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SeekingArrangement Sugar Daddy Heat Map


We’re turning up the heat in November with our SeekingArrangement heat map! With more than 5.5 million members globally, there is no shortage of Sugar in the world. In the U.S. alone, there are 3.25 million people seeking Sugar relationships. So, we decided to track where the “sweetest” places are to find Sugar.

Since SeekingArrangement launched in 2006, we have aimed to help our members navigate the world of Sugar dating with everything from understanding Sugar speak to how to search for Sugar. Now, we are excited to showcase our first ever Sugar Daddy heat map.

The United States has the largest population of Sugar Daddies, Sugar Mommies and Sugar Babies combined than any other country. We used data from our active U.S. members to show which cities have the most people seeking the lifestyle.

The heat map is interactive so you can see the areas in detail that are popular amongst members. You are able to navigate between the four member types based on your preference: Sugar Daddies, Sugar Mommies, Sugar Baby Females and Sugar Baby Males.

Nevada, New York, Massachusetts, and Texas round out the top five states to find Sugar Daddies. Let us help you find your hot spot with our heat map!

We want to hear from you–how sweet is your hometown?

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  2. Victoria says:

    I’m looking to have fun meet a friend and make sum money at the same time Don’t no much about this but hey I’m ready to have fun

  3. Chris says:

    Get fucking lost

  4. AndreP says:

    If the profile states “model” as occupation is that code for prostitute?

  5. Anonymous says:

    I’ve found actual friends in a few guys when I couldn’t find the chemistry. For me it’s not only the allowance the intimacy has to be there. I’m also using this site to fulfill my kinky ways. For me the allowance and gifting is nice but my reward is having crazy hot bedroom fun. So I have to have both. I once had someone who only wanted to buy me things and do dinner dates. I think that’s sweet but it didn’t feel right because my body looks forward to some fun when I’m in need.

  6. Anonymous says:

    SBs watch out. There is an SD poser on this site who is scamming SBs. He was going by the name of “John” – I know, pretty generic. The number he is texting from is a VOIP line in Indiana. He conned a young friend into giving him her banking info and left her with an account closed for fraud and owing $1400. Public service message: NEVER GIVE YOUR BANK ACCOUNT INFO TO ANYONE!

  7. Anonymous says:

    This is interesting, why so many of them are located on the east coast??

  8. Chrissy says:

    Are there any no sex sugar daddies here? Been on here for a little over a weeks…new to this whole thing. I dont even think sex/love and money should be in the same boat. But i’m kinda in a rut and I need someone to help out. I have never taken money from a guy in my life so I have serious receiving issues, I was raised to be independent. But I cant manage on my own right now. I also need some mentoring from someone older…. my business crashed a couple years back and I had a lot of leaches that sucked me dry…I need someone to teach me to get people like that off of me, teach me how to get back up…cause debt sucks big time. I’m a cool girl otherwise and i’m lots of fun. Love having a good chat, …oh…i live on an island…and i’m saving my self for marriage. Is there a sugar daddy out there for me?

  9. Sugar Daddy G says:

    Wow, no wonder NYC and Texas girls are only don’t for pay per meet. They didn’t even want the first meeting to be chemistry based. Wow insane.

  10. AussieSB says:

    Hi guys,
    I’m new to SA, and would love to know your opinion…
    I’m currently a uni student on the God Coast in Aus, but am moving to London in 8 months after I finish my degree.
    So the type of arrangement I would like, is with 1 London-based SD where we can call, text, FaceTime, send photos etc and even possibly a couple of meet ups over the 8 months that I still have here in Aus, then would make a new arrangement once I’m in London to be more frequent, and travel together etc.

    So 1st question, do you think a SD would want that kind of arrangement? Or would they think it’s a scam and wouldn’t trust that I will move there?
    And 2nd q, do I put the whole scope of that arrangement on my profile? Or what I currently have is I kept it short and simple “Looking for 1 London-based SD and I want to be your protege, let’s talk further”

    Thanks for any help xx

  11. chohan says:

    i m new please guide me about the sugar daddy

  12. Anonymous says:

    A honest, sincere and a very easygoing Dad who seeks same in a lady.

  13. TuHelp says:

    Alot of guys on here come off really strong. Its hard finding someone who’s real & not a creep or looking for a hooker.. matter of fact some girls might be into the wine, dine,slight conversation & sex . and that’s the routine.At least with those they are clear on what the nature of the relationship is. I feel maybe because I dont know how to go about this that its so hard for me. So many questions but how much do you really expect im trying to be as up-front and real as well as protect myself but not come off like im just here for the cash. But lets be REAL if it wasn’t about the cash you wouldn’t have a ‘net worth’ column.. This isnt a sugar baby site so umm.. be realistic gentlemen . Am i right? its alot of narcissistic men on here with there nose in the air whom need to humble themselves . we are here for initially a beneficial relationship, a great understanding guy who is upfront on what he want and how much he’s willing to give with a bomb personality that gives me my space to breath as well as I give him his.

  14. Aly says:

    Hey there, i’m looking for an arrangement with someone who is young at heart, loves music, loves to spoil, and is in great shape.
    I’m 20 years old, in great shape and in school.
    I haven’t had much luck on this site, i’m not sure if it’s because of the low popularity in my area or if i’m too picky. I want to actually meet, and find a connection that works for the both of us.. i’m in the Grand Rapids MI area, but I would be willing to travel.
    my SA name is AlyLC
    Hope to hear from you

  15. Anonymous says:

    Hello!! Sugar-daddy seeks a sincere and honest Lady.

  16. Anonymous says:

    Hello!! Sugar-daddy seeks a sincere and honest babe.

  17. Harish says:

    Dear Sir/ madam,
    How to join seekingarrangement.com
    I am interested for work SB

  18. Anastasia Beverly Hills says:

    I think you’re probably just jealous that the transgirls are hotter than you and pose a threat to you who can’t get any.

  19. Anonymous says:


  20. Chris says:

    I am amazed at the mentality of sb’s on here. I have said it before and will say it again. Most are not worth the price of a Starbucks coffee let alone taking them out to a nice expensive dinner only to listen to them tell me how wonderful they are and deserve money but not looking to get their hands dirty, lol

  21. Anonymous says:

    Hello :-),

    I desperately need advice; please HELP 😉

    JSB contacted me end of december by email saying he wanted a SD/SB relationship with me. I agreed to meet him.

    1st meeting – we had tea at my appartment – he said about giving me an allowance; such an amount at first and it would go up after 3 months, 6 months, etc… I did NOT had sex with him although he wanted to.

    2nd meeting, I invite FSB for brunch. We had sex and everything went perfectly – yet, no flowers, no wine and no discussion about $$$$

    3rd date, again at my place, I prepare little food. Again, we had sex and everything went fine – yet, no flowers, no wine and no discussion about $$$$

    On Valentyne day he send me a e-card. He is really nice looking, I dont have the feeling he’s a bad man!?

    He wants to visit me tonight! I would love it… but I want the $$$ discussion… actually, the $$$.

    What do I do, what do I say? How to I bring up the topic?

    Thank you in advance for you help,

    Bisous xoxoxo

  22. Yafe says:

    Hello!! I’m a Sugar-daddy who lives in United States, I seeks a sincere and honest babe.

  23. Lola femme fatale says:

    Looking for a beautiful Young affectionate woman just to spend time with and have fun then on your kind of lady.

  24. Arnold says:

    Beware of sugar baby Julina_S. Complete scam artist. Waste of time. She is a 24 year old brunette in Lancaster Pa.

  25. Anonymous says:

    The right attitude is crucial in finding the right arrangement. Some SB profiles are baffling at best. This SB, who clearly has issues, has not learned that one catches more flies with honey than vinegar. Her profile line starts “this site is a joke, you guys are not real SDs”, and the rest exudes bitterness, yet she is still here. I guess some wannabe SBs just want an allowance for existing or something.

  26. Jesse says:

    I have been a member for 2 years now and have absolutely no luck in finding a sugar daddy. I live in Houston, TX so I should have many options, In the 2 years I have gotten 2 messages and nothing came of them. I have messaged a good amount of men but none ever get back to me. I feel like I must be doing something wrong. Would someone be willing to take a look at my profile and tell me what you think, maybe give me some ways to be more appealing?

    My Username is: J_sugar94

    • Sam says:

      Hi hun,

      So initially I had issues too and thought I could just favorite people lol and they’d reply. So I started actually responding to things I read on their profile, such as their area of profession, things they like that I also like and just try to relate to them in anyway possible. Never bring up money before the first date. Be yourself, ask to talk on the phone.good luck hun.

    • AnonSD says:

      A lot of the SB’s I communicate with are in the same situation as you are. As a SD, I can see the hundreds of SB’s in my area. You are in a herd, and quite a large one. Most SB’s are off the site though in a lot less time, a couple of months is usually enough time.

    • Only reading this because says:

      you are from the Caucasus?

  27. SugaB says:

    I’m surprised by how many negative and bitter SD’s there are out there. I must be really lucky to have had met a few amazing SD’s who are are fun and happy with life.
    I am great at filtering SD profiles. Its quite interesting how the “shy” SD profiles with the least amount of content (ex- No photos, vague description) actually turn out to be the best SD’s in my experience on the site.
    Typically, the profiles containing a bunch of mumble jumble and pretentious car pictures are the fake wannabe SD’s. These guys often send messages about how cool and experienced they are. LOL
    You’ve hit the sugar daddy jack pot if you land a married guy in his 30’s or 40’s. These guys are usually the most generous in terms of gifting. Not to mention, they are the hottest SD’s on the market. These profiles are always very discrete and vague, but as i was saying, they always turn out to be the sweetest and caring SD’s. You don’t need to do much filtering with these guys because the wife already did that for you when she decided to marry him. That way you can be almost sure that he’s not a crazy lunatic. 😉
    If the people on this site could learn how to be excellent profile filterers like myself, There probably wouldn’t be so many whiny users in the comments.
    It’s easy to scan SD profiles and I’m not sure i can say the same for SB profiles. I don’t have enough experience with that.

  28. Sabah says:

    I am from India and been in SA over a month now. Sadly there are no Sugar daddy .. All are Salt!!! People with low standards are using SA platform to have free S** . I guess in India they misunderstood the concept of SA

  29. Anonymous says:

    Since this blog is still fairly active…why is there no STD discussion on any of these blogs? I’m a 26 y/o female. I’ve been with 7 men, 6 of them relationships of 6 months or longer (normal dating). I recently had a routine STD panel done and found out I have oral and genital hsv1 (the cold sore strain of herpes). I know most of us have one, the other, or both and don’t know it becausr its often asymptomatic and not included in standard testing. I’d still like to disclose, but I don’t know how educated older gents are when it comes to STDs. I know many will see me as “ruined” despite their 80% chance of already having hsv1. I’m taking antivirals to reduce transmission rates to 1-4% of days per year. I don’t know how to disclose this. I know a lot of people choose not to, but that was done to me. They probably didn’t know. I’ve never seen a cold sore on any lips I’ve kidsed. I’ve made my peace. Is one of the risks of sex. That being said…is that going to be a horrible conversation? How would you react? I don’t need some guy calling me a ruined wore when my number is still single digits.

  30. Baby elephant says:

    I don’t ask for money if you care to read my profile you see that for yourself thanks releationships aren’t just around sex and money

  31. N. O. Nemuss says:

    Yet another potential SB has a sad because this isn’t GoFundMe.

    • Chris says:

      I have found in over a year being on here that most of the girls aren’t worth the price of a cup of coffee let alone an allowance. In a way, this is sad because it shows you what women of many different ages of today are really all about, themselves and money and entitlement. they want money from a SD but don’t really want to put out much effort to the SD in return.

