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All About Reporting
  • Posted Aug 25, 2016


Reporting an inappropriate member is highly encouraged and available to both Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies/Mommies.  If you are having a conversation with another member and they ask you for personal banking information, use derogatory language or send unsolicited private photos it may be time to consider reporting them. SeekingArrangement takes user reports very seriously and wants to be notified of any inappropriate activity taking place on the site.

How To Report:

To report a member look for this icon at the bottom of your message thread:

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Once you click “Report Member” you will be able to provide details regarding the incident.

What Happens Next:

Once you file a report, SeekingArrangement’s support team will investigate the matter thoroughly. If the report is deemed accurate the offending member’s account will be immediately suspended.

Please keep in mind that reporting a member should only be used for serious offenses. A report should not be filed simply because a member was rude to you. If you receive a rude message it is best to block the member. When you block someone, they will no longer be able to contact you using the site and they will no longer be able to view your profile.

Remember: If a user has threatened or committed an act of violence, please contact your local law enforcement agency and report the member.

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168 Responses to “All About Reporting”

  1. B says:

    Everyone stay away from Mrhappy100 (Paul) he uses pics that are 10+ years old and also is lying about his age. It states 41 on his profile but he is actually 51 and looks a LOT older in person.

    He pressured me into having unprotected sex with him (In exchange for cash) and because I said no he sent me a load of abusive messages. Avoid avoid avoid !

  2. Brianna says:

    Hi, please look into reporting Liam smite. We made an arrangement and once I got my first allowance he harassed me threatening to send me to the FBI for fraud when it was exactly what we agreed to. He is horrible and does not deserve this opportunity

  3. erika says:

    “Wallace” is a fraud! He deposited bounced checks in my account! Stay away and now deleted his account but clearly he has done this before.

  4. Be advised says:

    Go4me – go4theOne is a fraud. I can’t have been the first one he’s done this to and I doubt I am the last. He abused me, forced me to do things I didn’t want to do, stole my money, and lied to my face for a month, he has no intention of ever giving someone an allowance and threatened my life. Please avoid him, for your own safety and well-being.

  5. Krutika Singh says:

    I’m not really someone who can travel with my daddy and I’m also not at all confident about how i look. Seeing as I’m still 18, I’m not really allowed by my.family to be into these things. But I really do wish to earn something in order help my mother out financially. I would love to do an online only realationship because I’m scared that my daddy would not like me after meeting me. Is there any way possible for an online only relationship seeing as I am still a student who goes to college almost 7 hours a day and only has Sunday as free time.

  6. Morgan says:

    This woman that i met on here was really sweet and she and i agreed to make an arrangement. Everything was going fine and she gave me money and then her check bounced, it took the money that was supposed to be mine as well as overdrafted the account and got me locked out. Now she wont answer texts. I cannot believe…

    • Linda says:

      But you’ve been warned not to give out your bank details. Please open a paypay account and insist on it. Sadly tgis site is full of scammers I’m very disappointed since they say they verify their members. I’ve been contacted by 2 scammers in 2 days asking for banking details before even meeting them. I only managed to block one of them, the other’s profile vanished into thin air before I could report him.

  7. Zsa Zsa says:

    Classyhonestman is a scammer he tried to get me to open an account so that he can get people to deposit money into it and I told him no he got upset with me I have no way of reporting him because he took down his profile he did state to me that he will be coming back on to seeking arrangements to find somebody else that will help him out. I hope seeking Arrangements keeps Closed profiles on file so they can see who this person looks like and if seeking Arrangements wants his phone number I will give it to them

  8. I’m one of the gay boys and just learning about the “salt daddy” term. I know the differences between real and pretenders. Can a salt daddy be wealthy, but just doesn’t want to spend it, and rather date for free by paying for a meal ? I know real sugar daddies offer to help when they can tell you’re in a difficult situation, but do the salt daddies just disregard the subtly ? Just trying to understand the indicators.

