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Sugar Introductions



Many sugar bloggers have suggested we take the time to introduce ourselves 🙂

There’s no need to divulge anything you’re not comfortable with, and let us all remember to respect our unique sugar purpose here on SA, since a quick tour of blogs past will show that there’s no one “Right” type or approach to SA dating.

Initially, what brought you to SeekingArrangement?

Care to introduce yourself to the sugar blog?

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1,085 Responses to “Sugar Introductions”

  1. Kait says:

    I really don’t really know how I came into the sugarbaby world, but I just happened to be searching for different dating web sites and this was one of them. I could be wrong but I’ve been told that “most”, sugardaddy’s really want sex if they are to give you what you want. The thing is, I don’t go for that sort of thing. I don’t mind being in a relationship, but I don’t have to have the sexual part of that.
    I have soooo many questions and there’s really no way I can talk one-on-one with a sugarbaby, or babies. I’d really like that.

  2. Robidoux says:

    This is an excellent article! I hope to check back for more

  3. Bitner says:

    Nice post. There’s a similar topic thats related to this in Yahoo answers or Google groups, I think. I’ll find the link and post it back here.

  4. Perdre du poid says:

    Can you provide more information on this?

  5. Googe says:

    So my husband has found a new hobby. I think its pretty cute, hes now into rock tumbling. He bought all these ugly rocks, and turned them into something fabulous. Well my question is, when is someone too old to be playing with these things? I mean wouldn’t you think it sounds kinda wierd that my husband plays with rock tumblers? Anywho, he got the idea from one of his buddies at work. I get a chance to do girls not out with my girlfriends now more often so I guess im not really complaining cause I missed hanging with my friends ever since we had the baby in all.

  6. Bowey says:

    I agree with you 99% but wonder if you have really looked at the whole picture. DOn’t mean to be critical just food for thought.

  7. Nina says:

    Ok, I had a date from hell….I didn’t like him, I was not attracted to him at all and I did not want to go out with him again….

    I made 3 big mistakes:

    1) I told him my real name (just first name)
    2) I gave him my cell phone #
    3) We met at a place where I go to regularly…

    He obvioulsy didn’t take rejection very well, when I turned him down for a second date he started insulting me…..I wish I can post all his text messages here because they are quite entertaining.

    Some of the things he told me were:

    ” I can go out with someone younger, prettier and more educated than you, but I chose you because I see a great potencial in you” lol

    ” you have serious issues, perhaps you should seek a therapist or a life coach”….

    These are just some of the things he sends me in text messages and I can’t get rid of him…I was able to block him on this site but I don’t want to have to go change my cell phone number that I had for years because of one man who doesn’t take rejection very well…his profile Number is 95441
    BTW: he was my second SD date.

    MY very first date went SOOOO WELL!!!! we met on a Friday and ended up spending the entire weekend together… :):) we will be meeting again this Friday and we are planning on repeating our first date.
    Everything about him is soo perfect, he is a true gentleman, funny, handsome, romantic and best of all….he is single!!!

  8. Taisha says:

    What brought you to seekingarrangement?

    I married an adorable introverted nerd, if you will. He is sweet and I totally love him, but he doesn’t have the time and attention to give to me that I would love and appreciate. I’m the out-going-letsgodance-goonadventures-liveinthefastlane-type of gal. I just would really love someone to show me the world and take advantage of all the awesome opportunities it holds. I work really hard for the money I do have, but I would love to delve into the finer side of life. I love funny outgoing sweet-hearted men that like to indulge and have fun with life! I’ve got a lot of love/smiles to be given and had.
    I’m excited for this adventure to begin…

  9. Natasha says:

    hi amber…i am looking for advice 2…i am new at sd 2. well the first man i ever spoke to was from texas and i lived in florida. so i would feel comfortable he gave me all his information and i payed a website to run his background and personal life. since it was my first time and i was so nervous. he gave up. but at least he tried making me feel extra comfortable. i let a good chance pass me by. he was a multimillionaire. apparently these sugar daddys will make you comfortable to a certain extend. If it is 2 complicated he will move on. so it is either you close your eyes and do it or just tick to the guys near you which is what I am doing. do what makes you comfortable.

  10. amber says:

    Hello everybody, p

    Pretty new on seeking arrangement and new here.

    I am from Europe please forgive me my english!

    Great that you share your experiences inhere.
    Looking forward to here the answer to : GoodGirls says!

    Well I do need to here a advice or 2 of what you think about this:

    I got the first contact with a potential SD.
    He send me link to see a photo of him. The link is to a financial newspaper.
    I am able to google him as well.

    We spoke shortly on phone.
    He invited me to have a dinner in another country (still Europe)
    I told I wanted seperate room in the hotel and he was ok with that.

    Then I wrote in a mail! Please make shure that I will not bee alone with you in a car before we had have dinner or longer conversation.

    I think he got a little turned off and wrote that he gave me all posibilites to see who he was and so on, did not understand my “fear”…

    -As this could be my first date ever, with a stranger I am carefull. Do you SBabes think I am to carefull?

    I was thinking that even if the man is who he is telling me it dosent mean that he can not be someone dangerous.

    Look at the former president from Israel, who is now accused for rape and other agressive sexual behavior from more than one woman.

    Anyway I wrote him back that I do fell ok meeting him but that he is a stranger to me and I rely on him to make me feel safe… Havent heard from him since..
    If he is really the man that I can read about on different websites, I think that we could have a great time toogether;)
    I really would like to meet him.
    I felt good when we spoke on the phone and I think we could have a fantastic time toogheter.

    Please tell me what you think about it.
    Would you feel safe enough to get into a car with someone just because they are googleable?
    It could be that the googleable man had someone looking like him…. Well guess I am having a good imagination here. Life just learned me that reality often is more surprising than any film.

    Looking so much forward to here from you out there.

  11. tia says:


    I’m new to this. like.. right now new. lol.
    any advice?

  12. Natasha says:

    Hi everyone,
    I have decided to sugar date. I am totally new at this and need advice. Monday I met my SD and we got along well. hes the whole package and more than what i expected. He showed me his offices on our first date and ended up at starbucks that night. that night he ended it with a kiss and told me straight up I am beautiful and he wants me. next week we have plans on meeting again but i dont know what to do. can someone please advice me.

  13. PJ says:

    hi girls, finally tomorrow I have my first dinner with a potential SD, after some months and guys who don’t seem to be serious or are too serious about this whole arrangement situation, we’re going dinner to talk and see if we can hit it off, I already told him what I want a month, and he is ok with it, I guess I just need to be pretty and nice lol, I’m totally struggling with money right now so I’m trying to get him. He seems nice, lives close by, I just hope he’s not looking for a girlfriend material.

    Any suggestions????

  14. GoodGirl says:

    Hi! I just put up my profile yesterday, have never done this before–(through a website that is..) I think I have read all of you SB blogs for over2 hours!! Very helpful, thank you; but I still have a few questions I need help with. O.K., so how do you say in a ‘professional’ manner “HOW MUCH ARE YOU GOING TO PAY ME?!” i posted yesterday and have had dozens of responses, I emailed one SD, he said he was going to be in town next month for 4 days. I said yes I would like to meet with him, and asked what his itinerary was, or what he ‘expected’ he came back with dinner, casino, or just vegging ?…. anyways…not the response I was looking for…any suggestions??
    Thanks girls for your help! 🙂

  15. LadyChromeRider says:

    Well, here goes….first of all, I get this sneaking feeling that I’m one of the older ladies on here. I’m 40 years old, divorced (for many years), and a Colorado native. I’ve been a few places in the world thanks the my Military service. I work a square job Monday through Friday and I really do like it. In my spare time though, my real love is my Harley…so as anyone can imagine, it’s serious bonus points if I find someone that I can go riding with! However, I can say that I’m getting a bit tired of spending time with no ‘personal friend’. (Suffice to say…those times when you go out with your friends – all of whom have a significant other – and I don’t. Sometimes it’s rather awkward.)

    I came to this site because first off, I do enjoy spending time with older men. It has been my experience that older men at least have a few manners and something to talk about besides football and basketball. Also, they seem to be more attentive. Despite the fact that I’m very self sufficient, I do like being treated like a lady. Also, there are a number of ‘younger’ guys out there (my age or younger) who are either interested in getting laid right off the bat or having me provide for them!

  16. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    Hi Lauren,
    They all moved to a new subject on the blog.
    Now change over to Little Black Book.
    Here everyone will be happy to help you.

  17. New2This says:

    Thats for clearing that up for me. Lauren: Im new too so I dont have any advice yet. But the best thing to do it search and send out many emails just to get more responces

  18. Lauren Renee says:

    I haven’t had any luck on this site yet, so I was wondering if anyone had any advice

  19. OCSugarBaby says:

    New2This: NSA=No Strings Attached. I think that reading thru some of the old blogs will be very helpful. Some really great stuff back in October and November of 2008. 🙂

  20. Lauren Renee says:

    NSA=No Strings Attached

  21. New2This says:

    Can someone please tell me what NSA means? Im new to the SA lingo

  22. New2This says:

    I was on last night and got some great advice from some of you guys.. Thanks… So whats the topic today? I still havent found a SD but Im waiting. Also (no disrespect) I have found that there are lots of African American SB’s. I think that is great. Although I have never dated a white man before I see there are lots of them and they out number the blacks ones. I prefer black men. I am mixed with all colors of the rainbow but theres nothing wrong with a perference right? Well just starting a conversation. Anyone care to input?

  23. Lauren Renee says:

    Initially,what brought you to Seeking Arrangement?

    Well,like most of the young ladies on here,I am a struggling college student so I came up with this brilliant plan to find a sugar daddy.I actually thought it would be an interesting experience to have.I have tried other sites but haven’t had much luck.I guess I’m too shy.

    Care to introduce yourself to the sugar blog.

    Hi Everyone!!!!!

    My name is Lauren and I am 19 years old.I live in Chicago but I am originally from Marietta,Georgia.At the moment I am trying to get my degree in psychology but my real passion is fashion merchandising.My dream is to become a buyer for a store like Kitson in L.A.I am a very goal oriented person and I keep a journal of the 100 things I want to complete in life.I haven’t completed many things on the list but I’m trying.I am really obsessed with fashion magazines.I love watching movies starring Marilyn Monroe.I just adore her.My favorite television shows are House and The Girls Next Door.I love all types of music except for rap.I really love shopping but I wouldn’t want to spend all day in the mall.I wish I could travel all over the world but I have a fear of planes.I guess that’s it for now.

  24. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Greetings, sugars! I’m dropping in here before heading to the newest blog to say: I was texting and chatting with a pot SD, and he wanted to meet sometime next week. But then we started to discuss the sort of arrangements we’re looking for, and apparently he’s more interested in long-term, ACTUAL relationship, marriage-in-the-future stuff… So, needless to say, we aren’t meeting anymore. I did, however, refer him to a millionaire dating site and wish him luck, because he really is a NICE guy. Just my luck for not wanting a serious relationship… 🙁 Okay, headiing to the new one now!

  25. Tony: Profile Number 287167 says:

    thats from the dave chappell show. when he ask them to go to manhatten to get some ethiopian milk for him to drink… 🙂

  26. Tony: Profile Number 287167 says:

    thats gross, please dont write that guy….

  27. Tony: Profile Number 287167 says:

    What the fuck r u all talking about preg milk???

  28. Cat says:

    BeachGirl: I’ve already done chocolate too lol. Famous chocolate *wink* lol.

  29. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    Hi sugar land only have a couple mins….I got a reply from a message I sen out yesterday….Sounds promising he lives in manhattan…although i’m not sure if hes looking for gf or sb….we’ll find out though =) Then got a message from this guy saying that he has to be honest he has read the blog & he liked me…not exactly how he worded it but it was a very sweet message….he wants to take me to dinner next time hes in my city….maybe things are looking up….who knows? well goodnight babies & daddies….sweet sugar dreams!!!!

  30. Ebony says:

    I have a question….how do you know if a SD is a premium or not? and whats the the diff between blue and orange profiles?

  31. Ebony says:

    He is like super weird. I know I wondered what was a natural chocolate woman too lol….Ewww preg.milk yukkk!!!! He is something else.

  32. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Ok Ebony first thing I saw lol, was he makes under $100k a year. Sorry but no SD that makes under $100k a year is gonna be able to afford my allowance, lol. Ok now to continue…oh and he says he can pay $1-3k a month, haha.

    He’s too short lol…sorry just noticing these things. 🙂 What the hell is a “natural chocolate woman” lol???? And I can’t read half of his profile, this is pathetic, lol. Not to mention if preg. milk is pregnant milk that is just sick, lol.

  33. Ebony says:

    Thank God gal….read this creep’s profile….aint he bizarre? and what the hell is preg.milk? Lmao! 182837

  34. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    I’m here Ebony!!! 🙂

  35. Ebony says:

    Is any one here? I just read the most disgusting profile and I have to share it with someone!

  36. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Hey everyone, going back and reading over what I missed today on the blog.

  37. Tony: Profile Number 287167 says:

    This is my myspace page myspace.com/tonychocolate

  38. Tony: Profile Number 287167 says:

    Hi ladies, i’m back

  39. Ebony says:

    Did everyone leave?

  40. Ebony says:

    I’m here

  41. just me says:

    night BG… is anyone else still here?

  42. just me says:

    Thanks BG, Lisa was here everyday! I’m surprised she’s not here! Hope it’s because she is having some fun with a wonderful SD!! She really deserves a break and I’m sure any SD would be lucky to know her!

  43. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Well good night Sugars!!! i have to work early tomorrow
    talk to you all tomorrow !

  44. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    just me~ i don’t know Lisa but i think Gail said she was taking a break not sure though

  45. Katherine says:

    you’re all vets from the blog I take it?
    Gail, thanks for telling me about Kitty being a vet and that she’s still prominent. I really didn’t mean to step on any toes.

    Boy has this blog been BUSY today!!!

  46. just me says:

    What happened to Lisa? Did she finally find her SD??

  47. Gail says:

    Yeah sure. Just follow the yellow brick road….follow the yellow brick road….see you Rancho SB at our world:) that’s where everyone is:)

  48. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Jamisen~ totally right

  49. just me says:

    just used my correct e-mail address, but don’t remember how to get to the site you have to go to, to post a pic here! I’m sure one of the other sugars knows how! Anyone care to help???

  50. Jamisen says:

    No, he didn’t give up. I’m sure as SBs we get a lot of creepy messages, but this one just stuck out to me because of his profile. I always look at profile before I read the message. And the profile was all about how he wants to really get to know a girl before you exchange pics, contact info… sounds like a cautious man, right? And then it’s 1:30AM!!! That’s when he sends a message that only asks to meet up. I gave him a chance to get to know me.. I mean I wasn’t going to go out and meet him at that time of night.. he could’ve asked me a few questions if he really wanted to meet me and wait until a decent time to meet..

  51. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    how did you get a pic up here?

  52. just me says:

    wondering the same thing BG, seems all the blogging happens during the day!! 🙁

  53. Ebony says:

    Lmao Jamisen i thought he gave up!

  54. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Where is everyone tonight?

  55. Gail says:

    Nico….you are a goofball:) ….and so am I….loved your joke:)

    Hey Jamisen…I have met someone when they said they were coming to town on short notice. We actually e-mailed once, talked once on the phone…He is one of my good SD friends for a year now…I don’t have a problem with meeting them for dinner or lunch at a place of my choice, driving my own car, on my own turf, and all of my SB friends call me while I am at dinner….LOL….I put a two hour time limit and am always home by 9:30pm at the latest. Actually we had great conversation and had a lot to talk about. It may be just my experience, I am cautious but really I know how to handle situations when they come up…..Like SCREAM and KICK BALLS & FINGERS TO THE EYES!!!! lol….

  56. just me says:

    Jamisen- that guy sounds like someone I was chatting with once before. He didn’t like the idea of spending too much time getting to know me, it was just about meeting… ie; Sex! Lucky for me, I’m smarter than he’d like me to be! LOL

  57. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    J ~ they all have premium well almost all
    that doesn’t mean anything i don’t think , anyone can pay 20$ you know
    i could if i wanted too but as you know i only got bs mails so whats the point!

  58. Jamisen says:

    BG- Goodness NO I did not contact him first! And he doesn’t have a picture up although he is a premium member.

  59. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    jamisen lol
    that is so weird, do you know what he looks like?
    did you contact him first?
    i’m miss Question a lot tonight lol

  60. just me says:

    Hey OC, not sure what happened to my pic. I’ll have to check it out. Does anyone remember how to get to the site to put a pic up here? I forgot how I did it last time!! LOL

  61. Jamisen says:

    BG- I copied and pasted what I wrote last night.

    “2nd rant of the night- It’s so annoying when a man sends you a message. I check out his profile first. He sounds good. Then I read the message and it goes along the lines of “I’m in town, let’s meet tonight.” HELLO! It’s 1:30 AM on a weeknight. My profile says I work and go to school a lot. I am not an escort. So I make an offer- if you’re truly about getting to know someone, ask me a question about me… and the response is “Well I’m leaving town the day after tomorrow, let me know if you want to meet soon.” UGH.”

    and now he sends the third creepy message tonight.

  62. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Jamisen what creepy guy? and no i was here til 9 last night… and didn’t go back and read it all . i work on a computer all day ,

  63. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Jamisen~ i wasn’t going far it was right here in town!

  64. Jamisen says:

    I don’t know how many of you read the craziness that was going on the blog last night, but the ultra creepy guy just sent me another message. All it said was, “any plans tonight?”


  65. Nico says:

    Mina, Nina, Nico and the Santa Maria? *giggle*snort*

  66. Jamisen says:

    I’m so sorry to hear that about your friend. But regardless of what happened to her, you still shouldn’t be going that far without feeling comfortable! If you have any qualms about a person, you shouldn’t be meeting him in person just yet.. even in your own town!

  67. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Jamisen~ i will insist, i’m ok with meeting him alone, just not too sure. A friend of mines friend got kidnapped last week !! she just told me tonight so i’m gonna be careful…

  68. Jamisen says:

    Hello everyone! Wow, it took me almost an hour to catch up from where I left off last night! Sad news- the disappearing pot SD never sent a follow up email… I wonder how I scared him off 🙁

    HenriLouis- I love your advice because I’ve been using it even before you posted it up! But it still bothers me that I put all this effort into researching the SD and writing thoughtful messages, they read it, and don’t answer. I can only hope everyone else is having better luck than me!

    BG- I’m going to chime in here and hope that you insist on meeting in a public place when you two speak on the phone. If he’s really who he is, I’m sure he’s used to working with restaurants to get a table that’s a little more secluded, etc.

    Nina- Vegas is very far away from you. And it sounds as though you’ve not familiar with Vegas… it’s not such a good idea for you to be travelling to an unfamiliar place to meet someone you don’t know. I assume he is handling all reservations.. which means that you are staying in a room HE paid for. Definitely continue talking to him until you feel comfortable (you shouldn’t have agreed to meeting him Vegas if you weren’t comfortable in the first place) or else ask him if he would mind travelling to meet you in your hometown.

  69. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    gnd~ are you here, being sneaky lol!!!

  70. SouthernGent2 says:

    New2This – Let it go. If he is seriously interested, he will come to you and be agreeable to meeting at a location that you are comfortable with.

  71. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    N2T~ if your not comfortable don’t go!

  72. New2This says:

    Hello Sugars. I was on last night and got some great advice from many of you. Well yesterday I got an email from a pot SD. Today I decided to write him back even thought he did not seem my type. He instantly asked me to meet him in NC ( I live in SC). Well I didnt feel comfortable doing because for one I have class in the morning and for two I didnt know much about him. Well after trying to explain it to him he insisted. But in the end I just said sorry I cant. He hasnt written me back since. Should I just let it go?

  73. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    SG2 i know, i need to be careful and i did send him that in the mail along with my # so i’ll see if he insists on meeting alone , i need to learn a lot more about him or find a bodyguard lol

  74. OCSugarBaby says:

    Just Me: Welcome back. Long time no blog. I give up on reading it too. What happened to your pic?

    Nina: We now have a Nina, Mina, and Nico. Wow that should be confusing.
    Why would he not come to you for the first visit. We try to stress that for your comfort a home town visit is best, however it has its modifications. If he did not make you feel comfortable flying out to Vegas, then he may need to take the time to do so. If he is afraid of identity thieft, you are asking him for his name and possibly place of business or company he works for. If he cant take the time to make you comfortable just think how the future will unfold. He needs to put your comfort first and you need to put your safety FIRST. Welcome! ~ OC

  75. SouthernGent2 says:

    BG – you really need to insist on a public place to meet first time. I am one of the most trusting people in the world, but I would never meet someone new (or expect someone to meet me) anywhere else but a very public place. You are putting yourself in a situation where you don’t have much control. Insist on a neutral site. Its much easier to get up and leave if things aren’t clicking.

