Sure, a lot of daters out there (including Sugar Bowl devotees) are in a hurry to find someone to date before the holidays. They want to find someone to spend the season with, someone to potentially bring home for the holidays, someone to share some hot cocoa and go ice skating with.
But what about finding a Sugar Baby or Sugar Daddy to be with right after the holidays? This just might be the best time of year for singles, whether they’re in the Sugar Bowl or not. Read on for a few reasons why dating right now is a fabulous decision!
Dating After the Holidays Takes the Pressure Off
Dating and finding someone to enter a relationship with is often all about timing—and this time of year that couldn’t be more true.
For example, there’s a scene in the 2016 rom-com How To Be Single wherein the lovely Alison Brie’s character (an unsuccessful—and, well, desperate—dater) is saying goodbye to the man she’s seeing. As the two walk through New York City’s iconic Grand Central Station, Brie’s character presents him with his Christmas present, revealed to be a photo album of all the “memories” they’ve made together—and they’ve only been dating for three weeks.
Well, he (Saturday Night Live’s Colin Jost) dumps her on the spot, explaining that he usually ends relationships before the holidays to avoid all of the pressure that dating someone new during the season brings. It’s somewhat heartbreaking, but there’s a lesson to be learned in this!
With the major holiday happenings behind us, you don’t have to worry about this happening to you, whether you’re playing Brie or Jost’s roles. No one is worried about leading someone on or meeting someone’s parents if you start looking for someone to date after the presents have been exchanged, the parties have come and gone and the decorations have been taken down.
Share Your Holiday Treats With Someone Special
‘Tis the season of giving, which means a lot of us have received quite a few presents—many of which would be best enjoyed with someone special.
Were you gifted your favorite bottle of bourbon or a magnum of Wine Spectator’s top Champagne selection this year? Maybe you received a reservation at the city’s hardest-to-get restaurant. Or, you could have unwrapped a pair of airline tickets to somewhere tropical, complete with a luxury hotel package.
Chances are you were presented with at least one gift that you immediately thought of experiencing with someone. So, why wait to enjoy such luxuries? You can find someone now and be sipping, dining or traveling with them tomorrow!
Find Someone To Start Fresh With In 2020
The past year has truly been one for the ages. From quarantining during a global pandemic and a divisive election season to watching the world set on fire (well, not the world, but Australia and the western United States) and a parade of negative news headlines, there’s been a lot to take in this year.
And because of all the drama, frustration and grief that 2020 brought, many of us are looking forward to saying goodbye to what many are calling “the worst year ever.” Along with saying “sayonara” to 2020, we’re also looking forward to 2021—it’s pretty easy to be positive about what the coming year will bring.
Many are making their New Year’s resolutions right now, planning upcoming vacations and making decisions of how to make up for the last 365 days with the next. And a big part of these plans typically involve dating and finding someone to experience everything with. Why not start the year off new with someone new?
And about those resolutions? A lot of people are looking to check “find a relationship” off their list, so this couldn’t be a better time to start looking!
Get Ahead of the Valentine’s Day Game
A recent entry in this very blog addressed the semi-new phenomenon of “Cuffing Season,” when singles seek out people to date for the colder winter months. This period of time usually ends right around Valentine’s Day—go figure, right?
Well, if you slept on Cuffing Season but are hoping to be with someone special come February 14, now is the time to start your search for your special (sugar) valentine! You’ve got around eight weeks at this point to jump in the Sugar Bowl and find that SD or SB before you’re wining and dining on the most romantic day of the year.
Why wait until last minute when SDs and SBs are ripe for the picking right now? The clock is ticking and the selection might get smaller by the time you’re ready to Sugar it up in mid-January!
Lock In That New Year’s Eve Kiss
We’ve seen it played out on both the big and small screens time and time again: The lonely single person dreading the clock hitting midnight on New Year’s Eve. They spend the night enjoying frivolous debauchery with their coupled-up friends, all while on the prowl for the other single people present at the party.
And then the countdown begins: 12 … 11 … 10 … 9 … 8 … 7 … 6 … 5 … 4 … 3 … 2 … 1 … HAPPY NEW YEAR! And then they are in a sea of people making out, looking alone as ever, wondering what they did wrong.
Don’t let this happen to you! With millions of Sugar Bowl devotees on SeekingArrangement, there’s someone out there who wants to lay the New Year’s Eve smooch on you.
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