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Luxury Dating Green Flags – A Deeper Dive

Healthy Seeking couple on a boat

Forget the clichés of caviar wishes and champagne dreams. While the world of luxury dating certainly promises exclusivity and excitement, finding a genuine connection amidst the glittering facade requires more than just avoiding red flags. Enter the realm of luxury dating green flags: beacons of compatibility and emotional intelligence that signal the potential for a truly fulfilling relationship. These aren’t just about ticking boxes of shared interests or financial success. Instead, we’re talking about someone who gets excited about your passion project, the one who remembers your favorite wine and actually listens when you talk about your goals. They respect …

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10 Luxurious First Date Ideas You Have to Try

Seeking Couple on Luxurious First Date

From Helicopter Tours to Hidden Gem Museums First dates: the butterflies, the nervous excitement, and the potential first step to something extraordinary. But let’s be honest, the classic dinner-and-a-movie can feel, well, a tad predictable. If you’re looking to impress your date and set the scene for an unforgettable experience, why not go full-on luxury? It is 2024, after all—and there’s no better time to stand in your power, raise your standards, and experience all of the fun, lavish, and sophisticated date nights you deserve.  So, ditch the usual routine and dive into these 10 luxurious first date ideas that …

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Singles Awareness Day: 10 Luxurious Ways to Celebrate

Woman enjoying Singles Awareness Day

Forget overpriced prix fixe menus and crowded couples’ cruises. For the discerning, extraordinary souls of the world, Valentine’s Day’s little-known counterpart, Singles Awareness Day on February 15th, isn’t a day for FOMO; it’s a glittering opportunity to flaunt your independence and embrace luxury living on your own terms. So, ditch the clichés and raise a glass of vintage champagne to your solo status. Here are 10 exquisite ways to celebrate your unparalleled worth and indulge in the finer things in life. Ten Ways to Celebrate Singles Awareness Day 1. Spa Retreat A spa experience that goes beyond the ordinary spa …

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10 Red Flags to Avoid in Luxury Dating

Couple avoiding red flags in luxury dating

Imagine setting sail on a sleek yacht, the sun sparkling on the water as you clink champagne flutes with a promising connection. In the captivating world of luxury dating, every encounter holds the potential for a thrilling voyage. But just like navigating any uncharted sea, recognizing potential red flags early equips you to confidently steer towards a love life as fulfilling as the exquisite experiences you desire—and deserve. What is a Red Flag? We’ve all heard the buzzword at one point or another, but what does a “red flag” really mean in the dating world? Simply put, a red flag …

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Seeking Society 2024 – Rules for the New Year

The new year is a time to reevaluate your trajectory.  Where are you heading? What direction is life taking you in? Are the people that surround you the people that you see uplifting you, and taking both your life, and your wellbeing to the next level? As we head into the season of sharing those tacky, end of year Dating Wrapped reports (in the style of Spotify Wrapped, but with far more intimate details than one might be comfortable giving out even at a boozy brunch), we see the sheer epidemic of coffee shop dates, of bill-splitters, and of the …

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2023 Dating Trends – The Year in Review

Seeking Couple on Date

2023 brought with it an entirely new vocabulary of dating trends. With the continued rise of social media, trends spread across our screens like wildfire, giving us a new way to discuss our relationships, situationships and sneaky links. At Seeking, we decided to decode these dating trends, and define which ones you need to keep an eye out for, and which you need to be incorporating into your dating life (looking at you, Edudating and Dating Up!). Glossary of Dating Terms: Barbenheimer Dating Barbenheimer Dating is based on the concept of the “Barbenheimer effect,” which is the idea that people …

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Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs Revisited – Seeking’s View

Seeking's Hierarchy of Needs

There’s one thing that we know for sure: not all of us have the same needs, wants, and desires. But, is that true? Honestly, in the realm of luxury dating, we believe that it is. When your standards rise, your expectations not only for yourself, but for others, become elevated too. Your needs are no longer ‘basic’ but nuanced, and are defined more by attention to detail.  Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs There’s a psychological model called Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs. It’s like a roadmap for human desires. It breaks down our needs, starting with basic survival stuff like food and …

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Holiday Gift Guide: Be Careful What You Gift For

Holiday Gifts

Gifting, especially when it carries a touch of luxury, transcends the exchange of material possessions.  Each gift becomes a messenger that conveys your partner’s sentiments, desires, and intentions.  From timeless classics like vintage perfumes to the modern allure of more bespoke fragrances, and from the warmth of a cashmere sweater to the spicier wink of more intimate devices, gifts speak their own language. What do they mean, then? With Christmas on its way, we have decoded the language of gift-giving.  When you’re in the luxury dating realm, gifts will be a reality— it’s time we examined some of the implications, …

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11 Unique Traits of a High-Value Man

In today’s fast-evolving dating landscape, the term “high-value man” has boomed— exponentially. We all have a vague idea of what makes a man “high-value”, but what are some key traits that encompass this new version of tall, dark and handsome? And, most importantly, what is it like to actually date someone like that? What sets him apart from the crowd? Beyond financial status, these men embody qualities that put them several steps ahead— but, before we get into it, there’s one trait that we all know sets the bar high at the very beginning: You will not be receiving any …

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Goodbye Daylight Savings Time, Hello Cuffing Season!

Woman experiencing daylight savings

It’s that time of year again where we are forced to turn back our clocks against our will and embrace darker, colder, shorter days. At least, that is one way to look at it. But what if we considered this time change as an opportunity instead? If you think of this extra hour as a gift instead of a nuisance, perhaps then you could make the most of it.  We really give this time change more power over us than we ought to. The week Daylight Savings Time ends can make many feel so hopeless. The warm weather is behind …

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