  76. Nina says:

    Hi ladies, I’m new on this site and I haven’t got a clue about how everything work. I live in NY and met someone who lives in Vegas. We exchanged emails, talked over the phone and decided that we really liked each other. He bought an e-ticket for me to fly to Vegas for the weekend and I was very excited about it…..ultimately we canceled because I needed more proff from him about who he really is 🙁 he said he was a victim of identity thef and doesn’t feel confortable giving too much info.
    I was looking forward to my first SD meeting but scared at the same time. I don’t think I can just trust a total extranger and agree to spend the weekend with him without knowing for sure who he is… PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVISE!!!!

  77. raine*306712* says:

    Welcome to the blog, Just Me. It’s a skill that takes practice. *lol* [I usually start from the last comment I’d made and work my way down.]

  78. Just Me says:

    Hi All,

    I just tried to read this blog from the begining and finally gave up! It would take all night!! LOL

    Stephan, Thanks again for your help. You’re awesome!! 🙂

  79. raine*306712* says:

    Dang, OC, the whole weekend in mod? [hi.]

    Later, Gail; enjoy your meal!

  80. OCSugarBaby says:

    Lisa: You know I mean well and miss you horribly. I know you are reading this so here is my *hug*. Does your pigeon have a name? I was thinking about that earlier today. He deserves more than being referred to as pigeon.

  81. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Hey Sugars~
    yes you are all right , i sent him my phone# , told him i wanted to talk first..
    Gail~ call me BG it’s fine
    SE~ i’m sure he could do something low key but i don’t know he didn’t reply to my mail yet so…. hope he calls and i’ll talk , it’s better than typing, i do that all day then i come see you all here lol 🙂

  82. Gail says:

    Sorry….OC….yes that is a real prize:) LOL…I am so happy for your new apartment….how exciting!!!! Okay…all my fried chicken and salad is ready…lol…yeah…I finallly cooked it. Gonna eat….

    Chicken for you Lisa Penelope?…..

    Talk to everyone soon!!!

  83. OCSugarBaby says:

    Gail: The prize is that I am not in moderated I spent the weekend there and it was dark and lonely. I finally busted out of there on Monday! I get caught in the spam filter a lot. It gave me time to pack. I am so ready to move into my new apartment on Saturday!

  84. OCSugarBaby says:

    Lisa Penelope I mean it! I will throw a temper tantrum and tell all the newbies to meet SD and forget to EVER bring up allowance or to tell the SD that being an SB without allowance is good to do. *That ought to bring her a running…. hehehehe

  85. raine says:

    Hi, yall. I was browsing SDs just now, and I can’t help but wonder:

    *If a SD is premium (or certified, for that matter), shouldn’t his profile be as flawless [i.e., free of typos] as his dream/ideal SB?!

    ^You expect slim, I expect you – the alleged Ph.D. – to know how to spell!

  86. Gail says:

    LOL….OC he’s adorable:)

    Sorry….you are right OC….She’s our Beachgirl. We will keep her safe…

    Penelope….Penelope!!!!! we are calling you!!!!

    I wonder what you won OC….common Stephan…pull out the prize closet!!!!

  87. OCSugarBaby says:

    I won I won!!!
    Gail: You cant call her Beach, got one of those already too. 🙂
    Suthrn: Yes you are so well behaved in public, I feel proud to be out with you!

    Lisa Penelope…… 🙁 You dont want to make me sad, do you???

  88. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Yep that’s what I was saying OCSugar.

  89. SuthrnExec says:

    BG, gotta go with OC on that one – I wouldn’t ever ask or expect anyone to meet me at my condo without giving them something to put them at ease and to have assurance I’m for real. A little to fishy. If he’s that much of a star, he can arrange for something low-key at a restaurant or something – it will be private enough but in a public place so you’re ok with it.

    I mean, hell! I’m the model for Col. Sanders and I even met OC in public! 🙂

  90. Gail says:

    We hit it 1000…and OC is the luckiest sugar:) she is the 1000th entry…

    Yeah Beach…need an address, name…I thought you were gonna meet him at the somewhere public…

  91. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    i know that’s what i want to do
    i’m gonna mail back my phone # so at least i get to hear his voice.
    and figure it out from there i guess
    i’m off to dinner
    talk to you Sugars later

  92. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    hmm well if you feel like your comfy meeting him go for it…but personally I would want to at least him once or twice before meeting. At least talk to him on the phone, something! lol

  93. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Rachel~ good luck tomorrow!

  94. *Rachael* says:

    Thanks for the answers ladies! I appreciate it, I guess trusting my instincts is the best way to go, and meeting publically in the beginning will definately be the way I go. I’m going to talk on the phone to a potential SD tomorrow so I’m purty excited about that, I hope he’s cool and everything he says he is in his profile. If so, we should hit it off good. If we click, it would be required that I move to a city a few hours away from Vegas, but would be greatly rewarded for this. I don’t have a problem with that at all since I’d still be close to home and could keep my house here for sure and just come back on the wekends or whatever. But we’ll see whats up…here’s hoping!


  95. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    gnd ~ that is all he said !!! the only thing i know he’s a star, 6’3″ and athletic according to his profile.

  96. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Hmm…well other than that did he tell you anything about himself, like what he was looking for in an arrangement. Or was it just like “let’s meet”?

  97. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Yes he invited me to meet in private, i asked for a pic, he replied he was a star and couldn’t do that. i said i wanted to meet for coffee or drinks, he said never in public and that we could meet friday at his condo in town. i said it would be ok but i worked friday in the morning , didn’t hear back

  98. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    gnd~ we don’t have a date yet, he said he wants to meet friday or something? i work friday so…. i don’t know anything else he didn’t reply back

  99. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Ok hold on a sec, maybe I need some clarification. BG did he invite you to meet him on the initial email?

  100. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Gail~ he’s here in montreal, and i’m here in montreal!
    do you want my number and my moms??? lol

  101. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Hmm well if you feel comfortable meeting him somewhere private then I say go for it. I’m not going to say it’s wrong because I’ve done it before and it worked out. All I have to say is good luck on your date BG.

  102. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    As do I

  103. Gail says:

    Nothing sounds fishy to me…it happens…our Vegas SD doesnt believe in pictures and values his privacy, etc… We only spent 2 hours with him….Anything is possible here.

    I am happy for you BeachGirl!!! and if it doesnt work..oh well we are still here for you!!! Yeah!!!! We also want to make sure that you are safe:) so what state is he in? We need to have a lookout and contact number for you….

  104. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Yeah I agree with SE…yay 16 more comments and we’ll be at 1,000. 🙂

  105. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    SE i always take my intuition seriously! it has always been right!
    don’t think i’m not a little scared about meeting someone i don’t know.. that i have never seen, but i know my city, he’s right in town here, and i have a cell and karate is always good ,,, even with heels

  106. SuthrnExec says:

    Just manage your expectations BG. Don’t discount your intuition.

  107. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    SE ~ i will fill you in for sure!!!
    gnd~ yeah, he doesn’t want to meet in public ever!!! but think about all the lingerie and heels i’m gonna have !!! Oh an maybe a few naughty ones too!!! lol YAY
    ok i need to get me some sorry

  108. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Hmm, nothing other than he’s a French star and offering a monthly allowance of $3-5k a month? Hmm, sounds a bit fishy if you ask me.

  109. SuthrnExec says:

    Go for it BG – but you have to fill us in on how it goes – that is a requirement!

  110. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    No problem OC , last time i was in LA i was told i was nuts by this guy who wanted to take my car lol
    mind you i should of been careful you guys a little gun crazy! but i wasn’t thinking! it’s not gonna happen again!lol i hope

  111. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Sorry y’all i feel silly tonight!!!

  112. OCSugarBaby says:

    Beach_Girl: You can be my body guard anyday!

  113. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    and if he is a star!!!! I’ll get money and all the lingerie and heels i want lol!!!

  114. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    gnd~ i have no clue he’s not saying nothing he wants to meet… that’s it! offering 5 to 10 grand a month. hey i’m going for it . fuck it. i know karate! i’ll chop his ass if he tries to fuck around sorry for the language all!

  115. SuthrnExec says:

    4fiq7yyc498 w

    Sorry – I almost trip over my walker to get to the computer…

  116. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Oooo so BG is he French??? Or was he just a star in French films?

  117. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    oups meant to say we don’t have paparazzi

  118. OCSugarBaby says:

    Ladies: Do not let Suthrn fool you into thinking he is this old man. NOT. What a kidder he is. Once he posted on the blog a avatar of this old southern gentleman he found on the web as his pic. Too funny, the guy in the pic had long white hair and a goatee. I made him take it down it freaked me out! He has is a young heart mind and body! Now, thanks to me he has an updated younger wardrobe!
    Gotta love his last present to me (sent yesterday). A bottle of Chanel Parfume. Loved it! I have never had a bottle of real parfume before. I am SO worth it as is he! 🙂

  119. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Gail~ lol chocolate is tony’s profile on myspace lol i he said to add him so i replied i did chocolate! lol ok not the same on chat ok just getting the hang of this… He’s a french Canadian star, this isn’t LA Gail , we have paparazzi!

  120. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    that is what i sent him as a mail, saying i would meet him in a public place. no we didn’t talk on the phone, he just mailed me a minute ago, he’s way willing , nice change from all the explicit mails i’ve been getting
    And i was called a DRAG QUEEN!!!!!!!

  121. Gail says:

    Yes….lets hit the 1,000 entries….

    Sorry OC…I asked Suthern to look at a man today:( but for all the right reason though:)

    Ooooh a Star!!!!Yes meet him…beach gurl…good thought on the public place…maybe you will be in Enquirer…..”mystery SB having coffee with French star:)”

    [email protected]…Ya did Chocolate?

  122. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Tony what’s the link for your profile? It’s not coming up for some reason.

  123. OCSugarBaby says:

    Beach_Girl: I would meet him in a public place. Have you talked on the phone? He needs to validate himself a bit more for you to feel comfortable. Not comfortable, NO digits.

  124. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    I know a lot of sex clubs here but not the porn industry!

  125. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Welcome to the blog Tony, gonna check out your profile in a bit.

  126. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Is there porn in Montreal???? not sure about that one lol…..

  127. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    OC thanks but i don’t want to meet him in a hotel for the first time. he’s my age too , and so willing , you think i should give him my Digits?
    I should be in LA in may too YAY

  128. OCSugarBaby says:

    Beach_Girl: oops saw that he is a french star? Hopefully not of the porn variety….

  129. OCSugarBaby says:

    Beach_Girl: SD may be more personable then handsome if he is not willing to show his picture. He may win you with his charm vs his looks. 🙂

  130. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Tony my man you are a cutie!!! love the tatts the one on your arms is amazing

  131. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Hey all need advice here. An SD doesn’t want to send his pic , he wants me to meet him instead? i’m not too comfortable with that, so i told him i’d meet him for coffee or a drink where there are other people was that ok?
    apparently he’s a star???? who cares! i don’t know any french starts lol

  132. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Already did Chocolate!

  133. Tony: Profile Number 287167 says:

    Check out my myspace add me if you’d like

  134. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    No i”m in montreal Canada! where its cold and lonely lol
    T adding you to myspace!

  135. Tony: Profile Number 287167 says:

    Boca Raton

  136. Tony: Profile Number 287167 says:

    Hey u all i live in FL

  137. Gail says:

    Sugar life is lonely when you do not have Sugar friends:) That’s why it is nice to have a place to come to. Henri….I want a Bentley too…my colour is RED!!!!! Varoooom!!!!

    By the way…drove around looking for food to eat…ended up stopping at the store…making fried chicken wings…didn’t I say I didn’t want to cook…and why the store….I have tons of chicken and food in my fridge and freezer…oh well….

  138. Tony: Profile Number 287167 says:


  139. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Hello sugars! i agree with OC LA baby!
    BTW i should be going to LA in may YAY party and shopping and all the good things, OC we should hook up

  140. raine says:

    Wonder who’ll write that thousandth post…after which point we’ll have to take it outside? *lol*

  141. Tony: Profile Number 287167 says:

    Hello so i guess there’s no luck at viewing my page??

  142. MALE_Sugar_Baby says:

    BTW, I am in favor of a NYC trip for SBs, as well as SD and SM.
    Florida is TOO far away.

    — M_SB

  143. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    Hi Kitty,
    Sugar life is not kind of lonely.
    There are so many of us surrounding you.
    Today I received two wonderful messages.
    Colour my Bentley with Sugar, please !

  144. ~*kitty*~ says:

    but u’re leaving me Gail…

    I think Sugar Life is kind of lonely

  145. Cat says:

    Victoria: As long as you had a good laugh, that’s all that matters.

  146. Gail says:

    And before I leave…thats why you have us Kitty to keep you amused till he comes to play with you….lol…

  147. Gail says:

    Hey…we are over 900 entries on this post….do you think we will make it to 1,000?

  148. ~*kitty*~ says:

    ciaos bon apetite my dear 🙂 xoxo

  149. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Well, sugar family, I’m going to finally get some sleep… Nap for a few hours, and then do tons of homework, and study for my midterms. Au revoir, mes ami(e)s…. (My French is so rusty it depresses me…*sad face*)

  150. Gail says:

    UR close to Kitty, Bunny….lol….Imagine the both of you in an easter basket…lol…..okay now…I am being silly….I need to eat….I will be back….picking up some food…..and dont want to cook…lol….

  151. ~*kitty*~ says:

    SD’s always so busy at work 🙁

  152. ~*kitty*~ says:

    OC: still you should’ve came to LV with us!!!

  153. ChocolateSnowBunny says:

    I join Kitty with the Louboutin obsession. Nothing as beautiful as those red sole IMO. Wherever we go for the trip, let there be a CL boutique as our options are quite limited in Toronto.

  154. Gail says:

    Kitty and her Louboutines….lol….as high as they are…my head will be at your belly…lol…but they are beautiful:)

  155. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Lol… that WAS gross! 😀

  156. Cat says:

    Victoria: I have seen all the revenge of the nerds movies…I love booger (the character) not the snack lol jk. That was gross…sorry.

  157. Gail says:

    ooooh….yes….Southern Calif is wonderful!!!!! I agree!!!! And Southwest has wonderful airline deals right now….some as low as $59.00 one way:)

    I love that thought OC!!!! We are sugar party happy SBs today:) LOL…

  158. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Ooh… California! Nicccce

  159. OCSugarBaby says:

    Kitty and Gail: California has BEACHES and wonderful shopping! Come to CA for our Sugar Party. 🙂

  160. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Aww Joules yeah hopefully your friend can comfort you. *hugs for Joules* 🙂

    Ok now welcome Rachel to the blog. Wow you have alot of questions lol. In my personal opinion go back and read some of the old threads and I’m sure most of your questions will be answered on those. There are alot of fake SDs out there but there are also some good ones. I can vouch for that since I found a great one who spoils me and treats me like a princess (sorry if that sounds cliche, lol). But the best way to tell when to meet is to go with what’s in here *touches her heart*. If feel good about the guy, like there might be a connection, then go for it! Oh yeah and try to verify he is who he says he is first.

  161. ~*kitty*~ says:

    mmmMMM Louboutines

  162. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Welcome, Rachael! I’m pretty new, too, so I’m not totally sure my advice would be valid, BUT, I’d say, in regards to when to meet, go with your gut. Take as much or as little time as you need to meet a pot SD. I haven’t found an SD yet, but the time it takes (I’ve observed) is different for everyone.
    There are lots of fakes out there. I’ve even run into a few. One particularly gross one that kept asking me if I’d give him a blowjob when he came to visit that same weekend! But, there are some awesome ones out there too! (Take for instance, SuthrnExec, etc… well, you can’t really *take* him…he’s taken…)

    That’s all I can think of…my lack of sleep is starting to take its toll on me… So, good luck! I hope you find what you’re looking for! Just be patient, though.

  163. *Rachael* says:

    Hi all! I’m a new SB from Vegas and I just have to say I’m really excited about joining this site! I just wonder how successful all of you have been in finding your SDs? I found this site while searching yahoo as I just graduated and am looking at some pretty serious school loans. Plus, as you all probably know, the economy is purty screwed up right now so my job search isn’t going as greatly as it could. I have a few questions about how this all goes down if anyone feels like giving me some advice…are there a lot of fake SDs out there that are just trying to get stuff like naked pics and phone sex from vulnerable SBs? If so, how do you root through all the fakes to find the genuine SDs? Should I meet with a potential SD right away or take it very slow (talk on the phone a lot, give it like a month or so before we meet in person)? I’m sure that we all have to be very careful on who we decide to meet and get to know. I try to be as honest and straight as possible in my profile and hope the majority of people on here do the same. I’d love to meet a generous and sweet SD that I have chemistry with and share common interests. I’m a business major so finding a mentor that could teach me some real-world business skills would just be the cherry on top. 🙂 I love reading all of your stories, it is just so interesting and exciting! It gives me hope that I’ll find that perfect SD/SB relationship too. I wish you all success in your searches! Keep on blogging ladies and I’ll be sure to share my future stories with you all as well!

  164. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Aw, that is stressing, Joules… Hopefully your friend will come comfort you! I send you hugs!

  165. Joules*300035* says:

    well all, there’s a disturbing twist to my day….

    i just got a message on myspace from the chick that used to mess around with my husband (a long time ago; when he and i were seperated).

    she just found out that my husband passed away and was asking for verification AND the stupid friggin BITCH didn’t even spell his name right

    so, i politely corrected her spelling in the subject line and simply put ‘yes’ as my reply.

    so, i’m getting off here now; that was just too much for me. going to call my friend and DEMAND he come over tonight even if i have to wait til after he gets outta school.

  166. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Lol… Beware who you laugh at… Haven’t you seen revenge of the nerds??? lol

  167. Cat says:

    gurlnextdoor: LOL. What a winner!

    Victoria: For some reason my dad was into Star Trek too, but he never got the chance to get me into it. So now, I laugh at people…

  168. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Lol… I just texted a pot SD…and my signature says , which I had planned on erasing before messaging him… That part of my humor’s usually only for established friends…lol

  169. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Hmm… go see your b/f today and make your friend visit Sunday?

  170. Joules*300035* says:

    Vic, he said he could come over after school but it’d be late *shrug* i just told him ‘whatever’ lol i told him i’d call him back in a few minutes but don’t really feel like it right now. i really want to see him *sigh* the only other option, if he does have school and don’t come over tonight after school would be sunday evening but i kinda had plans (in my head) to go see my b/f sun. evening

    see, this is my life though (business AND personal); make plans, get ready, get cancelled on.

    lucky for me though i don’t let it get me down anymore; just bitch about it for a few minutes (lol) then shrug it off

  171. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Ok can’t argue with you there Victoria…Star Wars is pretty awesome. Still haven’t seen Revenge of the Sith yet though. 🙁

  172. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Um…not really…lol… But, I did up until I was about 5… I used to watch it with my dad. 😀 Now, I realize that Star Wars is so much cooler!

  173. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Lol Star Trek Cat?!?!? I once met a guy who brought me by his apartment to watch a movie, he was a complete nerd and told me all about his wonderful “Star Trek collection”. It got even better when he thought we were on a date, hahaha.

    Hmm but yeah Joules, hopefully he won’t cancel on ya.

  174. Joules*300035* says:

    oh and i tried tony’s profile and as well could NOT view it

  175. Cat says:

    Oh God, you like Star Trek too? lol.

  176. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Yay for the Trekkies! lol

    Aw, Joules, I hope he doesn’t cancel… Why does school get in the way of social life? I remember a time when school WAS my social life… I’m a nerd, so sue me.

  177. Cat says:

    Hey girls, just popping in to make you laugh…One of my pots e-mailed me his info and his e-mail had the word foundation in it, so I thought oh, how nice, he works for a charity…well I did some research and it is a charity…a fake charity created on the tv show Star Trek! I don’t want to judge but I thought it was pretty funny! I hope he doesn’t want to take me to any Star Trek conventions lol

  178. Joules*300035* says:

    yap, thats my luck for ya lol….looks like my friend may be cancelling on me tonight. the new quarter in school just started and he’s thinking he might have class tonight…ohhhh well

    so what’s up everyone?! how’s it goin?

  179. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Lol… Talk to you later, Gail! 😀

    In the summer, I wanna take summer classes, but hopefully, it’ll be during the week instead of weekend classes like I’m doing now… Why no travel, raine?

  180. Gail says:

    ok….I have to take a break…talk to all of you later:)

    Victoria…you can do nekkie, nekkie if youd like:)

    Have fun!!!

  181. raine says:

    Aw maaan…travel: SO not an option for me right now, not even for a meet & greet *sigh*


  182. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    No nekkie nekkie…? 🙁 But, I like nekkie.

  183. Gail says:

    Who says we can’t do both ladies…..I didn’t think I would be able to go to Vegas….I actually posted and said I couldn’t and it happened…lol….WE MAKE IT HAPPEN:)

    [email protected]….ahem….scrambling eggs….good moves…beat up…rah…rah…lol….

    Okay…no nekkie, nekkie in NY….but new clothes and purses and shoes…yes, yes, YES!!!!

    One time my NY SD gave me only $200.00 in NY to go shopping…there was so much stuff I wanted I came back with nothing…and he asked me why I didn’t buy anything…I told him I didn’t have enough money…lol….so we went out the next day…this time he came with me and put out the plastic….I was pleased…lol….

  184. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Bye BG and good luck on your interview.

