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Recommendations in Sugarland



Every location offers different opportunities for sugars to enjoy themselves, and whether you’re in New York or Barcelona, there have been sugars before you who have found the local destinations most enjoyable for them.

What would you recommend for sugars in your city, state, and/or country?

What are some ways to break the ice with a new sugar?

Do you have any fun sugar spots or activities in your neck of the woods?

How are you?

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  1. Midwest says:

    Sorry! Aren’t you ladies supposed to be having an LA Meet?

  2. Midwest says:

    New blog everyone!

  3. Es- I love that saying. A friend of mine used to use it a lot. It always makes me think of a lady frog grabbing a bottle of nair. What can I say, I have an active imagination!

  4. CA Dreamin SB says:

    Midwest – It’s SanDiego with the nice arrangement headed her way…though I wish it were me!

  5. Midwest says:

    Cleo – JSO is looking for a TX lady, preferable a close one. He also holds a very high regard for james.m and would never cross that line.

    CA Dreamin – It sounds like a nice s/t arrangement is heading your way. Meanwhile, you can continue a casual search for when he leaves in June. Summer always seems to bring fresh dating perspectives.

  6. ElegantSugar says:

    Carpathian – “fine as frog’s hair!” – haven’t heard THAT in a loooong time! Thanks for the walk down memory lane.

  7. Flo Rida says:

    Cleo – LASB – In my limited experience of others blog dating hasn’t really worked long term – bear in mind sugar dating doesn’t seem to work long term anyway so it kinda makes sense.

  8. Hey all!

    Mini rant here. I got an email from someone who said, “let’s make a date for next week, and I’ll compensate you for your time.”


  9. Boston Honey says:

    Greetings all in Sugar Land. Hey I just read an article that I found very interesting. It said that men think that women who wear french nails think strippers and cheap. Say what? Your kidding? I usually don’t do french nails but sometimes do and never thought that is what guys might be thinking.

    Anyone else ever heard of this? I think that there are too many articles of advice for men and women.

    Boston Honey

    PS: IRLSD every time I am in the mall and walk by any and all kiosks I think of you and Polish Girl…LOL…

  10. CA Dreamin SB says:

    Lily – No, not at all. I’m glad someone can sympathize with me. And no, haven’t written back yet :)

  11. Lily says:

    San Diego sb, by the way, I’m so glad that this guy is sticking in there so you can stop your search for awhile and enjoy some sugar. So glad for ESB and Lisa too. Man, I can’t wait for you two ladies (CA Dreamin SB and Cleo) to get an ah-may-zang SD because both of you beauties totally deserve iut. Photogirl and LASB too!!! Minus any broken hearts (referring to my blog dommes huge crush now)….

  12. Lily says:

    CA Dreamin’ SB — I hope my last email to you didn’t sound annoying or preachy!!! I can’t log into my gmail to see if you’ve written back…

  13. Lily says:

    Cleo — not sure. That being said you could come to Helsinkif or only 687 euros. I was surprised it was so cheap. I’ll try to get a SD or potSD to import you to hang with me.

    Yes, pics! They’ll be on my blog. He texted me twice before going to sleep tonight, after a second phone call (with no real reason to call teh second time) in which he asked if he could call me tomorrow afternoon. He seems so on board with me. Wow.

    I’m seeing zazazoomSD for early dinner tomorrow. Probably dinner only, and a brief one at that, as he has tons of stuff going on. I will ask him then if he can put plane tickets for random people (like pilates rehab instructors) on his company as a business expense…. If he can, I may be able to sponsor more than one SB to come to my murder mystery party on march 13th, if anyone else wants to come. You can meet over a hundred of my awesome single, 25-35 year old friends (men and women of course) here in my apartment, and have a blast. But I won’t know until I ask tomorrow….
    SafetyNetGuySD does *not* have that kind of budget or freedom to do that so it’s not even a possibility.

    However, if this new single monaco guy ends up getting on board with an arrangement with me, he is beyond rich and would be able to do stuff like this without batting an eye. That’s what I want! I want to be more connected to those I love in America…. bring them to me and me (+ some of my best local girlfriends) over there…. I miss Hawaii.

  14. CA Dreamin SB says:

    Cleo – I do think if a Blog SD was interested in a Blog SB, he’d make the contact with her. However – with that said, considering the closeness of the blog and how the SDs have met etc….maybe JSO wouldn’t approach Midwest if he was interested and she’d be the one needing to make that contact if she were interested. It’s a difficult situation

  15. SanDiego sb says:

    yea thats what i thought too lily, and how funnnnnn south of france. better take tons of pictures!

  16. CA Dreamin SB says:

    I’m still here – just been lurking.

  17. cleo says:

    Midwest you make JSO sound ever more delicious, what is up with these texan girls that they aren’t throwing themselves at him. I am ever sadder that i didn’t get to meet you all in Chicago… hard i guess since it was half my idea. Is there a reason you don’t go after him yourself? [most texans find eastern canada a little far for them… :)]

    that said, i really do feel that if a blog sd was interested in a blog sb he would make the approach. do you think i’m right?

  18. Lily says:

    Where IS everyone?? Out on saturday potSD dates?! I want reports..

  19. Lily says:

    NYCBella –sounds great but I bet they don’t do the fractal thingy in Finland. Hmmmm…. I’m sure the Botox/Restalin thing is nice but kind of hesitant for some reason. What about the collagen induction therapy? Never tried or seen people who have used it?

  20. Lily says:

    CA Dreamin SB is right. Nothing wrong with that at all.

    He must be serious about you or he wouldn’t keep bothering with somoene that was already mad at him once. Fake SDs go for the easy prey, and you weren’t.

    One of my pots seems really serious about importing e for dinner middle of next week. I’m getting cautiously excited. Monaco. First time in south of france. Hmmmm…. cool.

  21. CA Dreamin SB says:

    SanDiego – I don’t think that’s bad at all. It’s like a winter/spring vacation. It can be wonderful and when he has to leave…you’ll hopefully have lots of great memories.

  22. SanDiego sb says:

    good afternoon sugars!!

    ive been away for a little bit, my pot that lives in san diego (thank god because commuting to meet these pots is starting to be a little much)

    so far everything has gone really well, he hasnt brought up sex until recently, and not in a sleezy way either more like (what are you into) so we’re on the same page, i feel really comfortable with him and he says so far its a BIG yes for him lol.

    we’re having dinner this coming up week to discuss allowances and everything.

    I actually didnt give him a chance back in december because he was a big flake, not calling back to sched. to meet. and when we did sched. i was waiting for him for an hour and never showed, then texted me late saying hes soooo sorry,and had a bunch of things going on at work (if youve read past blogs you know how i am lol) and i literally ripped him a new one lol. he called recently for me to give him another chance and i did. He showed up when he was supposed to and when really liked each other.

    Hes one of those sd’s your grow to like and looks kinda fall out of the equation. Hes only in san diego until summer (june), is it bad that i like that theres an expiration date on it?

  23. NYCBella says:

    Hi, ladies (and any gentlemen lurkers). Just popping in to wish you all a lovely Saturday. I think it’s the first time I’ve seen blue skies in a week! Having a little party to get ready for, so prolly won’t be able to catch up on the blog again till Sunday, but some fun reading is in store I’m sure.

    Jade~loved it! You had me cracking up!!!

    Lily~I was a makeup artist for a few years when I first moved to NYC and have seen lots of procedures implemented in real life. For suspension of muscle activity in the face (i.e. the little creases between the brows, etc…) u want to do Botox (every 3-4 months), to fill in the laugh lines Restalin. Collagen or Restalin for the lips. And for all over smoothing and anti-aging I’d say have fractal laser resurfacing (takes about 6 months for noticing full results, and will cost u upwards of 7K, but worth every penny…you’ll have the skin of a 5 year old.) I’ve had numerous peels over the years and they’re great for giving you a temporary glow (results last for about 1-2 weeks) and rejuvenated look, but they never go deep enough to make a permanent difference.

  24. Lily says:

    Lisa, that is inded great news!

  25. Lisa, I’m so happy for you! A new place in a safe neigborhood, yay!

  26. Midwest says:

    Hi sugars! Hope the rest of you are warm…I need someone to snuggle up to! I ‘m going to have an attempt at upgrading my PC…so exciting.

    Ladies – Coming from one who has met JSO personally…if you are attracted to a man’s man with tall, rugged looks, great stories, a no-nonsense attitude and a great southern accent…he’s your man! I know he will treat you like a queen!

    Lisa – WOO HOO! I love the new Lisa who is embracing change and looking forward to possibilities! Isn’t it liberating??

  27. VA SB says:

    Well, hey Everyone!!! I just read the entire blog and my brain is tired. Lots of activity. Will try to answer the questions later if the blog is still up when I get back…sitting here at the salon for my weekly hair appt., then off to get a manicure, then to “hopefully” buy something cute to wear at our DC Meet tonight!

    Sugar search is still so-so. I must have jinxed myself when I ended it with the other SD a few weeks ago…now my sugar search is going sooooo slow. Been so busy with work (still trying to get that corner office and an executive assistant) that I haven’t really been putting in much effort this week. I’d better change that if I want to find my guy…

    So, I’m traveling to the Phoenix/Scottsdale area on Friday for business..Will be there until Sunday afternoon. I am going to ENJOY tha( warm weather.

    All right, well, talk with everyone later.

    Oh – and Elegant – you really must come to DC and hang out with us one day soon!


  28. First of all, happy Saturday everyone!
    I have become addicted to whole grains English muffins. I now can’t start the day without one -buttered of course, and cup of French Roast coffee.
    I’m truly finding this week’s debate interesting.
    While I don’t mind meeting for coffee, I am a java addict, I agree with the comments about starbux. To me, the place is impersonal. If you want to meet for coffee, I am all for it, but please find a place with charm and personality.
    I also don’t mind meeting for drinks, but for a meal? Nope. If you realize after ordering, that the gentleman across the table from you is just not stimulating your brain cells, you’re stuck with his company for the entire meal. And I’m sure that many SDs have come across the same situation.
    I say meet for coffee or a drink, and if things click, then break bread together.
    That’s the same reason why I wouldn’t want to have a spa day with someone I didn’t know, aside from the obvious, how would you have a chance to talk and connect?

    What would you recommend for sugars in your city, state, and/or country?
    I’m in NYC, so I have lots of options. Meeting in an art gallery if you have the time and inclination, I feel would be a great place to meet. I’d love to catch a drink at the King Cole Bar. There are oodles of unique bars, restos and coffee shops in the city.

    What are some ways to break the ice with a new sugar?
    Laughter! Best way is a phone conversation where you slowly reveal yourself- like a dance of scarves without talking about the arrangement. Have a lovely and not too long chat about each other. If there’s mental stimulation, another call or meeting will happen then bring it up.

    Do you have any fun sugar spots or activities in your neck of the woods?
    See first answer.

    How are you?
    Fine as frog’s hair, thank you very much!
    I now have two POT SD’s. I’ve had a phone chat with one and within the first 15 minutes of our convo, we fixed all the world’s problems! We should take over the UN. Seriously, he sounds charming. He’s on business trip and we’re emailing each other.
    The second SD also seems pretty dandy. We’re having a lovely email exchange where we’re discussing philosophy, sociology and the marketplace. We’re moving into a phone discussion shortly. His idea of a first meeting is to go shopping and discuss the luxury market and the sociological implications of various purchases.
    I’ve also had an email from a gentleman who would like to meet me for dinner and pay me for my time…..hmmm!

  29. New (kinda) Here! says:

    Hi everybody :) I’ve been reading this blog for a while but never really posted much! I was just wondering if there are any girls in NYC who want to talk about our experiences and maybe get together! It’s tough not having any of my friends to talk to about this stuff!


  30. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Lol yes Lily that is how I felt too…however right now I am not in that state of mind necessarily. I wasn’t really ‘searching’ when he popped up so the way I see it, right now I would be on sugar hiatus anyway. That being said – everything is coming together nicely and hopefully it will be short lived lol…do keep in mind – I have a four year old as well – she keeps me very busy!!

  31. Lily says:

    It was a great joke!

    TT, don’t you find that the more complex your life is, the more you feel pulled in a million diferent directions, the more that a sweet sugar escape becomes such an appreciated side portion to the hectic main dish that your life is?

    I do. The more smooth and perfect my life would be, the less and less I’d be seeking sugar….. It would still be *very* nice, but just provide less of an amazing contrast.

  32. mommapoppins says:

    Good morning to everyone out in sugar land!! How is everyone? Jade that joke was just the right way to start the day. Thanks.

  33. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Lily – I will be very honest in saying I am usually NOT very patient lol…the timing of him coming into my life was just crazy. He is amazing and wonderful so I am being patient (and so is he) as he really is the most awesome pot I have come in contact with…if I wasn’t so busy with my life right now my patience might not be what they are lol

  34. Lily says:

    I’m wondering if jade is the only one who has tried collagen induction therapy (skin needling)…? Recommendations of where to buy one online?

  35. Jade says:

    Joke for today:

    The doc told Bob that masturbating before sex helped men last longer during the act.

    Bob reckoned, “What the hell, I’ll give it a try.” So, he spent the rest of the day thinking about where to do it. He couldn’t do it in his office. He thought about the restroom, but that was too open. He considered an alley, but figured that was too unsafe. Finally, he realized a solution.

    On his way home, he pulled his pick-up truck over on the side of the highway. He got out and crawled underneath as if he was examining the truck.

    Satisfied with the privacy, he undid his pants and started stroking his rod.

    He closed his eyes and thought of the gorgeous girl who lived next door. As he grew closer to orgasm, he felt a quick tug at the bottom of his pants. Bob didn’t want to lose his mental fantasy or the orgasm, so he kept his eyes shut, replying, “What?”

    He heard, “This is the police. What’s going on down there?”

    Bob replied, “I’m checking out the rear axle, it’s busted.”

    The officer replied, “Well, you should check your brakes while you’re down there because your truck rolled down the hill five minutes ago

  36. CA Dreamin SB says:

    Not up to much this morning. Waiting for the day to improve :)

  37. Lily says:

    TT – u r a far more patient woman than I. Anyone noticed my extensive list of potSDs? I am an addict….

  38. Lily says:

    Hey there CA Dreamin!!!

    What’s up? “Horsin’ around??”. Hardy har har

  39. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Lily – not sure – no set date…I am cool though lol..not a huge rush although I am eager to of course..he is busy with the olympics at the moment – quite the sports fan ๐Ÿ˜‰ Aaaand I am still in the midst of overhauling my life :) Life is pretty damn good…although I am not getting spoiled and pampered like you are lol ๐Ÿ˜› My time will come :)

  40. Lily says:

    I meant Taz. My iPhone thought I meant tax. :)

    my day has been great!!

    Friends over to visit. Cooked for them. We lounged and played wii in my home theater.

  41. CA Dreamin SB says:

    Hi Lily!

  42. Lily says:

    Tax when are you meeting your pot?

  43. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Hey Lily – how was your day today?

  44. Lily says:

    Evening, everyone!!

  45. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    So um – where the heck is 2Chic?? Girl I miss you!!!! All the MIA-ers can now come back to your respective blogging mechanisms and join the party :)

  46. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    ESB – sweetie I am wishing you luck :)

  47. ESB says:

    got 4 I’m talking to. One I really connected with. He poofed. The others are just in the talking phase. They have all been burned & are cautious. Just hoping for one who is normal.

  48. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Ugh – no kidding…the sun is actually SHINING here and melting all of this god forsaken snow!! Don’t get it twisted..it is still COLD!

  49. CA Dreamin SB says:

    Taz – It’s raining here – AGAIN. I wanted to take the dogs to the dog park…but, I don’t want to have to give baths before I get back home!

  50. ESB says:

    I need to go. Have been here longer than I intended, and have so much to do. have a great day ladies. have some fun, HUGS!!

  51. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Lol – I hear ya ESB! What is going on with SD situation??

  52. ESB says:

    LOL.. that would be so cool!! I can’t do that though. She is trusting me to keep the place clean and calm. I gotta clean it all Mon so it’s sparkles when she gets home Tues. I dont mind. OCD, It’s what I do!

  53. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Hey ESB – the next time you house sit you need to have a SB party ๐Ÿ˜‰

  54. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Hey Dreamin and ty :) Change is good lol – any exciting plans for today?

  55. ESB says:

    have fun Lisa, happy b-day to Mom!!

    TT! hey girl, good morning!!

  56. Lisa says:

    Have you discussed an allowance with him, lol

    Got to be catching my bus now. My mom is going to ride the ostrich on the merry-go-round at the mall, I need to catch her in the act.

    Have a good day everyone

  57. CA Dreamin SB says:

    Hi Taz! I like the new avatar!

  58. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Happy Saturday sugarland :)

  59. ESB says:

    LOL.. he is an attention whore. Wants me to be petting him all the time. He even sleeps with me. When I get home, he barks and carries on for an hour. He’s spoiled rotten. jack Russell Terrior. Cute little guy

  60. Lisa says:

    I usually get off work around 3 or 4 and will be on the same bus, just getting off 4 blocks down from where I am now and have to walk thought the mall to the other side and out and across the street. Since the area is safe and I have my family living in the same place, but in a building at a distance, I can go down to the mall in the evenings.

  61. ESB says:

    hmm.. mall close by.. with all the money you’ll be saving, that could be dangerous! I think the gym idea sounds great. I so need to get back into one. The place sounds really nice. I’m hoping when my SD comes through, I’ll be able to get him to pay some advanced rent for me. Would take some pressure off of me, and maybe I could find a job more suited to my lifestyle. One where I can keep my social life!! No way I can go out at 8:30 for a date, I can’t eat that late. Would be ok for the occasional GNO, but would like more time on a date before I got tired and needed to go home to crash.

  62. Lisa says:

    ESB if you’ve got a dog’s head on your lap, maybe that’s why you can’t find a sd, lol better go to the doctor and have it removed

  63. Lisa says:

    My new apartment is only 565 sq feet whereas where I live now I have like 680 or something but I have so much unused space like an empty dining room that is large. The bedroom will be kind of small but all I have is a kingsize bed, nitestand, and dresser. The dining room will be small and i’ll use is for my computer. Bedroom window overlooks the hospital area and some highrises whereas the living room window overlooks the office and the street which is very quiet. Mall is in view too :)

  64. ESB says:

    hey CA!! Good morning… I’m about to leave. Got tons to get done, and am just sitting here with a dog’s head on my lap, acting like a princess, and not getting anything done.!

  65. ESB says:

    LOL.. good idea. It tend to give me everything else I want. The girl who lives here is my manager, her dad does this computerized house thing as a business. It was her wedding gift. NICE!!

    The new place sounds heavenly!! I just so happy for you!! I went to look at a place last night, took my kids with me. BG just shook her head. It was very tine, I doubt my Oak bdrm furniture would fit in any of them. It was also on a busy street, very noisy/bad neighbor hood, cant’ put my kids in a place like that. I will keep looking, and hopefully be in my own place by April.

  66. CA Dreamin SB says:

    Morning all!

  67. Lisa says:

    Tell the house you want a sd. lol see is the computer system responds

  68. Lisa says:

    My new apartment is smaller, but everything is new, new carpet will be a nice change from this carpet I have now that has not been cleaned in 3 years and has koolaid stains from the last tenants still in it. I just hope I get approved. They said my credit didn’t matter since I’m paying upfront but since I haven’t given notice to my current place, they might mess me up. I am waiting to give notice when I get approved. Anyway the thought of throwing away 500 dollars here for march when I won’t even be here, sucks. I will not give them the key till april 1st though as if I have to pay for the month, they cannot get it ready for the next tenant. There is a Bally fitness place across the street and I was thinking of maybe gettting a membership there and I could go over a couple times a week after work.

  69. ESB says:

    Aww.. I’m so happy for you!! Gives me hope that things will work for me soon. Just the thought of working from 8-8:30 everyday makes me tired. I want to get back into the gym, work off this butt!! Will make me feel better in other ways too. My life is so full of work, I just have no me time right now. So need a break, but your news made me so happy!! Life is def looking up for you!! Congrats!!

    I’m house sitting. OMG this house is amazing. Everything is hooked up to the computer. Lights, heating, security.. I’m having a blast. Tell it I’m going to the kitchen, lights turn on and off as I walk by them, til I get to my destination. Gonna hate going back to my house. I could get used to this!!

    They locked the master bdrm. I’m bummed, I wanted to use that huge tub to soak in at least once! but the rest of the house is so cool, I really don’t mind. Gonna hate to see Tues. morning come when I have to leave. :(

  70. Lisa says:

    Yes a sd sure beats a second job. I can save my rent for the 6 months and some of my allowance and I will have the next 6 months lease money if the arrangement if over at that time, hopefully not.

    He bought me a Macbook and yesterday I bought a wireless router so I can use it around the house. That way I’m not stuck sitting in the kitchen at my desktop.

  71. ESB says:

    I work 8 -1 on Sat. Actually, I lied, it’s 4 – 8:30 Tue. and Thurs. Gonna suck, but with the days I go in late, I’ll be working my current job. UNLESS one of these guys gets serious and I enter an arrangement SOON. BG is NOT happy about those hours, but she is so excited about us getting a new place, she said she will deal. Means missing LAX and baseball this spring, but ya gotta do what you gotta do. I hate to take the job, then quit on them if something better comes along, but hey… I’ll stick with it for a while, see how it works out.

    So Glad you found someone new. That is GREAT news. Happy dance for you!!!

  72. ESB says:

    AM, Muse, Everyone, Good Morning… I was just trying to catch her before she left. Looks like I missed her. AGAIN… sigh

  73. Lisa says:

    ESB I met a new sd a few weeks ago. Things are going well and he’s trying to get me moved to a better apartment close to my family. Filled out application yesterday, he will pay the entire 6 month lease since I fall short in income and my credit sucks. Gotta wait to see if I get approved though so I can move March 1st. Sucks I gotta pay a whole months rent here too because I didn’t give 30 days notice, but heck, I didn’t know I was moving until last week and won’t know for sure till the application comes back mon or tue. THe rent is only 100 more a month but the income restrictions are really high. That is how they keep the riff raff out.

    Mom turns 70 today, so i’m heading out around noon to see her.

    12-8:30 everyday? I couldn’t do that, gotta have a couple days off and that takes your whole day, the midshift thing.

  74. ESB says:

    Lisa, how are you girl? I’ve been worried about you. I’m only here for a few minutes. Got way to much going on today, Funeral, dinner with friends, gotta paint my nails…

    I hope you have a wonderful day with your family. I also hope you don’t give up on your sugar search. Hang in there sweety. Things will look up for you!!

