In a Sugar Daddy’s world, there’s often a desire for finding a special someone who brings a sense of needed distraction — and an occasional partner in crime *wink*.
Before jumping headfirst into the Sugar Bowl, we polled site members for a bit of advice geared toward the first-time Daddy, or those who simply need to brush up on their Sugar game.
1. “Be respectful to Sugar Baby members…”
This was overwhelmingly the number one piece of advice from Premium Members! We heard this over and over again and it was pleasant to see the level of respect amongst our community.
We know that there will be occasions where a Sugar Baby becomes someone other than who you met on the first date (or the inverse). That’s okay. Just remember that whom you’re staring down from across the dinner table while stabbing away at your new potatoes is a thinking, feeling human being that wanting to fill some type of void in his/her life — much like yourself. So Mr. Pot, quit trying to call the kettle black!
If you find you’re becoming short with a Sugar Baby, consider stepping away from the Sugar Game for a little bit. Clear your head, re-compose, and figure out your next step.
Next steps are influenced by knowing and communicating your boundaries (gifts, budget, sexual expectations, level of discrepancy) as well as those of your potential Sugar Baby.
The moment coherent communication ends between you two, ultimately is where animosity begins. This rule applies to any sort of relationship. In short, treat your Sugar Baby (and potentials) with the level of respect you’re looking for in a Sugar partner.
2. “No asking for sex. SA is not an escort service!”
This one is a topic we at SA battle time and time again. From varied stories cascading the headlines to the occasional member we have to boot with a firm sayonara!
SeekingArrangement is a community centered on the Sugar lifestyle. Sugar Daddies, keep in mind that the moment you begin interacting on our site, you become a living piece of the integrity our site looks to uphold.
Our Support Team receives escort-related questions from on-the-cusp members frequently. Do you know what we tell them? We advise that our Sugar Baby community is built of aspiring business professionals, caretakers, mothers, full-time students … and all in-between. No escorts.
These are everyday women – many hard-working – who seek a supplement to their day-to-day lives. If something more buds in the process, embrace this. However, if you come across someone who makes you feel uncomfortable, as with any dating site, communicate with us. We will remove that member promptly and you can carry on finding your perfect Sugar Baby drama-free.
3. “Hold off on exchanging any gifts until you’ve met in-person.”
We get that exchanging gifts is a way to show your worth, appreciation, or beckon a bit of anticipation for Sugar partners who frequently spend time apart.
Our Premium Sugar Daddies insist: absolutely no exchanging until you’ve had some quality face time.
Look at it this way, by allowing yourself time to get to know your potential or recently selected Sugar Baby, you can save yourself the hassle of wasting money on someone who may not appreciate the intention of your gifts.
If this news reaches you too late and you find the recently lavished Sugar Baby is not someone you want a long-term affiliation with- open up and start talking. If you lead with honesty, there’s less animosity after the dust settles. Cut ties, and get back in the Sugar Bowl.
How do you know what your special girl really likes until you’ve spent time getting to know her? Trust us, you’ll see a lot less store returns and a lot more returning the favor!
What advice would you pass along to newbie Sugar Daddies?