1 month ago
Tips for Dating Safely

image

We want to make sure you stay safe during your online dating experience. Keep these tips in mind when you are talking/texting with someone or setting up a Meet & Greet.

When talking with someone online, don’t have a username with your full name. Just use your first name or create an innocuous email account with a random name. Come up with something fun to use.

Don’t use photos from your Facebook or Instagram in your online profile. They’re easy to trace. Don’t link any online dating sites to your social media sites – like Tinder or Instagram. It’s one of the fastest ways for someone to trace you and learn all about you, your friends and family.

It’s a good idea to get a glimpse of your date before meeting him or her. There are many ways to video chat (FaceTime, Google Hangouts, Skype and even Facebook). This could also help to reduce the risk of being “catfished” by someone claiming to be someone he or she is not.

If the online conversation becomes too much or makes you uncomfortable, stop the conversation and make sure you have ways to block and report this person.

Be logical. Don’t send photos right away, especially racy ones. Don’t give out your phone number (create a WhatsApp account or Google voice number or get a burner phone). When talking with someone be careful in describing your location, events you’ve been to recently, your workplace or anything else that can easily place you somewhere they may know. I understand you’re probably talking with someone in the neighborhood, but until you know for sure, better safe than sorry.

Never give anyone money or financial information online.

Never tell someone you don’t know or just met where you live or if you live alone. Never give out your physical address and have them meet you there. If you do decide to meet, make sure to meet in a popular public place and let friends know where you’ll be. You can even have a wingman (or woman) with you.

Don’t meet someone at their car, in the parking lot, a motel/hotel or anywhere you feel you can’t get away safely and quickly. ANY TIME you feel uncomfortable, go with your gut and get out of that situation. Do not hesitate. Consider carrying a can of pepper spray, just in case.

Pay attention to body language and facial expressions. Be observant. 

If you’re meeting in a bar, make sure you watch your alcohol, literally. Not just the quantity of alcohol you drink (not a lot), but never let the drink out of your sight. Roofies (among other drugs) are easy to administer and you’ll never know until it’s too late.

Make sure you have your own car, public transpo, friends to call or have an app to come get you. Do not accept a ride or walk back because 1) they’ll know where you live, and 2) who knows where you’ll be taken. 

Always have enough cash or a credit card on you to get home.

Your safety is important to us, and we want your dating experience to be a positive one. So focus on your common sense and listen to your gut. Happy dating!


766 Responses to “Tips for Dating Safely”

  1. Dave says:

    Men , do you like being treated like second class citizens ?you worked hard for 15, 20, 30 years and now you can enjoy your life , blood, sweat, and tears only to be told that you should pay to mentor some lady while she may or may not be sleeping with men who don’t pay . You are being told that you’re only value is your wallet and yet you cannot have your physical and social needs met with it . You are being coveted by people on the lowest rung of the sexual marketplace. Do you want to be treated like a chump ? Walk away from SA.

  2. Sook says:

    Hola mi consulta es la siguiente es normal que te pidan de mudarse al pais donde el radica

    • yougottabekiddingme says:

      Hola Sook,

      No, eso no es normal. Sería muy vacilante y cuidadoso acerca de un acuerdo internacional. Muchos estafadores y personas con malas intenciones prometen lujo, amor e incluso matrimonio, y se aprovechan de las personas que viven en otros países.

  3. Dave says:

    Dear SA admin , please remove the post below about me . She’s violating guidelines

    • yougottabekiddingme says:

      I didn’t violate you, Dave. You violated yourself, as well as the many women you’ve admitted to giving counterfeit money, and mistreating in other ways.

      I’d rather not take the time to dig up, copy and paste your words, but I will.

      This is a blog about safety, and your admitted behavior of scamming women is appropriate in that regard. As are my stated concerns regarding your comments minimizing rape.

    • Dave says:

      Dear SA admin , please abide by the rules you have written . I’m being attacked and insulted. For us men to believe you , you must take action .

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        Please see Dave’s comments as posted under the October 7, 2019 article blog topic “Is Sofia Richie the Ultimate Sugar Baby?”

        Dave says:
        October 15, 2019 at 7:21 am
        I suggest you rip her off with fake money. If you want a real connection, then that’s tougher and you’ll have to find a young girl with a less entitled profile.”

        This is one of several such comments.

        Give up the protest, Dave. These are your words.

      • SA_Admin says:

        We have seen these comments before and as they are not just a violation of our blog’s CGs, but also of SAs terms of use, we are taking a serious look into this.

