With so many new sugar seekers joining SeekingArrangement, there are more Sugar Daddies to choose from than ever before. The selection of Sugar Babies has also increased dramatically, establishing a wave of inexperienced newcomers. The sugar culture can be confusing, so we’ve devised this Beginner’s Guide to answer all the plaguing questions for amateur Sugar Babies.
The benefits of sugar are boundless. From paying for college, to finding a mentor, and even falling in love, this lifestyle is not for everyone. The endless sugar debate and common misconceptions can instill some doubt in sugar seekers. Once you get over the initial “Should I really be doing this?” feeling, sugar will surprise you. Between forming life-long bonds and traveling alongside dapper gents, the perks of sugar far outweigh the objections from skeptics.
Even with mutually beneficial dating, each relationship is unique. Before you scope the profile scene, decide what you’re looking for in an arrangement. There are a few main types of Sugar Daddies, and ultimately you want to feel satisfied with the one you find. Decide your intentions. Do you want friendship and networking? Are you seeking mature romance? Once you set your route to sugar, abide by the standard code of conduct.
Before they ever decide to message you, eligible Sugar Daddies from around the world will be skimming your profile like a personal ad. Chances are, they don’t have time to read something long, so make it short and significant. You’ll need to screen a potential Sugar Daddy soon, so make sure he likes what he reads while screening you. Make the expectations you’ve set clear on your profile.
As for pictures, it’s in your best interest to remain (mostly) clothed. Perhaps private photos will show off your bikini bod, but only deserving potentials should be granted access to those. Keeping your pictures up to date is also essential. Include multiple angles and full body pictures so there are no surprises in person. Also, avoid group photos so its not a guessing game.
Meeting a potential Sugar Daddy is not as easy as click, print, ship. Weeding through profiles and searching for sincerity can be time consuming, so patience is vital. Time is of the essence, so be sure to consistently check your account and respond to messages promptly. If you don’t want get stuck with a bad apple daddy, show him you’re serious. Avoid messaging blunders and save negotiating for later in your conversations. Make your expectations realistic without settling for less than you deserve.
Online dating is weird: the anonymity, the awkwardness, the anxiety. Your safety and comfort are important, and there are many dos and don’ts of sugar. Be on time, and never give it up on the first date. Understand the type of intimacy your Sugar Daddy wants, but don’t breach your morals. Sugar dating is just like any other dating. Sex should be aspired to, but never required. Both of you will have assumptions, so make sure it’s mutually and equally beneficial.
After you’ve met a few Sugar Daddies, etiquette and procedure will come naturally. Continuing a sugar relationship can turn into a meaningful mentorship. Once you’re comfortable, you can upgrade your sugar by renegotiating. Whether it’s a long term arrangement or a weekend fling, one thing is certain: the sugar craving is here to stay.