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Sugar Dating: Union of the 99% and 1%?


Many Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies have noticed that the world of  online sugar dating is composed of a very diverse group of people. On SA, people from both ends of the 99% and 1% often intersect in their pursuit of mutually beneficial relationships.

With over 7,500 Sugar Daddy profiles on SA claiming an annual income of over $1 million a year, it’s not surprising that sugars have a unique insight into relationships that involve financial disparities.

Indeed, a major factor in many people’s sugar lives is getting a taste of a ‘different world’…

“. . . Such is wall street. My ex SD [sugar daddy] said it right “Only on wall street you will see people in Rolce Royces taking advice from those riding in a subway.” Smart man he was… and a generous one as well. In order for one to be as generous as he was he would have to be completely comfortable with who he is as a man. As we all know though Wall street is run by insecure basterds who try to prove to the world just how awesome they are.” – NYC SB

Yet another Sugar Baby member wrote to Brandon on his Facebook telling him:

“Hey Brandon, I saw you on Dr. Phil! I think your sites really do empower women. I met someone on the Forbes 400 list through seeking arrangement who is now investing in a business idea of mine. On top of that we have traveled the world together. Traveling has really helped me grow as a person.  Thanks for running great sites!”

From the comments above, it would seem that the world of sugar dating may offer more than just new experiences.  But by connecting the 99% with the 1%, Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies are helping each other improve their lives.  New businesses are launched, and with that more value and wealth created, and with that new jobs for our fractured economy.

One Sugar Baby recently shared she doesn’t take an Sugar Daddy seriously until he spends $1,000 on dinner/entertainment/gifts for her. The ways in which a sugar decides that a pot (potential Sugar Daddy or Sugar Baby) is up to their arrangement standard, will vary based on individual ideas about what makes a supposed sugar a worthy candidate.

How do you tell if an SB/SD is serious?

Do you have a story of sugar empowerment to share?







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86 Responses to “Sugar Dating: Union of the 99% and 1%?”

  1. splash says:

    hey girls,just come across this,very interesting to meet like minded girls,just wondering any girls from london,england?ps this is my first post

  2. Alleycat says:

    @Chine – not cool.

  3. KayCee says:

    *singing “why cant we be friends*

    Omg I swear it’s sooo much easier to find a SD in real life (for me). I met this 27 year old college student/ business owner at starbucks. Not only is he funny and smart, he is nice looking and has freckles! (black man,btw). He gave me his # but I dont know when to text him!!!

  4. Anna Molly says:

    Chine – I suggested she repost here because the blogs have been slow lately and thought maybe she would have a better chance at finding some help if she posted it in a couple of different places! Why the hostility? We are here to support each other not put each other down. Okay? Okay. 🙂

    See, its easy being nice! Besides being negative will make you old before your time and no one wants that! 🙂

  5. KayCee says:

    chine- I have been on SA for all of ( maybe) 3 weeks. I took Anna’s advice and did a re-post in this blog from another. Your ignorance is not needed on this end sweetie.

    BTW, I have a date with a pot sd tomorrow! thanks to all of you who helped me out with the whole profile situation.

    Aphrodite-It is under “KayCee” #762420

    PS- a lady bug just landed next to my laptop ^-^

  6. Aphrodite says:

    I tried to search for your profile KayCee, but couldn’t find it O.o?

  7. chine says:

    Kaycee, you have posted all over the site for ‘help’. Have you ever thought that perhaps you don’t make the cut in the look dept, hence the lack of responses?

  8. KayCee says:

    I really need help with my profile. I get alot of views, and no messages! 🙁 Im not bad looking, 20y/o black female, no drama/baggage, im not “ghetto”, I even have a job and go to school! Help! Profile#-762420

  9. Anna Molly says:

    I’m going to the city for a couple of days! I’ve been invited to a Gala, should be fun, fun, fun! My treats are a little late, but worth the wait. 😀

  10. Midwest SB aka Cougarlicious says:

    Thanks chica. In a way, it helps solve a lot of issues at once, so I’m fine. Plus, better to find out now. I can keep trying and shoot for late summer.

    How was the sugar weekend sugars? Did you get any treats?

  11. Anna Molly says:

    I’m sorry Midwest. 🙁

  12. Midwest SB aka Cougarlicious says:

    Well…the best laid plans fell through 🙁 FL will have to wait. I hate it when people aren’t sincere. You would think after all this screening of SDs that I could tell a genuine job offer. I’m sad, but have to believe there’s a reason beyond my knowledge.