    Hmm NY does have some good shopping…it’s just so cold up there. burrr! Even in the summer it seems cold, lol.

  185. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Good luck, BG!

    Florida or NY would be awesome for me, as long as I can afford them!

  186. ~Nico~213385~ says:

    LOL @ Gail ~ sausage huh…..don’t know if I’m hungry or craving….*ahem* Moving on…..
    Hatching eggs to boot…lol….gonna start scrambling mine soon if they don’t hatch.

    KITTY ~ I got a little excited when you said that!! Yeah!!! I’m like a kid at Christmas anymore….doesn’t take much to get me going….oooh, a shiny new bike! YEAH!! 😉

    *sigh* should stay away from the Easter candy……

  187. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Hmm… I don’t think you wanna walk around NY naked, kitty! hehe

    I’ave gotten a few pretty good emails… Some creeps, but I guess it comes with the territory…

  188. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    I’m off Sugars!!! got a job interview, wish me luck
    talk to you all [email protected]

  189. ChocolateSnowBunny says:

    I vote for NY too simply because there’s a CHRISTIAN LOUBOUTIN boutique. I will not miss that lol.

  190. SuthrnExec says:

    Gail, I’d be glad to – but it needs to be a SM to be able to see his profile. Let me check it out… stay tuned.

  191. Gail says:

    Kitty….I want NY too!!! Maybe I will contact my past SD from there….as long as he didn’t get married….lol…I want to go shopping too….just throw away my old clothes….even the panties and bras….start out naked…lol….

  192. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Raine ~ i know thats all i get is crap! nothing interesting or even nice!
    the only one that was nice and up front told me i was too far… it sucks!

  193. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Oh yeah let’s go to Florida! Ok sorry for my enthusiasm but I think I’ve fallen completely in love with that place lol.

  194. Gail says:

    When we went to Vegas…we just paid our airline tickets…and brought our spending money. We were very fortunate to have two wonderful SD sponsor the rest of it. WE will all have to work toward more sponsorship:) it will be a blast.

  195. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Victoria , good luck, the only thing i get here is explicit mails , and if i do write to someone they don’t answer or even open the mail!!!

  196. raine says:

    Uhhh. Any luck retrieving Tony’s profile? (a SM or two holding things up, perhaps?)

    BG: “not cute enough”/explicit notes? Huh? They must’ve taken the wrong turn someplace; this is the grown & sexy section!

  197. Mina says:

    This blog really does need a chat feature…

  198. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    NYc is so expensive, i need me a really rich SD if thats gonna happen
    yeah i’d love to go to Vegas !!!

  199. Gail says:

    Ok….that is better for me!!! I have to work on hatching more eggs…lol…
    and anyone else that wants go to Florida stay in touch with us cuz we will definately make it happen….

  200. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    I don’t work at all… Most of my income comes from family (gotta love the doting grandmother!)… But, this would be so sweet… I need to find a sponsor! 😀

  201. ~*kitty*~ says:

    I am in Toronto so nyc is warm to me lol… think of the shopping in NYC lol

  202. ~*kitty*~ says:

    Las Vegas cost me $0 🙂

  203. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    ~Ktty hate NYC it’s too damn cold lol!!!!
    yeah the price has to be not too expensive , i work but part time and go to school

  204. ~*kitty*~ says:

    the specifics are still trying to be set
    the original idea was to go to NYC.. but we might change it to florida, as most SBs are around there so more would be able to go 🙂

  205. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    I would love to go on one of these trips! I love traveling, though its usually out of my price range… 🙁

  206. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    A Sugar party i’m so there
    when ? where?

  207. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Hi ~Kitty

  208. Gail says:

    Morning Miss Villa:) I love PMs….but not prementruals…..lol….can you tell everyone…I am feeling better today:)

    Kitty….I am a good Fairy…:)

  209. ~*kitty*~ says:

    Gail, Nico: was talking to SD, he said Florida sounds great for the next trip… and it will be late May/June 🙂 then we can make bacon/sausage breakfast and then all day at the beach!

  210. Gail says:

    We have to start planning our next Sugar Party Beach Girl….then we all can go on vacation together….

    Suthern…CAN YOU TAKE A PEEK FOR US? PLEASE!!! (SMILE) we wont tell OC…..

  211. ~*kitty*~ says:

    Hey Villa and Beach girl 🙂

  212. raine says:

    Hi again, folks. [Technically never left, just making my room halfway presentable/roomy for my new bed tomorrow – akin to actually cleaning before the maids show up (ha!).]

  213. ~*kitty*~ says:

    Hello my Fairy Sugar Mother Gail 🙂 *hugs*

  214. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Tony i opened a new page and it doesn’t come up!

  215. Tony: Profile Number 287167 says:

    Open a new browser put this in but don’t forget to add the www to the beginning


  216. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Gail, you have a PM 🙂

  217. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    SE!!!! Great minds… eh!

  218. Gail says:

    Nico….bacon….I want sausage…a great hot link would even be good:)
    that sound so much fun…a group of SB waking up after a pj party making breakfast…then going to the beach all day!!!!

  219. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    ~Nico~ lol i need me some bacon too!!!

  220. Gail says:

    Tony…Where can we go?….we cant see you…touch you…or feel you…lol….

    Choco Bunny…yes…it takes time to hatch them…and poof sometimes they hatch alll at the same time….lol…but oh what fun!!!

  221. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Ciao all ~

    perhaps no one can see Tony’s profile because he is in a different category ?????? of “male sugarbaby”??? So if you replace his number in a “sugardaddy” profile URL it won’t work, and same if you replace in our “sugarbaby” URL? And I believe those are the only two categories we can see as SBs?

    That’s the only thing I can think of, if he is approved… x

  222. Tony: Profile Number 287167 says:

    i just opened a new page and put this in and it came up???

  223. SuthrnExec says:

    Tony, it could be that female SBs cannot see your profile since you’re a MSB. Only those registered as a SM may be able to see it. Just a guess.

  224. Tony: Profile Number 287167 says:


  225. ~Nico~213385~ says:

    Well, I don’t doubt the memories will be great but honestly, what can compare to THAT weekend *sigh* to have been a fly on the wall…or, better yet, to have been there!!

    As for eggs…..I am sick of eggs LOL….mama needs some bacon *winks* feeling a tad frisky this morning 😀

  226. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Gail I’d go for VACATION!!!!!

  227. Gail says:

    Isn’t it funny how that happens…when you least expect it you find a good egg. I keep telling the girls….its like a business…you have to have several eggs..and several baskets…if you can handle it….Diversify…diversify…..

    Yeah it wont be as vip…only staying at the Hilton Grand Resorts…step down from the Encore(smile) but I plan to have fun…only there for 2 days…unless I extend it out…which I could and stay with my best friend fella for a couple more day. Hmmmmm….vacation or work…..lol…decisions decisions…

  228. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Hi Victoria~gnd and all

  229. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Tony i can;t see it

  230. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Hmm still not working Tony, dunno what’s wrong

  231. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Howdy, BG!

  232. ChocolateSnowBunny says:

    Gail: Definitely a lot of eggs but some tend to crack eventually so I’m hoping a real SD will hatch out of my bunch.

  233. Tony: Profile Number 287167 says:

    anyone see it??????/ anxious to know, lets go ladies

  234. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Tony~ i can’t see your profile either ????

  235. Tony: Profile Number 287167 says:

    Yes it was approved yesterday morning

  236. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Haha, thanks, Gail! I love my name, too! 😀

  237. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Hello all sugars!!!
    wow you guys are really talking up a storm !
    you are all lucky to have great mails, the only thing i get is your not cute enough and anything explicit that you can think of!!!!

  238. Tony: Profile Number 287167 says:


    u need to type the http://www.seekingarrangement.c in the beginning

  239. ~Nico~213385~ says:

    Hola Gail…my pot huh? *sigh* Hard to say anymore. The come they go they come they go. Right now there are a couple and the one I quoted the other day is still very high on my list…..the biggest problem is in coordinating calendars. Remaining hopeful that the right one will come along 😀

    Back to Vegas huh? LOL….have fun!!

  240. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Tony has it been approved yet?

  241. Gail says:

    whooooooooo…..whooooo…..thats okay Tony:) we will still chat with you:)

  242. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    I can’t see it either.

  243. Tony: Profile Number 287167 says:

    R u serious ???? no one can see me:(

  244. Gail says:

    Good afternoon Everyone:)

    Its almost Friday….I am headed to Vegas…going to a wedding…not mine thought….lol….

    He Nico….how’s your pot SD?

    Hello my favorite Kitty!!!!

    Welcome Victoria…I love your name, its kinda like someone I know really well:)

    Joulles…welcome to our sugarworld:)

    CSB…Four!!! whewww…thats a lot of eggs for your basket…

  245. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    And, I don’t believe I said hi to you Gail, so hi! 🙂

  246. ~*kitty*~ says:

    why can’t anyone see tony’s profile?

  247. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Lol…no one’s seen his site?

  248. Gail says:

    I heard a whisper……anyone?….

  249. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Hiiii Nico! 😀

  250. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Well, I want to see it… can’t someone just send the full link to it?

  251. Tony: Profile Number 287167 says:

    Can anyone see my profile???????????????????????????????

  252. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    hehe… Have fun, Joules!

  253. ~*kitty*~ says:

    CSB: you’re activated 🙂

  254. Tony: Profile Number 287167 says:

    Gail i’m not a ghost i don’t know y u can’t view my profile but i’m here. Ask anyone on here have they seen my profile because it’s there.

  255. Gail says:

    LOL…told ya all he was a ghost…and noone believes me. I haven’t been able to see it since he started on the blog. Kinda suspicious if you ask me.
    So Tony what is your story?

  256. ~Nico~213385~ says:

    Haha..Danny….I know him….I remind him of his X….the guy in the boat. Too scatter brained….my guess…not real.

  257. ChocolateSnowBunny says:

    I’m great Raine. I have to respond to two potential SDs emails but I keep getting distracted. Also, I’ve been meaning to update the blog on my sugar journey but I have four potentials and every time I start writing, I seems so long. Will get to it soon though.

  258. Joules*300035* says:

    well shyt, gotta put off the shower for a bit as work calls!
    wasn’t that the point? to take my shower NOW so work didn’t interrupt me? if only i woulda jumped in the shower when i said i was going to!!!


    this will be my second client that’s established and wants out-of-state shows!….first client that’s NOT hiphop!!!!

    did i say?…DAMN i’m good! hahaha

    wish me luck! i’m going to talk with this band and shower and get prettied up for my “I SWEAR it’s not a date” date *grin*

    i’ll try to drop in later after i’m ready; before i leave

  259. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    I’m doing good everyone…yeah Kitty NC and I don’t live too far from one another.

  260. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    CSB you have mail.

  261. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Is there a difference in male SB profiles and female? Because I can’t see Tony’s…. 🙁

  262. raine*306712* says:

    Kitty: Yay!

    Tony: grrrreat! [RIP Thurl Ravenscroft *voice of tony the tiger*] go get em *lol*

    Joules: SPARKLE. Haha

    Hi, csb! How are ya?

  263. Joules*300035* says:

    MOI??!! behave??? hahahahahahahahahaha!!!!

    Mi Vida Loca!!!

    It’s even on my cellphone! lol

  264. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Mornin’, GND! How are you this beautiful day?

    Oooh, I want donuts! No…no…cookies! No wait…PUDDING! Yes, I want pudding!

  265. ~*kitty*~ says:

    ooo that’s where NC’s from lol

  266. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    It’s the Triangle area in North Carolina (my old high school teacher told me it last year, so I found that to be pretty interesting).

    Sure CSB, maybe we can start something up. 🙂

  267. ~*kitty*~ says:

    good morning gnd: what city is that? I think i need to move there

  268. Joules*300035* says:


    another potential client emailed me!

  269. ChocolateSnowBunny says:

    GND: Sounds like a good idea. Send me an email on the address I just posted.

  270. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Hey CSB, maybe we can launch a company together. 🙂

    Yeah the city I live in for college would be like a gold mine. Apparently it has the most doctorate’s per capita than any other area in the United States. So I’m really hoping I can learn more about the industry and start something

    And good morning everyone.

  271. ~*kitty*~ says:

    lol well have fun either way!! and behave!!!

  272. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Yep, I always get prettied up for nondates too…lol

  273. Tony: Profile Number 287167 says:

    How do u install a pic on blog?? like the little pics on the side of the blog that shows up when u blog??

  274. Joules*300035* says:

    lol kitty thanks…but he’s just as broke as everyone else i know *rolls eyes*

    and i didn’t call this a date!!!! lol

    i gotta b/f, remember?! lol

    ok, got my outfit picked out, time for a shower and gotta get all girly prettied up *wink wink*

  275. Tony: Profile Number 287167 says:

    It’s been slow motion for me!!

  276. ~*kitty*~ says:

    raine: u’re in 🙂

  277. ChocolateSnowBunny says:

    all one word

  278. ChocolateSnowBunny says:


    [email protected]

  279. ~*kitty*~ says:

    we need to trade notes lol

  280. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Hey there, Tony! How’s it goin? 😀

  281. ~*kitty*~ says:

    csb: wats ur email?

  282. Tony: Profile Number 287167 says:

    Hello everyone, I finished my profile and I think I did a really good job on it thanks to the advice and help you all gave me. 🙂 If you get a chance to look at it, feel free to critique it for me

  283. ChocolateSnowBunny says:

    Hey Victoria: excitement is always good. I love positive energy.

  284. ChocolateSnowBunny says:

    I realized but I’m never on the blog with you. We totally have to have a sugar babe hangout.

  285. ~*kitty*~ says:

    CSB: I’m from TORONTO TOO!!!

  286. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Mornin’, CSB! 🙂

    I’m far too excited for someone who hasn’t been asleep since yesterday… hehe…and without reason!

  287. ChocolateSnowBunny says:

    Toronto: I know we’ve got our share of millionaires just not sure what the market is for such an business idea.

  288. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Thanks, kitty!

    Congrats, Joules! I’m really happy for you!

    Henri, I thought you have to be a premium user to see who’s added you as a favorite?

  289. ~*kitty*~ says:

    CSB: where u from?

  290. ChocolateSnowBunny says:

    Wow it took me way too ling to catch up on this blog. Guess I can’t neglect the blog for too long.

    Good afternoon sugars. How’s everyone?

    Quite gray and dull weather out there.

    GND: I love Millionaire Matchmaker. I want to start one up here too but I don’t think there are enough millionaires. Hmmm…have to figure out how to check the market for that.

  291. ~*kitty*~ says:

    SO happpy for u joules!! hope ur date goes well 🙂 and who knows maybe this guy can be like a SD too! lol

  292. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    Hello sugarclass !
    Here is SalesmanHenri with a nice lecture.
    Here on SA you sell yourself.
    You put yourself in the most favourable light.
    Then send the letter of introduction and wait.
    Ever heard of Internet Marketing ?
    Is not there a better way to get the attention of an SD ?
    Yes, sugarbabes there certainly is.
    Now this SA site is for win/win situations.
    So I do something for you and you do somthing for me.
    It is called mutual beneficial.
    Here is the astonishing salestip that NONE of you had ever thought of.
    Have a look at the button SEARCH.
    Have a look at button WHO ADDED ME AS HIS FAVOURITE ?
    The magic lies in here.
    Search for a nice SD.
    Place him in YOUR favourite list.
    Next day he will notice it.
    This is guaranteed one hundred percent tip to have him write YOU !
    Your answer must of course make him drool !
    Now for the win/win.
    I expect masses of e-cards on my birthday from you !
    And if you score an SD, my commission is 10 percent.
    Give it a try !
    It surely works.
    Jesus loves you, and so do I !

  293. Joules*300035* says:

    ooopsy! almost forgot the most important question on my bio interview thingy i just made….

    “What is it exactly that *I* can do to help you achieve your goals?”

    damn i’m good!

    ooooh, and i have awesome news! non-sd related!!!

    there’s this guy that lives close by; we’ve been chatting online and on the phone for a long time now and we’re going to go hang out tonight! He and I have been getting really close lately and the ONLY thing he DON’T know about me is this sd stuff. he’s cool like that tho; i’ll probably end up telling him about it one day; i know he’ll be cool with it *grin*

    i first started talking to this guy when i first got out here in TN…back when i was still severely depressed and wow…he’s just really awesome in the way that he and i can talk about any/everything going on in our lives. anywho, he’s to ‘blame’ for me being able to sleep at night finally these days. when we first started talking I was getting MAYBE 3 hours of sleep A WEEK lol

    it’s just wierd how having someone in your life that totally understands you; it just eases your brain. i mean, he’s been through worse things than i have and he’s doing awesome with his life now; i guess he’s kind of an inspiration to me!

    anywho, he just emailed me to double-check for our plans tonight so i’m going to get off my ass and jump in the shower before i get too far in depth with any more work lol

    OOOH OOOH OOOH!!!! I get to wear some of my brand new clothes tonight! hahahaha hells ya!

  294. ~*kitty*~ says:

    Victoria: u’re set 🙂

  295. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    Oh yea kitty I wanna know what exactly sugar world is too…*l0l* I know I know I said I was getting off….I got back on tehehe….. My e-mail is

    Ok finally i’m really gonna get off….*BYE*

  296. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Au revoir, Mia! Enjoy this beautiful day!

  297. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Hmm…and I’ve registered… 😀

  298. ~*kitty*~ says:

    Ciaos Mia have a great day

  299. Mia says:

    Okay everyone, I’m off to go run a few errands, and then I’m taking myself to be pampered. 🙂

  300. ~*kitty*~ says:

    Mia: That’s actually an awesome idea!!!! I sleep in crazy positions, lately I sleep on half my tummy and half my back with my one arm under my head (imagine sleeping on a desk but in bed….
    I’ve also considered getting one of those foam covers on my mattress… but not sure if they’ll do anything…

  301. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Have a good day at work, Y&F!

  302. Mia says:

    Byebye Y&f!!

  303. Mia says:

    Kitty, maybe that’s it. I was having trouble sleeping and ALWAYS have upper and lower back pain from 2 different sources….

    I bought memory foam pillows since I can’t get a mattress. They are huge. I use one to support my shoulders, and put the other under my lower back/hips/lovely backside OR between my legs because as far as sleeping positions go, I’m a fetal gal, usually right side.

    And as soon as I bought them, I managed to regulate my sleeping schedule, not sitting in bed long hours awake and what not, and NO MORE lower back pain. If ou get extra money, you could try that first, especially if the feel really works for you, then move on to the mattress since it’s less of a financial commitment.

  304. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Ohhhh… I see! Thanks! 😀

  305. ~*kitty*~ says:

    raine: I am ok… I sent victoria an email 🙂 did u get 1?

  306. raine*306712* says:

    Uh, you okay, kitty? [Victoria wanted to know about sugar world…]

  307. ~*kitty*~ says:

    have a great day at work y&f xoxo

  308. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    Well fellow sb’s I must go hop in the shower….dry my clothes & get ready for a long day @ work…Goodness gracious….I’ve been off for the past 4 days & i’m not quite sure I wanna go back…*l0l* Talk to ya’ll probably thursday night….Working late 2night =( Hope everyone has a great day!!!!!!!!!

  309. ~*kitty*~ says:

    Mia: i heard a little pop and my vertebra feels a little better but I think it’s a knot on my back muscle… near my shoulder blades

  310. ~*kitty*~ says:

    I am thinking about getting a tempur… those things seem pretty amazing… if only SD would step up *frowns*

  311. Mia says:

    LOL kitty

    Okay, I have my 9 and my 1 prepared.

  312. ~*kitty*~ says:

    victoria: u’ve got mail

    I think I just need a new matress

  313. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    O kitty you could always get one of those sleep number beds… =) I heard their pretty good!!!

  314. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Congrats, Joules! And, kitty, try… acupuncture?

  315. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    Mia said sugar villians…*l0l* made me giggle!!! I’m a little giddy 2day!!

  316. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    [email protected] (you other sugars are free to email me too!)

  317. SuthrnExec says:

    SG2, interesting is better than boring I suppose. I’d love to hear the story behind that….

  318. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    Yay!!! Joules i’m proud of you!!!!!!!!!!

  319. ~*kitty*~ says:

    Mia: thanks 🙂 gonna try it now dial 91- and when I say so.. dial the other 1…. just in case

  320. Mia says:

    Aww kitty 🙁

    I hope you don’t try what I mentioned too and really hurt yourself.

    Y&f and I don’t want to be sugar villains…

    Just don’t try it 🙂

  321. ~*kitty*~ says:

    raine: u’ve got mail… I hope

  322. Joules*300035* says:


    I accomplished something! lol

    I just finished writing out my basic interview questionaire for my new / potential clients. I’m quite impressed with it, too!

  323. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Whoville seems like so much more fun in Horton Hears a Who! Ooh… That reminds me, there’s an open call for Suessical coming up!

  324. Mia says:

    Or kitty, if you are good at arching your back, I usually just stand and arch it, then bend forward and curve my neck and all of my torso, including my arms, inward.

    Then I bend down slowly, vertebrae by vertebrae, as I continue to pull everything inward as tightly as possible. for me, it’s easier and less complicated than some of the other options.