    I had a job interview Thurs. I go back for a 2ND on Mon. They really like me. Receptionist at a Vet. Hospital!! How fun could that be? The hours will suck, 12-8:30 everyday. My social life just got canceled. Oh well, it’s a steady income, and I need it.

  75. Lisa says:

    Good morning :)

    So this is what a saturday morning looks like. I seldom get saturdays off. The last time I was off on saturday, I was waking up with my sd in NY. I requested today off for my mom’s birthday. Going to spend most of the day with family.

  76. Muse says:

    Morning sunshine! And everyone else. :)

  77. Anna Molly says:

    Good morning all! ๐Ÿ˜€

  78. Jade says:

    I have whats called the derma stamp, it only has one size needles. I bought a cheap one once and it was total crap. The so called needles where not neddles at all but plastic ! I got a refund for that one because I threatened to bad feedback on ebay. The roller looks to scary for me and I see it leaves scratches on the skin .

  79. Lily says:

    Collagen induction technique! I love it. Point me to the best online shop on the European continent and the best reviewed roller product….

  80. Lily says:

    Botox fills the wrinkle but what about just freezing the muscle there so you can’t make that frown crease between your eyebrows anymore…? Googling skin needling….

  81. Jade says:

    Lily- do a google search on skin needling . I use the stamp one myself and I am seeing great improvements from it. Botox is great for the forehead !

  82. Lily says:

    Morning, Jade!!!

  83. Lily says:

    Oh and I never meant to imply that because I really can’t get any thinner (without removing a rib), that I’m perfect. I obsess about facial treatments and anti-aging creams/antioxidants because i see others my age still without a trace of a wrinkle & I can definitely tell a difference between my face now vs. when I first graduated college, 8 years ago, & I hate it! Mostly the frown crease between my eyebrows. I’ll do anything to avoid that. Laugh lines and wrinkles around the eyes when you smile don’t bother me so much. I’d love to gently press the brakes on these first signs of aging and so far the only product I have invested in has been EA’s Prevage, which has the most convincing sounding clinical R&D success behind it. Of course, SPF every day, etc… But would love any tips on great anti-aging facial treatments, either at home or at the spa or even something more intensive, but haven’t tried any injections or chemical peels or ultrasound things yet. Is it all hoopla? Wear your sunblock, and carpe diem?

    I have great light reflecting moisturizer/sunblock/primer/foundation products so I can get that fresh faced look when I’m on my A game but know the effectiveness of these products will diminish over time…

  84. Jade says:

    Good morning sugar land !

  85. Lily says:

    Def not TMI!! I have pretty much zero progress to make on my figure–divorce & the drama of it, pretty much got rid of every excess ounce of lily I had on me. Suddenly I was 28, divorced, and the clothes I had stored from my high school days (my nickname had been Twiggy, after the 60s chica) were fitting like a gove. We’re talking a couple rough months, about twenty pounds of excess fell off, and I rejoined the singles scene completely hittable & shocked at the discovery. I mean, my ex would never touch me. Not even on our wedding night. Bulk of my twenties were spent celibate. Seriously. It’s my excuse for being a great big slut now.

  86. lil'SB says:

    Wow, cleo I’m surprised to see you’re still up. That’s not TMI, I’m sure you couldn’t top my TMI from previous posts (sorry everyone…).

  87. cleo says:

    tt i’m glad to be back in the late spring weight category instead of the midwinter or just after christmas or whtaever :)

    my goal this year is to hit my end of summer weight at the beginning of summer and then drop my usual summer ten and reset my whole ‘clock’ in the next sizes down…

  88. cleo says:

    lily i know it’s normal, but it’s still think it’s a bit tragically funny

    either way i look great and today i started to move again. i kinda flipped around in bed and realised i had a little verve. i had CHICKEN!

    and my hair of much bedhead has fallen into this long straightness with curls at the tips that makes me want to take profile pictures (except that then i’d have to get dressed)

    i have hollywood hair after a week in bed. love it.

    so excited, tomorrow will be well enough to shower. going to spend half an hour in there.

    on a scale of tmi, was that a 12 or a 3?

  89. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:


  90. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Cleo – there is nothing wrong with finding the positive in any given situation ๐Ÿ˜‰ Ok..going to try and go back to sleep ๐Ÿ˜›

  91. Lily says:

    It’s normal, Cleo. Girls think that way.

    I am in a high fat breakfast coma….. Heaven….

  92. Lily says:

    I want 2 male Bengal kitties!!!

  93. cleo says:

    is it wrong to admit that i’m glad i got the lose weight flu instead of the gain weight thingy i had last fall? man that was weird, couldn’t eat enough and yet laid in bed and felt like such a chump.

    tragic, i looked in the mirror and the stray thought that crossed my brain was “wow, intestinal bugs are even better than fasts”


    must say i’d rather have lost the pounds on my exercise bike

  94. mommapoppins says:

    sweet dreams to all! ttyl

  95. Lily says:

    Night Ele!!

    I hate mornings…

  96. mommapoppins says:

    I spray painted my dads bad a** muscle car, blamed it on my lil sis. I did eventually tell him I did it. Like 10-12 years later.

  97. ElegantSugar says:

    As I take the last sip from my glass, I can sense I am slowly slipping into a torpid, slothful, negligent state of mind. So must be retiring now. Good night, everyone.

  98. LASB says:

    Yes!!! I put my name on everything. But that was just an expression of territory, since I had an older brother.

  99. ElegantSugar says:

    I wrote and drew on everything I could. When I learned how to write cursive, I wrote my name on everything I owned. I used ink as much as possible. All of Barbie dolls had tats. I think I came up with the “tramp stamp” when I was 8. But I won’t take credit.

  100. LASB says:

    Elegant – I never realized it then, but my guess is that my grandparents felt immense amounts of guilt for not being better baby sitters. I was left to my own devices, and really, I thought it was quite an improvement. My parents were really upset, but oddly they didn’t repaint the walls for a quite a long time. That is so funny that you did the same thing. But as a kid, you see a plain wall and it just looks like a canvas for expression.

  101. ElegantSugar says:

    mommaP – the best way to describe my day was that it was ebb and flow, indeed. Thanks for asking.

  102. mommapoppins says:

    thanks ele! How was your day?

  103. ElegantSugar says:

    Ha ha ha! I am laughing SO HARD at that story, LASB. Why? Because I did the same thing! Except I drew shapes that resembled an over-sized family of Michelin men holding hands. Colored them all in too. One was wearing a tie, I think. My dad used to wear ties so I guess that’s where that came from. They had ginormous hollowed out eyes and jack-o-lantern like teeth. Ah, remember it like it was yesterday. Sooo much trouble.

  104. LASB says:

    Elegant – LMAO. I drew a flower garden on the walls, when I was a little kid and the grandparents were babysitting. I thought it was beautiful on the stark, white walls of the house, but I guess I was the only one who saw it as an upgrade.

  105. ElegantSugar says:

    mommaP – yes, I did look at it. It’s not an editing night for me though, for sure. You don’t have a clearer photo to post? Glad you took the other two down with your friends in them.

  106. Lily says:

    I AM behaving!!!! Breaking no hearts. Cuddling with my blanket.

  107. LASB says:

    Yes! I loooooove Japan. So much fun and naughtiness! Plus, wow is it safe! I got so fat there, pigging out on all the good food.

  108. Lily says:

    Hey Cleo!!

    Ele, it’s 8am… Mine is set on pst, too!

  109. ElegantSugar says:

    Is Lily behaving? That’s like asking a 5 year old left alone with a crayon if he’s he one who drew the big purple blob on the wall.

    “Who Meeeee?!”

  110. Lily says:

    Cherry blossoms….. I so wanna go to japan….

  111. mommapoppins says:

    lol yeah, I am just good like that!!! No I have no idea. Did you look at it?

  112. Lily's blog Domme says:

    Hi Lily! Are you behaving?

  113. cleo says:

    i take those hop on hop off tours all the time and the dc ones are pretty nice… they go from union station

  114. ElegantSugar says:

    mommaP – how do you update your profile and it’s available right away? Most profiles can’t be viewed for a 24 hour period after changes are made. You must know someone on the inside.

    Hey, Lils…any wine for you tonight? Or is it daytime for you?

    Oh, and regarding the blog time, mine is on PST. (??)

  115. ElegantSugar says:

    LASB – out paths must cross and I feel they will. I have 2 wonderful friends in the LA area and a place to stay. Just have to find the time and buy the ticket. Will definitely plan to see you while you are in Florida, but hoping to meet you before May. You and your inefficient liver.

  116. LASB says:

    I hear ya Elegant. Someone recently told me that red wine is full of melatonin. I guess that’s why it always makes me want to curl up and drift off.

  117. Lily says:

    Hi NYGent, Ele, mommapoppins, LASB, TT..

  118. mommapoppins says:

    all this talk of trips, makes me want a vacation!

  119. LASB says:

    Oh, that sounds so nice, but I won’t be there that long. Maybe one of these years, though. Elegant, I will be in FL in May and would LOVE to have drinks with you! Hopefully at some point, our paths will cross.

  120. ElegantSugar says:

    I am just wine-induced enough to have sleepy eyes and ponder the thought of sleep, but actually doing it is a whole-nother story.

  121. ElegantSugar says:

    Well stated, Taz.

    oooh, LASB, sounds like a wonderful trip planned. And shopping for coats is fun. Seeing money made is also fun. I love DC. The cherry blossom festival begins March 27th and I think ends April 11th. It’s been a year or so since I have visited that beautiful city.

  122. LASB says:

    Thanks NYGent. I’m going to look into all that you’ve recommended. Edgy sounds good. I’m debating when a good time to introduce pot BGSD to some of the parties. Since he’s so into fashion, I think he will enjoy the latex and Louboutins crowd.

    I’m also debating a little detour to NYC. hehe. ๐Ÿ˜‰ I want to go and re-see Tim Burton, which was waaaaay too crowded when I was there.

    Elegant – I hear ya on the wine. Stumbled home from my favorite happy hour. They have never once charged me for wine, which is such a dangerous situation, being that I have a very small, inefficient liver.

  123. NYGent says:

    LASB: I also highly recommend Ford’s Theatre in D.C. Get the tix for the museum and ranger tour.

    The memorials (lincoln, jefferson) at night are very moving.

    If you are there in late march you might just catch the cherry blossoms on the Tidal Basin.

    A tour of the national mint is always fun, seeing money made.

    For a bit more edginess (in a fairly non-edgy city), Adams Morgan, for late night dancing/music the 9:30 Club, although haven’t been there in years.

    DCers will correct me if i’m wrong on any of the above.

  124. ElegantSugar says:

    LASB – Ah, too much wine tonight to go into the clairvoyance convo of it being a ‘gift’ or a ‘skill’. Definitely believe you though that it “just happens” and you either listen or you don’t.

    NYC Gent – Very cute. I was quite “foul” in my “fowl” typing error earlier for sure (don’t tell anyone, I will lose my job). I won’t “whine” about it now though, but will blame it on the “wine”, indeed. I’m DYING to see “Time Stands Still”……….cannot wait.

  125. mommapoppins says:

    LA- You know what you want

  126. LASB says:

    Thanks momma! Yes, I have high hopes. He said we can go shopping for a nice warm coat, too since all I have is my ski jacket.

  127. mommapoppins says:

    LA- you are going to have a blast!

  128. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    LASB – You were BOTH right. Lmao – I just pointed it out ๐Ÿ˜‰

  129. LASB says:

    Taz – You are SO RIGHT!! I stand corrected. :)

  130. LASB says:

    So, pot BGSD invited me to DC in mid March. I accepted. I’m going to go there for a few days early so I can do the tourist thing. He is so sweet and is getting me a room in the central area even though he is staying in the outskirts, so that it’s easier for me to see everything. We will meet up when his business deals are finished. I told him that I want to see the Spy museum. Again (just like with your recommendation to MoonPatrol with the Paramount) NYGent, you are inadvertently giving me great tourist advice! :)

  131. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    NYGent – so great to see you!

  132. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    LASB & Elegant – it IS a gift…that EVERYONE has…and a skill that can be further developed.

  133. LASB says:

    Have sweet sugary dreams, CA!

  134. NYGent says:

    Elegant: I would “duck” a “foul” ball, but agree that duck as “fowl” is up there with the best, and lamb is great too, even though it’s neither fish nor fowl.

    NYCers: I just returned from seeing “Time Stands Stil”l on Broadway, starring the great Laura Linney, and highly recommend it. In the audience was Alec Baldwin, whose immortal line from Glengarry Glen Ross could be applied to sugar dating: “always be closing.”

    I’m sort of on hiatus sugar-wise, but trying to keep tabs on the blog, good to see so many “regulars” back such as beach, taz, yaz, photo, SDTexas along with the newbies.

  135. CA Dreamin SB says:

    :) Too funny LA!

    Okay – I’m about to pass out I’m so tired, which is shameful since it’s only9:30, but I’m off to bed – catch up in the AM! Night everyone!

  136. LASB says:

    Hi CADreamin! I was laughing at your post about cars in that it’s all the CA folk that have two cars, even the SBs. I have a coupe and an SUV. It soooo the CA way. haha.

    Hi Momma! Whatcha up to?

  137. LASB says:

    Elegant – You still around? I’m just goint to say that clairvoyance is NOT a “gift” it’s a skill. It’s something everyone can learn. My family isn’t into it and quite frankly, they all thinks that I’m crazy, except for the fact that what I tell them keeps ending up being true. haha. I’ve only been doing this for a few years. My degree is in Genetics, for goodness sake, and I didn’t see how science could explain clairvoyance, hence it was beyond my comprehension. But again, the universe started shouting at me so loudly, that I couldn’t ignore it anymore.

  138. CA Dreamin SB says:

    Hi LA!

  139. LASB says:

    Just arrived. Hi Sugars!

    JSO – I don’t know anything about you, but word on the street is that in person, you are smoking hot. Just sayin’.

  140. CA Dreamin SB says:

    Goodnight JSO…hope to see you around soon

  141. mommapoppins says:

    I am with CA, plus there is no need for you to be down or unhappy!

  142. JSO-TXSD says:

    I will still blog sometimes. Ttake care. Going to bed

  143. cleo says:

    jso i’m you at the other end of the continent… ah well :)

  144. CA Dreamin SB says:

    We know you’ll be fine JSO…we just don’t want you to disappear on us!

  145. JSO-TXSD says:

    No need to worry anyone. I will be fine.

  146. mommapoppins says:

    jso- you just have not found the right one, I know she is out there. Don’t give up.

  147. cleo says:

    i don’t know lisa, i prefer shoes to shows

    no, that’s a lie. i love shows be they stage or screen

  148. CA Dreamin SB says:

    The good thing is, new girls sign up every day…

  149. JSO-TXSD says:

    I can not get a decent girl to look at me. The competion must be to great in texas. I will be fine.

  150. CA Dreamin SB says:

    Hi Elegant

  151. ElegantSugar says:

    Don’t give up, JSO! Hi CA Dreamin!

  152. CA Dreamin SB says:

    I’ve almost given up about 10 times now…but I hang out and take a break for a little bit then back to it with renewed optimism.

  153. ElegantSugar says:

    I just got back in and I’m lurking…

    Hi JSO…and company.

  154. CA Dreamin SB says:

    Oh JSO! Don’t give up! Can you just not find anyone who is what you’re looking for?

  155. JSO-TXSD says:

    CA Dreaming – I am getting ready to give up on the SD thing. Going to go back to regular dating. Not having any luck.

  156. CA Dreamin SB says:

    It’s a slow night…not many people around.

  157. JSO-TXSD says:

    Hi girls

  158. CA Dreamin SB says:

    Hey JSO!!!

  159. JSO-TXSD says:

    Is anybody on?

  160. lisa says:

    shoes 8:26 here in Houston. oh sorry “shows” not shoes

  161. CA Dreamin SB says:

    I thought each of ours showed up in our own time zone – but I could be wrong. I’m in California, so it shows up as pacific time.

  162. mommapoppins says:

    thanks, i guess my time on my comp is off or something!

  163. CA Dreamin SB says:

    Pacific Time – 8:16 here now

  164. mommapoppins says:

    Ok so i have a question! which time zone is the clock on the blog? I have been trying to figure it out!!!

  165. lisa says:

    I met him on sd4me. I occasionally logged in to see if i got any response. Got over 20 views, one email, and met him on the 1st of feb.

  166. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Lisa – did you meet your new SD on SA??

  167. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    I am not a loser – I just don’t like the cold ๐Ÿ˜›

  168. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    I am here again too lol

  169. CA Dreamin SB says:

    Well, It’s only 7:30 here, but it’s raining and I don’t feel like going out tonight :)

  170. lisa says:

    what a bunch of losers we are :)

  171. CA Dreamin SB says:

    I’m here!

  172. lisa says:

    i’m here

  173. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Eeeek…friday night – anyone here now?

  174. lisa says:

    I haven’t moved yet. Right now i’m laying in bad on my laptop using my wireless. Wow one could get lazy doing this.

  175. mommapoppins says:

    ele- check it out now! Thanks

  176. Beach_ Girl in LA!!! says:

    Lisa~ did you move?

  177. mommapoppins says:

    That would be a lot easier! Less stinky anyways!- Lisa

  178. Lisa says:

    Wow we are a sorry bunch, dead animals and trash, lol actually I hope they keep the dumpsters under control at the new apartments. Where I live now, they are always behind on paying the trash pick up and the dumpsters are runing over, and i’m tired of practicing my basketball moves to get the trash atop the heap on the dumpster.

    Actually I think they have door to door trash pickup.

  179. Mohnwaffeln says:

    Hmm daintily! .-). Thx for sharing

  180. cleo says:

    we used to take the trash to the dump and then sit back and watch the bears sort the trash…

  181. Beach_ Girl in LA!!! says:

    elegant that sounds good…

  182. mommapoppins says:

    Do any of you have LASB email? If so can you email it to me?

  183. mommapoppins says:

    Ca if you like duck, try Duck A’la Orange, it is just mouth watering

  184. Lisa says:

    Yes I remember those popping noises, the batteries did that too. We also had a hen that had a big growth over her eye and my dad used to put a round sponge over his eye to make fun of her, that would piss my mom off. We also had a rooster (actually I think it was hubert again) who couldn’t run fast enough to catch the hens, so he’s mount the ducks. We had those ugly ones that huff and have big red ball things on their noses and stuff hanging off, very ugly. And you don’t want to hear about my clothesline of death. Some of the things I did to amuse myself as an only child living out in the country. Kitten died, I hung him on the clothes line.

  185. CA Dreamin SB says:

    Okay – can we please stop with the dead animal talk?

  186. ElegantSugar says:

    Hi Beach! When would you like to know by? I should have a definitive answer no later than Sunday.

  187. ElegantSugar says:

    Woah. I suggest hypnosis to get rid of that childhood memory, Lisa. Wow. I might need hypnosis just having read it. We used to burn our trash too and the jars and cans would make loud “POP” noises.

  188. Beach_ Girl in LA!!! says:

    JSO~ i’m good thanks, a little cold ….

    Elegant~ let me know if you are coming by email… thanks :)

    hi everyone, just here for a minute

  189. ElegantSugar says:

    I think I meant fowl? Uh oh. Hear comes teacher cleo.

    Duck confit..yes, with a red. Yum.

  190. Lisa says:

    When I was a child we lived out in the country. One time we came home to find that our horse had bit a hole in one of our duck’s back, he was dying when we found him. For some reason, we decided to eat him. It was weird. I remember we used to burn our trash and we had thrown the entrails in the trash pile. Our rooster “hubert” gulped down the intestines whole. Gross

  191. CA Dreamin SB says:

    OH – Duck Confit…WONDERFUL

  192. ElegantSugar says:

    Duck is my favorite foul to indulge in. I am a fan of lamb as well.

  193. Lisa says:

    The little quail body just looked like percy.

  194. ElegantSugar says:

    mommapoppins – just find a different way to get your thoughts across. Think about your audience and remember this is about THEM too. Not just MeMeMe.

  195. cleo says:

    lisa i have a very hard time eating birds smaller than cornish hens for that reason. also there’s so little meat on them it seems pointless to kill them… so i hear you

    i do love lamb though… and i don’t think i’d mind the quail if it was in a sauce or i didn’t have to see it’s tiny body. so hypocritical, but i have killed food and eaten it so i’m entitled.

    brains are icky though …

  196. ElegantSugar says:

    AustinSD – I hope you figured it out that it was supposed to read, “my first post ever on this blog…”

  197. cleo says:

    elegantsugar: lol

    need a job or an sd milove or it just isn’t sane…

  198. ElegantSugar says:

    mommapoppins – If I may say so, I feel you should “soften” your approach a bit on your profile. It gave me anxiety reading about your demands and I can only imagine what a SD would feel.

  199. AustinSD says:

    Not a quail fan but I do love lamb!

    Elegant – thanks for the response!

  200. Lisa says:

    I can’t stand lamb. I came home one day from work back when I was married and found a 6 pack of goat’s brains thawing in the sink. Yuck

    This time last month, I didn’t even know this sd, and now there is the possibility of me moving to a better place, thanks to his assistance. My rent will be paid for 6 months so I can put aside my rent each month and will almost have enough to cover the next 6 month lease, as the rent is only 100 more a month but the income restrictions are so strict and the credit, so I have to prepay. With my allowance, I can save the extra to add to the rent I save so I will prepared if the arrangement ends before next leasing period.

  201. ElegantSugar says:

    Not sure I will be there either, but would so love to go and meet all you California girls.

  202. mommapoppins says:

    OMG quail is the best, well besides lamb (only if it is cooked right)!

  203. CA Dreamin SB says:

    No doubt Lisa…I’m hoping wonderful things :)

  204. Lisa says:

    you never know what “fate” has in store for you

  205. CA Dreamin SB says:

    I don’t think I can make it :(

    I’ll try though – if by some quirk of fate I can.

  206. ElegantSugar says:

    Hi mommapoppins!

    CA Dreamin – are you going to be at the LA meet next week?

  207. CA Dreamin SB says:

    Aw Elegant – you say the sweetest things! You and me – two hot and sexy chicks!

  208. Lisa says:

    ok I just ate quail for dinner. Sd ordered it for take out for me for dinner. Felt guilty as the little bird looked like percy, sob

  209. ElegantSugar says:

    NC Gent – LOVE your goal of being PRO SD status by 2011. If we all could aim so high. You’re my hero.

