after a week or two. the time just never seems to come

  388. Gail says:

    The answer is yes Flowepush….LOL….and I paid for my daughters college books with it:) and that’s what made it even more beautiful…

  389. Gail says:

    Yes…I have lots of nice stories:) but I believe that as Blondie does,
    “We want to be treated the way we’d treat someone else; with kindness and respect.”

    And I don’t rush out to meet anymore. I have found by talking to someone you get to form a connection, or a bond of friendship. So that way if after you meet it doesn’t work, you can always try be friends:)

  390. lisa says:

    I stocked several boxes of envelopes at work today, don’t think there was anything in them though, lol

  391. Yasmine says:

    So flower push you have met with other bloggers before???? How did it go??

  392. flowerpush says:

    Gail that is so awesome. I wonder if the reason that envelope was so beautiful was because of the contents. ;x

  393. Yasmine says:

    Wow Gail that was really nice of him!!!!!

  394. Gail says:



    Let me know what days everyone can go. I can go any and all of the three days. I just need to know the dates so that I can rebook my ticket as soon as possible.

    Sam-You are our sunshine!!! Love ya much…Muuuuaah!!!

  395. lisa says:

    wow Gail that’s really nice. I wish my meetings (If I had some) ended that well when they didnt’ work out. I am reminded of a guy I met on another site a few years ago. standing in line at starbucks, he said, oh I brought you a gift, and I thought “Oh goody”, well he handed me a paper thing that he got from macy’s that was sprayed with cologne! wow what a gift, and if that wasn’t enough, it was a men’s fragrance scent.

  396. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    I’m glad to know he was a gentleman about the whole thing, treating someone well is really the most important part.
    We want to be treated the way we’d treat someone else; with kindness and respect.

  397. Gail says:

    Yes I did…we talked everyday for 3 months. I knew all about his family. He was really nice fellow. His request was odd, but it was simple..the problem was that day I wasn’t feeling too good, that I wasn’t up to doing all that crap. He was kind in what he had to say to me. Checked me into the hotel and brought up my luggage. Allowed me to order anything I wanted in the hotel. I was suppose to stay 3 days…missed the baseball game, missed the all day spa and shopping, but he did re-book my flight, picked me up the next day and took me to the airport, and gave me a beautiful white envelope with $1,000.00. I smiled all the way home.

  398. Yasmine says:

    I designate Kitty!
    And Me! lol
    LV trip coordinators sounds like a good title lol

  399. flowerpush says:

    I hope this meet up works because I have found with my experience in chat rooms and forums and other blogs that meet ups rarely actually work. They also cause cliques. The latter might not happen because of the nature of this blog though.

  400. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Yay birdie!
    Yup, sometimes it’s a guppy, lol!

  401. lisa says:

    the rice is a sucess, my little birdy’s gulping it up

  402. lisa says:

    and sometimes it’s a guppy

  403. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Sam, sounds like you’re organizing a terrific time! I hope everyone has a blast, gets lots of sun, giggles, good times and wins huge at all the tables!

  404. lisa says:

    I always try to put effort into my appearance as much as I can, I can’t exactly wear stilletos walking down my street or on the the bus, but I try to look cute. When I meet the guy and it’s a no go, I just relax, start breathing again and suffer through the meeting.

  405. Yasmine says:

    Did you have a good feeling about him before going to NY Gail? I have a meeting next week..

  406. flowerpush says:

    Lol Lisa, I haven’t experienced the “I got dressed up for him?” feeling yet lol.

    Thanks for telling me about the picture collector guys. What a waste of time.

    Gail that is so weird lol.

  407. lisa says:

    I talked to a guy many years ago (anyone remember the phone dating sites?) and he wanted me to meet him at the mall (well I chose it because it was close to me) in a short skirt and no underwear. like really I could see myself climbing on the bus with now underwear, yikes. And what if I slipped in the mall and feel down. lol

  408. Sam 267369 says:

    Can the SB self organize and nominate one person (or at most two) to coordinate the LV trip? That way I can get a count of how many people are showing up, size and format of room, to whom to delegate the reservation and keys, how large a table to reserve and where, and what dates specific dates. Then I can take it to email and they can disseminate the information as needed.

  409. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Oh Lisa, I know, I know.
    Flowerpush, don’t give out a ton of photos in the beginning. Sadly there are some men who are just on here to collect photos. And there’s someone in NYC who just collects phone numbers.
    What I do, if they ask for more photos is to politely ask them to send me one of theirs first. If they don’t, no dice.

  410. lisa says:

    flowerpush, he’s just a picture collector. I had one guy a few weeks back ask for a closup of my “kitty’ well you know what he was talking about. unfortunatly he didn’t include his email as I would have googled a cute kitten and sent the picture to him.

  411. Spanish Vixen says:

    flower, GOOD RIDDANCE! That guy sounds like a loser!

  412. Gail says:

    I actually had a SD fly me to NewYork…He was kind to let me know that I was not his cup of tea. I didn’t put on the short dress that he wanted to see me in coming off the plane, and I was not drenched in perfume, and wearing bold red lipstick… LOL…Yes he gave me specifics of what exactly he wanted to experience when we met for the first time.

  413. lisa says:

    I have never regreted backing out of a meeting but I have regreted meeting some of them, even though I haven’t met anyone bad, it’s just an unpleasant feeling when you realize you got dressed up for HIM. lol

  414. flowerpush says:

    Good evening everyone.

    Another pot was nixed tonight. I am getting so discouraged. This guy wanted me to send him pics AND get on a web cam to verify I was the person in my pictures (because they look OH SO FAKE smh) but whatever I was going to do it anyway and he said he expected pictures in his inbox when he checked his e-mail in the morning. Ok that’s fine, he wanted to know if I would do what I said I would do, that’s fair. I sent him the pictures even BEFORE he signed off. I asked him for a couple and he said he would send them. I sign in and no pictures but he could email me asking where I was ( a little odd). He IMs me and after a while I mention the pictures and ask him to send me one again. He replies with “later.” What? I then said that I would like the same treatment that he expects from me. He wanted multiple pictures AND a web cam and I sent him the pictures and was going to do the webcam tonight. I wanted ONE picture and he didn’t send it when he said he would when he basically threatened to stop talking to me if I didn’t send him my pictures. ARG!

  415. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    He looked at me dumbfounded…lol. I quickly got up, pushed my chair in and left in one fluid (read super duper fast) movement. I almost raced to the subway…lol.

  416. Gail says:

    Blondie….LOL….what did he say?…LOL

  417. lisa says:

    Hey anything to save electrical costs, lol

  418. Spanish Vixen says:

    I agree with those rules. I’ve only had an SD in my house once. And I completely trusted him (and my parents weren’t home…which helped 😉 )

  419. lisa says:

    now if I could incenerate a sd

  420. Gail says:

    and I suppose you are boiling the water for you rice with the fire coming out of your eyes…LOL…

  421. lisa says:

    be careful the downstairs neighbor’s clogged drain might through up

  422. Gail says:

    Just read you entry above about shooting the fire out of your eyes…LMAO…you are so talented Lisa:)

  423. lisa says:

    Keep looking they are staring back at you, the lights will starting blinking soon

    just put on some rice to cook for my bird, hope I cook it right as he won’t eat it if it’s sticky.

  424. Gail says:

    Lisa….you are too funny…I am still gazing…I see one black hole…water runs through it…Is that…Is that…yes it is clear now….the sink drain that your contacts fell in….blue…blue….two blue eyes….LOL…

  425. Gail says:

    I have never paid a dime to meet a potential SD. It is always arranged in advance. The flight itinerary verified that the time would work for me, and a copy of the ticket sent two weeks in advance. Money is always discussed in advance…of course I talk to them for over 3 to 4 months before I hop on that plane. And you may think I am hard on them…LOL…I expect them to call me every day…LOL..that way I know they are serious:) and I am not one of the many SBs they are seeing. I don’t travel to meet them on my dime unless it is in my town. Those are my rules…

  426. lisa says:

    I’m really p*ssed off about this 1099 thing. I never used profanity but this ticks me off. Stupid company put my money into 401k without my consent, I closed accoutn, they held my 50 dollars captive till I quit my job, penalized me, and now are taking their time in sending my form. I got my w-2s a week ago. I will now shoot fire out of my eyes towards them. lol

  427. lisa says:

    I could never afford to put the expense into meeting a sd and hope to be reimbersed, sorry sds, I lack the funds, thus sugardaddy dating.
    Now Gaze, Gail, gaze

  428. lisa says:

    Gail those are where my contacts should be, lol I have not contacts, thus no eyes, now gaze into the darkness of my soul, gaze

  429. Gail says:

    [email protected]….bet you can now change the color of your eyes….:) since you have the two holes….just kidding of course Lisa!!!

  430. Yasmine says:

    Yeah like that London guy who I was supposed to meet in nyc he never offered to pay for my transportation. He said that he would reimburse me once I got there. Humm yeah thats a no go

  431. Spanish Vixen says:

    lol Lisa. well, he’s off another site. I’m not sure if he’s on this one aswell, but he messages me on another site.

    Luckily not all SD’s are like that! I’ve gotten to know some wonderful people over the time 😀

  432. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    I’d love to go; I so need a break, just can’t afford airfare, oh well.

  433. lisa says:

    wow now I could read that, lol but my face, I look like I have two dark holes where eyes should be

  434. Gail says:

    BBGrass…Let me know for sure if you are going:) I know that I can go…I already have a paid ticket, I just have to change the dates.

  435. lisa says:

    the perfect cheap meeting, drive to meet him at his place, nothing spent, nothing risked for him , heck he wouldn’t even have to bother getting dressed,lol , how tacky are these guys, lol

  436. Gail says:

    I just changed the zoom on the page…of course at 400%….lol…so everything in writing was huge…..