    To explain it in one sentene, you make your back concave while leaning to the back, and concave again, while leaving to the front and being over. It works best if you just make sure your neck and arms are involved in the concave effect.

    … I guess that was 2 sentences.

  325. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    Babies & daddies – If you have not quite figured out i’m pretty random…Some find it annoying but I love it!!! I’m never bored…EVER *l0l*

  326. ~*kitty*~ says:

    y&F: it’s ok thanks anyways… 🙂

    raine: LOL THANK YOU!!!!

    Victoria: gimme ur email and I’ll tell u what sugar world is

  327. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    I believe sugar world is a place for leading double lives….Kind of like who ville on how the grinch stole christmas 🙂 Another land…Where everyone deals with similar problems….eveyone has advice & stories to share & help one another out…..Oh & I believe it’s fluffy like a cloud…*l0l*

  328. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    Kitty – I’m sorry 🙁

  329. raine*306712* says:

    Kitty: *whisper* type the # (sorry.)

    Thanks again, Suthrn.

  330. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    No one ever told us what Sugar World is… 🙁

  331. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    Kitty – I meant twist your top half of your body & push off of the bent leg to twist your upper boddy around more

  332. ~*kitty*~ says:

    .. not quite sure what I did there… but it hurt…

  333. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    Kitty – I don’t know…computers tend to act up sometimes….But it’s really cute 🙂 *l0l*

  334. ~*kitty*~ says:

    y&F: sounds like twister but I’ll try 🙂

  335. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    Kitty – No it actually feels really really good…If you sit on the ground & bend 1 leg as in pull your knee towards your chest cross it over your other leg….Then kind of twist your body & push off your bent leg & it should pop.

  336. ~*kitty*~ says:

    I can see the hearts and the stylized f.. so weird…

  337. ~*kitty*~ says:

    Y&f: … POP my own BACK???? sounds dangerous…. I think there’s a knot

  338. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    Kitty – My y is a box 2 you??? Oh it could be that your computer won’t read certain html symbols. My computer does that.

  339. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    Awww poor kitty!!! Do you know how to pop your own back? That might help it.

    Mia – Good morning chica!! I ♥ the f too!!!

  340. ~*kitty*~ says:

    Y&F… your Y is a box to me?… ???

  341. Mia says:

    HL – I think that’s a great idea. 🙂

    YF – I LOVE the f 🙂

  342. ~*kitty*~ says:

    🙁 I need a back massage 🙁 it hurts so bad….

  343. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Oh, Henri! 🙂 Marine Blue is fabulous! lol

  344. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    Henri – I want one too!! I want a black one with pink emblems…Kinda like my car now tehehe….Well mine is far from a bentley but very adorable!!!

  345. Mia says:

    Haha, did someone say anime??? …. Muy guilty pleasureeeeeeee….

    My friends are always so surprised when I remind them. We aren’t all socially marginalized or have it stamped on our foreheads, haha.

    I prefer to discuss my anime while enjoying Vivaldi, though.

  346. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    I think my little blog name is too cute!!! The y & f are a different style…. So cute!!!! Little things make me smile =)

  347. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    Hi sugars,
    I feel a bit down. The order book is not complete yet.
    Let me read it for you.
    Bentley Coupe, six to be delivered shortly.
    So far
    1 Pink
    1 Light Green
    1 White
    1 Black
    1 Topaz.
    Still one left.
    What about ordering it for Stephan.
    Marine Blue would be chique for him.
    Happy smiles all around I see !
    Stephan you earned it.

  348. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    *l0l* Thanks Kitty!!!

  349. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    The symbols are awesome!

  350. ~*kitty*~ says:


  351. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    I ♥ my little html symbols…. =)

  352. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    ♠Vic♠ – Thanks l♥ve!!! Yours are 2!!!!

  353. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    ♠Vic♠ – Go for it!!! Let us know how it goes.. =) ….Golly sugar world I have to go 2 work @ 2 & I don’t get off til 11….This is going to be a long day but a beautiful one!!!! The sun is shining & I will be spending alot of my time out in this gorgeous weather… =) ….Too bad I won’t be able to get my tan on….*pouting* I need to hurry up & get my but in the sun & the tanning bed…I’m looking a little pale..*l0l*

  354. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Aw, Y&F, your pictures are adorable! 😀

  355. ~*kitty*~ says:


  356. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Yea, Y&F, it’s the same guy. I’m gonna talk to him for a bit to see if he’s nice. I mean, I sent out copy and paste messages (of course, mine had much more substance, in my opinion). But, I don’t typically like those types of emails either.

  357. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    Vic – I say go for it cause it couldn’t hurt & he might end up being a real nice guy. I just wasn’t attracted to the type of messag he sent me.

  358. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    Vic – I believe so…His profile picture is of him & one of his friends on a boat or something?

  359. SouthernGent2 says:

    SoExec, I have been doing well, though I wish my business was better. We are all suffering with the economy to some extent. As for SD life, let’s just say things are sort of interesting right now.

  360. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Guy named Danny, Y&F?

  361. raine*306712* says:

    Once again, HenriLouis brings a downpour of wisdom! In lieu of an umbrella, I have pen, paper and “elements of style.” hard to write, of course, but it still seeps in 😀

  362. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    I like your profile, raine, and how you show that you’re so different. Classical music is awesome, so you should definitely check it out! And as far as Anime, I’d be happy to help if you need it! 😀 The nerd in me is very happy with the thought of discussing anime while listening to Schumann! lol

  363. ~*kitty*~ says:

    raine: couldn’t send

  364. SuthrnExec says:

    Raine, I think you’re doing fine – but we’re here for all the hand-holding you need.

  365. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    Vic – I got the same message from the guy your talking about. It;s like a cut & paste. That’s like the 2nd or 3rd time I got the same exact message from him. I told him that he had already sent me that & he said well send me your yahoo sn again cause I lost it. I simply told him sorry, but i’m not interested. Good luck with your search though! *l0l*

  366. raine*306712* says:

    Kitty, here goes:


    I’m trying not to panic here: gotta edit the profile* as is, put up some pics [that alone is the source of my frustration! I don’t have any recent ones handy, thus starting from scratch]. You’ve all been a huge help, because I? Don’t know what the deuce I’m doing!
    *I don’t ask often, but may I trouble anyone else here for feedback?

  367. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Ooh, Henri, so right on! Hmm, can I have a topaz Bentley? 😉

    Meanwhile, I emailed one of my “houdini” SDs, and got a reply, and he’s being really sweet, and we may meet soon!

  368. ~*kitty*~ says:


  369. ~Nico~213385~ says:

    Henri….I’ll take a white one thank you…preferably a coupe 😉

  370. SuthrnExec says:

    Kitty, not this time, but hey, real men wear pink, so that may be in the cards – who knows.

    Henri, you’re dead-on with that. Many times the introduction is where the initial connection is made or lost, so do it thoughtfully!

  371. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    Good afternoon sugar class,
    I mean all those classy Sugarbabes.
    By golly, it is rush hour again on the blog.
    Everyone awake and posting.
    Topic of the blog is INTRODUCTIONS.
    Introduction is right at the start.
    In my opinion this is where it goes horribly wrong.”
    Is this a proper introduction, I wonder ?
    “check me out and hit back on me”.
    Just out of curiosity I look at the profile. It says 20 K.
    I have started to equate everything in Bentley Coupe’s.
    20K a month is 240 K a year.
    It means 6 Bentleys. Of course the pink one for SweetEuro and the light green one for me and problem now. Anybody wants a Bentley for my first meeting ? You may pick your own colour.
    Again the laws of Direct Marketing shout BE PERSONAL !
    So study my profile and now send me a nice letter telling me that you find my profile interesting, because I am …………………………..
    “So kissable” would be a nice option. I see smiles now.
    I have it in my profile, but not once did anyone take the bait.
    Now this is the proper approach be personal.
    Everybody wants to be liked and bask in the glory of your sunshine when you are attentive and tell pot SD you have taken the trouble to know him !
    Just sit down and imagine you write to Bill Gates or Abramovich or Clinton or SantaClaus, asking to be his pot SB.
    “check me out and hit back on me”.
    Charming, but a no-go. You had better come with a cigar.
    So create an interesting profile, but please, please most of all write a nice letter of introduction. Preferably in flawless English.
    I know it takes some thinking and preparation, but it will lead to success.
    You are looking for a job. Almost 99 % of letters disappear in the shredder.
    Now why would it be different, if you wrote to me, a pot SD ?
    NO, it is just the same.
    Come to think of it I once received a charming letter the psychological trigger “black lab”was in it.
    I jumped for joy, but she turned out to be a female houdini.
    A nice tale that one, for my memoires.
    For the rest I had an amazing day !
    Will tell you about it later.

  372. ~*kitty*~ says:

    suthrnex: HaHa please tell me she got you a pink shirt lol…

  373. SuthrnExec says:

    I have noticed that usually if you make changes during the day, it gets approved more quickly – but with the sudden influx of new members, maybe that’s not so true anymore.

    Kitty, the weekend was awesome – OC is a rare jewel indeed. We had a wonderful time once we both finished our work on Friday. She took the old man shopping – trying to gently bring me into the 21st century! LOL We had a blast.

  374. raine*306712* says:

    [another email, business cards…check & check.]

    Better get that second job after all 😐

  375. ~*kitty*~ says:

    Joules: I hate waiting!! if I need something I get it NOW

  376. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Good luck with that DJ, Joules, as well as with your SD!

  377. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Thanks loads, Suthrn! I’m going to consider fixing it as par your suggestions, but because it takes so long, I’m not going to do so immediately. Of course, this change only took a few hours, I mean, I think I changed it after midnight, possibly after one.

  378. Joules*300035* says:

    kitty, he sounds like the kind that wants to be in full control of what i spend the money on lol

    he’s been VERY generous so far as you all know but i hate having to just MENTION what’s on my mind, what i’m thinking about that i need and just hoping he’ll get it for me. i’d rather have the money in hand and just friggin pay for it myself and not play this waiting game.

    well, i’m going to start working ladies (and lurking gents) lol

    goin to give this DJ client one last chance today and going to start focusing more in depth with other, regular…non-dj….clients

  379. ~*kitty*~ says:

    suthurn: how’s everything? been so busy lately with everything how was ur weekend with OC? (think that was 3 weeks ago now??)

  380. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    My thoughts exactly…sugar world sounds sweet! (bad pun intended)

  381. SuthrnExec says:

    Hey Kitty – long time, no see!

    Victoria, I looked at your profile – I think you did a great job – you have a very nice smile, BTW. Profile reads very well – the only thing I didn’t care for is the “narcissist” comment – that word generally has a negative connotation – and after reading your profile, are you really that self-absorbed? It doesn’t seem so. Here’s another nit – and this is not just on your profile, I’ve noticed it on several – when you say “someone who enjoys having fun as much as I do” or anything with the phrase “as much as I do” tell us how much you enjoy it. Remember, the reader doesn’t know you so we don’t know how much you like to laugh, play, see movies, or whatever.

    AS I said, I think your profile is great – just had to really be nit-picky to mention those things – great job! I think you’ll attract some interesting SDs. Good luck Victoria!

  382. Joules*300035* says:

    mmmm i just had a nice little bowl of cottage cheese for breakfast!

    haven’t had any of that in a long time!

  383. ~*kitty*~ says:

    jOULES: he douns lioke the kind I would take a set monthly allowance with to spend for urself and your business as you wish.
    I am in the same situation as you, I request 2-3 k a month for my business

    Raine: wats your email?

  384. raine*306712* says:

    What’s this ‘sugar world’ that you speak of?

  385. Joules*300035* says:

    well here, i realized that one of the quotes i posted from his email….i should’ve posted the entire part so re-read this….

    “This is all part of the deal for me, as you know. I’m committed to helping you get started at this point. as best I can within my means, and from there it depends on how we bond and feel about each other. I would never expect you to give more than you feel comfortable and eager to give, just as you won’t expect that of me”


  386. Joules*300035* says:

    and thanks for the advice guys….granted i always keep in touch with pots, just cuz i need more than one…but i guess i’m going to start searching in more depth again.

    i figured i wouldn’t be too cool with the idea of an SD that wanted a LTR lol we will see how it works out in the end, however. i’m not giving up hope but i am DEFINATELY going to start searching again lol

  387. ~*kitty*~ says:

    joules: 2 mionutes and u’ll be able to log in

  388. ~*kitty*~ says:

    Victoria: yes… my business cards tends to always be left on tables where I was waited by a hot server too.. random

    Joules: I am in the same position as you. I want a SD to help me start up my business.

  389. raine*306712* says:

    Uh okay, Joules? [hi.] Yeah, I’d try to get some answers from him [man, that’s odd; is this the part where *I* get concerned/panic? Heh].

  390. Joules*300035* says:

    thanks kitty, i re-joined

  391. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    I mean, my number/email/website are on my *business* cards, and I give those out all the time, sometimes I just leave them places…by accident… O.o

  392. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Yea, I pretty much do the same, but it’s the variations I forget… lol… My memory’s a horrid mess! <3 But, whenever I give my email out to anyone on SA, it’s usually the one I use for this site, so I don’t feel too weird about it.

  393. Joules*300035* says:

    i mean, i’m WELL AWARE that my SD is looking for more of a LTR in the future.

    HE’S well aware of my position in life; everything bad and all the good i’m making out of it.

    I FULLY INTEND on this company of mine flying high and rather quickly. in other words, i shouldn’t have a problem supporting myself once I get money coming in from my work HOWEVER i still intend on having an SD (or two or three or four lol) because i need a car, a place of my own, an office, and wanna go back to college….

    here’s another line out of my email from him to me…(the cricket deal is cellphone service)

    “I can get you started on the Cricket deal for $60, but I want you to look at it as a start-up deal I want to help you get off the ground with this, and within a couple of months, if things work out like they should, you should be able to pick up stuff like this for yourself.”

  394. ~*kitty*~ says:

    joules: I did some clean up.. rejoin and I will reactivate u 🙂 sorry babe :p

  395. raine*306712* says:

    Not too shabby, Victoria; also, what kitty said[where’ve you been?!].

  396. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Ooh, what’s sugar world?

    I hope he does, Joules, maybe he just found out he didn’t finish making car payments? Or something equally random.

  397. ~*kitty*~ says:

    Joules: maybe u should inquire to see what his budget is.
    Victoria: when u have too many passwords I change my passwords to easy to all the same with 1 little variation eg) kittyyahooo, kittyhotmail, kittysa, kittygmail or something like that

  398. ~Nico~213385~ says:

    Joules ~ I would ask for clarification. I met somebody who lived hi on the hog…was on a SD site and presented himself as such but he was living in his past when he used to make and have money. Now he’s broke and he’s 4 months behind in his mortgage payments.

    My motto, I would not commit to anything financial (and/or rely on somebody else to make a payment) on something that I couldn’t afford on my own. I.E. ~ don’t put a car in your name on a promise that they will make the payment if you cannot afford it yourself.

    Get him to clarify his intentions…he could just be establish parameters too 🙂

  399. Joules*300035* says:

    hey kitty, my sugar world account was closed/cancelled!!!

    Vic, i’m doin pretty good; just tryin to decipher this email from my SD; sounds like he don’t have the kinda money i need him to have lol

  400. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    A sugar daddy with money issues… Should he really be trying to help/support someone else if he has his own issues to deal with?

  401. Joules*300035* says:

    alright, so i’m hitting a bump in the road with my SD…..

    “I’m committed to helping you get started at this point. as best I can within my means”

    my SD said that to me in email a couple hours ago. almost makes me think he’s got money issues???!

  402. raine*306712* says:

    SouthernGent2/Nico: YESSSSS!! Thanks aplenty! Ring the bell, class is in session 😀

  403. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    That’d be a good idea…Of course, I have 4 email accounts already… I’m gonna have to start keeping the passwords on a spreadsheet! lol

  404. ~*kitty*~ says:

    NicO: I am so excited… going to purchase domain today too 🙂

  405. ~*kitty*~ says:

    Victoria: i agree… doesn’t sound very sincere. But you never know, take a chace and if he does turn out to be a jerk, then just block/ignore him. I would, however, make a completely separate account to chat with Sugars from your normal account. For security 🙂

  406. ~Nico~213385~ says:

    Woohoo Kitty….love what you’ve done with the place *winks* ….definitely keep me posted…I love changes (for the better) LOL.

  407. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Mornin’, Raine! How’re you?

    At risk of sounding like a broken record, I’d love for you guys to check out my edited (maybe improved?) profile and give me any feedback you can! Thanks in advance!

  408. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    So, I got a message this morning from a pot SD, and he didn’t say much, just asked for my yahoo screenname. So, if we talk a little, maybe I’ll figure out if he’s a jerk or not. But, he probably is. His profile says he’s looking for “a hotty”…

  409. raine*306712* says:

    Mornin’, sugar fans. I see the blog was mad abuzz these past few hrs or so… 🙂

  410. ~*kitty*~ says:

    Nico: I’m expanding Sugar World today 🙂 going to be a busy day!! expect to see a full layout by tomorrow morning

  411. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    I’m fantastic…kind of tired considering I haven’t been asleep since yesterday… but still in an awesome mood. You?

    Mornin’ Joules! How are ya?

  412. ~Nico~213385~ says:

    Awww Victoria….THANK YOU 🙂 *blush*

    Good morning Kitty!!

  413. ~*kitty*~ says:

    Morning Joules!
    I slept horribly.. woke up with a knot in my back.. owie

  414. Joules*300035* says:

    woohooo! i’m awake! i slept really good last night!!!

  415. ~*kitty*~ says:

    Hey Victoria, how are you this morning?

  416. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Hi there Kitty!

  417. ~*kitty*~ says:

    Btw: thanx Gail and OC for protecting my name 🙂 *hugs n kisses*

  418. ~*kitty*~ says:

    Good Morning SuthernExec, southerngents2, Nico and Victoria!
    I am busy trotting around office doing something with nothing really accomplished. I hope no one here is hung over from St. Patty’s day yesterday 🙂 <3

  419. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Wow, Nico, I just checked out your profile and you’re quite impressive! Beautiful, too! 🙂

  420. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Hugs back, Nico! 😀

  421. SuthrnExec says:

    Good mornin’ Nico and Victoria! I’ll take a peak at it momentarily.

  422. SuthrnExec says:

    I’m flattered SG2 – didn’t think anybody read my posts after the fact! Couldn’t agree more with you though – great points you made.

  423. ~Nico~213385~ says:

    …and, if I may add something….spellcheck spellcheck spellcheck!!

    GOOOOOD MORNING Sugar Family!! Happy Wednesday!!! *HUGS* all around!

  424. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Mornin’ sugars! How’re things treating you all out in sugarland?!

    P.S. My profile’s been approved, so if you all wouldn’t mind taking a peak and giving me some feedback, it’d be largely appreciated! 🙂

  425. SuthrnExec says:

    Good morning SuuthernGent2 – how’s things??

  426. SouthernGent2 says:

    Just to add to what SoExec said back up the board, the sb’s out there need to understand their market. Successful men that are looking for true long term sb arrangements will not be attracted to profiles with poor grammar, etc. Finding a TRUE sd will take work, and you have to present yourself as someone having polish, personality, and smarts. While I understand funds are tight for everyone, a sb needs to make a bit of an investment in herself so she looks great for that first meeting. Buy yourself a nice pair of jeans and heels for the more casual first meeting, or get a conservative with a touch of sexy nice dress if your first meeting is a dinner date. Maybe its a poor anology, but you have to prepare yourself like this is a bit of a job interview. A true SD will be selective, so you have to make yourself stand out above all others.

  427. SuthrnExec says:

    Good morning ladies and gents! How is everyone this morning – or afternoon – depending on where you are??

  428. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    Good morning sugar family!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It looks as if it’s going to be a bright & shiny day!!!

  429. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Great! My picture’s there! 🙂

  430. Mia says:

    Meh, it/he’s decent. I’m never the type to become very excited or enthusiastic about something.

    I can be VERY expressive when there is something I don’t like though, haha.

  431. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    Mia – That’s awesome…..Can’t wait to meet my SD…..It will be my very first…..Oh M Gee!!!! Cannot wait…..Ok i’ma finally get off here *l0l* This blog is too addicting…..Hell I’ll prolly be back on In 30mins or so *l0l*

  432. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    G’night, GND and Y&F!

  433. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Wow, that seems pretty awesome, Mia! Congrats and good luck!

  434. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    Good night GND….I think i’m going to get off here to. Good night to all!!!! Talk to ya’ll maybe tomorrow night…gotta work late so maybe thursday night

  435. Mia says:

    He isn’t perfect though. He has some deviance. But again, I just find it funny.

  436. Mia says:

    My SD? Well I have a ton of random pots who I’ve either declined kindly, ignored because of creepiness, contacted to no avail, and so on.

    But let’s see… he contacted me and was very taken in by my profile at the time, which was written after I got toooooooo many crazy responses, so it was sharp and VERY to the point.

