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5 Ways for Sugar Daddies to Become Bond
  • Posted Nov 16, 2012


Believe it or not, you don’t have to be a dapper, plot-foiling, English super-spy to attract women. James Bond is more than just a man–he is a mindset. He is the definition of cool, classy, and sophisticated–even while under gunfire. Here are five ways to channel your inner Bond and get the girl, without having to save the world .

1.) The Man Makes the Suit

Some may say assert that the “suit makes the man,” but Bond would wholeheartedly disagree. Any jerk in a suit…well, is still a jerk. Dressing impeccably only gets one so far. A woman appreciates the quintessential gentleman: one who respects both himself and others. If you treat a woman with the utmost reverence, while looking good doing so, you’re destined for a happy ending.

2.) Quiet Reserve

Reveal yourself gradually, not all at once. Mystery creates intrigue, and intrigue creates attraction. A woman doesn’t want to hear your entire life story in one sitting. Garner interest throughout the date by sharing unique quirks/hobbies/insight that relate to her or the conversation. Ultimately, your goal in a date is to create comfort through threads of commonality. A woman who feels comfortable around a man is more likely to cozy up to a man.

3.) Attention Undivided

For those who don’t have the one-liner wit of Bond, know this: charm is a quality that stems from attentiveness. Pay full attention to your sugar, otherwise you may miss important details. How is Bond able to “read between the lines” and effortlessly attract the opposite sex? He focuses on more than just her words–he reacts to her looks and responds to her body language. If you like her attire, commend her sense of style. If you notice her leaning closer, then reciprocate. The more receptive you are, the more likely you are to take the date to the next level.

4.) Dare to be Daring

Don’t think. Just let it happen.” – James Bond

Always leave all reservations at the door. Of course, a little liquid courage won’t hurt (“Shaken, not stirred”). Expect the unplanned and learn to be impulsive. If the night leads somewhere past dinner, then go without hesitation. Women will notice this and appreciate your sense of self-confidence.

5.) Embrace “Now”

“[James], enjoy it while it lasts.”
“The very words I live by.” –James Bond

When dating, take every opportunity as it comes. Focus on “right now,” not “before” or “after.” If things went sour with your previous sugar, learn to move on and leave your baggage. Whatever you do, avoid sharing negative experiences with your current interest. Dwelling on previous mismatches makes one self-conscious, not confident. Remember, a first-date is merely a measure of compatibility, not the search for a life partner. If things progress from the first date, then good for you. If not, then there are plenty of other women waiting to be charmed.

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68 Responses to “5 Ways for Sugar Daddies to Become Bond”

  1. sugar says:

    oh no! unbelieveable!

  2. James.m says:

    Just a small feast for 13 plus a wild 2 year old:

    Oysters Mosca
    sweet potato and pear bisque
    turkey and gravy
    mashed potatoes
    braised winter vegetables
    pumpkin pie
    cafe brulot

    I think I’ve finally found a way to stay out of the middle of all of the inter-family “stuff” that goes on when we all get together. I just cook! Thank heavens for not just two ovens, but two whole kitchens!

    Dr. C has lured me out of retirement (again), and I’m having a ball. Traveling too much, and working long hours, but having great fun and doing some good stuff. He is such a brilliant guy.

    You have my email, so you know how to reach me (oh, don’t you just!), so let me know how you all are doing.

    Happy Thanksgiving to all of you I haven’t met yet…and when Midwest speaks, LISTEN!


  3. frank says:

    one handed frank here.

    nerve block still working, holding oxyconin in reserve.

    good night everyone! thanks for your positive comments!!

  4. JustATequilaSD says:

    YOU’RE in the hosp not me. These are the words you’d be using if you wanted her to (stay) or (go). You wanted to know how to break it off? The words are simple, and if you need more inspiration read Flyr’s comment above until you’re pissed enough to get through a barrage of excuses and then insults.

    You know he won’t listen…he’s a man. If he’s asking how to break it off, then there probably was still a spark of hope left that would hear out the lame excuse he’s already expecting and waiting for.

    No prob, jump in the middle all you want. Can you send us the video from that contest?