  437. Spanish Vixen says:

    The guy gave me a weird vibe. I’d told him to meet me in a restaurant and stuff, and when he said he wanted to meet at his house, lucky for me I had plans on thursday night anyways…so it was easy to cancel

  438. Yasmine says:

    Thanks Gail!! :) I thought my avatar was so small that no one could see my face lol How did you manage to see it?

  439. lisa says:

    I wish there was a way we could share profiles of those guys as warnings to others.

  440. lisa says:

    He didn’t want to talk money till you got there? Hum, sounds like he had something else in mind. some of these guys think they can try the goods before they “decide” . I would never go to a guy’s house for a meeting. He said you couldn’t meet for a “date” if he thought it was a date, he should have picked you up or met you somewhere in your town and during the daytime. This one just doesn’t sound too good.

  441. Gail says:

    Yasmine…you are adorable:) Beautiful pic…you resemble my daughter, except for the eyes:)

  442. Gail says:

    The dates that Sam said he could help with a nice room was Feb 25-28th. The date works for me:) Its Vegas BBGrass:) I think it will be fun!!! And I am all for hanging out with the girls:)

    Oh and it wasn’t me:) I so adore OCSugar….

  443. Yasmine says:

    He is not a true SD then if he could not at least drive to meet you or offer to pay for your transportation. And then he is trying to make it seems like you are the one who can’t make an effort to go see him. His LOSS!
    And why would you even go to see him if he does not tell you what kind of support he can provide you? humm suspect..

  444. BeautifulBluegrass says:

    I missed a lot…. are we hoping to meet in Vegas or Disneyworld? I am in regardless!! Just give me the dates?
    OC, who was mean to you??

  445. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    SV- this was a first meeting? At his house? That’s a no-no. Seriously, if you have a first meeting with anyone you don’t know, always meet in a public place. I hate to break this to you, but this guy had no intention of being an SD; he was looking for an old-fashioned FB, and there’s a world of difference.
    Reminds me of the cat guy; only interested in an hour of time…feh!

  446. Spanish Vixen says:

    Yasmine: he said he didn’t want to talk money till I got there.

    lisa: yea…and he said, “I don’t know why you’re on a dating site if you can’t meet for a date.” Good thing I wasn’t on a “dating” site, huh? lol

  447. Yasmine says:

    SV did he at least offer to pay for your gas?

  448. lisa says:

    He doesn’t exactly sound like a sugardaddy to me SV. He wanted you to drive over to his place only at night. I understand about working nights and weekends. I worked nights for over 10 years and I still work weekends. If he couldn’t meet during the day sometime or on another day, he isn’t worth it.

  449. Spanish Vixen says:

    Wow….so a guy I’ve been e-mailing with for a few weeks now gave me a polite goodbye (at least he was polite) but was annoyed that we had difficulty meeting. He lives an hour away from me, expected me to drive over to his place, and could only meet nights thursday, friday, and saturday. Well…I work friday and saturday night and I keep having plans set up in advance on thursday nights. Needless to say, our schedules just DON’T match…but I didn’t like that he made it look like I was making this “get old quick” when he’s the one with a limited schedule. Ah well…if it’s not meant to be, it’s not meant to be.

    I’m going to munch and watch a movie. Enjoy yourselves ladies and gents!!

  450. lisa says:

    I want my tax refund and a sugardaddy. my premium membership expires in a couple days, can’t renew it right now, but it didn’t generate anything anyway, I just got to “view” all the sds that viewed me and the one that added me as a favorite but never emailed. creepy thought that some of these guys are saving the pics, enlarging then and printing them out and sitting in their rooms of their mommies’ houses looking at them. Just a creepy thought

  451. Spanish Vixen says:

    Blondie, once I get dates sent to me, I’ll let you know right away 😀

    Hopefully we can at least meet up for drinks or something!!

  452. Yasmine says:

    Awww Lisa I want one too!

  453. lisa says:

    I’m feeling alone here in Texas :(
    I have such a busy day tomorrow, meeting parents at mall for breakfast and starbucks (free chickfila breakfast), then on to the grocery for some snackin and to pick up a couple things, walk home, then walk to laundrette, back home and out again in the late afternoon to meet daughter after work. I will be in and out all day. Friday, out trying to find that stupid digital box and getting the rent check. saturday back to work.
    I want a sugardaddy!

  454. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    SV Depending on the day/time I could possibly meet up on the 12th- 13th on would be very hard for me- we’d have to email out the time diferentials and scheduling conflicts :(

  455. Yasmine says:

    Cant see my face :( lol

  456. sweetredhead says:

    Disney is a 2 1/2 hour drive for me.

  457. Spanish Vixen says:

    Yasmine: Well, it looks like possibly Feb 12th or 13th, however nothing is definite yet, though. I’ll keep you posted :). It depends on quite a few factors and such, but I’m crossing my fingers!!

    I would love to meet all you lovely sb’s! If you all want to meet in Disney, I could drive there :D. I think it’s only a 7 hour drive or something like that, but would probably be cheaper than getting a plane ticket.

  458. sweetredhead says:

    I logged out and logged back in, Hopefully this will change the picture.

  459. lisa says:

    there you are Yasmine

  460. sweetredhead says:

    Gordon open your eyes silly!! it covers more than a bikini does lol.

  461. Yasmine says:

    Oh wow they are mad small!

  462. Yasmine says:

    Oh there it is :)

  463. sweetredhead says:

    Hope you get what you need soon. Its helps to get the things you need.

  464. sweetredhead says:

    It goes fast lisa :( I just paid a bunch of my bills through next month :) Bought the kids some cloths and shoes. Now its gone :(

  465. lisa says:

    my avatar took a few minutes to post

  466. lisa says:

    Hi Jasmine I hate life. I need my refund and it makes me made to have it delayed for one stupid form that hasn’t came yet. I could have had my refund this friday if not for that. I will have to try to call them tomorrow and see where it is. One day the mailman left all the mailboxes open (the main panel that swings out) and the mailboxes are next to the parking lot area in an area that anyone one the street could get into them.

  467. Yasmine says:

    Where is my pic? :(

  468. Yasmine says:

    Hey Lisa!!!!! Glad you are back! :)

  469. lisa says:

    my “sight” is getting worse, I need to get some new contacts asap

  470. sweetredhead says:

    I keep trying to change it back and it won’t let me lol. I put that on there by mistake :(

  471. lisa says:

    I am so p*ssed, my day is getting worse. Just heard that the delay for digital tv has been killed in the house so now I gotta run all over town on the bus looking for a cheap converter, havent been able to find one for 50 dollars anywhere and I can’t even afford the 10 dollars for the cheap one, what a rip off. And I just tried to file my tax return but have to have that 1099 for the stupid 401k thing instead of the stub from the check I got when I quit that job. What p*sses me off if I did not want a 401k but my employer just started taking out deductions without my consent and I had to cancel it and when I lost my job I got the lousy 40 something dollar check and now that’s keeping me from being able to file, I got my w-2’s last week and could have already filed if not for that. I logged onto the site but since i am no longer a member of the vanguard thing, I can’t access my 1099 online and it says they have mailed them out jan 16, well then where is mine? I worry because I don’t get alot of my mail and I need that money, my site is horrible and my mom’s birthday is in a couple weeks. Damn this day

  472. Yasmine says:

    Hey Guys I am in for Vegas! :) Sam is just the best and hopefully we will all get to see him!
    SV when are you planning to go see Blondie??? Let me know I might be in the city that weekend and we will paint the town red aha!

  473. D.P. says:

    Good evening, all: anything fun going on?

  474. kittylainy says:

    Sam: I just got the email I had to come see it for myself. That’s amazing my dear~ that’s super generous of you *hugs*
    its too bad u won’t be able to join us…I’d love to meet the man behind all the great advice and generosity.

    Re: ex sd…I am going to tell him as it is, face to face over ocffee and tell him exactly that. I need a sd that respect women and appreciates them… Therefore treats them well.

  475. Gordon says:

    Sweetred, you changed your avatar, now I will have to close my eyes, maybe one peek.

  476. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Sam- I can understand a cat allergy, what I won’t tolerate is a rude first email- I’m not just here for someone else’s sexual release thank you very much!

    I’d personally love to go to Vegas, but can’t afford it. have fun all!

  477. sweetredhead says:

    I don’t fly :(

  478. sweetredhead says:

    Good….Because I type bad enough with my eyes open.

  479. Gail says:

    Would love to finally meet you Sam:) I can’t waiting to hear from the other ladies to see what their schedules are like.

  480. Gordon says:

    I’m out and decent, you may open your eyes.

    Warmed over dinner with wine for me tonight.

  481. Sam 267369 says:

    I wouldn’t go because it probably doesn’t line up with my personal schedule, but I’d try to drop by.

  482. sweetredhead says:

    Would make head lines.

  483. sweetredhead says:

    Girls gone wild at Disney. I think it would head lines lmao

  484. sweetredhead says:

    With all the Disney lover, should make it as Disney lol. I go there several times a year myself :)

  485. Gail says:

    Vegas BlkButtafly:) It will be fun!!! I love travel…I love fun:)

  486. sweetredhead says:

    BlkButtafly, in Vegas. I think it was earlier today on the blog.

  487. Gail says:

    Count me in!!! Sam you are the kindest:) I am going this weekend for January. I’ll make it February too:) The dates work for me:)

  488. BlkButtafly says:

    Whoa Whoa someone’s planning a SB outing??? Man I have to read to more lol

  489. sweetredhead says:

    That’s very kind of you Sam. I am sure they would have a wonderful time. Why would you not go?

