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Why Sugar Beats Vanilla Every Time


Most of us consider traditional dating and having an arrangement two different lifestyles, but one doesn’t stray too far from the other. Sugaring, much like vanilla dating, takes the best parts of a traditional relationship and combines it with casual dating that is mutually-beneficial for both parties. Seeing this as a great advantage, more singles are choosing Sugar over the standard norm. Here are three reasons why Sugaring beats vanilla dating every time:


Relationships on your terms


In a traditional relationship, sharing what you want upfront can often seem taxing. On the contrary, an arrangement makes the exception to set expectations initially without consequences. Within the Sugar world, you get to interact with people who are upfront from the beginning so you can find the perfect person that meets your terms. Traditional marriage often proposes sacrifices or accommodation to ensure happiness for the other person or better of the relationship. Sugar dating eliminates such restraints and gives you the ability to match with multiple different people who meet every part of your expectations.


Reasonable expectations


Speaking of expectations, in the Sugar world, you can reasonably expect to be yourself within your arrangement. You don’t have to act a certain way to “court” someone into a relationship. Many ideals today say you must look or act a certain way in order to attract a partner, but in Sugar, you know what you are getting from the start. If you end up growing apart or changing ideas of what you want, you can reasonably expect to move on to another arrangement.


No Strings Attached


The loss of a traditional relationship often leaves one feeling distressed, lonely and sometimes angry. Depending on how much was invested emotionally and psychologically, a breakup can change many parts of someone’s life. In an arrangement, it’s generally agreed upon to check your emotions at the door. Although there is no guarantee that feelings won’t develop over the course of the relationship, this allows you the freedom of dating without emotional investment. Should your arrangement come to an end, you have the freedom to move on and find someone else who can better satisfy your expectations.


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33 Responses to “Why Sugar Beats Vanilla Every Time”

  1. savannahjay says:

    has any women in Chicago found a legit sd on SA? I’m just having a hard time finding quality men. I just want to know if anyone else had success recent.

  2. Anonymous says:


  3. Anonymous says:

    is it standard for sugar mommies to ask for my online bank access to mobile check deposit
    money? I feel like its a scam

    • Anonymous says:

      Scam! This is NOT standard. Please listen to your gut. Also, there are some really wonderful articles online you can google that explain the most popular ways sugar babies go about receiving their allowance.

  4. anonymous says:

    anyone know if a member can tell if you blocked them or is it just that they cant search you anymore?

  5. Curious says:

    I am wondering if I should respond to the 28yo that says to not be fooled by her innocent looks because she lives the thug life to the fullest

    such hard choices to make on here lately

    • Chris says:

      Go for it, what’s the worst that can happen, lol! Quality on this site sank. I love the girls that say if you are looking for sex get off my profile right now. I respect my body and so should you. I wonder where they think they are? Hahaha! This place has actually become more amusing than anything else.

      • John says:

        This is becoming the norm. Or “ I am open to anything …except A B C D E F” or I’ll scratch your back if you scratch mine but the scratching on their part is limited to only to dinner and the priveledge Of their company

    • Anonymous says:

      RUN!!! lol

  6. AfternoonDelight says:

    Hi! I am a 27 yo female and I have been in the sugar bowl for 3 years! I actually was introduce to “sugaring” from an undeclared Sugar Daddy( meaning her didn’t promote his financial intentions). We traveled, went on new and exciting dates, bought gifts, helped with bills, and we truly bonded! In the beginning it was vanilla(or what seemed), I only saw him twice a month. Then it turned more towards sugaring. He didn’t want to become too intimate, didn’t do friendly check ups, family history, friend introduction, or even long term plans. Although he was supporting our lifestyle, I assumed that it was to become a vanilla relationship but after feelings were caught and I confessed my emotions he finally told me what his expectations were.

