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Find a Partner, Not a Project – Why We Don’t Date “Potential”
It’s a tempting thought—that love and devotion will transform a rough-around-the-edges possible partner into a perfect match. But in reality, dating potential is a high-risk investment, and too often, the return is heartbreak and regret. The Fixer-Upper Relationship: A Blueprint for Disappointment Borrowed from real estate, the term “fixer-upper” originally described properties that needed extensive…
Ghosted Again? Here’s What’s REALLY Going On
Modern dating has its perks—unlimited matches, effortless DMs, and last-minute plans. But it also has a brutal downside: ghosting. One minute, you’re swapping inside jokes and making weekend plans; the next? Silence. No explanation. No closure. We tend to think of ghosting as just another frustrating dating reality, but it reveals deeper psychological and cultural…
Swiping is Dead – How to Reclaim Your Dating Life
For years, swiping left (and right) has defined dating—a casual flick of the thumb capable of sparking either chemistry or catastrophe. Yet, for many, the thrill of the match has dulled into a tedious grind. You know the cycle: swipe, match, chat… ghost. Over and over. The result? Swiping fatigue, a modern boredom that has…