  490. sweetredhead says:

    Gordon are you decent yet? My eyes hurt from closing them so tight :)

  491. Sam 267369 says:

    Blondie, while the pot SD was rude and excessively curt, I sympathize somewhat as I have a deathly cat allergy.

    Kitty, drop the bum. Although it may fall on deaf ears, I think you should tell him that his approach was rude and hurtful when you drop him.

    If you gals are serious about your trip, I may be able to help out if, say you took it between Feb 25 and 28 or so. I would provide a nice room (not mine, yours! though you may have to double up a bit depending on how many arrive) and some club arrangements including the prerequisite table bottles at my expense. Keeping in mind that I, myself, might not be there.

  492. sweetredhead says:

    Almost got smashed by an old man in big car on my way home tonight. Had to go up on the grass to avoid him. Fool was changing lanes not even looking ughhh.

  493. gurlnextdoor says:

    Gordon that is like my favourite Italian opera…”O mio babbino caro”. That song coupled with Sere Nere by Tiziano Ferro almost got me to take Italian instead of French. :)

  494. sweetredhead says:

    Awww, someone want to bring Gordon a Towel?

  495. BlkButtafly says:

    :-( awww Gordon

  496. Gordon says:

    This was poorly thought out, I’m in the jacuzzi with no drink, there is no towel, no sb ;-(

    Kiri is singing “O mio babbino caro” (Oh papa I love him so)

  497. Spanish Vixen says:

    Gordon, I’m peaking! I’m peaking! OH LA LA!

  498. sweetredhead says:

    I just had the best dinner, If I do say so myself :) Made scallops and pasta in a cream sauce with mushrooms and Parmesan cheese hmmmmm good.

  499. Gordon says:

    I got the Ipod unstuck and now am listing to Kiri Tr Kanawa.

    Just for SV I will climb into the jacuzzi. It’s too far into the house to put on swim trunks, so I will have to skinny dip. Everyone close your eyes.

  500. Spanish Vixen says:

    Gordon, do it…we can drool over the though!

  501. Gordon says:

    I would climb in the jacuzzi with a glass of champagne and type out my next post but that would be in poor taste.

  502. Spanish Vixen says:

    Gordon you make me jealous! I so want it to be warm out in Atlanta. But it’s cold and rainy. And I so want to throw on a bikini, go somewhere warm, and swim! lol

  503. BlkButtafly says:

    LOL @ double argh. It is addictive, isn’t it?

  504. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    I CAN’T SLEEP. Argh. I should really get off this site, double argh

  505. lisa says:

    I can’t stay in bed when i’m sick. I can never take a sick day from work. when I used to get the flu every year (I used to get it every january) I would try resting but then i’d find myself doing home projects, hanging curtains, etc.
    Have a good night BlondieNYC

  506. Gordon says:

    My Ipod is stuck on Petty Booka singing Tide is High and I’m holding on.

    Over and Over, driving me mad but I won’t turn it off

  507. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    I’m crawling back into bed, with a good book and tea. Night all.

  508. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Gordon I love hot and sour soup, oh I really do. And thank you for the update on the palms, I can almost feel the breezes ruffling my hair :)
    Lisa congrats on getting your avatar up.
    Blkbuttafly have a great date tonight!

  509. lisa says:

    I am a “bit” grouchy today, lol wow I guess that was some subliminal message coming out

  510. lisa says:

    I am a bitch grouchy today. I was fine till I got home and a big tired spell hit me.

  511. lisa says:

    the sun is out and the wind cold in Houston. It’s 80 degrees in my apartment and i’m still cold.

  512. OCSugarBaby says:

    Naw, Gail it wasn’t a biggie. But today I am a bit more sensitive then my usual self.

  513. Gordon says:

    The breeze is warm tonight and the palm trees sway a slow waltz.

  514. lisa says:

    Gordon, you just mentioned my favorite drink “theraflu” gotta love that stuff. I once drank a cup of the nightime formula and went to the laundrette. when I was putting my clothes into the dryer, I stuck my head inside and I swear the dryer was as big as a room.

  515. lisa says:

    wasn’t me as I was offline from 7:15 am till about 3:15 pm

  516. Gordon says:

    Blondie, Sorry to hear you are sick. If I was there I would serve you Hot And Sour Soup with hot tea and rub Vicks on your chest.

    One warning, don’t mix Theraflu and gin.

  517. Gail says:

    who kicked you…was it me? Never would I…. and if so…sorry…never meant to….

  518. lisa says:

    Yes thanks to OC’s kind assistance and me actually figuring it out (i”m terrible with directions, lol) my scary mugshot is visible. lol

  519. BlkButtafly~264118~ says:

    Hi, everyone! Well I just got a call from my SD and he wants to see me tonight and I only have a little over an hour to get ready! Yikes! I’m glad he’s on his way to my city because he never even offered to give me gas money for my drive to Orlando the other night :-( I wasn’t going to make a big deal out of it but it would have been nice

  520. Gail says:

    LOL @Blondie…yes you are loopy Blondie…your last question to Gordon was too much? And Gordon being the gentleman he is will answer.

  521. OCSugarBaby says:

    Me never sulk? Well earlier today I felt a bit kicked by a fellow sugar, but over it now.
    However I DO know that Lisa love me! :)

  522. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Hi Gordon, I’m sick, and have been in bed on and off all day, now a little loopy from theraflu. How are you today? Are the tropical breezes making the palm trees sway?

  523. Gail says:

    I’ll drink to that Blondie!!! What a good toast, “Laughing alot and driving the guys crazy!!” Now don’t forget eating Cupcakes too… I have to go to a Cupcake Boutique in New York:)

  524. lisa says:

    Thanks OC i’m just a little tired and disoriented. Worked all day without eating, came home stuffed myself, need a coffee fix.
    Thanks OC, now of course I have forgotten my password for that avatar site.

  525. Gordon says:

    Good evening, how is everyone?

  526. Gail says:

    OCSugar…you never sulk…or do you? LOL…

  527. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Gail, the mystery is making me crazy!! One day, I do hope we meet, I have a feeling we’d be laughing a lot…and driving the guys crazy :)

  528. Gail says:

    now all the mystery is gone:( you’ll see each other every day now.

  529. lisa says:

    I used the picture that no one likes that used to be on my profile. I don’t have any of my profile pictures still on my computer. when my desktop crashed in august I lost hundreds of pictures so I haven’t many to choose from. I’m not smiling though, I seldom smile.

  530. OCSugarBaby says:

    I am off to sulk…No love from Lisa for helping her out… :(

  531. lisa says:

    these avatars are a little annoying, lol

  532. Gail says:

    These pics are so small…I can’t tell if you are smiling Lisa:) The blue shirt looks good on you.

  533. Gail says:

    laughing….I am going to try and find you again and send you a message…lol…it might be a while though…amazing world this is huh blondie…(smile) close by yet so far…..

  534. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Hey Lisa!!

  535. OCSugarBaby says:

    Lisa! It worked… :)

  536. lisa says:

    oh look there I am.

  537. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Gail- where? Where? Don’t you DARE hold out on me? We missed meeting each other??/ ARGH

  538. lisa says:

    tried it and it didn’t work for me.

  539. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Spanish Vixen–whoo hooo! Looking forward to it!

  540. Spanish Vixen says:

    Blondie: we’ll rip it up! 😀

    It MAY be mid feb :) cross your fingers!!!

  541. Gail says:

    LOL….Blondie…I saw you…not here…somewhere else…LOL…

  542. gurlnextdoor says:

    Aww Kitty you’ll find a much better SD soon enough…no man will be a match for your wonderful personality. :)

  543. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    And hey, I’m dying to tear up the town a bit and shake my hair

  544. BlondieNYC*233868 says:


  545. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Gail, it really wasn’t my fault!! The second event I went to offered wine, sparkling wine, water and cupcakes…I took what I could get….:)

  546. Gail says:

    Kitty….you would be drunk and unable to shop if you drank all their martini’s …..happy shopping…pick up a little something for everyone:)

  547. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    All u avatar ladies owe me martini’s btw :)

  548. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    I would think It’d be the same way as a regular boyfriend….
    think I am going to wait a day or two…
    I gotta go get ready to head out with a friend to do some evening shopping.. ttyl :)
    loves ya

  549. Gail says:

    Blondie:) I have four packets of Emergen-C. Let me know if you want me to send them to you.

    Oh Lord…Blondie and Spanish Vixen together:) Watch out New York City…(smile) both you have strange food pairings…LOL…

  550. OCSugarBaby says:

    Lisa that happened to me too! I just kept getting confirmation emails.So, just go to en.gravatar.com
    Open up a new browser and it will work from there. You are caught in a loop of hell. :)

  551. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Spanish Vixen- let me know when you get to NYC!

  552. lisa says:

    I did but it gave me this stupid password with all these symbols and I don’t know the shift button from the cap button on my computer and tried typing in thepassword about 10 times and it still doesn’t work, it’s dotted out so there’s no way to see if I’m typing the right symbols to begin with. I prefer to make my own passwords instead of some weird long conjunction of letters and whatever. I’m just really tired. worked hard, didn’t get a lunch break and the minute I got home,mom called and I couldnt’ get her off the phone. she is retired so she sits around all day and doesn’t seem to undertand that just because I just walked in the door doesn’t mean I want to talk on the phone, i’m tired and would like to relax and eat something first. they sold their old car and my dad was wanting me to explain the title transfer to my mom on the phone, and I dont’ know anything about title transfers as i’ve never owned a car. I am simply exhausted

  553. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    the drugstore’s out of Emergen -C, drinking theraflu

  554. Gail says:

    Kitty…Big hugs to you:) Toss out the zero and get yourself a hero:)
    Lisa…no avatar for me either….LOL
    I think its time for me to clean house…but I really don’t want to:(

  555. flowerpush says:

    Aw Lisa! Don’t get discouraged. Maybe you could make another account?

