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So great!
very nice information that youhave shared with us.Really the article is nice
Possible to put all the trannies, on here now, in their own category? It’s overly annoying now.
agreed
Also agree
is anyone reading these comments when we say we want to to meet women we don’t mean maybe meet women
nice
i was finding a lot ladies on this site were asking for PPM now i’m finding the ladies are asking for their monthly allowance on the first meeting so am i expected to give them thousands of dollars for a coffee meeting ? i do provide a gift so they are not wasting their time what ever happened to meeting to see if there is chemistry first before proceeding
Even though PPMs are not what the site says you should do, you should still do it. The only reason seeking says that is to avoid the prostitution link from a legal standing.
OK thanks
Good feedback.
Only do PPM. Regardless of the length of the arrangement. Don’t bother with a gift either, unless you want to do it. They are not wasting their time by meeting you. You are a potential lead to a better life, just like a cold call in sales.
Brandon when are you going to fix this site as in the bugs it has and how freaking slow it is?? the bugs have been in this site for years and everytime you email you get the same response and nothing gets done, instead of buying luxury homes, gold cuff links and boats etc, its our money you are using so fix this site
maybe he wants to be a SD instead of a business owner
He isn’t. He is busy being a SD from all of the money he gets from a self running enterprise. I don’t have a premium account. Only paid for a month a few years ago. Been a SD for a little over a decade. This product that Brandon offers is garbage. The chats here are heavily censored but still a way to help a lot of new people trying to get into the lifestyle.
when are they going to put up a new post on the Government Shutdown Brandon Wade has a new video on it now
well, love is a delicate flower that has to be cared for.. keep up the good work and i hope to find my flower soon.. xo
what is the difference between hide the profile and block the profile ? and is blocking some one cant be reversed ?
i would like to know what hide the profile does for you other than you can’t see them in your search
I have no idea why I should hide someones profile in my searches. That’s crazy
You can not reverse a “block” that you place on a profile.
yes it seems thats what SB want they like getting paid every time they see you they don’t want monthly because they would have to see you without receiving a allowance every time
Can anyone comment on good experiences with 18 year old sugar babies, or arrangements where they include their friends?
I’ve had several offers but haven’t taken any of them up on it. I might though and see what happens ! LOL
Most of the ‘double’ deals are usually not worth it. The girls just see it as a marketing tool and expect double the usual allowance. Especially if they are straight, it has always been a forgettable experience.
Never considered that. Good advice.
Hi, yes… ive had a similar experience about two years ago, but i felt like it was a scam from the start, so i would be careful how you proceed.
i have a lower age limit anyway (23) but she was close to my home town, we chatted for a whilst, we had similar subject interests so the conversations we easy and natural. After arranging to meet she suggested going straight to her house… at 23:00 to meet her, and her special friend… who was a journalism student! (more alarm bells) i declined as it was a part of the city that i knew had parking issues a high student population and higher than average crime rates. she than stoped talking to me and after a week i atated receiving email messages that shall we say you wouldnt read to your granny!all in all, not a good experience.
unless a threesome is guaranteed and agreed before meeting and before paying anything, you are just doubling your cost of meeting and for the brief vanity of buying drinks or meals for two girls you are simply overpaying…a ‘double date’ which is merely social just usually means each girl is only paying half the attention while you are paying twice the cost
I wouldn’t consider it unless you like drama.
I’ve never seen so many profiles of girls in college to be doctors and surgeons !
well better that than to go to college to be a sugar baby
However most of those women never make it past a liberal arts degree
These days, even most doctors don’t make enough money to pay off student loans in a timely manner.
lots of activity on here hopefully everyone is enjoying a good arrangement
Hellooo guys,
I wanna share a horrible experience I had with a scam Sugar Baby so that no one else looses time, money and energy with that girl (she is still online while Im typing this).
Now before posting my story, I wanna know whats permitted to share and whays not… ? Like can I share the username of the person and/or phone number/Snapchat ?
Its really bad and I also gave her a second chance to clean up the mess but she wasnt even willing to accept she did anything wrong 😅.
Soo, I will wait for instructions from u guys before posting…
Btw I did told her that I will recover my time and money if we meet anytime in London by chance…She took that as a threat but I was only trying to get refund for the scam😂
sure why not , lets hear your experience
I have seen several over 40. Interactions are pleasant. They appreciate the effort put into the experience. Some younger SB do not have a great understanding or appreciation of the efforts put in.. Just saying
This is written by an old bag . Older women act worse . They used to be easy cougars when I was 30 years old . Now they are thrice divorced with bad skin and too many kids and they act even more entitled
true
So true. Their life plan of trying to live off others didn’t pan out. Why don’t they teach their children the life lesson they are learning the hard way?
I’ve never met someone over 29. Whenever I turn down any of the older SB’s who message me they become just as mean, spiteful, and immature as the young ones. Then I have to block them.
