1 year ago
You Don’t Need to Justify Your Sugar Relationship


We all understand that the majority of relationships follow a certain path; you meet, get to know one another, fall in love, get married and put up the white picket fence. That’s the ethos of what relationships are over the last century. But what if you want something different?  What if you have no interest in getting married, don’t want the picket fence – at least not at this point in your life? Or you are married but unhappy – what then?

Alternative dating is an option. Sugar relationships provide a framework for a type of relationship that is “outside the box.” But that’s ok. Differences are what make the world go ‘round. The contract between the Sugar Daddy (Provider) and the Sugar Baby (Recipient) determine the parameters of the relationship; who provides what, when and for how long.

The Sugar Baby (SB), gets the financial inducement and companionship she wants and the Sugar Daddy (SD) gets the physical relationship and emotional support he desires. SDs provide more than just a financial incentive; they can also mentor their SBs, open doors to areas the SB would never likely get through otherwise, or simply provide companionship when needed. SBs provide the emotional and physical companionship that the SDs need at that time. It’s a mutually beneficial relationship.

So when your friends or family say, “isn’t that the same as being a prostitute?” or “isn’t that demeaning to women?”. The answer is a resounding NO. Both parties are consenting adults with very specific parameters of what the relationship entails.

For the women, it can be financial support (because let’s face it, men still have a larger earning potential than women) to help pay tuition, medical, business, or household expenses. These women work, go to school and are productive members of society. They’re not sitting on the couch wondering what to do with their lives.

For the men, usually they are married and are unsatisfied within that relationship. Many are in an “open marriage.”  They find something in the Sugar relationship that they are not getting at home, and are happy to have an arrangement with their SBs. They can also be single men who are looking for an alternative type of relationship. These relationships can last months and sometimes years with the same couple.

So when friends and family ask why you’re in a Sugar relationship, hold your head high and tell them it’s where you want to be at this point in your life. You owe no one an explanation for what you do. If they love you, they’ll support your choices.

37 Responses to “You Don’t Need to Justify Your Sugar Relationship”

  1. SB says:

    Absolutely not! It’s your business to do what you do however you do it. If it does not interfere with their life they should kick rocks!

  2. Anonymous says:

    I am reading the comments, I didn’t know this online SB-SD finding platforms was so packed up with all this untitled people/man like this. So disrespectful and honestly just thinking with their penis. When you ask an emotional connection or support you have to give it also. If you use any person as a trash that you pay and get what you can get from, you will be treated the same. If you want intellectual women you have to dig it better then a person just looking good. I am such good looking person but I had always stupid SD that couldn’t take their stupidity. So you gotta understand that money is not everything to everyone. And you are an old soggy old man maybe you also born from a single mom, you should be ashamed of yourself. Because you are soooo empty you get empty in your life. It called Karma. AssHoles

  3. OverTheseMysogonist says:

    Its men like Dave that make me want to quit this site. It also amazes me how much time he has on his hands that on EVERY post I see his comments bashing women. And no I dont think youre this a thousand year old man with a small penis or a rapist or a loser. But I mean come on. I see nothing but an angry man at ALL women over a past experience. Get over it. If you cant find a way too. Why cant there be mutual respect? Its kind of annoying when the SDs assume what a SB is like.

    • Dave says:

      You should blame your feminist sisters for this issue, not me . I get 5 weeks of vacation every year , from a company I that i gave 22 years of my life for and before that , a stem degree and an MBA .

    • Dave says:

      I don’t see reprimanding yougottabefeedingme for stating that there is a so called rape culture in our country. You know this is bullshit and it is feminazis like her who propagate this myth . Or the girls who put ” please don’t be a serial killer” on their profiles . I don’t see you saying anything about that. You’re just hen pecking at me for stating facts.

  4. Andy says:

    I think they’re allowing the Platonic tag just to inflate the number of available girls on the website. Serves as a bait to entice people like us to pay the subscription fee

  5. Realbabiesneedrealdaddies says:

    Dave, I have no kids and am not sagging. You have a foul mouth and no class. I wish you the best of luck. Some of us are genuinely looking for an older, intelligent companion. I doubt any of us are looking for anything you have to offer.

  6. TheBitterMenOnHereAreVile says:

    There are men on this website who clearly don’t like women. It’s sickening. If you don’t want to be a sugar daddy don’t be.

