There is something to be said about perspective. Sometimes, even if faced with hard facts, nothing would ever be enough to sway one’s deeply ingrained opinions. But if I’ve learned anything from spending time getting to know you all around the sugar bowl, it would be that perception is everything, and not one size fits all.
Take our last blog topic for example: no sex on a first date. Some Sugar Babies agreed with this rule, while others disregarded the notion of “rules” of any kind. Some Sugar Daddies agreed that sex on a first date is not necessary, or even desired while others justified a first-night romp. But the beauty of sugar is that every body is right. Everybody is entitled to their own perspective, and the only way to get it wrong, is to align yourself with someone who doesn’t share the same perspective.
To some people, sugar will never be an acceptable lifestyle. What would the point be anyways if sugar was for everyone? Just like a bi-partisan government will always struggle to find middle ground, sugar will just never be anything but a form of prostitution to some people. That’s one perspective. In the brilliant words of the always wise SD GURU (and also Charlie Sheen) “I don’t pay them to fuck me, I pay them to leave”. Now doesn’t that change your perception of sugar, even a little?
What is your perspective on the great sugar debate?
What common misconception about sugar, bothers you the most?