  5. Midwest SB says:

    Honey – I got nothin’ 🙂

  6. Midwest SB says:

    James M – **waving madly** Hello and hope you are preparing a feast to beat all feasts!

    Flyer – Thank you!

    Frank – Bwahahahaha – GOOD thing I kept reading. Sometimes the humor can be lost online.

    Nancy – Thanks for being a great sport!

  7. Honey says:

    Frank, be safe and good luck, everything is going to be all right and I know we all wanna hear back from you AFTER your SUCCESSFUL surgery!!!
    Teqsd- That’s me, always jumping in the middle of things without knowing what is going on, even though I did win a strip trivia contest last time I jumped in without knowing all that was going on….
    I’m bored and exhausted at the same time.. what’s been going on with everybody. Annamolly,midwest? russia,anybody? anybody… what up? lol

  8. flyr says:


    “.. She cancelled without notice,
    On top of this she asked for her allowance in advance,
    which I gave her.

    Is she giving me a message? ”

    There’s a magical machine in most homes that helps decode these messages. Stand in front of the mirror with you face 6″ from the glass and repeat what you said above………the answer will appear

    Before the process make clear in your mind if the allowance was a monthly or biweekly allowance paid on a schedule or normally delivered with each visit. It makes some difference.

  9. Frank says:

    NancySB-sorry I lost my sense of humor. To make up for it I am sending you that paypal thingy now. I have had more communication with you lately than my real time SB.

    To every body else, thanks for your well wishes. I go under the knife at 11 today (not actually under the knife, I think they use a hole puncher)

    JustATequila, good luck on your hospital stay. I have been seeing my SB for about 3 months now, we usually see each other once a week. Don’t know why she stood me up, I expect her to text me with some lame excuse. I think the joke’s going to be on her, since her birthday is coming up in 2 weeks!

  10. JustATequilaSD says:

    Jack is in CR. i was merely commenting on his smooth talk, and how i was going to use it when i do some of my own “Bond-ary”.

    (Stay) What time are you going to be at the hosp? You know my surgery is Monday.
    (Go) I’m sorry, but I don’t think this is going to work.

    Since it’s not a traditional relationship, does she realize you expect her to be there when you’re not taking her to dinner or having sex? I don’t know the details of the arrangement so I’m just curious.

  11. NancySB/LA says:

    @Leila omg.. he was serious?
    fuck me…
    Sorry @frank
    Hope you have a speedy recovery… And yes. That is not nice of her.

  12. RussianSB says:

    @Frank, while arthroscopy they not really ”cut” you,yeah 🙂
    just a little. Jack knows for sure !

  13. Leila says:

    @ nancySBLA, loooool! That was a classic! Go easy on the humor! Frank is going under the knife…

    @ frank,I wish I had a SD like you.Although i am not certain of the relationship you have with her,I think she’s just plain cold! I hope you it works out for you in the end.

  14. RussianSB says:

    Oh, man, who interested in hugs anyway ? And you have just one hand free for computer (what else you need?). And plenty of sexy nurses around. Nurses officially good SBs !
    Nurses, teachers, waiters, shop-assistants and strippers !
    One Russian boy ask me to ”google” him before meeting in restorant to impress me 🙂
    Then I google myself and find 100 different people at local ”My Space” ! Good to have popular name 🙂

  15. NancySB/LA says:

    I was teasing back- obviously we don’t know each other.

  16. Frank says:

    Nancysb, what are you talking about girl?

    And just why am I supposed to be sending you money, I am missing something here.

    RussiaSB, thanks for advice, they are doing repair by arthroscopy, so I will be out same day. Arm will be in a sling for 6 weeks so I’ll doing my hugging one armed, may cut down on the number of SB knocking on my hospital room.

  17. Honey says:

    Frank, save yourself the time…she doesn’t sound serious at all…and her timing…

  18. Flyer says:

    @midwest. Have a wonderful thanksgiving

  19. NancySB/LA says:

    i didn’t get the money on paypal yet… resend?

