Chances are, if you were interested in becoming a Sugar Baby, the financial part of an arrangement is important. Money is a necessary element for most arrangements, however, that doesn’t mean it is always sufficient. So how does a struggling SB approach an SD about her financial needs with out coming off as a whiny gold digger? Here are a few different approaches to negotiation:
There may be fourteen potential Sugar Babies for every Sugar Daddy, but that doesn’t mean a girl doesn’t have options. Play the field, and shop around. But don’t be secretive about it. Make it clear that you have met with other potential SDs, all of whom were interested in and financially able to handle the kind of arrangement you are looking for.
It doesn’t hurt to be honest, how will he know that you need help if you don’t ask? But there is a difference between expecting the world to fall at your feet, and working towards something. Every arrangement should be mutually beneficial in nature, so don’t expect something for nothing. All Sugar Babies should be bringing something to the table. But if you can’t pay rent, or you’re falling behind in loans, he is more likely to be open to your needs than if you just want some new shoes.
How do you negotiate an allowance?
When do you think it’s appropriate to do so?