    He was fine with me denying his requests before me met (no extra pics beyond my profile, etc.). We meet shortly after he contacted me for coffee very close to where I lived – he wanted to be accommodating. He was so gentlemanly at our first meeting I was flabbergasted. I was also trying not to stare / let my mouth hang open when I first saw him because I am PICKY and can be very MEAN (at first meetings, but I warm up to any and everyone over time… partly a Taurus thing), but the man is ATTRACTIVE. Very, very attractive. I’m 5’1 and tiny he’s 6 something or other and very broad shouldered so I think we look comical. He literally has that impossible upper body V like superman.

    He’s also done a good job spoiling so far, if not moderate, but promises more as time goes on.

    And he isn’t bothered that I am too busy / forgetful to text (he doesn’t like calls) all the time, and doesn’t want to take up tons of my time.

    He’s been traveling for the past 3 weeks and I won’t be seeing him for another week or so.

  437. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Wow it’s 5am here, lol. I think I better be off to dreamland…talk to you all later

  438. Mina says:

    Such an efficient and thoughtful SB you are, lol.

  439. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Thanks Mina, so do I…I think my SD would like me in Miami too. He could then save on airfare, lol.

  440. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Yay I just emailed her company, lol. Hopefully I’ll get a response, if not I’ll just keep emailing her. 🙂 I can be pretty persistent when I want something.

  441. Mina says:

    I had the opportunity to go to U Miami, but decided to stay closer to home.
    I hope it works out for you!

  442. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Yeah she starts at $25k and only takes 5 new clients once a month, sorry was reading up on her and her company some more.

    Lol yes Mina I am hellbent on making it to Florida. I got deterred once, but it will not happen again. I want to transfer to a college down there, probably Miami U. My goal is to move there while in college, but if not then, definitely after I graduate.

  443. Mina says:

    Lol no more for me, I have enough SDs to tide me over.

  444. Mia says:

    One of the guys one of her episodes that aired tonight looked SO much like an old high school boyfriend I almost died. It was so eerie it was fascinating.

  445. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    I think a wave would be good for us all…!

  446. Mina says:

    SD or a potential? Do tell!

  447. Mina says:

    Not entirely sure how long they have been together but she has mentioned several times that she is old fashioned when it comes to dating so I think perhaps they have been seeing one another for some time.

  448. Mia says:

    Haha I would like a wave too.

    I do have one SD thus far though and he’s fab. Found him two or three days after I started looking.

    I do get messages from pots though now that I think of it… so I guess I’m really saying I’m picky and would like a … better… wave.

  449. Mina says:

    Apparently waiting fifteen minutes is just enough time for a craving to pass… But if your body and mind are craving water you may want to give in, ha
    I think she charges at least $25k for each millionaire, no? My friend has toyed with the idea of doing it just for fun but we both agreed that he and Patty will not see eye to eye…

  450. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    Yea well I wish the wave would hit again already *l0l* If I do get messages they normally have no pot of being anything

  451. Mia says:

    Hrrrrrrrrrm, she wants her boyfriend to propose and he hasn’t? How long have they been together…

    That doesn’t bode well……..

  452. Mina says:

    Young and Fabulous – SDs come in waves, it’s a strange unexplained phenomenon… Lol.
    gurlnextdoor – You are hellbent on getting to Florida, aren’t you? Lol. For university or once you graduate/are starting your career?

  453. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    Mina – Very good point but she’s amazing in my eyes that she came up with her own business about the whole dating millionaires. & she charges out the wazoo!!!!! Very amazing to me that people pay & go to her. That’s why she is amazing woman to me she set her own standards….& will not lower them for anybody

  454. Mia says:

    I have a lot to do too. I still feel like I will be unsatisfied if I don’t eat at least one more popsicle before bed. I normally leave them alone. Maybe my body is trying to let me know I’m dehydrated. I never crave water, but I will suddenly want icy, watery, fruity things. My favs have big hunks of fruit in them. I think the sugar in them is part of what is keeping me up though, so I’ll keep myself from digging in the freezer again for now.

  455. Mina says:

    Peoples assumptions and generalisations are often to wrong. If you’re not one thing, then you MUST be the opposite.
    While I am a spoiled brat (ha!) I am far from selfish.

  456. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Haha, good point Mina…but hey if she can match other people up (which is what I want to do) and does that well. Then I’m all ears as to what she and her matchmakers do. Plus I just found out she has a branch in Florida. How convenient! 🙂

  457. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    Mia – Just remember who cares what others think about you….It’s how you see yourself

  458. Mina says:

    The woman is a matchmaker for a living, yet she is in her 40’s and can’t get her own boyfriend to propose. Hmm…

  459. ♥ϒoung&ƒabulous♥ → 300345 says:

    I feel like there’s a drought on Sd’s lately. When I first got on I was getting message after message & then now……barely anything

  460. Mia says:

    People assume I am the youngest and assume I am “spoiled,” then I mention that I am actually the eldest of 5 half-siblings and step-siblings, and then it turns to my having “entitlement and jealousy issues” until I let them know I grew up completely alone, mostly with my mother. And then I am “selfish.” You can’t win.

  461. Mina says:

    Mia – Rest assured, I think most of us are in the same situation as you, lol. My biological clock does not want to adjust to my new time zone and I have a busy day tomorrow. (Well, today…)

  462. ♥Young&Fabulous♥ →300345 says:

    GND – I think you could to. She’s a really amazing woman!!!

  463. Mina says:

    I have an older sibling but have been told I ehibit “only child” behaviors and tendencies. When they are informed that I’m not an only child and I do infact have an older sibling, it suddenly turns to “Oh, you’re the youngest so a spoiled brat.”

  464. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Wait…her who? Or is it whom? I get so confused…

  465. Fellow*306995* says:

    Time = money, so gotta b efficient.


  466. Mia says:

    Wow, I almost feel guilty for not being capable of maintaining a focused conversation at a quarter of 5:00 am.

    Night fellow. 🙂

  467. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Night Fellow, see ya later….yeah I’m reading about her company right now. I think I could learn a lot from her.

  468. ♥Young&Fabulous♥ says:

    That he did. *l0l*

  469. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Ha… Goodnight, Fellow! Hope to see you on the blog more often! 🙂

  470. ♥Young&Fabulous♥ says:

    Good night fellow!!!!

  471. Mina says:

    Fellow left just as soon as he came in, lol.

  472. ♥Young&Fabulous♥ says:

    Mina i’m the same way…I’m an only child & I never wanted a little sis or bro when I was younger except for maybe a couple of times. *l0l*

  473. Fellow*306995* says:

    ok, thx for the advice.

    topics r getting a bit random, so i’ll turn in. g’nite!

  474. Mia says:

    Work for her??? Sure, but I’d rather be an SM and just have her hook me up.

  475. Mina says:

    Lol I guess I see your point. I probably wouldn’t be too pleased with a younger sister having a name similar to mine… Or a younger sister, period.

  476. ♥Young&Fabulous♥ says:

    I think it’s cute when siblings even of the opposite sex have names that are close. Both of my cousins have the same initials well the did b4 1 got married. J.J. Jennifer & Josh cute cute cute!! & I love the names Mia & Mina ….They are very classy to me =) My names just Amber Lynn *l0l* very common!!!

  477. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Haha yeah my sister’s name is Tiffany and I’m Tiara, two T’s 🙂

  478. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    My sisters are all Tangela, Tywanda (olders), and Tameika (younger)… I’m the only one that’s not a “T” name, and all of us has “a” as the last letter. I have a similar name to my brother, Victor, and he and I are both named after my father. Victoria A. W. and Victor A. W. Jr… Fun with names!

  479. Mia says:

    HA, I’ve always thought of it as a horrible and undeserved punishment. I think it’s gross.

    Oh well though. She’s younger so I always told her it’s her duty to change her name, not mine.

    I do think having the same initials is cute though…. I think I’m just biased though. I know three siblings with very different names (excluding their family’s name of course) with the same initials. I think that’s really cute.

  480. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    reading over her website right now…man I’d love to work for her.

  481. ♥Young&Fabulous♥ says:

    for spade & spades ;

  482. ♥Young&Fabulous♥ says:

    There’s also other ones to you can get music notes & alot of others but for some reason my laptop doesn’t let me input them i don’t know why tho…it just doesn’t read the html code for them i guess

  483. Mina says:

    Mina and Mia, that’s cute.
    I know two sisters named Ida and Iva… I’ve always been a big fan of siblings of the same gender having similar (well, almost identical) names.

  484. ♥Young&Fabulous♦ says:

    diamond & diams ; spade ♠ club & clubs ; hearts & hearts ;

  485. Ebony says:

    I want in too! Lemme try…..what do you type again?

  486. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:


  487. ♥Young&Fabulous♦ says:

    Ok GND for diamond it’s ♦ for spade it’s ♠ for club it’s ♣

  488. Victoria ♠302242♠ says:

    Like this?

  489. ♥Young&Fabulous♦ says:

    Let’s see

  490. Mina says:

    Lol you girls are funny…

  491. Mia says:

    :/ maybe I should do something about that…

    Funny thing is, my sister’s name is Mina, exactly. 🙂

  492. ♥Young&Fabulous⋄ says:

    Sorry girls i’m a little rusty

  493. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    lol I must have done something wrong oh well

  494. ♥Young&Fabulous♥ says:

    Ok Vic it’s ♠ just add an s….sorry my html is a little off lol

  495. gurlnextdoor⋄274735⋄ says:

    hmm lets see

  496. ♥Young&Fabulous♠ says:

    just wanted to see if this works cuz your other spade isn’t showing up

  497. Victoria $302242♠ says:


  498. ♥Young&Fabulous♥ says:

    I kept looking at mias posts thinking it was mina…..gah! I’m such a blonde by heart…but the roots say i’m brunette =)

  499. Victoria &spade;302242♠ says:

    I definitely didn’t do that for the first one…but whatever works makes me smile! lol

  500. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Lol yeah your names are pretty close together…one’s just missing an N lol

  501. ♥Young&Fabulous♥ says:

    well it doesn’t show up on the blog itself… I guess just in where your blog name is

  502. ♥Young&Fabulous♥ says:

    You can do &heart; … ⋄ ….there’s a whole lot of others too!!!

  503. Mia says:

    Haha, GND – Mina might be glad for me to bring up the fact that we are two distinct SBs. 😀

  504. ♥Young&Fabulous♥ says:


  505. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Yep Y&F, thanks. I think I’ll see about trying to get into contact with her later on in the day (in other words after I’ve had some sleep). I wouldn’t want to send her an email when I’m half asleep. No telling how that would come out, lol.

  506. Victoria $302242♠ says:

    Yea…about that spade… I have no idea how I did that… I thought I’d pressed the dollar sign…but, no… How do I make that again?

  507. ♥Young&Fabulous♥ says:

    & if she gives no response keep sending e-mails & try to contact her. She seems like the woman who would appreciate someone who is persistent in wanting to be in that type of business. Kinda like a go getter. =)

  508. Young&Fabulous!!! says:

    Vic – I didn’t know we could use HTML on this blog….As in the spade by your profile number

  509. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Hmm good idea Y&F…I think I’ll do that. 🙂

  510. Young&Fabulous!!! says:

    Yes fellow just keep refreshing the page

  511. Victoria $302242♠ says:

    Okay, I’ve edited my profile… so as soon as it’s approved, I’d love some feedback! 🙂

  512. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Mina I wish I could fall asleep too, but this book I’m writing is keeping me awake. It’s like my little baby and I want it to be perfect.

  513. Young&Fabulous!!! says:

    GND – Why don’t you try to contact her? Send her letters, e-mails & all that? It’s worth a shot!!!

  514. Ebony says:

    Thats what I do Fellow lol

  515. Mina says:

    Hopefully the gal will be respectful enough to not delve into your personal life and ask too many questions at first (curiousity about your children/family) however I do feel that every “other woman” has the right to know the man’s motives behind seeking the company of another woman. It will help her better understand the situation and her place in it.
    Make it clear that time spent together is about you two and enjoying each others’ company, sort of like a mini escape from reality. That’s not to say you can only “skim the surface” of neutral topics but there are certain lines that generally shouldn’t be crossed, unless one party is comfortable sharing it and the other party is comfortable hearing it (ie. your family life, background, day to day life) because by then you will have established a level of comfort and trust.

  516. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Hmm, that explains the choppy, notetaking like writing. Anyway, to answer your question to Mina. You can set boundaries by talking to your SB before you get anything started about what is and what isn’t allowed in your arrangement.

  517. Fellow*306995* says:

    Q: do u just keep refreshing this page to keep up?

  518. Fellow*306995* says:

    gurl: no, i’m the investor type. mv fast, short attn span. not much time 4 phillosophy.

  519. Mia says:

    Arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, I wish I could fall asleep.

    I feel like I cant in part because I keep eating these delicious popsicles…

  520. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Hmm Fellow from your writing I’m going to go out on a limb here and guess you’re more of the philosopher type? Am I right?

  521. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Hmm Victoria never thought of it like that. That is true though, I guess…Go Alanis! lol

    Yes Y&F you would be one of my first clients. Ideally though if I could do an internship for her that would be awesome. I love the way she works with her clients, sometimes being blunt and a little pushy if it will get them the results they seek.

  522. Fellow*306995* says:

    Yng&Fab, yes but same q’s must be repeated lots. Without good search hard to tell & will waste time.

  523. Fellow*306995* says:

    Thx 4 the tips.

    No, happily married, tho many r surprised by that. Itz on my profile.

    How do u set boundries, Mina?

  524. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Good advice Mina…couldn’t agree more.

  525. Young&Fabulous!!! says:

    GND – You should so do that!!! That would be awesome…then you can hook me up with a rich cali man =)

    Fellow – Welcome to sugar land! You will find that it is more on the lines of chatting after alot of the members answer the intial questions. New questions get brought up & members check up on others to see how they are doing. It’s like a family. =)

  526. Victoria $302242♠ says:

    I’m listening to music, and Hands Clean by Alanis Morissette was playing…and I just realized, it’s highly possible she was being a SM in that song! lol Nice.

  527. Mina says:

    Oh ok, got all my facts straightened out now.

    Fellow – Just make sure no one else has access to your mobile, and don’t leave it lying around…
    As far as keepings things NSA and without drama, it really depends on you and the SB. She has to be mature enough to fully understand the situation (that you’re married and I’m assuming aren’t looking to change that) and you each have to set boundaries for each other. You can be friends and care about each other but cannot get jealous. You can be passionate but not overly involved so as to avoid drama.

  528. Victoria $302242♠ says:

    Welcome, Fellow! I agree with the chat thing, but I don’t think it needs to be “fixed”. I love it this way! Of course, there may be an actual chatroom in the making, so you may get your fix anyway.

  529. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Your welcome everyone. Yeah I love helping people with their profile writing, etc. That’s why after college I’m gonna try and start my own relationship consulting business. I want to be the next Millionaire Matchmaker, lol.

  530. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Yay we have a new SD! Welcome to the blog Fellow, and yes it does feel more like a chat than a blog. Your writing reminds me of a friend of mine, choppy yet to the point, kinda like note taking.

    Anyway staying discreet is much easier if you have an out of town SB, so I’d say your on the right track.

  531. Victoria $302242♠ says:

    Thanks, GND! Actually, the “tho”, is kind of a protest/joke. Have you ever seen Eddie Izzard? Well, he discusses the differences in languages, like how some spell through <that way, and others spell it “thru”, which makes more sense because “gh” usually gives the “ff” sound as in “rough”… So, I used the same concept only with though and tho. But, seeing as how I don’t want to explain that to every SD (which I’ve decided would be easier, and to remove the SM altogether), I’ll fix it. And thanks for the psychological tip!

  532. Ebony says:

    finally! A fellow Texan! hi Angela! Man GND you need a freaking Phd in writing profiles. I just updated mine but I doubt you can check it out until it’s approved which we all know takes forever!!

  533. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Yeah Mina that’s the one.

  534. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Hey Victoria checked out your profile. The pictures are good, but there are some things in your description I’d change. First of all change the word “tho” to “though”. Secondly, change “I believe I am nice to be around” to “I am nice to be around”. Subtle psychological technique used in writing. “I think” conveys doubt and we don’t want your potential sugar momma or daddy to doubt your nice. 🙂 Oh and take out a man is acceptable, and just keep preferrably a woman. It will make any SDs feel like they are second best and no one likes to be second best. Other than that it’s good.

  535. Angela says:

    Care to introduce yourself to the blog?
    Angela, 33, Mom, Aquarius, year of the dragon, Texan, blonde, freethinker,people watcher, nurturer, lover, artist, smoker, joker, midnight toker, I get my loving on the run……(oops saw something shiny…I’m back..lol) and student of the universe. I love discussing the great mysteries in life. (Like why are aliens so interested in probing Uranus?)
    Believe in Karma and Ka. I am finding my own spiritual path which borrows beliefs from many. I don’t mind discussing religion and politics as long as it is an open exchange with no “conversion attempts” …LOL
    I have read The Mastery of Love (Miguel Ruiz) and think everyone should read it even if they don’t need to.

    Enough about me , tell me about you……


    “Awww Jasmine, you’re in the c~h~i, too?! Duuuude…what part?”

    Doh …I finally got it, it had been nagging at me . I was wondering what you meant by has anyone found a daddy from the chi?
    I was like…????? Get a daddy from the natural energy of the Universe?

  536. Mina says:

    Superman is the SD from the other site with boyfriend material, correct? I LOVE Russia! Could go either way with Russian men though, lol.

  537. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Hmm maybe, but I’m happy with what I got. Like I said he’s pretty much perfect. Think Superman but with a Russian accent, lol. 🙂 And I think he’s getting me a new laptop since mine decided to break recently.

  538. Victoria $302242♠ says:

    So, if you guys don’t mind, would someone look at my profile? I think some improvements are needed and would like some advice.

  539. Mina says:

    Lol could still have been exciting nonetheless. Oh well 🙂

  540. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    She said she would be checking back in later Y&F, so I’m not really sure if she did go to sleep or not…and yeah that’s the same site.

    Yeah Ebony it’s one of those sites. But my SD was a total access member or whatever so it was free for me to contact him and what not. But other than that the site pretty much sucks. I like SA better personally. 🙂

    Mina no nothing came of it. Then again I pretty much gave up on him, lol. I think he was looking for more of a mistress type deal rather than a SB.

  541. Victoria $302242♠ says:

    Exactly, Ebony! I couldn’t read or write, so what’s the point?

    Y&F, Bartender is an AWESOME song…but they have so many awesome songs. I don’t think I can pick a favorite! My ex bf got me addicted to them, and I haven’t stopped listening to them since!

  542. Young&Fabulous!!! says:

    Did joules go 2 sleep? I forgot *l0l* I caught back up on the blog but there were so many other post. That I can’t remember.

  543. Mina says:

    Did anything come of it?
    I know exactly what you mean, my most recent SD is European!

  544. Ebony says:

    Vic: Is it one of those sites thes “free” but you can’t email back or even read emails sent to you by a pot unless you subscribe?

  545. Young&Fabulous!!! says:

    I have an account on sugardaddyforme.com not sure if it’s the same site cause sd4me is abbreviated.

    Vic – Hey yea I know Rehab. They have that song sittin at the bar or something. Their pretty good. Really like that song. =)

  546. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Hey Mina, yeah I was. Hence my love for Europeans. And he wasn’t at my school he was just visiting.

    Yes that’s why I moved to SA also. I personally think it’s a better site, but that’s just where I happened to meet my current SD.

  547. Victoria $302242$ says:

    I have a “free” account on SD4ME, but can’t really do anything with it. It’s why I moved to SA.

  548. Mina says:

    GND – Correct me if I am wrong but weren’t you interested in a French professor at your school?

  549. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Yeah I heard that place has some great pool parties (read it on a plane on the way to Miami lol)

    Ebony: I don’t mind saying the site name but I must warn you more guys on there are looking for traditonal long term type relationships. So if that’s not your forte, then stick with SA. But it’s SD4Me.com.

    Y&F: Yeah I guess I’m pretty lucky. He was one of those “looked like it was too good to be true” deals but I gave him a chance anyway. He turned out to be pretty much the perfect guy I was looking for. Tall, dark, handsome, generous, witty, intelligent, and European (lord knows I love Europeans, lol).

  550. Victoria $302242$ says:

    Y&F, Rehab the band, they’re from the south. You should definitely check them out if you haven’t heard them! They have some stuff on you tube…

  551. Victoria $302242$ says:

    Thanks, GND! I think this is the site…

  552. Young&Fabulous!!! says:

    GND – I’m on another site to but I feel like they are all fakes. But that’s good you found you a SD/BF. =) Wish I could find me a rich BF who treats me like a sugar daddy would *l0l*

    Vic – Are you talking about rehab like the place at the I think hard rock hotel? It’s like a big party by the pool & stuff?

  553. Mina says:

    Lol at your typo Ebony… “Bloogers”
    This blog keeps me and my jetlag company.

  554. Ebony says:

    GND: Where did you find your current SD? Or is that not acceptable for you to write lol?

  555. Victoria $302242$ says:

    I’m still wired from the concert tonight… I’d love to go grab a beer or something…but no. Cause I’m saving money to buy tickets to see Rehab in April, and maybe tickets to Rent, too… So no buying booze…

  556. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Y&F as much as I love SA.com, I did actually find my SD on another site. Even though he’s turning out to be more of a potential boyfriend than a SD, lol.