  9. AngelinaLucy says:

    EXACTLY. Like HELLO, this is not a dating site, nor an escort site, it’s a SB/SD site. That MEANS you’ll gift something and/or spend.

    Old, fat men don’t really expect young, beautiful women to just like them for them, do they? They get mad about it but are quickly to judge older, fatter women. The hypocrisy.

  10. neversaynever says:

    Is 200$ too little for a date with someone you like involving sex too? Have I been low balling myself?

  11. SB Blues says:

    Encountered a SALT daddy. Not even Splenda.
    He has NO money and is living off credit cards or at least that is what he just told me.
    He never gave me the whole allowance we agreed on and now he is asking for some of it back!
    Are you kidding?!
    He and we are past all that him giving me allowance.
    Our relationship has grown he says.
    Sorry, but no.
    I won’t be seeing him again.
    All I’ve encountered on this site is rude men without money.

    • Anonymous says:

      Tell him to get off the site and seek therapy or better yet, find a better paying job. Sounds he needs to be the sugar baby one.

  12. Angry SB says:

    So many salt daddys on here .
    So rude and offer $ 100 or $350 per “meet”. When you refuse their offer they act like children and either name call you or say things like “This is Harrisburg not Miami.”
    What does that have to do with anything? Either you have money or you do not.

    • Anonymous says:

      They are idiots incapable of comprehending that people might have different expectations and are not OBLIGED to accept any offer. Ask yourself this, would any true, successful and genuine SD who is educated act like this?

  13. Joseph says:

    I would love some kind of review system, but I realize that might be difficult to implement when people’s feelings are involved. For example, I recently met a ‘nice’ woman who I made an arrangement with who then completely disappeared, blocked me on this site, and wouldn’t answer texts. With zero explanation like that, it would be nice to be able to rate their poor communication skills. So you wouldn’t need a review section like Amazon, just one based on a star system. For example: Communication: 1 star, accuracy of pictures: 5 star, etc. Something simple.

    Now as far as the flakes go, which I seem to have extensive experience with in a very short time, can we require a fee to join for SB’s? It would be minimal, but might weed out the ones that are just curious or checking things out. You could even use that small fee to lower the fee for the SD’s since SA’s prices are absurd. haha.

    When I know that every user on here had to make a sacrifice (albeit small), I’m more likely to trust that they are serious about meeting, and the chances are much better there aren’t as many flakes.

  14. IWouldLoginButItsBroken says:


    I would need to create a burner account on here in order to report all the SB’s that blocked me after I called them out for scamming for requesting a money-order before a meet.

    If I’ve had good email banter, and a phonecall or 2, I have no problem arranging an uber for the POT for an initial lunch/coffee meet.

    The rating system could work, but it’s still all subjective. I think you’d need quite a few things to rate someone on (Sense of humor, punctuality, felt safe, etc). Even if SB’s could only see how other SB’s rated SD’s, and vice versa…

    • Anonymous says:

      SB’s can request money for meet and greets but that doesn’t mean you should give it to them if you don’t want to. The wishlist is there for a reason, but of course you’d have to meet the person to give it to them.

  15. AnonymousGirl says:

    SOOO many men on here trying to use this as a cheap craigslist! I am so tired of being asked.. “how many roses for the meet?” or “what are your rates?” RATES! Got to be joking right? And then when you tell them your allowance expectancy they laugh at you and offer 100$ for sex and say if they wanted to pay insane prices they would go to an escort service! Ummm.. we aren’t escorts anyways! So MOVE ALONG and check craigslist, the street or backpage. What happened to this site! These men smh…

    • Angry SB says:

      So far that is all I’ve encountered on this site. I have yet to meet a man who actually had money. I had one guy today that was very rude to me while discussing an arrangement. I have practical Lifestyle on my profile and he had willing to give substantial on his, but when I offered up my practical allowance he said “We are in Harrisburg not Miami.” Well okay then if you don’t have the money you shouldn’t be on this site.
      Why have substantial on your profile if you can’t even do practical?
      This wasn’t even the first time he contacted me. The last time I was speaking with him I stopped because he started low-balling me from the start saying things like I will give you $350 per meet.
      I am willing to give my time and companionship, if I feel comfortable, to someone who is a true gentleman and really has the means to be generous.
      Another guy who I’m actually seeing on and off currently has no money at all but he is doing other things for me that are a big help, but he is still on this site and is in credit card debt.
      I think a big red flag is when they start complaining about the cost of having their SD account. That is what I’ve seen so far. Guys who have messaged me eventually start saying things like, “So,are we going to meet because I really want to close this account because the cost is too much a month?”