  556. lisa says:

    ok I have tried and tried to log in and reset my password, too much hassal, i’m giving up before I through this computer through the window. why is everything so G**damn difficult and why am I so stupid.
    No avator for me.

  557. Spanish Vixen says:

    kitty: tell him that he’s just not what you’re looking for or something

  558. flowerpush says:

    I would think you break up with an SD the same way you would break up with any other guy.
    I totally understand why you would dump him Lainy because that was so rude of him. Good luck.

  559. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    I REALLY don’t want to seem like I am dumping him because he has another SB…(like an act of jealousy) I am dumping him because of his lack of consideration of my emotions.

  560. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    Thanks ladies *group hug*
    mocha almond fudge ice cream… yum
    I am not upset… I got over it already. He is horrible, and I am dumping him… how do u break up with a SD?

  561. BeautifulBluegrass says:

    I have never put it up on the blog, but thanks for telling me that! I wondered…

  562. lisa says:

    I can’t get that avator thing to work for me. I don’t know my password as i seem to be always logged in. when I try to reset my password, I keep getting an confirming email that brings me back to the same thing and then another email is sent saying to enter my info, and on and on. too much hassel, I know nothing about computers except using the internet

  563. Atlantian says:

    Kitty, this is one of those “slap a h*” times

  564. OCSugarBaby says:

    Your profile can still be viewed even if it is hidden if they have the profile number! So, if they find it on the blog they can enter it and comes up.

  565. lisa says:

    Good afternoon everyone. Just got back from work and getting my copies of w2’s. Very hard day at work, left alot undone, but hey they cut my hours this week, so some things are not going to get done, can’t do 40 hours work in 24, lol.

    Stopped at the printshop I used to work at and saw my old coworker and also a new face , the third person they have had to do the job I lost. Makes me feel good that they keep having to train new people and then they quit, should have treated me better and I’d still be there, well maybe no, that job sucked, lol
    I’m off for the next couple days

  566. Spanish Vixen says:

    just use another e-mail address then.

    That’s weird that people still look at you while it’s hidden. humm

    So, apparently I may be going up to New York next month. Anyone wanna meet if I’ve got time? 😀

  567. BeautifulBluegrass says:

    SV- it is hidden. The # of times my profile has been viewed keeps going up.
    NC said “you have people that viewed you in the past that are viewing your profile again…” which I think is CREEPY.
    I was thinking of saving the description part of my profile in a word document and then just opening another account when/ if I am back on the market 😉

  568. Spanish Vixen says:

    just use another one. I cancelled mine once and made a new one because of a weird guy.

    Why don’t you just hide your profile?

  569. BeautifulBluegrass says:

    FYI: I began (did not complete) the process to cancel my SA account and was told this
    “… I will not be able to join SeekingArrangement.com again using the same Email Address…”
    poopy pants!

  570. Spanish Vixen says:

    cookies ‘n cream has to be my favourite icecream EVER

  571. BeautifulBluegrass says:

    SV- YES! I love chopped up oreo’s!

  572. Spanish Vixen says:

    chopped up reeses and oreos ftw!

  573. Mina says:

    Ladies, show some restraint with the sweets, lol.

  574. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Don’t forget sprinkles and whipped cream…oooh hot fudge!

  575. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    I went to school near T-O, I can take the cold. :)

  576. BeautifulBluegrass says:

    I’ll bring mocha fudge almond ice cream!

  577. Spanish Vixen says:

    Blondie, are you joining kitty and I in her igloo? 😀

  578. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    I agree with BB and Mina, we’re coming over with alcohol and ice cream.

  579. Spanish Vixen says:

    kitty: really random but WRITE THAT PARAGRAPH AND SEND IT TO STEPHAN!!!!!!!!!

  580. Mina says:

    I agree with BeautifulBluegrass – how TACKY.

  581. BeautifulBluegrass says:

    kitty- WHHHAAAT?! he’s passing up time with you for another SB? Does anyone else think that him canceling AND telling her he’s gonna be anoher SB is a bit rude?

  582. Yasmine says:

    Kitty we can share the salmon lol forget these men!

  583. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    I feel damn sick too… and I am a tad sad… I was going to make SD fresh salmon baked in a sundred tomato glaze tongiht.. but he is bailing on me to hang out with a new SB… *rolls eyes* whatever his lost.. I get twice as much salmon

  584. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    Blondie: I hope u feel better soon…

    Atlantian: LMAO @ left-right book reading… I think we should plan it for March or April when it warms up in Vegas, so we can sit by the pool… hmm.. I wonder if we’d all still be SDless and stil on the blog then.. that’s a scary thought.

  585. Atlantian says:

    lol oh manga.
    The people who read it at my high school gave it a bad name, so I stuck to my regular left to right book reading.

    And I’m all for a weekend get together!

  586. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    I’m sick, napped for a few hours, had soup and juice, trying to make myself go to the drug store to get some stuff. UGH

  587. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    I am so tired… I can’t stop yawning

  588. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    SV: Ikkoku is a TV series in Japan too… It was really popular

  589. Spanish Vixen says:

    I loved Maison Ikkoku. I havent been reading manga for so long. I’m afraid to get back into it lol. I have been watching a lot of anime, though

  590. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    haha good for u redhead.. have fun

  591. sweetredhead says:

    Time for me to take that a walk with the boys and the dog :) Or more accurate the dog takes me for a walk :(

  592. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    Maison ikkoku I’ve read a bit of one once.. wasn’t into it…
    I am trying really hard to remember the name in english for this one I loved.. I can’t remember!!

  593. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Yasmin – you’re supposed to give him a heart attack in person, not online….lol!

  594. Spanish Vixen says:

    lol yasmine!!!

  595. Yasmine says:

    We were chatting via im and he asked to see more pics and I sent him that infamous bootylicious picture lol I think I gave the guy a heart attack lol

  596. BeautifulBluegrass says:

    Dragon ball Z is pretty awesome.
    Sweetred- your avatar is up! Yay!!

  597. Spanish Vixen says:

    yes, all in english. I think my favourite series is Maison Ikkoku

  598. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Sweetredhead that’s way better than “I must know if you have a cat free home or I’m wasting my time”

  599. sweetredhead says:

    yea there I am, I am so excited, ok so it dosn’t take much to make me happy lmao

  600. sweetredhead says:

    Didn’t someone say they got a email from some guy named me? I just got one. he responded only “interested, like the hair” lmao BIG talker!

  601. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Last year’s comicon was a blast and am sooo looking forward to this one. I love checking out all the new comics

  602. Yasmine says:

    Oh I looove dragon ball Z!
    Blondie I will def contact you if that date turns out bad! We decided we would meet wednesday so I will let you guys know the details in advance. :)
    I know my sugar family is looking out for me :)

  603. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    lol @ redhead

  604. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    SV: all in English?

  605. sweetredhead says:

    My avatar should be up in 10 minutes I did not finish all the steps lol. I try to take to many short cuts lol.

  606. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    YA i read the more adult ones now too…
    I don’t know their English names tho…

    I was never into comics but the Wtachmen look like a good movie.

  607. Spanish Vixen says:

    Kitty…You should come visit me and take a gander around my room. You’d be in love. Yes…I own like 400 manga lol

  608. flowerpush says:

    I went to the Comicon in Philadelphia in Dec. It was so fun and everyone was looking forward to seeing The Watchmen.

    I read way too much manga Lainy. I used to like Sailor Moon but after I got older I watched it and wondered why I ever liked it rofl. I usually watch the more adult animes.

  609. BlondieNYC*233868 says:


  610. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    I am into Japanese Manga.. I grew up with Hello Kitty, Sailormoon and Drangon Ball.. haha ahh.. I can be so Asian sometimes

  611. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    lol redhead: like in the little mermaid.. the priest’s woody!! and the words in Lion King.. oo they were great

  612. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    I watch Hannah Montana, The Suite Life and a couple of other Disney shows. I’m going to Comicon, read comics and enjoy them. I also read non-fiction, history quite a few other things.

    There’s nothing wrong with enjoying something that’s light-hearted and fun.

  613. sweetredhead says:

    I think every woman is beautiful no matter their size, race ect. Beauty is on the inside, and will always show on the out.

    I have the curves and I always wanted the opposite. Someone with no curves wants more.

    When I was 18 people thought I was 13. I wanted to look older. But now that I am older and people think I am much younger I love it :)

    I love the Disney movies, they crack me up. If you notice they always have adult context in them, that children would not understand its funny.

  614. BeautifulBluegrass says:

    I used kitty’s directions up at the top of this blog. In short, go to en.gravatar.com and open an account using the same email address you used when you made you SA blog account. Then log-in and follow directions.

  615. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    flower.. check up the blog.. to near the top

  616. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    BBGL I don;t know what the e-mail verification thing here is like… maybe when u resign up,.. you’ll need a new e-mail.. check with stephan…

    and my main problem with this plan is the funds.. we need a contributor for money

  617. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Yasmin- if you’re coming to NYC and you have the time, look me up. AND if this SD turns out to be a frog instead of a prince and you need to vent etc., in person, def contact me

  618. flowerpush says:

    How do you put up a picture for your avatar?

  619. BeautifulBluegrass says:

    that sounded bad….. kitty you dont have to plan it…. just was saying that I would go to whatever you planned this time….sorry!!

  620. Spanish Vixen says:

    that would be epic. Lemme save up some mula and I’ll go party it up.