    In the meantime, I guess just visiting will have to do 🙂

  13. Midwest SB aka Cougarlicious says:

    Hey Nico! I’m working on it 🙂

  14. Nico says:

    Hello AM…there is another blog topic but nobody is posting there either 🙁 It’s been realllllly slow 🙁

    Congrats MW on the upcoming graduation!!!!! Are you still thinking of relocating?

  15. MissLunah says:

    a blog not a blong.. 🙂

  16. MissLunah says:

    I am trying to make a blong.. but the website is not working :(((( btw how do you get featured? :PPP

  17. Anna Molly says:

    Maybe a new blog topic would help! 😀

  18. Anna Molly says:

    I can’t believe no one has posted yet! I feel so alone… 🙁

  19. Anna Molly says:

    Well, it’s showing up with my old address, but not the new one…oh well, I guess I’ll just use the old one. 🙂

  20. Anna Molly says:

    Hmmm, my new avatar isn’t showing up yet…

  21. Anna Molly says:

    The blog has been sooo slow lately!

  22. Anna Molly says:

    Morning Sugars! Wherever you are….

  23. peony says:

    Hmm…I know you can make chat rooms where you need to sign in using e-mail, facebook, twitter, so you wouldn’t have to worry about random people about joining. Other than setting a time and advertising it, I think it might not be such a hard thing to do!

  24. MissLunah says:

    Cool! I think I am going to start it! Do you have any tips on how to get started?

  25. peony says:

    @MissLunah – I agree, a chat room would be a wonderful thing! I can’t get enough of these SB/SD blogs, all the comments and topics brought up are so interesting to read!

  26. Anna Molly says:

    Hey Midwest! Things are going okay. He is seeing someone besides me so I’m thinking about jumping back into the sugar bowl. Should I? Hmmmm…

    Graduation is around the corner! I’m so happy for you! 😀
    Hope you feel better soon!

  27. Midwest SB aka Cougarlicious says:

    Hey ladies! I’m under the weather and in a funk 🙁 I’ll keep you company for a bit until I’m motivated to study for tomorrow’s exam. Seven weeks to graduation!

    AM – How is the rekindling going? Have you been riding lately?

    Welcome LoveLee1~ Pretty pic! There have been lots of suggestions for better ways to screen. We have a nice little network of SBs but it barely scratches the surface. We always say screen relentlessly and trust your gut! Good thing you caught on quickly.

  28. MissLunah says:

    Good morning!

    An idea…. how fun would it be if there was a chatroom for verified members? I think the only drawback would be the fact that people would abuse it… as with everything else

  29. Anna Molly says:

    Morning everyone! Hopefully the blog will be busy today! Where is everyone?

    Welcome to the new bloggers! 😀

  30. The Love Lee1 says:

    This blog hit the spot… I had to let go of my SD because he placed me in a uncompromising position with lies… Yes he took on the role of being my SD and helped me out only for companionship over the phone (can’t beat that) and I thought we took the right approach in getting to know one another even before we met for dinner…BUT until too early on he 1. started using the I love you which was on the 2nd date and 2. wanted to make me his wife thinking that I needed a husband over a SD.. My intuition kicked in but too lat and only to be confronted by his wife whom had 4 boys that were 5 years of age (yes Quadruplets)…Being upfront and honest would have spared us all a messed up day!

    Its hard to spot out the real from the unrealistic or the man that think SB means escort. If everyone is up front with the truth and knowing the real definition of a SD/SB relationship (defined by those individuals) then it would save us SB time in searching for the right SD and or companion. I am a SD that’s seeking to get to the next level in life with the help of a SD that wants (not needs) a companion with a mutual agreement set, someone to enjoy life with when times permits NOT a man that needs to get fixed everyday and back to basics by next week or the lies.

    Wish us SB had a wand to sort through the BS so that we all can be happy! [img]http://images.seekingarrangement.com/prod/photos/19D9E0537972E02CF24FF92FF6AC01DBJA.jpg[/img]

  31. The Love Lee1 says:

    This blog hit the spot… I had to let go of my SD because he placed me in a uncompromising position with lies… Yes he took on the role of being my SD and helped me out only for companionship over the phone (can’t beat that) and I thought we took the right approach in getting to know one another even before we met for dinner…BUT until too early on he 1. started using the I love you which was on the 2nd date and 2. wanted to make me his wife thinking that I needed a husband over a SD.. My intuition kicked in but too lat and only to be confronted by his wife whom had 4 boys that were 5 years of age (yes Quadruplets)…Being upfront and honest would have spared us all a messed up day!