      • Sabrina says:

        I am having the same issue. I started out at what I thought was a reason per date meet at $500 but couldn’t find even one guy to agree to that. Most said $250 max. Nope! So I went to $400. Had a couple agree to it but never followed through. One did but I found out he is a total jerk so I no longer talk to him. Another guy, 30 years my senior, took me to dinner. His profile said substantial as well which is the only reason I agreed to the date to see if I could get past the age gap. Through dinner he only wanted to discuss himself and what sexual expectations he had. Then he asked me how much I expected a month. I said $2000 for as much as he wanted. He busted out laughing and said, “I’ll do half that and hire another girl for you to f*ck in front of me.” Oh hell no! Date over. Sleezy old man! I’ve also been stood up twice, had multiple guys trying to get my bank account info and nude photos. I would have better luck hanging out in places wealthy men go than on here. All I’m finding are rejects of society that think they are potential SDs or ones that know they are a catch and refuse to pay allowances (go to a regular dating site jerks).

  16. Chris says:

    I have become very disillusioned with SA, Seems so many profiles are fake. Either girls or whoever running fake profiles with fake pictures trying to scam you out of money or the ones that I just can’t figure out. A girl will contact me and give me private access to her photos when I never even made contact to start then I reply and it shows she never reads the message. Or the girls that change their name slightly every so many months but still never read your message. I am beginning to think that a very large percentage of the girl’s profiles are fake and put up by SA to entice us guys to keep paying a membership. I am done when my membership runs out. I can meet young girls out around my college town easier with less BS.

  17. Laxsb86 says:

    So what do you do when your pot sd asks you to have an account at a bank that’s affiliated with his payroll issuer?

  18. niece says:

    For some reason every time I try to post with my account info it says I have to log in so I guess this will have to do. So I am assuming these blogs are used for chatting kinda instead of the actual topic. I’ve noticed a lot of what people are talking about. The worst pick-up line you can say to me if I want t go have sex I won’t even reply I’ll just delete the message and/or block you. I haven’t talked to many men on here just 4 and they all ended up being nothing to rave about. I’m an open person, but I think maybe they just wanted someone to talk to rather anything else and thats fine to, but geesh I like to eat and listen to live jazz.

  19. joe says:

    Talk about flakes. Try being a gay sugar daddy ( not old either) trying to get together with a SB….its all flakes and wannabes,almost no one is real or serious and for a paying website there should be more vetting of SB .

  20. ChicagoGal says:

    Too many salty men trying to have sex with women for $100 per meet. Out of your mind.

  21. Anon says:

    Sorry I work by pay per meet and it must start with a casual meet up 🙂 then if it goes well on my terms we can meet again
    What’s the ppm amount?
    What would you pay for an hour or so coffee meet?
    A cup of coffee and a croissant

  22. FedUpAnon says:

    Sorry I work by pay per meet and it must start with a casual meet up 🙂 then if it goes well on my terms we can meet again
    What’s the ppm amount?
    What would you pay for an hour or so coffee meet?
    A cup of coffee and a croissant

  23. sd with open eyes says:

    I think the new archive function is worthless. If you archive a chat and then delete the chat out of your inbox it will also delete it from the archive. So, there is no conceivable reason to use this function.

  24. Anonymous says:

    Just a suggestion, but what about an anonymous double rating sort of system like uber has. 1-5 stars? I never flake but damn these guys are driving me nuts lately with all the flakiness.

