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First Date Safety Preparation – Our Top 11 Tips

January 22, 2024October 20, 2022 by Seeking Contributor

Seeking Woman Practicing First Date Safety

By now, most of us know what to do before a date. Get your hair and nails done, slip into your fave Louboutins, and last but definitely not least – make sure you’re dressed to impress! But do most of us know what to do before a first date when it comes to safety? But there are some other tips you should know, too. Before a first date, people often tell you to stay safe. However, they usually don’t tell you exactly how you can actually practice first-date safety. Luckily, that’s what we’re here for! Read on for our top …

Best Safety Practices for Your Online Dating Profile

January 22, 2024June 15, 2022 by Seeking Contributor

Seeking Member Taking Online Dating Safety Seriously

You’ve carefully crafted your Seeking profile and feel ready to start dating. Congratulations! You’re making the right moves in your journey towards an upscale lifestyle. But how do you make sure you attract the right person into your life? Before you connect with potential partners, let’s discuss a few tips to improve the safety of your online dating profile and keep your Seeking experience secure. With these best practices, you can increase your chances of success and stay safe, while you enjoy the dating adventure of a lifetime. Create a Unique Profile Name Your Seeking profile name is an important …

Safety Information: Beware of Internet Scammers

January 22, 2024September 7, 2016 by Seeking Contributor

Everyone who uses the Internet is potentially susceptible to online scams. If you think you’re too smart to fall for an Internet scheme, you’re probably wrong. Scam artists work diligently to create ever-changing and increasingly sophisticated scams to trick even the most aware prey. Being aware of the digital dangers that are out there is the only way to keep yourself and your assets protected. If it sounds too good to be true, it is Many Internet scammers will ask a victim to cash a large check for them and in return offer a small percentage of the money. What …

Online Dating Safety

January 22, 2024July 23, 2014 by Seeking Contributor

The Internet can be both a blessing and potential minefield. With the advent of online dating, proximity is no longer a limiting factor, which opens daters up to a world of possible matches, as well as risk. There are two main risks you’ll run into on the Internet: scams and dangerous people. A smaller risk, but certainly a main concern within the online dating community, is Catfishing. Dating sites are often targets for these kinds of activities. Behind the scenes, heavy policing and vetting of profiles takes place to try and weed out potential dangers or abusers. I can’t speak …

Success Is Hot – Why Stinginess Is a Red Flag

June 27, 2025 by Henrik J. Klijn

In dating, generosity isn’t extra – it’s everything I need to get something off my chest: Let’s stop pretending stinginess is just “being practical.” In dating, being frugal is not a personality quirk. It’s a warning sign. There’s a difference between having boundaries and withholding, between discernment and scarcity. And if you’ve ever been on a date where someone showed up empty-handed—no plan, no effort, no curiosity—you’ve felt the chill. Stinginess isn’t just about money. It’s an entire worldview. It says: I don’t give unless I have to. I don’t lead unless I’m guaranteed a return. I don’t extend myself—because …

Why We Removed Net Worth and Income Fields and Introduced New Changes

June 10, 2025May 30, 2025 by Brandon Wade

We’ve recently made important updates to Seeking.com, specifically removing the “Net Worth” and “Income” fields for our successful members and replacing the subjective “Body Type” field with “Weight.” We recognize these changes have stirred discussion among our valued users, and we want to openly share our reasoning behind these decisions. Improving Authenticity and Safety It was becoming more apparent that “Net Worth” and “Income” were inherently problematic because they were not verifiable and were being used dishonestly. To better protect our members and maintain authenticity on the platform, we’ve concluded that the most accurate measure of a member’s success and …