The convenience and benefits of a live-in arrangement are most appealing to the always-busy Sugar Daddy and the ambitious, free-spirited Sugar Baby. Finding each other organically is somewhat of an improbable task, but luckily, SeekingArrangement is the perfect platform for such a request. Here are some tips for getting a live-in Sugar Baby.
Be as thorough as possible when drafting your profile by listing exactly what you’re looking for in this arrangement. Leave little room for ambiguity, so when you start interacting with a Baby, you’ll know she’s keen on the live-in situation.
Don’t ask her to move in on the first date or first messages. One: it may scare her away, two: she might be crazy. Seriously, would you accept an offer to live with someone you’ve only know for a few hours? While your dates are anticipatory for a living situation, you still need to learn as much as you can about each other prior to making the move. It’s acceptable to discuss or hint at during conversations, but don’t make this the focal point of your first date.
To echo the previous statement, meeting a Sugar Baby multiple times before officially moving her in is highly suggested. While a live-in arrangement may be the ideal situation for you both, you two may not be a good match. Meet two or three times before sealing the deal. We’ve heard horror stories where a SD and SB rushed into things and the outcome was all but disastrous due to lack of chemistry, unrealistic expectations and lack of understanding.
We recommend some contractual, legal document where the terms of your living arrangement are spelled out, e.g. expectations, term, allowance. As this is a living situation, you need to both be protected should things not work out.
She is not a prisoner so be mindful of her accommodations. A live-in Sugar Baby should have her own room (while sex may be something you’ve mutually agreed upon, she should have the option to sleep alone), car and the ability to be independent. It’s understood with a live-in arrangement that your Sugar Baby should be available and considerate of your personal schedule, but again, she’s not under house-arrest and needs to have her own life.