  210. Lily says:

    Finally had to jot down all the pots I have running (no excel spreadsheet!) on my blog to keep them straight. No, the Chairman or the CEO or HandsomeSD are not on the list because I’m thinking about pulling the plug of IRL turn-rich-men-into-SD maneuver because it’s not necessarily a good investment of my time. Plus HandsomeSD hasnt’ made any contact. :(

    I do like the two I have. So reliable. Both have been in touch everyday, at least in some small way, and seem to be on board with all my goals and every aspect of my life which I am very up front and hones to them about.

  211. ElegantSugar says:

    Hi CA Dreamin! You hot, sexy thang, you.

  212. ElegantSugar says:

    Hi Taz! hope you are doing well.

    cleo – I think you should just make the jump and move to Helsinki. You can help Lily distract one (or two) of her SDs to give her a break. Seems you’d be fitting for such a challenge.

  213. CA Dreamin SB says:

    Hi Elegant!

  214. ElegantSugar says:

    Gosh. Just spent an hour catching up. Everyone seems to catch “Lily syndrome” at some point.

    Flo – I can’t believe someone sent a photo of their vajayjay to SD. Ew. I have had a pot SD send me a photo of his parts before we even met. Suffice to say, we never met. Oh, and I have no doubt you will be in your goal shape in less than a month. Regarding your question relating to giving the answer about “the best sex you ever had” – I think it depends on who you are sharing this with. If it is someone you see in your long-term future, then I say stick with the rule of “some things are better left unsaid.”

    NYCGent – I have wanted to visit the spy museum on my trips to D.C., but never made it. I did, however, purchase some spy paraphernalia while at DCA. Sad to say though, the excitement of my clandestine purchases was quickly overshadowed with grief when I dropped my new phone in the commode shortly thereafter. Not a good experience.

    NYC SB – Glad you made your decision for the weekend. Have fun, chica bonita!

    AustinSD – my post ever on this blog (I think) was a complaint about the format and the ease of use – or lack thereof, I should say.

    Lily – Soy sauce and wasabi almonds have been my best friends for at least 6 months now.

    DC – wish I was making it there next week. I look forward to when you and I finally meet.

    Lisa – Congrats on your new place. Sorry to hear you still have to pay another month where you are, but at least you will be so much happier in your new place. Sounds like Percy will be happier too.

    LASB – I feel for you, my CRAZIAN friend, but I know your tough spirit will make it through this chapter just fine. Clairvoyance runs in my family too. You and I will have to have a discussion offline (hopefully in person one day) about this.

    I probably want to address a few other things, but have forgotten them now…

  215. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Awesome Lisa!! So happy for you :) Maybe your ‘old SD’ not being in touch brought you some good luck ๐Ÿ˜‰ And wireless…don’t know how I could live without it…

  216. Lisa says:

    Thanks NEOhioSB when I was in the leasing office, there were several people leasing apartments. It was so nice to see little old ladies rather than gangsta thugs. It’s mostly elderly people (because it’s close to a medical center), hospital employees and students. If you have a criminal record, you can’t live there. Percy is excited too and there is no deposit for birds.

  217. NEOhio SB says:

    Lisa ~~…That is fantastic news about the new place….You are sooo deserving of that,…I really really hope it comes through for you and Percy and you both have a new place you can call your “casita”…without the drama of what you have going on outside now. Sooo happy for you….keeping my fingers and toes crossed !!!

  218. CA Dreamin SB says:

    Email again Lily! I’m so bored I wish I had something to do tonight!

  219. Lily says:

    Oh, and we have macadamia nuts here too, but they are plain. Something about the onion/garlic ones that just are the yummiest things I’ve ever had.

  220. Lily says:

    CA Dreamin SB – so do you!

  221. Lisa says:

    Thanks NYCSB.

    I sure hope so. I would be able to get out at night because my parents live in the same place so I could spend more time with my daughter at the mall. I would be on the same busline for work but would have to walk through the mall to get to and from the bus stop, which is not so bad.

    I’m finally wireless. Bougth a wireless router today so I can use my lap top around my apartment, so if I get tired, I can go to bed and still be on the blog.

  222. CA Dreamin SB says:

    Lily – you have mail

  223. Lily says:

    I know! They are pricey even in Hawaii.

    CA Dreamin’ SB, you have mail….

    Updated my Wish List to include recurring airfare for overseas travel (fam/friends to me and me to them).

    Thing is, I have an SD to pay my bills so I don’t have to chip away at my personal savings, and I have another SD who is happy to spend even more than that if it’s purchases he can write off as a business expense to his company (like my macbook air + travel shopping/splurges for february, and the new iMac + accessories I’m asking for, for March).

    As things look now, I won’t see any actual cash allowance until maybe April, unless I change my mind about zazazoom outfitting my home office with all my dream goodies. But I think it’s a good investment, since I want to actually *work* from this home office.

    At least I’m in no worry of splurging all my sugar on shoes and travel. Not actually *seeing* (aka cash in my hands), any of it and so far won’t until closer to summer….
    I highly recommend this approach if you are as irressponsible with cash as I am. I will just go out, go shopping, buy me and my friends dinner/drinks/cabs…. if the cash is in my purse.

    I love the idea of one of these prepaid/reloadable visas but I don’t think we have that here…. Somhow I can contain myself when it’s plastic, somewhat, but cash to me is just money that is here today and gone tomorrow.

  224. Flo Rida says:

    AustinSD – the blog format is more suited to women then men. Women seem to pick up the flow & personalities relatively easily, I know the conversation can be conversational at times but that’s how women interact. The blog gods don’t listen to me so c’est la vie.

    NYC SB – gut fur dich

    cleo – i’ve been working out like a mad woman to lose weight – i’ll be down to perfect weight in less than a month.

  225. CA Dreamin SB says:

    The Macadamia nuts shouldn’t be too hard to find here in San Francisco. Though I’ve never looked for Garlic and onion flavor! With that said, I have a friend with a condo on Maui, so if I can’t find them here – she’ll grab them for me!

  226. cleo says:

    those things are at a premium here anyway as they are already being shipped from far. you can get them, but you pay

  227. cleo says:

    austin it’s this or a chatroom. forums just get too hard to keep track of
    lily i’m really bad at mailing things. i mean REALLY bad or i would totally do it. i’ll try if someone else doesn’t offer but man, i take months.

    wish list: someone to pay for a maid to come in before i have to work monday. the place just needs someone to wash it… it’s otherwise clean but my abs like seriously cannot bear the idea of mopping.

  228. Lily says:

    I’m so excited. I can taste the garlic & onion Mauna Loa macadamia nuts now….. and waking up to kona coffee that I’ve freshly ground that morning in my coffee bean grinder. ahhhhhhhhhh…..

  229. AustinSD says:

    CA Dreamin SB – you have mail

  230. CA Dreamin SB says:

    Aw, Thanks AustinSD!!! I’m sure I will make it to Austin (probably soon) But you better stay on the blog as I don’t know how to reach you otherwise! (or you can email me)

  231. NYC SB says:

    Lisa – keeping my fingers crossed that you get to move from your current place… even if you have to pay extra rent and electric for one month

  232. AustinSD says:

    CA Dreamin SB – definitely let me know if you make it to Austin, I’d be happy to show you a sugary-good time.

    To everyone how on earth do y’all keep up with this blog. A traditional forum would be so much better.

  233. Lily says:

    CA Dreamin’ SB — really? Oh it’s so long-winded and rambly and pointless. But that’s also just like me, so that’s cool, right? ๐Ÿ˜‰

    I just added my Wish List to my blog. ZazaSD asked for it so I gave it, then thought I’d put it on the blog.

    The coffee and macadamia nuts would be easy for you guys to get and ship to me. Would I be able to tempt anyone in a nifty local-goodies swap? I could send the creme de la creme of cool finnish goodies and souveniers, and you could send me the beans and nuts I miss?

    Anybody, anybody? Bueller? Blog Domme who will hopefully be here in Europe this spring? EVERYONE ELSE that i hope will come to my 80s murder mystery party in 4 weeks…?

  234. cleo says:

    the electric at least will be nearly nothing in the old place

    and frankly ANYthing that gets you out of that place is worth it!

  235. Lisa says:

    I am month to month as this apartment management is screwed up. I just hate wasting 500 dollars on an apartment I won’t be in plus i’ve got to keep the electric on too which means I will be paying electric for 2 places.

  236. cleo says:

    lisa if you don’t have a least why do you have to pay march? is that a thing there?

    here after your year lease is up you go on month to month but you have to give thirty days notice… or is it sixty(forget off the top of my head)? same there?

  237. CA Dreamin SB says:

    Lily – just read your blog – LOVE it!

  238. cleo says:

    and i still say younger ladies, leave a few men who like a mature woman for midwest and lisa and others like me k? k.


  239. Lisa says:

    Good afternoon

    Back from outting. Went and looked at apartment, paid application fee, have to wait till mon or tue to see if I get approved. but even with paying the whole 6 month lease in advance, they do a credit check, which will kill me as I have 7 credit cards in collection for 3 years.
    the apartment is great, new carpet, new blinds, new counters, new applicances, across from mall, far enough from parent’s apartment to allow for privacy, etc. It sucks that i;ll still have to pay march rent here because I haven’t given 30 days notice, but I didn’t know that I was moving until last week and I won’t know for sure till next week. I don’t have a lease here.

  240. Lily says:

    I’m here,CDN. Still crushing on you. Still too young for you. Too far for you. Sigh.

    LASB – yes yes yes come visit!

  241. CA Dreamin SB says:

    Ciao CDN!!!

  242. CdnGent says:

    Pretty quiet out here now. Must be Friday and people minds are tuning to sugardust. It’s been a fun first few days all. Rarely pop online on the weekends but I’ll be curious to see what’s what next time I’m here. In the meantime, all good things to everyone.



  243. mommapoppins says:

    sorry i was not paying attention what who I sent that to that was for LASB

  244. LASB says:

    Taz – Yes, I have your info. I know you are into the same type of stuff, so yeah, let’s talk shop.

    BTW, anyone who wants to talk, meet, and/or celebrate off the blog, I’m always open to you contacting me. I used to post my email on here all the time before the blog gods did a crackdown. But enough people have it now that it’s pretty easy to get from one another.

    Ok, off to start my afternoon now! Have a good one, sugars!

  245. mommapoppins says:

    NYC- let me know what I can do to make a trade for a reading!

  246. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    LASB – oh boy – girl I think I need to talk to you…off the blog…you have my email I think? Whenever you have time…no huge rush :) I won’t pester you for a reading either lol…I am sure you will have your requests cut out for you ๐Ÿ˜‰

  247. LASB says:

    NYC SB – Sounds like an awesome trade! Email me and we can set something up.

  248. NYC SB says:

    LASB – I want a “reading” then… will trade spreadsheet for clarity… except you may not need it ๐Ÿ˜‰

  249. LASB says:

    Oops, forgot to change my name back. hehe. That’s the problem with impersonating myself. LOL!

  250. Lily's blog Domme says:

    Anna Molly – Thanks for the validation. I actually “saw” the same thing. I know I talked about this a long time ago, but I’ll say it again that I’m clairvoyant, yes as in people pay me to tell them about unresolved issues in their lives. I use the skill a lot in business for myself and sometimes in romance too. So I was able to see the other woman, even though he told me he was single. In examining if I wanted to proceed, there are two things I saw. One is that he has information for me. If I look at his profile and how I met him etc, there is no way either of us should have met. The second thing I saw was that we have some karma to clear up. I can say a lot more freaky things about it, but I’m not trying to be one of those “new age” types. I try to live a grounded existence in the physical world, rather than in some astral fantasy spirit world.

  251. Anna Molly says:

    LASB ~ You can’t help how you feel about someone. Remember, he has come into your life for a reason and if you don’t let things happen the way they were meant to happen you will never know what he was brought into your life for. I agree with you, just go with the flow and see what happens.

  252. NYC SB says:

    OK soooo… I have made my weekend decision…

    I will NOT be in NC… because I really DO NOT want to meet NYSE’s parents… so I will be spending it with NYC SD making up VDAY

    glad I got that out of the way…

  253. Lily's blog Domme says:

    NYC SB – Yes, TexaSD obviously does require some discipline, but I already have my hands full with Lily (and sometimes SDN.) Maybe Naughty Molly can tie him up. ๐Ÿ˜‰

  254. LASB says:

    Hi Mommapoppins! Yes, in the past few days, it’s been a struggle to keep up on here.

  255. LASB says:

    Thanks Anna Molly. I just have to wrap my head around a few things, such as him being married. In so many ways, he doesn’t come in the package that I was looking for. On the other hand, when you connect so strongly with someone it makes it easier to overlook previous set boundaries.

    I don’t like the idea of dating a married man because I don’t like the powerless feeling I get from knowing I come second to some other woman. Now in an allowance relationship, I think you are being compensated not to feel that way. However, he seems pretty opposed to that sort of thing, and I’m just going to proceed anyhow because, well… that’s how I roll. LOL. Forgive me in advance for the impending train wreck. haha.

  256. mommapoppins says:

    omg yall have been at it!

  257. Anna Molly says:

    LASB ~ He sounds wonderful and I hope things work out for you!

  258. LASB says:

    Oh no. I cleared the blog.

  259. NYC SB says:

    LASB – how can you not fall in sugar bowl… you meet a man who you are attracted to, he sometimes happens to be single, then he treats you like gold and spoils you… your time spent together is a fary tale full of lavish indulgences… its near impossible to not be smitten or fall in love

  260. LASB says:

    Lily – Oh, just read your blog. So the story that you tell with Handsome SD on the “Oh no…” blog, is pretty similar to what I’m experiencing.

    I’m itching to get out of Cali soon, so maybe I’ll come visit you. I always fly through London because I like doing a stopover there. I’d agree that Ryan Air and Easy Jet are awesome. I paid $5 to go to Milan once. Well, then there are all the taxes, but still super cheap.

    TXSB – BGSD is a pot. Not into allowances, but somehow I don’t even care. He’s chivalrous and not a cheapskate at all, just doesn’t like the idea of an allowance.

  261. TXSB says:

    Hi! I’ve been good… :)

    Hi! :) I’m not 100% caught up on everything…is BGSD your SD? Or is he a pot?

  262. LASB says:

    Lily – To answer your question, NO I’m not looking for an LTR. Well, except this guy made me change the rules. He makes me want an LTR with him.

    I never answered the previous blog question of who is cut out to be in the sugar bowl. Maybe I’m not. Or maybe it’s just that BGSD (Bill Gates SD) makes me get all mushy and soft. It’s awful. :(

    *Must keep focused. Must not fall in love in the sugar bowl.*
    *Must keep focused. Must not fall in love in the sugar bowl.*
    *Must keep focused. Must not fall in love in the sugar bowl.*
    *Must keep focused. Must not fall in love in the sugar bowl.*

  263. LASB says:

    Hi Everyone. Just caught up finally.

    Beach Girl -What’s with bringing your city’s cold weather to MY city?!!! I had the AC on all week until yesterday! Then, you get here and suddenly the drop in temperature and all these nasty looking clouds!

    TXSB and MUSE – You’re back! Yay!

  264. JSO-TXSD says:

    TXSB – Hey how have you been
    Beach – I hope you are having fun.

  265. Lily says:

    Bella – thanks! And the best part is that these had meaning. They are from the land of my birth. Thoughtfulness. Sigh.

  266. TXSB says:

    I’ve been good…busy with life. Shoot me an e-mail once you’re back and we’ll catch up! :)

  267. Muse says:

    NYC SB- Which reminds me…call me whenever you want to give me the next one. I’m reachable all weekend! ๐Ÿ˜€

  268. NYC SB says:

    Muse – you get the real time updates girl…

  269. NYCBella says:

    Hey Lily~lucky girl…the flowers are very pretty and tasteful as well (I hate when flowers aren’t tastefully done…as in…baby’s breath! Yuck!!! one of my many neurotic pet peeves…lol)

  270. Muse says:

    NC – I’d been game for a casino meet. I’m not a gambler but I like flirting with the people who are playing. It’s interesting to see how much I can manage to distract them. (I’m terrible.)

    AM – xo! I’ve missed you sunshine.

    NYC SB – I’m still holding my breath for a blog update.

    Hi all.

  271. Lily says:

    My flowers are on my blog. Visit it if you want to see them. :) I’m so feeling the kama’aina spirit.

    So ESB has a new SD and Lisa also mentiond something about ‘new SD’ in a sentence also referring to ‘old SD’ so I hope it means she suddenly has one too? But she had her profile removed…. hmm….

  272. Beach_ Girl in LA!!! says:

    I am outside the the wind is picking up and rain is coming… gonna go a little more south i think lol… for a day or 2! see you later sugars!!!!

  273. cleo says:

    lily yeah i had no idea how cheap inter-europe flying was. from now on i’m just going to where it’s cheapest and then taking a local :)

  274. cleo says:

    beach unless you’re blogging on a patio? get the hell off the internet and go outside! it’s COLD here :)

  275. Beach_ Girl in LA!!! says:

    TXSB~ We will need to catch up when i’m back… how you been????

  276. Lily says:

    LCA flights in Europe are that cheap. Ryanair/easyjet. I can get to Dublin, London, Riga, and other places for gas fare if my dates are flexible.

  277. cleo says:

    cdngent yeah i won’t make a fourteen hour drive take two days, that would enrage me with pointlessness unless i was stopping to visit someone on the way….

  278. Beach_ Girl in LA!!! says:

    Cdn~ hhahahha No thanks, you can make all the plans you’re doing great!!lol…
    i could do a TO meet too, it’s a long drive but so many SBs and SDs that i know there… would be ll worth it ๐Ÿ˜€

  279. cleo says:

    lily find me either a job or an SD lol

  280. TXSB says:

    Hi!! *HUG* I missed “seeing” you here! :)

    CA Dreamin:
    That’s great! Looks like you’ll be changing your nick to “TX Dreamin SB”… ๐Ÿ˜‰

  281. CdnGent says:

    Cleo … I do that too when I make the odd run to Myrtle. It’s 14 hours all told. If I leave early enough, I’ll just keep my foot on the pedal and go. Obviously harder with the family but I prefer to just GET THERE!

  282. cleo says:

    er ‘old money vs time’ not only

  283. Lily says:

    Cleo, move to Helsinki! We can double sugar date!! Teaching pilates… Sure, we have that, in English.

  284. cleo says:

    cdn gent it’s the only money vs time equation

    i flew to see my sis once, hated it for like five different reasons but mostly that she lives so far from the airport it’s pointless

    that said, you spend three hundred very reasonable dollars, i spend about eighty and a couple of extra hours. you have money and i have time :)

  285. CdnGent says:

    Beach Girl is in for Ottawa! We’re growing. Come to the national capital of Canada and discover we’re not ALL Mounties and natives pounding drums. I like it … make it so! BG since you’re the closest (so far) you get to coordinate. Haha!

  286. cleo says:

    oh i should add that i LOVE road trips.

    last year i left toronto at one pm on friday and was in orlando at six on saturday

    by myself and yes i stopped to sleep (slight cheat, intended to sleep to ten thirty but they were working outside my room so got started at 9:30 instead. would have arrived closer to seven. and yes i stopped to eat too. IN restaurants not takeout.

    there’s a reason i think i would make a good co-driver lol

    [one time i left toronto at half past ten in the am and couldn’t make myself stop until i hit macon, georgia near four am :)

  287. CA Dreamin SB says:

    (I grew up in SA)

  288. CA Dreamin SB says:

    TXSB – You did not mis-read. Looks like I’m moving to Austin sometime in the next year. LOOK OUT TX! Dreamin is COMING HOME!!! ๐Ÿ˜‰

  289. CdnGent says:

    Not really cleo … I have never paid more than about 300 for a return flight to Ottawa. And it’s a great cab-sharing city. Once you’re in the core, it’s entirely walkable. But, I get your issue of having to get to the expansive burbs. Stupid Ottawa greenbelt doesn’t help. And I guess another secret is avoiding flying out of YYZ when possible. Hate the prep time required for that. Alternatives are faster and far more convenient.

  290. Beach_ Girl in LA!!! says:

    TXSB~ hey girl!!!!!

  291. Beach_ Girl in LA!!! says:

    Ottawa is not that far for me…. could go no problem, not even a 2 hour drive!

  292. TXSB says:

    CA Dreamin:
    Hi! :) LOL…no offense taken! As I said already, Htown has it’s good and bad…no city is “perfect”. Texas in general is HOT and yes, I will agree that the humidity here is AWFUL! But since I’ve been here a long time, I’m used to it. I can’t imagine living up North during the winter…I have friends who have lived/currently live in Chicago/NY and their “winter stories” terrify me! BTW, I may have misread this but are you moving to Texas OR were you just talking about coming to a meet here?

  293. cleo says:

    cdngent it’s four to four and a half hours and it takes me one and a half tanks of gas. no flight in the world is that cheap. also sis lives in the outer city (think woodroffe or westboro) and that isn’t too handy without a car. also i find that the hour in the air still takes about three all together so it’s not so different

    but you and i have very different budgets.

  294. CA Dreamin SB says:

    Sorry TXSB – don’t mean to diss your home town!

  295. cleo says:

    omg i think i’m going to live… i actually WANT to have a shower!!! (not going to until i’m a little more stable on my feet but STILL)

  296. CA Dreamin SB says:

    CDN – I lived in Houston for 4 years…HOT and MISERABLE in the summer. I still have many friends there. I liked it (other than the weather). With that said, I think I like Austin better for a ‘meet’ because it’s a bit more laid back.

  297. TXSB says:

    I live in Houston and have been here for several years. I love it! Every city has it’s “good” and “bad” and Houston is no different. I can’t speak for the experience of others…but for me, living in Houston has been positive (and I haven plenty of friends who will say the same). I think it all depends on the area of the town someone lives in….a person living in Brooklyn obviously has a different experience/opinion of NY compared to someone living in Manhattan (at least I would imagine). Just my 2 cents…. :)

  298. CdnGent says:

    Cleo … carpool to Ottawa? Baby, you gotta fly to O-town. I’ll take 45 minutes over 5 hours thank you very much. Besides, you can often get a flight for almost as little as a few tanks of gas.

  299. Anna Molly says:

    I have never been to Texas.

  300. cleo says:

    CDNGent Lisa hates houston because she can’t get an apartment there due to the stranglehold of various folks. maybe you can help her…?

    otherwise i think no one cares?