  4. Anonymous says:

    Admin..even if you make a complaint nothing happens..i have reported lots of 14,15 ,16 year olds on before and guess what, they were still on here so much for you working hard, you dont care about that as it draws men in here and its all about the $$$’s you get. this site is so slow and full of bugs nothing gets done..one of your team told me they cant fix some of the issues…and we pay for this crap

  5. yougottabekiddingme says:

    @All

    Dave is a self-admitted scammer who targets women to have sex with (sometimes in his car), then gives them counterfeit money. He has reported to have done this several times, and has encouraged other men to take up the tactic as well. He has also confessed to having girls order expensive bottles of wine at restaurants where he never intends to show up.

    Despite his protests and threats to rally up and vacate the multiple personnas he’s created on this blog, he is actually part of the problem about which he is complaining.

    SA and probably any woman he’d encounter is better off without his scams, his abuse, his counterfeit bill filled wallet, his stem education and athleticism bygone. He quite actually ought to be in prison.

    • Anonymous says:

      yougottabekiddingme no different to any women on this site who run cons and rip off men and they say they are justified to do that..get your own sex in order first before you criticize us men

      • Dave says:

        She’s violating guidelines . She’s obsessed with me . She doesn’t like to tell the whole story . But here’s one example . You arrange a meeting with an SB but she shows
        up also with a friend demanding money for 2 , you bet I will react negatively .

      • Anonymouse says:

        Why is there a thread of people just insulting two posters on a post about safety? This exchange demonstrates why I, for one, don’t feel safe asking questions / posting here.

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        Documented facts corroborated by your own blog posts. You simply can not lie and bully your way out of that truth.

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        U.S. Federal Code 18 chapter 480:

        “Whoever, within the United States, knowingly and with intent to defraud, possesses or delivers any false, forged, or counterfeit bond, certificate, obligation, security, treasury note, bill, promise to pay, bank note, or bill issued by a bank or corporation of any foreign country, shall be fined under this title or imprisoned not more than 20 years, or both.”

        Federal crimes you’re committing with those counterfeit bills you use for sexual encounters with people you devalue, per your own admission.

        Again, these are documents facts as corroborated with your own blog posts.

    • yougottabekiddingme says:

      ————————

      @anonymous says

      “yougottabekiddingme no different to any women on this site who run cons and rip off men and they say they are justified to do that..get your own sex in order first before you criticize us men”

      What I think I understand is that you believe it is ok for someone to scam another with counterfeit money because other people scam in other ways, too. Did I get that right?

      Also, my comment was specifically about the documented comments of an individual on this blog (not “us men”) that has admitted to scamming people on several occasions, and quite actually prides himself, and seems to get a great sense of validation and satisfaction about it.

      @Dave

      The aforementioned individual is you. I am not violating guidelines. I am noting your admitted behavior as can be corroborated with your own documented posts on this blog. The internet is forever, Dave.

      Obsessed with you…if that what you need to cling to. I’ve popped in and out of the blog here and there to see if anything had changed, and the one thing that remained constant was you and your rhetoric. The only reason I even initially posted anything to this blog topic was because of your dismissive and dangerous comments about rape…on a blog about dating safely.

      Here’s what else I know…

      You enjoy being present in this space. You also have gripes about some aspects of the SA website, and elements of sugar dating. So do many. I think the blog would be a much more welcoming and enjoyable space if the conflict of satisfaction and dissatisfaction with the site and with relationships were discussed in a more civil manner among people who are open to considering different perspectives.

      Also, Dave…

      You should really stop giving people counterfeit money. Aside from the legal implications, it does strike me as odd that a successful individual would even be in possession of counterfeit money, and further that anyone with a moral compass would coerce a person into sexual acts under such fraudulent pretense. This type of behavior is appalling and illegal despite the gender of the perpetrator.

      I will also add…I know that men have been ripped off, scammed, and in some cases, robbed; and that women have been scammed, mistreated, and in some cases, abused. Both have shared experiences of blackmail and extortion. I agree that SA could do more to filter scam profiles and remove perpetrators. I would also say that the risk of encounters with maleficent and unscrupulous people is greatly reduced when people demonstrate decency themselves, use due diligence and selectivity when considering potential suitors, and set their intentions to relationship-based rather than transaction-based arrangements.

    • Anonymous says:

      Flag this comment admin it’s trashy and has no merits!

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        U.S. Federal Code 18 Chapter 480:

        “Whoever, within the United States, knowingly and with intent to defraud, possesses or delivers any false, forged, or counterfeit bond, certificate, obligation, security, treasury note, bill, promise to pay, bank note, or bill issued by a bank or corporation of any foreign country, shall be fined under this title or imprisoned not more than 20 years, or both.”

  6. Musingwallflower says:

    I wonder, even with following all these tips, I only find scammers. Men who ask for my bank information and personal details. I also have noticed that most of the men ive come in contact with are not seeking an actual sugar baby type arrangement. It’s more like hookup and almost prostitution like. Sometimes we will get as far as terms and when I inquire about an allowance, I am blocked or called out of my name, etc. I’m not sure how to navigate this at this point.