I’m 62 , too old to be on this site ????
not if you want to go out with a 90 year old
She should be collecting social security checks by now
https://www.seeking.com/member/d0d122dc-5a01-4b87-9cae-725312c047d4
Hope this helps!
you won’t find any one here on the blog but your profile looks fine good luck with your search
You’re not 26 but thanks for playing ….
This website is getting more and more frustrating …
Its been a great couple of years … I’ve met some smart and interesting women, have paid a few semesters of tuition, gone to fun resorts in the Caribbean and Mexico as well as weekends in NYC, LA, and Miami, multiple trips to Europe and Asia, etc.
But … so many of the new profiles on here are cam girls, not where they say they are, or looking for “online” arrangements whatever that means.
Can SA adopt a requirement that SB’s profiles show country and state when they login? Please?
that would be nice the way it is now you never know where they are until you have wasted time emailing them to only find out they are not close at all to you
Im 26, going back to school and just joined the site. I would love some pointers. I work and love to travel. I am easy on the eyes, sweet, discreet and supportive. Find me :]
I only recently joined the site. I am 26. I would love some pointers. I love to travel, I work, I am discreet and sweet. I am also easy on the eyes :]
How old are you? Im 26. My username is ilovecake but I don’t think you can search for that. Id leave my number but Im sure theres a lot of creeps on here lol
If your name is based on a huge influx of caloric intake, I’m guessing you’re about 200 lbs but consider yourself curvy
You’re not 26
Hey SDs! I was wondering for those that are still active can take a look at my profile and let me know if it’s ok? I’m a black SB and I feel like my luck is already stacked against me so any tips are appreciated! ❤
I’m not going to look at your profile but here’s some tips . You want to beat out chicks here’s what you should do .
(1) be feminine
(2) look elegant
(3) no silly Snapchat filters
(4) don’t talk about how you deserve the best
(5) don’t act entitled , see step 4
(6) we don’t care how smart you are professionally , we care how smart you are
when it comes to any of the following : sports
, symphony , novels, even fashion is impressive
(7)talk about how you will enrich an SDs life not just talk about yourself. What do you have to offer a guy . I’m assuming your looks are in the top 20 percent and you’re not a land whale
I certainly agree with some:
(4) don’t talk about how you deserve the best
(5) don’t act entitled , see step 4
(7)talk about how you will enrich an SDs life not just talk about yourself. What do you have to offer a guy .
I can see sports…novels…and maybe even fashion. But symphony? From your mom’s basement? Not buying it, Dave. Unless maybe you’re listening the classical music station when you borrow her car for Big [email protected] [email protected] and dark alley excursions.
Case in point… yougotta…
You’re so funny!
What area are you at?
There isn’t any way for us to look at your profile without some link to it.
Hi Rick!
I just realized this site doesn’t have a username search system. I checked their FAQs and seems you can narrow down using keywords in your profile.
I guess mine would be:
Fantasy, nerd, drawing, illustration.
Again, thanks for replying back!
Dave is giving you good advice. I never message SB’s who come off as entitled in their profile/wishlist.
Hi Ladies. I believe I am genuine SD and have nice profiles details with complete details and I am told constantly that I am fairly good looking for my age (50). I go to the gym three times a week and keep fit. I offer very generous allowances and i take women to nice wine and dine places. My question is around the first meet. very often I have noticed that it is very easy for me to get someone to meet for the first date where I offer $500 for the meet and drinks and dinner etc, so we can get to know each other before planning a longer term arrangement. I would say 30-40% just don’t show up. I think this is terrible and I am not sure how can be avoided as I know for sure I am always upfront with the details and not expecting intimacy unless we really hit it off, intimacy usually happens 97% of the time so must not be doing bad when I meet someone. Why do women do this as it is extremely annoying since I plan evening with that one person and when they dont show up, it ruins my evening plans and sometimes I would have made bookings and plans for our meet. Appreciate any honest comments.
this is big incel energy
this is BIG incel energy
Oh, Dave. I thought you were done with scamming women. I hope that no one takes your pathetic advice.
I hope you aren’t giving them the 500 before you meet them. If you are, it’s no surprise they ghost you. Truthfully, you shouldn’t be giving them anything to meet you. That just encourages SBs to become serial meet-babes, with no intention of doing anything more. SA is quite specific that no gifts or payments should be provided for the meet/greet.
You’re getting taken
Where in the world are you located?
No way you should EVER be paying for a first date, or indeed ANY date, as pay per meet is strictly NOT sugar dating but just plain old escorting and we should never be encouraging the women who want to do this. Sugar Dating is, and should be about mutually beneficial dating friendships not paying for a date. Strictly if you just want to use that tactic you are better off on their other site ‘Whats Your Price’ which is full of women who just want to be paid just to show up on a date. I have never ever once paid for a first meet or any meet only provided benefits in a proper regular agreement
Well I gather the 30-40% see the $500 as a lure that you’ll pull the minute you realize you can’t get sex. That’s why they ghost. Also the “I’m attractive for my age of 50” is usually a lie. When men say “I’m attractive” especially in the upper age limits it’s usually a lie one of course they’re telling themselves. Statistically speaking men over estimate their looks, women under estimate theirs. If 97% of the women that you do meet sleep with you it’s because they are in dire straits.