    I think this summer we should plan a beach get away.

    mostly because I’m dying to go to the beach and swim. lol

  621. BeautifulBluegrass says:

    kitty- if you plan it this time, I’m in.

    I am thinking of taking my profile down as I don’t want creepy guys looking at it and have my hands full right now. I could just open a new account and paste my descriptions (I would save them in a Word document) if I wanted my profile back up. Thoughts?

  622. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    ok… I tried to plana SB blogger weekend getaway to Las Vegas awhile ago.. but the idea got shot down… (mainly because I tried to make it into a publicity stunt)

    … I think we should just all go and vaca there :) for a 3 days weekend and party it up.

  623. Spanish Vixen says:

    I’m totally in for a get together if I have the means to get where ever! I want to meet you all!

  624. Spanish Vixen says:

    kitty: you love it 😉

    I feel so productive today. posting like crazy on here, facebooking it up, and somehow still holding a full conversation with a group of friends.

  625. Mina says:

    I don’t like the city itself very much, I don’t gamble and I get burned out on partying after one night, but the shopping is what keeps me coming back.

  626. Yasmine says:

    I need to put a picture up for my avatar :)

  627. BeautifulBluegrass says:

    Kitty- I would be happy to meet you out there, but you may also want to also ask Gail, OC and…. who else is in Cali? They are within driving distance.

    Maybe some of us should plan a get together?? Seriously. Who’s in?

  628. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    SV: ur so bad…

  629. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    Yasmin: I think that was my faulty wording there… but I think you know what I mean…

  630. Spanish Vixen says:

    kitty: so long as our war includes a kiddie pool full of jello…I’m all for it! I love you too 😀

  631. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    SV: u and I are going to have a full out war soon lol…. I love u.. ur adorable

    BBLG: hmm.. I will keep that in mind… Cuz I do want to go to Las Vegas… just don’t want to be dead

  632. Yasmine says:

    No Kitty I am not trying to convince myself that he is wonderful I thought you asked how I felt about him?!
    Thanks Sam, yeah whenever I travel I always keep extra cash with me..usually around a couple hundred dollars just in case I would need a ticket back or I would have to pay for a hotel room myself or food or stuff like that.
    I already told a bunch of my friends and my sister who lives with me and also my sister who lives in Long Island that I was going to meet a stanger.
    I like Nyc because it is not far from me and there is sooo much to do and sooo much to see :) I cant wait for a SD to take me to go see a play or just walk around 5th Ave!!! Just going to see museums or historic or beautiful places always make me happy lol no need for shopping.
    Kitty you are lucky I would love to visit LV someday :)

  633. NC Gentleman says:

    Yeah I can’t believe someone would go to another country and meet someone they have never met before 😉

  634. Spanish Vixen says:

    mina: I’m more jealous than kitty

    and so it begins…

  635. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    Mina: I am jealous too…

  636. Spanish Vixen says:

    I’m an Atlanta SB. If any of you come down here and don’t make plans to meet me…I will find you and give you a “stern talking to” 😛

    Mina: oh la la! I’m jealous 😉

  637. Mina says:

    Great shopping in Vegas, I may be going this weekend.

  638. BeautifulBluegrass says:

    Nope, Kentucky, but I would make that sacrifice for you! I haven’t been in a few months so….
    Actually, are there any NV SBs on the blog?

  639. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    This might be weird, but I know that if I travel somewhere and I get lost, stranded or whatever, I just need internet, and I can come on this blog, and if I’m near one of u SA bloggers.. one of you will try and help me. That gives me great comfort.

  640. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    haha ok… r u in LV?

  641. BeautifulBluegrass says:

    I’ll go with you kitty. Gotta make sure you are safe 😉

  642. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    Traveling to a city that I know no one to meet a SD for the first time is hard for me personally. That’s why I am iffy on going to LV with this pot. SD in 2 weeks. if I travel to LV, that’s another country! even BUFFALO is another country

  643. BeautifulBluegrass says:

    Yas- *giggle* It is part of a ceiling in the Caesar’s Palace in Vegas (which I LOVE)

  644. Spanish Vixen says:

    All of you sugars are so loving and caring 😀

    best sugar family ever!

  645. Mina says:

    I agree with Sam, make sure you will be able to take care of yourself/have a plan B “just incase”

  646. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    Yasmin: don’t try and convince us he’s ok… know in your heart that he is good… let one of your friends know where u are and why.. to see whom.. if not, tell of one of these NYC SBs. safety’s first.

  647. Sam 267369 says:

    Yasmine, he seems to have a classy approach, the kind I like. Make sure you have the pocket money to get your own transportation back, just in case.

    Have a good time.

  648. Spanish Vixen says:

    Yasmine: just make sure you’re safe. :)

  649. Yasmine says:

    BBL is that food in your picture? hummmm now you making me hungryyyyy

  650. Mina says:

    kittylainy – Shopping courtesy of my SD, haha. I will put off buying dress pants for as long as I can… I’ll even try to work around that when I start to work!
    Atlantian – I’m guilty of leaving the house in leggings on a few occasions.

  651. BeautifulBluegrass says:

    Maybe… but if I am not in contact with them, or are talking to them off the site, why would they care?

  652. Yasmine says:

    No he doesnt have the confirmation number yet, we are still talking about the details of our meeting and we agreed he would email me the number as soon as we decide which day I will be going to the city.
    Kitty I think he is really nice and caring and he sounds like he has absolutely no time for bs.
    I looooove dresses and skirts :) pants occasionally but only for work..
    I wish I was skinnier, all the fat keeps going to my a… and my hips lol

  653. Spanish Vixen says:

    awww Atlantian, thank you *blush* the second pic is from a body painting shoot I did a few weeks ago. that was my favourite picture that could be cropped to not show the no-no bits!

    honestly, I adore dress pants. But they have to hug your booty JUST right. They’re so comfortable, and you can do so much with them. I like dresses, but I’m more of a skirt with a super cute top kind of chick

  654. NC Gentleman says:

    Hey BBL — maybe to check your last login? I check that on people on occasion and there is no way to stop it that I know of…… :)

  655. OCSugarbaby says:

    Hey, to all that do the VLOG… Good luck with that…

  656. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    Atlantian: I want to buy a pair of leggings.. can’t find them anywhere anymore.. I caught onto the trend slow

  657. Spanish Vixen says:

    kitty: would I really be “taking advantage”? I would think mutual aerobic exercise…

  658. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    NC: I was kidding btw.. I haven’t even seen ur profile

  659. Atlantian says:

    That 2nd picture is awesome, SV! You’re gorgeous, and I’m jealous! haha

    Is it bad to say I’m a leggings girl? Don’t get me wrong, I love jeans, dresses, skirts too…but leggings are my weakness. haha.

  660. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    Mina: totally agree.. let’s go shopping together!! Dress pants are classic for work. I have straight leg ones with a matching blazer that I wear on blizzardy days (like today) so my legs don’t fall off

  661. Spanish Vixen says:

    Yasmine: I agree. I never ended up meeting the Baltimore man because of scheduling issues and I think he got wife-guilt, but he had offered to fly a friend up with me. That kind of gesture helps assure me that he would be an okay man.

  662. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    Atlantian: If only we could tell our body where to distribute our fat… I have been lazy going to the gym lately. I think I’ll go tonight though…

    NC: I check your profile everyday before I go to bed….

    SV: alright… I dunno.. do u plan to get me drunk and take advantage of me?

  663. Mina says:

    kittylainey – I’ve never been a fan of dress pants, but I do love Rock & Republic jeans! Dresses and skirts are so much easier and can look effortlessly chic.

  664. BeautifulBluegrass says:

    NC- that is creepy. There is no way to stop that? And why would they do that??? argh

  665. Spanish Vixen says:

    Atlantian: 281654

    Kitty: I have cherry vodka at my house. We should net-drink together this evening 😀

  666. NC Gentleman says:

    Hey BBL — you have people that viewed you in the past that are viewing your profile again. My profile is hidden and the number of views is about 5 times the number of people who have viewed me… stalkerish???

  667. Mina says:

    Yasmine – if he already has a confirmation number for you, he would have booked the hotel already… Why would be have booked the hotel without your final decision?

  668. Atlantian says:

    Yasmine, I know SV did this a while ago, but I think you should ask if you can bring a friend. Just to be on the safe side.

    And yeah sometimes I wish I wasn’t so skinny, I have ample curves, but I want a VS body, lol. One bad thing about me gaining weight is that I always seem to gain it in the face. It’s really unsettling, haha. I just want to tell the fat to go to my boobs!

  669. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    Yasmin: how do you feel about this one? does he sound like a caring, truthful gentleman?

    Mina: I am not a pant person.. I own 1 pair of dress pants and 1 pair of jeans.. that’s it.. I am def. a skirt/dress type girl.

  670. BeautifulBluegrass says:

    That is awesome Yasmine! Glad you found out about that NYC guy before you got there.

    Question for everyone…. how the heck are people looking at my profile? I “hid” it but my number of views keeps going up…?

  671. Mina says:

    kittylainey – Banana Republic does not fit me well, even their petite sizes, as I have a tiny waist. I would have to have major alterations done which would probably equal the cost of the clothing. I usually steer clear of pants, no matter what the brand or designer, unless custom made/fitted.

  672. Yasmine says:


  673. Yasmine says:

    Ooooooh everyone has an avator now :) I want one! :)

  674. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    SV: haven’t tried either… perhaps I should!!! Is it a vodka night tonight?? yes it shall be :)
    That’s a blatant lie and you know it… Canada (abbrev) doesn’t need Alaska..

  675. Spanish Vixen says:

    Mina: Journalism. But I want to go more into something like Vogue.