    • .yougottabekiddingme says:

      The thought of being rated is utterly disgusting to me.

      How, anyway, could the validity of such rating system be verified?

      Besides, one person’s 4-star could be another’s 2. Like a hotel I recently chose to stay in while traveling based on the rating (Google, I think)…and the price. Near-fatal error. It’s a miracle I didnt get eaten by bedbugs, and leave with emphysema and pubic lice.


      Rating systems are highly subjective to the users experiences, standards and expectations.

      Think of a place you visited that you thought was the best or worst place ever…until you later visited the best or worst place ever.

    • Anonymous says:

      Sure, there is no way that can backfire. I’m sure everyone will be honest in their reviews. Like some of my conversations that are in the vein of:

      SB: Book me a flight to this place and a room to this hotel tomorrow. Then we can meet and discuss my allowance.
      Me: Shouldn’t we meet first for just a coffee when I’m in your city next week? Just an easy date to see if we have compatibility?
      SB: You’re such a salt daddy and fake!

      Sugar daddies would be bombarded with baseless bad reviews.

      • Anonymous says:

        I can’t believe this really happens to the men. I mean I don’t understand how women say they want a good SD but cant even take the time to meet them without expectation but then get upset when the men want sex. I always opt for a quick meet – no dinner or anything unless he really wants to and I make it clear that this is just a meet up to see if there is any chemistry as there is no money you can give me to have sex with me if i’m not even attracted to you… something that happens over time not on a first meeting.

    • Anonymous says:

      On balance I would like a ratings system. The reporting already has an option for not following through, asking for money etc…

  25. Anonymous says:

    I’ve been on this site for a few years but never had the need to report someone. I have noticed however, that the guys are 1000 times flakier now than in the past. Making plans for weeks in advance only to ghost at the last minute. Too many options?

    • Seriously says:

      Guess you women don’t like a taste of your own medicine

      • Anonymous says:

        Not everyone here is the same.

      • Sabrina says:

        I have been stood up twice now by SDs. I have never stood up anyone. I actually show up when I’m supposed to. So thanks for being a jerk and lumping all women together. I guess because of a couple bad experiences with guys I should just say F it they’re all POSs.

    • Lynda says:

      LOL I had one guy, steaming hot to meet, within days of making contact with me Suddenly he had a cruise to Cuba that he forgot about! Talk about a nut case. Indeed, tons of flakes on this site.

    • Anonymous says:

      I think that happens on both sides. Last friday I was stood up for a meeting after a couple of weeks of messaging, texting and video chat–said her friends cat died. Then she suggested the next morning and stood me up again—this time she was sick, I haven’t heard from her since. I traveled 500 miles for nothing, I guess it just comes with the territory, a sad truth: there are more selfish, rude people out there than the opposite.

  26. Catcher 22 says:

    OMG! Is this the REAL Lainie? After more than a year AWOL? Who will be next to resurface? SexyRockstar? RussianSB? Kenna? KatPaw? Struggles? Chrissy? Beck? LadyScarlet? Promise? Zito?

  27. Anonymous says:

    The app doesn’t have nearly the functionality of the website.

  28. Anonymous says:

    Did anybody ever try comparing the SA web and SA app?
    I have some profiles that are visible in in the app, but not in the web. Using same search parameters. Anyone experienced that?

  29. laila says:

    I cant wait to finde my perfect SD

  30. .yougottabekiddingme says:

    Ha! Uh oh…we’re in trouble now ;p

    Hey, Lainey 🙂

  31. Lola says:

    Oh dear, as a female on this site i’m cringing at some of the things posted from SB profiles ?

  32. d h says:

    I would. Nothing about that sounds platonic to me.

    Are you permanently disgruntled?

  33. Trippin' says:

    “If Tumblr has taught me anything” – Hilarious!!!

  34. ZZZ says:

    Platonic? Get to the choppa!!!

  35. SBMx says:

    Are you describing all men in Mexico? I think so, ’cause they’re like that, it sucks that you can´t have something serious in here. I get you girl!

  36. Anonymous says:

    Hi kids.
    Hope all is well.
    Well I thought I would get you all up to date. I have a new SB, hallelujah. That’s a unicorn for me.

    Keep up the fight!!

  37. GRINCH says:

    Is there any way SA can purge these miscreants?

    • Anonymous says:

      For as much “moderating” as the site does and censoring what we say you would think they would read the profiles they “review” and “accept”

  38. KeKekeepingOn says:

    So quiet I here 🙁

  39. Anonymous says:

    Sorry to hear some men are like that. Not all of them. Some really value what you, as a SB, bring to the table, and are very happy to bring things too. It is a trade, and we understand it.

  40. Anonomnomnom says:

    thank you for this. i think i too shall post the just as delusional SDs on here thinking they can get young sexy women to fuck them without talks of financial assistance of any kind.

    • Shewalks says:

      Oh yes! There’s Mark T33 in Tampa. He will not send pictures, talk about allowance, gifts, expectations of an arrangement other than face to face. He pushes for your phone number to set up a meeting. Okay, SBs should be understanding,sweet, adjustable to discretionary needs of a possible SD. We agree to public meeting. I will leave his appearance out, because that’s the nature of the site when it comes to SDs. He will give you a “salvation to heaven speech, talk about what his needs are right after, but still refuses to talk about yours. 45 minutes to an hour later, after pointing out his BS, he’ll propose time in his car or the dead end street.
      There are flakes,fakes,salt on SA. We must admit that there are some creepy, crazy and plain evil men too.

  41. Anonymous says:

    What bugs me about here is the unpredictable moderation.

  42. Anonymous says:

    I see a lot of posts that exude frustration with fakes, platonics,onlines, golddiggers, “curvy”, rude, and so on.
    I do not understand. There are tons, literally tons (thousands) of SBs even in medium town America.
    Just click next.

  43. ZZZ says:

    Give him a break. He has to ask his mommy for the Wendy’s money. And he’s not so sure he has the stones.

    • yougottabekiddingme says:

      Hey Southern :). How goes?

    • SouthernSB says:

      Hey you gotta be kidding me,
      I’m just fine. I thought I’d just pop in here to see what was going on, after hanging out on another blog.
      Still on the hunt for my perfect guy though. What’s up with you?

    • yougottabekiddingme says:

      Who me? Ah…same stuff…masturb8ting and crying myself to sleep.

      Most things sweet and tingly on my end. Figuring out ways to master the 80/20 principle. A lil work, a lil study, a lil play, and international travel to elsewhere in between.

      Warm thoughts for someone sweet and kind for you, Southern. Re-evaluating your parameters, and expanding your search might get you a little closer.

      Pobody’s Nerfect, you know 🙂

      I hear talk of this “other blog”…urban legend, it seems!

  44. Anonymous says:

    The overall tone of this blog and many others the past 18 months is a direct reflection of dissatisfaction with SA and each other as SB and SD’s. Not so much SA, but us members that are fake flakes, don’t communicate well, and are testing the waters…. to those of us trying to be what SA is supposed to be about. Clear waters are muddied. What can we do? What can SA do? It all starts with one person doing the right thing. The right thing for some of you is to get off this sight, you do not belong. The rest of us need to raise our game and help some people do the right thing. Right Jaybird?!!

  45. why says:

    Why do you post what they say, if you’re not going to post their profile link?

  46. N. O. Nemuss says:

    “There are plenty of people wanting what I offer.”

    “Splendid. Then contact one of them.”

  47. ZZZ says:

    Want me to form a sentence? Send money!

  48. ZZZ says:

    Pull more hours at Burger King?

  49. MR.BOOM says:

    I’d devote my entire time, energy and budget just to this special lady.
    I’d pay high allowance too.

  50. sd with open eyes says:

    I wonder what it means if a sugar baby gives you permission to look at private pictures and then removes permission before you can look at them?

    • Anonomomomom says:

      I usually give it a few hours than remove. SDs play too many games. Talk you up, ask for pics, say you’re too far, then ghost.

    • Anonymous says:

      I remove permission after I know they’ve looked at the pics and a few days pass without any reply. It tells me they are not interested so they don’t need to have access to my photos. I dont have anything provocative on there but if there is no interest then they don’t need my pictures. One SD requested my pictures a second time, I gave access and again no response….. I don’t know what it means but obviously he is not ready to move forward or simply playing games?

  51. ZZZ says:

    Scam alert! I sent her $20k last month to learn the difference between there and their.

  52. Anonymous says:

    This site was created as any other non-profit.

    You can play. Courtesy is, you pay to play. Anything less is called parlay in the heyday, without a proper say, upon “me’ “, (say like “may”).

    Any questions?


  53. Leading Lady says:

    We don’t all want a platonic relationship… Some of us want more than just a dinner date… If the chemistry is there… Why not?

  54. Argenteus says:

    Hello all,

    I used to frequent these blogs by site a bit several years ago under the different moniker of Principium, but since I have let my hair go grey, I have earned my silver fox status as Argenteus (what can I say, I have a proclivity for Latin 😉 )

    Anyway, as always nice to see old friends just as FatBastardo with his ever acerbic mind and his lashing keyboard-fu. Glad to see that he has not lost that touch! A quick survey and I don’t recognize anybody else but no to worry as the past is in the past.

  55. FormerAnon says:

    be aware of the “babies” at “university” that are majoring in a field of study the university does not actually offer

    • sd with open eyes says:

      People lie.

    • N. O. Nemuss says:

      I once knew someone who changed her tune in a single sentence about what her major was. If you’re going to lie, learn how it’s done.

    • kenshinsh says:

      had a girl that told me her field of study was masters in medicine… LOL, i have no clue why they do this, because what they are studying in has very little to do with me but if your gonna lie, at least make it plausible, like giving a degree that actually exists instead of a bogus one

  56. FormerAnon says:

    odd this does not allow me to post anything that actually comments on the site itself

  57. FormerAnon says:

    remember everyone school is about to be back in session so that means the usual new flood of “babies” that are studying at “university” in a major that university does not actually offer

  58. FormerAnon says:

    well hum does this still allow an immediate post

  59. Chas54 says:

    Any physical violence MUST be reported to the police and SA should base any action on the results of THEIR investigation. Suspending their account on SA is NOT adequate.

    What do you do if a SB (or SD?) Lies?
    Is their account suspended due to the possible damage that has been done to their reputation?
    What if an SD (or SB?) she uses derogatory language or sends unsolicited private photos?
    Do we need to add “Safe Spaces” on SA?

    Let’s get serious for a minute.
    1. It’s very easy for a suspended SD (or SB?) to set up a new account and be back in business immediately.
    I’ve seen several SB’s who have done this and actually have multiple active profiles (I don’t understand the benefit).
    I don’t fault SA as it would be impractical to try and identify these with the volume you deal with.

    2. If a SD (or SB?) does anything that a SB (or SD?) considers to be inappropriate, block them on the site.
    If it’s via text, block them on your phone.
    If it’s via email, filter their future mail as junk or just delete without reading.
    If it’s via phone calls, don’t answer (I know this is a pain as I had a SB who called 10 times in a row several times when I didn’t answer. Is Phone Stalking a thing?).

    3. One person’s rude may be another’s honesty.

    Again ANY physical violence MUST be reported to the police so the perpetrator can be taken off the street.

  60. ZZZ says:

    Maybe GoFundMyBoobs?

  61. Anonymous says:

    A general question:
    why is that, when an SB says she made 20k in platonic arrangements, we must think it is a truth and applaud her?
    And when a guy says he got 20 SBs to say: “it is ok, you do not have to do it [pay me]” – we all must be appalled and call it a lie?
    Sounds very much like a double standard to me…

  62. Anonymous says:

    From the many SB profiles I find in my search in my area, I have found several looking for that “online only relationship”. I do not think those profiles currently represent a significant number, but I agree they are just simply in the wrong site. And, since that is not for me, I simply skip them and continue my efforts on what I am looking for.

  63. sd with open eyes says:

    (amusing profile)

    About Me:

    Got writer’s [email protected]’s,pull [email protected] House’s back,dated god,wrong mirror answers had,have fangs, pinky point,wore all black & white stripes,SUNY New Paltz is glassy.

  64. GRINCHH says:

    Found the perfect SB


  65. N. O. Nemuss says:

    Such pictures and videos are otherwise so hard to find on the Internet.

  66. FedUpAnon says:

    I have been banned for being rude back, strange that. I also see offensive FinDom’s profiles every day but SA encourages them, if an SD follows a fetish, yep they get banned too!

  67. anon says:

    Sorry to say but SD are hardly ever interested in that type of stuff on here. Youre on the wrong site

  68. Sb00 says:

    SA should SERIOUSLY consider doing a background check on the SD’s. I got two of them sending me fake checks they want me to cash and send, and asking for my BANK INFO, SSN, ETC. This is ridiculous.

  69. Anonymous says:

    Didn’t you know, the SB’s pay too now if they want some of these ‘new’ features?

  70. Fed Up Grinch says:

    What I’m Looking for

    My ideal sugar daddy experience would be a non sexual companionship and mentorship. As I continue my education and pursuing my career, I would love to have a wiser man who can provide me with guidance and advice. I love listening to people, and spending time with friends. If you are looking for an down to earth, no pressure relationship, I’m your girl!

    • ZZZ says:

      I’m down to earth, no pressure… but send me all your money!

    • Fed|UpAnon says:

      Should I be flattered? 😉

    • Anonymous says:

      not sure why any sd would agree to no intimacy arrangements,,,,,,if he’s paying you,,,,,,,the girl better put out

      • Pliny the Elder says:

        You, my friend, are on the wrong site. I suggest you kindly confine your search to BackPage. It is more suitable to your crass style.

      • Anonymous says:

        I agree with Pliny the Elder. Take all of your cousins with you.

        For your information, “no intimacy” could mean “no intercourse”, but there still could be intimacy exchanged.
        There are MANY men who are impotent, but still interested in other forms of intimacy.

        This is most prevalent beginning at 60 years of age, but can begin in the early 50s (or earlier for other barriers) for those with a history of smoking and otherwise poor health.

        There are many other forms of sexual dysfunction that men seek help with as well.

        So stick your rude comments up your pie hole and move along to the next profile already. This site is intended for respectful people that know how to converse.

      • Anonymous says:

        You certainly are on the wrong page. It is a well known fact that on SA men give women money for their smarts and beauty. This could be simply ascertained by looking at her SA phots and reading her profile. After that you shoud buy her items from the wish list…
        Intimacy… what do you think this is, Backpage?

      • FedUpAnon says:

        I totally agree with the two posts above, and later today I will be Unicorn riding in the magical forest.

  71. Whatever SB says:

    Same thing goes for those members who you have been provided proof that they are cat fishing. For you to tell your members how to report who and why to report them its bull. You don’t even follow your own terms and conditions of your own site.

  72. Anonymous says:

    Lift your game SA, there are multiple SBs who have been physically assaulted, report it, and you do nothing to the “SD’s” account. I myself have reported several members for shocking verbal abuse on the site and have yet to see their accounts suspended. All you actually do is suspend the accounts of SBs who ask for money upfront.

    • GRINCH says:

      Read my comment below

    • Anonymous says:

      Physically assaulted and verbally abused are two different things. With that being said, I do agree that physical assault should actually be reported to the police, and not to SA. Don’t worry, SA will not only suspend them later but also give out relevant information that they have stored in their data.

    • FatB'stardSA says:

      “I myself have reported several members for shocking verbal abuse on the site and have yet to see their accounts suspended.”

      Being turned down for a $10K/month platonic arrangement does not count as “shocking verbal abuse”.

      Have a nice day :-).