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Seeking Lifestyle Coaching Presents: Profile Rewrite Contest 2018


Hey Seekers!

Want the chance to get your profile professionally re-written by our very own dating coach, Alexis? I guess dreams do come true, we are offering 5 lucky participates in the opportunity to win!

Here’s how to enter:

  1. Follow both @Seeking and @LetsAskAlexis on Instagram

  2. Like one of our giveaway posts and tag a friend in the comments.

Winners will be announced via Instagram DM on September 10th on the Seeking Instagram page.

Each additional person tagged in a new post throughout the week counts for an additional entry. Winners must be following our Instagram page and members of Seeking.com in order to win. The contest is open to anyone 18+. Good luck!

Contest Rules:

OFFICIAL CONTEST RULES FOR Seeking Lifestyle Coaching Profile Rewrite Giveaway.
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GENERAL RULES: By entering or participating in the Contest, entrants agree to be bound by these Official Rules and by the decisions of Sponsor, which are final and binding in all respects. The Sponsor Entities are not responsible for: (a) any incorrect or inaccurate information or technical failures of any kind, (b) unauthorized human intervention in any part of the entry process or the Contest; (c) any other computer, network, technical, human or other error, problem or malfunction that may occur in connection with the administration of the Contest, the processing of entries, or the selection or notification of the Winner, (d) damage to any computer (software or hardware) resulting from participation in the Contest, (e) theft or destruction of, tampering with, unauthorized access to, or alteration of entries and/or entry information, or (f) entries which are late, lost, stolen, damaged, illegible, unintelligible and/or postage due (or any combination thereof). Further, if, for any reason, the Contest is not capable of running as planned for reasons outside the control of the Sponsor which, in the sole opinion of Sponsor, may corrupt or affect the administration, security, fairness, integrity or proper conduct of the Contest (or portion thereof), Sponsor reserves the right, at Sponsor’s sole discretion, to cancel, terminate, modify or suspend the Contest (or portion thereof). Sponsor also reserves the right at Sponsor’s sole discretion to disqualify the entry of any individual found to be (i) tampering or attempting to tamper with the entry process or the operation of the Contest or any website operated by Sponsor; (ii) using any robotic, macro, automatic, programmed or like entry methods, which will void all such entries; (iii) violating these Official Rules or the terms of service, conditions of use, and/or general rules of any Sponsor property or service; or (iv) acting in an unsportsmanlike or disruptive manner, or with intent to annoy, abuse, threaten, or harass any other person. The Sponsor Entities are not responsible for claims, injuries, losses or damages of any kind resulting, in whole or in part, directly or indirectly, from the awarding, delivery, acceptance, use, misuse, possession, loss or misdirection of the Prize; participation in the Contest or in any activity or travel related thereto or from any interaction with, or downloading of, computer Contest information. This includes, but is not limited to, personal injury, death, and/or property damage, as well as claims based on publicity rights, defamation and/or invasion of privacy. The Sponsor Entities make no warranties and hereby disclaim any and all warranties, express or implied, concerning any Prize, furnished in connection with this Contest.
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105 Responses to “Seeking Lifestyle Coaching Presents: Profile Rewrite Contest 2018”

  1. Daniela Andrea Gómez Cordero says:

    Necesito más información porfavor

  2. Ninno Gaggi says:

    Hi everyone, can someone please tell me where is the ‘sugar sisters’ page and how I can get to it? Is it a discussion page somewhere on the site here?

    It’s really urgent. Thank you for all the help.

  3. Anonymous says:

    Chris, your having to pay to be given attention to. I wouldnt be downing others

    • Anonymous says:

      Haha, only sugar chumps pay just to meet. That’s not giving attention, its meeting to see if both sides have a vibe or chemistry. Who pays to go on an interview? Duh. Applies to SDs and SBs. If they do chemistry let’s talk sugar, if not no harm, no foul and no money.

  4. Anonymous says:

    or even put something in their profile instead of leaving it empty

  5. joe says:

    Do these sites have other sites

  6. ilovecake says:

    LOL! I do not want any of my friends or family knowing I am on this site, I thought digression was key. Is it not? I would love help on my profile but I also do not want anyone knowing I am here.. I can’t be the only one. 26, working and traveling. I just need some guidance and help. I am courteous and supportive, discreet and honest. – ilovecake

  7. ChicagoGal says:

    How come so called “SD” can’t even bring a small thank you gift to the first meet and greet? I’m sorry, but any guy can take me out and buy me dinner and drinks. This is a certain lifestyle we seek, hence we are on the site. Why not compensate just a little to show us you are serious about it. We spend a lot to look good, at least I do and nails, hair, makeup, pedicure, outfit etc… all adds up to a lot of $ spent to just go and have dinner and drinks. I can do that with friends and coworkers.

