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The Power Move: Why Being Selective is Your Greatest Strength
I’ve noticed a trend. Dating advice lately seems to echo a single, exhausting refrain: be open, be flexible, and most of all, be willing to compromise. Standards, we are told, are obstacles; desires, optional. And that success in love belongs to those who have learned how to round down their dreams without making too much…
Success Is Hot – Why Stinginess Is a Red Flag
In dating, generosity isn’t extra – it’s everything I need to get something off my chest: Let’s stop pretending stinginess is just “being practical.” In dating, being frugal is not a personality quirk. It’s a warning sign. There’s a difference between having boundaries and withholding, between discernment and scarcity. And if you’ve ever been on…
You’re Not Too Much—You’re the Match Some Can’t Handle
Some women were never meant to fade or play small. They move through the world without flinching at ambition, never softening their voice to make others comfortable, and they resist shrinking to resemble someone else’s idea of “enough.” These women are often described as “intimidating,” not because they lack kindness or tact, but because they…
