A Personal Journey: Searching for Soulmates

We are all souls searching. Searching for something. What is that something? After finishing my Freshman year at MIT in 1990, I flew back to Singapore for the summer.  One of my best friends insisted I go with him to see a Buddhist fortune reader. His Buddhist teacher had highly recommended her, because she foretold his entire future which unfolded over the years with unbelievable accuracy. Like most, I care about my future immensely, but I also believe the future is yet to be written and the outcomes lie solely in one’s own hands, albeit with a sprinkle of luck …

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Profile Blunders: Why You Aren’t Getting Matches

The start of the new year is the best time to clean up your profile. Studies show that January and February are the most active months of the year for dating sites. Whether you’re looking for a fresh start or just felt lonely over the holidays, use a few of these tips to put yourself (and your profile) in the best position to find an honest relationship! Incomplete Profile This may sound like an obvious one, but it’s not! A lot of Seeking users are so eager to dive right in that they skip out on the most important details …

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How to Properly Screen an Online Profile

If you’ve come to Seeking to find an honest relationship, chances are you’ll find exactly what you’re looking for. With over 20 million members, there really is someone for everyone. The ideal relationship doesn’t just happen, though; it takes a bit of searching and sifting to find who’s right for you. We work hard everyday to eliminate fake profiles as quickly as they pop up, but sometimes you’ll get to them first. Here are a few tips on how to properly screen a user’s profile and protect yourself from wasting time on a fake. Clear Profile Photos If you can’t …

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