    • Only reading this because says:

      there have been Zero (0) posts on the new topic through moderation recently, only others.

  32. Luca says:

    Sorry I was just testing how to post anonymously with the last post.
    So here is my situation
    I have had an amazing arrangement/relationship with a totally 10 last year and it lasted for 11 months, I was taking care of all of her bills, taking her to the best restaurants in near every major city in the US and taking her to nice vacations. We hit it off on our first date, and it went from an arrangement to a real relationship because I’m in my mid 20s and I was only 2 years older than her so she just started to develop feelings, I met her parents and all her close friends, but we ended it because we just grew apart.
    Now I’m in a very tough spot, I get 1000+ messages every month, but none of them interests me. All the 10s, they either play the “hard to get” game, or “princesses” who require lots of courtship, or fakes, or online only, or questioning my wealth because of my age, or doesn’t have any interests in me, or flake on me in the last minute, or high end prostitutes or want 2500 dollars per meet (Serious????).
    Any advices on finding a 10?

  33. Baby elephant says:

    Just like to say I get awful comments that I look ugly and that and I think it’s horrible

  34. Anonymous says:

    – Hey you guy’s not all of us girls are like that some of us actually like to meet new people and are pretty cool… if you get to know us 🙂 and uhh charging to meet some one for coffee is pretty greedy thats like some one walking up to you and you say ‘conversation may not proceed until payment has been made’, uhhh that’s cold :/…

  35. Anonymous says:

    Thank you I found the answer:

    Do you offer recurring billing to automatically charge my account for the next period of membership?

    No, currently we do not offer recurring billing, but may at some point in the future. You will be able to pay for an additional membership period when you are within 7 days of your Premium membership expiration date by using the “upgrade” button.

  36. Anonymous says:

    I cannot find an answer on the site for what happens if I pay by credit card and wish to leave the site. Do they automatically deduct the monthly fee at the end of the month? Many sites just keep taking cash off a credit card and you cannot cancel the payments?

  37. Anonymous says:

    Beware of a SA member by the name of PrincessLux. She has stolen her profile pic from a famous internet model named Kim Johansson and she’s using it to catfish people into sending her money via PayPal before/without even meeting. She initially texted me and I became suspicious when I saw how fast she was begging for money, so I started doing advanced image searches on her profile. That’s how I discovered she was using someone else’s profile. I already tried reporting it twice within the past 24 hours and so far nothing has come of it so I’m trying to spread the word via other channels in hopes that she does not successfully scam anyone. Thanks.

    • Chris says:

      Report her to PayPal as well. I guarantee they will take action quickly. PP don’t fuck around. Way too many scammers on this site.

    • jj says:

      Had the same thing happen to me. I contacted the website and told them what happened and gave them the users name. It took weeks to get a response and when I finally got one they did nothing. Said they will look into it but the user remained on the website. Asking for money like this is a violation of the website’s rules. I told them I was canceling my membership due to not enforcing their own rules. They make no effort to stop scammers and protect their members.

    • This is why I put up to date images of myself just normal snaps of course no one puts the worst images of themselves lol but I wanted to be myself
      just found this site yesterday not sure what it will bring, i’m sure its full of women like the one you have mentioned. It’s one thing to recieve gifts / money & another to ask or beg. Its nice to be treated like a lady and have gentlemen send gifts, life can be so cold & a stranger’s kindness and appreciation of just your image is so refreshing. 🙂 all the best x Emma x

    • Anonymous says:

      The same thing happened to me. Someone who was clearly a scammer using fake pics and wouldn’t speak by phone said I had to send her money via paypal before she would meet for dinner. I contacted the website and it took weeks to get a response and they did absolutely nothing about it. The member was allowed to stay on the site and continue to scam people. Asking for money in this manner is a violation of the websites rules but they do not do anything to enforce their own rules and they do not protect their paid members from scammers.

    • abin says:

      right-click picture, use search google for this image. Screens out many low class “pros.”

    • Amused says:

      Yep, I have never seen a SB booted from this site. Even obvious hookers that state as such in the headline of her profile so don’t get your hopes up on a ban. They want as many profiles as possible so they can look like they have more than two choices.

  38. Anonymous says:

    I have wasted so much time chatting with females that want online only cyber but pretend they want to actually meet.

    • Alternatedating says:

      That seems to be the thing lately. If you prove yourself from online chatting … maybe they’ll meet.

      • Lostgal says:

        honestly for a young girl it may be weird to just go meet a guy not knowing his intentions despite what men say they don’t mean it sometimes. at the end of the day we know why were all here . a small token before meeting might encourage her to step out her comfort if she knows your real.

    • EyesOnU says:

      The problem is that there are too many guys expecting intimacy in the first meeting and in the end they say the girl is worthless or that they are not interested… excuses to hide that they are not authentic.

  39. Anonymous says:

    Well I have been trying to find a SD that I connect with and I have messaged some and I received no response. What could I be possibly doing wrong?

    • .yougottabekiddingme says:

      You must follow the Sugar Daddy Heat Map. It is the most prominent of archaeological discoveries known to humankind, second only to the holy shroud.

      • Su Mer says:

        LULZ! I will say I checked the heat map ( I am a numbers nerd girl in real life) and interestingly enough that data shows the following:
        In my area, the Heat map data shows the highest concentration of SD’s to be in (get this) The Lowest of the socioeconomic areas in the city. Well well isn’t that interesting..
        So no wonder if some areas may look “hot” with zero luck or if SB’s are finding it hard to discern the scammers!
        Do some due diligence, fellow SB’s & SD’s, and maybe a little data mining can help the quest:) xoxox

    • AndreP says:

      something wrong with your profile.

    • sd with open eyes says:

      Some possibilities:

      * Is your message something like “Hey”? A lot of SD will not respond unless your message in some way indicates that you have read their profile.

      * Are you older, heavier, or less attractive than other sugar babies in your area? If so, then you may have to work harder on selling yourself as a good find on the initial message.

      * Does your profile advertise things that a potential sugar daddy might find undesirable? Some sugar daddies might not want to interact with a sugar baby with kids, who smokes, who is a heavy drinker, who has visible tattoos in her pictures, who wears a nose ring, who alters her pictures with “trendy apps”, or who is 3000 miles away.

      Hope this helps!

    • Croanders says:

      If you want, I can take a look at your profile and give some advice.

  40. anonymous says:

    I’ve been off and on for a number of years, too, and agree there are many quality SBs on here, but my sense is that the percentage of SBs looking for true mutually beneficial sugar relationships has decreased, making it harder to find the good ones. I attribute it to three factors: (1) escorts have become hip to the site and view it as an efficient means of linking to a somewhat better quality clientele than they’re accustomed to; (2) an increase in the number of fakes/scammers posting photos ripped off from some model on Instagram or similar site; (3) more young SBs looking for purely platonic relationships because some girlfriend of theirs told them (misleadingly) that there are lots of guys on the site who are willing to pay them thousands of dollars a month and “you don’t even have to sleep with them.”

    • Haha says:

      Again. No harm in trying for folks who can be suckered. Like everything else on the Web, common sense prevails.
      (1) I find you very sexy, would you consider an online arrangements. Delete/Ignore.
      (2) I find you interesting, would you consider 10K monthly allowance for a platonic relationship. Delete/Ignore
      (3) I want a token and gift to really prove that you’re a sugar daddy that has the means. Double Delete/Ignore.


      The way I see it seems self evident for this site – Meet and greet to see if you click. Sure SDs should pony up at least a nice, comfortable dinner (No coffee bullshitt and no give me a wishlist either) so it’s worth everyone’s time but beyond that it should be straightforward – here’s what I have to offer and if you all agree then all is well and good, let’s have fun.

    • anonymous says:

      This is exactly right, the site was not like this around 2012. I have a lot of girls saying they want me to pay them $100 just to meet at starbucks for a half hour. Of course their pictures are unreal and stunning, and they try to draw you in with the ‘possibility’ of making an arrangement, but in the end you are just out $100. Are you kidding me? I can go on match.com and do that for nothing all day long.

  41. Anonymous says:

    Is there a bi sugar daddy here?

  42. Chris says:

    So it seems I am not the only Sd on here that thinks that the majority of the girls on here are pretty useless? I to love the ones that say they wanna charge you to meet for a dinner to see if you click! lol! I know there are a lot of girls on here that are scammers in the sense that they sucker some men out of an expensive dinner and get some cash and then have no intentions of anything more than that! Vampires are what some of these girls are. Then there are the ones that all have entitlement issues. Haven’t met a good one on here yet. Most;y liars, scammers, hookers, and the list goes on.. What have the rest of you guys experienced from SA?

    • Anonymous says:

      You’re not the only one, no. A major waste of time and money for a man to be on this site.

      • Pappyz says:

        Dont understand. SB accepted to be a travel companion for a one day trip to San Diego. We exchanged numerous text messages day before.She asked that we first stop for coffee, because she was not a morning person. We agreed to meet at 9 am Saturday. I was to pick her up at her home. She said that i should text her when i approached her place. I did exactly as she said ,only to find out after seating and waiting in the car for 40 minutes that the house address does not exist.Some really “naughty” sugar baby.

    • Dazed-SD says:

      @chris,, yes for sure there are those women/girls here. All you do is block or send them the LOL !! and leave them to do their own thing. They may get a couple of suckers, but they won’t last long.
      I can tell you first hand, I’ve met a charming young woman on here, and it lasted roughly a year,, it was great !! We had to break things off due to real life situations,,we kissed and said good bye, we both don’t regret it at all..wonderful time ! So I rejoined SA 30 days ago, have met a few that didn’t work out, no sparks or anything, but they were nice women. I do have 3 very close contenders now. I’m just taking my time to make sure we are the right fit for this type of situation. I take my time, have a couple lunchs with each and see how the conversation and vibe goes. I don’t look at this as a pump and dump,,I want to like them and overall just enjoy each others company,, then move on to the good stuff. Everyone’s comfortable, feeling are mutual and the Sugar (wink wink) is incredible if you find the right fit. Now in summary, take your time, don’t be a Pig and it works out great.
      I love and appreciate this site, and the women/girls here.

    • EyesOnU says:

      LOL… you should see all the messages the babies get here; even better read some daddies profiles. They even specify they want girls for a single time or “have fun” which in the end is code for intimacy once and then bye bye. If you have an issue with someone, report the profile and keep looking -with real expecations yourself- and with real possible offers. Most men here think this is really an escort catalogue, and that is not the case. Learn what is this about and prepare yourself to play the game. Young men tend not to get it; they are too focused on having a sidegirl or a “drama free” partner for intimacy only, and that is not what the girls are here to be. We are not real life fleshlights.

    • Anonymous says:

      I’m wondering which state is so bad. What state do you fellas live in?

    • Anonymous says:

      A major waste of time. Most SB’s are trying for the money, and not have to do the deed us SD’s want.

    • Anonymous says:

      I’m having the opposite problem. Tried meeting two people for coffee and stood up both times. I’m starting to think the guys I’m meeting are bots. Both situations ended up very strange, they messaged me hours after the meet up time to say they had arrived. Plenty more have started conversations that they never keep up with and I’m pretty straight to the point so it’s not like we were messaging for days.