  557. Ebony says:

    Tell me why I can’t sleep! I went to bed and just lay there mad so I woke up again! Atleast I knew there would be some late-night bloogers! My my how did I ever survive before SA? lol

  558. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    You go to gravatar.com or something like that. I dunno it’s on an old thread somewhere around here. I never could figure it out.

  559. Victoria $302242$ says:

    It would be great if someone looked that up, because I can’t figure it out… 🙁 I want my picture to show! lol

  560. Victoria $302242$ says:

    That is alot, lol, but they were all pretty much cut and paste letters, with a few personalizations here and there. I’ve only been here since the very beginning of March, like the first week, I believe. And, I don’t have an SD just yet. Had a few seemingly good pot SDs, but they dead-ended. And quite a large portion of my emails were read but there was no reply.
    It’s okay, I love answering questions! One of my favorite things to say is, I have an answer to EVERYTHING…It may not be right (and probably isn’t), but it’s an answer! 😀

  561. Young&Fabulous!!! says:

    Ummmm….Vic i’m not quite sure on that but i’ll look it up if you want me to. & you sent 48 msgs? Gah girl that’s alot….any promising responses? How long have you been on SA & do you currently have a SD from this site? Sorry so many questions. =)

  562. Victoria prof. no. 302242 says:

    Question: How is it that some bloggers have their pictures up, but others don’t? How can we get our pictures up?

  563. Victoria prof. no. 302242 says:

    Lol… My first two nights here… I sent 48 messages…. lol

  564. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Yeah almost all the guys I sent messages out to last night didn’t respond. I guess it’s because most of them live in Florida, lol. Hmm maybe I should mention that I want to move next time in my emails or add it to my profile maybe. 🙂 I know one thing, I’m going to ask Superman for a new laptop. Mine is on the verge of breaking, well the little hinge is anyway, lol.

  565. Young&Fabulous!!! says:

    Hi Victoria!!!! That’s good to hear you had an awesome night!!!

  566. Young&Fabulous!!! says:

    GND – Ok I will be sure to do that!! It took close to 24hrs for my profile to get approved so….I will wait to do that *l0l* Oh & yes I would love to hang out if your ever in TN. You seem like a pretty cool chica =) ….

    Well, I sent out I believe 4 messages last night & all but one read their messages but no responses. Sometimes it’s so discouraging but I know I know I gotta be patient. Just sucks sometimes.

  567. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Doing good Victoria, glad to hear you loved the concert.

  568. Victoria prof. no. 302242 says:

    Allo there, sugars! I just got back from an EPIC Flogging Molly concert! It was fantastic… The last show of their 17 Green tour. I loved it! So, how are my favorite sugars this evening?

    Welcome, N2T!

  569. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Aww Y&F I don’t think I ever saw your profile before, but you are soo cute. If I’m ever in Tennesee then we definitely have to hang out. Now on to your profile:

    Take out a few of the =) and change the “i” in two of your “I’m”s to capital “i”s. Other than that it’s good.

  570. Ebony says:

    I thought it was great! i’m gonna have to update mine soon lol.

  571. Young&Fabulous!!! says:

    Ebony – Dito on what GND said. You can talk or bring up anything & you will get some similar stories & alot of great advice. We are all equally the same & we all have problems. It’s just a part of life. Hey guys check my profile out. I re-did it cause before it sounded very bratty & TOO demanding. 300 345

  572. Ebony says:

    I know am mad at myself. He wants to come over and spend the night but doesn’t see this as anything wrong and he’s like am not using you as a booty call and yet he feels hurt since I refused. College boys are so dumb. I am so tired of them!
    I am never, never, ever dating a college athlete again lol. Least of all football playas!!

  573. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Haha Ebony my profile took alot of tweaking. You should’ve seen it when I first joined, I was completely lost. But reading the blog really helped with that. 🙂

    Wow Y&F, I was somewhat in a similar situation right before I left for college. I dated a guy, he ended up going to jail for 8 months which I was somewhat happy about in the end because it forced me to let him go. Something I didn’t want to do at the time although I could tell he was bad for me. Then he got out around late December and sure enough came calling me asking for me back. We didn’t get back together, although I must admit I thought about it, and now here I am…a happy SB. 🙂 So just hang in there Ebony, and remember this may be the Sugar Blog but we’re like family. You can talk to us about anything and we’ll be here for you.

  574. Young&Fabulous!!! says:

    I’m pretty good…could always be better though…It took me a good 20 30 mins to catch up on the blog where I left off early this morning *l0l*
    Ebony – Welcome to the sugar family. Just like you I am new to this. I’ve had alot of pot sd’s but none promising. & about the whole ex thing. I got out of a 4yr relationship about a year ago. I didn’t talk to him for a good 9 months & then we finally got back in touch & now he calls me everyday to chck up on me & blah blah blah. He knows I don’t want to get back with him but I’m just making sure he’s safe. He used to do some drugs & get into trouble…Not to mention he had a crazy ex after me & his family contacted me thats how we got back in touch & they just want me to get him back on the right track. Gah! that’s alot to type & prolly way off subject but just sharing some experiences. =) So ebony I know what you mean by the whole ex issue.

  575. Ebony says:

    I just got it lol. Man now this idiot just called me to start a fight over nothing. Why did I even answer? I’m stupid lol. wow GND and Jamisen y’all knew what to write in y’alls profiles!
    Welcome Y&F

  576. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    hey Y&F! Doing good, how are you?

  577. Young&Fabulous!!! says:

    Hi my fellow SB’s!!!!! How’s everyone doing tonight???

  578. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Ok it’s different for SDs and SBs. To look at a SBs profile go to another SB profile (like yours for example) and replace the numbers at the end of the web address with that SBs profile number. Its the same with SDs but you have to replace one SD’s profile numbers with another one’s.

  579. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Well I came up with a formula for first dates. I never ask the guy for money, I just wait and see what he does. If he pays for dinner, takes me shopping, gives me a goodbye gift of some sort, etc. then I know he’s more than likely serious. Then also I wait to see if he brings up money. If he does and the chemistry is there, then I will see him again. If not, then goodbye Mr. Whoever, time for me to move on.

  580. Ebony says:

    I still don’t know how to look at y’alls profiles. I’m tecchnologically-challenged so can someone tell me how you go about it? and if this fool doesn’t stop calling me i’m gonna kill him!

  581. Jamisen/305521 says:

    I just hit “recent logins” and I see our beloved HenriLouis is online! Geez I’m such a stalker..

  582. Jamisen/305521 says:

    I know, Ebony.. and when I said I made an offer to him it was only because his profile went on and on about how he wants to get to know a girl first and that in finding his ideal SB he wants to go slow.

  583. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    WTF Jamisen, it’s emails like that that make no sense. I’d tell him to go on the street corner, wait, and go find a young lady there. Because that’s what he’s looking for an escort or a prostitute.

  584. Ebony says:

    What the hell? Jamisen thats funny. Some of these men on here think this is an escort service or something. at 1.30a.m thats a real desperate fool.

  585. Jamisen/305521 says:

    Ebony, in many ways it is a business transaction. Hopefully some of the blog-regular SDs can echo in on this when they see it in the morning but I remember somewhere in the blog archives that didn’t put it better terms. It doesn’t have to be expectations such as “I need so and so amount.” or “I am willing to do this.” For starters, it’s not all about sex. Second, I believe a line has to be drawn where you lay it out that somewhere along the way you need that allowance.. otherwise it’s just regular dating.

  586. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Hmm Ebony I’m in the same position. Ex boyfriend who keeps calling/texting me. Tis annoying…unfortunately for him he’s been replaced lol.

  587. Jamisen/305521 says:

    GND, I just added you, but you’re offline? No matters because I’m going to bed soon.

    Ebony- hot body!! and I like what you have to say in your profile. I agree with Katherine that a little about what you expect out of your SD/SB relationship, or what he could expect out of it.

    2nd rant of the night- It’s so annoying when a man sends you a message. I check out his profile first. He sounds good. Then I read the message and it goes along the lines of “I’m in town, let’s meet tonight.” HELLO! It’s 1:30 AM on a weeknight. My profile says I work and go to school a lot. I am not an escort. So I make an offer- if you’re truly about getting to know someone, ask me a question about me… and the response is “Well I’m leaving town the day after tomorrow, let me know if you want to meet soon.” UGH.

  588. Ebony says:

    Lol GND how exactly do you do that coz i dont see a place to input tha number. Somebody please save me from my ex! Lol we are in that gray area where we are not together but still not willing to let go. Man I’m ready to be done with him but it’s so hard esp when he texts me in the middle of the night like this and am so lonely. somebody please slap me back to my senses. this is a major reason why I need a SD. to take my mind of these silly college kidz!
    Ps: thanks for the advice Katherine but I didnt wanna appear like I was performing a business transaction lol. How can I improve it?

  589. Jamisen/305521 says:

    Katherine, thanks for the compliments. About the pictures, yes, when I uploaded them I thought about putting the blackbar up for the full length one.. but then I realized I was making a silly face and the picture is so low quality you can barely recognize me anyways. It’s not a good representation of me at all, but it was the only full length picture I have.

  590. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Night Katherine

    Yeah you can search people by their profile number.

  591. Katherine says:

    for once in my life, lol. Ebony. nice profile… but your profile sort of *in my opinion at least, and I’m just one gal* gives me the impression that you’re looking for a regular relationship, versus and SD/SB one. In other words, if I were an SD I’d wanna know what it was that *I* could do for you that some normal guy wouldn’t. What are your goals? What will the money I give you as an allowance be used for? Is there anything specific I can do to spoil you? That sort of thing. But, like I said, just thoughts.

    Night ladies 🙂

  592. Ebony says:

    And how do you search for someone specifically? As in if i wanted to view your profile how would i do that?

  593. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Haha I don’t think so Ebony. From what I’ve seen the SDs outnumber the SBs, especially the real ones. But you’ll get one…just gotta hang in there.

  594. Ebony says:

    Yay! Now just where is that SD? I guess I though since the SD’s outnumber the SB’s it would be easy finding one but alas! I’m in for a rude awakening!

  595. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Night Katherine…if your going to sleep, which I think you are lol

  596. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Wow Ebony your tall and got a hot body! I liked your profile it was sweet and direct. You were also clear on what you were looking for, so it’s all good by my standards.

  597. Katherine says:

    yes. chatroom is coming in due time, I always trust stephan’s word 🙂

  598. Katherine says:

    alright. for reals. I’m barely stayin up anymore. Have fun chatting till the wee hours of the morning! 😉

  599. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Lol we’re not gonna leave you Ebony. Hey isn’t the blog supposed to be getting a chatroom? I think I heard someone say that earlier…and yes Ebony I’ll look at your profile.

  600. Ebony says:

    Now don’t you guys start IMing off and leaving me to man the blog alone. Man I hate not having cable! It sucks bigtyme! could y’all take a look at my profile and tell me what you think? 308127. I didnt know what to write lol.

  601. Katherine says:

    EVERYONE. lol
    hahaha and despite all the razz that its revamp got.. i feel like more people are using it now..

  602. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Hmm true Katherine lol. Aim, yahoo messenger, or facebook. Everyone on my campus seems to have a facebook, lol.

  603. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    And you too Katherine, yay the blog shall live even on through the night. 🙂

  604. Katherine says:

    haha yay for being college-age. It is VERY rare when we don’t have AIM, I’d say.

  605. Katherine says:

    neither can I ebony. i tend to say i’m out for the night, read a bit of whatever book i’m reading, and then check this blog again before i sleep. ha. I love this sugar family 🙂

    Jamisen: WOAH. I just checked out your profile for the first time. Hot damn girl, you wrote it like a pro even though you said you’re new to this whole thing. Props. But I have a question: why did you block out your eyes in two of the pictures but you have a full face in a third? That seems to negate the point of the “censor.”

  606. Ebony says:

    Ok I was lurking in the shadows after my terrible encounter with that creep earlier but am out now. I cant sleep anyhowz.

  607. Jamisen/305521 says:

    Haha, I feel that I’m capable to holding conversation pretty well, even when they’re awkward I continue to bring up new topics. And I handle silence well. Lots of people are uncomfortable with silence.

    We need to find a way to exchange gchat/aim info, GND, I’d love to talk to you past the blog!

  608. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Ok see you later Joules…yeah Jamisen I guess it’s just us two until Joules gets back. I hate email too, but I think I hate phone conversations even more, lol.

  609. Joules*300035* says:

    alrighty, i’m outta here for a while.

    i just keep getting more and more annoyed with stupid people right now (nothing to do with my sweet sweet sugar world tho!)

    i’m going to go work on building a computer….bbl

  610. Jamisen/305521 says:

    agreed, GND. I for one hate e-mail and do best in person.

    So is it the late night crew again- GND, Joules, and I? If there are others lurking tonight, come out!

  611. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Lol, Joules some people are easier to talk to in person than through email.

  612. Joules*300035* says:

    lol Jamisen! so true!

    yes the dj is a guy

    but he was so cool in person; we all hit it off and had a blast talkin but now it’s like friggin pullin teeth!

  613. Jamisen/305521 says:

    Joules, one thing I learned from your post is that we may find SDs on this site rude at times but men in general can be rude. (not to be sexist, but I assumed it was a man. If I’m wrong I’ll retract my statement)

  614. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Haha the joys of the entertainment industry Joules.

  615. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Yeah Jamisen there does seem to be alot of SDs down there. And hey that’s where my SD (I guess I can call him that now) lives.

  616. Jamisen/305521 says:

    gurlnextdoor, if you’re moving to FL, I’m coming with! It seems that’s where all the SDs are!

  617. Joules*300035* says:

    Well, tonight hasn’t been the greatest as I’ve been quite frusterated with my DJ client.

    I’m working on doing a brief bio on him to include with the demo cd when i’m trying to book gigs for him. so, i had like 8 questions for him; one of which was somethin like…’so you worked at Sundown before….’

    i was already getting frusterated as it usually takes a couple days for him to reply and usually he don’t answer all of my questions but what a shock! he replied in like two friggin minutes!!!

    so i open the email; all thrilled and shyt…to find this…

    “It was Sundowner”

    THAT IS IT!!!
    Out of 8 friggin questions, all he did was correct me on the name of a past place he worked at

    so, now i’m thinking i’m going to write him an email tomorrow if i don’t get a reply to my questions and just be straight up with him and tell him if he can’t communicate with me and get me the info i need in a timely manner then i have no clue how he expects me to book gigs for him.

    *rolls eyes*

  618. Joules*300035* says:

    SE, I just wanted to agree with your earlier comment in regards to writing for your audience; very well put!

    I type totally different in my profile and to my pots than i do in here; just as i type totally diff. to my friends online than i do in here lol

    anywho, thanks for saying that for everyone! i was sure thinking it myself!

  619. Jamisen/305521 says:

    Thank you Kat, good night!

  620. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Night Kat.

  621. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Yeah actually he kinda bribed me into coming to see him, lol. And on the fourth or fifth try it worked. 🙂 And I’m glad it did.

  622. Katherine says:

    okay. I’m turning in for the night. Joules I hope your SD contacts you soon enough, and that Jamisen: yours ends up getting in touch with you & letting you know what was up.

    Been great chatting 🙂

  623. Joules*300035* says:

    alrighty, i’m finished with my personal phone calls finally lol

    time to catch back up on the blog

  624. Katherine says:

    aw. GND. that’s great that he didn’t pressure you. I had one lead that i was talking to quite extensively…and then when he starting talking about the first meeting…the pressure came. and not even inconspicuously. it was totally blatant. I’m not into that. I want a gentleman that’s going to go along with my comfort zone.

  625. Jamisen/305521 says:

    New2This– I second everyone’s suggestions for your profile. I liked your pictures and what you had to say in your descriptions. Simply streamline it and make it less stream of thought by having complete sentences. I prefer that for SD profiles, it legitimizes them as educated and intelligent, which you are too so I’m sure the same applies for SBs. Anything else, just ask!

    gurlnextdoor is right. If the chemistry is there, I personally believe it is all right to have sex with an SD. But if anyone forces you to do something you are not comfortable with (even if it’s asking for a phone number) then you have the right to say no, here in sugarland or elsewhere.

    Katherine, I didn’t know a chatroom was in the works, but I can’t wait for it either!

    SuthrnExec, BeachGirl, Katherine–Thanks for the reassurance. I’m sure that’s what it was too and I’m glad I heard it from you so that I don’t over think.

  626. Joules*300035* says:

    Kat, yes being at home can have its advantages; especially when you’re working at home but jeeeez, i’m just all antsy cuz all week last week i had so much going on and now; NOTHING! lol

    Ebony, I personally prefer to get the first meeting out of the way ASAP because, as i recently found out, chatting, texting, emailing….it’s entirely different than talking face-to-face. only do what you’re comfortable with as far as traveling out of state or not. just make sure you’re safe and have a back-up plan (aka ‘worst-case scenario’). All of my pot SDs have been the ones to bring up the money issue. If they don’t bring it up before meeting, i personally suggest you somehow figure out how to do so yourself. i don’t like the idea of meeting a pot w/o making sure they’re on the same page as far as my allowance goes. As far as ethnicity goes, who knows what makes a man’s brain tick! There are plenty of successful SBs that are NOT caucasian so no need to be concerned!

    Vic, yes i’m a promoter. I’m mainly dealing with the local hiphop community right now but will be branching off more towards metal, punk, rock, etc once i get really good.

    GND, as far as you moving to FL, YES i think you should start looking now. you never know, you may find one that’s willing to pitch in on moving expenses!!!

    Alicia, we can talk music anytime you want! I posted my email addy on a previous blog topic i think yesterday or so. just don’t wanna take any chances on gettin yelled at for posting it again lol

  627. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Night BG and SE

  628. Katherine says:

    alright. night beach and suthrn 🙂 and thanks!

  629. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Yes SuthrnExec I agree. Haha “know your audience”, that reminds me of 11th grade English class. My teacher stressed the hell out of me with that, and it came in handy for writing my college essay, my profile on here, and writing my novels (that are all still in progress).

    Your welcome Kat. Yeah I’m not going to lie, I sort of had sex on my first date with him. Well the morning after, but it wasn’t like he pressured me to do it. It just kinda happened.

  630. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Kat Kitty ~ lol i don’t know !!! i’m too tired to think, and i have a job interview tomorrow i need to be awake!
    and besides , no pot SD has contacted me since for ever! lol
    nite all

  631. New2This says:

    SE that makes lots of sence… I was thinking about that while I was writing and I also look at those things… Concidering I am going to school for Mass Communication: Print.. I should know these things… thanks for the advice

  632. SuthrnExec says:

    I’m going to turn in as well – good night ladies and may the good luck of St. Patty’s day follow you the rest of the week!

  633. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    well nite all Sugars!!! i cannot stay awake!

  634. New2This says:

    oh alright… well i hope i can find someone like that… with the chem and everything… that would be great

  635. Katherine says:

    GND: thanks for being so honest! That’s something I think about as well so I like to hear the truth of the matter.

    haha beach do you have any good exotic ideas for my name? lol

  636. SuthrnExec says:

    Just a friendly tip to all SBs – please take this in the spirit in which it is written – if you are seeking a SD that is a successful business person, you really should write your profile using correct grammar, punctuation, etc. Using all CAPS, abbreviating works like “u” for “you”, not capitalizing “i” when it’s a pronoun are generally not looked upon favorably in the business world – so it will not be a positive thing when a pot SD reads a profile that is written like a text message. I am not being critical of anyone in particular, just an observation. The bottom-line is – know your audience and write for your audience.

  637. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Haha Katherine I think you might be right. He seems to be sticking around and we get along really well and the like. Plus he seems to take a big interest in my two greatest loves (drawing and writing).

    N2T: To answer your question on whether or not I’ve had sex with any of my potential SDs, the answer is yes. I’ve had sex with the most recent one, but only after we had corresponded by email, phone, and text messages. Also the chemistry was awesome when we were together so it came naturally and didn’t feel forced.

  638. New2This says:

    i will update it later because it takes forever to approve…

  639. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Hey Katherine kitty

  640. Katherine says:

    p.s. i’m still totally psyched we may be getting a chatroom in time. This refreshing is interesting. lol I type something and then 5 more posts are up before i’m finished haha

  641. New2This says:

    at the moment i cant think of any others… can u name some that i might not know?

  642. SuthrnExec says:

    New2this – so what lingo are you unsure about?? a pot SD/SB is a potential SD, etc.

  643. Katherine says:

    hey beach!

  644. Katherine says:

    and New2This: there’s also a “write” in there that should be “writing” instead..

  645. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    New2This~ pot sd’s= potential Sugar dady
    just ask we will tell you , i got on this blog sat, and i had to [email protected]

  646. New2This says:

    thanks BG.. and yes i updated my profile thats y its pending

  647. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Hey New2This, just looked at your profile. I love your pictures, they all look different and seem to show a different side of you (one is sexy, going out for the night, one is sexy, intelligent college girl, and one seems to just be like everyday). Take the I need to be upgraded part out though and turn some of those “…” into periods. Also change the two “u”s at the bottom of the page into “you”. Other than that it’s good.