  20. Flyer says:

    Screen rights just went to 100k

  21. NancySB/LA says:


    I cannot go to Thanksgiving Thursday with you anymore, because your family scare me
    Your dad always gets drunk, slaps my bum and proceeds to tell all those nasty stories about when he was in the navy in Rio,
    Your exwife goes through my purse stealing all my pills and phone numbers out of my phone,
    and your goddamn brother is always trying to lure me into some dark corner or try finger me in the kitchen!

    I can’t do it anymore, frank! I won’t!

    Thank you Midwest and flyer, I will do my best to be kind, but direct in all my undertakings with my SD’s.

  22. RussianSB says:

    After being offered position SB+babysitter, SB+BDSM – I start thinking that US really have crisis… before I didn’t believe it, you know, powerful country , keeping control over the world markets, Fort Knox keeping all that arabic money… Just cannot have any crisis 🙂

  23. RussianSB says:

    @Frank – let it go, here are plenty of nymphomaniac SBs who want check quality of your surgery after 🙂 Now they have WiFi on plane, what about WiFi at hospitals – it is allowed ?? If so, time will fly, be goood !

  24. frank says:

    Hey everybody,

    Been lurking in background for a while.

    Will have more time to participate as I will be laid up for a couple of weeks with rotator cuff surgery.

    May need the same advice as NancySB/LA as my sugar baby stood me up today. She postponed our meet Thursday until Sunday, and knowing I am going under the knife Monday, didn’t even bother to call me to cancel. On top of this she asked for her allowance in advance, which I gave her.

    Is she giving me a message? Or maybe its time for me to give her a message.

    Any advice from my sugars in crime?

  25. James.m says:

    Hi, Midwest!

  26. Midwest SB says:

    Hey sugars!!!

    I have had more fun than one person should lately just doing the normal stuff without the added sugar…great friends rock!

    Genuine (old?) Jack – Nicely said!

    New Jack – Welcome!

    NancySB/LA – I find one of two responses work nicely…”we are looking for different things, I wish you well in your search” or ….nothing at all. Some people are not worth inviting the unpleasant exchange of words, especially if they don’t take rejection well.

  27. Honey says:

    Hello everybody, I hope everyone has a short happy work week,don’t get trampled at the black Friday sales!
    justaTequila- How long are you going to be in CR? I’ll be there Friday!!! I won’t bogart your trip, but small world, huh? And like everybody else in CR, I KNOW somebody in the tourist industry!lol.

  28. Tina says:

    @flyr: you takin’ my Texas sayings? It’s ok, I like you, you can use them 😉

  29. flyr says:

    Nancy (contd)

    It’s best to terminate with a positive message; but sometimes that does not work . Responding with ugly to ugly is not going to help you, but there are times when it just needs to be done.

    In Texas they have a saying that a particular person just needed a good killin.

    Sometimes you need to verbally exterminate someone for the good of society but not as a habit. .

  30. RussianSB says:

    @Tequila, really nice of you to offer that.
    @ Turky Day ”on approach”, Dear ! Happy Turkey for you !

  31. flyr says:

    Nancy SBLA

    “The Agist
    So I am having sex with this guy, and he’s like ‘baby tell ”

    is there an extra stipend for verbal Viagra

    There’s an awful lot of material here that would make a great screenplay or TV series……………….

  32. Tina says:

    state line, not start line…..nuts!

  33. Tina says:

    @Tequila: You know the saying – everything is bigger in Texas 😉 Cross the start line and watch things grow…..

    @Jack: you are most welcome dearest! And I guess I should have called you “Genuine Jack” instead of “Old Jack”. 🙂

  34. RussianSB says:

    @Jack, Costa Rica will do, if you ready sacrifice yourself. 🙂

  35. Treasured says:

    @Tequila – Of course I am 😀 I absolutely love perving over the posts in vain hope to find something explicit 😀


    But just a bit too busy to post myself 😀

  36. JustATequilaSD says:

    Good form, very nicely done. Please allow me to copy and paste from this comment at will.
    re: Bond
    This Jack Bond is also very smooth debonair character with the classical bond stylings. Perhaps not as rugged as Daniel Craig, but definitely a way with words and obviously a cool hand with at least 2 women in the last week. Have a good trip in CR.