  301. cleo says:

    cdn: omg say it ain’t so!

    hey if we meet in ottawa do you want to carpool? (i like ottawa, my baby niece lives there with my sister and my awesome bro in law)

  302. CdnGent says:

    Hey TexaSD – I am embarassed to realize I never wished you a happy B-day yesterday. Cheers pal … I hope it was a good one.

    Speaking of Texas, why does it appear there’s an anti-Houston bias here? What’s wrong with Houston? A friend of mine is part of the family that owns just about the entire downtown core but I’ve never been. Just curious why the hate.

  303. TXSB says:

    Hi Everyone! Great to see many of the “veterans” post again…I see we have several new faces so a warm welcome to those I haven’t “met” yet! :)

    I haven’t posted much but have been skimming the blog….not caught up 100% on all the posts.

    A (late) Happy Birthday to you!!! And it’s great to “see” you back on here again!

    Re: Texas Meet
    If there’s a Texas meet, count me in! Especially if it’s in Austin, Htown, or Dallas.

  304. CA Dreamin SB says:

    CDN – I’m SHOCKED :O

  305. NYC SB says:

    Cdn – you a smartass…. thought never crossed my mind ๐Ÿ˜›

  306. CdnGent says:

    May is a good time. Although I’m in Ottawa for at least two weekends in May. Hmmm …


    (BTW …. has everyone figured out that I’m a little bit of a smartass?)

  307. cleo says:

    beach it could but at the same time the longer we wait the less likely it is to hapen

  308. Beach_ Girl in LA!!! says:

    Cleo~ it should be in may or something , it’s a lot warmer than march!

  309. Naughty Molly says:

    Hey Muse! Good to see you sweetness ๐Ÿ˜‰

  310. cleo says:

    molly: just go ahead and get your passport. that said, it doesn’t sound like it will be before late march/april and not one person has emailed me yet…

  311. NYC SB says:

    Count me in for a CT casino meet… I will bring an SD as well… both are gamblers ๐Ÿ˜€

  312. NC Gent says:

    Good to see you Muse. We miss you, but we understand. Maybe you can come for the tentatively scheduled CT meet at the casinos :)

  313. Naughty Molly says:

    I want to come to the Toronto meet, but I need to know the date ASAP so I can get my passport.

    I’m also up for a golf meet, but I’ll need to practice because I haven’t played in a while. Maybe I can get some help with my short game, hmmmm. I have an excellent swing or used to anyway.

    NC – Don’t forget Uncasville in June! That would be a lot of fun. Who knows maybe I’ll win big at the tables. I could be a SM! WooHoo! ๐Ÿ˜€

  314. Muse says:

    Hello all, I’ve been MIA and busy with “real life” lately and it’s cutting into my blog time! hmph.

    Midwest & James – I’m sorry things ended between you two as you both seemed so happy. However, I’m glad that things ended amicably and that you will remain friends. It’s always best to end a great experience on a good note rather than let anything sour what was otherwise an amazing experience. *blog hugs*

    Other than that, I’m so behind on the blog I’m not going to pretend I know what’s going on.

  315. CA Dreamin SB says:

    CDN – A long time back, there was a running blog joke about snuggies. So the SD’s showed up at that meet with snuggies for all.

    go to asseenontv dot com and search snuggie

  316. cleo says:

    cdn it’s a blanket with sleeves.
    TexaSD omg that looks SO FUN! i would love to co-drive but only with someone who won’t care that i’m poor :)

  317. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    BG – don’t feel bad – I got it too lol…not sure why I didn’t say anything bad!!

  318. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    BG – sounds great! When do you come back?? Of course we have a ton of catching up to do!!

    Ok really – going now lol..

  319. Beach_ Girl in LA!!! says:

    Taz~ Different IP here! but i think they are on to me… keep getting mod…

  320. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Ok I have to go – the blog sucked me in again!! Lol..I just came online to order a book!

  321. Beach_ Girl in LA!!! says:

    ok let’s try this again… i am having problems with posting…

    Taz Iโ€™m good, but itโ€™s cold in Cali girlโ€ฆ. brrrโ€ฆMiss you too, when i get back we need to catch up! i havenโ€™t talked to you in forever..
    how is everything going?
    I am having a blast hereโ€ฆ

    Cdn~ we have been asking for a chat room for a whileโ€ฆ not sure itโ€™s going to happenโ€ฆ

  322. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Lmao – a blanket with arms. I do not have one lol…but I am sure some of the SB’s could describe it better?

  323. Beach_ Girl in LA!!! says:

    Taz I’m good, but it’s cold in Cali girl…. brrr…Miss you too, when i get back we need to catch up! i haven’t talked to you in forever..
    how is everything going?
    I am having a blast here…

    Cdn~ we have been asking for a chat room for a while… not sure it’s going to happen… the moderator gods won’t allow it! ๐Ÿ˜€

  324. cleo says:

    cdn if you load the main blog page there’s a ‘recent comments’ that will take you to the last comment…

    but i seem to remember somebody having a bottom of page bb hack they used.

    that said, you’re right, the blog is far too busy now for the old one or two topics a week thing… or it just needs a freakin’ ‘skip to the end’ button

  325. CdnGent says:

    Paint me ignorant … what the hell is a snuggie?

  326. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Cdn Gent be careful what you offer lol…the last I heard the ladies all got snuggies at the meet ๐Ÿ˜›

    BG – I see you are allowed to post ๐Ÿ˜‰

  327. CdnGent says:

    Thanks NC – or maybe we can just get all the gals BBs and start a chat group there. Blogging in REAL time. Haha!

  328. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Beeeeaach! How are you my love?? I miss you!!

  329. Beach_ Girl in LA!!! says:

    taz!!!!!! Hey girl!

  330. NC Gent says:

    A couple of people from the site moderate it and SA hosts it, but it isn’t perfect, but then again they don’t make money off of it… a case of getting what we paid for. They need a chat room, but that would be a potential revenue loser. Try the RSS 2.0 feed option when you are loading on a BB — it puts the 10 most recent posts up; you can refresh to see others; the downside in RSS feed mode is that you can’t post (or at least I haven’t figured out how to post without going back to the other mode).

  331. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Cdn – you are addicted ๐Ÿ˜‰

    Stephan is our blog god :)

  332. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    hmmm…I think I was just mod-erated lol

  333. cleo says:

    it’s funny, before my car accident i never stayed in one place more than three years… it’s weird to still be here.

    texasd: looking

  334. NC Gent says:

    I know there was talk of changing the law, but I haven’t checked up on it in the last few years…

  335. CdnGent says:

    Question for you guys since i’m new and all … how does this blog work exactly? Who administrates it? Can’t they do better than this? It’s such a cumbersome page with all that scrolling etc. Doesn’t it make more sense to make each new day a new blog. Reading back, the initial questions are fine but they’re really ultimately not what the group ends up wanting to talk about. Also, is there a way to do this easily on mobile? I called it up on my BB and the page took WAY too long to load. Just curious.


  336. cleo says:

    nc gent i think that law was changed even after many of the women affected stood up in parliament to complain

  337. TexaSD says:

    Cleo- I gtg to a meeting, I have to report on my progress, seen you guys later on.

  338. TexaSD says:

    Cleo- lol I already paid, but look up cannonball run europe. i think you can look at it.

  339. cleo says:

    TexaSD before you put me down as a co-driver tell me what it will cost me, i have a small budget but i would so do that
    Flo Rida to tell you the truth i would move anywhere. i’ve been in the city where men don’t look at me for a freaking decade and i’m totally over it. just don’t have a financial cushion to do it myself.

    helsinki is easier, i have EU citizenship… usa i can’t work i think?

  340. NC Gent says:

    Prostitution is legal in Rhode Island as long as the transaction occurs completely indoors (starting with initial contact). Only reason I know… my first SB and I looked it up when we first started seeing each other and she lived in RI.

  341. CA Dreamin SB says:

    CDN – I LOVE the Ocean Club – been there several times. The Shrimp Cocktail is to die for. Another favorite is a place called Postino, it’s a wine bar…great food, great wine, great atmosphere.

  342. CA Dreamin SB says:

    OR I can just get a great big ole house and host a HUGE Sugar party in Austin at my place! :)

  343. Flo Rida says:

    Jadye – escorting (with a license) is legal in US, prostitution in the US is illegal (except Nevada and maybe Rhode Island?), prositution in Canada, UK, Netherlands, Germany is legal but solicitation is not (i think)

    Still not a lawyer.

  344. CdnGent says:


    I absolutely LOVE the Princess and my personal fav local restaurant, The Ocean Club. Damn, NOW we’re talking! Hell, the WAITERS there could be SDs. I knew I was in trouble when me and my dining companion were “recommended” a meal by the waiter (including lobster mashed potatoes). Pricing was never mentioned (another bad sign) I didn’t care, the place blew me out of the water. Quirky 30s/40s style dinner club with a casual vibe. Besides, I was too busy watching the Rolex on his wrist move as he passionately described the specials. When I paid the bill, I realized why he could afford it. Tips in one week probably paid for most of it.

  345. TexaSD says:

    CA- Well Politically, Austin and SF are the same lol… But i know what you mean, Lets hope it works out great for you, and think of the money you will save ๐Ÿ˜‰ you can become TX Dreamin SM lol

  346. Flo Rida says:

    cleo – I just introduced newbie to a blog SB (she knows who she is) based on geographical proximity – not sure how things are going or if anything will transpire. hey I can only guarantee the introduction not the end result. will you move to LA too?

  347. CA Dreamin SB says:

    TexaSD – I live in the Bay Area of San Francisco. I’m really looking forward to Austin. Culturally, it’s a much better ‘fit’ for me. :)

  348. TexaSD says:

    Cleo- There is another race, but its in Europe, In July 4th-9th. I already have a co-driver, However I will look to see who doesn’t, or I can put you in as my alt ๐Ÿ˜‰

  349. NC Gent says:

    I really don’t care for Myrtle Beach — North part of it is ok — I would prefer the Charleston area or Hilton Head :)

  350. CA Dreamin SB says:

    OH – I’m ALL about Scottsdale! Love Phoenix. Great restaurants, great golfing, great resort hotels with great spas…

  351. TexaSD says:

    CA Dreamin- It all depends on your interests, but you might find Austin wanting compared to LA

    Cdn- Hmm, End of March, I will get back to you on that, But I think something can be worked out lol

  352. CdnGent says:

    CA – Hilton Head works. You’ll hafta excuse me … I’m still thinking of the SD/SB 1st annual Golf Tourament. No better golf location in the world (Scottsdale, AZ excluded perhaps) than the Grand Strand area. And the neon isn’t so bad. I’ll take the familial comfort of Myrtle over the pretentious shine of Vegas anyday.

  353. cleo says:

    i know who ncgent means :)

    i would love to come to tampa but only with a sponsor
    lily i have to tell you i have never been more tempted to up and move. think i could make a living teaching rehab pilates in english french or italian in helsinki?

    man make your SD fly me in for your shindig *grin*

    don’t have sympathy pains, i’m actually finally improving!

  354. NYCBella says:

    No, no, no…Hilton Head is nice and all, but if you really wanna go to the Carolinas, lets make it Charleston…pppppplllllleeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaasssssseeeee. :-)

  355. NYCBella says:

    Wait! Did someone just say Myrtle Beach?!?!?! lol ๐Ÿ˜‰ Ah, my fair home state…

  356. CA Dreamin SB says:

    CDN – Myrtle Beach??? Seriously? How about Hilton Head…at least in Hilton Head you don’t have all the neon! ๐Ÿ˜›

  357. CdnGent says:

    Hey Tex, I’m in Chicago in March (near the end I think) and again in May/June. If a meet can be coordinated in that time, I’m in. Chi-town is my FAVOURITE American city. And that says a lot because I really like the US. My favs aren’t standards however. How come no one even talks about a Myrtle Beach meet, a Boston meet or a Tidioute, Pennsylvania meet? LMAO!

  358. TexaSD says:

    CA Dreamin-

    1. Visit me
    2. ok I am stumped

  359. CA Dreamin SB says:

    Hey TexaSD – Can you tell me all the great things to do when I do move to your fair city?

  360. TexaSD says:

    TT- well doesn’t that just beat all :).

    Cdn- Ya I can’t do anything in March, unless we arrange a Singapore meet lol.
    But i remember you saying Chicago, that is pretty realistic to me.

  361. NC Gent says:

    Tampa Twins is my nick for a couple of bloggers from here — I am thinking you can guess who… I go to Florida quite a bit — mainly Orlando — but it is pretty easy to fly in to Tampa the evening before. Anyone would be welcome to come to the mini-meet of course :)

  362. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Texa – I am sure all the SB’s that want to attend would have no problem working around the SD’s schedules :) Will look forward to meeting you :)

  363. CdnGent says:

    NC – Tampa? Hmmmm, that would mean the possibility of meeting Photo, she of the doe eyes and sweet disposition. Tempting to be sure. Unfortunately for me I just returned from Florida (albeit other coast) and won’t likely be down there again until later in the spring when our RE deal comes up. Besides, it would be hard to fit in in. I have about three weeks of travel to get in before the end of March.

  364. TexaSD says:

    NC- Tampa Twins??? you got my attention…. please more details lol…

    TT- Well it all depends on the timing, but I am not opposed to it lol.

  365. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Ok off and running…have a great day everyone :)

  366. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    …wish I could make it to Tampa…I want sunshine too! NOW lol…

  367. TexaSD says:

    NC- Ya agreed, best places, I have a few friends that are officers (no agencies, or depts) but ya, they will look at any place they get a tip of.

  368. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Glad to hear it Texa :) Sounds like a fantastic bday to me!! What’s this I hear about you entertaining the Toronto meet?? ๐Ÿ˜€

  369. NC Gent says:

    Saw your post after I posted mine Cdn SD.

    By the way, welcome to the blog. I am trying to put together a mini-meet in Tampa within a few weeks — maybe you could come down for that? Exact date should become known early next week… I am trying to get the Tampa Twins to come out with me for some spoiling :)

  370. Lily says:

    Is everyone Gearing up for a big sugar weekend? In 5
    4 weeks, want to come to my murder mystery 80s party? Anyone? Bueller?

  371. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    This is about companionship not money for sex…

  372. TexaSD says:

    TT- Lol, naa, I don’t drink that much, but I had a great time. Its nice just to sit around with people you haven’t seen for awhile and tell stories, watch my friend hit on waitresses. Usually a lot of the UT girls downtown on 6th on a Thursday, plus it wasn’t too cold last night. All in all, good time

  373. Jade says:

    I heard it was legal to escort but not to exchange sex for money or gifts, so I guess we are then escorts in a way . As long as sex did not take place. :)~

  374. NC Gent says:

    Maybe TexaSD but it seems they would have a lot better luck if they went to sites like escorts.com or other ones — or heck even CL.

    I have a friend who is a vice cop – he told me the internet was the best thing that ever happened to them regarding prostitution because it essentially took it off the streets; so the complaints dropped dramatically. He said unless there is a complaint (like heavy traffic at a nice hotel, or heavy traffic to one house in a neighborhood, or someone getting mugged), they don’t even mess with it.

  375. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Lily – maybe it was all the garlic last night ๐Ÿ˜›

  376. CdnGent says:

    No Cleo … Photo is secretly dating ME!!!


  377. Lily says:

    I am now feeling sympathy pains in my tummy, for Cleo.

  378. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Hi back to Photo :)

    How did your bday go last night Texa? Hung over today?? ๐Ÿ˜›

  379. TexaSD says:

    Cleo- Naa, we were just chatting, she is off to catch a flight.

  380. cleo says:

    texasd what you two are secretly dating?

  381. CdnGent says:

    NC – I agree that vice squads have a lot more important things to do than troll websites looking for prostitutes. That said, we DO know they do sweeps from time to time. Look at the Craigslist sweeps in the US for example. Keep in mind that here in Canada, prostitution is not illegal. Living off the avails, keeping a bawdy house and solicitation ARE. That said, it would be VERY easy to pick people off a site like this.

    As I mentioned yesterday, I get at least two messages a week from women who are CLEARLY professional escorts complete with ‘menus’ of their services with pricing. You simply can’t get any more clarity on solicitation than that.

    All that considered, investigations of prostituation are usually driven by complaints from community stakeholders. If anyone HAS surfed SA looking for illegal activity, it would have been because a link showed up on someone’s website or something and they got offended by the content. The moral police are ALMOST as bad as the REAL police. Ha!


  382. TexaSD says:

    Photo says hello to everyone

  383. cleo says:

    beach we don’t have dates yet but i’ll for sure let the blog know when they’re narrowing down.

    taz has my email too so that works… also i posted it in this thread, look for cleodna

  384. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    CdnGent – agreed on the snow – no complaints here lol…I am watching the little we have melt away as we speak :)

  385. Lily says:

    Cleo- how’s your tummy?

  386. NC Gent says:

    They are going to add a question for the applicants interested in hosting the winter olympics….. does it snow there??

  387. TexaSD says:

    NC Gent- Or they could be local cops investigating SBs in their area, to see if they are escorts, Like in toronto

  388. Beach_ Girl in LA!!! says:

    CDn~ LOL, that is funny…I know the snow is all over but in Canada lol… it’s all good though, but i’m sure we will get hit once i get back…. lol

  389. Beach_ Girl in LA!!! says:

    TexaSD~ oh, i haven’t seen her in a while either…

    Cleo~ I heard there was snow in MTL..not sure if it’s true though…When is the TO meet? i would be up for that, photo and taz have my email they can share with you…

  390. NC Gent says:

    Jade — I highly doubt this site is under investigation for prostitution. If it was, how would that get out? Also, there are a lot of other sites that would be targeted before this one…. the courts have consistently ruled that mistresses, friends with benefits, etc are not prostitution. The only case where I could see that might happen is if someone offers x dollars for sex, and the person accepts and it is a sting. Almost all SBs ignore those requests anyways… unless they are escorts. If a legal authority wanted to entrap a whole bunch of people engaging in prostitution, this wouldn’t be the best site — takes too much work.

  391. CdnGent says:

    Oddly enough I think there’s been more snow in Texas and Georgia this year than there has been in southern Ontario. NOT that I’m complaining. FORE!

  392. Lily says:

    I’m rich in goofy grins…

  393. TexaSD says:

    Beach- A lot of new faces, I emailed Napa, but no response yet.

  394. TexaSD says:

    Cdn- Ya, I will re-think next before I offer anything from experience lol. Or offer opinions lol

  395. Beach_ Girl in LA!!! says:

    TexaSD~ I hear you, I wasn’t on for a week or so and plenty of new faces!
    it’s hard to keep up. Even just from yesterday until today…. wow, 600 comments to go threw ??? i think not!

    Cleo~ is it snowing in TO?

  396. CdnGent says:

    Morning all!

    Just played a bit of catch up here but don’t have much to offer on anything except to say TexaSD, WOW, careful! LOL! Dem are fightin’ words with these chicks. Haha!


    Megs – I always give it to my friends and colleagues who say about a women, “Wow, she looks amazing … for her age.” LOL! That statement is best left at ‘she looks amazing’ PERIOD! Adding those last three words not-so-subtly hints that someone is ‘old’ or that they SHOULD be fugly. I always extend this courtesy to women (who I prefer to be older anyway) so as a man, I’d say the standard should apply. Just a hint.

    Oh, and thank GAWD I wasn’t around for the aforementioned discussion on ‘Mother Nature’ and how to approach it. Yikes, WAY TMI!!!

    Okay … it’s Friday. Let’s make it a good one.


  397. DC SB says:

    Maru! Yes, the cat blog. I’m addicted. It’s really a rather dumb addiction, and no one gets it..
    sisinmaru (dot) blog17 (dot) fc2 (dot) com/

    cutest thing. ever. in the universe. i also enjoy the english captions that make little to no sense.

  398. DC SB says:

    Oh that’s dumb it won’t let me post links…

    news (dot) bbc (dot) co (dot) uk/2/hi/americas/3463679 (dot) stm


  399. RedMaru says:

    Hey Beach_Girl I’ve been good just tired…on the go
    DC SB : Haven’t heard of the Maru cat blog though it sounds interesting. But mines is from love of gaming and anime. Red being the color people say I look cutest in and the color of my favorite Final Fantasy character/job Red Mage and Maru is from the name Ranmaru a character on Tokko which is a manga/anime I enjoy. Yeah I know long explanantion

  400. TexaSD says:

    Flo- ya I can testify to that, it can get ugly lol

    Beach- Well I am finally starting to catch up on work, I did Tokyo for a bit, and got in 1 week of Vacation (yea, I wasn’t alone, double yea) I think by the end of the Month, I will be where I should be at. Never again I will take on that much work, it was totally kicking my ass… and some of the new bosses are serious about deadlines… Not all, I am becoming a fan of the Latin Americans though lol. I came back to discover quite a bit has change here on the blogs. I was in shock (well just a little)

  401. DC SB says:

    Oh yea, dude shipped himself via UPS or FedEx, punched holes in the box, and was apprehended at the airport (did he not know they put those things through xrays? dumb). Anyway, it was very funny and hilarious. I wonder if I can drag that article back up.

  402. Jade says:

    I got a very strange mail just now I thought I would share . I never sleep with a POT first date myself so not sure what to think of this:

    ( I’m getting off this site. I heard this site is under investigation for prostitution. )

  403. cleo says:

    Flo Rida if you guys ever do a race like that again can i please be a co-driver with someone? please?

    and how is newbiesd anyway?

  404. Beach_ Girl in LA!!! says:

    Flo~ Hey girl, how are you?

    texaSD~ same as always…. , how are things for you?

  405. Flo Rida says:

    Beach – yay!

    TexaSD – no I drove from NY to LA through 5 state capitals in 2.5 days with a co-driver. Word from the experience – do not blog (or txt) and drive.

  406. cleo says:

    i want to hear more from ESB and her new SD… geeze so curious and happy for her.

    and love to hear lisa saying things like ‘get sd to take me for steak’

    my turn soon i hope :)

  407. TexaSD says:

    Beach- So how have you been? Any luck? And whats new, Fill me in for the last few months.

  408. cleo says:

    some guy shipped himself ups???

  409. TexaSD says:

    DC- Ok, Again, nothing was intended to offend people.

  410. Beach_ Girl in LA!!! says:

    Ca~ yeah it’s gonna be cold the next few days… a Feb in Cali is always cold!