  43. Sheebba says:

    @anonymous and @Dazed-SD, you said that these women think that they are hot and they think you will hand the money just like that and you also said looks will not get them anywhere, but you guys are the ones who make these women think nd feel that way, especially for older men they are looking for younger women, they are ready to give them anything even they know there won’t be much conversation, having a young girl make them feel alive for a few seconds during. I am a lady over 40, SDs barely look at my profile because of my age and this is the mistake that older men often make, thinking an older lady has no more fire and they don’t look that good, but not all older ladies are the same, as a matter of fact, older men slow me down, they cannot
    perform as much, older men brainwashed older ladies make them think they are done but in reality, older men are done, not much blood flow anymore, we women are receivers, we can always receive.
    so to older men who are who prefer younger women, good luck to you and as for me I will not shake before using.

  44. Hmmmmm says:


    Anyone going to the sugar baby summit in London? I can not wait super excited

    • Babyelephant1 says:

      What’s the bloody point of going if u. Can’t find anyone on line what chance is there

    • Alternatedating says:

      Personally, I’m not interested in meeting anyone who is interested in the summit. It creates unrealistic expectations and those unrealistic expectations keep women from finding good situations.

      • Anonymous says:

        what do you mean by ‘unrealistic expectations’? Basically, the web has it all laid out.

      • Alternate Dating says:

        Not sure what you mean on the web has it laid out ..

        There’s a lot of potential on this site for women to meet quality guys who’ll help with tuition and/or rent plus some interesting adventures.

        On the other hand, there just aren’t that many guys who have private jets and want to fund four figure shopping sprees.

        Highlighting one time adventures or rare situations creates unrealistic expectations that keep people from finding quality arrangements.

      • EyesOnU says:

        Someone is mad the girls may open their eyes and realize they are being taken advantage of by someone, and that they could be getting much more?

      • Alternatedating says:

        No … I’m pretty generous with tuition etc. Not so much with Gucci bags. I hardly call paying someones tuition taking advantage of them. Then again, that’s probably why you think a summit is a good thing.

      • EyesOnU says:

        LOL… if you are not that bad, then why get burned by what I said? Who even said I personally liked to go to the summit? You need to calm down. LOL.

      • Isthisahashtag? says:

        seems right.

      • Amused says:

        Agree, not many millionaires here, they go a different way.
        Thousand-aires….yeah. $10000 a month? not likely.
        $3000 more likely. I haven’t seen many playboy prospects that would command that much here either to be fair. Mostly over ego 40ish chicks demand $20k, which doesn’t happen regardless of the BS stories. So the web lay out is just BS above 3-5k. Like he said “unrealistic expectations”.

    • Anonymous says:

      Been giving it thought but the promotion is Very vauge as well as flights hotels….Not to mention insane drivers lol ….would have been a wise move to refer 1- 2-Hotels …..
      ues been 5 times to UK all that do fo ENJOY and look ? before you cross the streets!!

  45. Anonymous says:

    Hello I am an SB from CA just signed up for this site after I saw a documentary about it on CNN. I have had so many responses and haven’t been on the site for a month. While thats a promising sign there quiet a few guys that I have blocked for asking pay for play. Most of there excuse seems to be until we build trust. Seems to me that most that ask for it are the inexperienced ones. Experienced SD’s I spoke with have been actually giving me advise on how the sugar life works. In my opinion people that are looking for pay for play are in wrong website. Any SB’s that have experience on this life I would like to hear your opinion or any tips you have on arrangements and/or this life style will be helpful.or SD’s too. Any newbie advise will be appriciated really.

  46. Babyelephant1 says:

    I have had 50 people look at my profile not one message back apart from duck off what ? I have had 6 favourites and they won’t talk back

  47. Babyelephant1 says:

    That’s bull Rubbish because I’m not after money and most men say I don’t want to talk

  48. Anonymous says:

    I have been trying to chat to men but they don’t like my looks straight away I don’t ask for money

  49. Juana says:

    That is horrible. I’m so sorry that you SDs have to go through this. There should be a way to report people that are doing this. I cant consciously receive gifts from people without being a genuine friend or partner. That’s what I was scared of signing up for the site as a SB. I want a genuine connection but I see that SBs are doing things the other way. I just joined & I’m 25 & in the Dallas area if you want a real connection with a real person. Idc about distance either, I’m also willing to travel as well when time permits.

  50. Nobleman says:

    Too pitty that I am from far away and I get ignored so much

  51. Anon2 says:

    Why do girls with actual boyfriends come on SA??? I don’t want drama and issues! I seem to find out after meeting the girl through FB/IG profiles!

  52. Anonymous says:

    I think all of you SBs should be careful of what you send these men (pictures/personal information) because they could end up on Escort review sites

  53. Bob says:

    I have been on here off and on for years. Currently I am dating 2-3 beautiful women, and it seems as if they are VERY attracted to my profile at any age. I am very selective with the younger women as I feel most are WAY IMMATURE to be doing this. None the less I am 67 years old and I’m constantly meeting some of the most beautiful women around. I tell the truth and present a great profile and pics. This has been an amazing experience and recommend it to anyone who wants to meet NICE attractive women. Trust me you have to be selective and only take the BEST, but their are LOTS of honest, good looking women on here, much more than the other sites like Match or god forbid Our Time. I feel blessed to be fucking sooooo many beautiful women.


    • Anon2 says:

      Hey Bob! Good for you! What are the range of the women you normally meet and what is the budget allowance you provide?

    • anonymous says:

      I’ve been off and on for a number of years, too, and agree there are many quality SBs on here, but my sense is that the percentage of SBs looking for true mutually beneficial sugar relationships has decreased, making it harder to find the good ones. I attribute it to three factors: (1) escorts have become hip to the site and view it as an efficient means of linking to a somewhat better quality clientele than they’re accustomed to; (2) an increase in the number of fakes/scammers posting photos ripped off from some model on Instagram or similar site; (3) more young SBs looking for purely platonic relationships because some girlfriend of theirs told them (misleadingly) that there are lots of guys on the site who are willing to pay them thousands of dollars a month and “you don’t even have to sleep with them.”

    • Anonymous says:

      I feel sorry for you Bob.

  54. John Brown says:

    I have found that most of the girls on this site are totally worthless and useless. most just either want money cause they are cute and think they deserve it. Then there are the girls that are just looking to get taken out for an expensive nice meal and drinks with no intention of anything more than to get the said free meal. Let’s not even talk about the hookers masquerading as a sb, or the girls that never reply to your original message and then all of a sudden make contact and say hi I have rent due would you like to meet me and help, lol! Sorry but this site has left me thinking very low of most of the girls out there..

  55. Anonymous says:

    Why ban me? I’m funny and u know it. Where’s the new blog? Wtf? Is the blog guru stuck in sweaty day old clothes from bein flooded in Cali? I mean… For real; impression is ecerything!!!

    Sweaty clothes man version: (mentally) is the aquivelant to a bald headed man to a potatoe.

    I can lick both mind you. However, only only one slick headed, shaved skin licks back!

    Puurrrrrr. This blog is not for the faint of heart. I would elaborate, exception of the loco legislatures Re prompting for no scantily clad women anymore via personal pics or on the web.

    My, my, my…the price for skin just sky-rocketed by aces and demand. Lol

  56. Anonymous says:

    On the contrary…there are women that are here whom at their core are “HOme makers”. Mad, other females here give “HOmade soup”. The choice is yours. #bicheesygrin

  57. erehwon says:

    What is up with the state of young girls nowadays? I was in a well known resort area and just looked up whoever was online. I messaged a few and one girl messages back. She’s 18 going on 19. I’m not looking for anything long term, so I cut to the chase and ask if she wants to meet tonight. She says yes, but since I’m on vacation, I propose meeting at 10pm. This is not a problem for her! Several more texts about logistics but nothing in the way of chat, get to know, or arrangement etc. We finally meet at 11! I never know what to think when I meet a girl because I am triple her age but still have features of my once very good looking self, just much older now. We hug and I think she even wanted to kiss on the lips. We talk and she is who she said in the profile, a young college student, not the “pro” that I feared based on the lack of convo. I get the sense she is a lot of fun:), just a little quiet. We finish our drinks and having a WTF attitude from being on vacation, propose we go find somewhere to have fun:). I tell her my kids are in the room, let’s go hunting around the hotel for an empty conference room. She is game! We find a large ballroom, turn out the lights…and it ends well with her doing something most women my age would rather die than do. When I get back home, I finally meet up with a girl I had extensively messaged for a coffee date. She’s 19. We get along fabulously. We finish our coffee and I propose we talk about private things somewhere private…like my car! She’s good with that. When we get there, I ask front or back seat? Back is good! And she kisses me. There was no further conversation and it ends identically to the previous “date.” I’m feeling pretty happy:) but wondering what goes through a young girls head nowadays. I did not mention arrangement ever (I did help them! So no backlash on that, please). I am really older and in good shape but not super hot. So someone please tell me the appeal of all this is for a 18-19 year old.

  58. Summer says:

    Seems to me both SD’s and SB’s are not too content on here lol us ladies are expecting traditional arrangements, ie more than we already own, we can afford nice restaurants and tend to do nice things without a SD, then we have self entitled middle aged men who think they should get some straight away because their profile states ‘high’ income. There are genuine guys on here ladies just look out for red flags, talk on the phone and meet for drinks

  59. John Brown says:

    I find that most of the girls on here have been liars scammers and really hookers or escorts. Sorry but my understanding of a REAL SB is she finds one SD to connect with and agree to financial terms and they enjoy each others company. If I wanted a girl that was getting multiple cocks a week in her I wouldn’t need this site to find an SB I could just find a nice hot young escort to go bang and a lot cheaper. Girl I was seeing turned out to be nothing more than this. She still thinks she is a sugar baby. I explained to her she needs to take a deep breath of reality and get off the river DENIAL if you are sleeping with multiple men a month for the money you are a hooker and not a sugar baby. Anyone else here AGREE?

  60. nee says:

    I’m super new to all of this and I need help with my profile! someone please give me feedback

    Thank you ??

  61. Anonymous says:

    I’ve read many comments from SD about how most SB are shallow and vapid, only wanting money for small meetings etc. Well needless to say that’s bullshit. There’s plenty of SB that are looking for worth while meetings, conversation, what have you. I’m 26, love to talk about Arts and Literature, love learning new things, has never traveled, needs help with upkeep on my car (which is a sensible car, it’s just older) or random bills, I own my own little business, and would especially love to go back to college and finish my degree and actually make something of myself. Not everyone wants money for manicures. I’d love to find someone that is actually really looking for something realistic.

    • R R says:

      Remember, love, that what’s true of a group is not necessarily true of all members of the group. I see those “shallow & vapid” comments, too, and no doubt they are true of some, and possibly many, SBs here. But if what women here tell me is true, most of the “SDs” on SA are either posers, flakes or mama’s-boys. What would you EXPECT them to say?

      But again, what may be true of a group(SDs on this site) is not necessarily true of all members. From my vantage point, there are loads of very lovely, hot and even scorching hot women here. But I have no idea what to say to someone who is “shallow and vapid,” no matter how gorgeous or hot so I move on to someone who can hold a thought long enough to construct a complete sentence or two, even; she is probably quite lovely, too. I think the site’s promotion and advertising encourage unrealistic expectations for both SBs AND SDs.

      Kudos to you for speaking up.

    • Anon99 says:

      Yep, we are seeking conversation…

    • hmmmmm says:

      I agree, i get so many people messaging me for pay per meet. That’s not something i am looking for

    • Anonymous says:

      @Anon – Sadly you are the exception. Most SB’s are just greedy time wasters. It’s not BS as you state.

      • Anonymous says:

        I agree. Most of the SBs I have met on here want money even before we meet. They say that will prove that I am “serious”, if I send them cash right away.