    Its hard to spot out the real from the unrealistic or the man that think SB means escort. If everyone is up front with the truth and knowing the real definition of a SD/SB relationship (defined by those individuals) then it would save us SB time in searching for the right SD and or companion. I am a SD that’s seeking to get to the next level in life with the help of a SD that wants (not needs) a companion with a mutual agreement set, someone to enjoy life with when times permits NOT a man that needs to get fixed everyday and back to basics by next week or the lies.

    Wish us SB had a wand to sort through the BS so that we all can be happy!

  32. Enigma SD says:

    JennyMae I didnt say ALL athletic were overweight. I too listed myself as athletic upon the advice of pot sbs. My point was the listings are ambiguous and one should consider listing the most favorable and let the pot decide.

    Frank – just be honest. Be prepared for her to say anything, and I do mean anything, to keep it alive if she thinks she has a good deal. Hold strong if you arent willing to give her another chance.

  33. Anna Molly says:

    The blog is slow today, isn’t it?

  34. Midwest SB aka Cougarlicious says:

    Frank – I agree with the others…be honest. Some offer a month of “severance” just to ease the transition or to give her time to find another SD, but don’t do that unless you truly mean it. It’s always great to end things on a good note as sugar can be a great way to network. Welcome!

  35. Alleycat says:

    @Frank – just have an open conversation with her, tell her that you think that you are not the person for her, call it quits and provide one extra allowance on your normal schedule.

    That way it all feels good for all concerned, she is not left without money, and has plenty of time to get a job. Don’t make up a story, she will see through it right away anyway.

  36. Anna Molly says:

    I would put average on my profile. Of course, what is average to some may not be average to others. And let’s not forget that we are our worst critics so I feel it’s really up to the gentleman to decide if I have the right body type for him. However, there is more to me than just an hourglass figure and big boobs! When you let your true, confident self shine through, that can be just as sexy as your physical appearance. On the other side of the coin you have those men who are so shallow all they’re interested in are your physical atributes. I stay away from the shallow types, I find them truly ugly.

    Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that physical attraction isn’t important in a relationship because it is, but, the relationship shouldn’t be based solely on the physical aspect.

  37. Rachel says:

    I had “average” on my profile… And… After many people from here mentioned that I am SLIM I then changed my profile. I will tell you that not one pot has said they were disappointed. When I had “average” I was consistently told by pots that I was not average… So, I would advise to go with what your pots are saying!

  38. Anna Molly says:

    Frank ~ IMHO honesty is always the way to go. I would just tell her that things aren’t working out and you feel it’s best if both of you move on.

    Good luck!

  39. frank says:

    Hello everyone,

    I have been lurking off and on for while, and have learned a lot from everyone’s comments. Now I am asking for some advice. I have been with this sugar baby for about 4 months now, we see each other over lunch for an hour or so every two weeks or so. We weren’t a perfect match but it was close enough for awhile, but I am ready to move on. I know its supposed to be NSA, but how do I end the relationship. She has been getting money from me on a recurring basis, and probably would have to get a job if this stopped.

    Would it be better if I made up a story as to why its ending (such as my wife is suspicious), tell her I am getting fickle and am ready to move on, or is there something else to say I haven’t thought of.

    Any helpful comments will be appreciated. Thanks

  40. Jenny mae says:

    Lunah — I think all women compare themselves to a size 0 because thats what we see in magazines . If any man would call you fat to your face then thats not a person you would want to be with anyone , and Id take it as a blessing you weeded them out quickly .

  41. MissLunah says:

    Hey thanks for the great insights!!! Maybe instead of body type we should put size… because sizes are more or less the same for everybody… If a girl wears M… then the guy pretty much can get an idea how big she is. In my eyes … I have a few extra punds.. but I’ve never had problem attracting men.. in fact they would always say that they liked my curves etc.. I don’t know… I just don’t want to meet someone that will say straight up ; “You’re not average – you’re fat”… I think I would roll in a ball and cry… Yet again… I am comparing myself to size 0 not the “average” girls on here.