    Red~ Hey girl, how you been? besides the snow of course ๐Ÿ˜€

    TexaSD~ I am only here on Vacation, seeing some friends and stuff… Going back to Canada soon :(

  411. DC SB says:

    Maru, I like your sn.. where did you come up with it? Do you know what it reminds me of? Have you ever heard of the Maru cat blog?

    Also, even if we get charged with being terrorists, will just use the excuse that guy who was shipping himself via UPS did. It’s just cheaper! =)

  412. cleo says:

    milady you are absolutely wealthy, just not in dollars :)

  413. DC SB says:

    So, TXSD, I don’t/won’t take it personally.

  414. DC SB says:

    Cleo, well thanks for the translation because I didn’t even get 1% of what you said out of his comments. I did get the not being an ass part – I didn’t think he was trying to be, but I did pick up some offense.

    I agree with you, I am not wealthy. That’s what I was trying to say. Originally. That I am all those things, but am neither of the things he lists.

  415. TexaSD says:

    Beach- You left Canada? How long you been in LA? Whoa I been gone for to long lol.

  416. RedMaru says:

    Hey Beach_Girl its chilly here in GA and we had (drumroll please) 3 inches of snow last Friday. It dominated the news and about 3/4 of the schools, office in GA closed and the rest shut down early.

  417. CA Dreamin SB says:

    Beach, it already started raining here this morning. And it’s cold :(

  418. mommapoppins says:

    I am with Tex, Kudos Cleo!

  419. Beach_ Girl in LA!!! says:

    hey Sugars, it’s cold in Cali brrrr…..they say rain is coming!

    TexaSD~ wow it’s been a long time!

    hi Cleo, Ca dreamin, and everyone else i missed

  420. cleo says:

    texasd i’m the best a lot of things, would that some of them paid the bills!


  421. TexaSD says:

    Cleo- Seriously, You are probably the best text translator out there, Kudos.

    CA Dreamin- Good Morning

  422. RedMaru says:

    I’m back slipping in the blog between working!
    Hey Ca Dreamin SB ๐Ÿ˜€
    DC- Thanks for the offer I promise I wont take up too much room I’m flexible ๐Ÿ˜€

  423. CA Dreamin SB says:

    Morning all

  424. cleo says:

    dc sb do you mind if i try to translate?

    you are born to a family that is well off enough to afford you great opportunity such as lots of travel and college prep schools. to many those are opportunities that are simply not available.

    texasd would describe that as wealthy whereas i would describe it as upper middle class

    that’s your family and not you. the same way my PARENTS are millionaires and i’m poor.

    to someone in a city like DC or nyc or whatever an income that is barely surviveable would make you super rich in texas.

    i THINK texasd is saying that to some sd’s who want to show girls things for the first time you are not the right choice. that’s okay.

    he is also suggesting that by texas standards you come from a wealthy background and that SOME sd’s prefer their girls with less refinement (and some with more)

    but i definitely don’t think he’s tyring to insult you, just that your definitions of wealth are vastly different and that as always interpretation is lost in text.

    i say this in large part because texasd has been around a long time (although awol for a while there) and just doesn’t tend to be an ass to people…

  425. TexaSD says:

    DC- Again, wasn’t meant to offend, I was simply offering my exp, from this site. I travel with women co workers several times a year, My best friend Probably spends less than 1 month a year in her house, but I know they are not pro escorts, or pro sbs. Again, I failed to communicate my point, sorry again.

  426. DC SB says:

    TX, you just made it come across as.. a girl who travels is a professional escort/SB, or wealthy. Which, in the same sentence promotes that being wealthy is as “lowly” (at least those were the connotations I was getting from your diction) as being a pro SB/escort.

    And that somehow, my point was “too confusing” to get-
    I don’t like beauty v ugly, wealthy v poor. I think these are connotations society places upon people to separate us from one another.
    Some “poor” people I know are actually WAY richer in experience, love and happiness than “rich” people I know.
    And beauty is .. whatever, because it fades overtime, and is very over-hyped.

  427. Lily says:

    Snowing like crazy out there. I’m hosting a party at my place on march 13th… Theme is 80s cinematic icons. I’ll be princess leia-lily.

  428. DC SB says:

    I’m really angry. Not my style..

    In any event, okay tan Cleo and nontan(?)/normalDC are the same color =)
    People can color us with the same crayon.

  429. TexaSD says:

    DC- I do understand. Wasn’t saying you were either, I wasn’t promoting rich v poor. I was saying, in my exp… Your wealthy in life exp, probably more so than I lol… I don’t think you understood me. I am sorry if I was unable to communicate my point.

  430. DC SB says:

    TXSD: DC-โ€Sorry doll, but I am highly well travelled. Iโ€™m neither a pro SB, pro escort, or a wealthy female.โ€ So I consider myself a lucky girl, and wealthy in that sense.โ€.

    Fine, I’m wealthy. Okay, now you can move on.
    I hate the idea of “rich” v “poor” – THAT’S what I was trying to say. But you aren’t getting it. And I’m only wealthy because my PARENTS are, so I don’t even count. But since you’re backing me into either choosing to be a professional escort or own up to being wealthy, fine you got it.


  431. TexaSD says:

    Cleo- Cool lol

  432. TexaSD says:

    NYCBella- That makes sense now, I agree, an Enterprise employee is very impressive.

  433. TexaSD says:

    NYC- Sorry wasn’t meant to offend.

  434. cleo says:

    you put steak on a black eye…

  435. NYCBella says:

    TexasSD~actually my first job out of college was working for Enterprise. It’s a really intense sales/corporate training frontier and very competitive which is why everyone atleast has an undergraduate degree if not their masters. The corporate infrastructure is sooooo much more than the facade of renting cars. Which is why their president has become a billionaire in just around 20 years of working his way up from a Management Trainee (their entry-level position) to running the company. If you’re looking to hire someone for your company in any sales capacity, and you have an Enterprise employee versus someone with any other sort of experience….go with the Enterprise employee…you won’t be disappointed.

  436. Lisa says:

    Steak? Maybe i’ll have sd take me to Taste of Texas for lunch. hmmm

  437. Lisa says:

    I find it really tacky when anyone has to get up in front of the public and apologize for something in their private life. There have been several incidents with people in my mom’s church where men have had affairs and when the wife found out about it, they felt it necessary to get up in front of the church and apologize, I mean really it’s no one’s business.

  438. DC SB says:

    I’m angry Cleo only offered up one version of how “steak” is used.. I was expecting more steaks. Like you grill a steak, you eat a steak, steak is a form of cow..

  439. cleo says:

    dc sb i was told once, by another woman with a look of total astonishment on her face, that i was too pretty to like math. i frankly don’t get it because most of the truly symmetrical faces i know (aka stunning) are attached to equally well formed brains!

    i have to say that lack of travel is really taking the shine off my job. too bad because i have NEVER done something that suited me better, even my mother says so.

    i’m starting to think that i’m not as good at it as i think (and many many others think) since if i were i wouldn’t be scrambling for clients all the time!

    (actually my hair is dark brown… and since i’m half italian i can look brazilian if i get a tan. god i love my skin when i’m tanned… so golden and brown and happy looking)
    nyc sb i’ll take that as a giant compliment :)
    nycbella for sure it’s meant in jest and a little love. we all want to help each other make a better impression…
    TexaSD: honestly? no

    the ONLY difference between a hooker and a regular girl is that a hooker gets paid for sex and a regular girl gets paid for something else. otherwise they come in all shapes and sizes, all different brains and all different walks of life… and not nearly as many of them were abused as the media would have you think. that said, i’m talking high end escorts and not street walkers ok?

    one of the hottest women i have EVER met, one of the few who makes me think i might go gay, is an escort and you would never ever guess looking at her… not even at a society function

  440. TexaSD says:

    Flo- Did you do that Cannon ball a few years back, in started in 4 different cities in the US, we pretty much ended up in Vegas and then finally in CA…

  441. TexaSD says:

    DC-“Sorry doll, but I am highly well travelled. Iโ€™m neither a pro SB, pro escort, or a wealthy female.” So I consider myself a lucky girl, and wealthy in that sense.”

    Confusing… Anyways, its been my exp,

  442. mommapoppins says:

    Sorry everyone, but I have to vent for a min. I think it is messed up that Tiger is having to apoligize to all of us. It is none of our business. He needs to make it right between his wife and children. Yes, I know that he is a public figure, but he is also human. We all make our fair share of mistakes. As long as we learn from then, that is what matters. Privacy is something that is yours, who are we to take it away?

  443. DC SB says:

    RedMaru, come w/ me on my next trip! I’ll stow you away in my luggage (although that’s extremely hard to do nowadays..)

  444. NYCBella says:

    Jade~Welcome…I see you’re a new blogger. We have an ongoing little blog “thing” where we call each other out for using the wrong homonym in a sentence. It’s a lil nerdy, but all meant in jest alone.

  445. Lisa says:

    Good morning everyone

  446. TexaSD says:

    Elegant- Oh I haven’t had that much exp, I was just curious what you mean by, “Knows how to travel”. Have a nice day.

    Cleo- Do you notice a difference between those girls and some of the SBs on this site?

  447. DC SB says:

    NYC, except Cleo and I are totally different colors. Haha.
    I have long, wavy black hair like Cleo though.. =)

  448. Flo Rida says:

    TexaSD – I don’t really work at Hertz, it’s an old blog joke after I participated in a cross country race and to prove it I turned in a 1,875 mile Hertz receipt. Nothing that you have said is offensive – it’s a point of view which is fine. Everyone has povs.

    The key thing about a profile is it should speak to someone you want to hear from and turn away someone you don’t want to hear from. So know your audience and tailor your message to the target audience.

    Have fun everyone!

  449. mommapoppins says:

    No more golf for Tiger for a while.

  450. DC SB says:

    TXSD, “wealth” is relative.. I have grown up with a nice life, I do recognize that. I have been fortunate to attend a college prep school, private college etc. But! I would consider myself “wealthy” because of what I’ve experienced, never how much my parents own.
    I went into my profession realizing I’d never make much money out of it, but I work in the field I love and study (MA) in the field I love as well. So I consider myself a lucky girl, and wealthy in that sense.

  451. cleo says:

    jade i’m sorry if i made you feel bad, it’s a common mistake and i am a professional educator. to my mind i would always rather know i’m wrong than keep making the same mistake.

    i’ll refrain in your case in the future

  452. NYCBella says:

    Morning sugars…can we just say that Tiger’s speech sounds sooooo stilted. And frankly, who cares? If he wants to redeem himself he should quietly get back on the tour and do what he does best. Public speaking is NOT for him. He’s just sounding false and he’s reading from a paper. Sincerity is such a rare quality it would seem.

  453. NYC SB says:

    Morning Sugars!

    Cleo and DC – Having met DC and seen Cleo’s pics… there are some reseblances between the two of you ๐Ÿ˜‰

    TexaSD – ouch at your comment… just because a girl has been in and out of sugar relationships for a while does not make her a high priced escort… She enjoys being spoiled… it really is that simple …

    Lily’s blog domme – take TexaSD into the chamber and teach him a lesson!

  454. DC SB says:

    K now that I’ve put my claws back. =)

    Good Morning everyone!

    NYGent, NYC, Flo – the Spy Museum here in DC is FANTASTICAL. And I’m also biased because DC is amazingness. (I can continue to keep making up words if you all would like). Please come to visit.

    Cleo, anch’io parlo italiano =) It was my minor. I love Italy. My Italian accent is non-existent, it’s a Spanish one.. And when I picked up French (in Spain) I picked up a Spanish accent in that too because I learned French in Spanish – but! I totally kicked the Spaniards butts when it came to identifying “z” and “s” words (really, we played that game) because they have no distinct “z” sound, and they were in AWE that I could say, hello you guys that’s DEF a Z and not a S. It was insane to watch. =)
    I’ve been told I have that appeal.. beauty, I don’t really like to get into that, I know that I am considered stunning by society standards – I’ve modeled and rejected it in my teens when they wanted me to drop an additional 10 pounds to be “perfect” when I was already a zero, but I’d rather captivate people for my intelligence and not my looks. Sadly, it’s hard to get people to take me seriously based upon my looks (let’s just say I work at one of the most secure buildings in the country).

  455. TexaSD says:

    DC- Hell I worked in DC and do So every now and then… In all honesty a job which does what you say require probably pays at least 100k in DC, So then i would say fairly wealthy, because i make not much more than that. A

  456. RedMaru says:

    mommapoppins – making candles is fun and therapeutic too. Fishing at lake sounds relaxing
    See ya Elegant
    DC SB – Wow you’re so wordly. I want to travel outside the 50 states so bad..

  457. TexaSD says:

    DC- “So, please. Donโ€™t forget some of us grew up with parents who are frequent fliers. Think Ambassadors, Diplomats etc.”

    My point exactly…

  458. TexaSD says:

    DC- Well I did say, by my exp. But I went to a handful of different schools, and so did a lot of women I have met. However they are wealthy enough to afford to do that (or their parents are) I should correct where I said fairly wealthy women, to at least middle class (50k+ annual) I have never heard of a job, that requires all what you stated, and does not pay well. I wasn’t trying to insult anyone.

  459. DC SB says:

    So, please. Don’t forget some of us grew up with parents who are frequent fliers. Think Ambassadors, Diplomats etc.

  460. DC SB says:

    TXSD I HIGHLY disagree w/ you on Midwest’s comment by stating: First off, girls who are travelled that well, by my exp are either Pros(sugar babies) or Pro (escorts) or lastly fairly wealthy women (who needs a sugar daddy then?)

    Sorry doll, but I am highly well travelled. I’m neither a pro SB, pro escort, or a wealthy female.
    I choose to travel for life experience and adventure. By the time I hit college I had attended over 8 different schools in different parts of the country and world. And now, I can’t sit still.
    Not only does my field require travel, but so does keeping my fluency (multilingual). So I scoff at that. A lot.

  461. Jade says:

    Thanks Cleo for pointing out my low education level, but I think I still got my point across even though it may not be in the proper manner .

  462. cleo says:

    dc sb i know it’s as much location as anything but i also know there’s more to it than that (i speak fluent broken italian and rusty textbook french, which means i’m fine all over italy with my charming italian accent (really it’s good, i heard itmy whole life) almost italian looks and broken grammar and fine in france because once the rust falls off i sound parisian/canadian rather than quebecois. god i need to get to france

    anyway there’s something else. something some girls have and some girls don’t. i was out to dinner once with a lady friend and anyone would say we’re both babes but that technically i’m prettier. dinner started and the waiter couldn’t stop staring at me. then she started to talk

    by dessert he had practically forgotten i was there for flirting purposes. this girl just oozed hotness.

    i bet you have some of that. some of that inexplicable something that just gets to men.
    TexaSd in the past i have worked as an escort driver and some of those girls are the smartest, most comfortable in their skin, happiest people i know. and some of them could show up at a high end function and no one would guess. but only some of them :)

  463. ElegantSugar says:

    TexaSD – well, then you have obviously had great experiences. I have heard horror stories from other SDs about how their date showed up. One SD complained that he booked a flight for a SB and she didn’t know a thing about checking in 24 hours prior, that she had to show up at the airport early, didn’t know she couldn’t pack her 24 oz. of Paul Mitchell hairspray in her carry-on and brought all slinky dresses even though they were headed into cold weather. Just stuff like that. I realize not all hookers are stupid. Ninon de Lenclos is a great example. One of the smartest prostitutes in history!

    Ok, didn’t mean to get a debate going. I am very inquisitive and your statement sparked my question!

    I’m really out now. Enjoy your day, all!

  464. TexaSD says:

    Flo- Just in case, that was not met as any kind of insult… if that sounded bad, sorry.

  465. NC Gent says:

    Good morning all. I was hoping to turn pro in 2011. I have been working really hard and have been focused on my goal. I have been giving 110% all of the time. I think if I just think with a little luck and continued effort, I will be there, but it will have been all because of my teammates (SBs) efforts. Without them, I would be nothing…. does anyone really care if they are a viewed as a pro in the sugar world?

  466. TexaSD says:

    Flo- Seriously working at Hertz? Because I always meet an educated lady (and men) working at auto rental business (mostly enterprise). It really blows my mind at their knowledge. Some of the people I have worked with/for don’t hold a candle to some of those people, its sad to see wasted talent…

  467. cleo says:

    i’m sorry jade but sometimes i gotta

    you grill a steak
    you stake a vampire
    you are burned at the stake
    your life savings can be at stake


  468. ElegantSugar says:

    Out the door for my meeting. Hour drive. Ick. Ciao.

  469. TexaSD says:

    Elegant- For the most part, I think just about any girl on this site knows how to dress for a business function, and knows to be careful with her words if she is not aware of the topic, or to plainly state, I am not to familiar with that topic, care to inform me to guests… (not 100% sure, but i think a lot of women know that). Curious to what you mean, knows how to travel well. (100% agree with you about the rented) although with that being said, I know some of the guys I have met at functions “rented” their date. just because she is a hooker, doesn’t mean she is stupid. ehh I dunno, I think i lost what i was trying to say

    Ya it was pretty nice, and it will be on my brain all day lol

  470. Flo Rida says:

    TexaSD and Midwest – regarding profile advice, caveat emptor and volenti non fit injuria (spelling -hic)

  471. DC SB says:

    Aw, cleo: iโ€™m like the anti-DC SB geeze. (cause she has no problem getting, landing or keeping a man. lucky girl, and studied in tuscany and lived in spainโ€ฆ guessing she made her luck though)
    You’re not the anti-me (although you do work out WAY more than I do, I tend to go to the gym to channel people’s work outs into myself- I’ll let anyone know if it works out).

    I’ve studied in both Tuscany and Spain =) although I consider Spain more home, but Tuscany is dear to my heart.
    When you speak a few languages it’s a GREAT excuse to find yourself vacationing/studying/living abroad.

  472. mommapoppins says:

    Ok so my son just told me he want to go fishing this weekend. Looks to me like I will be going to the lake!

  473. ElegantSugar says:

    TexaSD – I agree with what you are saying sort of. I think if a girl isn’t working, has no ambition and is seeing several SDs who all support her, then yes, she could possibly be a serial SD dater and borderline escort.

    Some SDs do want the girl without any experiences. The SDs I know, want someone who already knows how to travel well and one he can take to upscale, high society events and know she will be fine on her own – and also, know that she will not show up looking like he rented her for the night. (i.e. lucite heels and cleavage to her chin.)

    Glad you had an awesome birthday and that it’s still on your brain.

  474. TexaSD says:

    Elegant. a SD I guess would be considered a pro after maybe 6 SBs? I dunno, something like that, I would say each exp is different, so the number can change slightly…

  475. mommapoppins says:

    OMG red- making candles sounds like so much fun!

  476. TexaSD says:

    Elegant- To me, I woud say a Serial SD dater, a girl who has been doing this for year in and year out, which to me, eventually becomes the same as a high priced escort (although be it a girl who can afford to chose her clients, if she was smart with all the money) No having travel exp doesn’t mean you came from the Sugar bowl lol. There are many who work around the world, (ie flight attendants). From what I know, its more fun if the person hasn’t been to many places, its more enjoyable to the SD I think to be her first time to _____.

    if that makes sense, Sorry mind isn’t all the way there… maybe still a thinking about last night lol.

  477. ElegantSugar says:

    Jade brought up a great point. When would a SD be considered a PRO? And same for SBs? I’m really very curious about this…

  478. mommapoppins says:

    God bless the missionaries that got released from haiti!

  479. RedMaru says:

    mommapoppins – So true I find chamomile and lavendar to be very soothing. When I make my candles, lavendar is one of the more popular scents.

    See ya Midwest

  480. Jade says:

    I know plenty of pro sugar daddies too, but I guess its the pro sugar babes that get burnt at the steak while men can do as they please !

  481. mommapoppins says:

    midwest- have fun at the desk, and enjoy your weekend!

  482. Midwest says:

    Shame on me for poor form-atting! I’m just full of dry humor today. C’ya!

  483. ElegantSugar says:

    Just stopping in to say good morning then have to run to a meeting.

    TexaSD – what makes one a pro Sugar? I’m just very curious about this statement you made. I have been in the Sugar Bowl for about a year now. Have only had 2 SDs. I traveled the world with my second SD to amazing places. Prior to joining the Sugar World, my job took me around the world. I currently travel now for work too. Having travel experiences doesn’t necessarily mean they all came from the Sugar Bowl.

    As far as Tiger. My only hope is that he decides to get back in the game before the Bayhill Invitational. Cheater, SD, liar or not…the game of golf hasn’t been the same without him. Without Tiger and the occasional Phil Mickelson choke job, golf is a bore. I know what some of you are thinking, it is already a bore. But I actually enjoy the sport (live) very much.

  484. Midwest says:

    I have to go pretend like I’m putting in some quality time at my desk!

    One additional word on profiles:
    We are all happy to offer advice, share verbiage, etc. However, please don’t copy/paste paragraphs verbatim from someone else’s profile into yours. It’s important to let your profile reflect who you/b> are. It can also make an sd think that one person is posting several profiles with alternate pictures which is just poor form.

    Everyone have a wonderful Friday! Any special plans for the weekend? I find myself with an open weekend, who wants to visit the local wineries with me?

  485. TexaSD says:

    Mommapoppins- It was still somewhat heavy today, lingering news crews, and people who want to look at the building, (it literally is off the highway and hell debris from the plane made it on the highway) So it will be probably another few more days before traffic goes back to normal on 183 and the Mopac entrance.

  486. mommapoppins says:

    red- got to say love lavender, and chamomile. they are the best

  487. RedMaru says:

    Hey TexaSD good to see you too ๐Ÿ˜€ it has been a long time

  488. RedMaru says:

    Hey Midwest yeah I’ve been throwing in a lil sugar searching when I can. You’re searching for a new place is time consuming considering that I still have to work too..

  489. mommapoppins says:

    Tex- I know how the traffic originally is, so I am so sorry that you had to mess with it yesterday. Hope today is better!

  490. TexaSD says:

    RedMaru- Nice to see you again. longtime. Ya Tiger should bounce back if he just shuts up, stays low for the rest of the year. Maybe mid 2011 go back to golfing, and just say, he was an idiot. He will be ok.

  491. Midwest says:

    RedMaru – OMG Hi!!!! Thanks for the tip. Looking for a new place can be so time consuming. It’s fun after the moving is done though. Have you still been searching for sugar?

  492. TexaSD says:

    Momma- Yep, it was, Yep I live near there too lol.

  493. mommapoppins says:

    some SD Tiger is/was.