    • emma_lisa says:

      I know right, I just want to meet someone I will also like and spend time with them. Hoping someone want to do more than pay for manicures. I have a job too, it would be nice to have a little help in all areas.

    • John Brown says:

      Well, you are the exception to the rule then. I have been on here a little over a year and have met mostly liars, scammers, thieves and then the flakes by the busloads.. I did meet one girl that was amazing and we crossed that boundary line. She got scared and ran. Past that mostly hookers and escorts..

    • AndreP says:

      I’ve been on SA for a while and have talked to many women where one of us makes initial contact. The young ones want a man to help pay for their school, books, car, cc expenses on top of nights out and shopping. All this and demanding a platonic relationship. The older ones are more in tune with what a SD/SB relationship is and are realistic on what they are looking for.

      I can also say that both parties flake out for one reason or another. That is not reason enough to bad mouth anyone. This kind of site offers some safety in that you never have to meet if you don’t feel safe or like the direction the conversation is going. Hell I’ve broken contact just because a SB starts asking for money upfront.

      • Haha says:

        I agree with your point about bad mouthing anyone. I’ve had my fair share of horror stories but I never get jaded. Both sides will have crooks, pretenders, ‘business person’, etc. You don’t have to be really smart to understand the dynamics of this site but just apply common sense most of time.

        Personally I think this far better than any dating site, more focused, no pretense – FWB, especially if you have buying power. I’ve been on this site for a while too and my formula that works for me at least is:

        1. No money on the first date but definitely put your best foot forward. This is, in part, her ‘skin in the game’. And mine is a nice $$$ dinner, a small token (book, flower, etc) and with the expectation that it’s a date where my mindset is of wooing with no expectation.

        2. Enjoy the dinner like there’s no tomorrow. I always do with or without a companion especially since I usually choose the venue – public, safe (for me too), easy parking. Always try to do it on a Friday so that there’s a little pleasure in hanging out or be seen with a good looking lady, and driving around on a supercar.

        3. Make her feel at ease. The truth is best served in comfort. I never start talking about arrangements only after I’ve had a chance to really interact, know who she is and usually if I feel the connection isn’t there, I try to enjoy the night and part ways later having made a connection. But if it’s a fit we usually talk about it in a setting where she’s most at ease, a pool hall, a favorite bar.

        I’m the worse scenario for an SB – Asian, Short, and Married with kids. And frankly I feel I have the worse batting average I feel since I go for the Christie Brinkley type. But for the handful of arrangements I’ve had on this site makes me say I love SA.

        Cheers and good luck to everyone.

      • Amused says:

        I have had some luck here. One longer term excellent one. BUT,,,
        I have a large shovel I use to dig through all the ones described above. I am going to say, one in 20 are my odds here in fly over.
        Hookers? yes they are here. Scammers? Yes, they are here.
        Age fibbers, Fat ones, ugly ones, too good to be true ones, yep all here.
        Good ones? yes that too. Dig, lots of work. Might be worth it, might not.

    • jj says:

      Needless to say you arent qualified to tell men there’s plenty of great SB’s out there. We’re the ones looking and there are few out there. You are the exception not the rule.

    • Dream says:

      Very much agreed. There are just as many guys on here pretending as it seems there are females.

      • sugarbeet baby says:

        That’s why I don’t waste my time with men under 50. And I STILL think I’m more successful than about a third of the men I meet.
        Another way I avoid the fake SDs is by hiding my profile & avoiding profiles less than 30 days old.

  62. Anonymous says:

    Agreed with most comments… getting a conversation going is like pulling teeth…. and since when is a gut considered an “average” body type – stop kidding yourselves!

    • Anonymous says:

      I personally love it when it goes like this.

      Me: :Hi, I would love to chat with you, maybe we could meet for coffee and see if we click?”

      Her: How much will my allowance be?/I charge a fee to meet for coffee”

      Me: “Bye”

      • Anonymous says:

        It’s because real SBs know that coffee date offers are not from serious SDs. It’s one of these 20 or 30 s/t year olds that think they can get free pussy.

        If you’re a real SD, you make the time and can afford a nice dinner.

      • Alternatedating says:

        I’ve never made a coffee date offer that wasn’t serious. I don’t pay allowances for coffee dates because I think that women who request those allowances seem to be on this site for months … and really aren’t serious. I find women on here don’t want dinner because of (a) the time commitment or (b) the implications of expectations.

      • Anon2 says:

        In my perspective, I got catfished a few times that I almost don’t want to waste my time with a meal. Coffee is a great way to at least get a quick vibe for an actual meal date!

      • Rick says:

        I only do lunch or dinner Meet&Greets, and I often get the same story. I just think, “thanks for showing your true colors so early and not wasting my time”.

      • GrandCitrouille says:

        I actually really prefer coffee dates. It’s casual and as Alternatedating said, there’s not much of a time commitment involved. If either individual isn’t feeling it, then they aren’t required to sit through an entire dinner.

    • N. O. Nemuss says:

      Some people consider a gut to be an athletic body type. They must get quite a workout from kayaking along that mighty river, Denial.

    • Anon2 says:

      I’ve found that “athletic” means a beer gut for the girls!!!

    • Anon says:

      Probably since sometime in the 1980s whenm most men in the US were overweight or obese making the average some-one with a gut. Currently only 26 of US men are not overweight or worse – so the average is pretty fat. Same goes with U?S women.
      US government stats. “More than one-third (35.7 percent) of adults are considered to be obese. More than 1 in 20 (6.3 percent) have extreme obesity. Almost 3 in 4 men (74 percent) are considered to be overweight or obese. “

  63. Karen Keen says:

    I want to know if there are any age restrictions. How old is too old for mutual agreement….

  64. Peter says:

    Inexperienced sugar baby looking for a caring sugar daddy. Someone interested? Let me know 🙂

  65. NYSD44 says:

    What happened to all the commenters? Josh? Funguy? Did everyone move to another forum?

    Anyways, the girl I was seeing is now going to school in another state so I decided to renew my SA subscription and I must say, it is completely different now…someone told a whole bunch of girls about sugar dating and now the game is saturated with bad apples.

  66. CaroLina says:

    I am single lady looking for a responsible man.. contact me here then we could talk much better

  67. sd with open eyes says:

    For those Sugar Daddies who want more direct contacts, go to the search section and fill out what you want from the categories, search, and then visit the profiles where the Sugar Baby is online. This is a good way to have them message you first. Unfortunately, 90% of the time the message will be “Hey”.

    • Anonymous says:

      yep what this site has taught me more than anything else is that most women have absolutely no idea how to engage men at all. Even when they are hoping to make money from it. Ironically these same women will have comments like “don’t just message me with a hi” in their profiles.

      • Dazed-SD says:

        Couldn’t agree more ! It’s amazing to me too. For the most part they are clueless. LOL

      • Anonymous says:

        @Dazed- yes they are clueless. Looks will only get them so far especially since they want to be paid as well. If all I wanted was a roll in the hay I would go to a brothel which are legal in my country. I have legal, cheap and easy alternatives.

      • Dazed-SD says:

        @anonymous- I think some of them think because they are “Hot” they can just sit there, and guys will throw money at them. What they don’t know is, you want something ! you have to go for it !!

      • Anonymous says:

        Then why not go for the girl that’s not so hot but an actual female of substance? Seems to me like the females on this site are “hot” spoiled brats or “not so hot” intellectual geniuses.

      • sd with open eyes says:

        @Anonymous January 9, 2017 at 10:17 AM

        A “female of substance” is pretty rare on this website. Most Sugar Babies are younger women who think that their looks entitle them to the world, or older women who have made a series of bad decisions and haven’t learned from a single one. When a “female of substance” does show up she doesn’t stay long because they either find a Sugar Daddy of substance quickly, or they get chased away by the Johns.

      • Dazed-SD says:

        @sd with open eyes,, Exactly ! well stated.

      • Dovetail921 says:

        *chased away by the johns.
        I have no idea how many times I’ve left SA after becoming sick of dealing with talking to that type of male.

      • Anonymous says:

        For every real SD I’ve met, there’s 50 scammers or men that don’t know what they’re doing. If you want a prostitute, hire one. A SD and SB relationship/arrangement should be more than just sex and money.

      • Amused says:

        Shovel people shovel !! LOL

    • joe medlin says:

      True, great foot forward with ” Hey” . Right there you know its a waste of time .

  68. Jack says:

    I think some of the profile are not real, Like you mentioned many people just sees your profile but will never reply to you.

    I did hear once that the daddy has to pay to read the mails so they don’t open the mails i guess..there should be a easier way to connect..this is a great platform and I hope everyone gets the best out of it..

  69. Toronto says:

    I’ve been on this site for about a month and I must say I’m pretty disappointed. Are there any real sugar daddies on this site, that provide an allowance? Why does every guy message for a pay-per-meet aka the definition of escorting?

    • Anon99 says:

      It’s only escorting if you are seeing 40 guys a week. If you are exclusive you are an SB/courtesan.

    • anon says:

      Few exist. Mostly they learn reality before they can be real.

    • Anonymous says:

      You probably get that kind of message because there are so many girls looking for pay-for-play and have no concept of what a SD/SB relationship is all about. There are real sugar daddies but you have to look hard to find them, just like we sugar daddies have to look hard to weed out the “definition of escort” types.

    • Alternatedating says:

      Because men know that allowance = unreliability. We agree on allowance for X times per month, I pay the allowance, you get busy … or stressed that I’m politely pushing. Much easier to start with a per meet, demonstrate chemistry and mutual trust, and move into an allowance in a couple of months.

      • Dazed-SD says:

        @alternatedating, exactly ! I haven’t found a single one that’s reliable about anything.

      • salena says:

        true me either haven’t found a real SB

      • Anonymous says:

        Exactly, an allowance only makes sense if paid at the end of the month and is based upon how many times you saw your SD. So ppm is the only possible way to go. What employer pays its employees in advance?

      • Corrector says:

        It’s obvious that responder Anonymous(January 17, 2017 at 7:17 pm) has never had a real sugar relationship. There isn’t an employer/employee dynamic. At best this is a negotiated agreement, not a dictatorship from a potential SD. SB are in control of their own bodies and the situation.

      • Rick says:

        If an SB doesn’t want ppm, then I offer an allowance either at the end-of-month or 1/2 way through. Amazing how many complain this is unfair, but paying in advance is totally fair. I see a pattern here

    • Alternatedating says:

      You’re right about the negotiated agreement. My issue is that I always live up to my agreements … the women on here tend to be a mixed bag on that. We all get pulled in different directions but allowances make it easier to get busy …

  70. Anonymous says:

    Nothing sentimental here ever posts. Go figure…it feel like I am part of the geriatric heart club because I am young and still believe in love…gees, obviously not the “elite” club. Dang….

  71. Anonymous says:

    Eyes on u and SD with eyes wide open speak sage truth.

    Yea, it is a new year and my heat map has snow flakes all over it!! Lol

    Is there a chill in the air? Or is it just me?, Anywho, go figure!!!

    Word to the wise: Do not eat the yellow snow! (If you didn’t know)…So, plans for the new year? Oh yeah, it’s called get on the skinny list and love yourself like you own it! (Tee. Her…Did you catch that? If not, rewind and repeat the art!” Then, make that heart palpitate sweeter than the coming of the day break!.

  72. Vixxen says:

    Any gentleman planning on visiting India? Bangalore is not a bad place to pass through. All the profiles I find here are really really creepy. I live here, and, no luck finding a gentleman.

    Or, is there something wrong in my profile?


