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Everyone on Seeking has a specific motivation for deciding to jump onto it. Established men are looking for interesting and beautiful women to be on their arm; they’re looking for companionship, for a chance to meet someone they enjoy spending time with. And as for attractive daters, there are countless reasons to ditch traditional dating—mentorship, access, influence and even companionship with a more seasoned and successful gentleman who has seen the world and therefore can…

“Excuse me, do you know how much a polar bear weighs?” “No.” “Me neither, but it breaks the ice!” From the outright cheesy to the blatant booty call, pickup lines have yet to cease to exist. Unfortunately they continue to evolve—oftentimes with the day’s current pop culture (Google “Game of Thrones pickup lines” real quick for proof)—much to the chagrin of beautiful women having an after-work cocktail with girlfriends at a bar or those hoping…

Many of us have never relied so much on technology as we have in the past couple of months. The COVID-19 pandemic temporarily turned a lot of us into homebodies, as we socially distanced ourselves from our friends, family and yes, the people we were dating when this “new normal” started. And it was technology that helped us feel more comfortable with our current situation. Whether it was telecommuting and communicating with your coworkers via…

Finding the right gift for a significant other can be difficult. There are a lot of factors to consider: Do you know enough about them to find something that suits their taste and personality? Is the gift sending the right message, considering the stage of your relationship? And, maybe most importantly, are you spending the appropriate amount on the purchase? Shopping woes don’t just stop there, either. We’re also often leading busy lives in the…

As published in a Psychology Today article, the concept of love has been compartmentalized into one form when it, in fact, has seven different types. Whether we find ourselves daydreaming about the peaceful committed marriage or the meaningless amorous fling, love makes itself known in a variety of relationships. Based on the different facets of love, we break down the different combinations of love—and possible relationships you may develop—in this article. EROS: PASSIONATE LOVE For…

As someone who has a career in finance, I often get surprised we don’t teach that topic in our schools. Only recently some colleges have started to do this, as a mandatory subject Someone asked: What should I do if I have 12k in savings and I want to invest? It’s is a very good question and the amount could be anything: from 2k to 200k. In this blog, I will assume that you have…

We are all souls searching. Searching for something. What is that something? After finishing my Freshman year at MIT in 1990, I flew back to Singapore for the summer.  One of my best friends insisted I go with him to see a Buddhist fortune reader. His Buddhist teacher had highly recommended her, because she foretold his entire future which unfolded over the years with unbelievable accuracy. Like most, I care about my future immensely, but…

The start of the new year is the best time to clean up your profile. Studies show that January and February are the most active months of the year for dating sites. Whether you’re looking for a fresh start or just felt lonely over the holidays, use a few of these tips to put yourself (and your profile) in the best position to find an honest relationship! Incomplete Profile This may sound like an obvious…