  648. SuthrnExec says:

    Jamisen, still, you don’t know what all was going on on his end. Try not to over-think it and reconnect later. My money’s on it was no big deal. However, if he was offended by the question, I’d have to wonder because that’s a totally legit question.

  649. Katherine says:

    I wonder if he just got busy, like Suthrn said. I’ll hope that for you, at least. I guess time will tell, if he doesn’t send you email tellin you what’s up tomorrow than I’d be inclined to send a polite inquisition .. hm. It definitely is odd when they’re usually attentive tho.

  650. New2This says:

    whats a pot sd?? and theres some other lingo that i dont understand

  651. Jamisen/305521 says:

    Sorry SuthrnExec, your comment didn’t pop up until after Katherine’s. But you’re right, I’m not going to freak out about it for now. It’s not worth the energy when it was probably just a little slip up.

  652. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Jamisen~ maybe he got cut off , think positive Sugar!
    Welcome N2T.

  653. SuthrnExec says:

    New2This – your profile is still pending approval – we’ll look at it when it is approved.

  654. Jamisen/305521 says:

    Katherine– Me? I would like to think I was patient. He was online for another 10 min with that question dangling and he signed off without saying bye. When we talk, he’s usually attentive with the hello’s and such.

  655. Katherine says:

    GND: superman, haha, that name sounds like it’s becoming more than just a pot sd by now!

  656. New2This says:

    so girlnextdoor jus curious… do u have sexual encounters with your SD?? im askin because dec ’08 is a long time in most ways

  657. SuthrnExec says:

    Jamisen, I think maybe he was in the process of logging off before he saw your question – I see no reason why he would be offended by the question. Maybe he had to sign-off suddenly for some reason? It’s easy to let your mind go nuts of what all could have gone wrong, but try not to do that – you’ll reconnect and probably see it was nothing.

  658. Katherine says:

    Hm, Jamisen, I’d actually like Suthrn’s take on that.

  659. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Yeah I’ve been on here since December of 08′ and I had one SD for a month and none since then. Ran into a few time wasters along the way but I look at them as steps toward finding my perfect SD…yay Superman texted me and is reading one of my novels I sent him. 🙂

  660. New2This says:

    no i dont think is was wrong maybe it was jus he had to get offin a hurry or his internet connection died… think positive i always say

  661. New2This says:

    well im in college and i live sc.. im a daddy;s girl but hes in jail now and my money stopped flowing… i joined becuase i need some help and also someone to learn from…a mentor… my profile number is 309241

  662. Jamisen/305521 says:

    Wow, that was really weird. I was talking to a pot SD online and I thought we were hitting it off pretty well. And he asked if I had any more questions for him so I asked how much time is he looking to spend with his SB. He didn’t respond and just signed off. Was that wrong of me to ask?

  663. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Thanks New2this 🙂 And since this is the introductory thread, feel free to tell us about yourself. Like why you joined, where your from, etc. And what’s your profile number?

  664. SuthrnExec says:

    Patience is the key. I was looking back through old emails the other day and I was trying to remember when I first joined SA – I thought it was in Aug or Sept of ’08. I finally found the welcome email and it was in MAY!
    So I was a member for 7 months before OC and I ran across each other on the blog. I actually didn’t start reading and posting on the blog until Oct ’08 — so you have to be patient.

  665. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Welcome Suthrn. I knew you would. 🙂

    thanks, Katherine. I try to make my words count. x

  666. New2This says:

    oh ok… im sorry it jus looks better to me… and yes u can look at my profile…

  667. Katherine says:

    oh! of course there are guys here that will/should be willing to help you out with that! It takes a bit of searching as a bunch of the guys i’ve come across are focusing on that…but then there are others that are gems (for what I’m looking for, at least). So, just keep looking & keepin the chin up.

  668. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Ok New2This first off do you mind if we take a look at your profile, how that looks can greatly improve your chances of finding a SD. Secondly please stop with the all caps it makes it seem like your screaming.

  669. New2This says:


  670. New2This says:


  671. SuthrnExec says:

    Thanks Villa – and I am and will enjoy!

    New2This – I iwll defer to the ladies – but I would imagine there would be. There is almost anything anyone might be looking for. It’s a pretty big community.

  672. Katherine says:

    New2This…what do you mean by “upgrade” you?

    Villa: PERFECTLY worded.

  673. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Hey New2This, you can find whatever type of arrangement you want on here. It’s just a matter of finding the right guy.

  674. Katherine says:

    aw. that’s sweet. Thanks SuthrnExec. Though I still think you’re underestimating yourself 😉

    We all do indeed have our unique qualities, which is awesome considering the variation of interests that the SDs on this site have. So, just a little bit of time plus a little bit of hope plus a little bit of luck 😀 hehe

  675. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Thanks for the words of encouragement SuthrnExec.

  676. New2This says:


  677. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Being “southern” has nothing to do with it… you are in the situation you are in for a reason, and you deserve it! Enjoy! Both of you 🙂

  678. SuthrnExec says:

    Villa, you’re right – but one thing I don’t do is take for granted the wonderful situation I am in. I often wonder how a southern boy like me could be so fortunate! It also tells me that there’s someone out there for you guys too.

  679. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Mmm the lo mein was good, but too much for me to handle for now. So I’ll eat it periodically through the night as I spend my time writing on this great blog.

  680. SuthrnExec says:

    Each of you will find someone who is taken by your unique qualities and will be treated as you deserve. It’s just a matter of connecting with that right SD – but it will come.

  681. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    LoL ~ self-deprecation will only get you so far….

  682. Katherine says:

    hahaha SE you’re so modest
    GND: lo mein. one of my favessss! good taste, chica!

  683. SuthrnExec says:

    wow – maybe i can keep the truth under wraps a little while longer – i’m enjoying this! 😉

    Good evening GND – how was the lo mein?

  684. Katherine says:

    haha you remind me of that saying: shoot for the moon, even if you miss you’ll land among the stars. <3

  685. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    You’re at the top of the pedestal, SE!!!!! 🙂 difficult to “shoot higher” than you.. x

  686. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Hey everyone, I’m sorry for the disappearance earlier. I was busy eating some vegetable lo mein and feeling my mind with pop culture, lol. How’s everyone doing tonight?

  687. SuthrnExec says:

    Thank you for the nice compliment – but shoot higher!! lol

  688. Katherine says:

    haha I popped in here and there but was a bit preoccupied to join in on the conversations 🙂

    Joules: that is SO exciting that you’ll have high speed internet soon. and no email? i wouldn’t worry, he sounds like a catch that’s still interested..

    I can’t wait for an SD like that and SthrnExec (yes i read up!) 🙂

  689. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Joules~ he’ll write i’m sure he did say he had a great time right?

  690. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Katherine were you hiding????? 🙂

  691. Joules*300035* says:

    well, i WAS going to catch up on posts buuuuut i gotta couple of personal phone calls to make so i’ll catch up in a bit!

    just think, this time on thursday i will be able to use the phone AND be online cuz I WILL HAVE HIGH-SPEED I-NET!!!!


    no email from my SD so far though which is really wierd!

  692. Katherine says:

    He’s pimpin it on St. Patrick’s eve :p

  693. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    mais oui… english, of course! 🙂

    suthrn and three ladies… nice!

  694. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    i will i don’t like typing french it takes for ever

  695. Katherine says:

    heyhey, I’ll talk if you speak in english 😉

  696. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    yeah i think so
    everyone left!

  697. SuthrnExec says:

    Greetings ladies – is it just you two tonight?

  698. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Hi SE how are you?

  699. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    hi Suthrn!!!!!! woo!!!! 🙂

  700. SuthrnExec says:

    Good evening everyone!

  701. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    i know it’s so quiet tonight isn’t it?
    yeah if we do they will talk to us babes! lol
    hows your search going?

  702. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    maybe if we speak in english others will say hello….

  703. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    oui, j sais. mais c’est moi, et toi, ici, c’est tout!

  704. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    si tu veux mais personne va nous comprendre lol

  705. raine*306712* says:

    ^Roughly translated, BG, I’ve been so nervous since I joined I’ve overanalyzed EVERY aspect of this search, reading and rereading these blogs, ensuring everything will be just so BEFORE my search officially begins…

    I’ll break it down a bit more tomorrow. G’night for now…

  706. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    that would be “beach_girl”… fille d plage…

    good night raine. x

  707. Beach_Girl*306486 says:


  708. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Ahhh salut … fille de plage… tu veux parler en francais no? 🙂

  709. raine*306712* says:

    Looks that way.

    I must part myself, the medicine’s kicked in. Til the morrow, sugar fans…*insert old-school tv test pattern*

  710. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    you don;t think hard looking for work???? i’m sorta lost lol my blond hair again lol

  711. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Is everyone gone????

  712. raine*306712* says:

    I’m too sick to panic/be nervous right now…my first concern is getting my pics up. [again, I don’t think this hard looking for work]

  713. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    raine~ your not old , I’m older than you and i’m 5’9″ with heel i’m taller than 6’1″

  714. raine*306712* says:

    See you later, SQ; enjoy the rest of your evening…

  715. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    SQ~ you are beautiful stop the bad thoughts, yes i did have something to eat not sure who said it! lol

  716. SuzieQ*297329* says:

    Hey, where did everyone go? Did I make you all hungry or something? LOL!

    Ah well, I have work to do anyway. See you all later…have a great evening everyone!

  717. raine*306712* says:


    I was initially concerned about my size, but the bigger issue is my age?! Oh no…

  718. SuzieQ*297329* says:

    No wait…that was me! Right, blood sugar coming back to normal.

  719. SuzieQ*297329* says:

    Ah, starting to make sense now. BG must’ve grabbed a protein bar 🙂

  720. SuzieQ*297329* says:

    BG – I like your attitude! Usually I’m of a similar mind…I think maybe I’m just a bit intimidated by all the youth and gorgeousness around here! (is that a word?)

  721. raine*306712* says:

    BG: that was me who said I needed to fix my profile, my side note for when you mentioned a pot alleged you were too far.

  722. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    SQ~ you should mail anyone you like, i think!

  723. Katherine says:

    hahaha SuzieQ that’s so cute!! I like that blood sugar quip 🙂
    And I’ve been caught in that debate too… how much older should I go, eh? But I figure I don’t have to worry about that as I’m just hoping for a sort-of-connection first.

  724. SuzieQ*297329* says:

    Well, BG said I looked 18 so I should just go for it with these guys in their 40’s who want younger women. But then she said “SQ ~ that do you mean fix your profile!” which I didn’t understand either, so I’m as lost as you. Maybe her blood sugar is low and she needs a snack? LOL!

  725. raine*306712* says:

    SouthernGent2: great to meet you! I was trying to place you in the archives just now. looking forward to your deluge of wisdom…

  726. Katherine says:

    okay you two have officially lost me lol (beach and SuzieQ)

  727. SuzieQ*297329* says:

    *hugs Beach_Girl* 18? Really? OK, you’re my new best friend lol!

  728. SuzieQ*297329* says:

    BG – huh?

  729. Katherine says:

    BeachGirl: I know that feeling that you’re talking about. I never like it when I see that they’ve read it and haven’t responded. 🙁 Even if I have given them a couple/few days.

    p.s. hi southernGent 🙂 Good to see you back on the blogs as I’ve read some of your messages on the previous blogs.

  730. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    SQ ~ that do you mean fix your profile!

  731. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    SouthernGent2~ i’m new but, didn’t see anything advertised, just went online and voila! i’m here! nice to meet you

  732. raine*306712* says:

    BG: Hmmm…kay. [Yeah, better fix my profile.]

    Jamisen, I browse profiles every other day at best. (I stay in this blog!*lol*) I need to check this out…

  733. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Well i know the 2 i liked have been on here so maybe they didn’t like the profile, also one i did like read the mail but didn’t answer so… guess he didn’t like what he saw lol…

  734. SouthernGent2 says:

    Wow, I go away for a few weeks and look at all the posts and new members. I am completely lost with the new names here. Not much I can add to everything said above, but its good to see this place alive and well. Obviously all the recent publicity has helped attract a high number of new members to SA. Keep up the good work Stephan.

  735. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    SQ i joked and said ” it’s a cute tinny car :)” lol
    so what i mail eveyone i think is cute! fuck the age thing, you never know
    you look like your 18 no worries for you , come on the worst thing is he doesn’t answer…
    it’s hard here to get a mail i swear , i get more requests on myspace that i do here and on myspace i’m private lol

  736. SuzieQ*297329* says:

    Chin up BG, some of these men are very busy creatures indeed. A few blog topics back I asked for advice as I hadn’t heard from my pot in 2 days and I was just going to assume he wasn’t interested. Several of the sd’s and sb’s here suggested I send a polite inquiry as it was likely he was just very busy. I did, and am very happy I took that advice as now things are moving along very nicely! Knowing more about him now, I can certainly appreciate how busy his work keeps him and I will be more patient in the future!

  737. SuzieQ*297329* says:

    Thanks BG…I saw him already but he’s 44 and wants “young” which relatively speaking, I’m not 🙁 Besides, I have no idea what make or model of car that is!

  738. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    lol SQ you are too funny, he did say he was getting off the site , that was why he sent me his email…
    he broke mine 🙁

  739. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    You know i sent out about 5 mails yesterday and not one . not one got opened or answered!!! 🙁
    ahhh well , soon i hope!

  740. SuzieQ*297329* says:

    BG- maybe he’s redone his profile and it’s waiting for approval? Maybe he changed it to specify local after you broke his heart LOL!

  741. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    SQ you should look at 103335 he’s from bc too

  742. SuzieQ*297329* says:

    Weird! Oh well, guess it wasn’t meant to be. 🙁

    That’s OK, I’m having a great get-to-know-you time with a pot sd since the last 10 days or so. He just sent me a bunch of info to check him out and it all came back legit. So that gives me confidence.

    We are talking about meeting in a couple of weeks. Can I have a bit of that cookie? LOL!

  743. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Yes lets all stay positive
    SQ i have his email i can’t give that out i would feel bad

  744. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    76281 sorry typed it in wrong
    but it’s no longer available sorry sugar 🙁

  745. raine*306712* says:

    Not if, Katherine, WHEN*. 🙂

    *any day now…

  746. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    now it’s a guy from i don’t know where this sucks!

  747. Jamisen/305521 says:

    Katherine, Beach Girl, raine– that fortune is for my entire sugar family! My roommate bought a package at the dollar store.. if it comes through, the dollar store fortune cookies were a good investment!

    My little rant of the evening: Do any of you SBs (and even for actively searching SDs) get frustrated when you go through the search listings and see the same profiles repeated? Especially when they are ones that you’ve sent a message but never responded?

  748. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    78251 it was

  749. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    his profile no longer exists 🙁

  750. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    raine~ i could only travel a few days a week i told him that , i was honest . at 700$ for a plane tick a week!!!! i totally get it! i do like him though
    Jamisen~ i need that fortune! 🙂
    SQ ~ i can’t see his profile!

  751. raine*306712* says:

    Hi SuzieQ. Oh yeah, it’s buzzin’.

  752. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    i’m searching for it SQ

  753. Katherine says:

    Beach: too bad about that one. I do wonder why he still wants to talk but why go against it, eh? What if you do indeed travel that way just to visit Jamisen 😉

    Jamisen: nice fortune cookie!!!! Sure would be nice if it comes true for all of us. Then again it will..it’s just a matter of time <3

    Evenin SuzieQ 🙂

  754. raine*306712* says:

    Aw, that’s cold, BG. I don’t get that ‘too far’ stuff at all.

    That’s funny, Jamisen…I can’t recall the last time I had a fortune cookie, much less what the fortune said. Best of luck indeed.

  755. SuzieQ*297329* says:

    Hey thanks BG! What’s his number…I’ll have a look 🙂

  756. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    i actually did give him the # of your profile , i said you were very hot and he said he’s look at it! he’s was up front gave me his name no bs at all

  757. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Jamisen ~ yeah it would of been great for me too,,,,, but!

  758. SuzieQ*297329* says:

    Good evening all! Busy on the blog today huh?!

    Nico – still lmao over your comment to Ebony re her not-so-pot sd…ick!

    BG – why not send him my way…he’s right in my neighbourhood 🙂

    How are all my Canadian sugar sisters tonight?

  759. raine*306712* says:

    Huh. I’ve gone blank. Oh yeah: I must have a pic before sending messages, right?

  760. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Kat/Kitty 2~ he wants to still talk so…. i dont know what to think
    ahhh well, happy StDrinks to you too!!! that is the way of the Irish!

  761. Jamisen/305521 says:

    Oh I forgot to tell everyone: today my roommate gave me a fortune cookie, it says that financial assistance will be on its way soon.

    Too bad it didn’t say financial assistance and romance, bc that would have been a good indicator of a pot SD coming my way 🙂

    Hope that fortune holds true for everyone in the sugar fam that is seeking!

  762. Katherine says:

    aw bummer, Beach. maybe another that’s in BC will be okay with it..

    Hi all, and as I’ve told my friends: Happy St. Drink till they’re cute day :p (it’s not normally how I talk but my friend put it up on facebook and i chuckled at it!)

  763. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Hey raine~ my pot from BC told me i was too far 🙁

  764. Jamisen/305521 says:

    Alicia, I’ve lived in Baltimore for a year. Yeahhh not so cool.

  765. Jamisen/305521 says:

    Yay, party it up tonight on the blog with GBD and raine!

    Oh and I didn’t get to mention it before to Ebony:

    I think the amount of views compared to the number of messages you are getting are pretty normal. Try sending out some messages yourself.. but be prepared that not every one is going to be returned.

    As for the guy who made the lewd comments, he is no pot SD at all! As everyone else said, block him and report him. Not OK behavior.

  766. Cat says:

    Ohhh…ya, the gov. is garnishing my account lol for student loans…but it doesn’t do that for just anyone. Just robbing the poor as usual!

    I gotta get going, I’ll catch up with you all later!

    Happy St.Patrick’s Day!!!

  767. raine*306712* says:

    Beach_Girl, Jamisen, how are ya?

    I’ll definitely be here tonight; can’t enjoy a drink since I’m congested 😐

  768. Alicia*299952 says:

    Joules – we should talk music sometime, its been my passion my whole life!

    Victoria – Amen on the Johnny Depp love – I’ve loved him for 22 years – granted I was 7 at the time it started, but 21 Jump Street was the show lol

    Mia – Though I have never been there, I love Baltimore. I’m a huge Homicide Life on the Street fan – have you ever seen the show?

    What – Originally it started out as a joke between me and a friend of mine – saying that I needed a guy with money to take me shopping and pay for my demo. I never really thought of myself as the dependant type so it stayed a running joke for awhile. Then I started to realize that its not about being dependant on someone and I found this site. It also came to the point where I was just tired of drama – I get so much drama from my friends (yes I happen to be an emotional crutch for people, I know real healthy for me) that the last thing I want is a relationship that will give me even more. This is perfect for me because I’ve been single for 3 years – got out of a very toxic relationship – and don’t want the hassle of being in a relationship and having to answer to someone. Like I said, I get enough drama from my friends lol

    Care – I’m 29 which scares me sometimes, but no one ever guesses my age right (I’ve actually had someone want to see my drivers license – like I’d make myself older lol) Good genes run in the family. I live in Ohio, sadly so…….I really want to move back to my hometown Louisville, Ky. I have a degree in History and want to go back to get my masters in History/Religious Studies and my Doc in Religious Studies. I moved around a lot growing up, have lived in Elizabeth, Indiana (1st yr of my life), Louisville, Ky (where I was born), Roanoke, Va, Montreal Quebec, Toronto, Ont, Cleveland, Oh (blah), Orlando, FL and now Oh again. There’s more to me, but my mom is sick and I need to go take care of her – hope all is well!!!

  769. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    hey Raine

  770. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    gnd~ you should come here, Montreal is 18 to party!!!Woooo

  771. raine*306712* says:

    ^also what GND said. *lol*

  772. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Hey BG and Jamisen. I’ll be online tonight since I’m too young to go out to a bar. 🙁 But I will be going out this weekend with some friends. This club is throwing a 7 Deadly Sins Party which should be interesting…

  773. Jamisen/305521 says:

    Good evening sugar family! Happy St. Patricks day! I hope there will be some of you online tonight instead of at the bars!

    Henrilouis, I always love your poetic comments, and today’s was one of the best.

    Mia- I’m a women and gender studies minor, so if you ever need convincing to add it on to your repertoire I’m your girl!

    SuthrnExec/Katherine- I’m glad you guy started on the “gifts” topic, I learned a lot!

  774. Beach_Girl*306486 says:

    Hello sugars!

  775. raine*306712* says:

    Cat: garnishing= deducting part or all of your earnings/taxes for payment. *We help/learn from each other, right?

    Again, Ebony, report this jive dodo…that’s just light years beyond disgusting! Maaaan…

  776. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Haha don’t worry Cat it’s ok. Let me explain it to you in gurlnextdoor terms (aka the way I broke everything down in my economics class). Garnishing basically means that the government takes money from you with or without your consent because you owe them money.