  73. Anonymous says:

    Looking for any information any one may have on an SB in Birmigham Al; Alim0887 is her avatar

  74. SD-NE says:

    I’m a SD and I’m kind of new at this and wanted to ask some questions. I am 56 and I have a hard time understanding why any young lady aged 18-35 would be interested in me, especially if they are remarkably beautiful as most are. Why can’t they find a nice man at their age? It seems like it would be easy for them. I treat all of the women with respect and they often seem surprised that I’m looking more for a nice relationship with travel, dining, gifts, etc. then a short term wham bam thank you mam encounter. Why? Don’t they want to be treated like a woman, not an object? Second, how do I know that a woman who says she is 18, 19, 20 etc. isn’t really under aged? Does SA screen for that? I also think some of the women in here seem a little desperate. What I mean is, before we even meet, or get to know each other at all, they lay a crisis at my feet. A lot of them want rent money now. Or their car fixed. Or student loan payment made. And so on. I understand that some ladies need help and so on, but if they really have no interest in me at all except for some money, I just can’t go for that. Well, I will continue to cautiously wade through the ladies that write me and perhaps will find the right one.

    • Jolene says:

      I’m reading this blog to get a feel for the type of men that are interested in a mutually beneficial relationship. I would love to meet a man who isn’t into playing games and just knows how to be a gentleman. I’m not sure if I fit the sb mold. I have a career. I’ve raised my children. I pay my own bills. I’m just looking for someone to enjoy time together whenever our schedules can align. I’m not looking to sponge off of anyone, just would like to meet a nice guy.

  75. Anon99 says:

    Happy New Year! Again no new blog.

  76. ME says:

    I get favorited on here alot, but they hardly ever send messages, why is this?

    • sd with open eyes says:

      Sometimes “favorite” is used as a place holder. If they don’t send messages you could take the first step and ask them what they liked about your profile. However, check to see if they’ve even looked at your profile first!

      • EyesOnU says:

        True, but Premium SDs can be invisible and not show as visiting a profile, that has happened to me.

    • Anonymous says:

      The person is probably place holding all the people that cannot spell.

    • AndreP says:

      place holder so we can come back and take a second look. If you are interested you can send a message or favorite back.

    • KS says:

      My suspicion is they search on income and assets, favorite everyone in the search result and then come back to review and do another screen later with a cut and paste message. I am frequently favorited without even having the profile viewed. I just assume its a scammer in operation and don’t reply to any message where the sequence is favorited then viewed.

    • Natalie says:

      You should probably be thankful. It’s easy to click “favorite” and hope to get an inquiry in return. However, those who take the time to craft a message are likely worth considering. That’s been my experience.

  77. sd with open eyes says:

    I really don’t know why a high school girl who is living at home and hasn’t told her parents about this site could think that she could manage having a sugar daddy.

  78. Guest account says:

    I am 83 years old but don’t look it . I have been living this lifestyle since my long term wife passed in the early 90’s. I go for the 18 to 24 SB’s. I usually find all the SBs that I want , and meet after a day or so of starting to talk. 98% percent want to come back after our first sexual encounter . I have had arrangements in the 4 to 5 year range and think the site is the best thing going. I still remain friends with my former sugar babies and once in a while meet for dinner and quite often end up in bed again. Some girls still like to do this after they are engaged to be married.

    • Anthony Speight says:

      Need to make extra income.

    • Anonymous says:

      I say your wife if lucky she’s dead and not here to witness all this

      • EyesOnU says:

        LOL. I say he must have deep pockets and the girls “come back” just for the money. 18-24 take all the money they can get LOL

      • .yougottabekiddingme says:

        Hi Guest account…thanks for sharing. Am not sure the other commenters understand that it matters not why they come back, but that they come back, and that you continue to enjoy. Good for you :).

        @y’all…perhaps when youre in your 80s youll still be cocked, loaded and ready to get the job done. One can only hope, i suppose.

        Happy New Year and stuff!

    • R R says:

      Kudos to “Anthony Speight!” Pay no attention to those who knock your success as if they know & understand the situation.

      “There are certainly not so many men of large fortune in the world as there are pretty women to deserve them” – “Stone Cold” Jane Austen

    • The Arbiter says:

      Living the dream in your tender age my good friend.

    • erehwon says:

      83? Seriously! Awesome. But I find girls are sometimes kinda annoyed and I’m in my 50s. What age do you put down?

    • Bob says:

      Good for you I also am older 67 and have been overrun with young beautiful women on this site…..5-6 per day all over the world.
      Have you tried HGH /testosterone

  79. SD says:

    This map simply follows the population concentrations of the US. There must more a interesting map to show.

  80. Anomynous says:


  81. Anon99 says:

    No Christmas blog?

  82. Anonymous says:

    LA area looking for SB and having the hardest time. I think the price is more than generous – one evening a month (busy entrepreneur) at $1k, plus transportation and gifts. Anyone else experiencing the same?

  83. sd with open eyes says:

    Are you talking about sugar daddies who like to cross dress? In any event, SA is never going to remove them because how they dress is their business, not yours. Why not skip their profiles or block them?

    • sd with open eyes says:

      If you are a Sugar Baby how do you see other Sugar Babies profiles to know that they are transgendered or to report them?

      Also, SA has no rule against the transgendered. No amount of your complaining or reporting will ever make a difference.

    • Anon99 says:

      Yeah, we all want a bearded guy in a dress. I think PB and PH missed out on bearded centrefolds with willies.

    • sd with open eyes says:

      Anon99: your preferences and SA rules are two different things. Also, all of the profiles of MtF transgendered sugar babies that I have seen have had pictures that look decent. Maybe MISugarBaby is mad because they are taking away her business?

    • Anonymous says:

      female sugar babies cannot see other female sugar babies

  84. sd with open eyes says:

    Has anyone else been getting opening messages that say “Hey sexy!” and not much else?

    • R R says:

      It’s a cultural difference. (Older) SDs see messaging here in terms of email and tend to send messages measured in sentences and paragraphs. Millennial SBs communicate in text/tweet-speak, i.e. one word, a phrase or a sentence, with the expectation that you will be chatting real-time w/ them. Chances are she sent that message b/c she thought you were online at the time she sent.

    • AndreP says:

      Yep. It normally happens as my account gets within days of expiring. I think it is the SA fake accounts to get me to renew.

  85. Anonymous says:

    I registered less than 1 week ago and quickly learned this website is not about sugar daddy/baby relationships. It is simply online pimping. Every single woman who contacted me was very blunt about being paid in exchange for sex. If this site was a guy on the street he would be considered a criminal as would these women.

    • reply says:

      You may want to revisit your profile and reword what you’re looking for. It sounds like you’re receiving what you are projecting.

    • Anonymous says:

      …and you expect them to put out for free, munchkin?

    • T says:

      I don’t find this true in my area. Many don’t even want sex. It depends on location, if a girl is new, and many other factors. Some women are used to getting money in an intimate relationship and will be upfront about it. Don’t confuse this with pimping or prostitution. In this area a guy was caught making an arrangement with a girl who turned out to be under age. He never had intercourse and was not charged with solitaries, he was charged with a federal crime of human trafficking. So be careful and always check IDs and don’t give the impression you want sex for money or vice versa. This about having fun, helping out, and not getting stressed or doing anything illegal. Many kinds of arrangements on here.

    • AndreP says:

      I don’t get any of that, I feel cheated.

    • The Arbiter says:

      Chivalry is not dead. We’re just gentlemen that like to spend on the finer things in life.

  86. Anon99 says:

    That never happened when I complained.

  87. Tatan says:

    Looking to be a sugar babie!

  88. Mearyth says:

    Any gentleman planning on visiting the Asian region? A shame this isn’t a global map, I feel Asia does decently considering the opportunity laid for business trips and pleasure detours. Seoul is not a bad place to pass through though winter is the last season I’d suggest it, and I live here as a Westerner. Wishing you a Merry Xmas.

  89. Anna says:

    Ive been looking for a SD and it seems like I have no hope, it seems like no one is really interested in me

    • Lola says:

      Hello Anna i am looking for sugar sisters to help and support each other with tips and advices to be sucessfull .
      I think it has more to see with the profile and our description of what we want at the end the way we interact with them especially how to talk about allowance it’s an art,These things need to be handle carefully.
      let me know if you are interested.i will give you my contact.i am also still figuring it out we could do together.

    • Anonymous says:

      Hey Anna,

      I have the same problem.

      I’m a bit of older age…33 years old.
      So that might have something to do with the fact that i only get SD’s between the ages of 46 and 56 to contact me with indecent proposals.
      Basicly they want a seedcontainer when they’re in town…and i’m not up for that.

  90. Gypsi chick says:

    I can understand the aversion to sugar babies under 25 since women can be seen as immature and excessively self-serving (compared to other age groups), but as a 20 yr old SB, I don’t feel as though it’s perfectly reasonable to make that generalization. There are a LOT of lemons here, which isn’t any different from any other dating scene. It just takes a while to find that one.
    On a similar note, for anyone seeking, my username gypsi chick is the same on SA.

  91. Anonymous says:

    I noted many of the girls here are scammers. Can i report scammers so the girl will not be allowed in the site and cheat others

  92. Monica Bratee says:

    …my english is not the best.I am transsexual…and am sick of profiles who send me Messege and i corect reply…and later dont become answer.I am not so dumb.I think that your site doing this extra (mybe some software) and i think that this Profiles dont real.Its not funny.Its make me very angry…belive me ,u dont want see me angry.

    • sd with open eyes says:

      I am a regular Sugar Daddy and I get left hanging on conversations all the time. Typical would be: (They) Hey! (Me) What’s up? (They)

      So, I wouldn’t be angry, it doesn’t only happen to you.

      • Mary says:

        Hi how r you I would like to be a sb and show some things that really interested me and what I can do for the sd in my live i am willibg to try different things.

    • Anon99 says:

      Which rule?

  93. Anonymous says:

    This goal of this site is very confusing. I joined 3 days ago. A woman who lives in the town next to where I live said I should use Western Union to send her $40 if I wanted to meet her. Another woman wants to negotiate a price before we meet. I am a business owner. I understand negotiations. But these women want guarantees before even saying hello. Another military woman told me she is looking for somebody to settle down with. She’s currently in Afghanistan. I think whoever manages this site needs to publish an update to what it is meant to accomplish. I am comfortable being generous, even very generous, but women making demands before even meeting is ridiculous.

    • Latin SB says:

      Not quite. Many men around here lately ask to meet and even try to have sex with the woman, and then ghost them. It is because of those men you are receiving that feedback. They need you to “prove” you are legit. About the girl wanting to settle down, I agree, she is in the wrong place.

    • dc/boca says:

      i agree thats its complete insanity to expect an allowance/gift prior to meeting or pre arrangement. but the idea is rampant here.

    • sd with open eyes says:

      You should block any Sugar Baby who wants money before a meet up. You should report any Sugar Baby who wants money by Western Union.

      • R R says:

        Agree about Western Union but I don’t think it’s unreasonable for a potential SB to ask(not demand) something for gas, parking and maybe even for time out of her schedule. In this specific case, $40 doesn’t sound unreasonable. If the amount of the money is the issue, this guy is not a SD. From his side, the travel isn’t far so she should be willing to accept the $40 in person when they meet. If she refuses and appears to be grifting SDs for $40 at a time then she is no SB.

      • Anon99 says:

        Yet SA encourages free gifts from a wish list? Confused.

      • Rick says:

        An SD is probably spending $100-$150 on lunch/dinner, plus his own time. So unless the SB is driving a significant distance (50-100 miles), it’s rude for her to expect to get $40 just to show up. The SD isn’t asking for some physical comfort in return for him showing up. This is equivalent to a job interview for both parties, expecting payment for showing up at an interview is a solid deal breaker.