    • Realbabiesneedrealdaddies says:

      Agreed, with attitudes like these it’s no wonder they only attract the girls utterly desperate for money ?

      • SA_Admin says:

        Dave, we are about to post Community Guidelines for our blog comments. Under these guidelines, personal attacks will not be allowed and the comments will be removed + the user subject to banning for repeated offenses. Please keep this in mind when posting in the future. Thanks!

    • SA_Admin says:

      We ask that you report anyone who asks for money before meeting in person. Thanks!

  7. Dave says:

    Not all pornstars are suicidal Train wrecks. Not all gays have AIDS. Not all murderers kill again . “Not all” is not an excuse . Not all NICE guys are bad in bed either but women don’t get turned on if you tell them that.

  8. Anonymous says:

    Not all are sagging and drooping.

  9. Dave says:

    Proves that women push men’s buttons and push boundaries and deserve Islam .

  10. LIMAN says:

    I have just about given up on this site. The women (girls) on here who understand what it is truly about are few and very far between.

  11. Anon says:

    Reading through these comments shows how shallow a lot of SDs can be. Not all SBs are the same. I’m 32, have two kids, a college degree (before getting on this site), and a full-time job. Just because I have “shot someones orgasm out” doesn’t mean that I am any less of a person. I would rather have a emotional connection with someone. I, personally, am not going to ask for an allowance without having some kind of connection established first.

  12. Dave says:

    I’m going to do the same Mike

  13. Dave says:

    More and more men are getting tired of the b.s. random girl ” I’ve driven more than an hour for 3 meetups and have been flaked on “….as if she wouldn’t do it if she had a lot of options on her plate .

  14. Anon says:

    Wow, reading these responses from “daddies” is pretty eye opening! I’m in my 30’s, neither used up nor a desperate single mother. I’m looking for a relationship lite with genuine mutual benefits and loyalty. Maybe stop chasing teenagers and you might find a stunning woman who is your intellectual equal and understands adult relationships!

  15. Steve says:

    I think there are a few guys who are paying a lot of money for one date or maybe two dates and then the dump these women. And the girls think that’s what they should always be getting and none of them are worth it. There has also been a surge in girls looking just for platonic relationships. I seriously don’t understand who is supporting these women and why they keep adding their profiles to seeking arrangement.

  16. Anonymous says:

    I don’t think these girls have ever worked a normal job for more than a week bunch of quittters or else they would know the value of the dollar and would be more greatful to sugar daddies they act like they’re the ones paying us lol

  17. Anonymous says:

    $300 is the most I would spend on a girl because dinner and drinks and then a hotel room it hits $5-600 so easy and sometimes you’re like man wtf is wrong with me lol remember your first job when you were a kid that was a lot of money to be spent in just a couple hours

  18. Anonymous says:

    Yup it’s like hitting the lottery in a way it’s sad
    we are paying to get rid of all negative parts of dating and get more to the positive points of it but still got to jump through hoops

  19. Anon says:

    Believe it or not…. some sugar daddies actually have money and can/will pay $500-1000 or even more

  20. Dave says:

    I had a hot 35 year old former high class stripper . After 1 month she wanted to move in . Smoking body fun girl but nothing but debt and drama . I’ve already been married once so screw that .

  21. Bessi says:

    Emotional connection is such an important component of any relationship. It’d be nice to find someone that doesn’t discriminate on body type. As cliche as it might sound, I have so much love to give, and would love to find someone that doesn’t immediately reject me because I don’t have the athletic slim body. I’m 32, have a great full time job, and do have 2 kids. So where do I sign up for this Save A Single Mom group? ?

  22. Anonymous says:

    Dfw experiences are awesome but very rare to find these girlsnjust want money for coffee
    I had one for almost a year and she was awesome haven’t found anyone close to her great looks or personality and she was 19 lol

  23. Dave says:

    30 year old non single mom hot 9 that is humble , feminine , and educated. I’d consider that but even they act stupid these days .

  24. Filtersrus says:

    Mutually beneficial to most of the ladies I have run across has been ” you pay for what I want you to pay for and I MIGHT make it worth your while “. Sadly they start with selling of pics and taking you down some rabbit hole by nickel and diming you to death. I just had to let one go who couldn’t manage money if her life depended on it and all the nitpicky requests for 20 here and 50 there got really old really quick. You just finally have to say enough is enough.