  777. Cat says:

    I still don’t get the garnishing thing…sorry, I’m not an airhead but I simply got a Ds in Microeconomics and Macroeconomics…

  778. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Garnish: from the Old French word garnis. It means to take the money or property of a debtor by legal authority.

  779. raine*306712* says:

    Ebony: AWWWW COME ON!! Is he honkin’ serious?!! Uh uh, an abuse report is in order; turn him in POSTHASTE! The eff, man – where’s the clue by four?!

    I’m sooo sorry you were subjected to this bullstuff; I’m thinking most SDs here have some sense! I don’t know what THAT was…

  780. Cat says:

    Nico: There are lots of weirdos out there and I think that’s expected but this guy is something else! I say BOOT him!

  781. Cat says:

    As for the Canadian economy, I don’t believe the recession has hit as hard as in the US. I’m from a richer province, so it’s not bad here, but back East, it’s starting to get rough…a lot of Easterners are moving to the West to find work in order to afford to live and supprt their families in the East…

  782. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Yep I agree with Cat. He should definitely be booted off the site.

    Ebony there are some weirdos on the site, but you have to weed out the fakes and picture/phone number collectors from the true SDs. Your dream SD is out there waiting for you somewhere. Just be patient. 🙂

  783. Nico says:

    He’s only dangerous if we’re naive enough to let him into our world(s)…right now he’s just entertainment 😉

  784. Cat says:

    Raine: What do you mean by garnishing? I’m French, some English terminology I’m not familiar with…sorry.

  785. Cat says:

    Ebony: OMFG! Are you kidding me? You should have him booted off the site…that is just unacceptable and can you even imagine what he does to girls who are naive enough to meet him? That’s a dangerous guy right there…

  786. raine*306712* says:

    Is your government garnishing your wages or taxes now, Cat? (forgive my ignorance; haven’t made it to reading up on Canadian tax laws)

  787. Cat says:

    Suthrn: I don’t think Canada taxes gifts either…but I could see the federal student loan office coming after me for larger payments! I need to read more about all this when I get the chance.

  788. Ebony says:

    Omg I forgot to block this idiot and he sent me this email back. His dumbass is blocked now.
    “lol, really, well your here selling your nasty pussy, Go fuck yourself whore..”
    Are there this many weirdos out there? Talk about lack of class ewww!

  789. SuthrnExec says:

    Cat, I believe that Canada is like the US as far as the receiver of a gift goes – not taxed. However, in Canada, I believe that the giver is not taxed either whereas in the US the giver is taxed a Gift Tax for anything given over $12k annual limit.

  790. raine*306712* says:

    Thank you, Cat, but I’m not leaving the c.hi just yet…just going to move outta mom’s house. I’d like to stop there sometime myself; one of my brothers lives there.

  791. Cat says:

    Suthrn: Thank you for the info. If it’s like that in the US, it would make sense that Canada would have similar practices. I still think I will invest in a good safe, because I don’t want the gov. to see much money coming in. They watch my account because they are taking student loan payments from me and as I gain money, they expect me to contribute in proportion.

    Raine: I hope you have a blast! 😀

  792. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Lol raine, I love Florida. I had been down there once when I was younger and had always wanted to go back. But after my trip down there a week or so ago, I fell in love. Now I’m determined to relocate down there. Then later on I want to move to England, I can do an excellent British accent. 🙂

  793. raine*306712* says:

    ^or any time, really – like my breakfast 🙂

  794. raine*306712* says:

    Ah yes, the money laundering – I’ve read a bit on that…

    GND: speaking of FL, my b/d told me that if I really wanted to get a SD, I oughta just go ahead & move down there! *snort* I’m proving him wrong as I speak, and my pics aren’t even up yet! Bwaaahaha! I love the smell of shocking/proving people wrong in the morning *lol*

  795. Jasmine says:

    Hey everyone I must leave I’m hungry here talk to everyone latr! 🙂

  796. raine*306712* says:

    Thank you, SuthrnExec, for that critical info! Like Katherine, I’ve been racking my brain about that – looking for a business name & whatnot…

  797. SuthrnExec says:

    Katherine – the receiver of a gift never has to pay taxes on it. The size of deposit into your account is a separate issue – but just know that any single deposit, withdrawal, exchange of currency, or other payment or transfer, by, through or to a financial institution is reported to the feds – not for tax purposes, but for other reasons (primarily around money laundering). I only mention that just so you’re aware that just because something is not taxable doesn’t mean it is necessarily “under the radar”.

  798. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Haha oh ok raine, just wondering. Your welcome, lol. And Victoria have fun at your random concert. 🙂

  799. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Thanks for the advice all…and yeah Katherine I’ll be sure to let him come visit me first. I’d like to move down there over the summer if I can, since I wanted to move there last year anyway.

  800. raine*306712* says:

    Oh drat, my bad GND! I was referring to your take re: the race/ethnicity factor in the sb/sd search. [blasted seasonal cold has my brain a wee sluggish :|]

  801. Katherine says:

    haha have fun Victoria! 🙂

  802. Katherine says:

    GND: I say why not! But do make sure they come to you first, check them out, make sure they’re trustworthy… But I’m a newbie. I’m curious as to what the “vets” think!

    SuthrnExec: THANK YOU for the definitive explanation on the “gifts”! Been wondering for so long now. So, for future reference, if that bank account keeps adding up due to “gifts”, it still doesn’t have to be reported to the financial institutions?

  803. Victoria prof. no. 302242 says:

    Ooh! Just got invited to a random concert…soooo… I’ll be back later to catch up! Later, sugar family!

  804. raine*306712* says:

    Congrats, Cat! I’m all types o’ green! [That’s it – I’m on the next bus smokin’ to the mall this WEEKEND. Red dress & heels on tap!]

  805. Victoria prof. no. 302242 says:

    Well, if you plan on moving very soon, I think it’s pretty wise. You might even have an SD waiting for you by the time you get there!

  806. SuthrnExec says:

    The receiver of a gift pays no taxes in the US. You do not report it as income. There is a federal reg, however, that requires financial institutions to report any deposit of $10k or more, but again, if you are the receiver, you do not pay taxes on it – at least not now, but our congress could change that law any day now! 🙂

  807. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Hmm I want everyone’s opinion on this. I want to move down to Florida so do you think it would be a good idea if I started looking for SDs down there now?

  808. Jasmine says:

    Cat is right ebony,chills down my spine.

  809. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    *looks somewhat lost* umm…your welcome raine. (sorry I don’t know what you’re thanking me for, lol)

  810. raine*306712* says:

    Thanks, gurlnextdoor. I thought about this part myself, but not very hard. I can say, however, that this site has me thinking waaay differently about this big ole world. We can’t be all things to all people, obviously, but there’s someone in here looking for a “hot cuppa joanne.”

  811. Cat says:

    Ebony: Never go for a man without manners…if he talks like that, imagine how he acts!

  812. Jasmine says:

    Ebony no no big fat no no!!! Literally the guy creeps me out!

  813. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Haha yes Victoria he said he was “looking for an ebony princess”, no lie. But hey he turned out to be a pretty awesome, hot, and very generous guy. I’ve referred to him a couple of times on here as Superman.

  814. Victoria prof. no. 302242 says:

    Congrats, Cat! Hope it works out for you!

  815. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    Hi Ebony,
    Bob Dylan “the times they are achanging” comes to my mind when I read how this pot SD approached you. Perhaps it is a sign of the times.
    I would never accept it as an initial reaction.
    But you use the word “suspicious” in my dictionary it is disrespectful.
    Most girls would think “here comes another picture collector”.

  816. Katherine says:

    Nico: are you sure you meant me in that post that you wrote earlier? I don’t remember talking about a strict allowance, but I will take to heart what you said about being flexible no matter. Thanks for that two cents.
    –and i LOVE your response for what the “non-SD” wrote to Ebony.

  817. Victoria prof. no. 302242 says:

    lol @ “looking for an ebony princess” … Priceless!

    Thanks, SE, I tried to make as much sense as possible! 🙂

  818. Ebony says:

    Lmao!!!!! Omg I almost peed on myself when I read Nico’s response and no, it was not too graphic. I personally felt offended by it. If he can say that outright then it should follow that I can just reply(which i wont) with a sum in mind already right? I think he’s looking for a pro which is not what a SB is and I’ve met few men who boast of being well-endowed and actually are. Thx Raine, Vic (I know you hate Vicky) and Oc…he can go F*** himself. I’m telling him that right now.

  819. Cat says:

    Hi all, my lunch date with my pot went really well! He is HOT…I hope things work out because we get along really well! He is willing to give me the allowance I suggested once we form a bond\trust…is that bad? In the meantime I might get some shopping…

    The pot SD I was negotiating with last night took my offer and wants to meet, and I’m glad he is moving it along without too much bs, but I haven’t seen his pics or verified him, so I’m going to see about that. Also, I don’t know if I want 2 SDs…especially in the same city. Mina would know more about this…

    Also, I’ve heard some of you from the US talk about getting taxed for having money deposited in your bank account by your SD? Why? And does anybody know if this is the case in Canada? If so, I’m considering investing in a safe…!

    I just wanted to let you know about my small success on here and I will catch up with you all later on! It’s St.Patrick’s day and I’m going to a pub with some friends to celebrate 🙂

  820. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    What the hell!!! I think that guy should go buy lots of porn and go f**k himself. Ebony forget him and if I were you I’d block him too.

  821. SuthrnExec says:

    uhh… NicO – sorry about that

  822. SuthrnExec says:

    Nica, tell us what you REALLY think about it! lol

  823. OCSugarBaby says:

    Ebony I agree with Nico… New image New Image in head… puppies rolling around on the floor chasing butterflies! Whew. Much better image! 🙂

  824. Victoria prof. no. 302242 says:

    He seems very suspicious… I, personally, wouldn’t go for it…but, that’s just me.

  825. Nico says:

    Ebony….I would tell him to check his manners. If he’s looking for a pro he should use google…if he’s looking for a true Sugar Baby then he needs to learn to approach her (you) with more respect than that. Fortunately he’s ‘large’ enough he can go f*ck himself.

    Sorry if that was too graphic for some.

  826. raine*306712 says:

    Ebony: whawhaWHAAA–?! Uh, yeah, that’s a no. More precisely, [email protected]*# no. NEXT!

  827. gurlnextdoor*274735* says:

    Good evening everyone. Ebony I have to agree with SuthrnExec on pretty much everything he said, lol. Oh and thanks for the shout out too (haha, I’m echoing you alot SE).

    Regarding race this is what I’ve found. For some reason alot of European men who now live in the States (and wow do I have a weakness for Europeans), seem to want black women more for some reason. But yes most men in the States do want to stick with someone from their own race. Then others have no preference. I know the whole European thing though from experience though because one of my potential SDs who is Russian said explicitly in his profile that he was looking for “an ebony princess”.

  828. SuthrnExec says:

    Well said Victoria – I followed your rambling perfectly!

  829. raine*306712 says:

    ^The short version: you can’t be grown in someone else’s house.

    Nico, based on your post (and Ben’s in the previous blog), uh…consider me schooled! I see some heavy duty profile editing is in order. 😐

  830. OCSugarBaby says:

    Nico-Once again your two cents is worth at least 2k! 🙂

  831. Victoria prof. no. 302242 says:

    On to Ebony (I wanted to use an entirely new comment space for this):

    I’d first like to welcome you! I’m sure you’ll find kindness all around, the people here are fantastic!

    I agree with Suthrn, that you should meet, bring up money, etc. whenever you’re comfortable. I haven’t yet had an SD, but I approach most things in life that way. I do what *feels* right, whenever it feels right. I’m a bit of a hedonist in that respect.

    As far as the race issue, I must admit, I wondered the same thing. And, of course, as Suthrn said, many men (especially, in the south, like Texas) prefer to stay within their own race. BUT, that never stopped me from going after the men *I* like, regardless o race! The way I see it, there are billions of people out there, so someone you’re interested in WILL be interested in you, just be patient. I don’t, however, agree that *most* SDs in the US prefer their own race…most is a big word, and, from just my own experience, I’ve seen a larger percentage of men who prefer differences or who understand that a purely chemical difference doesn’t make the person. Personally, I’ve been the “first black girl” for a number of men, and I know that it’s just the person that makes a difference. After being with someone for a while, race becomes obselete. (Of course, none of this takes into account cultural background, ethnic background, etc… Yay, social science!) Hope something from my rambling helps!

  832. Ebony says:

    Thanks for all the replies. Man I just got a reply from one Pot and his reply is a bit suspicuos. y’all tell me what you think. I sent him an email telling him I was interested and this is his reply,
    “if your fun and enjoy lots of sex and a 11 inch cock regular and travel then lets talk.”
    What do you guys think?

  833. Nico says:

    SE ~ You are ALWAYS a gentleman.

    Kat ~ I noticed a post earlier up about your desire for a $2,000/mo allowance and while I say stick to your guns on things such as your morals, I say, when it comes to your allowance, I would be flexible.

    For one, you’ve not met…meet first and see what the level of chemistry is. If you guys are meant to be, he’ll likely help in more ways than you can imagine without even having to ask.

    Pick your battles and keep an open mind. If he is a good guy, a truly good and respectful SD, he will make your life comfortable and ~ if the lack of allowance is an issue in your future, you’ll have established enough of a relationship with him where you can address it without it making him feel as though that were the only considering factor.

    Just my two cents

  834. Katherine says:

    raine: oh, okay. That makes sense now. Well best of luck to you in your move!!! (even if it is behind schedule, better late than never, as the saying goes :p )

  835. raine*306712* says:

    Hi all, especially to my fellow brand spankin’ newbies!

    *ahem* the “two queens rule” dictates that two [or more when/where applicable] adult women most likely CANNOT live peaceably under one roof due to differing beliefs, ideologies, budgets, parenting styles*, tastes in men (or women) and/or any other factors you can think of. Said women may or may not be related, and this rule transcends all demographics.
    *this is why I must move out – of course, I’m a tad behind schedule.

  836. SuthrnExec says:

    Hey everybody – I just re-read my post and got some feedback on the side that tells me I was not as articulate as I should have been.

    Ebony, I did not mean for my comment to sound racist at all. Unfortunately my scientific and research background causes me to “bottom-line” things and they don’t always factor in the human emotional element. In my mind, I was thinking of the population of the US as a whole as compared to European countries where race is a non-issue for the most part (and I long for the day when it is a non-issue here).

    The main thing I wanted you to get from my statement (and where I failed miserably) is that your responses have been about like most SBs response rate – if not better – and I think race has nothing to do with it.

    I certainly did not mean to be offensive, so if I was, please accept my apology. You can ask most people here, I am usually a gentleman – but this time my scientific bent prevented me from being as sensitive as I should have been.

  837. Gail says:

    Sweetred…where are you? I was getting hungry….and you always teased us with your home cooking. We started with tuna sandwiches, then all kinds of seafood dishes…potatoe salad with your special seasoning…oh yeah…I remember now you are moving this week…can’t wait till we get to swim in your pool this summer:)

  838. SuthrnExec says:

    Hey Ebony – thanks for the shout-out!

    Meet as soon as you’re comfortable – that’s the key – make sure it’s on your terms, the time, place, etc. Don’t be pressured into doing something you’re not comfortable doing.

    I wouldn’t bring up the money issue until after you meet and you know the chemistry is right. Then you can bring it up in a way that is most comfortable to you – assuming he doesn’t bring it up first – which I bet he does.

    Regarding the preferences of the SDs – I think you will find that most SDs – in the US at least – prefer to stay within their own race. But I think the percentage of replies to the emails sent and the number of views is about normal for anyone. This is an endeavor that requires patience and persistence, so hang in there!

  839. Victoria prof. no. 302242 says:

    Congrats, Jasmine!

    And, I wanted to ask, Joules, what sort of business do you run? Are you a promoter (I think you mentioned something along those lines in an email)?

  840. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    Welcome Ebony,
    Everyone up here in sugar land will give you all the advice and more.
    I am just speaking from myself, but caucasian or not is not an issue here, at least for me and I have never seen it mentioned before. I have been here one month now, but did not have as many viewers as you have after two days.
    This site is just a reflection of real life. In everyday life I meet many people, but there are just a handful I would like to become friends with. And this is for me the firm basis of any sort of relationship. You have a pot Sd who is near your own place. Trust your feminine instinct, if it feels o.k. have that meeting somehwere for coffee and so on. He might be a very likeable SD. Why wait. If you want to continue the contact, usually then the negotiations for sugar are then out in the open. Just consider how much and stick to it. I noticed one profile of a pot SB which consisted of a long list specifying all her wants andding in the amount total. Very businesslike approach. As to doing a perfect houdini, there is not much difference between SD and SB.
    In my opinion it is perfectly normal that you may NOT find the other wothwhile after discovering some more facts from the exchange of information. In that case write a message saying kindly “no thank you”.
    I guess this is the reason why houdini is so popular. And always study any profile carefully, it will tell you if you would be comfortable with that person. This is a fact often overlooked I find. Just keep up the faith and
    be good. Have a wonderful life among friends here.

  841. Victoria prof. no. 302242 says:

    Bonjour, sugars! I actually just woke up due to the pleasant fire alarms in my friend’s dorm… And, I’ve been reading!
    So, here’s my two cents:
    Firstly, welcome, any newcomers! I hope you find what you’re looking for, and until then, enjoy the blog! (I certainly have!)

    Secondly, GND, awesomeness is so totally my word. lol… It seems great minds do think alike! Are they located in the same places too? Yay, for more people in Chicago!

    Thirdly (is that a word?), Mia, you seem so accomplished! I just HAD to let you know how awesome that is! Raine, I love the Vincent Price reference…or the laugh…either way, he made movies that please even the youngest in my family. And what is the “two queens” rule? I wanna know!

    Fourthly (that is DEFINITELY not a word), I enjoy ellipses, parentheses, and other gramatical annoyances. Thank you, and good night! 😉

  842. Gail says:

    No not noteworthy….just lazy Kat…I write my thoughts…thats just me:) Thanks for your kindness:)

    Hello Ebony. You are back. Great to hear you are making contacts. I have gone and met potentials, especially if they are here in town. Actually met a nice SD friend who sponsored parts of my trip to Vegas:) I would go enjoy your meeting, be it coffee or lunch and just see how the chemistry could be. I try never bring up the subject of money unless the SD brings it up first. If they don’t, I enjoy my meeting and the meal:) What a great afternoon I’ve had.

    Hi Oc:) Missed you last nite:) I just got home from work too:) and now have to work at home….just like Joules. So your sassiness made me chuckle….(smile)

    Lisa.I know you are at work. Thought about you all day today. If I were in Texas, I would take you to Starbucks in the morning..we would have a caffeine high, and party until the next day…LOL….you would be shaking your pigtails like SweetEuro hair…and your crazy looking leggings would make me dizzy? LOL…..

    Had messages for the SB fellas? but its gone:)

  843. Jasmine says:

    Hey guys I literally forgot to tell u!! I found an sd on another site!! But here’s the thing,that sd turned into an b/f!!! 🙂 this guy makes me feel like I’m supposed and he buys me things out of the blue and everytime we go out,he always takes me and the kids to go eat and shopping for me and the kids! I heard he might get me a minivan for my b-day on april 1st! I have my fingers crossed! 🙂

  844. Katherine says:

    rain: Oh. I read about that–how things actually worked out alright because your mom was going to retire the year following when she was laid off. I’m glad. Cos it’s a really tough time to be finding a job right now, even if you have tons of experience!!
    And no, I don’t know what the “two queens” rule is. It’s something I should be aware of, I assume?

  845. Ebony says:

    Hey y’all. I’m new to this site and I just spent the last two days catching up on this blog and i feel like i know most of you already! E.g Joules, Lisa, CSB, Gurlnextdoor, Jasmine, SouthGent just to mention a few. I need alot of advice since I’ve never had a SD and don’t know the first thing on how to go abt it! I am tired of dating these immature college boys who have nothing better to do than watch football all day and give you drama.
    I joined the site two days ago and already got one SD wanting to fly me to Tennessee (am in Tx) and while we were chatting *poof! he dissapeared. then today I got a pot who lives abt 2 hours from me and wanted to drive over to come see me after we had just been chatting for a couple of hours. He wanted us to go for coffee or lunch and see if we had any chemistry. thats too soon right? Though am not really much into the whole endless emailing and chatting. I’d much rather prefer get the initial, albeit awkward, first meeting out of the way and see if leads anywhere.
    And how do you bring up the money issue? He said he would hit me up later so I dont know how that will go.
    and is it just me or do most SD’s on here prefer caucasians? I’ve sent over 20 emails and gotten only like 6 replies thought my profile has been viewed over 30 times. I’m confused. I need all the help I can get!

  846. raine*306712* says:

    Jasmine: In englewood.

    Yes, Katherine, and way sooner than I’d anticipated! Moms was laid off last wk (but she couldn’t be happier; planned to retire next year anyway & move south near my eldest brother), and we’re in the process of cleaning out the place(see previous). Meanwhile…I believe you’re familiar with the “two queens” rule, or variation thereof?

  847. Katherine says:

    Gail you sound like a writer!! I know we have our differences but that’s worth noting: the way you string your words and sentences together..just..wow!