    • Rick says:

      Just make it easier on yourself and burn th $40 in your sink. You’ll get the same response as sending it to someone you’ve never met. Nor will ever meet.

      If an SB is coming some distance, say 30+ miles, then it’s reasonable to cover her expenses when you do meet. But not sent W Union before the meeting.

  94. Anonymous says:

    Hi everyone! I need your help, I started off receiving a pretty hefty amount of messages a day, and lately my inbox has been pretty dry. Maybe it’s due to me not being very active on the site, but I’d love it if you could give me some feedback on my profile. Thank you!


  95. Anonymous says:

    There is one general complaint I have about this stuff. I’m getting pretty tired of girls just looking for sex for money and not realizing that they are a prostitute. They come out at all angry about “I’m not a prostitute” yes they want to meet up once a week for sex and have money for it. And have no other time in their life to do anything else. Are these girls really that dumb that they have never looked up the definition of prostitution? It’s an exchange of sex for money. And that’s what this site is all about. At least from the girls’ end.

    • Anon99 says:

      So you are the Unicorn? We don’t want prostitutes who see 40 different clients, but why would a 20 year old model “sleep” with a fat, bald 50 year old? What do you think mutually beneficial means?

      • Lola says:

        That’s a good one Anon well deserved!

        Guy ain’t eye candy and want a lovely goood looking girl to meet him on SA and say ” oh this is me take me for free”
        Even on their wives they spend money while dating.Sugaring isn’t porstitution.As it’s much more than what he describes meeting for sex and dissapearing lol.
        You are not a SD anomymous

    • R R says:

      Dude, I’ve seen the case made that MARRIAGE is prostitution, too. Sex for money, right? So why YOUR need to rub her nose in the word “prostitute?” If it’s such a big deal to you then do you believe that anti-prostitution laws should be strictly enforced? It’s illegal to be a “John,” too, my friend. Strict enforcement against Johns, too? Get over yourself. Find a SB that wants a connection w/ you in addition to supplying you w/ sexual gratification. They’re here – I’ll testify. It may take some effort on your part. If that’s just too difficult for you, you should stop wasting your time here and go to one of the many, many escort sites.

    • Anonymous says:

      Sadly the SD’s that contact me are near the age of my own dad…
      And they all want someone to standby with their fanny when they are in my country.
      One even asked me if i’m up for a threesome.

      It’s so sad.
      I’m looking for someone with more substance.
      I want to talk with together , smile together , go on dates , connect.
      Make good memories.
      Be a proper couple.

      • sd with open eyes says:

        “Sadly the SD’s that contact me are near the age of my own dad…”

        Gee, a site for Sugar DADDIES. Oh, the irony.

        “Be a proper couple.”

        You might be able to find that here but I would guess that almost all of the Sugar Daddies on this site would be on a regular dating site if they were looking for that.

    • Shewalks says:

      You sound like a true delusional rapist. The sad truth is that many of the old, ugly, wrinkled men on SA think just like you. I’m certain I will watch your SA story on Lifetime, Dateline or 20/20 before your membership expires.

    • Anonymous says:

      I’m fortunate enough to live in an area where there are a lot of wealthy men. I’m not looking for a man to entirely support me. I have a career. I think this is about crossing some lines where older, more wealthy, perhaps not-so attractive men spend time with women they could likely not walk up to out in public. I have a few SD’s and every time I see one it is for a whole night. There is always a meal involved. There is usually wine involved. There is no rush and there is also usually sex at the end of the night. Some men give me money every time I see them and some once a month (only if I trust them to actually give it to me). I would certainly spend time with any of these men, but I would not make it a priority, and I would not have sex if if weren’t for the exchange. If that’s prostitution so be it.

  96. dayanesb says:

    Olá meu nome e Dayane sb uma Sugar Baby adoro viejar e conhecer novos lugares do mundo inteiro, gostaria de se convidada para um paseio inesquecivel que nunca quero esquecer ao lado de um Daddy. que além de ser um ótimo copanheiro e cavaleiro pasamos viver muitos momemtos juntos a cada um de nós dois descobri coisas novas que esta faltando, de conecer e de sintir.

  97. NICOLA says:

    No Europe???

  98. Lucy says:

    Hi all,

    I Recently joined here after a disappointing stint on another similar site. Offer of payment for an hour of debauchery really isn’t the style of membership I was hoping for. Nevertheless, I’d really like to have some fun, company and enjoy mature conversations. I love my sport, especially match day hospitality, golf and the odd day at the races. I really need to get out more, so if you fancy the above, please do get in touch. I’d love to hear from you.

  99. Anonymous says:

    Hello everybody 🙂
    Wish you a beautiful day

  100. Anonymous says:

    hello 🙂

  101. Benjamyn says:

    Hey Daddies,

    I’m a Young, Intelligent, Fun, Open Minded gay Australian looking for a very financially secure to rich partner.
    I’d prefer more than a sugar daddy and son relationship but I’m looking for an exciting new adventure.

    Serious men only, Paypal or Bank Deposit. I will relocate for the right guy!
    30, from Australia, currently living in Medellin, Colombia.

    If you’ve been looking for me, message me!

  102. dc/boca says:

    im confused lots and lots of the entries in dc want platonic only. are there really daddies on here that will pay generous allowances for that. id really like to know.

    • Latin SB says:

      Well, only they know what can they pay and what they cannot. If you cannot meet halfway and agree on an amount then keep looking elsewhere. And check your expectations, maybe they are set too high.

    • sd with open eyes says:

      I cannot give you an answer backed up by hard facts. However, there seems to be a lot of on-line blogs who claim that there are, and this seems to cause a lot of girls to sign up hoping for the same. But, anyone can write a blog on anything and they don’t have to be factual. Also, if a guy is rich then he usually has in his regular life a long line of girls who are willing to give it up to him for a ride in his hot sports car, so why would he need a platonic sugar baby?

      One of the biggest problems nowadays is that sugar babies who can’t get a date in their real life want a 25 year old supermodel who will give them unlimited allowance for a platonic arrangement, and sugar daddies want 18 year old supermodels who will have sex with them and then pay the old decrepit sugar daddy for the privilege because he’s so hot.

      Obviously, there is a huge gap between the “bid” and the “ask”.

    • R R says:

      The short answer is “No.” The long answer is “None.”

    • Anon says:

      Sure, the going rate is 15K for a platonic date with a ride on a Unicorn thrown in.

  103. Anonymous says:

    I wish they had a heat map for canada

  104. Real Dave says:

    If you’re an SD older than 40 and you have an an older than you are , that woman is not an SB ,she’s your surrogate grandmother .

  105. TN SD says:

    I’ve been a SD since 1993. Very generous, thoughtful and always loyal to my SB. I had great SB’s in the 25-40 age range. Younger than 25 think they are entitled, should be paid $5000 a month plus and a CLUELESS.

    Over 40 age range have attitude issues, divorced, and either looking for a husband/father or have a really bad attitude.

    But, being an SD is a wonderful lifestyle………

    • Latin SB says:

      Completely agree on the 25-40 range. I am 30, and my SD, who is older than me, is very happy with me because I adapt so easily to circumstances and to the plans for the day.

    • Jjs says:

      Or some of us over-40 women who are thinking about being a SB want to be appreciated and treated like a woman…. because we know how to appreciate a gentleman. I’m married, love my DH but want a NSA with someone older who will enjoy spending time with me as a woman rather than as a wife and mother. The sexual side effects, if there, would be quite welcome. Don’t make assumptions on age. Go by experience, life status, and compatibility.

    • bionda says:

      hello I am a male looking for adventure beautiful are from Romania adore Lecare very send me a email and I counted

    • Alternatedating says:

      In my experience, women on here older than mid-20’s are way more likely to be divas, expect larger allowances than younger women, and want hyper NSA transactional situations

      • Latin SB says:

        Maybe you look for the wrong type of woman… Or maybe you dislike an ambitious woman, see them as a threat? You sound like a man who resents mature women. When I was in my 20s I was really shallow and naive. Shopping made me happy and more. Now I also want some substance out of a relationship, but never like in a girlfriend/boyfriend thing. I get bored easily especially if there is no plan outside the bedroom thing. Now I am 30, and my Daddy likes the way I am; he calls me his muse and a mesmerizing woman, so I am doing something right. Also, he is not so much into young women, because to him, they are too flat.

      • Latin SB says:

        Maybe you look for the wrong type of woman because the 30s age bracket is the new 20s. When I was in my 20s I was really shallow and naive. Shopping was my thing, it made me happy. Now I want some fulfillment out of a relationship, but never like in a girlfriend/boyfriend thing. I get bored easily especially if there is no plan outside the bedroom. Now I am 30, and my Daddy likes the way I am; he calls me his muse and a mesmerizing woman, so I am doing something right. Also, he is not so much into young women, because to him, they are too flat.

      • Anonymous says:

        You just showed your true colors that are bland and boring and exactly what your fellow bottom feeders learn’t you. You are cheap (regardless of your income). S lif entitled and you are NOT the gift that keeps on giving; yet…you expect your counterpart to be what you are not. Oh my, I am yawning. Not from the time, but from the boredomn of responding to your mom existence. Next?

    • Anonymous says:

      You sound conceded and jaded and have been abused, used, and refuse to see the beauty in te eye of the beholder. At minimum, I believe your glass eye has a crack. Is there a profeasional Dr. In the house? We have a strange relative visiting this Christmas. Haaaa

    • jonwilson says:

      Uh oh…….someone opened up the Hornets nest!!

      I’ve found it completely depends on the individual.
      Finding that individual is the real challenge.

  106. bella says:

    looking to be a sugar babie

  107. sarah says:

    ladies has anyone talked to payingbillz300?? is he a scam?

  108. sarah says:

    any black female in the virginia area having luck finding an sd?

  109. travel says:

    Do SD’s only go for ladies in their city or don’t mind looking in other states? Would twice a month work if both live in different states? I really would prefer a man in different city. I don’t mind him flying to me and I can pay a visit to his hotel room that way away from the wifey and I can escape the roommates once in a while …

    • EyesOnU says:

      I have been proposed by men from overseas, so your idea is not impossible.

    • Alternatedating says:

      I travel a lot so that works.

      And not everyone has a wifey … I know most SB’s on here seem to prefer married guys.

    • R R says:

      Actually, I prefer SBs away from my hometown. Our get-togethers revolve around my biz travels so we only get together 8-10x/yr. It’s worked for her and I for over 5 yrs but “your mileage may vary.” 😉

    • AndreP says:

      I travel to several states on a regular basis and it would be nice to meet someone intermittently, but the SB I meet want to meet weekly with a weekly allowance.

  110. David Xeno says:

    Where are all the real girls in Los Angeles. Even if there not bots there’s no substance. I’m looking for a muse, come on ladies, someone has to be real, looking for adventure and worth it. – David Xeno

  111. sd with open eyes says:

    What is it with these sugar babies these days? One sugar baby’s opening message was “xxxxxxxxbiz”. I reported her immediately.

    • sd with open eyes says:

      What is it with these sugar babies these days? One sugar baby’s opening message was the name of an escort site. I reported her immediately.

  112. sd with open eyes says:

    I had to block a sugar baby today. I was very suspicious because her pictures looked like different people and she threw her phone number at me in the first couple of messages. I google searched one of her pictures and it was being used on a fitness modeling site.