  676. Atlantian says:

    haha thanks SV! I don’t remember your profile pictures, though….Can I get them digits? lol

    I think the trick to F21 is to find something that you don’t think will fall apart. I never get satin stuff from there, usually it’s a jersey dress that I know will last me for a while.
    No shoes, because cheap shoes do fall apart, and I’ve heard horror stories.
    Jewelry is usually a no-go, but I did find this cute necklace…lol

  677. Yasmine says:

    Ok guys remember that pot SD I was supposed to meet in NYC but I had a weird feeling about ? Well I am not going to meet him anymore lol. Turns out, he is looking for some company while in the city and then going right back to London…hum yeah not for me.
    But the other one I am talking to right now sounds legit and he is willing to take care of my transportation, hotel expenses and miscellaneous expenses while I am in nyc. He has a house in the city but he is paying for a hotel room under my name so I could be comfortable. He will email me the confirmation number so I can call the hotel myself and verify that the room is reserved under my name. Should I give him a try?

  678. Spanish Vixen says:

    I wouldn’t want to be skinny. I’m trying to polish my body off right now, but I’m not too concerned about it. I’m healthy and I think I look fine :)

    No one can make me give up my cheez-its. NO ONE 😛

  679. Mina says:

    Spanish Vixen – Just to be clear, what “industry” are you referring to?
    Balmain reminds me of Versace a bit.

  680. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    Atlantian: nothing wrong with model skinny.. I wish I was skinnier… I take my jealousy out in bad ways….

  681. Spanish Vixen says:

    kitty: gray goose? That crap’s so over rated. Get some three olives or chopin vodka…way better 😉 I’ll bring up some non flavoured. We can keep each other warm.

    I thought she was up to something. Latest gossip is she wants to buy Alaska back.

  682. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    Mina: Club Monaco used to be great, their clothes has gotten a lot more yuppie then chic… Banana Republic is a good alternative

  683. Atlantian says:

    awww guys, leave the skinny girls alone! I’m actually almost, if not, model skinny but I’m short, so alas I’ll never make it to the runways.

    I do eat a lot. I just have an incredibly high metabolism from genes and playing massive amounts of sports as a kid. But…I do have a soft spot for my cheek and collar bones…just sayin’. lol

  684. flowerpush says:

    ROFL Lainy!

  685. Spanish Vixen says:

    Atlantian! You’re so cute!!

  686. BeautifulBluegrass says:

    I have only bought 1 item from Forever 21 that didn’t fall apart. Now a lot of their clothing is too young for me, plus my taste is a bit less trendy and more classic than it was when I was in college.

  687. Spanish Vixen says:

    Is there a Balmain in the USA? I can’t read (is that french?)…I REALLY want to go shopping now. thanks guys 😛

  688. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    SV: sounds like a plan.. cherry vodka snowcones… but I’d prefer my vodka greygoose and non-flavored lol…

    Actually, it is little known fact that celine dion used her Vegas show revenue and bought all of Canada. It has been official renamed to “Celine And Now A Dion Area” but to keep the rest of the world being confused, we kept it as CANADA.

  689. Spanish Vixen says:

    Mina: It’s still taboo, but it’s becoming more socially acceptable. I’d often considered that it might give me undesirable exposure, but with the people I DO know from the industry…they’re all quirky too. lol

  690. flowerpush says:

    Forever 21 is so cheap but they have such good quality stuff. I love it.

    Balmain isn’t really my style, too girly and frilly and pink lol.

  691. Atlantian says:

    Here’s my profile number:

  692. Yasmine says:

    Whoops I am disturbing the convo lol sorry guys

  693. Spanish Vixen says:

    holy crap….Balmain stuff is amazing….I’m starting to fall in love

  694. Mina says:

    Atlantian – I did not make the comment about Disney channel.
    Spanish Vixen – If they’re bound to find out, wouldn’t you rather be the one to tell them? And as far as networking, don’t you think the subject is taboo and wouldn’t give you desirable exposure?
    I have never had success with anything from Forever 21, be it accessories or clothing. I’d much rather spend extra money for something well made. I have a soft spot for Club Monaco as far as everyday clothes.

  695. Yasmine says:

    he is 55 years old and look pretty good for his age. :)

  696. BeautifulBluegrass says:

    Kitty- you rock! I thought it would be harder to geta pic up. I might change my avatar a horse later but I’ll wait for a bit 😀

  697. Spanish Vixen says:

    kitty: we can just sit around and drink cherry or pomegranate flavoured vodka and eat snow so that we feel like we’ve eaten.

    Celine Dion…isn’t she like Prime Minister up there by now? 😉

  698. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    SV: lmao.. I shall cook u Canadian bacon in my igloo.. we can listen to Celine dion too :) but we’re not allowed to eat bacon.. because we need to be anorexic hot

  699. Spanish Vixen says:

    kitty: I’m ashamed. Eating is for pansy’s. Being unhealthy and on the verge of death is IN!

  700. Atlantian says:

    I do like H&M…Too bad there’s not one in Athens or an online store. I’d be stocking up :-)

  701. Spanish Vixen says:

    kitty: what about your canadian bacon? Will you make me a nice meal in your igloo? We can party hardy :D. I’ll bring the booze.

  702. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    SV: damn.. I ate lunch today

  703. flowerpush says:

    I thought it was a bit odd too NC Gent. I’m kind of leery.

    I can look 15 if I don’t try not to. I’m also checking out Balmain.

  704. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    o my.. $26 us for a pair of jeans??… even if they’re for lounging around it’d be worth it

  705. Spanish Vixen says:

    kitty: because anorexic chicks are hawt! 😛

    I adore H&M. We finally got one near my house, and I nearly live in it. lol

  706. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    SV: come to Canada.. I will show u our igloos and maple syrup

  707. Spanish Vixen says:

    Atlantian…I don’t think I’ve ever seen your picture..

  708. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    it’s like H&M.. meets lindsay lohan!!!! cute… but not my style….

    why are the models on the site stick thin and pose like they haven’t eaten in weeks?….

  709. Yasmine says:

    I am talking to him right now! we are talking bonds, portfolio and real estate :) I am an economics major so he is already teaching me a LOT! :)

  710. Spanish Vixen says:

    thanks Stephan! okay, I’ll try to get this done on Friday :) I really do actually want to read the book, lol.

    Kitty, you know I’ve never been to Canada? Hummm

    NC: He may. I know a lot of authors use different pen names. I’ve been debating whether I should or should not…hehe

    one day, ONE DAY, I will write the best book on the face of the earth. And I’ll make a shoutout to all of you 😉

  711. Atlantian says:

    Oh, please do SV! Balmain’s stuff is to die for.

    lol. My age can be ambiguous. I look young. I can probably pass for high school still. But then some have asked me if I’m out of college. I dress maturely because I don’t want to be seen as a 15 year old. Graphic T’s aren’t even in my wardrobe for that very reason lol. And because I just don’t like them.

  712. NC Gentleman says:

    I think it would be odd that he was published author and didnt come up on google… google catches about everything… maybe he uses a different pen name for authoring?

  713. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    *forever 21 haha

  714. stephan says:

    SV: All submissions must be made before February 10th – but the early birds will get more views 😉

  715. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    Michael Kors… mm my little affordable luxury…
    they might have flower 21 at certain cities.. none in Toronto that I know of… Perhaps montreal or vancouver?

  716. flowerpush says:

    ATL, I wasn’t offended lol. I don’t get offended that easily. I’m an old pro at chat rooms and forums. I know how it goes. I also LOVE the Backyardigans.

    Lainy, Forever 21 is the best store ever IMO. It’s pretty cheap and you can find some good things there. I usually shop only there and the thrift. I was on the Bebe site earlier and those Alice Cutaway Leather Sandal in yellow. :O I want so bad but they’re $140. That’s two cell phone bills lol.

    NC- What would be odd? Sorry I’m a bit slow.

  717. Spanish Vixen says:

    Now I’m going to have to go check out Balmain…yum

  718. Spanish Vixen says:

    I feel so dirty about myself now. lol. 13…lets see….that would put me in the 8th grade! ahhhh

  719. Atlantian says:

    haha Forever21 is pretty much the cheap college students solution to all their wardrobe problems!
    I thought they had stores in Canada? Apparently not…

    They have too many knock-offs to count, though. But I usually stick with clothing so I don’t have to worry about cheap shoes/purses falling apart within a few days.

    My designer? Balmain. I wish I could afford his stuff. Everything is so gorgeous.

  720. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    LMAO @ 13 y o SV

  721. Spanish Vixen says:

    flower: 13?! I think my chest defies that! Normally I get 15-16 lol

  722. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    I think maturity is an attitude, an outlook in life that has nothing to do with what you find entertaining.

  723. Spanish Vixen says:

    Mostly I love Chanel jewlery, shoes, and handbags :)

    Prada…I adore 😀

  724. flowerpush says:

    SV, you do look like you’re around 13. :O but very pretty.

    I’m up for being controlled in the bed but that’s about it. I am a pretty submissive woman but only with someone I deserves my submission. That person would like me for me.

  725. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    I love Bebe,… I have a lot of dresses from them. Marsciano is gorgeous too

    I think I am going to take a peek at their website. I am not a big fan of Chanel or Prada clothes. Though I did buy a Prada skirt suit when I was in Milan with my parents.

  726. Spanish Vixen says:

    Atlantian: blues clues?! sweet 😀

    I find myself watching the Suite life of Zach and Cody quite a bit >__>

  727. Yasmine says:

    Humm it has me wondering….The only info I found was a company based in Tokyo with branches worlwide and he did tell me that he sold his business a while ago but was still heavily involved in it. hummm *scratching my head*

  728. Spanish Vixen says:

    I’m with Stephan! I discovered that I can rent a camera from school, so I’ll probably grab one this week and make a video.

