Indulging in the world of Sugar is definitely the key to a sweeter life. Living the lifestyle doesn’t come easy, and there are many lessons to learn along the way. Every Sugar Baby walks a different path, so the possibilities are endless. We reached out to the SeekingArrangement community to gather insight from Sugar Babies who have learned valuable lessons from Sugar.
You joined the site for the finer things in life, so why would you settle for something you can easily access offline? Never mistake high expectations with being a gold digger either. Generous men joined the site for a reason, and if they aren’t here to spoil you, then they should log off and try soul searching at the grocery store. I promised myself that I would never date a broke boy again. I wanted an upgrade, and that is exactly what I got. In the world of Sugar it is so important to stand your ground. Know exactly what you want, and go get it. Do not settle for young broke men, you leverage your own success in this world, and you must refuse to be complacent. Especially if you are a broke college student .
-Bradie IG: @scaryprettyy
In order to get the allowance of your dreams, you must be patient. You can’t just expect a wealthy man to eat dinner with you one time, and then fly you and your friends around in a private jet. It doesn’t work like that. I worked hard for my arrangement, I spent countless hours on the phone, diligently checked my emails, and even facetimed when it was inconvenient for me. I made a long term investment, and it paid off.
I travel around the world in first class, and take my friends who have never left the country before. I put in time and effort, and now I am being rewarded. Daddies want your companionship, love, and support. They also crave your presence and time. Show them that you are in it for the long run, and trust me you will reap the benefits. I didn’t get a lot at first, but I was grateful for what I did receive. Most importantly, I never asked for more. As time went on my Sugar Daddy started to develop genuine feelings for me. He grew to have unconditional love and compassion for me too. All of this lead to us having an open relationship. But remember, it didn’t happen over night. We worked on it over a span of two years. Patience is a virtue for a reason.
You really have to learn to put your feelings at bay sometimes. Not all daddies are going to be able to devote all of their love, money, and attention to you. (A girl can dream right?) We all wish they could fulfill our every need at any given moment, but that’s just unrealistic. Avoid having expectations that are too high. You will only set yourself up for failure and leave disappointed. Save yourself the grief and be as understanding as possible. Finding a solid arrangement is tough, so when you do meet the special one, really cherish what he has to offer. Please don’t take advantage of his kindness because he will spot your true motives fast!
One of the biggest and most important lessons I have learned from Sugar is that the world is yours if you have the right attitude. A cheerful and positive outlook on life will get you anything you want. Positivity is key. Plus, no one wants to deal with a ‘Debbie downer’.
Relationships can be more than beneficial as long as you focus on the positive. Also, do not let the fear of rejection make you afraid to go after what you want. Put yourself out there and most importantly, be confident! You will miss out on so much if you let your fears get in the way. Sugar is a unique lifestyle and it takes true confidence to become successful. If you don’t believe in yourself, no one else will.
I think the most important thing to remember when being a Sugar Baby is to know your self worth. Don’t settle for less or compromise your morals. There are going to be a lot of guys trying to get the most out of you for as little as they can. You have to hold your ground and build a relationship with someone who is going to respect your boundaries.
Remember that being a Sugar Baby is about meeting someone who wants to make you happy. Don’t sell yourself short for anything you’re not comfortable with.
The biggest lesson I have learned is that sometimes the man who has less is the man who is more generous. From my experience, the Daddies with a $50 million net worth are less likely to give you the high allowance you desire. But the man who makes a comfortable living and who is content with his income is more likely to dish out more. Even if his income isn’t quite one million. High status men with a lot of wealth tend to treat money like an object, they also try to use their high net worth to control you like a puppet. So, be careful!
The lower caliber Daddies are the ones who tend to give more gifts, travel more, and overall have a more generous connection. If you were to ask me why, I would say I don’t know. But my theory is, the rich get richer, and get more greedy. The investment bankers on Wall Street would rather invest your monthly allowance in your name than give it to you to spend. However, one could say they’re smarter about their money and that’s probably why they are more successful. I don’t mind a smart, rich man, but I refuse to settle for a stingy man. If you want to be showered with nice things, go for the underdog.
-Matt IG: @xmattchungx
Anyone can become a Sugar expert, it just takes the right amount of effort and practice. These Sugar Babies have learned various lessons through the trials and tribulations of Sugar. As you move forward with your own relationships, remember there’s always a lesson to be learned. Try giving Sugar a fair shot!
We love hearing from you, so please don’t be afraid to share your stories. Your feedback is valued because your experiences are as real as it gets. Remember to always be cautious, and never allow Sugar to get the best of you.
What have you learned along the way?