    • SB says:

      Sorry you have been called names I know what you mean because I get a lot of prostitution offers too and I’m really not with the one night thing.I would even prefer a short-term Arrangement doesn’t necessarily have to be long-term either.I will say why I haven’t been called names I have enjoyed some conversation but a lot of the guys are here for casual fun dating and that’s not what this is for!

      • Musingwallflower says:

        That’s what makes it crazy, why come to a sugar site and get upset that I’m not willing to be sexual in exchange for money? Of course I’m here for the financial aspect as well but I want someone to mentor and help guide me. I’m here to give you the companionship you desire and if we connect on a sexual level, cool. But in exchange you help finance and guide me. It’s not too hard to understand.

      • Dave says:

        So we should pay you for mentorship? That’s consultant work and people get paid for that , not pay the customer !!

      • Anonymous says:

        This is a dating site with benefits sometimes there’s chemistry sometimes there isn’t but being called names as a guy I will apologize for the other morons but usually a true sugar daddy will treat you good.

    • Dave says:

      You want men to pay you to mentor you ?

      • Anonymous says:

        Not just pay them brother but also take them to dinner shopping etc etc oh and we are the ones who are bad. All I see is I want this I want that but what do we get in return a headache? No thanks

  7. Bobby says:

    I was on SA for one month. I met one woman. She was horrible. Bad choice on my part. I collected numbers from a bunch more but I doubt I will ever have an arrangement. They want too much. Men we have options. Don’t settle for what’s on here

    • Dave says:

      I believe this is where we should focus our efforts . If enough men vote with their wallets and do not accept substandard or entitled women , then behaviors will have to change based on market pressures .

      • Bobby says:

        I’d pay for another month or more but it’s not worth filtering out all the scammers. They are destined to crash and burn in their little endeavors. I’ll came back on the site once the dust has cleared and their remains are nothing more than a figment of a long lost distant history

      • SA_Admin says:

        Please rest assured that we are working as hard as we can and taking steps to rid SA of any potential scams. Make sure to report any scams or misconduct to us, as well. Thanks!

  8. AnonymousSD says:

    Hi everyone,

    I have been using SA from a few months now and reading this blog regularly. I dont have much time to post but I have to get this out from my chest as the amount of time we are all loosing because of those incriminated profiles is pushing me to leave SA for good. I agree with Dave & Mike on most of the points. The worse thing is SA NEVER DO ANYTHING to remove those profiles and I can back it up with multiple proofs. Whenever u report someone even with proofs, you dont have access to those profiles anymore but if you make a new account, you will find out that this profile is still there 😅. We are being taken as stupids here. Once I was having a conversation with someone who turned out to be an escort told me that it doesnt matter if I report her coz she will just make another account. The moderators on SA are either very lazy to check those new accounts either its part of their policy to make up the numbers. I can make a list of atleast 500 profiles who shouldnt be there and Im sure everyone else will have more or less the same.We will end up removing 90% of the profiles from SA😅.

    The sugarbabies posting here who dont understand what Dave and Mike are trying to say, can I please ask you to make a sugardaddy profile so that you can actually see what we are having to face everytime we are on the site ? I know Dave might have said some stuff which isnt applicable to all but most of the time he’s spot on. Its sad really and Ive had enough of SA and will delete my account soon.

    • Anonymous says:

      Totally agree with these fake profiles and it’s like having a job you get a bunch of numbers and it’s ridiculous the amount of money they want and then they flip the script and say platonic. So I’m supposed to pay you to educate you? Clearly they haven’t been to college or a university yet. If you want to learn you have to pay!

  9. Anonymous says:

    Safety is the topic and it’s safe to say stay away from these angry wannabe middle aged babies. Either they want you to give them a deposit or online only relationship! Not safe to be on here especially with a bias admin!

    • yougottabekiddingme says:

      Admin hasn’t even had a chance to admin anything 😂. Hold your horses, Cowboy 🤠.

    • SA_Admin says:

      I assure you, I have no bias. It is my job to not have bias. Please let me know your concerns about how this comment section has been moderated so I can address them before our Community Guidelines are posted today. Thank you.

  10. Ricky says:

    Perhaps the elephant in the room might be this: In light of the drastic changes in our society due to issues like the MeToo movement and everything that came about from it ….. not to mention the complete disregard for morals and civility that have for some reason taken shape in this country since Nov. 2016……. perhaps a site like SA simply isn’t viable anymore. Too many street walkers and scammer girls have migrated towards this site not to mention SA itself attempting to distance itself from what it was that made it even remotely interesting when it launched.

    • Dave says:

      Don’t forget the plenty of fish leftovers . With SBs like Bessie , you can forsee the end result of this site. It’s better to walk away now than to make a half hearted attempt to salvage what’s left.

