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Split the Bill – Why Your Dating Dealbreakers Are the New Green Flags
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This isn’t an article about being difficult. It’s about being honest. Radical honesty—the kind that says, “I want someone generous, emotionally mature, and who doesn’t flinch at valet parking” isn’t just valid. It’s power. And while we’re at it, no more pretending. No more smiling…
Exciting Changes Ahead on Seeking
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A Message from Brandon Wade: When I founded Seeking.com in 2006, my vision was clear: create an extraordinary platform for successful individuals looking for meaningful relationships. In 2020, that vision personally became my reality when I met Dana. Despite our 30-year age gap, our connection…
Luxury Isn’t Shallow – It’s Intentional
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Stop Apologizing for Your Standards Somewhere along the way, “wanting more” has become a dirty phrase. We were told to stop being “extra.” Be low-maintenance. Ask for less, so we’re easier to deal with. Wanting a particular kind of lifestyle—or a specific type of partner—was…
Why We Removed Net Worth and Income Fields and Introduced New Changes
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We’ve recently made important updates to Seeking.com, specifically removing the “Net Worth” and “Income” fields for our successful members and replacing the subjective “Body Type” field with “Weight.” We recognize these changes have stirred discussion among our valued users, and we want to openly share…
Success Matters – There, We Said It
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Why Chemistry Requires Ambition Being kind—and most will agree on this—is a relationship baseline. It’s fuzzy, comforting, and undeniably a foundational component to any healthy relationship. But being nice alone isn’t enough. It doesn’t sustain intrigue. It doesn’t keep a spark alive. Nor does it…
Find Your Ideal Partner: Why Understanding Your Attachment Style is Key
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Have you ever found yourself repeatedly attracted to the wrong type of partner, chasing unavailable people, or running away when relationships start to deepen? Perhaps you’ve prioritized looks, wealth, or charm, only to end up emotionally unfulfilled or stuck in the same relationship patterns. If…