  37. Jack says:

    Old (but young) Jack here,

    Just landed in Costa Rica, raining outside, figured I’d check the blog and see what’s happening and kaboom–I’ve gotten laid twice in the past week and din’t even know it!! And I’m told the women were gorgeous and the romps were first class. Hell, nobody invited me to my own party!!

    All kidding aside, thank you Tina, Treasured and Russian for “standing by me.” Of course, neither I nor ANY of the Bonds would ever “kiss and tell”–and MOST certainly not on a blog! Besides, we do not view sexual liasons as “conquests” to be announced to the world as much as we view them as the natural order of life between a beautiful, classy lady and a suave and debonair self-confident male. And aself-confident male does not shout these things from the rooftops (figuratively speaking). Nuff said.

    Henceforth I will sign off as “Old (Young) Jack” although I am confident all can tell me from the “new” jack pretty easily.

    Treasured and Russian, I would consider it an honor to assist in addressing the needs of which you both speak, were it not for my beyond-crazy schedule. But I promise I will make all efforts one of these days to make it at least to Europe, if not all the way to Moskva.

    Old (Young) Jack

  38. NancySB/LA says:

    The Agist
    So I am having sex with this guy, and he’s like ‘baby tell me how old you are…” He wants me to keep saying how old I am over and over again, until he cums….

  39. JustATequilaSD says:

    Glad to see you’re still around.

    “CIA chief can’t keep his affair a top secret”
    Secrets are best between 2 people, not your credit card, the restaurant, the hotel, misappropriated influence, or misappropriated funds.But as you noticed, it seems someone is always watching…hide it better in the open I guess.

    Welcome to the site. Glad to see you’re finding what you’re looking for.

    You said “Harumph!” LMAO And btw, are turkeys bigger in Texas?

    If you move in with the BDSM people, let me know where I can pick up my caviar. I’ll be sure to bring a dungeon key so you can run and play outside on the swings when the wardens are away. Which wouldn’t leave much time to play Monte Carlo as I mentioned in the last topic.

  40. JustATequilaSD says:

    “Of course, a little liquid courage won’t hurt”
    But too much courage can be a bad thing. 🙁

    re: which bond?
    Roger Moore is still the man. Connery is also great. Craig (the latest) has a really rugged and active persona. He simply has that “ok, it’ll have to be the hard way” look in his eyes. Out of all the bonds, he is the one I would least want to tangle with, and the bond that I most relate to.

  41. NancySB/LA says:

    Hi Sugars!

    I need some help; does anyone know how to have a good break up?

    I sometimes experience really horrid exchanges with an ex or someone whose offer sucks and then has the audacity to try to make it seem like I’m the one being crazy for saying no thank you to an unsuitable offer…?

    Can anyone help? AM I the only one who has these yucky exchanges?

  42. vero says:

    no hablo ingles disculpa y esta pag es toda en idioma que no entiendo

  43. Charlie's Angel says:

    @Russian SB – You’re my Russian counterpart – I read your posts & think “agreed”, “absolutely” …My thoughts on the proposal? You are a strong woman – I see you not so happy in a menage a trois only because you command all the attention. it will only work if you are the dominantrix, cracking your whip & telling them to lick your boots. It’s an interesting proposition – I can’t wait for the stories if you do it!!
    The new Bonds have nothing on the historic Bonds ( I won’t say ‘old’ because they are timeless) Sean Connery and Rodger Moore are my Classic Bonds, with Pierce as runner-up. And as long as the general qualities are there (kindness, humour, manners, etc.) a beautiful, well-spoken, intelligent & equally well- mannered Baby will make the make the man. No better accessory than a beautiful woman! Remember that for your holiday parties – be the envy of all your friends!