    • Anonymous says:

      you spend a lot of dollars for yourself a sugar daddy doesn’t need you spend a lot of money or any on a first meet

    • Simon Jester SD says:

      What are you going to do on the first date to show us you’re serious about it? Yeah, you chose this lifestyle but no one owes you anything.

    • OffWhiteKnight says:

      I agree with you for the most part, and your time is valuable too. I always offer a small gift upfront. It’s like bringing flowers and for me it signals a seriousness of intent. It just creates good feelings, I find.

      Every guy and gal is different, though. I just try to be respectful of everyone’s expectations. Keep looking, there are guys who are okay with this.

  8. yougottabekiddingme says:

    Hey SL,

    Thanks for bringing back the keyword search. I’m sure many appreciate it :).

  9. FortySevenSWM says:

    I am seeing a new part in SB profiles. Lots of minimal profiles that omit the “occupation” field and include “marriage minded”. Must be 10 or 11 new profiles in my area (Detroit area) that fall into this pattern.

    • Simon Jester SD says:

      One reason could be because a self professed SB in Texas, who has a YouTube channel, said on one of her videos a couple of months ago that the smart women are the ones who marry rich men and then divorce them for half their $$.

    • Anonymous says:

      i just skip those profiles i’m not interested in getting married again

  10. ed says:

    No longer can see who I block and have the ability to unblock?? Some warning would’ve been nice. I had a couple girls blocked that I may have reconsidered but now gone for ever. If I hide someone do they still see me in their search, their favorites? And is there NO email support for paid members??

    • yougottabekiddingme says:

      Perhaps you might consider being a little less trigg3r happy with the block button, Sir.

      I’ve never blocked anyone on this site, but have found that some people tend to use the block button as an ego/revenge/ego-hurt weapon. I actually prefer being able to reference why I chose not to move forward with someone. Polite declination or simply ignoring has worked just fine for me except for with one person who I found to be infatuated and emotionally strained, maybe a bit lost or something. He had a romanticized idea of what a relationship could be for us, and he never relented trying to convince me.

      If it came to actually blocking someone, it would not be someone I’d give a second consideration, likely because I would have already considered it before blocking them. You can also use the notes feature to list highlights (good and bad) of your interaction. But blockers’ regret? Sorry, not sorry.

      I do, however, think there should be a “confirm block” step as I’ve heard about people being blocked accidentally. I don’t have any experience with the steps, so not sure if this feature is already in place.

  11. Jaybird says:

    @YGTBKM! It’s been along time hope you’re doing well.

    @ATLSD tried emailing you a time or two to no avail. Hope you’re doing great too.

    @SD with Open Eyes How are you?

    @Dave I’ll be nice and say hi to you as well

    If I missed anyone sorry I hope the sugar world is treating you all well.

    • Anonymous says:

      nice to see you again jaybird hope life is going well for you stay sweet

    • yougottabekiddingme says:

      Hi Jaybird! Aww…it’s so nice to read from you :). Thanks for the shout-outs. I’ve been doing great. Keeping busy. I hope things are swell for you. I’ll have you know that I think of you from time to time when a certain musical prompt comes to mind. It’s pretty innocent, but perhaps a potential—albeit vague—identifier, so I’ll not mention. But it’s fun to fancy the image! 😀

    • Dave says:

      Hi how are you ? Thanks , nice to see you again

    • SD with Open Eyes says:

      @Jaybird – Doing well!

    • ATLSD says:

      @Jaybird hello. I have the same email. Maybe it’s off by a letter or character. I’ll shoot you a quickie.

  12. wtf says:

    I get it now , there is no more meet and greet , girls r just ready to directly meet at a hotel and the reason is they don’t want to waste time , really ?

    • wtf says:

      I guess desperation is messing up their judgement an they are ready to do it and take risk and meet directly in a room . SURPRISING

      • Anonymous says:

        not surprising but this is very dangerous

      • Simon Jester SD says:

        Not surprising. There are way more SB’s relative to SD’s. Most of the SD’s even say on their profile they don’t make very much money. SA puts the average at 1/4million for income. Not a lot of discretionary income there. And definitely not enough to support the lifestyle this website advertises for SB’s. So when they get a first date a lot of SB’s are willing to go all the way to try and secure an arrangement.

      • Anonymous says:

        Simon jester i agree with your logic but i don’t think the ratio of SB to SD has anything to do with it’s been my experience that sugar babies seem to be more desperate for money than they were in the past if they can get money on the first date they seem willing to take the risk

    • Anonymous says:

      yes that is the way it works now

  13. wtf says:

    wowwww now I get it why ppl say this site is not the same, I get it now

  14. wtf says:

    why cant I post?