  42. Jenny mae says:

    Im not sure what other SB s do , but I have to personally disagree with the above . I put athletic because I am . Im actually underweight for my height, as well as my BMI being under the average for my height . But I work out , am very active , and I model . However to me saying youre “slim” equates to skinny ( ie 90lbs and built like a 12 year old boy) So i think its pretty clear that Im not a few pounds overweight . So if youre really what you say you are , wheres the option for just being who you say you are ? Can we add a new category ? lol . Why women would lie about what they look like has always been beyond me , they have to know if they meet the guy IRL , of course the guy is going to be let down if you show up 20lbs heavier than your pic , so why set yourself up for failure ?

  43. Enigma SD says:

    Heck MissLunah — many that are a few pounds overweight put athletic (both SDs and SBs). A lot of the slim SBs are really average. I have also noticed that many of the younger SBs (say 23 and under) will put average when in fact I would consider them slim — maybe they are comparing themselves to their friends. Not really sure if average means average for society (about 20 pounds overweight) or it means height and weight proportionate. Go for average or athletic and let the SD screen on the pictures.

  44. CloseToIt says:

    @ Miss Lunah : if you are always considered as a very attractive girl and you know that you make the heads turn when you walk even though you have a bit of extra weight, then put average for sure. Anyway, also put a photo that doesn’t lie so, what matters is the picture, not if you are average of a bit extra. I agree that a bit extra seems to be seen like BIG by everybody, so if you are just a bit extra, put average. That’s what I did and I found nice sugardaddys. At the beginning I had put ” a bit extra weight” and each time a guy was seing me in real or on the webcam, they said, well you are not big at all!… And then I was saying that I had put a bit extra and not Big, that’s them who exagerated it.
    good luck Miss Lunah
    p.s. PunkRockSD you rock!

  45. MissLunah says:

    Hello again… I had a question… I have been looking at other SB profiles and I have noticed that a lot of “above the average girls” put average as their weight. I put “a few extra pounds” because I wanted to be honest, but it seems like I am a lot smaller than the girls than consider themselves average… if I put that I am average I am going to feel like I am not being honest.. but I do not want ppl to think I am some obese beast 🙂 Any tips??

  46. Anna Molly says:

    Hey Beach! I will make sure to email you soon! 😀

    Hope everyone’s week is off to a good start! 🙂

  47. If my Punk Rock Sugar Baby made a Flaming Dr Pepper before 9 AM I would be in love…

    Fill a shot glass with 3 parts Amaretto and 1 part Bacardi 151 (layered over the Amaretto). The shot is then set on fire and dropped into a glass half-filled with Pabst Blue Ribbon.

    Making out with your PRSD with a 9 am buzz is fully optional but highly encouraged.

  48. The Lone Gunman says:

    If an SD meetup is decided on, would someone mind keeping me in the loop?


  49. Beach_Girl says:

    Hello Sugars!

    AM~ it’s been so long, mail me girl!!!
    GenuineSD~ how have you been

    Hi everyone, just saying hi… welcome newbies
    talk to you all soon

  50. Rachel says:

    Okay… I need some new places in NYC and beantown for sugar dates…. I’m getting bored of the same ol same ol. Any recommendations?

  51. Anna Molly says:

    I used to drink soda for breakfast, but I don’t drink soda anymore or coffee. Those were hard habits to break! 😀

  52. MissLunah says:

    Also, I had another question… does writing a blog helps? I write a private journal, but I guess it could turn into a blog.. is it something that SDs like or is it a little too ” public”… I have ready many blogs written both by SDs and SBs.. and I think that either party could feel uncomfortable with other person writing blogs about them etc.. what do you all think about it?

  53. MissLunah says:

    Alleycat… I am in Az as well… may I ask you a few questions about how does the whole thing work for you, and how you arrange the travel.. and even if there is anything fun to do here?

  54. Alleycat says:

    But has to be on the weekend, Friday or Saturday night!

  55. Alleycat says:

    Enigma – NYC is difficult as I am single parent with sole custody of young daughter. Makes multi-day trips difficult. If it was somewhere in the southwest, no problem.

  56. Enigma SD says:

    p.s Alleycat — I drink diet coke or diet Dr. Pepper at breakfast too — I have mild ADD – but never used that excuse — I just prefer it over coffee.