  494. RedMaru says:

    I totally agree that Tiger needs to just lay low for a couple more months. He was careless.
    Hey Midwest sorry bout your sleepless nights been having a couple of those myself you’re not alone. My aunt whose a total naturalist and looks like shes thirty and in her late fifties gave me some chamomile tea. I find that its relaxing. That and lavendar.

  495. mommapoppins says:

    Hey Tex- just wanted to let you know I cought the news about the plane crash. A friend of mine from Austin , said it was around 183 & Mopac? Is that true? If so, that is close to where I used to live.

  496. TexaSD says:

    Midwest- Ahh yes, Nostalgia, lol sorry, i can get wrapped up in the good old days…

    Anna- lol I am not a fan, but I don’t have anything against him, just sucks about the whole situation, ya he was careless, and everyone now suffers.

  497. Anna Molly says:

    Midwest ~ I don’t blame you! I would have turned him down too!

  498. Jade says:

    It is funny how they call tiger a sugar daddy yet he never even gave a girl flowers EVER ! One girl asked if he could help her move into a new apartment and he was super pissed at her for even asking !

  499. Midwest says:

    Good morning TexasSD. We did that when you first signed up…that’s what made me remember. I think Cleo was right in that it was a sb who shared that experiece.

    I’m not too interested in the Tiger Woods conference. He just needs to continue to own up to it and be done. This has really wrecked his relationship with his sponsors…even if it’s temporary. This is why I turned him down…didn’t want to be caught up in the spotlight. He was careless *shakes head*.

  500. Anna Molly says:

    Good morning Midwest and TexaSD ๐Ÿ˜€

    I’m not going to watch Tiger make a fool of himself either ๐Ÿ˜€
    Did I say I don’t like that guy? Well, in case I didn’t…..I don’t like that guy.

  501. TexaSD says:

    Good Morning all, sorry I forgot to say that.

  502. TexaSD says:

    Yes I used to live in Vegas. if you wanna go google map the old house, I will give you the address lol… I don’t remember any hostess at the moment, maybe that was someone else,

  503. Midwest says:

    Good morning Anna, vimary, NEOhio SB, Momma, TX and Lily! I haven’t slept well these past few nights. I think I need a gentle distraction.

    SDN – Thanks for your insights. Those are Flo Rida’s suggestions, so I will leave the response to her. I definitely see your points.

    BTW – Was your dad a baker? ‘Cause you’ve got a nice set of buns :-)

  504. TexaSD says:

    Anna- Naw, he just frankly needs to still lay low for another 6 months or more, probably a year, but the poor guy doesn’t know when to shut up. Feel a little bad for him though, and his wife/exwife kids etc….

  505. NEOhio SB says:

    SDN ~~ *wink wink* Thanks. I knew I could count on you :)

  506. mommapoppins says:

    good morning everyone! hope everyone had a good nights rest!

  507. Anna Molly says:

    Anyone going to watch Tiger’s press conference today?

  508. SD NEOhio (SDN) says:

    NEOhio SB: I got your back!

  509. TexaSD says:

    Midwest- 2 things I would disagree with in your “Rules:

    “donโ€™t say Iโ€™m well travelled say โ€˜Iโ€™ve travelled to 37 countries & canโ€™t decide if dining at Felix overlooking HK Central or snorkeling at the Great Barrier Reef is my most memorable experienceโ€™” Ya I wouldn’t say either. First off, girls who are travelled that well, by my exp are either Pros(sugar babies) or Pro (escorts) or lastly fairly wealthy women (who needs a sugar daddy then?)

    and the last thing is about Upscaling it. I wouldn’t do that either again, Pro, rich, Or been there done that… Or even just bloody expensive woman. (for us SDs that can’t afford to spend more than 5k…)

  510. Anna Molly says:

    Morning Red! Nice to see you back!

    Welcome to all the new bloggers! ๐Ÿ˜€

  511. vimary says:

    Good morning everyone!
    You really had a busy day yesterday; Iโ€™m trying to read all the comments ๐Ÿ˜€

  512. Lily says:

    Just got rare, expensive Hawaiian flowers delivered to my door. Because apparently, I am HIS Hawaiian flower. Sigh. Zazazoom.

    LASB, not sure what is the problem…? You want a traditional relationship?

    Bella, oh my gosh that’s amazing!!!

    Lil’sb I want to meet you too!!! Infectious live?? My 256 friends I’ve made post divorce in the last 18 mo seem to think so. But mostly because I throw the best parties in the country, just for them. Lucky ducks. Nah, I’m the lucky one–they do so much for me, 24/7, when i need–i’m the adopted sister to everyone I know (since i’m a transplant from SO far away). It would be too cold up here otherwise without the coolest pals ever.

  513. RedMaru says:

    Morning sugars! Wow its been so long. I’ve missed you guys. Three blogs have passed me by but I’ll stick with the recent one. fun spots in my state: The Art Museum definitely but I may be a lil biased. Atlantic Station a nice place to stroll it has a movie theatre and Decatur in the spring and summer is cool they have outdoor festivals I love going to.
    What would I recommend for sugars in my neck of the woods? Be yourself and know what you want out of life(corny I know). Ways to break the ice? Someone already said it laughter is a very good way.
    How am I? Kinda tired but good been a busy week and the power is still not restored to my apartment so I’m in alternate lodgings. Been scouting out other apartments as its kinda dragging on

  514. Anna Molly says:

    Morning Jade! ๐Ÿ˜€

  515. Jade says:

    Morning sugar land!

  516. Anna Molly says:

    Going back to Anna Molly :)

  517. Naughty Molly says:

    Good morning everyone! Hope all of you slept better than I did!

  518. NEOhio SB says:

    Good morning Lili ~~ Was that comment directed at me??? You sound like you are a Wolverine approaching Buckeye territory. ( Yikes) SDN….where are you??

    Flo ~~ I envy you for having the early shift….Ive been pulling all niters doin the number crunching.

    Elegant ~~ If i had my choice of places in Laguna for a first date, Hands down i would take the Montage over the Ritz.

  519. Lily says:

    I love when others post verbage..

  520. NEOhio SB says:

    Good morning and Happy Friday to all!!!
    Wow…lots going on since Ive been here a few weeks ago…Welcome to the newbies. Sugar in ( congrats AM or was it Naughty Molly that solidified the SD??) and sugar out ( much sympathy and sadness for James and Midwest. You are BOTH a class act and wish you both the best).

    Chiming in on a few things as reading past posts. I too, have a huge preference towards married SDs. They tend to comprehend the “compartmentalized” part of this much better than single SDs ( just IMHO)…First Sd was married, current SD is single…and there are pros and cons of both. Just accepting and realizing what is best, is always what works.
    Im a beemer gal allllllllll the way…have a 325xi….and seeing visions of a 600 series convertible being parked in my garage in the near future :)

    Hoping everyone is well and has a wonderful sugar filled weekend.

  521. Flo Rida says:

    Looks like I have the morning shift at Hertz

    TexaSD – oh I sleep in, work at Hertz at JFK airport, travel a lot and try and have some fun every now and then.

    NYGent – i’ll make a point to go to spy museum. I can arrange for one of my ‘assets’ to pick up from a drop point. Of course he or she will be equipped with cyanide pill in case of capture and will be in disguise.

    NYCSB – thank hun! I owe you an email.

    Ciao peeps

  522. LASB says:

    Yeah, my pot reminds me of Bill Gates. (But sharply dressed.) He’s so nerdy and unassuming. Then there’s me and my nerdy, Asian, glasses wearing self. Who would ever suspect.

    Ok, really now. Going to sleep. G’nite Bella!

  523. NYCBella says:

    LASB~Sweet dreams! I”m gonna try to calm down a bit too and catch a few zzzz’s before I have to work…ttys!

  524. NYCBella says:

    LASB~Only happy thoughts for now though! Good kissers are few and far between (and I should know….I was a kissing machine back in the day…lol). Hmmm, though SD does have friends… ๐Ÿ˜‰ Oh well, am prolly getting ahead of myself.

  525. LASB says:

    Ok, really I need to sleep now! Good morning to whoever wakes up first!

  526. NYCBella says:

    It’s just sooo much easier to lie to ourselves (even when the obvious is beating us over the head…Hello, Elin Woods, anyone…lol…sorry, bad joke). Who knows, maybe it was the sub space talking (though the convo we had tonight was over the phone, so wasn’t as if I was forcing his hand). Yes, we’re def traditional D/s…with very WASPy day time personas (well, you’ve met me…just picture my male counterpart…except minus the eccentric artist edge) ๐Ÿ˜‰

  527. LASB says:

    Bella – Yes, those zinger kisses are… wow!!! Those tiny moments of bliss sort of make up for the devastation I’ll be feeling sooner or later. Either way, when all is said and done I’ll just lick my wounds and move on.

  528. LASB says:

    Thanks Bella! Yeah, the Sugar Blog has helped me sooo much! I do feel the love! :)

    And you are right that at least I know now. But I’ve known stuff like this before and just threw caution to the wind. As women, we always know. It just depends how much we want to be in denial. With him, I knew there was something up, but when he lied to my face I let him off the hook, hoping that I was wrong. But if there’s something I’m supposed to know, the universe will keep telling me until I listen.

    I think you are headed down a very nice path! He sounds amazing and like such a perfect fit for you.

    Oh yeah, another thing with my pot SD–he’s kink friendly but lives day to day in the vanilla world. Totally my match there.

  529. NYCBella says:

    oops! Typo “sometimes the heartache’s ^worth^ it”

  530. NYCBella says:

    p.s. Don’t you just love that rare, makes you weak in the knees, kiss! Ugh…sometimes the heartache it, just for those few moments of bliss. But don’t listen to me, someone’s kidnapped my lovely cynical self and replaced me with fairy-tales-do-come-true nut job.

  531. LASB says:

    Thanks lil’SB!

    I agree that Lily is super infectious!!

  532. NYCBella says:

    LASB~Oh no! Atleast you know now and can think things through rather than finding out down the line and being even more heart broken. Now you can go in with eyes wide open. I’ve never been the type to take risks relationship wise (well, unless you consider the fact that my 4 significant relationships have all been with emotionally unavailable men who cheat), but so far that strategy hasn’t worked out for me, so I’m throwing caution to the wind for once in my life and jumping in feet first. We only live once right? Plus you have a support system in place so that you won’t have to pick yourself up all by your lonesome (god forbid) this time.

  533. lil'SB says:

    Awww, before I sign off I wish I could be there to give you a pat on the back LASB. I hope all goes well for you.

  534. lil'SB says:

    Good morning early birds~ I’m about to go to sleep now!

    Lily – I genuinely want to meet you. Are you as infectious in person as you are on the blog? I think I’m more addicted to the sugar (much of it your sugar) on this blog than searching for real sugar though. But yes, you ARE a sugar addict.

  535. LASB says:

    Ok, so this is a long one. (Pulling a Lily on the blog now. haha)

    Last night’s pot date was a mixed bag. Our first date a few weeks ago was super zesty. He wore glasses. (One of my fetishes.) He told me he was single. We talked for hours. However, it was the night I won the suit and was on the most intense manic high of my life. With that in mind, I showed up last night with pretty low expectations.

    We started off with drinks and it occurred to me that he was even better than I remembered. We really just picked up where we left off and he was so charming. Then he kissed me in that way where time stands still and the body is zapped with that warm, electric buzz of immense chemistry.

    But over dinner, there was that feeling again that something is not adding up. Out of my mouth flew “Are you married?”

    Before I even finished the m-word, he said “yes” and then got super apologetic and started saying how he’s been stressing since our last date over how he was going to tell me and wishing he hadn’t lied, and how did I know to ask him again, and now how can I ever trust him since he’s a liar, etc. I really had to fight back the tears. I told him i would need to think things over and he just continued to charm and seduce me further, despite my better judgment.

    It’s likely I’ll keep going down this road until it blows up in my face. This was not at all what I was expecting when I ventured into the (supposedly NSA) sugar bowl, but I tend to ignore fear when possible. I take huge risks in life, and the only time it hasn’t paid off has been in matters of the heart. But I’ll keep doing it anyhow because I like the rush and the fantasy, and I’ve mended my heart before so I know I’ve got that in my skill set.

  536. NYCBella says:

    In the meantime, I’m gonna simply pretend that we’re not about to move cross country together cause I’m terrified I’ll jinx it or that this is just an amazing dream that I’ll wake up from utterly devastated or that something will come up and things will fall through. So if I just plan things to go forward as I’d been doing then when I realize it’s not a dream I’ll be pleasantly surprised. OMFG!!!!! ๐Ÿ˜€

  537. NYCBella says:

    Thanks! I’m floored!!!!!! We were talking tonight (as is we’ve been spending 4/5 evenings together) and he says “What do you think about me going with you?” So I’m like “Seriously?!” He says “Well, we have our western region offices in OC and i’ve been thinking about moving out west again for a while. I think the timing’s perfect…besides, I’m falling for you and I can’t stand the idea of our lives being spent apart.”

  538. LASB says:

    Bella!!! OMG! That’s awesome! Congrats!! I’m sooooo happy for you.

  539. NYCBella says:

    LASB~I have NEWS!!!!! SD says he wants to become my 24/7 and move to LA with me.

  540. NYCBella says:

    Oh, ladies….helloooooo. :-)

    Seems I will be spending tomorrow (I.E. Today in a zombie-esque trance since I can’t seem to sleep)

  541. LASB says:

    Yes, it exists. I believe Fujisu has them, but I need to do more homework. I’m so ridiculously practical, it’s painful. And ok, the latest MacBook pro would be nice too. :)

  542. LASB says:

    You sugars have been pretty active over the last 24 hours!! I’m about to write a novel on this thing regarding last night’s pot date.

  543. Lily says:

    Boring! But a printer/scanner is indeed useful, if itcould print quite large sizes….like poster size. Does that exist for home office?

  544. LASB says:

    Electronic device – This may sound uber lame, but I want a scanner that has a big paper feed for documents. Then, once the docs are scanned, they are word-searchable in my computer. I’m drowning in papers here. Though, then I will need a few larger hard drives. All of mine are full from all the photographs. Now that photos are 13+ megapixels, I do a few jobs and I’m out of room.

  545. LASB says:

    Not cleared, but looks like it’s just you and Me. (EVIL GRIN)

  546. Lily says:

    I wake up & clear the blog. Sigh.

    Hey, so I am talking with about ten various potSDs who I haven’t met yet. Email/phone/text. This is silly, no? I am silly. Am I a sugar addict?

    That being said, if you guys could have any electronic device, what would it be?

  547. LASB says:

    Lily says:
    February 18, 2010 at 2:18 pm
    :) Iโ€™m kinda switchy, SDN. We could have a hierarchy. She Dommes me, I get pent up frustration & take it out on you, and sometimes she letโ€™s us serve her side by side. :)

    I’M IN!!

    Looks like I’m late to the party.

  548. Lily says:

    Btw, thank you lil’sb for asking someone to fly me in to Toronto!! Feeling so loved. Never been to Canada.

  549. Lily says:

    I wish I were going to Vegas! Never been.

  550. Lilyl says:

    Good morning!!!!

  551. lil'SB says:

    It was called the P90X, a workout DVD series that will make you BUUUUURN!

  552. Midwest says:

    viMary – nice profile.

  553. Midwest says:

    Hi Cleo!

    I agree. To have a pot SD go to that extent to make you feel comfortable while travelling is quite remarkable.

    Since it’s just us, what is the workout Elegant keeps talking about…some acronym starts with a P.

  554. cleo says:

    hey midwest, you’re not alone

    i don’t think it was texasd that did that. i can’t remember if it was an sd or an sb who told the story but man it sounded awesome

  555. Midwest says:

    Megs- welcome and have a fabulous trip to Las Vegas.

    TexasSD – didn’t you live out there? I always thought it was you who posted back in Oct about having a hostess help get a potSB settled and at ease? I thought that was so thoughtful!

    OK…another attempt at rest. Goodnight!

  556. Midwest says:

    Insomnia strikes again!

    Momma- Flo Rida posted some general guidelines about profiles. I know this is a long post, but it is invaluable information that creates great profiles! I would say that most sds have an attention span of about 10 seconds before they start to just skim. I would break it down into paragraphs and perhaps shorten it a bit. I agree that you can say what you want, but don’t have to be too blunt/forward about it. Elegant is great at taking a statement and making it “sugary”. If you add some flirtiness and start off with what you can do for him, I think you may get more responses.

    Flo Rida’s profile advice:
    Rule1 โ€“ donโ€™t say anything negative โ€“ no I could lose a few pounds
    Rule2 โ€“ Personalize be unique โ€“ donโ€™t say youโ€™re fun prove it with a story or your humor. Donโ€™t say Iโ€™m a foodie say โ€˜Do you think Per Se is better than French Laundryโ€™ donโ€™t say Iโ€™m well travelled say โ€˜Iโ€™ve travelled to 37 countries & canโ€™t decide if dining at Felix overlooking HK Central or snorkeling at the Great Barrier Reef is my most memorable experienceโ€™
    Rule3 โ€“ weed out undesirables & also tell people what you want โ€˜if you are between 30 & 45, emotionally grounded & able to provide mentorship & financial assistance then Iโ€™d like to hear from you, I wonโ€™t bite (unless biting is what youโ€™re intoโ€ฆ kidding!)
    Rule4 โ€“ upscale it โ€“ show you know their world (of course this only applies if you really do).
    Rule5 โ€“ SD will read the tag line & look at the pics & read the profile. but you can lose them on the tag line โ€“ examples Boston Barbie โ€“ Simply the best โ€“ Better than all the rest โ€“ A glimpse of bliss. Insert a line on discretion & balance. Keep it short (SD are very busy and have short attention spans โ€“ theyโ€™ll decide within 1 min to move on).
    Rule6 โ€“ Add a line on being 100 percent committed to this & understanding mutually beneficial (with chemistry)
    Rule7 โ€“ do not add all your interests โ€“ most SD arenโ€™t interested in the same things โ€“ they donโ€™t care about pilates or Twilight or being a girly girl. Only add interests that connect with them (generally s-x, sportsm food, business, sports cars, travel).
    SD lists the SB types as Investigators, Arm Candy, Drama Queens. The only acceptabe category is โ€˜Iโ€™m arm candy on Loubotins and for the right man I offer a glimpse of blissโ€™.
    SD are thinking what will this SB do 4 me โ€“ in life as well as the bedroom โ€“ r they drama, disease, drug free, do they understand me, will I get along with them, r they fun & balanced, will they follow through. Make sure you answer all these q-s rest is supply-demand.

  557. I’m out too…goodnight all!

  558. mommapoppins says:

    alright all, it is getting late, and i have to get up early. I am going to hit the sack! good night to all!

  559. mommapoppins says:

    you guys are awesome! I will tell you this any SD getting any of us is luck as can be!

  560. lil'SB says:

    lol, glad I could help.

  561. mommapoppins says:

    OMG SB you are so right, I did not think about that, gotta change that like right now.

  562. lil'SB says:

    Oh, mommapoppins, I’m not sure you should call yourself a ‘Lady of the streets’ unless you want people to see you as a prostitute. I wonder if you’re trying to say you’re a girl-next-door type? Perhaps you mean approachable and friendly in public but wild and rambunctious behind closed doors maybe?

  563. lil'SB says:

    ya…tomorrow’s date isn’t a potential at all…just an average joe…we’ll probably end up being friends -_-…..I just got off the phone with him, great to talk to but uh…..


    thank you mother nature?

  564. mommapoppins says:

    thanks cleo- they did help me with my profile, but did not think about the SD for them.

  565. Megs says:

    Well, I’m off to bed. Exciting day tomorrow. :) I’ll let everyone know how it all goes when I get home Saturday.
    Take care!! G’Night!

  566. NYC-22 says:

    What has my world come to? I am nervous to meet someone who is 27 years older than me. And nervous as in “Will he like me?”

  567. NYC-22 says:

    Today I took the time to fill my schedule with first pot dates. I like to go on mini sprees where I’d meet 2-3 people in the same day just so it doesnt take up my whole life. One tomorrow, 2 (maybe 3) on saturday, and one every day of next week. I’m mostly excited about a pot I’m meeting on Wednesday. There is just something amazing about not having to ask a person for their real name – when they email from their work address, it pops up in google and they prove to be legit. I emailed him first too, which I never ever do!

  568. cleo says:

    momma i will read it later but if i have to wonder who you are i may not get to your words. cut your friends out of your pics unless you’re looking to find them sd’s as well… especially if you don’t have their permission to post them online

  569. NYC-22 says:

    momma – No problem, I’m sure it’s not even a big deal, just thought I’d let you know. I can’t post a link, but if you go to your own profile and substitute 102276 instead of 439341 where your own link/site address is – you will see it.

  570. mommapoppins says:

    awesome thanks NYC, is it on SA?

  571. mommapoppins says:

    Thanks everyone I really appreciate the advice. will take it all in and make some revisions

  572. NYC-22 says:

    momma – There is a quite a bit actually. You can see for yourself – her profile ID is 102276

  573. Megs says:

    Exactly momma – and I completely agree.

  574. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Momma – as far as pics I would get new ones…right now I like the first best..but they are kind of pixel-y/not very clear..

  575. mommapoppins says:

    Thanks NYC- I had a girlfriend helping set up my profile. Thanks for noticing that for me.

    Thanks megs, I do know what I want. I do not think I should have to settle for less. Wether or not is with a SD or just in life period.

  576. mommapoppins says:

    NYC- which ones, I will have to change them.

  577. Megs says:

    Momma – I love that you are incredibly direct. Though, I wonder if it’s almost too direct?? Well – no, I shouldn’t say that. The type of man you want and need will be able to respect you exactly as you put it. I think it may narrow down the playing field by a large margin because so many men are turned off by women who actually DO know what they want. (Men always say they want a woman who knows, but when they find one..they realize it’s hard work) However, again – you are looking for the kind of man that wants that in a woman. It sounds like you are a “no bull s hit” kind of woman – and I like that. And I think you will find a guy that likes that too.

  578. cleo says:

    i feel so stupid, i can’t find the alleged 1500 hours and nine channels of streaming cbc olympics for the life of me. AND there’s no search. imean i know i’m stupid with flu but come on!

  579. NYC-22 says:

    momma – not sure if the sugar daddies will notice, but I think a few of those lines belong to another sugar baby’s profile. I like the first picture the best, because it focuses on you.

