Henrik J. Klijn
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Henrik J. Klijn
Split the Bill – Why Your Dating Dealbreakers Are the New Green Flags
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This isn’t an article about being difficult. It’s about being honest. Radical honesty—the kind that says, “I want someone generous, emotionally mature, and who doesn’t flinch at valet parking” isn’t just valid. It’s power. And while we’re at it, no more pretending. No more smiling…
Luxury Isn’t Shallow – It’s Intentional
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Stop Apologizing for Your Standards Somewhere along the way, “wanting more” has become a dirty phrase. We were told to stop being “extra.” Be low-maintenance. Ask for less, so we’re easier to deal with. Wanting a particular kind of lifestyle—or a specific type of partner—was…
Success Matters – There, We Said It
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Why Chemistry Requires Ambition Being kind—and most will agree on this—is a relationship baseline. It’s fuzzy, comforting, and undeniably a foundational component to any healthy relationship. But being nice alone isn’t enough. It doesn’t sustain intrigue. It doesn’t keep a spark alive. Nor does it…
Why “Too Much” Is Exactly the Right Amount
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Playing small is a waste of your time. For years, we’ve been told to tone it down. To want less, need less, and be satisfied with whatever love, time, or attention someone was willing to give you. It was called “being low maintenance.” But let’s…
Spotting a Bare Minimum Relationship and Moving On
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It happens fast. One moment, you’re wrapped up in an “us against the world” relationship, and the next, you feel you’re doing all the emotional heavy lifting. But how do you know when your partner is doing just enough to keep things from falling apart…
Rare Species – What It Means to Be a High-Value Man
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In case you haven’t noticed, dating thrives on trends—some fascinating, others somewhat questionable—while social media bombards us with everything from trying silent dates to mewing for that sharper jawline. But one term keeps popping up on YouTube, TikTok, and plenty of self-improvement spaces: the high-value…