  15. Anonymous says:

    NYCGuy50 is full of ****, ladies lots of BS on SA

  16. ATLSD says:

    Hey yougottobekiddingme,

    Check your email

    Thanks ATLSD

  17. Anonymous says:

    please fix the lifestyle expectations back please :c

  18. sam says:

    A few pointers. Don’t stick your tongue out. SD may want younger women but they don’t want an immature kid. Stop with the animal ears too.

    Take a look at yourself. Looks don’t matter to some men seeking free hook ups. Looks do matter to a man willing to enter an arrangement.

    Don’t just pose in your gym clothes, Show your range by including a nice dress.
    Do give us an idea of what you want (age range etc)

  19. wtf says:

    how ho I can fix my age it is wrong on profile

  20. wtf says:

    katanaaa how do you correct dob on the profile

  21. Dave says:

    Is this officially a dating site now ? Ah no…. there’s profiles just talking about $$$$$ so no .

  22. wtf says:

    again dob is not correct how can I fix it ?

  23. wtf says:

    how do you correct your age if it shows it wrong on your profile

  24. wtf says:

    is this you ? YGTBK ?

    • yougottabekiddingme says:

      Yeah, it’s me! Heya 😀

      • wtf says:

        wow nice to see you afterrrrrrr a longggggg time , how you been and hope all is well with you . this blog has really become boring now after all the people r kicked out . it use to be real fun

      • Dave says:

        It’s going okay ,I’m perusing the profiles yet again looking for my perfect girl but all I find are the usual delusional self proclaimed unicorns . How about you ? I stopped the pump and dumps with fake money . It got boring and mundane . It was bound to happen . Don’t think I’ll meet anyone worth rime or money

      • yougottabekiddingme says:


        I’ve been well and taking it easy, thanks for asking :). How have you been? Yes, the blog situation turned hot mess, and never recovered.


        Aww. Am glad to hear, Dave. I hope you mean it :). I think people are bound to find an ideal companion when intention is in the right places. Be patient, have fun, and do no harm.


  25. _Dave says:

    Women’s entitlement has reached an all time high . Now the profiles say “you must make me laugh “ in addition to the financial demands . Yes be my atm and clown . Yet if men even state one demand women get offended

  26. yougottabekiddingme says:


    Not sure if I didn’t notice before, or if the “quick profile view” is a new feature. Either way, it’s a brilliant and efficient tool for referencing a profile while messaging. Thanks for that :).

    • yougottabekiddingme says:

      SA, I meant :).

      • _Dave says:

        Yougottabefeedingme I bet you stalk a lot of SDs

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        Hi, Daviepoo :). Nice to read from you after all this time. I’ll have you know that most of the restraining orders placed against me have expired. The others were dropped after the complainants conveniently vanished the day before trial. While I’m free to stalk as feverishly as an empty purse could ever desire, I’d rather just masturbate and take a nap. 👄

        How’z it for ya these days?

      • Dave says:

        It’s going pretty good , I’m back to perusing the profiles , to hopefully meet someone that’s worth it . Same old delusions can’t meet one down to earth . Oh and I stopped with the pump and dump scheme with fake money , it got boring . Heh, I guess it was bound to happen . How are you ?

  27. Annonymous says:

    Can you guys tell me when the key word search and lifestyle is coming back? It’s just a waste of time talking to Splenda Daddy’s. If they can’t do 3-4K a month, I don’t want to waste my time talking to them.

    • Anonymous says:

      are you sure they can’t pay that much or they just don’t want to

      • Anonymous says:

        Yes I’m very sure they can’t do that much. This is from my own experience. I’m not crabby about it either (meaning I do not go off or make the daddy feel worthless). I just know from experience the feature will eliminates wasted time on both ends. Unfortunately it has increased unnecessary time. As someone has already mentioned each of our own circumstances are unique. I’m allowed to voice my concerns, as well as you. Have a great day!

      • Anonymous says:

        well maybe it will help a SB to bring back lifestyle expectations but for a SD it does not many women on here don’t know what these levels mean what would help a SD would be to print the age ranges the women are looking for some do put age ranges in their profiles so that saves me time because i won’t message a SB that is looking for a man under 30

    • SD with Open Eyes says:

      If you don’t want to have your time wasted then sugar is not for you. All Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies get their time wasted constantly. It’s called due diligence. A baby needs to make sure the daddy is good for what he promises. A daddy needs to know nearly everything about a baby, especially those who want 3-4K a month (there are tax consequences when you get more than 14K a year from a daddy and the IRS has no sense of humor).

      • Anon Donor says:

        Lol, what tax consequences? Have you filed form 709 before? I have many years. Unless you are gifting hundreds of thousands,what’s the consequences.. a lifetime cap of 11M now? Good luck with that.