  113. ThePharaoh says:

    Where are the sugar mommies? seriously…

  114. Looking for a sugar daddy55-70 He must love to spoil his lady and get the same!!

  115. sd with open eyes says:

    Just this week I have had two potential sugar babies give me their phone number relatively quickly. Both of the numbers are in the Hodges Directory (which usually means the numbers are suspect). Something is strange with the internet and phone numbers. I googled my own cell phone number and got a lot of people with the number but not me.

    Are other people getting sugar babies throwing numbers at them recently? And is the a good site for gathering intelligence on a phone number?

    • Latin SB says:

      I never give out my number. I did set up a messaging app that use IDs as the adding contact method. Phone numbers are too personal to give them to just anyone. I never call people who give it to me either. Seems bad news to me.

    • sarah says:

      after a few emails back and forth if there is connection and we seem to get along well i give out my phone number. However it IS NOT my real personal cell number. It is a google voice number that ring straight to my cell phone.. i can even text from that number.. so i still keep it private until im comfortable..

  116. Gloss says:

    I would love to have SD who won’t to have some FUN with little old me.

  117. Gloss says:

    Trying to shop and have some fum

  118. Anonymous says:

    I’ve been looking at a lot of profiles of 18 and 19 year old girls and I’m amazed at how many are saying online only, no meeting, no intimacy, etc. but still expect money. Are they totally clueless or just downright stupid? I like the attractiveness of the younger SB’s but how much trouble is it to get a beneficial arrangement with one? Any experiences would be helpful and appreciated.

    • Anon says:

      That’s the new dead SA for you.

    • Anonymous says:

      Like you said, women 18and 19 range are very clueless and misinformed. Their idea of mutual benefits is to spoil them with money and gifts and in return they will let you gawk at them and that will be it. Eventually they do come to realization what mutual benefits is all about. The best approach to women in these age range is the old traditional way of dating, just start platonic. They are open to dating older men they just need a bit of training wheels to get them started to the actual concept.

      • sd says:

        I don’t bother with sb under 35. They’re worthless in bed.

      • Anonymous says:

        You’d be surprise but some of these millennial SBs are pretty good in bed. It’s a generation where they learn sex ed by wathcing online porn 🙂

      • Ex-Sugar Daddy says:

        During my novice years, I was in a “sugar relationship” with a very hot 20 y.o. Her profile says seeking a “mutually beneficial” relationship. After some money wasted and getting no action, I soon realized that “mutually beneficial” relationship means that I get to stare at her Highness’s beauty and her playing with her cell phone constantly on our date. She was very hot though but I later dropped her like a hot potato.

      • sarah says:

        worthless in bed?? hmmmmm i dont agree..not all of them.. im 31 and i can hold it down real good.just ask my last sd.. 😉 he always asked for more ..:)

      • jonwilson says:

        I’ve found younger SB require a much greater level of patience…..but can pay great benefits, just realize the right time to cut and run, otherwise your time and energy could be used elsewhere.

      • Anomynous says:

        sounds advice

    • Anonymous says:

      I don’t target sb in their 20s. Most of them are scammers and they’re worthless in bed. I stick to 35 and up.

    • Anonymous says:

      I’m 49 & the thought of some one under 30 is just too close to the age of my children,and that is disgusting. My sb is older than me. I like the confidence and sex appeal, less drama too.

    • R R says:

      I’ve found numerous SBs in their mid-20s that are more worldly and quite adroit between the sheets, too. Maybe I’m lucky or maybe I put a little more effort into it. I’ve found that the ones who wish to communicate w/ one-line messages and text-speak are almost always air-heads. If they can’t construct a paragraph or even a sentence their MINDS are “coyote ugly.”

      • Latin SB says:

        R R, could you tell me why do some SDs -mostly in their 30s- focus so much in seeing pics instead of the well prepared profile I have? I even state in the profile how can they get access to my private pics but they just expect to defy that and ask for them without even saying “Hi”. If I am spending my time with someone, at least I want it to be enjoyable, and without a conversation I cannot conclude they will be enjoyable. What are your thoughts about this?

  119. Anonymous says:

    i wish i could find a sugar daddy.. i get tired of feeling alone 🙁

    • yougottabekiddingme says:

      It was long ago concluded that the age of vag1nal deterioration and wane of desirability is 25, Real Dave. Clearly, you’ve been riding the granny train, and loving it.

  120. Anonymous says:

    Not everyone has a hidden agenda. The more the ladies and. En are exposed to sincerity in life, the more that this site will flourish. Otherwise, myself and everyone inclusive here might as well be vindictive and manipulating. I say such, only be used I babe lurked I indescretely for a year, and manipulation to financial gAin at all cost. Regardless and deafening my ears to the alternative mans version of f’n cry, is all I have derived. That is, unles I exposed myself as the notes goddess the man has encountered and wrapped my arms tight and legs right, to show…no improv is needed, when it is; a la natural. Capeshe?

  121. Anonymous says:

    I find so many comments comical, even my own. I just a neighOra husband innocently say; “hey, why so t you invite my wife, she works for your company in a separate division, but T least this way, you would not feel like you are flying solo. And, I responded; “umm, bc j am not gay.” And, I was met with; “trust me, neither is she, I was just saying that you wouldn’t be alone and you could educate her on the hierarchy differentials. ”

    I marinated on the simpatico suggestion, to realize; “hum my, many times we all rush In to burn down a flame that is worth kindling the flame, in order to widen our perspective and open our eyes. Just as listening, yet listening with only our ears and not listening to those who are jealous of reaching higher ground before they do.

  122. Anonymous says:

    That right side is hot O:

  123. Anonymous says:

    I don’t know if it’s just my SB profile, but I used to get 3-5+ interests (views) and messages a day. Now that December has rolled around; I’m getting none. This has gone on for days. Why the shade all of the sudden? Another thing, a lot of daddies claim that 80% of SB profiles are escorts. Especially if their profile title is ‘I’m not an escort’ or ‘Don’t treat me like a prostitute’- they probably are one. Do yourselves a favor and report them. Seriously. They’re ruining this for the other SB’s. Don’t buy gifts for them either. They will block you and probably sell them for drugs.

    • EyesOnU says:

      Well, then revamp your profile, upload a new pic, etc. Probably all guys there were for you to interact with already did and so don’t bother to write to you.

    • Maj. Gains says:

      This is a form of entertainment, is it not? I would guess the holidays provide stiff competition; you know, holiday parties and events and such. I notice profiles with emojis catch my eye. If need SD yesterday, would suggest sprucing up that profile for max exposure. Or go premium. SA, do I get a kickback? ?☺️

  124. DontTellTheM0derators says:


  125. Tristan74 says:

    Why do some profile just disappears all of the sudden. I have three of them this week just disappears while messaging.

    • sd with open eyes says:

      The profiles may have been removed for terms of service violations. Or, the people behind the profiles may have closed their accounts, deciding sugar was not for them. Or, they may have blocked you (although that tends to be more rare).

      • Calli dan says:

        Actually, I have hundreds of blocked profiles. Girls that are too far away, platonic, overweight, neck tattoos… Those are all instant blocks. Not going to waste a second on them

    • sd with open eyes says:

      Oddly enough I have had three profiles that I was messaging vanish in the past couple of weeks. Spooky.

    • jaytee says:

      Maybe they found a SD and are not looking for another

  126. Cub401 says:

    i have yet to find a sugar mommy and i know i am not the problem. can anybody help?

    • EyesOnU says:

      Well, Sugar Mommys are very picky… If you specified on your profile you are looking for women, they will come to you eventually. Or maybe there is something on your profile they find unattractive. One never knows.

  127. Sofie says:

    I don’t know if there any sincere SD’s in NYC lol, justt alot of super cocky or painfully insecure men who cheat on thier wives and want a hot young college girl for free

    • EyesOnU says:

      If they are soliciting – proposing to have sex, report the profile.
      If they are looking for a side girl, report them as well… people have no time for that here.

      • kinda Anon says:

        You are suggesting she reports the married men on the site? It is a relationship status option. If SA had a problem with married men on the site, they would have a major financial problem. About a third of the men admit to being married, but in reality it is more like 80 to 90%

      • EyesOnU says:

        No, I said that I have found guys here that intend to find a girl, like they would in Badoo or you name it… not for arrangements but real life dating, while being married. I have run into some of them. That is not what the site was created for.

    • Shemarches says:

      Same here in the Tampa area. They are mostly married,liars and want free time and sex.

  128. Anonymous says:

    Are there any REAL SDs in LA who actually do what they say they’re going to do? Im so annoyed by all of these fake men wasting my time

  129. Anonymous says:

    Statistics 101

    All Heat Maps are Population Maps

    • duh says:

      Any useful information to share with us?

      • DontTellTheM0derators says:

        @Statistics 101 and @duh

        Ha…glad someone else was able to say it. Providing useful information puts baby in the corner, Duh. But, yes, this “Sugar Daddy Heat Map” is no more representative of sugar activity than it is of the general population.

  130. Charlie says:

    Can anyone please tell me if it is possible to upgrade to premium account using a prepaid card. And if yes, are all prepaid cards accepted ? Thanks.

  131. Khloe Acevedo says:

    I Just Need A SD In San Diego that doesnt mind actually doing what a SD is supposed to do because im tired of these half assed SD’s

  132. Alternatedating says:

    Lots of new “online” women starting accounts in the past couple of weeks who appear to be real. They all say I want to start an online relationship and then after their comfortable we’ll meet.

    Must be something on the internet suggesting this. Are there guys who actually fall for this?

    • Jess_J says:

      That really sounds like a scam. A lot of SD are the same though, all they do is texting but when it comes to meeting up they always cancel. Whats the point of looking for someone if you dont want to actually meet.

    • Anonymous says:

      Scam. They are mostly middle-aged men in Nigeria.

    • Kany says:

      Well, for me it was a tv sitcom that mentioned this site and what it was for. Then I did a little research on what is this about, so I joined. Being the way you describe is not being a scammer like someone else here said, it is just the way some people approcach things. I do it and it has helped to sort out the flakes.

    • Latin SB says:

      Well, for me it was a tv sitcom that mentioned this site and what it was for. Then I did a little research on what is this about, so I joined.

    • Haha says:

      To each his own. To me it sounds counter intuitive to pay for services, which for the most part, is free nowadays.

  133. Rick says:

    Apparently ALL sent mail is now marked at “Read”. They need to get this fixed

  134. Anonymous says:

    When a Sugar Baby puts on her profile”a few extra pounds” she means about a hundred or more.

  135. bre says:

    I definitely put a dent in that haha.

  136. Chris says:

    What is going on with SA, messages don’t get sent, get sent and show as read when no read. When you look who is online under your searches it shows one thing, then when you look under your favorites it shows them being online 2 -3 days ago yet they are online right now and the list goes on WTF is wrong with this site.For the money they charge us guys I would think they could get their shit together and hire real programmers to make this thing work.

  137. Anonymous says:

    This here remains fooked up.

  138. sd with open eyes says:

    I think something must be wrong with the SA hard drive. First I get informed that SA has a new feature for Premium Sugar Babies when I am a Sugar Daddy. Then I look at my sent messages and every one was read, even by those who haven’t logged in since I sent the message, and now when I try to access my messages I intermittently get a “we can’t find that” message.

  139. sd with open eyes says:

    Is there a constructive response as a sugar daddy to an opening message of “hey”?

    • EyesOnU says:

      Maybe checking her profile and start or follow the conversation? haha

      • sd with open eyes says:

        I really dislike sugar babies who make a sugar daddy do all of the work from the very beginning. As for checking their profile, if they had checked mine they would have found out that I don’t like one word cold messages. Also, most sugar baby profiles are extremely generic. It’s usually not possible to pick something of interest out of their profiles to start a conversation. Maybe the best solution is to write “hey” back?