A lot has changed on this site over the last 5 years. The reality is there are too many SD wannabes so the girls can be even more picky and flakey than usual. You’re more than likely losing out to someone who is younger, better looking, and probably not all that affluent. The site doesn’t care if you make $36k or $150k, or if you say your net worth is $100k or $50m. It’s just a number women here can’t comprehend and the monthly fee they charge is the same for a real SD and a wannabe. If these women had integrity and were any good at math, they wouldn’t be here, so you are just going to have to accept some things as the way they are. Also, $500 isn’t a lot of money and your approach is wrong. You are treating this like it is a traditional dating site and you have to wine and dine these girls. These are younger girls and it makes it look like you don’t have any money when you try to impress them or buy their time with fancy dinners. Anything above your typical restaurant chain is above their lifestyle expectations. They don’t really care about being wined and dined. They’re looking for money to pay rent, pay for their drug habits, or to support their loser ethnic boyfriends. If they don’t have to sleep with you to get financing, it’s even better from where they are coming from. There are generally three types of women here; 1) the “gofundme” brats who think that just because they are cute, you should give them a hefty allowance for taking them out to dinner, but have no interest in an SD/SB relationship involving sex. 2) the “I wanna date and marry a rich guy” type who is looking for a man to pay for everything, but has no interest in dating anyone too much older than they are, and 3) the “pay per visit” types that have moved over from back page. You’re going to get rinsed with whoever you do this with but that is the cost of having a 1-3 month “fake relationship” with a sugar baby. These girls don’t really care about wasting your time, your money, or your emotions, for them it’s about the ends justifying the means. When they are done using you, they will simply move onto the next con job, eventually landing with someone around their own age that will never be the wiser. Just remember that everything they tell you is a lie just to get what they want.
Who hurt you
that’s just the way it is not like it use to be sad
I would categorically refuse to meet any girl who asks for money for the meet and greet. It’s a good indicator of their attitude.
you’re “hardtolove.”
“loser ethnic boyfriends” — Really? What a racist and disgusting comment. I feel sorry for any SB who gave you a chance.
You aren’t suppose to be getting intimate first meeting are you
no also no money is to be expected as well this is SA rules
Membership of sugar babes will drop drastically. Then the tide will turn out badly for sugar daddies.
do you think this site is the only way to get a sugar baby if your truly rich it’s not that hard to get one by other means
Always rude to stand up someone!!!
really? if what you are saying is true then you are messing up completely.first I don’t believe you r even offering them transportion money for meet and greet and that is why they are ghosting on you. secondly paying for meet and greet or encouraging anyone for pay per meet is totally not what this site is suppose to be so you are also creating problems for serious SDs and SBs, again really ?
I met some SD and depending on distances between us I received gas money in the envelope. They know where I am at, and if they want to have a cup of coffee I insist we have during the day, as for our first meeting, it’s their choice to reimburse my gas or tolls, never have I asked for it. But that’s the case. We have a chat, and see if we got for each other.
Oh, Dave, I want to ask you the same rhetorical question:”why men do that ?”. Some people are serious about arrangement, and some – not even serious about everyday routine.
Hello All,
So I have been off of this site for years and recently, the past 2-3 weeks. Have been back on the site.
However, I have not had many connection. even after sending various messages.
Maybe, someone view and provide some advise how I can improve my profile? My user name is Chloe_4_You – https://www.seeking.com/member/998dc3ef-a5a3-4103-9bc7-f0c01d72cd37
I would really appreciate it.
@Chloe, looks and sounds good sweetie, just be patient.
Your profile looks fine. Much better than most I’ve seen. It just takes a little time.
Noticing that the old bags over 40 want a “nice guy … “ come on ladies , who are you fooling ? Don’t play the , I want money but can’t compete with younger girls so I’ll pretend to be loving
That pretty much sums it up. Women over 40 and single are usually single because life didn’t turn out the way they thought it would. They didn’t realize that when they were 18 to 24, a new batch was coming up behind them every year, and that bitchiness and pretending to be a spoiled princess wasn’t as cute when their looks start to fade.
youth is fleeting better to take advantage of it when you have it because it doesn’t last long
P, we’re not here to continually massage your ego, you must be willing to spend. Sorry I didn’t feel the same. Please move on without further drama Reynolds
I agree with you.
no one wants to date women over 40 surely? I know I surely wouldn’t even consider it
why would you want to pay a woman over 40 a allowance that can be obtained offsite for free
Stop shaming women over 40. It’s wrong.
I’d consider an over 40 gal as long as she’s Asian (they don’t go to hell physically like white chicks at 40) and she’s only recently out of a marriage ( meaning she’s not a damn pro with a ton of mileage)
Stop complaining . Maybe it’s you who is delusional
you think so