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Confessions of a Sugar Baby | Mecca & Nicole

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Sugar relationships are often discreet which adds to the allure of it all, but it can also leave you wondering if you can relate to other Sugar Babies and their experiences.

You may have questions like:

How do you agree on an allowance?

What is intimacy like with an older gentleman?

Are friends envious of your extravagant lifestyle too?

Can you be a sugar baby and a feminist at the same time?

And so much more.

We reached out to members on Seeking Arrangement and asked real sugar babies if they’d be willing to share intimate, never-before-told details about their sugar relationships. We call this series, Confessions of a Sugar Baby.

These on-camera interviews are raw and real. Some details are sweet and some are just plain salty. A few of these confessions will provide guidance for navigating your own arrangements, while others provide pure entertainment and humor. Regardless, every woman and relationship is different, but it’s nice to hear stories from your sugar peers.

In this series, you’ll meet a teacher, a Reiki healer, a singer, and an esthetician.

Can you relate to their confessions? Let us know in the comments. There are no sinners here.

Meet Mecca, 29. She found love on the site, but was it everlasting?

Meet Nicole. At 21 years old, she’s got a budding music career and a budding bank account.

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345 Responses to “Confessions of a Sugar Baby | Mecca & Nicole”

  1. Disdain disdain says:

    How numerous these comments are.

  2. dumb place says:

    this place is dumb

  3. Talia says:

    *YAAAAWWWNNNN*

    These are the most boring, basic sugar baby stories I’ve ever heard.

    You guys need to talk to someone who knows the real art of being a sugar baby 🙋🏻‍♀️

    1. Never fall in love
    2. Anyone can afford an little LV bag

    A real sugar baby would just ask for it and a real SD would give it. You don’t need to talk about something for WEEKS on end in order to get it.

    • Mary says:

      Yeah I agree. If the man treats you like a peasant or beggar it’s not sugar dating.

    • Anonymous says:

      Do any of you have advice or tips for first timers?? I am a bit nervous and do not know what to expect or do.

      • Smartmouth says:

        I advise you to read these blogs and also research some sugar confessions or stories on your own. I would be happy to help a fellow sugar. As I had a friend teach me the ropes.

  4. Anonymous says:

    I just want someone who loves Pink Floyd as much as I do…

  5. Dave says:

    @sugar/jaybird , a trip to Dubai with hotel accommodations costs $950 this week . So you spending a week with a sheik and letting him poop on you is cheaper per hour than a pornstar. All you got was spending time on some rented boated while being defecated on. The pornstar is smarter than you at accounting .

    • yougottabekiddingme says:

      Dave…wow, not surprised to see that you’re still at it.

      Just dropping a note to say the person posting as Sugar is definitely not Jaybird. It does, however, appear that you’re still doing a fine job of talking to, with, and at yourself. smh

    • Dave says:

      This poop thing is urban legend buddy hahaha Dubai is a great city. Unfortunately I visited for work and did not have time to explore local daddies

      • Ricky says:

        Love it !!!

      • Blacc Lotus says:

        Honestly it’s no need for all of the bashing . How someone makes their money isn’t wrong in anyway they are trying to eat the fastest , best or the only way they know how. Especially men downing women when we all know it’s men paying for whatever they are selling . Pass out positivity not negativity.. the world is already a sick sad disappointment anyway

    • Anonymous says:

      Lol so true these girls don’t know basic economics “ there’s no such thing as a free lunch”

  6. Anonymous says:

    @ sugars oh dear god you’ve been to 23 countries you need to register with the cdc lol
    And no one wants to do you here so you have to travel lol and you’re bragging about it? Lol
    And marina lmfao that’s your standard ? Wow good luck being a cuntanese keep talking this is better than watching tv lol

  7. Anonymous says:

    Why is it that girls from money are sweet and down to earth and broke girls on here are so self entitled and have a attitude problem?

    • Sugar says:

      Because the sweet girls you mentioned want marriage while we could care less about you other than your yatch

      • Anonymous says:

        What a piece of work you are sugar!!! Hope u catch something quick u meth head!

      • Dave says:

        Sugar you’re a delusional woman . Most men earning below $500k do not own yachts . You’ve been watching too many SA videos on YouTube . Now we know the truth . You can’t even get men who make $50k per year .

    • Sugar says:

      Sorry Dave…..but I have a graduate degree, a well paying day job, have visited 23 countries and speak 4 languages. My sugar daddies demand quality. Stick to your cheap 300 bucks cheap porn star, buddy.

      • Dave says:

        Your so called graduate degree in gender studies from University of Phoenix doesn’t not impress men. Im sure you are “quality” just like burger king has a quality control department . It’s all relative .

      • Anonymous says:

        Graduate degree lmfao!!!!
        You didn’t even answer the question properly that was asked it’s like you don’t know how to read.
        Lol go back to the corner and do your $10 handjobs no one would f u lol

      • Anonymous says:

        Probably worked from brothel to brothel from Argentina all the way up to here lol 23 countries 4 languages and can’t even read before answering lol

      • Anonymous says:

        Being with men from different countries doesn’t count for visiting. Also speaking bad words in 4 languages doesn’t mean you speak them fluently lol

      • Anonymous says:

        She speaks cuntaneese lol

      • Dave says:

        Im sure she visited Dubai where she was shat on by 3 different princes . I wonder what’s so impressive about travelling . A ticket to anywhere in the world these days costs less than $1500 . She’s a wannabe travel blogger and on day that will read on her headstone

      • Sugar says:

        Awww look at those broke wanna be sugar daddies who can barely make child support payments all butt hurt. Hahahahah

      • Anonymous says:

        Obviously you don’t use what’s between your ears just what’s between your legs lol

      • Anonymous says:

        It’s good to know you can laugh with us while we’re laughing at you!
        We are looking for beauty and brains you definitely don’t qualify so don’t call us broke because we don’t want trash like you lol

      • Sugar says:

        Men like you that never step foot at a marina have no business trying to be a sugar daddy guys. Wake up and invest your money harder. Hahahahahahahahahahah

      • Onumar 🌻🍀 says:

        then why you here 🤔

    • Sugar says:

      Exhibit A above ladies is what you should avoid on SA and other dating sites. Incels, butt hurt men and just plain hurt by life idiots. Thank you for attending my TED talk.

    • Dave says:

      Hey Dave, if u hate women so much, why are u here?

    • LuckyStars says:

      I’m broke af and a really nice person. The stereotypes are unreal.

      • Anonymous says:

        This site needs true verification like interviews of the girls and they must have real pictures before they can be on the site

  8. Anonymous says:

    I love the way posts never actually show up on here.

  9. Anonymous says:

    after talking with this SB for while, we decide to meet up..them she drops this on me..”i require you to transfer by paypal $500 into my account as insurance that you are genuine and will turn up..” in other words once she got your $500 something will happen to her friend, family members so she cant get there..seen it before..why do these dumb bitches think they can just rule to waves and demand this..

    • Ricky says:

      You’ve “seen” it before ? In other words ….you’ve fallen for this in the past? LOL

      • Anonymous says:

        Meaning I have had the same message a few times from these SB’s..no way would I pay before meeting up..

      • Ricky says:

        Good to know. Not only should one NEVER pay a girl before meeting up but also NEVER pay a girl just to meet. Both are very weak suck moves that will end up bad 99% of the time.

    • Dave says:

      If I get junk like this , I setup a date, tell them to meet me at an expensive restaurant , order me a drink before i show up ,then I never do.

    • Anonymous says:

      Yea and they waste our time and pull that crap they think we are dumb and they’re smarter. It’s funny how criminals always think they’re smarter but are broke asf!

    • Mari says:

      As a new sb I’m not even surprised they think people where born yesterday and $500 is unrealistic if y’all haven’t met yet and they need to come up with better poor excuses for why they’re unable to make it, there’s no way to receive that type of money for free or strictly platonic everyone has desires and if you want the sugar you have to satisfy your daddy lol I’ve had no luck so far but again I’m not too surprised

      • Dave says:

        As I said below I got a pornstar , nearing the end of her career , to accept $300 for a full day drinks dinner and intimacy .

    • Anonymous says:

      Or I require a $100 deposit lol
      yeah sure we are that dumb lol

  10. Anonymous says:

    @ sugar I think your head has bounced off the walls too much lol and or maybe you were dropped on your head as a child! Your acting like self entitled little kid are we there yet? Good luck opening your legs instead of books! when you have real money in the millions then talk! Until then stfu!

  11. Anon sb says:

    Oh ok so not only are you butt hurt and a fucking drama queen, you are also racist as fuck. If you hate women so much then why are you in this site? Go fuck your mates at the pub then. “Men don’t go for black girls” no twat black girls just don’t go for YOU. You disgusting old shit.

    • Anonymous says:

      Wow look at the ghettoness come out. Lol

      • Dave says:

        It’s raycisssss for not wanting black girls .. pure liberalism on display

      • Anonymous says:

        Tbh perfectly honest so far everyone seems more hassle than they’re worth on this site. Not to mention bitter and nasty to eachother as if everyone isn’t around for the same reason. It’s not working girls on this site what in gods name is everyone whinging about. There’s preference & there’s stereotype. Not sure if you’re RACIST but judging by your STEREOTYPICAL anger comment it definitely seems it. You buddy take it from me exude bitterness. And just so you know, ghetoness isn’t a word dummy 😂😂

    • Steve says:

      Ok precious!!! 😀

    • Anonymous says:

      So what’s next the trannys asking why we don’t want to do them like seriously we are not attracted y’all move on stop being so ghetto we pay to be on here!!! At least have a filter on that mouth! It makes all black people look bad.

  12. Chris says:

    Omg there’s another girl in dallas to Jackieishere001 was in Huntington Beach ca last year now in dallas never meets up and asks for $100 iTunes card

  13. Anonymous says:

    Melissa207 dallas to 33 fake profile wants you to buy her a phone without meeting up check her she’s hot asf but fake asf

    • Dave says:

      No man on here should accept platonic or pay without meeting or pay without getting what they want . In fact with the attitudes we see on this blog , from the women , it’s better
      To go MGTOW and stay away from these lowlifes .

  14. Sugar says:

    Girls do you guys get emails from young guys? Im like dude you cant even afford a car why are you here lol lol

  15. Anonymous says:

    I think girls in general always believe the world revolves around them no point of trying to reason with them you have a better chance of making a rock bleed than have these girls understand anything

    • SDZombie says:

      Very true, I’ve found it’s just best to treat them like children.

    • Ricky says:

      Exactly why I just the convo really simple and short and then it’s down to business.

    • Sugar says:

      Dude… understand one thing… hot girls will ALWAYS have leverage. If you dont like it go play with your inflatable doll.

      • Dave says:

        Not always . They get pumped and dumped And turn into old sluts after age 30 more times than not . Take your feminist shaming tactics elsewhere

      • Sugar says:

        Dave you are on the site looking for these girls cuzz you obviously cant get laid without paying

      • Anonymous says:

        This is a mutually beneficial dating site but you’re making it sound dirty like a brothel so what does that make you?

      • Dave says:

        Sugar , getting laid costs no matter what . It’s sad that you can’t get an SD or a relationship . That means no man wants to even pay you $50 for quickie and definitely no man wants to be around you . Have fun being broke with cats your whole life .

      • Anon says:

        Guys Dave sounds a little butt hurt.

      • Sugar says:

        Dave if I told you how much money I make from sugaring you are gonna wish you were born a girl. Now stop the non sense and admit you cant get a girlfriend the non sugar way.

      • Dave says:

        Since you got so defensive sugar , that means no man wants you even for $50 .

      • Anonymous says:

        My wallet always has the leverage!
        Do you think before you speak?

      • Anonymous says:

        Instead of opening books you opened your legs sugar lol
        How long until the odds of infection catch upto you? And even if it’s curable how much of that money will be spent?

    • Justne says:

      Then there are the ones that want you to prove to them (SB) that you are genuine and must buy photos or videos for a length of time..then they (SB)will decide if they going to meet up..what a load of crap..they try any excuse to con you and must say are blardy good at it..money talks for them that all that does. .some are useless at conversation’s even tho they say they can talk the pants off you…I got bored within 10mins..waste of time..next..

    • Sassy says:

      Wow, what is the point in looking for a sugar baby if you think they are all entitled?

  16. Anonymous says:

    What is with the platonic arrangements all of a sudden? Are you girls serious? Get real. And pay for you to show up for dinner or drinks? Please. You are dreaming. This site has attracted some very entitled women the past few years.

    • Anonymous says:

      They only talk about them being busy and need to get paid like their time is money and ours is free when the truth of the mater is we are the ones who make more money without opening our legs …think twice before you girls act dumb we are not dumber but way smarter than you

      • Anonymous says:

        “ …think twice before you girls act dumb we are not dumber but way smarter than you”

        Says the guy who cannot write a proper sentence or use punctuation.

      • Anonymous says:

        You actually think we have time to spell check lol we know when we write these comments 99.9999% of you are so self entitled won’t even affect you lol so why waste more time? Go open your legs so you can make some $$

    • Anonymous says:

      Who are the idiots that are paying for coffee seriously u old timers need to go to a strip club u get lap dances to when u actually pay but they sit and talk to u for freee yes freeeeee and guess what they’re but completely naked too does your Starbucks date come naked and sit on your lap?

    • Anonymous says:

      Young and dumb lol

    • SB says:

      Most SD will not drive to meet a SB but expect them to meet him (most cases). Say you are doing a meet and greet because you both are interested. You wouldn’t consider helping pay for gas even though she drove to you knowing she could’ve probably been stood up (happens to everybody). Of course as a SB I wouldn’t demand it or speak of it but I would think a SD would be considerate. Now a days SD don’t give a SB the benefit of the doubt.

      • Dave says:

        Most men have had enough with you’re entitled behavior.

      • Anonymous says:

        I always offer to fully reimburse someone if they drive. However, 100 dollars for a 30 minute drive will NOT be happening.

      • Anonymous says:

        Lol so are you sure you don’t want the sugar daddy to pay for you mani pedi ? Or maybe the cologne you wore for him? What’s next your car payment ? When you decide to meet an Sd you agreed to an amount that you’re ok with now you’re just trying ways to get more.
        GREEDY!

    • Charlotte says:

      Well pay for a prostitute then…..

  17. Anonymous (Madison) says:

    That was someone else that replied to you. I was replying to Ricky. But to answer your previous statement, I wouldn’t call that entitled. Maybe she flaked because they thought it was too good to be true, or you were fake? Maybe she was late because the world is not always on your side e.g. traffic, gas, the heels that would’ve made your outfit look great broke. If she didn’t message you and at least explain she was running late and why, then I would understand you. But if she did, then its not ger faukt, shit happens. But does that mean, that because she was a black woman, you label the rest of us as entitled, like we’re bound to do the same? Thats a bit prejudice.

    • Dave says:

      Entitlement is not race dependent. I agree with you there . In fact 90 percent of you women are entitled . With that attitude there ate consequences . Meaning men lose interest no matter how beautiful you are . With you and the other black woman stating that the reason you can’t find an SD is because of the guys , that is thentypcal feminist shaming tactic . Feminism has been severly rampant amongst black woman . Why this is prevelant more in black women is because there are very few black women from Utah or small towns or from humble families . Even black men agree with this statement . Also as the other poster said, maybe you should lower your price . If that hurts your ego , then too bad .

      • Madison says:

        I never said that black women can’t find an SD because of the guys, I asked Ricky why SDs dont trust black chicks. You say it’s because of entitlement, but then if 90% of women are entitled, why are we the only ones not trusted? And maybe 90% of females on this website feel entitled, but i think the world has far more decent women than the amount you presume. It’s, unfortunately, this website that treats you to a certain variety of women and you can only choose between what’s available.

    • Sugar says:

      Most guys here cant get anyone to sleep with them and expect hot girls from the site to go out with them for free ahahaha

      • Anonymous says:

        that would be nice if they did but we all know they won’t so explain how they are different than a pro and why should any one SB or SD use this site clearly it’s not about relationships

      • Dave says:

        Well hit girls would t need to join this site if the young hot rich men were available to them . Those guys are already married and happy with a young submissive wife .

      • Ricky says:

        I would never in a million years expect a woman on this site to sleep with me for free nor would I want that to begin with. That is what a GF is for and all of the baggage that comes with that. No thanks … lol.

  18. Naddia says:

    Hey guys I’m a new SB I was wondering how do you handle compensation conversations? I’m curious.

  19. Dave says:

    Dear anonymous angry black woman, to answer your “entitled” post . Your response is exactly the reason men do not go near black women . You said life happens and im entitled by expecting then black girl I made a date with to show up on time . As you are well aware almost 90 percent of women on SA are anxious for a Meetup almost immediately. Their profiles even state that. So why would a woman be late for a first meetup? I’ll tell you why. She was trying to find a better option , one that would pay her for coffee only . When that date fell thru she probably wanted to salvage what time she had with me by making excuses . We men know your games by now . You cant fool older men with childish games . A first meetup is like a job interview . Nothing is guaranteed but you better show up on time !!!

    • Anon sb says:

      Oh ok so not only are you butt hurt and a fucking drama queen, you are also racist as fuck. If you hate women so much then why are you in this site? Go fuck your mates at the pub then. “Men don’t go for black girls” no twat black girls just don’t go for YOU. You disgusting old shit.

      • Anonymous says:

        Wow and you wonder why we don’t want to even try to get to know you!!! Trash!!! Keep talking prove our point and sorry we’re just not that into you!!! Cunt

  20. Anonymous says:

    We should have a topic on platonic
    I’m so sick and tired of girls wanting and expecting cash so we could chat with them online or if they go to dinner with us lol
    Can someone please explain to these dumbtards we are sugar daddies for a reason and not dumb dumb kid who won the lottery lol

  21. New guy says:

    Hey guys got a question here if I want to get a girl from overseas I understand you have to buy the plane ticket and arrange a hotel and stuff but how do you know if you guys will get a long and it won’t get weird ? Has anybody had experience in this please do help because I don’t want to spend thousand of dollars to bring a piece of work over I hope that makes sense lol

  22. Anonymous says:

    I’ll only comment this; it’s facts that most men doesn’t want anything to do with a black woman. They already “assume” we have a attitude, without asking. So what do you expect in return. You can’t put your bad experiences on the next person Bc you don’t know them. When really, its just things we don’t understand like any other human.

    • Anonymous says:

      Look at it this way do u want a Honda or a Mercedes when you go out unfortunately people judge you for who you bring to the party it’s sad but true and people have a preference not just on skin tone but also education body type there’s a lot that goes into it I like all types of girls and I enjoy the dating experience but hey everyone’s different

      • Ricky says:

        If I could be assured they weren’t going to rip me off or rob me I’d have plenty of black girls in my life. Plus I believe most of them are street walkers which turns me off to no end ….

    • Dave says:

      Oh what a sob story . I’m sure when nice guys try to convince you to date them , you laugh at them .

      • Shan says:

        Don’t go where you’re tolerated anonymous. Go where you’re appreciated. Seeking arrangement and what’s your price are not the move and haven’t been for a while. I recommend watching luxe luxe and Ashera star goddess (both black women) for tricks, tips, and websites to find open minded men

      • Cassie says:

        Dave- wtf are you doing on this thread? You’re a pathetic excuse for a man, all of your comments on here have been completely and utterly toxic. Go project your insecurities elsewhere.

    • Anonymous says:

      Facts and aks lol

  23. ClaraKitten says:

    I’m a new SB to this site and have a question:
    SBs: How do you approach the compensation talk?
    SDs: Even if a girl does not ask you for money/gifts, do you still feel motivated to compensate her for even just meals or gas?

    Even though I recognize I do need financial help, I have a hard time asking for it. That is why I haven’t met anyone offsite / made any arrangements yet.
    Please help?

    • Anonymous says:

      Do you’re homework how much do you need compared to how much you want. Google how much porn stars make not top ten average porn stars and look at your competition online get a feel for the market then ask for a fair amount.

      • Cassie says:

        “google how much pornstars make” this has to be the worst advice I’ve ever heard lmao. Just be open and honest with a potential SD, as long as you’re not asking for an allowance that is completely outrageous they won’t be offended or anything. Also don’t be afraid to bring up the talk. Some SD’s will often beat around the bush and avoid the subject, and for those men, I would forget about them and move onto the next bc they’re clearly not serious about an arrangement.

      • Anonymous says:

        Yea listen to Cassie she’s so succesful she’s a sugar momma lmfao So your advice is not to know what hot girls charge and a normal girl should charge more here comes the greedy piece of work entitlement crap

      • Dave says:

        Women telling men what they should want haha

  24. Informative says:

    Hey guys google how much pornstars make on avg $300 and they have to pay there manager too lol so what do they get after taxes less than $200 and ugly fat girls want $500 or $200 for coffee LMFAO

    • Dave says:

      Im so glad you mentioned this . I went out with a pornstar from this site . She spent a whole day with me . I took her jet skiing , drinking , dancing , and we had sex 4 times . I gave her as a parting gift 300. She was super clean , a neat freak , and was enthusiastic . She was 28 at the time .

      • Me says:

        You’re so lucky bro omg lucky
        Fat whales want $500 on this site lol then they come down to $300 I’m like yo I’m not interested to do u for free lol

      • Dave says:

        Oh trust me when I say that luck occurred only a few times . I’ve been getting hit up by land whales even though I was an NCAA soccer player 20 years ago and still play 3x per week

      • Dave says:

        I won’t even date single moms unless they are super hot. Trannies on here haha… Getting a blowjob from a dude should be free haha but at least trannies are hotter than land whales

      • Sassy says:

        wow, I can’t even believe some of the comments on here. Makes it hard to want to meet anyone just in case it could be one of you.

    • Shan says:

      All women just want a fair amount for what they’re offering. Given some of the hideous personalities in this thread it seems you all should be paying them 3x 500 to even put up with y’all 🤮

  25. Jay says:

    What’s wrong with girls on this site hiding face pics expecting us to follow their rules wtf?
    And the ridiculous allowance amounts and my all time favorite PLATONIC lol

  26. Steve says:

    @ aaa seriously u charge for coffee dates and you want to see bank accounts lol good luck with that and Shan you sound ghetto asf good luck to you too maybe you girls will find some dude infected willing to pay …. but us normal clean guys will not just my two cents if you don’t like shove it where the sun don’t rise!

  27. Anonymous says:

    I must be the only black SB on here or maybe there is more, but I know the guys aren’t checking for me no matter how pretty I am. My average white girlfriend(not being rude, she is just an average looking girl) got 4x more of the response then me.

    • Dave says:

      So whats your point ? You want to force us to be attracted to you ? Maybe you’re entitled with a bad attitude ? Nothing to do with race . Or maybe you should lower your price . You dont even offer solutions . You just expect what your white friend gets from the sound of it .

      • Anonymous says:

        A lot of guys like tan skin that’s why tanning places make millions nobody wants dark skin or dark nips

      • Dave says:

        No, tanning places make millions because women want attention and to be noticed . Name a woman who cares what men want ? Not on this site. You just keep convincing yourself that we want you and so called tan skin .

    • Anonymous says:

      maybe you are just not as pretty as you think you are

    • Ki says:

      they don’t like to admit it but we don’t get as much money or offers as other women

      • Shan says:

        Facts, they definitely don’t feel they have to pay as much or try as hard. Thank god for other avenues in this game cuz SD/SB shit doesn’t work for me personally

      • Ricky says:

        What time to do you work the streets of Oakland Shan ? International Ave. ???

      • Kay says:

        Honestly yeah. I’m black and I’m barely looked at. Most of the males on here are like, “I like how detailed you are in your profile. You really show effort. But we’re not going to work out”

        Even though more than half of them are looking for girls 18+

    • Anonymous says:

      I’m an attractive black female new to the site. I hooe that’s not the case

      • Anonymous says:

        Hope*** sorry

      • Ricky says:

        Bottom line … men on this site simply don’t trust black chicks. Sorry …

      • Anonymous says:

        Is there an actual reason men here don’t trust ‘black chicks?’ Not every black woman is the same. Some are ghetto, some are not. It is a matter of what culture surrounds them.

      • Dave says:

        I was supposed to meet up with a black girl from SA. First meetup for coffee . I told her if she just showed up with no expectations on the first meet and greet , i would promise her a long term agreement . She was late by 20 minutes . So i walked out . Entitled

      • Anonymous says:

        Dave it kind’ve sounds like you’re the entitled one. I understand not wanting someone to be late but things happen sometimes and your time is no more valuable than anyone else’s.

    • Anonymous says:

      I’m black as well and I’ve only gotten about two messages. I’m not snobby or anything

    • Anonymous says:

      girl, I feel you!! & these responses aren’t making anything better

      • Dave says:

        You mean your repsonses ? You don’t want to take ant responsibility for your actions and behavior?

      • Dazed SD says:

        I’m actually kind of shocked at some of the replies. I think it’s bad to paint any race of girls with such a broad brush stroke. Yes,a lot of what the men have written is a true experience for them. For myself it’s not a race issue. I’ve met some charming black, white and Asian girls from here. I’ve also had some of the same experiences here that the men write about, and agree with them on some of their topics but for me it has not been just one single race, it’s been across the board.

    • Shann says:

      Find this girl called Chrissie and well as this young lady called Jazzmen Black and Mistress Marley. They all give good tips for finding sugar daddies and also getting into financial domination as a black woman. Also dark nips look and taste like Hershey kisses 🤤

      • Anonymous says:

        Ewww gross!!!! Don’t compare yourself to a Hershey’s candy
        Gonna go with the white version much better!

    • Tiffany says:

      I’m a black sb new to this site and I have no complaints i’ve gotten a couple messages some views and favorites, so I’m not sure what the issue is

      • Anonymous says:

        You’re probably good looking.
        the other girls are probably fat and ghetto looking lol

      • Ricky says:

        Even ugly black girls get action in the ghetto as black guys will do just about anything. It’s when that same black girl attempts to venture out and away from the the ghetto types ….. she’ll get nowhere real quick.

      • Anonymous says:

        Yeah it’s hard for us to look past the medical stats and the social acceptability.

      • Anonymous says:

        These guys are extremely gross under this thread lol.
        I wonder if any are college educated at all.

  28. Anonymous says:

    Meet several SB online who refused to show any photo pic but request for a $500 compensation for the first meet up. I turn it around and said in that case we will go into the full arrangement directly which she was apprehensive and wanted to meet first to see if there is chemistry. It’s crap to pay just to buy someone coffee

  29. Dave says:

    This site is being overrun by used up single mothers who put their baby pictures on their profiles and washed up post 35 year old hookers . Who would pay more than $50 for single moms ? What delusion there exists

  30. Anonymous says:

    90 percent of the men on here are not looking for a arrangement. Their looking to take you for a cup of coffee and then bring you to some cheap hotel or even their car. They want to have sex and throw you a few 20s. They will make a lot of promises to the younger girls and will walk away with the girl getting nothing. This site is NOT where you find a real sugar daddy. The best place is meeting ppl out and about.

    • Dave says:

      You sound angry . You don’t like it when men have options do you ?

      • Shan says:

        Dave u always talk shit from one side, let me tell you how it is from the other side. A bunch of unattractive raggedy or average looking Splenda and salt daddies talking about how they look “young for their age” or are always told how good they look when in reality they look every bit of that 50+ the extra ten they’re leaving off to try and fool us. Don’t want transactional relationships but still expect you to find something sexy about them and as the other person said, think that PPM or meeting at a coffee shop warrants sticking their rickety erection in you and you should be good with a couple hundred dollars for putting up with there old ass when you could have been fuckin his grandson. And don’t get me started on being ebony on this site. Child

      • Dave says:

        Dear angry black women . The ghetto is that way —> good luck with the grandson. You talk like street trash

      • Shan says:

        Dear Dave you’re a troll that’s been on this site spewing this same rhetoric since 2013 when my friend first joined and possibly beyond that. Someone needs to Get a life. Get a life. Get a life.

      • Dave says:

        i see, so you DO have a personal beef with me and you still can’t get over a blog post from 6 years ago . You must be jaybird. Who’s the troll ?

      • Shan says:

        Looks like someone needs to get a life get a life get a life

      • Dave says:

        Again , not one single counterpoint to my statement . You just fire back with insults and your hurt feelings from 6 years ago . Yeah you’re real mature

      • Anonymous says:

        @shan I’m finding it to be true. What is the tea on being ebony on here? I’m starting to think it’s a fake site to lure potential sugar babies to nothing of what was promised 🤔

      • Shan says:

        Looks like someone needs to get a life get a life get a life get a life get a life.

      • Anonymous says:

        @ Dave you’re awesome brother

    • Simple guy says:

      That’s just sounds like a bad experience you shouldn’t think all the guys are like that do you know how many bs PayPal Zelle girls send me everyday it’s annoying a meet and greet is the best way to see if there’s chemistry and you go from there if you don’t close the deal then move on to the next but being negative won’t help anyone

      • Dave says:

        Women complain that men only want sex but thy expect gifts and money on the first meet up

      • AAA says:

        It’s because when you look at a woman, a man can already tell if he likes the woman or not (based purely on looks which I think this is what the site revolves around- hot chicks and rich men). But a man can be completely full of shi* and lie about their wealth. Maybe i’ll ask my future sugar daddies to show me their bank account instead of asking for a small allowance for a coffee date.

    • Ricky says:

      I can’t tell you how many women I meet and greet with that want to have sex in the car immediately.

      • Dave says:

        I’ve done this and immediately bolted from the car without paying a dime . Haha… This got old after about 20 times

      • W says:

        Why would you want to have sex in your car? What kind of desperate women are you meeting?

      • Ricky says:

        @ W …It wasn’t my idea but I went with it ……I’m meeting more and more SB that will agree to meet and greet but only if sex/payment occurs that same day. Weird …

    • Sasha says:

      Agreed girlfriend I have had a few gentlemen over the years, but this year I’ve swung back on to look around and it’s nothing but I usually get this for this. Stop categorising us what one girl does is not what all girls do. I love the connections I’ve had in the past on here but I’m
      Calling it a day , it just filth now hehe and all the angry men writing we all know in real life are the ones at the bar eye googling every girl from the corner with there beer belly’s and strong cheap colognes. Hehe

      • Sasha says:

        And your setting up dangerous standards from
        Car meets Dave !! Where is the wine or coffee dates .. filth pure filth

      • Anonymous says:

        You really think every guy wears cheap cologne and has a beer belly are u from the south because I’m from New York and we don’t dress cheap and certainly don’t use cheap colognes we are not like you!

  31. Anonymous says:

    I see alot of casting calls for models and actress for this site. 🤔

    • Anonymous says:

      if they are looking for models and actresses they must have hired ugly ones because the ones on here are pathetic but I’m still hopeful they will find some nice looking ones

      • Dazed SD says:

        LOL..but true !

      • Anonymous says:

        You guys must live in the boonies then, because I find my pick of the litter with many beautiful women on here. Change your search location and fly a sugar baby to you. There are literally thousands of young beautiful models on here.

      • Anonymous says:

        anon what is your point there are lots of attractive available women offsite that i don’t have to fly in doesn’t matter what method you use just as long as you find what your looking for yes you can fly women in but i can’t see them as much as local women so I’m not interested in that

    • d says:

      Couldn’t agree more. I’m a “sugar baby” and pretty sure a lot of this is bs.

      • Normal says:

        Ughhh no maybe you should look at the profiles we have to look at!!!
        It’s just sad this site was amazing before now it’s horrid

  32. Derrick Witherspoon says:

    Where are the women on here that look like them? 90% of these women I have seen on here are booger whoops but still think you should invest.

  33. Ladybird says:

    It ain’t tricking if you got it! Only broke men complain about women that require money from men. Rich men know that they are supposed to provide

  34. Anonymous says:

    Are the morons on this site serious when they think someone is going to give them money for a platonic relationship?? They CANNOT be THAT stupid.

  35. Eva says:

    Its beyond sad she is so happy and g5rateful to get… A BAG!!! NO GIRL!! NOOO! Wake up! You are in this thing for the VERY WROOONG reasons! And the fact that you had to beg for it FOR WEEKS?? OMG!

  36. Cecee says:

    I made thousands of dollars in the last 10 years on SA. It takes business skill, kindness and personality to be successful here. Men don’t like desperate girls, crack heads, strippers and uneducated women.

  37. bluest-gem says:

    Not only does this blow my mind, it embarrasses me that the SB is represented as such garbage. Some of us actually care about pleasing our SD and get a lot of enjoyment from meeting his needs. It’s a true give and take without the drama of the conventional relationship. It’s perfect and I hate that there couldn’t be a normal, regular girl who was featured on here.
    I had a 3 year experience with my former SD that enriched my life. He shared so many new things with me and I shared a few with him (lol). I never obsessed over material nonsense such as a bag. Everyone likes nice things but that isn’t what this is about.
    Either you understand the lifestyle or you don’t. But this clearly isn’t the truth.

    Hopeful to find someone new to connect with but certainly not this type of girl.

    • Dave says:

      Well said . You’re a rare breed

    • CT says:

      I completely agree!

    • Nate says:

      I totally agree and echo your comments. I have had amazing SB dating over the years, long term with regular gorgeous women who have their personal/private lives, some remain good friends! I have had a few bad experience but we end those within 1-2 meetings

      • Dazed SD says:

        @Nate, me too. I’ve had 2 long term arrangements with 2 beautiful women. Both lasted over 2 years each. They were beautiful, smart great sense of humor, and all around awesome. I’m not as optimistic this time around though. LOL

    • AAA says:

      I completely understand your perspective. But 100% of the hot girls on this site wouldn’t date an older guy if there wasn’t a financial advantage for her- whether that appears in the form of a new Chanel bag or your month’s rent. Or even tuition. After all, there are young, hot trust fund babies my age wanting to date me too. I can offer a “real” relationship built on honesty but I probably can’t do that with someone much older than me.

    • eyetoeye says:

      Finally a reasonable comment. Agreed. To each their own, but I do think some SD likes giving out bags as a gift or whatever, I think the best to do is talk and see if there’s a connection, that is why it is important to have a casual meeting to get to know each other, without expectations.

  38. Dave says:

    Mecca looks like a third world prostitute . Fell in love haha …she is saying that the SD didn’t like being forever chained to her .

  39. Dave says:

    99 percent of women’s profiles say ” me me me ” nothing about what they bring to the table . I gate the term mutually beneficial . No this site and sugar relationships are one sided towards the women , which is fine , don’t call it mutually beneficial.

  40. Anonymous says:

    There are so many stingy men on here who think an acceptable gift is their kindness and mentoring haha. Wonder where she found him.

    • Lily says:

      So true. This site is full of men who shouldn’t really be here.

      • Anonymous says:

        It is also full of naive or misguided women, who seem to think that “platonic” and “mutually beneficial” are the same thing.

      • Who Cares says:

        Actually, there are a lot of women that shouldn’t be on here. You are one of them you have the Golden P syndrome and think you are entitled to live a certainly lifestyle because you are cute. Go get an education and a REAL job. Us guys earned out money and have no problem spending on a girl that is worthy and deserving. 99% on here aren’t worth a Star Bucks coffee.

      • Anonymous says:

        Yes, I hear this is true. Neither end of the spectrum is better to be honest. Both kinds of people make me cringe.

      • Simpleguy says:

        There’s a lot of call girls on here that shouldn’t be on here!!! There needs to be a verification of some sort girls trying to sell pics it’s like really

    • Anonymous says:

      you get what you give a little kindness goes a long way

      • Simpleguy says:

        It’s more like blindness to yourself and your wallet lol cheez Luise come on now these girls aren’t even dimes asking for $2,000 a meet it’s like wtf lol

    • Anonymous says:

      @whocares, I have a real job and am quite educated. I understand that men don’t have to give gifts to those they deem unworthy, but I don’t personally believe that mentoring is a gift. It’s a joke that’s What.

      • Anonymous says:

        Work harder and you won’t have to beg guys up for something you don’t deserve anyways

      • Blondoux says:

        So you’re saying a man that educates, trains and develops a woman in a specific subject matter is not ‘worth’ being considered a ‘gift’? If so that puts you in the same place as these numbnut so called SB’s who don’t really understand what this type of arrangement is about. I wonder if you have a SD…. if so he’s a nutjob…

    • Kent says:

      You probably don’t look good enough for them to offer more.

  41. Anonymous says:

    Goodness. I was lucky to get a coffee. The most I got from here. And offers of boosting my profile or trying somewhere else .

  42. Dave says:

    She talked about the purse for weeks but never said a thing about the guy in his needs . Narcissism at its finest

    • Alice says:

      The question was “what’s the nicest gift you’ve received?” not what she did to receive said gift. I’m sure if she got the bag plus the rent, her Sd is happy.

    • Alice says:

      Oh poor Dave either deaf or dumb. The question was answered. Had SA asked a different or more layered question they would’ve likely gotten a better answer. Instead there are oafs like you insisting that this young lady couldn’t possibly be making her SD happy, though he’s giving her gifts and rent money. Use some context clues for pete’s sake

      • Mary says:

        Yeah Dave seems like a bitter old salt daddy. He doesn’t seem to understand that every relationship/arrangement is unique and don’t follow the same pattern. Getting offended because other people arrangements don’t go by his rules. How arrogant can someone be?

      • Dave says:

        You sound like 30 plus year olds trying to shame men . You belong on plenty of fish not on SA . She needed to mention with more educated language how the arrangement works . She sounds like you two , most likely a washed up 35 year old hooker

      • Shan says:

        Dave has been posting this same kind of stuff for years. I just look at his comments and laugh. I enjoy these forums. They’re hilarious

  43. Anonymous says:

    my birthday is incorrect in my profile its Jan 4,1979.
    can you please change it.

  44. Ricky says:

    ‘I talked about this bag for weeks and weeks …..” Yeah I’m sure you did. It takes a while for the $20 knockoff version to arrive from China.

  45. Anon says:

    That’s what the other side is like? And you guys go for that? Sheesh…

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