  580. NYC-22 says:

    TT – I’m still here too, just getting started : )

    momma – Will check it if you post a link

  581. mommapoppins says:

    I think so, not sure. will check

  582. Megs says:

    Would love to momma – is there a link to find you?

  583. Megs says:

    haha nope :) I’ve never needed one. I’m not a big blogger.
    Thanks Cleo and TT – I actually figured it out after it sunk in it was attached to my email address. I lucked out using the same email on here. haha total *duh* moment.

  584. mommapoppins says:

    I have a huge favor to ask of all of you. If you please be so kind to check out my profile, and give me some tips. It would be greatly appreciated.

  585. Megs says:

    Hey CA Dreamin SB :)

    I’ve got another NooB question. I’m not only new to the blog…but since I’m meeting my first real potSD tomorrow…. I’m trying to figure out the whole “how is it best to breach the deal topic”…topic.

  586. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Megs my apologies – I thought you knew about gravatar :(

  587. cleo says:

    megs it’s called a gravatar the site is called gravatar dot com and it links to the email you post with

  588. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    still catching up…my goodness…if you don’t hear back from me I probably fell asleep lol…not that it is boring at all – I am just TIRED!

  589. Megs says:

    Oh well. So anyway – it will show up eventually I guess ๐Ÿ˜‰

    Is there anyone still on?

  590. Megs says:

    hmmmmm I’m not a total loser with computers. I actually know them very well…but when I don’t see a place to actually PLACE and avatar, I guess I’m lost. How does my avatar actually get here if I don’t have to put it somewhere?

  591. Megs says:

    Ok, we will see if it pops up :)

  592. mommapoppins says:

    hey TT, sorry i did not say hi when you came on. i had to step out for a min.

  593. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Yes…I am still reading! I’m at 3:53 and counting :S

  594. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Try and clear your cache..if not sometimes you just have to wait Megs ๐Ÿ˜›

  595. Megs says:

    I’m still here TT! Trying to figure out my Avatar thing…. by the way….so, once I have it, how do I get it on here? Post it as the website or something? I know I know…NewB!
    NYC – Thank you :) Yeah – I didn’t actually tell my brother what I was doing… just that I was going to Vegas with a friend, and here is the number I’ll be at….kind of thing. The girlfriend at work knows because I’m trying to introduce her to the world. She deserves a good guy to take care of her. :)
    But I know what you mean – people don’t get it…so they don’t need to know

  596. TT (AKA Tantalizing Taz) says:

    Ok really guys I want to post – holy shit – been busy today?? :) Back to catching up…1am rolls around quicly and everyone will be gone…again..if they are not already :(

  597. NYC-22 says:

    Megs – I hope you have a safe trip. First class is a good sign : ) And I love the part about the envelope with all of the info – that’s totally something I would do, because no one really knows about my life as a sugar baby anymore. I used to text my friend with a guys phone number and say “if i don’t come back this is the guy responsible” lol not funny, i know, but she thought I was so weird for living the sugar lifestyle, one day I told her I “quit”, and no one knows since.

  598. Megs says:

    hahaha :) It’s a great job, I’ll give you that. But I’m not going to go into it here…. will raise WAY too many questions, and I’m the kinda person that is too happy to answer. haha
    Thanks, I’ll try and get one on here!

  599. cleo says:

    it’s called a gravatar

    think it’s just gravatar dot com

  600. cleo says:

    omg megs i am SO curious what you do now!

    i know what you mean, i’m tall and broad shouldered so as long as i project confidence people tend to leave me alone. was driving with a friend in slum chicago abd he was sooo scared. only time i’ve ever been nervous, i figured anyone who saw him would wonder WHY he was nervous and then we were screwed. so i just kept speaking soothinly and driving calmly lol

  601. Megs says:

    Sorry – not MY blog…but you know what I mean..haha

  602. Megs says:

    I know this is a total NewB thing to ask…how to I put a picture on my blog??

  603. Happy Bday TexaSD – enjoy!

  604. Megs says:


  605. TexaSD says:

    Ok, well I am off to celebrate my bday… goodnight all

  606. Megs says:

    Cleo – haha :) I know I’m a paranoid soul. But not without cause. I guess it only takes once. But, I’m not so paranoid that I won’t go out! right??! haha I’m actually a little TOO trusting, which is why I take the precautions before I put myself in any stupid situations…because god knows I will end up in a stupid situation somehow. But, I do have one thing on my side – I’m very tall, and my career makes me very good at being able to disable someone attacking me. I haven’t had any problems since I started my new career…and god knows there have been opportunities.

  607. Lisa says:

    She was a wonderful boss. If she were still my boss, I would have been able to take 3 days off to visit my sd, because she understood that kinda thing.

  608. Megs says:

    Nope, not from Vegas. Been there a few times either in passing or for fun…. but I’m an out-of-towner

  609. cleo says:

    man you more paranoid than me. i just leave my computer on and logged in to every single site with the relevant email open. and have a safety call (well i don’t safety call for dinner in local restaurants… but i still leave all the info on my desktop)

  610. TexaSD says:

    Megs- Sounds cool, So your not from Vegas?

  611. Megs says:

    Oh, and Cleo – I have actually told two people. My brother, and one of my girlfriends at work. And, I have left a letter with all of the information I have on him, including information from me to login on the site…. in case I don’t come home for some reason. I even left info about my cell phone for tracking purposes. And I have a tracking app on my phone too.
    I’m allllll about safety.

  612. cleo says:

    lisa i’ve only ever gone wrong when i didn’t listen to my gut. and your gut was right about her, she never meant YOU any harm.

  613. cleo says:

    Megs: excellent. i’m always amazed when girls don’t watch their own backs but quick to jump in and help them do it

    and i’m really sorry that you’ve had the experience of being assaulted… no woman. no one should.

  614. Lisa says:

    Yes people always warn me about meeting people on the internet, funny thing is you never really know who you are working beside. darn

  615. Megs says:

    Lisa – whoa….

  616. Megs says:

    TexaSD – I’ve never been on the blogs :)
    We are meeting up tomorrow. I’m definitely excited. He gave me his company profile, which I googled as he was telling me – and it came up positive. I’ve got a very good feeling about this one actually. And everything he told me I was able to corroborate actually, because I found out I knew a lot more about him already…since he used to live in my old neighborhood…which is another reason he always travels to my city so much.

    Cleo – I’m on top of it girl ๐Ÿ˜‰ First off – it’s Vegas…. there are A LOT of cheap motels. haha ๐Ÿ˜‰ Second, I have enough of my own money to go ahead and spend a day there on my own and fly home myself and not feel bad about it, since I need a vacation anyway. ๐Ÿ˜‰ haha But…I am checking my bag and taking some precautionary measures in it…because…well…I’ve been assaulted once in my life by someone I thought I could trust, and I won’t be victim to that again. No matter HOW good I feel about him.

  617. Lisa says:

    She was looking for a sd so she could save money for her divorce. She didn’t meet anyone so I guess that’s why she decided to try to kill him.
    I guess I shouldn’t have anymore friends join SA.

  618. cleo says:

    TexaSD i don’t care who sees me. i’ll just tell them it’s ‘just another dating site’ and gosh i’m on so many i lose track [and rarely check the other ones but this one lol]

  619. cleo says:

    it’s nice to have you back TexaSD

    hey yaz been a while

    lisa: well you know, penpals and conjugal visits… might do it for some sd’s

  620. TexaSD says:

    Megs- When are you going to date him? anything else you wanna share? Its been a long time since i have been on the blogs

  621. Lisa says:

    My former boss had a profile too for awhile, I presume she left out the part that she will be unavailable for the next 20 years or so.

  622. TexaSD says:

    Cleo- Not really, Just think this is kinda cool. Another reason why I don’t put pics in my profile, lol

  623. Yaz says:

    Megs~ I cosign every Cleo said! But also don’t forget to let your hair down and have fun!!! Vegas is sooo much fun :-)

  624. TexaSD says:

    Well this girl dated my friend, and she didn’t put that she has 4 kids lol, well this is actually kinda funny…

  625. cleo says:

    texasd are you hot for her? that’s kinda fun.
    megs make sure you have the name of a cheap motel with empty rooms and enough to pay for it. make sure someone is expecting safety calls from you after he picks you up and every now and then after that. with code words

    otherwise? have fun

  626. Yaz says:

    Wow Texas SD long time no see!

    Hi Momma :-)

  627. Megs says:

    TexasSD – haha I’ve seen a few of people I know. One was my ex-sister-in-law!! haha It’s sad, because I wish I could warn all the guys she tries to latch on to.

  628. mommapoppins says:

    hey yaz

  629. TexaSD says:

    Yaz, How are you?

  630. TexaSD says:

    lol I found a profile of a SB that I know….

  631. Yaz says:

    Hey Y’all :-)

  632. That’s great Megs! Have a wonderful time.

  633. Megs says:

    Wow…ok….so I sent SD a quick text telling him I was looking forward to meeting him, and that I do have a little anxiety since we hadn’t met yet. He IMMEDIATELY called me and talked to help me feel at ease. And honestly…I really do now. AND we are going to meet up with a friend of his who introduced him to the SA site and his SB!! I feel ALOT better about this trip already :)

  634. NYC SB says:

    Well, I personally dont see a future with him…. and he seems to be head over heels for me… i just dont think its fair to keep leading him on

  635. TexaSD says:

    Nyc- And your broke bf is going to get the Axe? curious to why?

  636. NYC SB says:

    TexaSD – Currently happily in an arrangement with 2 SDs, they dont know about each other…

    NYG – that sounds awesome… you just might have convinced me to go to DC just for that ๐Ÿ˜€

  637. NYGent says:

    Flo Rida/Elegant: since I know you’re interested in espionage you would enjoy the International Spy Museum in Washington, D.C. I was just there. Their motto: “Deny everything.” Gift shop has some neat stuff: autobiography by a female ex-spook entitled “I lie for a living,” belt buckle camera, universal handcuff key, lipsick pens, another book entitled “beware of female spies.”

    I picked up a couple trinkets for Flo Rida to entice her out of hiding, but in lieu thereof I can arrange a drop point somewhere in Manhattan, maybe Hertz on UWS. Of course several of us may be watching with binocs.

  638. TexaSD says:

    NYC- Oic, are you currently with a SD or actively searching for one? I am a bit curious, hope that does not offend you.

  639. NYC SB says:

    TexaSD – he is travelling for work… unfortunately his expiration date is coming up…

  640. NYGent says:

    Flo Rida: I drive the BMW 335i. Went through the yuppie mid-life crisis with the Z3 Roadster but am past that now.

    And yes the BMW handling is the best.

  641. TexaSD says:

    NYGent- lol

  642. mommapoppins says:

    good luck megs

  643. SBnxtdoor says:

    Hi everyone. Been away and then accidently posted something on the previous blog about my e-mail corresp. on SA with a guy that went awry quickly, but now I do not have the energy to repost here, so HOW IS EVERYONE?

    Elegant– Was reading on the previous blog about a potSD who became drunk, beligerant, and belittling to you. I’m sorry for your ordeal, but it sounds like the sugar world has improved for you.

  644. Lisa says:

    My new sd is quite a bit older than me too. Last sd was my age.
    Ex boyfriend is emailing questions about sd, he’s jealous, how cute. But he dumped me 2 years ago and only wants booty calls.

  645. NYGent says:

    TexaSD: I think you must have me confused with somebody else

  646. TexaSD says:

    NYC- What happened to your broke bf?

  647. Megs says:

    So…. I have a new SD who I haven’t met yet, but is flying me to Vegas (where he lives) tomorrow. I already have my ticket in hand. He is flying me first class and everything. He is also taking me to a show, and who knows where it will go from there.
    I’m incredibly excited, because he has sent me a few pictures, and even though he is quite a bit older than I am – he is very attractive…especially for his age. I know they are legit pictures because he sent them from his phone. And from the looks of the background, I’m pretty positive he’s for real. Very nice bathroom set up – and definitely not just a nice hotel. There were obvious personal items on the counter that I’ve never known ANYONE to travel with (sonic toothbrush, colorful towels, etc)
    I know it probably sounds funny that I looked at the background almost more than I looked at him – but I don’t want to be another poor stupid soul who was duped into a great time with a guy that doesn’t actually have the means to be an SD.
    So far so good. We haven’t talked about any agreement though. He was originally going to fly in to see me earlier in the week because he has meetings in my city all the time, but his meeting was cancelled, so he asked if I would mind coming to see him when I could. Turns out this weekend worked. So, I fly in Friday afternoon, and return home around 11am.
    I can’t say I’m not a little anxious because I’ve never met him, and we haven’t actually talked about an agreement. I think him flying me out though is a good starter.
    I hope. I don’t have bad feelings… just the typical anxiety of meeting someone for the first time….

  648. mommapoppins says:

    Lisa- that was way to much! lol

  649. NYC SB says:

    Lisa – I am so glad to hear that

    Flo – sorry things are not sugary sweet… for you and TXSB and BG… much love to all of you

    NYC SD wants to make up for VDay this weekend… NYSE wants to fly me to NC to meet his parents…. what is a girl to do…

  650. mommapoppins says:

    Tex-too cute! lmao

  651. Lisa says:

    I did talk a guy into buying an enema one time. He came up asking where the condoms where, and just the way he looked an acted, I knew he was gay, so I suggested using an enema to get clean first. He was confused at first but took it. lol

  652. Lisa says:

    A few weeks ago I had to listen to some ghetto guys talk about which tampons to buy for one of their girlfriends. They decided that the cardboard ones weren’t good. What’s really fun is having someone come up and start talking to me about their itch problems, yikes

  653. Lisa says:

    I am going to break off with my lover of 5 years. This is the best opportunity, that way he won’t show up at my door too. I wouldn’t feel right letting him come over to an apartment that is being paid for by someone else.

  654. cleo says:

    i write it down with colour cues and everything

    but yeah, i used to work in a drugstore and god some of the stuff people asked for/needed was so embarassing i didn’t know how they did it.

  655. TexaSD says:

    I think I am in awe of Ny Gent

  656. cleo says:

    lil’sb btw i’m pretty sure every woman on this blog is in awe of at least one other woman on this blog. and by at least one i mean like ten

  657. Lisa says:

    I work in the health and beauty department of a supermarket. It’s always fun to watch the guys come in and try to buy those things. They look so confused, lol

  658. cleo says:

    omg omg lisa please keep us updated! :)

  659. cleo says:

    the older i get the less i hide from the truth. it’s the truth, he’s a man, if he can’t handle it he’s kind of a wimp

    or as my ex said when asked if he was embarassed buying tampons (while i waited on the toilet, what a sweetie, too bad about the coke) “hell no, it’s obvious i have a woman and that i’m getting regular sex, what’s to be embarrassed about???”

  660. Jade says:

    If I was him I would talk you into meeting still because you pretty much told me we are having sex……………..wooohoooo !

  661. mommapoppins says:

    cleo- if only we all had that luck!

  662. mommapoppins says:

    no, honesty is the best answer no matter what

  663. cleo says:

    lil’sb you are doing wonders for my poor bruised little ego … thanks. i mean that.

    and hey i learn as much or more from them as they do from me. i’ve just never been in a relationship longer than two years so i have a lot of practice at beginnings. well i used to, now i get first dates. god i wish i lived in new york aka the land of the double take when i walk down the street instead of toronto the land of nobody looks at anybody and there are no straight men here!

    i’m like the anti-DC SB geeze. (cause she has no problem getting, landing or keeping a man. lucky girl, and studied in tuscany and lived in spain… guessing she made her luck though)

  664. lil'SB says:

    Jade… you know it really WAS embarrassing having to mention that, but I didn’t want to come up with any lame ass excuse so I just decided to be honest and up front with it. Was that really a bad idea? =(

  665. Lisa says:

    ok just got an email from ex boyfriend (the one that dumped me 2 years ago and keeps wanting a booty call relationship) he wants to come over tonight and take me out for a coke and lunch. I told him No. I look for him to be at my door any time now. He did that last week and I didn’t answer.

    Still miss my sd but have met a new one. Feel bad about mentioning it as I don’t want my previous one to feel unappreciated as he was very nice and did a lot for me, including a wonderful trip to NY 2 months ago.

    Met this new one 2 weeks ago on other site. He is married, alot older, and ready to move me. He’s kind of like a dad to me, weird

  666. TexaSD says:

    lol momma

  667. Jade says:

    lil’SB – Do not mention you are on your period as it is def to much info !

  668. lil'SB says:

    HAHA Cleo, excellent reply letter, I’m kicking myself for not having sent THAT! He’s not going to get a room if we don’t need one though because it’s simply a two hour drive from here to New York (state) and is planning to go back after our date.

  669. cleo says:

    i was SO excited to go to the auto show and i’ve been sick for the whole damn show!!!

    dammit i wanted to see the pretty new cars…

    i can’t even walk to my living room right now dammit

    hey cleo? yeah? how many times can you say dammit in the same post? i don’t cleo let’s see.


  670. mommapoppins says:

    panties are gone!! j/k

  671. lil'SB says:

    Haha, cleo you know what? I seriously don’t feel like I can compete with ANY of you blog SB’s simply because you guys are ALL so charming and lovely, so I leave ALL the blog SBs in your capable hands! Good god girl, YOU’RE all charm and wit and outgoinging-ness, plus you’ve got a killer body and smile! Phew…that’s a lot to contend with, lol.

  672. mommapoppins says:

    panties are gone!!

  673. cleo says:

    lil’sb: repeat after me (and make it sound like you)

    dear rich boyfriend i’m having a first date with tomorrow

    i would really like to do the car show and dinner with you but i’m leery of sleeping over because mother nature just hit me and i don’t want her in the room with us. that said; we could maybe snuggle and talk all night if you want? i mean, if you haven’t cancelled the hotel yet of course…?

    [and he’s coming from out of town, he has a room anyway and you have the option of going home. stop stressing, see how you feel after dinner]

  674. TexaSD says:

    yes, please, and TXSB you heard Lisa’s rule… No panties

  675. TexaSD says:

    OK, so Houston it is then? Whats the date?

  676. TexaSD says:

    Cleo- Well I was a rich bf in tokyo, we are good people… ya, thats true Lil’sb cleo has a point, When i was in Tokyo last month, I took the girl i was dating to Phuket… It could work out with you too… (now you see what i was saying about the majority vote thing lol)

  677. cleo says:

    i know what lisa will say:


  678. Lisa says:

    Well Houston sucks but I can’t travel anywhere. Also can’t do weekends as I have to work, so I guess i’m out :(

    Of course we could meet at the walmart parking lot down the street if everyone agrees to show up without panties, lol

  679. lil'SB says:

    Oh TexaSD, you just had to throw in another dashing of doubt in there didn’t you?! It’s a little late now, I already fired off the email telling him to cancel hotel plans :p…

  680. mommapoppins says:

    not talking about right now, talking about nights past

  681. cleo says:

    lil’sb this sounds more like the ‘rich boyfriend’ than an SD thing. that said, if they’er nice guys they’re usually stupid generous (and if they aren’t they’re probably selfish and worth avoiding for other reasons) so why don’t you see how dinner goes and trust your gut

    no sex though, just tell him you want your first time with him to not have your aunt flow (or mother nature) as your third.

    also? good god girl, leave a FEW men who like mature women for the rest of us! ninety percent of men my age are dating 20 year olds for god’s sake!

  682. TexaSD says:

    How are you Lisa, So where did you want to host the Texas Meet? Everyone agreed your in Charge

  683. Lisa says:

    insomniacs?? it’s only 8:20

  684. TexaSD says:

    Chitown- Well I will miss our dirty talks lol… Maybe next time. good night and have fun

  685. TexaSD says:

    Lil’sb- Well sometimes the majority vote isn’t the best thing for you lol… keep that in mind

  686. mommapoppins says:

    later chi- have fun, who knows when you come back some of us insomniacs will still be here!!

  687. Chitown SB says:

    Ok, off to work. By the time I return, I am sure the blog will have cleared, so I shall bid you all a good night now.

  688. lil'SB says:

    Mmm, yes I see where you’re all coming from. I think you guys are my voice of reason! Thank you, I will allow democracy to rule and follow the majority vote.

  689. mommapoppins says:

    ok to change the subject, i just heard one of my fav. songs “let the good times roll”. Just thought I would let yall know!

  690. TexaSD says:

    Lil’sb- Ditto Chitown

  691. Chitown SB says:

    Lil’SB I agree that its not worth the potential mess or regret to go through with having sex. It will make the anticipation of your next meeting, or whenever you DO go there so much sweeter

  692. TexaSD says:

    Ditto Mommapoppins

  693. mommapoppins says:

    lol i am with jade on this one

  694. TexaSD says:

    Lil’sb- Well you can always try the, “whats todays date? Oh ya today is when it starts, sorry i was so excited.” Umm, but a woman can only pull that once. I dunno, i hate the mess, and it does kinda freak you out lol…

  695. Jade says:

    I heard those sponge things help lil’SB but I would say do not have sex the first meeting unless he has serious D ‘s and ready to put a ring on it!

  696. TexaSD says:

    Lil’sb- I love kids too, I don’t want them right now. So he could mean that.

  697. lil'SB says:

    TexaSD – it’s a combination of BOTH. It’s going to just be plain messy, AND I’m TOTALLY feeling you CA, I’m just ‘in the mood’ right now….maybe I’m in heat lol.

  698. lil'SB says:

    Oh oh, and one more thing, his profile is kind of alarming also in the way that it says he LOVES kids and would like to have some in the future. That’s not something I want to be thinking about right now…of course I asked him about it and he said not to worry, he’s just about going on fun dates for now until he meets the right person. Hmmm…

  699. LilSB – If he doesn’t know you’re looking for an SD, do you know he would ever consider an SD/SB realtionship? How long have you been emailing with him? If you’d be upset because you slept with him if the sugar relationship didn’t develop – then I say don’t do it. BUT, if you wouldn’t regret it if you never saw him again…go ahead.

    I should be banned from giving advice. If I had a date tonight, I’d TOTALLY be all over him…just that kind of mood :)

  700. TexaSD says:

    Mommapoppins- Lol I won’t

    Lil’sb ya if its not MBA, then again, your call lol

  701. TexaSD says:

    Lil’sb- I hate mother nature too, and yes, it is a huge scare to say,”is that my blood or yours” trust me, Although its your call, I love car shows, you did turn me on with that lol. Umm so is your problem with nature, or controlling yourself?

  702. Jade says:

    Today was a good sugar day for me. I got two fruit arrangements made to look like flowers, a balloon, BIG teddy bear and a coffee cup.