  57. Enigma SD says:

    Hey Sincere — I would be up for an SD meeting. Things are pretty well. I will be in NYC in mid-December – maybe we can go find some IRL SBs?? I could use a good wingman!

    Alleycat — you up for a trip to NYC?

  58. Alleycat says:

    Genuine – yes. I am in AZ. Where are you?

  59. Alleycat says:

    Hi Kindred, Gail, Nico, Genuine, AM & NM, Bugatti, lurkers et al – hope we all had a great weekend!

    Had my first overnighter with new SB, she is local, mostly went pretty well. Stayed at a v cool Hyatt resort nearby. We had spent a lot of time talking in our first coffee meets about a whole range of subjects, but there was a very slight missing connection that I couldn’t quite figure out, wasn’t sure if she was nervous or what. Cute, smart, funny, teacher, really like her and just full of energy. We were both a little bit nervous about making sure it went well, so it was a little bit awkward at times, but was still fun. Healthy living, exercise, outdoors – lots in common.

    So at breakfast this morning she has a Dr Pepper – really? I mentioned in passing that Dr Pepper is full of sh*t, and she said that it works for her, because she has ADHD and the caffeine in DP calms her down – I guess that would explain the full-of-energy thing!!! lol. So we hung out in the pool today for a few hours, talking and just hanging out. It was all good.

    You never know what you are going to uncover when you keep on asking questions! Looking forward to seeing more of her, but it will be 3-4 weeks as we both have young kids and it will be a while before we have free weekends.

  60. Bugatti says:

    Hi Peony, your data sounds nice, I guess you should see how things go. As for me, I have been receiving very weird emails from Pervs. I block them, but would be very happy to forward the messages to the site administrators.
    NJbaby and peony, i think NYC SB meetup would be nice, would be lovely.

  61. GenuineSD says:

    Perhaps the SDs should get together for a weekend ?
    Any interest ?

  62. GenuineSD says:

    Evening all ! A beautiful sugar weekend here. Hope you’re doing well.
    How are things Kindred ? Good evening Enigma, how are things ?

  63. DallasBaby says:

    peony: I would just let it flow and see how it goes. Once he gets super generous then you can also.

  64. peony says:

    Hey guys!!

    It’s so nice to see so much support, I was so nervous!!

    The date was amazing! I was nervous about what to talk about, and how to act in an upscale restaurant (Olive Garden is as far as I go :P). We ended up chatting about our passions for 3 hours over an amazing meal. I didn’t feel uncomfortable or awkward and let my personality shine.

    He texted me when he got home and said that he had a great time and would like to see me again, yay! The only thing is, during dinner he mentioned he’s unfamiliar with the whole SD/SB arrangement and that his assistant had set him up on the site. He’s comfortable talking about financial assistance, but I’m kind of unsure what he’s looking for… He’s seems very successful, I’ve done my research and he’s completely truthful, and he’s also a diamond daddy. I just hope it all works out! Any thoughts?

    @NJbaby – YES! An SB meetup sounds great!

  65. Gail says:

    Waving at everyone….especially Lisa : ) I know your lurking…lol…..

    Hiya Nico, AM and KS : )

    It’s morning here in Calif…still doing housework.

    Last Saturday I spent the afternoon at the Coach Store with my daughter. Three purses and two wallets later….we had to have cheap chineese for dinner. It was well worth it..now I have something pretty to put my sugar in.

    Welcome new sugars!!! I agree with Nico…I would love to hear about your journey in the sugarworld. Even though my time has come to an end, your stories bring back unforgettable memories,

  66. Kindred Spirit says:

    *Waves to all* 😀

    Hope you had a successful date, Peony.mem!

  67. Anna Molly says:

    Good Morning All!! I hope everyone has had a wonderful weekend so far! I’m counting the hours until the new episode of Dexter comes on. 😀

    Have a good day everyone! 😉

  68. Nico says:

    Wow – many new faces!! Welcome!!!

    Peony ~ good luck with your fist date! You will do well, I’m sure. Post back – would love to hear how things went!

    Where are are the seasoned posters? >*echo*echo*<

  69. NJbaby says:

    @Bugatti and peony.mem, I’m just outside NYC! SB meetup???

  70. pinkpetunia says:

    Hello everyone! Kind of been poking around and been reading, and decided for once to jump into the fray. Just starting out in this sugar stuff, but am super excited!