      • EyesOnU says:

        Well, I have met SDs that pretend that I do all the work as well. I think it goes both ways. And about the one word messages warning on your profile, you took your measures about it, but not everybody else does. As per generic profile, mine is nothing but generic, I have some actual info and opinions written there 😉 So I guess I am not your average SB haha.

    • Alternatedating says:

      Gee I get tired of SB’s who respond with yeah or sure when you’re trying to figure out if your compatible.

      Q.Such as do you like weekend trips? What kinds of things do you like to do?


      I use this website because I think college educated women in their 20’s are smarter than the over 35 dating pool … yeah and sure just doesn’t cut it.

  140. Anonymous says:

    This is a great idea, but obviously wasn’t done by anyone with a background in data.

    This “heat map” is pretty much the same thing as a population map! Duh!

    It needs to be corrected for population.

    Obviously the more populated areas have more sugar seekers!

    You need to plot the number of sugar seekers relative to the local population to get anything meaningful.

    This map, while a great idea, is completely useless.

    Anytown USA in the middle of nowhere might have a population of 10, but if 5 of those are sugar seekers, it would be one of the “hottest” in the country.

    Just because there are 10,000 sugar seekers in NYC (with a population of 8 million) doesn’t make it a “hot” spot.

    Try again, please.

  141. SB Newbie says:

    I’m trying to get the hang of this site. I’ve been getting some inquiries but it seems like the conversation stops after they ask to meet me. I’m all for it but then they never respond again. What the heck?? Has anybody had any success on this site as of late?

    • EyesOnU says:

      Me, kind of. Intimate part is being an issue. Daddies will always go for the meet in person because of the catfishes and the fake pictures. Maybe try to analyze a little the conversation? Sometimes there is a message between the lines and you don’t catch it… IDK, really.

    • EyesOnU says:

      Me, kind of because I have had some issues in some areas with the SD. Have you agreed on an actual meeting and then get stood up?

      • SB Newbie says:

        No, I haven’t been stood up. At least not yet. The conversation can be going so great, but once it’s time to meet… nothing. I don’t understand because they are the ones who initiated the meeting. I usually send a follow up message with either no response back or an excuse as to why we haven’t met. I almost feel like the profiles are fake. I don’t know.

      • EyesOnU says:

        I see. Maybe they feel you as not into what they want so they ghost you. The same happens to me, so just keep trying.

    • Haha says:

      Ignore. Move on. Not worth it unless you’re in the dry area of the heat map.

  142. Anonymous says:


  143. Anonymous says:

    I do not understand anything about this site, I do not know how to do anything absently, can anyone help me?

  144. Anonymous says:

    Just wondering if I’m the only one struggling to find quality SD’s in Ohio? Like ones who will provide a decent allowance. If you have some magical way of finding the good ones please tell me, I’m drowning in splenda here ladies…

    • EyesOnU says:

      They are that way everywhere, even where I am from. I guess it is all about the looks and you keeping the negotiation open. Also, if they feel obligated will be a turn off to give a good allowance. Check out the blogs at Let’s Talk Sugar and learn about how to improve your game.

    • Anonymous says:

      No, never met a real SD from Ohio.

      • Lucifer says:

        You’ll find plenty of Splendia and Salt Daddies. virtually no sugar moms.
        The Daddies seem to want life partners, not Sugar Arrangements. Like this is SA not an OK or PlentyOf dating site. unless it’s plenty of sugar. ?

    • kinda anon says:

      The map is bright red in Ohio so you should not be having any problem at all 🙂

    • Anonymous says:

      midwest sds are generally pretty shitty unless they are in a major city

      • Vixxen says:

        Please take that back..
        I dated a Cincinnati man 15 years older than me. We had a BF-GF relationship for 4 years, and, our relationship was really really beautiful. I met with an accident during our 2nd year together, and I didn’t go to job for 14 months. The whole time, I was living off my BF. He not only supported me finanacially, but also, emotionally.

        We had to move to different cities and break off the engagement.

        He would still support me, if I asked him to fund my college studies, but, He is engaged to another girl now, and, I don’t want to get in their way.

        Hence, i’m here..

        Anyways, my point is — Men from mid-west are Gentlemen who treats a lady with Respect, and are really really generous..

  145. Anonymous says:

    seeking seriously

  146. QueenBey says:

    Where are the daddies in Minneapolis?

  147. sd with open eyes says:

    Do any of the other Sugar Daadies search by keyword? And if so, what keywords do you find helpful?

    Also, it would be really cool if one could exclude keywords like one can in google search. For example, if one did not want to see profiles with the keyword “platonic” then one could have as search text “-platonic”.

  148. sd with open eyes says:

    A lady can be any size she wants, however I find it misleading when a sugar baby lists her body type as “athletic” when it looks like the sport that she plays is sumo wrestling.

    • Anonymous says:

      Same thing with fat women who have slim looking faces and so only post a face shot or try and hide their chins by taking pics of their face from an elevated angle.

    • Anon Guy says:

      Let’s be honest for the guys, we have a certain figure or a face look we want. The pictures can be deceiving at times and/or the girls use pictures from a few years back when she was slim and now she is not.

      Girls, we all know what this is, don’t lie about how you look as guys should not lie about the allowance to be provided.

  149. Kellyrose says:

    seeking for serious and long term relationship that would leads to married ………only serious men?

  150. sugar baby monkey says:

    this sb thing is just disgusting

  151. Anonymous says:

    Would it be possible to get a transgender filter or block feature on this site? Yay for everyone, and not that there’s anything wrong with that, blah blah… but clicking through on profiles only to find out she’s a dude is getting pretty annoying. Maybe it’s more of an issue being in SF. Invariably it shows that I viewed the profile and then I’ll get a message back asking if I’m into TS and then I have to either be rude and ignore it or say “nah, man not my scene” which only begets more emails. So how about a filter or blocker of some type so those profiles never come up?

  152. Anonymous says:

    apparently it’s hot in NY. I’ve just had no luck.

  153. Kali says:

    Im in Texas and its true there is a lot going on over here 🙂

  154. PW says:

    It is hot where I am. Florida is on fire.
    Now I just have to figure out how to get around this site. I am new at this.
    A simple girl. Still waiting for my profile to get approved.

  155. Susie says:

    The sugar baby of the year is Melania Trump. It goes to show pssy can take you places….

  156. sd with open eyes says:

    I think there is a special type of disappointment when there is a sugar baby that you didn’t click with, but you were thinking that you would send her a note asking if things had otherwise worked out for her, only to find that she had closed her profile and left the site.

    • Anonymous says:

      If you didn’t click, why the disappointment?

      • sd with open eyes says:

        The probably erroneous assumption that after seeing the other Sugar Daddies out the the Sugar Baby will come to the conclusion that the original Sugar Daddy wasn’t so bad after all and would be willing to lower her standards. (lol)

      • sd with open eyes says:

        The totally unrealistic hope that after seeing all the other sugar daddies in a reasonable radius that the sugar baby would conclude that I was the best one and lower her standards.

      • EyesOnU says:

        LOL SBM, I had a POT SD just like that. He even swore to me I would get back to him begging. But he is a psycho, and was always seeking confrontation with his conversational subjects. If there was not an open argument going on, he was not satisfied. I want happiness too, damnit.

      • EyesOnU says:

        LOL, I meant SD With Open Eyes*

    • Anonymous says:

      Should not it be feeling of satisfaction? Maybe she was not really serious anyway.

      • sd with open eyes says:

        That’s the “cup half full” thought. We probably did not click because the user was only pretending to be female and left the site because he wasn’t able to find any guys who were willing to pay money for text messages.

      • RE eyes says:

        Satisfaction & cup 1/2 full assuming she found what she needed I would hope to read. Jesus fkg crst, smh at responses. Is there anyone here with a even a thread of good moral fiber?

      • sd with open eyes says:

        RE eyes: Would it make you feel better if I called the scenario where the sugar baby left because she was outed as a fake or gave up “sour grapes”?

    • PW says:

      Awwww that is sad. You snooze you loose I guess. You should always follow your heart. It never hurts to check up on someone you clicked with. Tomorrow is never promised. I act on my feeling and do not wait for things to slip away anymore.

      • sd with open eyes says:

        True, not only could they leave the site, they could also stay on the site but move away.

      • RE eyes says:

        @sd with open eyes says (November 22, 2016 at 7:53 am):

        As PW said, you snooze you loose. I usually just hide my profile when I find someone that I like. However, if there was no talk of arrangement on the first date, I assume they are not interested or just want a free girlfriend…so I block them to clean up my search and move on.

        We are also busy, some of us working two and three jobs, so we don’t have time for the games that posers present.

  157. Anonymous says:

    “Oldbutgold” is a younger guy in Germany who stole his pictures from an older German businessman. He is a probably a pimp who has an escort site.

  158. Anonymous says:

    This here is gone.
    And it ain’t coming back.
    Well, this is pretty minor. SA still rules.

  159. Anonymous says:

    Demoram muito para aprovarem o perfil.

  160. Anonymous says:

    What o have finally reAlized. If you are gonna wish, wish big. But this is blog isn’t it and never will be. You are better off buying a fat ass dildo to last through the Holidays and beyond and eve through to next year l, an equL opportunity employer, I’m sure. Lmao. All I am saying is: become what they are or make them succomb to you, that it ladies. goodwill hunting!

  161. Anonymous says:

    Too many and I can’t even find a generous one! Gosh!

  162. Anonymous says:

    So that map is the best you can offer SA? Site could use some edit and delete options as well.
    And, what happened to Jaybird923s comment?

    • yougottabekiddingme says:

      I translated Real Dave’s post, and Jaybird laughed, and then we both got in trouble.

      I thought it was a pretty succinct translation, if I must say so myself. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

      • Anonymous says:

        Ahh, i see.

        So they’re keeping the delete button to themselves, selfish admins.

        I think you’d be fun to hang out with ygtbkm. I am a female though. 😉

      • Jaybird923 says:

        I thought it was a pretty succinct translation as well 🙂

  163. Anonymous says:

    any foreign maps?

  164. DreamGirl3000 says:

    Minneapolis is really HOT…come and get me daddies! xo$xo$

  165. Real Dave says:

    The heat is on ladies !

  166. SweetLife26 says:

    Anyone know why Victoria’s Secret and Sephora gift cards were removed from wish list options? Such a bummer. 🙁

  167. Anonymous says:

    guess all of them are still down in the states.

  168. FedUpAnon says:

    SA is still dead…

  169. Anonymous says:

    Sugar daddies in Michigan are soo splenda. Don’t waste your time ladies.

  170. jowilson says:

    I’m in Maine, interestingly near the bottom of all the lists…..
    However, plenty of SB, just not many quality people…..
    Is it the same for others out there?

  171. Anonymous says:

    Atlanta is on fire….again. 🙂


  172. sd with open eyes says:

    The place where I am at has the very lightest shade of yellow with a fifty mile radius around it with no color at all.

  173. FedUpAnon says:

    Nevada doesn’t look that hot.

  174. Anonymous says:

    Where’s the English version

  175. Anonymous says:

    The kids in today’s society already know where we are going…Do you?

  176. Anonymous says:

    Where’s Waldo? Bernie Mack? Or even Kevin Heart, when you need them? Someone make a joke and give some comic relief. If your first, then I will hold up and second and say who is on third? And who is hitting he home run, around here?

    I am still waiting on the blue stockings from the last blog. What up-YGTBKM?

  177. Anonymous says: