Seeking Blog

  • Couple seeking connection

    Is Real Connection Possible in a No-Strings-Attached World?

    Modern dating is a paradox. We crave intimacy, yet we swipe endlessly. We want passion, but we fear attachment. The rise of no-strings-attached relationships has made it easier than ever to meet someone—without the so-called complications of commitment. But what happens when the thrill of the chase fades, and we realize we’re left with nothing…

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  • Dating Someone Older? Here’s What You Need to Know

    Ever thought about dating someone older? Not just a couple of years older–someone whose life experience, ambition, and references belong to an entirely different era. Age-gap relationships are often dismissed as a pursuit of financial security or a nod to outdated “gold-digger” stereotypes. In reality, they’re more nuanced. Modern dating trends—especially on platforms such as…

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  • Couple discussing a painting job

    Find a Partner, Not a Project – Why We Don’t Date “Potential”

    It’s a tempting thought—that love and devotion will transform a rough-around-the-edges possible partner into a perfect match. But in reality, dating potential is a high-risk investment, and too often, the return is heartbreak and regret.  The Fixer-Upper Relationship: A Blueprint for Disappointment Borrowed from real estate, the term “fixer-upper” originally described properties that needed extensive…

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