  44. Treasured says:

    I do not know what is happening to me, perhaps it is the start of winter and all the Christmas romantic mood…. But I can feel my heart melting down 😀 Want love, romance and a skiing holiday in French Alps with someone special.
    Hopefully this sloppiness will pass soon 😀 Not used to be all soft and squashy 😀

  45. Treasured says:

    Agree 😀 New “Jack” is just yuk 😀
    Bring the old Jack back! 😀

  46. Tina says:

    “jack” is not “Jack” – the original would not be so crass. *Harumph*

  47. RussianSB says:

    So, Jack , girls do sleep at the first date ? Do you planning to stop one day, or you just enjoy the process of sugar dating. If you keep going like that – to SB per week you will loose all you charms, juices and hair… because so many SBs need to get laid properly…
    It is dirt job, but someone need to do it. I am myself nymfomaniac – I can couse heart attack. And I am not joking, guys !

  48. RussianSB says:

    Jack – you are the old Jack, or the new Jack ?? I mean the ”Jack ” alredy exist and well known in the blog, change for Jack-2 or something you like, please, to avoid the mess.

  49. Lori says:

    @ jack, maybe I should be one more date lined up

  50. jack says:

    yes Russian SB you are indeed right, ‘channel your inner bond boys and get laid’ I’ve been using this site for just over a week now and by being charming I’ve got myself laid twice with two gorgeous babes, both of who want to see me again and I’ve got more dates lined up with other babes too. Its a fabulous site.

  51. RussianSB says:

    Young Seon Connery still my favorite sex simbol,
    only with him I am ready to be Kinky for 3k per month (CaliforniaSB – yeah baby, per month). I guess if I am not asked babysit, my shores will be some farming job… when they let me out from dangeon 🙂 Life is difficult for blonds… nowadays.

  52. NancySB/LA says:

    Hi Sugars,

    I vote for Pierce Brosnan

    @RussianSB congratulation on the fun offer!

  53. Transgendered Emily says:

    As far as I’m concerned, there were only two men who were suitable for the role of Bond: George Lazenby and Sean Connery. No one else can either play him or aspire to be like him.

  54. Ty says:

    Can he be my SD, wouldn’t cost him a dime ;)….im intrigued by a great deal of mystery, and appreciate a confident man in a nice tailored suit. SEXY

  55. California SB says:

    Just heard an awesome song “too close” by alex clare. Great brake up song. ahah….

    Russian: BDSM with a couple for 3K? I’m in. 😛

  56. RussianSB says:

    I decide to quit my job and move to morons to try BDSM . You don’t need to be rich to be SD, yeah ?

  57. RussianSB says:

    At least thet offer 3k, and I don’t need babysit their offsprings !

  58. RussianSB says:

    Another couple write to me, low income and BDSM friendly, I even don’t what part is worse . I told you, someone joking with me … 🙂 Or, maybe, before Thanksgiving only
    couples active ?

  59. California SB says:

    Question: If the CIA chief can’t keep his affair a top secret…. how in the world the average man, can? Mr. Bond, please feel free to speak…. 🙂

  60. California SB says:

    Guys, please pay attention to this: “A woman doesn’t want to hear your entire life story in one sitting”. Keep the mystery. We love it.

  61. Jessie says:

    @Content – LOL. I just read it and said, “Dang, someone’s been spying on Content’s and I convo…hahaha! m

  62. ContentSB says:

    Jessie?? Oooooh Jessie??? Where aaarreee yooouuu? This post was made for you! 😉

  63. RussianSB says:

    What ? I love bond movies !

  64. RussianSB says:

    Suits – good ! Pity, that boys try to skip dress code.

  65. RussianSB says:

    Channel your inner Bond , boys !
    And you get laid !!!

  66. Tina says:

    I will definitely have to agree with point #1 – I have seen too many men that treat wait staff, valets, hotel staff, spa staff, retail, etc. like crud just because they feel like they could. Puh. I’ll take a nice guy in sweats over a jerk in Armani.

  67. Tina says:

    Yeah me! 🙂

  68. Leroy says:

    All personalities and perspectives are welcome in the blog, while personal attacks and name calling are not. It’s inevitable that there will be disagreements but let’s handle it as mature adults with class to keep the dialog constructive and respectful. Please refer to the “Blog Etiquette” for more details. For the newbies, please take a look at the “Sugar Daddy Dating Tips” section on the right for a list of commonly discussed topics and the “SD and SB Blog List” section to see the perspective of other sugars. Now comment away and let’s enjoy the blog!!