      • Gigi says:

        Yes, it seems to take time to find the right daddy and every baby is in her own personal situation. Some are desperate, some are unemployed, some do it for the exact same reason….fun without the serious nature of relationships. There are significant considerations related to taxes but one simply needs to have a skilled and knowledgeable accountant.

        And thats my “Baby Talk”


  28. nothingnoone says:

    wow, a rude bigot big surprise here

    • NoBs says:

      If a man has a preference why is that bigotry. Some men do not want certain things in a SB. Some girls only want white men or black men. If that’s what they attracted too that it isn’t bigotry. I personally like all women of all races but I prefer a certain age and body type that doesn’t mean I expect all SB to feel the same. Some girls care about the allowance levels . The point is to find the right fit for oneself. If you are lucky then the SB is perfect and checks all boxes. If not then the daddy needs to weigh the pros and cons like I’m sure girls do the same. Lot of girls want insane allowances for very little effort. They have this notion of finding an old lonely rich guy that will pay just chat and others want a hot young single rich SD with a six pack that will pay up 5k and up for once a meet fir an hour or three,

  29. nothingnoone says:

    wow super rude and bigoted

  30. Anonymous says:

    bring back keyword search and lifestyle expectations wtf

  31. Anonymous says:

    good to keep it simple

  32. Prettyprincess says:

    It turns me off when I read men’s negative opinions of females on the site written into a profile . Makes me feel like they are making a hobby out of dating and have reached pro douch level

    • Gigi says:

      Lol, I agree, especially when there are many demands for physical features/maintenance but little to show in the arrangement. A guy rejected me because I have big breasts…whatever…lol

    • _Dave says:

      But when women have a laundry list of demands , that’s acceptable and men should just do what you say .

  33. Anonymous says:

    This would matter a lot more if you brought back keyword search.

    • Anonymous says:

      Agreed! Also, Lifestyle preference is important. I can see women want this avoided but it saves men a lot of time as many of us have no interest in those seeking extravagant or substantial expectation. It just wastes us a lot of time.

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        Dear SL,

        You should maybe consider your users’ input. Keyword search is an effective tool for narrowing down one’s search for specific types of people or arrangements. None of the words choices listed in your word bank are words I’d use to seek out a certain someone.

        Also, I imagine that you use data analytics to make some of your decisions about applications and interface interaction, but something else you might want to consider is conducting a short poll of users’ preference for proposed changes before you remove certain features. You know…the same way you send out email blasts for promotional purposes.

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        It’s back! The keyword search is back.

  34. WJ says:

    It’s more like: if you like the pics then you read the profile, if you don’t like the pics, then you don’t read the profile.

  35. SD with Open Eyes says:

    I can think of no advantage for a Sugar Baby to have her profile “professionally” rewritten. If a Sugar Baby doesn’t have “it” then even a 100% perfect profile won’t help because they would be “exposed” on their very first message reply.

    • yougottabekiddingme says:


      The blog regulars used to try to help people who showed some potential, but for some there’s just no hope.

      There was one rockstar blogger in particular who had taken up the cause, and helped some girls save themselves from themselves.

      Seems SL has run with the concept.

    • Gigi says:

      Lol yes. Upon meeting, what were her “interests and hobbies” turns into just “stuff I like”

      Baby Talk

  36. Anonymous says:

    I actually read profiles

  37. SBaby says:

    Honestly did someone read a profile beside me ? Man seems did not care of personality as long as she look hot.

    • Anonymous says:

      Yes I do all the time. The personality and understanding is what I’m looking for. Not saying appearance never comes into it but that’s more a personal thing.

    • Jang says:

      A well written, detailed profile is what catches my attention. If a profile a bland, half assed couple of lines of meaningless blah blah, it goes on my block list right away.

  38. Mana says:

    Yes, I have to do something to meet some girls.

  39. SugarVeteran says:

    Is it just me or are the blogs dead? A few years back when I actively used this site, there would be dozens of blog posts per hour. Not sure what happened.

  40. Clintix says:

    No one reads long boring profiles 😂 I look at the pictures then decide if I wish to message, let’s be honest girls do the same.

    • AW says:

      The girls look at income and net worth, men look at photos

    • Anonymous says:

      I’ve already been told….get ready… you must be a prude to have all that. As if the generation of proper etiquette and a well written profile has phased out. This forum has gone downhill just in the matter of 2 years since the feds seized backpage. I feel as if they scurried over to SA and have devalued the concept of Sugar dating. Now I come across far more Fboys, pimps and prostitutes. SA needs a far better process of vetting and allowing new accounts to open within the same day or instance its created. I have far too many scammers reaching out.