My first year in the Sugar world was a whirlwind. I went on dates, got pampered, met men I liked and some, I did not. Here are some of the things I discovered while navigating this land of champagne, caviar, and seduction. Entering the Sugar Bowl is hard without a map, so let these tips be your guide to Sugaring the proper way.
Cash is not the be all end all, and buying those new pair of Givenchy boots won’t pay the bills. You should not allow the person who has the higher income to have all the power in the Sugar relationship. Respect yourself first.
I met certain Sugar Babies who got into Sugar as their only source of income. They needed to get out of debt and fast. Desperation won’t lead you down the right path. You should have a real job, so you can really support yourself. Sugar should be a little extra something sweet. It’s like getting dessert at the end of a fabulous meal. You don’t need it, but it finishes your night on a happier note.
Don’t jump into an arrangement with someone based on income alone. You should know who you are and what you want out of a man. Turning down someone who doesn’t meet your needs, is better for you in the long run. You have to be attracted to the guy you go out with on some level, or there won’t be any chemistry.
Try to not develop feelings. This can be a tough pill to swallow, but most men on SeekingArrangement are not looking for a long-term relationship. Many times guys are also married. Chances are, he won’t leave his wife for you. Yes, there are outliers, just as in any situation, but try and guard your heart, not wear it on your sleeve.
A Sugar Baby must always know how to negotiate. If you want something in life, you’re gonna have to ask for it. Sometimes, you even have to spell out exactly what you want. Explain to your POT why you are worth it, and describe what you will bring to the table. Be comfortable with yourself, and the rest will fall into place.
Sugar can be the sweetest place on Earth. Sometimes, a gal just needs a manual to help her out.
What are some tips you have for newbies to Sugar?
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