  703. mommapoppins says:

    bad idea lil sb

  704. lil'SB says:

    Oh dear, should I even proceed this relationship if I’m not even sure it’s going to turn out to be MBA or am I just wasting mine (and his) time.

  705. DenverSB says:

    Hey all, are there any SB’s in Denver? I would love to get together and trade advice/experiences… find my on myspace if so :) Thanks ladies

  706. mommapoppins says:

    your forgiven only this once! Don’t let it happen again, Tex!

  707. lil'SB says:

    Ok so all the previous talk of dating single SDs was really alarming because I’ve got a date lined up with a single potential tomorrow. I’m not calling him a potSD though. Why? Because I’m not sure I’ve made it explicitly clear to him I’m an SB looking for an SD (I didn’t meet him through SA). BUT, we’ve been having the most wonderful conversation, bantering back and forth over email and he’s literate, eloquent and worldly. SO, I’m VERY excited to meet him tomorrow, I’ve planned a trip to the car show in town because he likes cars, and made reservations at a lovely restaurant and I’m sure the chemistry will be there. But I don’t know if the sugar will be, and I have a feeling I’ll pull a Lily (*cue Lily sneezing in her sleep*) because I’m feeling frisky already BUT it’s a first date, and FURTHERMORE mother nature has decided to kick in today (OW). He said there’s a clause that exempts foreigners traveling in from a foreign country from the first date rule and is fine with it anyways but….
    Romping on the first date under these circumstances, good idea? bad idea?

    ps. DURNIT CdnGent’s age range totally puts me out of the running =(

  708. TexaSD says:

    Mommapoppins- Damn, your right… How careless of me…

  709. Chitown SB says:

    How DARE I forget spanking! I clearly need to be punished

  710. mommapoppins says:

    Tex- you forgot the choking!

  711. TexaSD says:

    Chitown SB- Lol, you forgot spanking, oh, sometimes throwing is pretty cool…

  712. Chitown SB says:

    all this talk about hair pulling and scratching… I may just have to go jump in the snow!

  713. mommapoppins says:

    cleo- yall are going to have so much fun at the meet. keep me posted on the planning!

  714. TexaSD says:

    Cleo- Its a small town?

    CA Dreamin- I am not opposed to Montreal lol…

    Anna- Goodnight

  715. Looks like it might be better to fly into Montreal

  716. cleo says:

    Texasd sorry yeah. you would likely fly to ottawa but that’s a 2 hour drive… wonder if they have an a/p
    lil’sv totally let’s plan together

  717. Anna Molly says:

    Well, I’m off to bed because I’m sick and sleepy from the caugh meds. the Dr. gave me. Good Night :)

  718. TexaSD says:

    Lil’sb- Well try us out lol

  719. mommapoppins says:

    hey sb

  720. lil'SB says:

    Good evening sugars, this blog’s moved so quickly from one topic to another I’ve missed so many opportunities to reply to many of the issues! It took me almost an hour to catch up!

    Cleo- If you need help planning the Toronto meet, I’d be glad to lend a hand. That said, I’m totally down for a meet. I’d love to meet ES, and can someone please fly in Lily?

    On another note, I need to intrude with a sugar dilemma…..will need to think about how to explain it though…

  721. TexaSD says:

    Cleo- Oic, So is that 5 hours from Toronto?

  722. cleo says:

    texasd it’s close to ont/quebec border… bout 5hrs in a car

  723. Naughty Molly says:

    You got it TexaSD ๐Ÿ˜‰

  724. TexaSD says:

    Any Canadians know where Lancaster Ontario?

  725. NM! I WANT one of those bumper stickers!!!

  726. cleo says:

    okay whatever, it’s all over the older blogs :)

    cleodna at the g male
    elegant let me know next time you visit your friend

  727. TexaSD says:

    Naughty Molly- and maybe a little slapping? some biting? and pull your hands right?

  728. Naughty Molly says:

    I drive a super hot and super fast Nissan. Yeah, its the envy of the whole town. I also have a bumper sticker explaining that if you’re going to ride my [email protected]@ at least pull my hair ๐Ÿ˜‰

  729. TexaSD says:

    Austin Or San Antonio (SA) sounds good to me too lol. Ok I google Lancaster Ontario, wikipedia takes me somewhere else, is it near toronto?

  730. mommapoppins says:

    Austin, or San Antonio sounds good to me as well

  731. Chitown SB says:

    Hello all,

    Wasting some time here before work. Reading the above discussion about married vs. single SDs… I find myself having switched teams very recently for this one. Printer SD is single, but asked me today if we could be exclusive. This is already after every time we have met up it feels more and more like he is pushing for a relationship. This is also after we had a discussion about why I am not looking for an exclusive relationship. I just came out of a 5yr IRL one and I am only 23!

    So, I don’t think PrinterSD and I are going to last. I told him that I understand if his needs have changed, but I stand where I stood when we first met, and if that won’t work, he deserves a girl that can give him exclusivity. I thought we were just having fun. Sigh. I have not heard from him since… and that was at about noon today (its now 6:40p). I guess back to the search.

    In somewhat better news, I have been talking to a pot for the better part of today who seems to be a PERFECT fit for me… its almost scary. He is local, but going to the Caribbean for 10days So we are going to continue to chat and meet up when he returns *crosses fingers. Talking to him gives me goosebumps… in the good way.

    To get back to my comment at the top of this page, pot SD is married. I was uncomfortable with the idea of married SDs when I first joined the site about 7 weeks ago. I had been betrayed by someone I loved, and I didn’t want to do that to another woman. But I have come to realize that if a married guy wasn’t doing this with me, it would be someone else, and who am I to judge. I agree though that they should be HONEST about whatever their situation is.

    Sorry for the epic-like post…

    OH! And Elegant, you are my shopping guru, thanks!

  732. photogirl says:

    TexasSD, yes there was talk of a TX meet…but not sure what happened. I think JSO was even talking about hosting it at his beach house.

  733. TexaSD – there was a great deal of discussion about it but nothing ever finalized, it never got beyond location. I’m up for Austin or San Antonio

  734. TexaSD says:

    Hey is lancaster near Toronto, I will google it now

  735. TexaSD says:

    Photo- There is a TX meet?

  736. But I think SDN and Midwest have mine

  737. photogirl says:

    Whatever happened to the meet in TX?

    SDN – Drag them to the cave… haha

  738. ElegantSugar says:

    Me too! Me too! I LOVE Toronto and have a friend there and would love to go too!

  739. I don’t have your email Cleo

  740. TexaSD says:

    Lol See Photo chimes in at the right moment lol…

  741. cleo says:

    Dreamin so far it’s only date wishes i think. nothing scheduled yet… do you have my email?

  742. TexaSD says:

    Cleo- I have sent pics, profile is deleted, I will create a new one soon, maybe I will have you or photo help out lol.

    Elegant- Well I will take either lol. But I am still interested in those news clips lol

    Cleo- I don’t know yet. However I would consider it, especially if I can find a work related reason to head out there lol.

  743. photogirl says:

    I have a photo of Texas SD… going to the highest bidder :)

  744. cleo says:

    and photogirl!

    i knew i was missing someone

  745. Cleo – send me the info too for the Toronto meet!

  746. photogirl says:

    Cleo – :( I want to go to the Toronto meet…

  747. cleo says:

    Elegant don’t fall for it, Texa won’t send ANYONE pics of himself or share his profile!
    TexaSD: well, all i really need from you is a few date ranges you could make it… same with the rest of y’all who wnat to meet in toronto…

    since i’m eventually killing this profile and keeping this email blogonly i think it’s safe enough to put out here?

    wait no blog gods please share my email with anyone who mentions that a toronto meet sounds good. specifically CDNGent, TexaSD, SDN, NYGent, Taz, lil’sb, Midwest, and…?

  748. ElegantSugar says:

    TexaSD – at least they are news clips and not other types of clips. Iffin’ you know what I mean!

  749. mommapoppins says:

    cloe- I do

  750. cleo says:

    momma you’ll understand this one of mine then… any mustang built pre sixty eight

  751. TexaSD says:

    Elegant- Ok, Now I want to watch some news clips too, Don’t leave me out, its my bday…. lol

    Cleo- ya hondas are pretty nice cars lol… Toronto meet sounds pretty cool, I think more discussion on the topic is warranted lol

  752. mommapoppins says:

    I know you all are talking about brands that you like, so I have to say that I have 2 major loves. 1968-1968 Camero, and the 1957 Chevy- two door hard top.

  753. ElegantSugar says:

    Well, he told me earlier that he googled me and watched some news clips he found. Said he was impressed, but then started asking some strange questions. Was I reporter covering extra-marital affairs? I assured him I was nothing of the sort. I think he is nervous because I am so normal and said all the right things, like, “Don’t worry about me being late, I’m always punctual.” ?????? Heaven forbid a SB be intelligent and have a normal (ok, maybe beyond normal) work history. Geesh.

  754. cleo says:

    Flo Rida the man who taught me to pray (and to have half hour orgasms) is married or i would TOTALLY CALL HIM!!!!!

    [he’s the type who won’t stray or i might anyway…]
    elegant and another one goes… poof!

  755. TexaSD says:

    Flo- So what is it you do? I don’t think I remember if you have told me before (sorry)

    Mommapoppins- nothing much, just car talk lol

    Elegant- Sorry to hear that, Well ya have a blast doing whatever you want

  756. mommapoppins says:

    later ele!

  757. cleo says:

    CdnGent: my parents have a 14 year old BMW that they still love and in fact the bmw mechanics tell them not to trade it for a new one because the ones suck. Dad claims to have spend less than 3k in repairs the whole time (can’t remember the actual number, guessing high)

    As for the Toronto meet I don’t know why anyone cares about the weather because there’s so much awesome stuff to do indoors here… especially the food! I just meant that you are away a lot and we want to have the meet when you’re in town. that said, no reason to wait i think

    you’re right though, the blog peeps are where it’s at!
    TexaSD: yeah old hondas are amazing, new ones? not so much.

  758. ElegantSugar says:

    This is crazy. Ok, so I had a past pot SD contact me today, tell me he was in town (he lives 3 hours away from my city) and asked if I wanted to meet for dinner/drinks. I agreed. I mean, I am officially back on the Sugar Market. I was showering and getting ready (while you guys were having your car talk) and by the time I dried my last strand of hair, he sent me a text telling me his wife called and is meeting him for dinner. Told me how sorry he was, this never happens, yada yada yada. (??) Interesting since they live 3 hours away. This is a guy who was aggressively pursuing me too. So crazy.

    Well, at least I have other people to enjoy my evenings with and don’t solely rely on Sugar dates. I’m off to indulge in something delicious. Not sure what just yet. Will have to be healthy though considering my recent Waffle House and Patty Melt binge.

    I will see you sugars later! :)

  759. Flo Rida says:

    TexaSD – i’ve been better, although million dollar bonuses are back on wall street it’s to selected individuals only & hiring is generally at junior levels – still rounds of I-banker cuts in firms not doing well – bond market shut down – or at least this is what SD tells me.

    in terms of where to go (not on 1st date) i’d recommend the Hi-line in meatpacking district in NY and the vine area in Kew Gardens in London (but it’s too cold now). For a 1st date, there are soooo many places to go but i’d pick a private tour of NYSE in NY and Sketch in London (in my opinion best bar in world).

    Lastly I got into a conversation wth SD on the best sex each has ever had (we’re very open), which brought back vivid memories – does anyone ever feel the temptation to call that other person or should it be left in memories?

    Also when you discuss # of partners with sig other do people only count full intercourse? as opposed to the Bill Clinton blowee or even phone sex or sexting counting as a partner? Just curious?

    Lastly SD got an email with two attachments, 1 was a vajjayjay (wet) and the other was a face shot with a message saying ‘call me’ – do women have no shame, needless to say i’ve asked him not to call her – if it wasn’t so freaky it would be hilarious

    Someone asked about Beach & TX (they are both dealing with a lot of stuff – & are well).

    PC is finally back – have to run to my reception.

  760. mommapoppins says:

    stepped away for a min, what did i miss

  761. Elegant – The cost of the run-flat tires absolutely KILLED me…that was one thing I didn’t factor in when I bought the BMW

  762. No doubt! I grew up in TX…I definitely am aware of the difference!

  763. ElegantSugar says:

    Mine is the E500 and it is actually a 2003. Only 60,000 miles on it though. The only problem are the cost of the tires and maintenance! I was spoiled with BMW and their warranties. They used to pick up my car and drop off a loaner and bring my car back fixed, washed, vacuumed and polished. I didn’t buy an extended warranty on the Mercedes so now everything is out of pocket – even a rental if the car is the in the shop. :(

  764. TexaSD says:

    CA Dreamin- Man you will save some money by coming here to live lol, Ya you could change it to TX dreamin SM lol.

  765. To visit – end of March or sometime in April. To live? I would say within the next year. Of course, I’ll have to change my blog name then!

  766. TexaSD says:

    CA Dreamin,- yep, when you coming back to TX?

    Elegant- I like the New C class or Even an E Class. how has your car been for reliability?

  767. ElegantSugar says:

    Oh, and YES…Sugar Blog Anonymous (SBA) meetings will begin soon. Please sign up at window 4.

  768. TexaSD says:

    Take Care Cdn, and Midwest.

  769. ElegantSugar says:

    I am on my way out the door…but I just have to say this to Flo!!

    If it is the same ex CFO of Yankees that I’m thinking of (6 letters in his last name, ends with a vowel), he totally hit on me at JFK 2 years ago. Then again while sitting in First Class. Then again in baggage claim at the TPA airport. I think I still still have his business card somewhere because my colleagues thought it was the funniest thing ever, they framed it and put it on my office wall! Gosh, small world. But not really.

    I used to drive a BMW and I didn’t feel like a real estate agent. Drive a Mercedes now and I have to say although I bought it used, I love it.

  770. Well it should definitely fit in when I get back to TX

  771. TexaSD says:

    CA Dreamin- ya a SUV or a pickup lol. Man I wanted one, the Q7 is too popular with the soccer mom crowd i think lol

  772. TexaSD says:

    Flo- I love the Aston Martins too, they just built the dealership near me, however as I already have a sports car, I just can’t justify buying another, but man everytime i go to a dealership I wanna buy another lol. about your PC rebooting, buy a Mac lol

  773. CdnGent says:

    Okay folks … well there ends another chapter of War and Peace by yours truly. I’m out for the evening and it’s already dark. Damn, now I gotta get home without any of the monsters seeing me. I’ll be glad when it stays daylight until like, oh, 6:30pm. LOL!

    G’night all!

    CdnGent aka Mr. Canadian Cowboy (looking for Ms. Sexy Reverse Cowgirl LMAO!)

  774. Flo Rida says:

    Midwest – Never say ‘I’m not a model’ completely irrelevant & unnecessary.

    All – I drive a BMW325i, whereas SD has 11 sports cars (excluding limos) & he said ‘I don’t like BMW’s’ and I say ‘They handle well’ and he says ‘They do handle well, they just don’t go fast enough, I have an Aston Martin, Mazz, 911, Jaguar, then he lists the others but my puny brain can’t absorb the names, then he says ‘some cars are like lethal weapons in the hands of the inexperienced’.

    My PC is re-booting for some reason & i’m late for a reception – dammit – ciao peeps

  775. SD NEOhio (SDN) Fred Flintstone says:

    I just drag my women back to the cave.

  776. CdnGent says:

    Flo – glad you said MOST “40-60 year old men still want the hot 20+ women” I’m just not like most men. My SB can be 40-60 too if she wants to be. Oh, but she still has to be hot (to me that is … eye of the beholder).

  777. TexaSD says:

    Flo- Yes I haven’t met that many SB’s from this site, but I have heard lots do lie, just by reading some of their profiles I can tell. Well I have to admit, i love 20+hot women, hell I love 18+ hot women lol… How are you Flo?

  778. NYGent says:

    As for why a single SD would want to be on this site, a couple reasons:

    1) Some SBs will ONLY date single SDs. The reasons for this vary (no feelings of guilt, more flexible schedules, less SD sweating getting caught).

    2) IRL men of a certain age are largely invisible to women under 30 (and certainly under 25), if that’s what the SD is looking for. Girls on Match and E-Harmony are generally looking for someone roughly the same age or only a few years older.

    Now, for single, young, super-rich, GQ-looking SDs, there is not much if any need for this site. But there aren’t a lot of those guys.

  779. Midwest says:

    SDN -ROTFLMAO!!!!!

    Really going!

  780. TexaSD – I love my Range Rover…and what self-respecting Texas girl doesn’t have an SUV?

  781. Flo Rida says:

    TexaSD – happy happy b-day!

    I haven’t had time to properly read the blog so sorry if I missed something.

    Well i’m sad to say I was disappointed last night but c’est la vie. It was a private party & curiously the ex CFO of the Yankees was there, a current Yankees player was there and a former coach of the Raiders was there and a former Miami Hurricanes quarterback blah so lots of semi-famous sports people. i’m now in FL where at last i’m away from the dreadful snow (at least most of it melted in NY).

    Lastly i’ve now concluded that most 40-60 year old men still want the hot 20+ women BUT some of those women are immature & frankly lie (i also know many SD are fakers too). Why is life so difficult.

  782. TexaSD says:

    CA Dreamin- Land Rover, thats what I wanted when I bought the Q7… Man I wish you would have said that to me last year lol…. As for BMW, nothing wrong with them, just don’t do it for me…

    Photo- lol

    Midwest- I used to be huge in cars, just the last few years, I haven’t been really paying attention as much as I used too.

  783. SD NEOhio (SDN) Fred Flintstone says:

    My car is rock solid and the more people in it the faster we go.

  784. Midwest says:

    Cdn – Repeat after me

    “My name is (state your name) and I am a SA blog addict”

    Elegant is hosting interventions on a semi-regular basis! They will be her on the blog at 3:00 am. Please bring a friend.

    Friends, I’m off to join IRL friends for beer and wings…will have sushi and wine another night. I will catch up later tonight.

  785. CdnGent says:

    Photo … me? Addicted? Pffffshaw! I’m not addicted to anything. I don’t have that gene.

    Ooooh, chocolate! BRB!

  786. HEY – STAND DOWN CDN – I have a BMW and LOVE IT. I also have a Range Rover that I drive when I’m inclined to run over things :)

  787. photogirl says:

    I have my mom mobile… I have nothing to add to the car talk except I need a new one haha

    CDNGent – I believe you are officially addicted to the blog!

  788. CdnGent says:

    Cleo – coordinate my travel schedule to Toronto? So what, send me the link for the GO Trains? LMAO! Toronto would be fun actually. Who needs warm weather. Good bars, theatre, live music scene and restaurants and at least a couple of my favourite hotels. Hell, I might even sponsor a potSB for that festival. Haha! Wow, am I ever immersing myself in this culture. The site is for chumps. The blog is where it’s at. Haha!

  789. Midwest says:

    I currently drive an Acura 3.0 TL and enjoy the ride – and that’s with 160K miles. It’s so reliable, but it does shift hard at 2/3 in downtown driving. I think it was meant to be a standard.

    One of our blog sbs is quite the car enthusiasts – a west coast lady. She could probably give you stats and great advice on what to choose!

  790. TexaSD says:

    Cleo- I like hondas, the last SB i had, I helped her with a Civic. nice cars lol

  791. CdnGent says:

    Ewwww, BMW? Geezus, why would I want ANYONE to mistake me for a real estate agent? LOL! Actually, when I’m car shopping I’m just trying to find something that few others are driving. I like to march to a slightly different drummer than the rest.

  792. CdnGent says:

    Well, I’d actually also drive a Volvo but that’s more function that form. Still, the new X60 has some REALLY cool features and is a solid ‘crossover’ type vehicle (albeit more truck than sedan). Still, find me a cooler feature than ‘CitySafe’ in any vehicle anywhere. If it wasn’t so SUV feeling, I would have gone that route. I like my sedans.

  793. TexaSD says:

    Cdn- Same here, I just not impressed with the new Acura. My friend Rosie has a Infiniti FX45 its nice, but I already have a SUV, I seen that Cadillac CTS, ehh not impressed with the inside of it. and I have never been a BMW fan…

  794. cleo says:

    CdnGent you are so right about not toyota. that said, i had a honda for years and years and i still mourn it. my new mazda 3 (both are five speeds of coursE) just isn’t as good. i wouldn’t buy it again – i am the only person i know who thinks that but still, it’s too…

    i swear it’s trying to kill me… and the visibility is ASS

  795. TexaSD says:

    Cdn- I love japanese (always had a soft spot for their women lol)I have owned a a couple nissans, no toyotas (not for the recall, but just they don’t do anything for me) I have just been Audi (since its just down the street) but I am thinking maybe a MB, but now you mentioned it, Lexus…. I saw that super car they made, I am in awe of it… Who else is making a nice 4 door nowadays

  796. CdnGent says:

    Infiniti Crossover is a BIG yes. Acura…not so much. Boy, the design on the ZDX is a pretty big disappointment. I haven’t liked the Acura direction the past few years. And I actually really liked my TL and TSX.

  797. cleo says:

    Toronto meet: no one has set any dates, we’re waiting for warmer weather. maybe everyone who wants to come can email… me? i live here and i know most of you. that way, with enough notice, i can likely coordinate nygent, texasd, cdngent and sdn’s travel schedules… that’s all the sd’s into a toronto meet right?
    Lily: i was, now they want younger models.
    SDN: we totally have to do that hockey game, just NOT THIS WEEK (stomach flu) … maybe you can see when your schedule will ease up and we can go cheer for the sabres… (although all my hockey fan attire is blue and white i do love the sabres too)
    CDNGent: well he told me he had a fetish for yoga clothes so i wore them… and i looked hawt. 6′ of muscle hiding in a soft hourglass and covered in form fitting cotton/spandex…

    Midwest i would only mind if it were a date… otherwise i’m all about the impromptu gatherings (some weekend other than this one maybe?)

  798. Beach_ Girl in LA!!! says:

    Hello sugars!

    SDN~ LA meet is next thursday! ๐Ÿ˜€

    Hey everyone and new SDs, SBs!

    Anna took some sun for you, not in a bikini but…. lol

  799. mommapoppins says:

    never drove an Acura, but I love the Infiniti~

  800. CdnGent says:

    Well personally I like an Acura or an Infiniti sedan TexaSD. I have driven Japanese since I got my DL. Honda, Acura, Infiniti, Lexus … but NOT Toyota. Haha!

  801. TexaSD says: