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Do You Cuff?


First off, get your mind out of the gutter….  This is not 50 Shades here. “Cuffing” first appeared in the urban dictionary in 2011 and means those who are seriously interested in looking for a relationship (aka attach yourself to someone) between the months of October and March. 

Many people hanker to be in a relationship in the Fall and Winter months, even if they are happy being single for the rest of the year.

Most single people want to pair up for the upcoming holidays, when it gets cold and dreary out and you’re stuck indoors for prolonged periods of time, singles get lonely and the desire to be “cuffed” grows. Plus, who wants to go to the holiday party alone? And there are so many romantic date ideas in the colder months. Ice skating and hot chocolate, anyone? This type of relationship is usually short term (for those winter months) but can grow to become a long term thing.

We did a survey and found out that 57% of online daters say Fall is the season they work the hardest to find a mate AND that’s most likely because they want someone to spend the holidays with — because 66% of the same respondents say they are ready to define the relationship after just a month.

So, you’re not alone in your search for that someone special during these colder months. So go ahead, start cuffing with the best of them.

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116 Responses to “Do You Cuff?”

  1. Anonymous says:

    I fell in love with the wrong woman. She kept saying that I am the one for her but I quickly realized that she is after my money only

  2. Anonymous says:

    I was married, I left because he was abusive, mentally and physically. Stayed until the children turned 18 and I left

    • Dave says:

      Mentally abusive means he was showering you with undivided attention 24/7 and you thought you could do better . We men have heard this all before . It’s getting old .

  3. cheetah says:

    What’s wrong with being a single mom? 💁‍♀️

  4. Filtersrus says:

    I tried to cuff, but I always seem to get it bass ackwards. Insert rimshot here

  5. lauren creampie captio\n crfunch says:

    E ME IF U RICH >:)

  6. Snow Bunnny says:

    Lol. You guys are funny. 😉

    I love all the influential mountain movers I’ve met through this site! (Approximately 3 in 2 years) ☺️

    I think Brandon Wade is a GENIUS. And can’t wait for a Sugar Daddy to cuff me this Winter! 😉

    24 in the 5-4!! Holla atcha girl.. 😉

  7. Anonymous says:

    these comments

  8. A Classy Lady says:

    You came on SA to judge me, Really? Why are YOU here? This is rhetorical.

    I personally would like an companion, ambitious and older (30-50) to spend quality time with on weekends and holidays.

    I dont find writing directly to you very productive. Please do not write to me again.

  9. FILTERSRUS says:

    Dave, duuuude. You are my hero. I see the ones wanting a luxury lifestyle and a huge allowance and they don’t want a man older than 30. Good luck with that one, cupcake….

  10. Anonymous says:

    just remember that you maybe 1 of a few SD’s she is seeing so time is at a min..i knew a SB on here that had 5 SD’s going a week and was pulling at least 3k a week..she wasnt working and did this for couple months.

    • Anonymous says:

      most of the time these sugar babies that claim they are getting a large allowance are doing it because they have a army of sugar daddies supporting them they are not getting it from one

      • Dave says:

        How long can a girl sustain this ? Do they ever think of the long term consequences? Those guys know and once they get a few rounds with that vagina they move onto someone else . Even , I, yes me, would prefer long term arrangements but 99 % of women on here don’t deserve it . Those same sugar babies wake up at age 35 and think Prince Charming will wife her up .

      • Sassy says:

        Yeah, a long term relationship until they turn 35 so you can dump them.

  11. NewPool says:

    I love all your comments Dave

  12. NewPool says:

    This is the first time I’m hearing of it, but I actually think it could be a sweet thing when two mutually lonely people get together for this time. You always get reminded of your single status around the holidays, and this could alleviate those stressors? Not sure ..

  13. Dave says:

    And then they open up my envelope with fake amazon money it . I play chess sista not checkers.

  14. Dave says:

    Came across a profile : “long term SD wanted , friends with benefits , long term , emotional connection , platonic only ” – one flew over the cuckoo’s nest

  15. A Classy Lady says:

    He sounds like a buffoon the way he carries on
    Provoking strangers who comment to the article.maybe because
    Im new but expected men here to be more mature and respectful.

  16. Anna says:

    There’s grammar corrections but I can’t edit it so use common sense to understand it

  17. Madison says:

    I think cuffing season is important. Too many wild things happen during the summer. Often are they mistakes. Cuffing season allows those in the sugar bowl to get more serious about what they want, not just what’s available. I say, let the matching begin! Anybody recommend any good books to read over this season?

  18. Anonymous says:

    A lot of these so called SBs should be cuffed and not let out..unless they are on their med’s

    • Dave says:

      As part of any future arrangements, I will inquire that every SB show me their release papers from the looney farm . Then I’ll make an offer she can’t refuse .

      Lately the profiles sound like match.c0m women “
      I’m am empowered proud mother of a 10 year old bastard , I need a man to step up and give me a life of luxury “

      • Anonymous says:

        I dont understand. If you have such a low opinion of us babies, why are you here? We all have our issues, sure some are worse than others. But I would never offer myself to a man with your attitude. You lump us altogether like we’re the same. Someone needs more love in their life methinks

      • Dave says:

        So men aren’t not allowed to have legitimate standards but women are allowed to have delusional standards ? Got it. If you’re a single mom or a single woman over 35 , trust me , you’re not the one doing the choosing .

      • Anonymous says:

        this is so funny. bro there’s a reason you have to pay girls to sleep with you………

      • Dave says:

        Yet here you are as well . If all you can get are single moms for free , should you be bragging …”bro”?

    • Anonymous says:

      Totally agree. They can’t even find a decent job and the worst thing they will reply that they are busy

    • Anonymous says:

      HAHAHA That’s everywhere

  19. Dave says:

    As my wise 80 year old mother said , a man will chase ground beef if you put a skirt on it . That doesn’t make any woman special .

  20. Dave says:

    If I want platonic , I’ll ask my best male buddy out and chances are he will buy me a drink .

  21. Anon says:

    I’m only here for the comments. Dave, you’re a funny guy.

  22. Dedi says:

    U can cuff if thet bad enough in your eyes.

  23. Anon says:

    There is nothing wrong with a forty year old sugar baby.

  24. Dave says:

    No man wants a 40 year old sugar baby at any month unless he’s 70 or wants a cheap date . A man with money can drop a 40 year old for an 18 year old

    • Anonymous says:

      Therein lies the problem…you have no money 😂.

    • April says:

      Hey, that’s not nice. It’s like saying women have little to no value, besides attractiveness and perceived value to men to live for in your opinion. Our moms and grandmothers have all hit that age range. Please don’t disrespect women like that; Men, heck, people hit that age as well. I do agree this is a younger generation’s game. Not much lasts unless u find the needle in the haystack

  25. Ricky says:

    I also prefer finding a woman in the winter months because those are the times they usually stop shaving … and I’m into that sort of thing.

  26. Anonymous says:

    Awww I was hoping handcuffs lol.

  27. Alice says:

    Handcuff? Certainly.

  28. A Classy Lady says:

    Im very interested in cuffing or being “cuffed”. Im interested in someone single, tall, monogamous and lives in New York or Europe.

    A Classy Lady

  29. A Classy Lady says:

    Im very interested in being cuffing. Im interested someone single, tall, monogamous and lives in New York or Europe.

    A Classy Lady

    • Dave says:

      I remember you . You’re close to 40 and still looking for the same thing . Yeah you’re delusional

      • A Classy Lady says:

        SA why havent you banned Dave yet? he is a internet troll. A middle aged man with no life.

      • Anna says:

        Lol Dave is hilarious, I’m not at all offended by what he saying because it’s true. I’m a sugar baby and I know that a facade is played oh, so ladies don’t get mad at what he says about your facade. It’s a damn facade unless you are crazy then I can’t help you there. Nobody’s Wife and me up this season

      • A Classy Lady says:

        He sounds like a buffoon the way he carries on
        Provoking strangers who comment to the article.maybe because
        Im new but expected men here to be more mature and respectful.

      • Dave says:

        So you soliciting for NY men is classy ?

    • Anonymous says:

      I wouldn’t even argue. I think he just said something about standards haha. The only thing arguing with a fool proves is that there are two. He’s judging people for being in the same site he is on looking for….. I’m sorry Dave why are you here and what ARE you looking for anyway?
      Good conversation?

      • Dave says:

        That judging term . It’s only judging if a man has standards . The site is great the women are garbage . I’ve had plenty of fun on the site . Dumb question