    Is there a “due date” for this?

  729. Atlantian says:

    Oh sorry, flowerpush! I didn’t mean to offend about the Disney thing. It’s just something I’ve grown out of (I do still like Blue’s Clues and the Backyardigans, though!!!)
    As long as you can still be mature, there’s no reason to worry.
    I just don’t like when SDs want a young woman just to have someone young. Can you appreciate me for my mind and love of Blue’s Clues, too? lol

    And try to find him on amazon or something. He might just be published in magazines and what not. I’d definitely ask where you could read his works.

  730. NC Gentleman says:

    Flowerpush — that wouldn’t be bad but a little odd to me.

  731. Spanish Vixen says:

    Forever 21 is an amazing store. I love that, Bebe, and H&M. And then I also have a strange love for Chanel and Prada…

  732. stephan says:

    If you’re not in to the whole vlog thing, and/or don’t want to reveal your sugarself to the WWW, we all understand and respect your choice, but lets appreciate and support those who are interested in this :)

    Thanks to all who have sent in clips so far!

  733. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    What is forever 21?? is it a gem that the Americans kept from Canadians?

  734. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    hence my paper-bag-over-head idea….

  735. Spanish Vixen says:

    flower: I’ve found several different kinds of SD’s. Some want that control over a woman, which to an extent I enjoy and am willing to provide. Some like to be with a younger woman, and some men think I look very young…so I suppose it provides some sort of fantasy. I’m willing to oblige so long as “baby sitter” or “high school cheerleader” role playing doesn’t come into play. That just verges on…strange…for me. Not what I’m into. But I prefer an SD that is loving, kind, funny, and that I can just mutually have a good time with.

  736. flowerpush says:

    One of my pot SDs said he was a published author and I googled his name and nothing came up. Is that bad?

  737. flowerpush says:

    ATL those xs and s sizes are gone in the great picks a couple days after they are stocked. I used to work at Forever 21 and my manager told us don’t even bother to stock XL sizes rofl.

    Most of the SDs I meet aren’t looking to feel young, they want someone to control. That’s not me.

    I don’t feel like if you like Disney or musicals it means you aren’t able to hold an intelligent conversation and some SDs do. You can still be mature and like cartoons. There is something refreshing about the superficiality of them. I wouldn’t judge a 40 year old man that still played with a video game console. I don’t play them but if you do that’s your preference.

  738. NC Gentleman says:

    Hi Yasmine — I come up a few hundred times when you google me, so I am surprised that he doesn’t come up, but maybe he just keeps a low profile.

  739. BeautifulBluegrass says:

    OC, you said it so well. I would prefer to choose who knows what about me, especially when it comes to this sort of thing.

  740. Spanish Vixen says:

    Mina: by family, maybe, but with the amount that my parents use the internet…nah. I figure they’ll find out eventually, so I’m preparing myself for the inevitable. My parents wouldn’t be too thrilled about it, but they also know I’ve had an affinity for older men pretty much my entire life. Being in the major I’m in (Journalism) I plan on writing about my experiences in the future, too.

    I see it as a double edged sword. Depending on what you’re trying to get into, all of this exposure could get you noticed…whether that’s in a good way or a bad depends on what you’re looking for out of life. I’m nervous about exposure, but it gives me the possibility of getting some networking that will seriously help me in the future…so why not try?

    OC: They promote discretion, but know that not all of us care about discretion, and would like to use that to promote their site. They completely respect those that want full discretion, as do I. In interviews and such I have/will never EVER uncover the identity of a SD that I’m with. But as for myself…I’m willing to take the risk that could open doors for my future.

  741. SweetEuropean*264271 says:


  742. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    That doesn’t sound to promising Yasmine

  743. Yasmine says:

    Mina I googled both but came up with nothing :(

  744. Atlantian says:

    OC, that’s how I feel. I don’t want anyone to find out about me.
    If anyone needs testimonials, couldn’t they just head over to the blog? lol

  745. Atlantian says:

    I agree, Mina. Thankfully, the SD I found realizes that I’m still in school, we’ll have different tastes, etc. I can’t agree with you about the Disney channel or HSM, though. I am no longer a fan. I think that I have grown up a lot more than my peers and that I am able to hold a conversation just as well as some of the adults around me.
    At the same time, I don’t want my SD to feel 40 or 50. He should feel young if he’s with a young girl!

    But I do agree with you on the Forever21/Bebe thing. Mostly because I don’t have the type of cash to drop on the clothing at Bebe. Forever21 does disappoint me a lot though. I’m a size xs-s and either everyone else is, or the store in my area does not stock on these sizes like they should. lol

  746. Mina says:

    OCSugarbaby – You are spot on. Imagine how embarassing it would be to be recognized by a friend or acquaintance and have the “news” spread! I try to keep my anonymity on the blog… I haven’t even revealed which state I hail from. 😉

    Yasmine – So… What are you asking us about Googling for, then? You have all the information.

  747. Yasmine says:

    I did Mina, He gave me his name and his company’s name.

  748. OCSugarbaby says:

    I just want you to really think about this. I hate to be the ugly voice of reason. SA promotes discrestion yet they want us to come out from behind velvet curtain. I take the chance that the Blog will possibly uncover my identity. That is as risque as I choose to get. :)

  749. flowerpush says:

    Oh so this is where everyone is. I’m going to copy what I wrote on the last entry and paste it here because I want feedback.

    Hi all!

    It seems like something new irks me everyday about sugar relationships but I can’t give them up.

    The newest thing is a man wanting a 18, 19, 20 year old girl and expecting her to act like she’s 35+ years old. The way I see it is if you want a 35+ year old go get one. There are a lot of beautiful ones on the site. I’m not asking a 50 year old man to act like he’s 25, just be yourself. Unfortunately with some of the pot SDs I’ve met I don’t feel like I could be myself if I were with them. I like the Disney channel and all things Disney( I know all the songs on HSM), I love pop music and I put on my Britney Spears album and dance around in my underwear, I’d rather shop at Forever 21 than bebe, I HAVE TO DO HOMEWORK. If you don’t like it then find someone older. You can expect maturity but if you want a 20 year old to behave like a woman with 35 years of life experiences it’s a little unfair.

    What do you guys think?

  750. Mina says:

    Yasmine – Ask him his name and what he does for a living. No point in beating around the bush.

  751. Mina says:

    gurlnextdoor – I understand completely. Though my parents aren’t religious, they certainly aren’t open minded enough to understand these types of relationships. To me, it seems a tad disrespectful to go on camera and talk about it/”flaunt” it.

    Atlantian – This is true, people will judge what they do not understand. I personally do not see why someone would want to discuss something such as this on camera. I guess it’s just in my nature to keep certain things in my life seperate from others, be it dating, family life, school, etc.

  752. gurlnextdoor says:

    Hmm, well for me Yasmine I always start with a background check first, to make sure I’m not dealing with a potential crazy and then I casually ask for hints about his job, etc. and do some work to make sure what he says checks out.

  753. Yasmine says:

    Hey Guys I am trying to find some info on a pot SD but I am not finding anything. How do you guys usually go about “googling” someone’s name?

  754. Atlantian says:

    This is what I am concerned about Mina. In the near future, I plan on being on TV, so being in the public eye means that, really, people have every right to find out about the type of person I am.
    I don’t think it would be conducive to my career to have SA on my record, especially when, living under the Bible Belt, people can be so judgmental.

  755. gurlnextdoor says:

    Yeah Mina, I have that concern. I mean I know I’m comfortable with my lifestyle, but I know my over religious parents wouldn’t be, and I wouldn’t want them to find out.

  756. gurlnextdoor says:

    Hey Everyone, just got back to my room and checking out the blog. Personally, I would love to do a testimonial but I’m not good at monologues, especially taped ones that will be strewn across the internet, lol.

  757. Mina says:

    To those of you who are going to record a video – is there any concern about being found out from either friends, family, or employers?

  758. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    welcome back!
    I just got back from lunch…
    mmm had chicken curry rice… now I need a nap

  759. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    I’m back! Hmm, i’m trying to think of what to say in the video i’m going to make…

  760. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    SV: a good resource to find unbiased views is google news.. you can read news from US and the Iraq on the same topic and decifer which is the truth or is there a common ground

  761. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    wish I knew how to “technical support” lol soory red :(

  762. Spanish Vixen says:

    You have 😀 *bows*

    And I agree, far too many people watch the news, or listen to their friends and take their information as an absolute truth. Fox news is going to five a much different biased opinion about the war as opposed to CNN. If we, as a society, help make stupid decisions…we really can only blame ourselves for being too lazy to look at each side from an objective standpoint and judging each outcome in order to choose the best solution. But then again, we’re too busy wondering if Angelina and Brad are going to divorce, lol.

  763. sweetredhead says:

    All I get up is the profile page thats it, keeps going there

  764. sweetredhead says:

    no place where it says my account. I give up :(

  765. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    I’ve started an avatar trend… yay me!

    ^tooting own horn again

  766. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    lol the Iraq debate is difficult, there is so many different views to view it.. and there is no hard evidence on what the “truth” and the “meaning” of the war really is. We’re bombarded with a lot of different media expressing different views, us as a general public, need to be very critical of the information we recieve and use personal judgement to precieve this…”truth”

  767. Spanish Vixen says:

    Hmm. I may have a friend that I can steal their camera for a little while. I’ll have to think of what to say, also.

    Really random…but we’re debating about the war in Iraq in my class right now. I’m SO sick of this debate. Wish I could go back to Monday night when I was having a long, thought out argument about grammar and proper AP Style formats lol.

