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Luxury Isn’t Shallow – It’s Intentional
Stop Apologizing for Your Standards Somewhere along the way, “wanting more” has become a dirty phrase. We were told to stop being “extra.” Be low-maintenance. Ask for less, so we’re easier to deal with. Wanting a particular kind of lifestyle—or a specific type of partner—was labeled as overtly materialistic. High standards? Gold-digging. Desire itself got…
Why We Removed Net Worth and Income Fields and Introduced New Changes
We’ve recently made important updates to Seeking.com, specifically removing the “Net Worth” and “Income” fields for our successful members and replacing the subjective “Body Type” field with “Weight.” We recognize these changes have stirred discussion among our valued users, and we want to openly share our reasoning behind these decisions. Improving Authenticity and Safety It…
Success Matters – There, We Said It
Why Chemistry Requires Ambition Being kind—and most will agree on this—is a relationship baseline. It’s fuzzy, comforting, and undeniably a foundational component to any healthy relationship. But being nice alone isn’t enough. It doesn’t sustain intrigue. It doesn’t keep a spark alive. Nor does it guarantee you’ll still be fascinated with each other in five…