  71. peony.mem says:

    @Bugatti – I’m new to this and currently living in nyc! I actually have to leave for my first date with a pot SD in 3 minutes! Just wanted to get some reassurance from a couple blog posts 🙂

  72. MissLunah says:

    Yeah I am not sure if that gay bar still exists there.. but I know for a fact that the rock bar/club is there (it’s called Anchor)… they have live music etc… But I would mainly go to Dirty Harrys, Medusa or Rocks… and if you really into fun.. check out DekaDance club in sthlm… (hihi google it) 🙂 You will both enjoy it .. I promise 🙂

  73. @MissLunah I am already planning a trip to take my PRSB to Amsterdam and I might just squeeze Stockholm into the mix because it is so incredibly cool. I’ve never met a Swede I didn’t like!

    I’m from Los Angeles, and I’ve actually been to many gay bars here (a lot of my clients are openly gay) and it’s not that uncommon to see pretty heavily tattooed vato gang members throwing gang signs and making out with each other. I’m not talking about Mickey’s in West Hollywood, I’m talking about Rough Trade in Silver Lake and ABC on Santa Monica.

  74. MissLunah says:

    PunkRockSD Well.. If you wanna go to some neat rocker places go to Stockholm… some real shi* not some pus*yas* hot topic posers. In fact there is a funny story about it, one of the rock clubs I used to go to was right across the street from a gay bar… And of course… there are nice people and there are assholes 🙂 And so few of the big bikers would drink… talk shit and then go over to the gay bar “to beat up the faggots” … well of course our lovely gay boys take care of themselves instead of sitting in a bar drink beer and talk shit.. so they would whoop all the bikers arses properly… So all they would do is come back ahd wheep for the rest of the night that the others had an unfair advantage… hehehe… such a heart-warming story 🙂

  75. @MissLunah Nope, Punk Rock is a big part of this SD’s lifestyle. It’s grossly under-represented here, and I think a lot of successful 30-something SDs could really enjoy a night out with a cute Punk Rock Sugar Baby!

    Don’t get me wrong, a night out at Yamashiro is cool, but take me out to your local dive bar and I’ll be yours forever….

  76. Bugatti says:

    @Nat I really cannot say, I have 26 views ( I joined 2days ago) but no emails yet. fingers crossed.

  77. MissLunah says:

    PunkRockSugarDaddy – Have you ever wrota a paragraph without “Punk Rock” in it.. hehe :)?

  78. Ashton says:

    J – this wouldn’t be someone in Utah, would it?

  79. PunkRockSugarDaddy says:

    It shouldn’t come as a surprise that some SDs look over the fence and envy what’s on the other side too. Do you think we can just waltz into a dive bar and experience the unbridled youth of Punk Rock excess alone? Sometimes a Sugar Baby can open the SDs eyes to new places and experiences too, most of which cannot be bought for any price. I’ve experienced it!

  80. Nat says:

    @Bugatti, I am also new too this! Not in NY though, how are you finding it?

  81. Bugatti says:

    I recently just joined the site and am new to SD relationship so i cannot really tell if a SD is serious, i guess i just have to follow my instincts.

    I am looking to update on the blog my experiences in finding a daddy as they unfolds, if there are any sugar babies in new york that want to be friends, please i would appreciate.

    *now back to reading older blog posts*

  82. Enigma SD says:

    J — try emailing support at seekingarrangement dot com Provide the profile number and the details of what happened. I am sorry that you had a bad experience.

  83. Semi-newbie says:

    Third. I’ve decided that I shall stop lurking and pitch in. I’ve been reading the old blogs dated two years ago and am pleasantly surprised by how fast the concept of sugar relationship and the understanding of the concept matured.
    @NYC SB
    Kudos!! Well said in the quote! But we all know you are already this eloquent and smart since two years ago.

  84. J says:

    How can one go about reporting another user for fraudulent behavior?

  85. Rachel says:

    New topic and for once I am first!

    How can I tell if an SD is serious…. First and foremost… He does what he says he will do. If he says he wants to meet me at —– at whatever time… He is on time and looks like he cares about his presentation to me… Yes guys do it too… The whole show up in sweats. I mean, I wear them too, but not to meet a pot! I base a LOT on the first meeting, and, most guys don’t get past the first meeting to the second (where I tend to bring up specific arrangement necessities). I also trust my gut… If I sense something is “off” I steer clear!

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