    I can say with experience, sugaring is better in the sense that people are UPFRONT(when they’re not low-life scammers) and when both parties can compartmentalize their emotions and needs. No, im not looking to live off an SD(I actually prefer knowledge and wealth) but I am seeking someone who can provide me an honest to goodness exchange that feels complete and justified.
    I respect your time you respect mine. *Mic drop

  7. PolyDaddyGo says:

    There is almost no difference between real Sugar dating and vanilla. The money aspect, while attractive, certainly isn’t the prime motivator in sugar. No serious Sugar Baby is going to forego safety, or respect, or having a good time, for the typical allowance arrangement (unless there is some fetish aspect to the arrangement). All the “sugar” does is open the door and sort of grease the wheels to get something started, and it does tend to reduce the potential for drama if both partners are mature enough. In sugar dating, both participants still need to have their dating games sharp: they still need to seduce, and flirt, and create a space where trust and respect can take root and grow.

    As a married man in a poly relationship, I prefer sugar every time. Unicorns “in the lifestyle” with tons of experience don’t really impress, and escorts/providers are always on the clock. In sugar dating, we have found partners who have some experience but want to learn more while getting help with bills, etc.

    Addressing one comment on this thread, I think there are far too many escorts on this site, and I think that SA needs to do a much better job of vetting profiles. It isn’t too hard to spot them.

  8. Anon says:

    Fed up with inaccurate descriptions. Introduce a third gender “transgender” so people can accurately describe what they are and make it easier for people to include/exclude genders in their searches.

    • Anonymous says:

      I agree that transgender should have their own listing. Some are obvious about it, while others bury it deep in their profile and waste then time of someone who isn’t interested in meeting them.

  9. Caroline-Jayne says:

    I love being a SB but I have found that the expectation of being an ‘Escort’ is becoming more popular. That’s not what I’m about. I’m all for the traditional!!! However I feel the whole arrangement thing is slowly being destroyed by a few so it is hard to see who is genuine and who is vanilla in disguise wanting to spend time with a classy lady. So come on SD’s make it clear, bring back what we all love and lets get rid of the smut and leave them to their vanilla in disguise lifestyles 🙂

    • Anonymous says:

      What’s really destroying the notion of arrangements, is SA promoting the idea that FinDom is part of a legitimate arrangement. FinDom is a FETISH, that only a very select few SD’s will want. They really need to drop FinDom as an interest, because it misleads many ladies into thinking there is a high probability they will find it here.

      Equally as bad, are the numbers of ladies (typically the youngest ones here) who want “platonic” or “non intimate” arrangements. They need to stop kidding themselves. Very few men are going to pay for their college education, just so they can be friends. Now, that’s not to say most men want an escort, as there’s a huge difference between banging anyone, and sharing intimacy with one person with whom you have something deeper than purely physical.

      • N. O. Nemuss says:

        Many SB’s seem to think that this is GoFundMe.

      • Anonymous says:

        there is also a lot of you tube women setting up accounts to get something to talk about on their channel they have no intention of being sugar babies

      • AndreP says:


      • rio bravo says:

        I find it painfully funny when I see in a profile ” just wanna be friends, not looking for anything intimate “. Not much of friend if you’re paying. Definitely not the kind of friend I want. Absolutely absurd and ridiculous.

      • Anonymous says:

        I’m glad they list FinDom as a desired category. Easy to find and quickly block them.

    • Anon says:

      There is no “traditional”, its only what you have chosen to define as traditional. An arrangement is between two parties, if you are not getting an arrangement that suits you, maybe what is being offered is not attractive to the other party.

  10. poop says:

    seriously. i signed on to find a sugar momma. there are none.

  11. poop says:

    this site has no sugar mommas at all

  12. Marcus Tullius Cicero says:

    The idea that NSA is some kind of lofty ideal which successful people ought to pursue is feebly founded, at best. The notion that fear from ending a relationship should encourage anyone to look for alternative relationships, such as the one promoted by this site, is about the same as the notion that fear from getting wet should encourage people not to take a shower, ever.

  13. Anonymous says:

    What happens to these “princesses” when there’s no man in sight to cater to their alleged “princessness”.

  14. TheConsultant says:

    Sugar pays and you can enjoy both.

  15. Anonymous says:

    Be the first to comment as long as it’s some meaningless babble.