In the last blog post, I introduced all of you to Jennifer, our new PR assistant. I also mentioned that while I was interviewing her for the position, one of the things that got me really excited about her was an article she wrote as part of her interviewing process, justifying why SeekingArrangement.com is a wonderful service. I also promised to share with all of you what she wrote.
So here it is, Jennifer’s article on why she thinks a Sugar Baby is the modern day Princess in search of her Prince:
So, you want a Sugar Daddy? But it just sounds SO dirty, right? The thought of having someone pay your bills and spoil you with money and gifts in exchange for – various methods of affection, sounds kind of off-putting (or awesome?). But it’s not for everyone, and you may have a hard time explaining the concept to people who find any unconventional relationship – shameful.
But if you think about it, every girl has that moment, where they fantasize about having a Sugar Daddy. You wander through Walmart, scoffing at the selection of goods available in your price range, wishing you had some wealthy benefactor to keep your closet filled with Loubies, or maybe just provide a more sustainable diet than Ramen noodles while you finish college. Then, you’ll probably laugh it off as an unattainable fantasy, an impossibility that never really happens in real life. I mean, you probably thought your prince would come someday too, right? But he still isn’t here, and you’re still stuck with student loans that you will spend decades paying back. Because unless your name is Kate Middleton, then becoming a princess really is well, just a fairy tale.
So you chalk it up to a childhood fantasy, planted by Disney, and then you move on with your mediocre life. Eventually, that little girl grows up and somewhere along the line she gets burned. You learn not to rest your dreams upon the illusions of your childhood, and begin to start searching for something, more realistic. But what if you didn’t have to give up that fairy tale?
There may not be enough members of the royal family to go around, but princes do come in other forms, like a dapper trust fund baby or a hardworking, successful business man. Prince Charming doesn’t even always come in the biggest package with the bright red bow, even the Beast turned out to be a pleasant and yes, wealthy man. Believe it or not, those “Sugar Daddies” you once had a fleeting thought about and the prince of your childhood – could be one in the same. You just have to alter your fairy tale a bit.
Most girls give up on their fairy tale entirely, but this isn’t necessary. Why settle for mediocrity when you can have everything you want? There is a place where princes are looking for girls to spoil, modern day knights in shining armor looking for a pretty girl to wear on his arm. A place where a wannabe princess can find a modern day prince: a wealthy business man or successful entrepreneur, who is looking for a beautiful girl to turn into his princess.
SeekingArrangement.com brings the 1% to the 99%, the top tier of dashing suitors, to the masses of disgruntled and unsatisfied women. Our sugar babies define their perfect relationship including the benefits they wish to receive, and BOOM—they are matched with someone who is willing to help make their fairy tale come true. Will you fall in love with your sugar daddy and live happily ever after? Maybe, maybe not – but it certainly does happen.
You will find that our Sugar Daddies are willing to provide you the lifestyle you desire in exchange for exactly whatever you are willing to give. It may not be the fairy tale you originally envisioned but you know, it’s actually pretty close. Let’s face it, by now you have probably been with many “frogs” who did not keep up with their end of the bargain. Why not find a relationship that isn’t one sided? Why not date someone that actually has the means to take care of you?
Not all sugar babies fall in love and live happily ever after, but many find that they can have the relationships they want, or find an arrangement that works for them. Seeking Arrangement provides the means to find those kinds of relationships. The Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies on Seeking Arrangement know exactly what they want out of a relationship and come here to find someone who is looking to provide it. If you’re tired of kissing frogs and ready to upgrade to a prince who is waiting to take over the reins, the sugar baby lifestyle may be for you.
Some Sugar Babies are just looking for a business partner, others just want to sit in the lap of luxury, and are willing to do anything in order to fund their lavish tastes. Others are looking for love, or at least companionship, and they have high expectations that are rarely met in a typical relationship. Every member of Seeking Arrangement has different expectations, but most find that they can get exactly what they were looking for; if they throw out the conventional fairy tale in lieu of a new one.
What do you think of Jennifer’s essay?
Are there any specific points you agree or disagree with?
Do you think the Disney princess meet prince fairy tales had any impact in your life?
Did you grow up dreaming of becoming a princess or finding your prince?