  768. kittylainy says:

    mm.. at ur school?? lol… I know some universities have a digital media department and u can rent one…..
    or…. u can do the buy it, use it and return it system.. it’s bad I know… just throwing ideas out there

  769. Spanish Vixen says:

    kitty: unfortunately I don’t have a digital camera either. :\ I really want to do this, but I have no means of recording video. hum…

  770. kittylainy says:

    SV: I think I am going to use my digicam and have it strategically placed… going to be interesting

  771. kittylainy says:

    when you sign in.. at the top, run your mouse over to my account and a scroll should come down… click on manage
    and then your e-mail profile should come up and at the bottom it saids “choose an image below….”
    so click on the pic u choose and

  772. Spanish Vixen says:

    if I can find a webcam or something, I think I’ll totally do this :). I’m not shy at all!

    everyone’s eating. hum. I had cheez-its and a rice crispy treat for breakfast. Yes, I’m so health conscious today, lol.

  773. sweetredhead says:

    I am going to eat lunch. Left overs from outback last night.

  774. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    I’m going to have breakfast, I hope everyone has a great day and don’t forget to play nice!

  775. kittylainy says:

    redhead: it is very difficult to explain over blog.. hmm.. wait lemme check

  776. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    I’m going to eat, i’ll be back later :)

  777. Gail says:

    I will be back later everyone. It’s time to get pretty:) Nice to hear that everyone is lively and perky this morning:) and look at all the pics…I will peek in from time to time:)

  778. sweetredhead says:

    main page? of what I don’t see a manage area :(

  779. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    NC- I love dark comedies, maybe I’ll give it a whirl again.
    Gail- thanks for clearing that up.
    Oh I know I should be working…..
    Colin is quite dishy looking

  780. kittylainy says:

    um go to your main page that saids “manage” and then just click on the uploaded image and it should pop up.

  781. sweetredhead says:

    Kitty I don’t see that anywhere to even to that

  782. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    Yes I loved Bruges! It’s so beautiful! :) Those cobbles were a bit of a challenge though!

  783. Gail says:

    Blondie-Oh I was just adding the Viva to it. Just like the Flinstones…and Elvis…LOL…thanks for clearing that up for me.

  784. NC Gentleman says:

    Blondie — In Bruges did start out slowly and it is a dark comedy. I think I enjoyed it because I have been there many times, and I absolutely love Bruges — it is so cool.

    Did you like Bruges, SE?

  785. kittylainy says:

    euro: I don’t know…. I think he reminds me of an old crush of mine that.. crushed my heart… :(

  786. kittylainy says:

    redhead, did you selectyo aar and confirmed it after uploading?

  787. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    Kitty how can you not be a fan?! His Irish accent is so sexy, it makes me melt! :)

  788. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Sweetreadhead it takes awhile, then pop! It’s there!

  789. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Hey Gail :) I guess I wasn’t too clear about what I meant- dizzy blonde this am :) I’ve heard of an event called “Viva Las Vegas” that’s held in Vegas…I know that people get all dolled up in vintage clothing, but that’s about it.

    Thanks for the compliment, do you think my avatar makes me look fat….lol!

  790. sweetredhead says:

    mine still is not showing up :(

  791. kittylainy says:

    Gail: I’m going in a week or so.. :) I love Vegas… it’s my fav. weekend party city.

    Ur welcome Blondie.. I did the work.. Nc did nothing.. but take credit :) hahaa

    Euro: not a fan of colin farrell

  792. Gail says:

    Las Vegas, Nevada BlondieNYC…It’s a city in Nevada. Hello my cupcake eating friend. It seems like you have been rushing around like crazy Blondie. Are you taking time to exhale? Love you green dress and the fellas gotta love it too:)

  793. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Wow! My avatar automatically showed up, that’s cool! I didn’t have to do a thing once I signed up to the gravatar thingy, thanks guys!

  794. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    Gail, I’ve heard about Viva Las Vegas for years, but only vaguely, what is it?
    NC- I tried, I really tried to watch En Bruges and was pretty bored by the beginning of it, does it get any better?

  795. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    I’m in the process of creating an avatar, should be interesting!
    NC- don’t say things like that about yourself!

  796. Gail says:

    I meant on the blog Ms. Kitty…LOL…I am relaxing all day today. Kind of like a midweek day off. I will be going to Viva Las Vegas:) I had to use my ticket. I have a bestfriend fella who lives there and we will be catching up. I haven’t seen him in 10 years. I hope it will be warm. I don’t like cold.

  797. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    I love Colin Farrel! I’ll try and rent the movie as soon as I can, it should be interesting to see Brugges :)

  798. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    It’s gone Kitty :) I was still a bit itchy this morning but there’s no redness like yesterday thankfully! It was terrible, even my ears were hurting me! LOL

  799. NC Gentleman says:

    Hey SweetEuro — that new picture on your profile is dead nice :)

    I watched “In Bruges” this weekend — it was kind of a dark comedy but interesting since I had been there… not sure if you like Colin Farrel but he was quite good in it… it is worth renting…

    Hope your search for an SD in Europe is going well :)

  800. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    Aww you can only see my eyes :(

  801. kittylainy says:

    Btw: how’s ur allergic reaction coming along sweeteuro? have U GOTTEN OVER IT yet?

  802. NC Gentleman says:

    Most women prefer me with a bag over my head :)

  803. kittylainy says:

    i see u sweeteuro!!!

    where’s everyone else’s?

    Gail: u love seeing me everywhere… :) Where u going??

    I say I want to put a testimonial.. I doubt I will get around to doing it.. (I stillh haven’t started on my paragraph) maybe I should mask my face too :) put on a Hello kitty mask or something lol

  804. kittylainy says:

    i like the paperbag over=head idea for nc

  805. SweetEuropean says:

    Ohh I think my picture’s showing :)

  806. SweetEuropean says:

    I agree with Gail NC! You should make one… just put a bag on your head or something so you’re anonymous!

  807. BlondieNYC*233868 says:

    While I like the idea of testimonials, it would make the experience more “real” to users i.e. they could connect the fact that real people are on it, I’m one of those who’d prefer to not have the spotlight shine on them.

  808. Gail says:

    Wonderful Sweet European. I look forward to the view. NC..LOL you’ll get over it…Just do one and mask your face…Make it fun!!!

  809. NC Gentleman says:

    I am suddenly feeling nervous lol

  810. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    I’m going to make my testimonial Gail! :)

  811. Gail says:

    I agree:) LOL

  812. sweetredhead says:

    I will keep my privacy thanks lol

  813. Gail says:

    Now who is going to make their testimonial for all of us and the world to view?(smile)

  814. Gail says:

    While I was sipping my tea…I see everyone migrated here. Now Kitty I see you whereever I go:) LOL…I want to go see Gran Torino too…I will be going out of town for the week, I guess I will do it then:)

  815. kittylainy says:

    I love these lyrics:
    “Always talking around this,
    I get things, everything I wanted…
    My own way, your time, goldmines,
    Loose guys, on my backless dresses, excess…

    I cannot help myself, I’m just going what I do…
    Got my heart set, do everything I want to, so thank you…
    I like it, and I do what I like..
    and you’ll do what I like then you’ll like it… ”

    … I am in such a good mood today :) I went to watch Gran Torino Yesterday was such a good movie

  816. kittylainy says:

    You have to wait 5-10 minutes…
    on the manage screen on the en.gravatar website, you can click on check this image (or something like that) and I think you need to click on that too

  817. sweetredhead says:

    ok didn’t work what did I do wrong :(

  818. sweetredhead says:

    Thank you NC and Kitty. I will make a big pot of sauce for both of you :)

  819. kittylainy says:

    That is true…

  820. NC Gentleman says:

    I am incapable of anything ingenious so I am left to steal from others – sorry :)

  821. kittylainy says:

    NC: stop taking credit for my ingenuity *growl*

  822. kittylainy says:

    just go to en.gravatar.com
    sign up and follow the prompts…
    now ur image will show on ALL your blogs as long as the e-mail address is attached to it….

    U owe me one too redhead… :) Homemade marinara?

  823. sweetredhead says:

    I want to know how to load the avitar too pleaseeeeeee

  824. kittylainy says:


  825. kittylainy says:

    u’ve got amil my dear

  826. NC Gentleman says:

    With you, I don’t consider it an expense :)

  827. kittylainy says:

    NC, if I tell you…… you would owe me another.. can u afford that?

  828. NC Gentleman says:

    How did you load your avatar Kitty?

  829. kittylainy says:

    look at my avatar!!

  830. NC Gentleman says:

    I am definitely NOT doing this for hopefully obvious reasons! I hope everyone has a great day!

  831. kittylainy says:

    I am definitely doing it, I just have to find the time…
    I don’t know what to say.. haha

  832. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    Oooh i’m seriously considering doing this! Hmm….

  833. Mina says:

    I would never record/ talk about/ write a testimonial about my experiences because I’m a very private person. I received an email a few weeks ago asking if I would perhaps be interested in an interview, but immediately declined even though it would have been anonymous. No point in putting myself, my family, my friends in the spotlight for something that’s still viewed as taboo…

  834. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Lol, you should go for it Atlantian, think of it as experience for your future career. And who knows, it may add to the amount of wonderful emails in your inbox.

  835. Atlantian says:

    I’m so on the fence about this. What if I’m found out? I guess it’s not like one can’t find me when browsing anyway…lol
    I’ll think about it.

  836. BeautifulBluegrass says:

    I would if I wasn’t so darn shy. To have everyone look at you when they go to log-in…. I get hot and sweaty (and not in a fun way!) just thinking about it.
    But SA rocks just the same! 😀
    Hope we have lots of people from the blog family make a clip- it would be so awesome to see them like that.