    • Filtersrus says:

      Ricky, I respectfully disagree. 2016 is about the time the feds finally cracked down on escort sites like TBD TER and others. A change in morality had nothing to do with it. What you have seen me back and forth with admin about was how to nail these pros when we saw them. They came here because they have been deprived of American eyeball views, and it’s a matter of economics.

  11. Dave says:

    Yougottabefeedingme, please stick to subjects you are an expert at , such as making false raccusations , muh wage gap, 3rd world causes , false rape culture .

  12. Jstar says:

    SA admin, Though I do agree with some of the members here who believe that the blogs shouldn’t be monitored as harshly as the website , I also agree that there are a lot of rude and bitter men (who are obviously old and beaten down) that need a wake up call. We are all smart enough to know that they can’t get anyone without paying and that’s why they are here therefore , if they can’t be considerate of the ladies , they shouldn’t be here . Also, too many men on here are just seeking an upgraded escort oh wait no they want a less experienced escort but and think that they have a little money that they can talk to women however they want . Let me say this, (as a man) your money doesn’t make you better than the ladies on here . Many of the crybabies here are depressed and lonely that’s why they take it out in the blogs because they can’t find anyone to supplement their time and they hate it . SA needs to be harder on these men who think their time is more valuable than the ladies. I agree, men shouldn’t be scammed but they shouldn’t be thinking because they have money that they make all the rules here and can disrespect women here. Take your “mutually beneficial” aka “sex for money” BS out of here along with your “I only supply allowance when there’s intimacy or when I feel that this is serious” this site allows men to be controlling and it needs to stop . Thanks SA

    • SA_Admin says:

      Dear Jstar, thanks for your feedback. We have become more active in moderating this blog just within the last week or so, unfortunately I do not work with the SA website moderators but have been passing on site concerns to them. As for this blog, where commenters do not have to be SA members & could be potential members thinking about joining, we are trying to make it a place for productive, on-topic discussion – we have such an intriguing member-base and we think that we can all be held to a higher standard where everyone is considerate to everyone (like you said). Spirited, constructive, on-topic debates are fine, but the personal attacks, discrimination and even hate speech that we have seen on here lately must stop. This is a place where all are welcome to have a meaningful conversation (again, that’s on topic 🙂 ) so we can be a positive voice of the Sugar lifestyle, encouraging more people to join. We do take all reports of scams seriously, try hard to prevent it and we are here to help anyone who has had an interaction that they suspect was a scam, fraud or misconduct.

      • James says:

        What are you thanking her for she’s bashing men and your not bias administrator? I’m 35 and choose the sugar dating because I can afford to do so without hurting some girls feelings and I can also help them at the same time what’s wrong with you? Why are you so angry are u on your rag? Or were u dropped on ur head?

      • SA_Admin says:

        Dear James, we thank anyone for taking the time to leave feedback. Jstar stated he was a male. He did not use any hateful speech, or personal attacks, he was advocating for people to be more considerate – which we are in strong favor of and would like to see more of around here. Your comment, however, personally attacking either myself or Jstar (I cannot tell from how you worded your post) with gender-biased language (“are u on your rag?”) that is also off-topic from the blog’s subject is an example of a comment we would remove under our new Community Guidelines, which will be posted today. Thank you.

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        James,

        Lemme help. JStar has stated that JStar is a man. Not sure your rag argument will hold in this case 😬.

        Though…it could very well be that he’s been dropped on his head. Yikes! 🤭

      • Dave says:

        Walk away from SA

      • SA_Admin says:

        Dave, please let me know your concerns about this blog comment community and what Jstar had to say so we can address any issues. Thanks.

      • Mike says:

        This is totally an attack. He says rude and bitter, can’t get without paying, crybabies, depressed, and then tells us how to spend our own money. He is pompous and arrogant. It’s my money I decide what is good value.

      • SA_Admin says:

        Mike, we are not moderating old posts – the guidelines are intended to be a fresh start. You are also calling him “pompous and arrogant” in the same comment where you are calling him out for saying negative things. This new start on the blog is not going to work like grade school where people tattle on others – the comments will all be moderated and action taken at our discretion.

      • Mike says:

        Hey admin you asked dave what his concerns were about Jstars comment and I chose to answer. Now you’re all defensive. I called out on Jstars clearly arrogant and pompous statements. He made comments about things that he has no knowledge of.

      • SA_Admin says:

        Mike, we are simply pointing out the problem with your comment is that you said that he made a personal attack – a violation of our guidelines – by describing some men (not any specific men, so not a personal attack, and not all men, so not a blanket statement, both of which would be against our guidelines) in negative way and in the same comment you also describe him, personally, in a negative way. That is an example of a personal attack. And starting with the Community Guidelines post, these comments with personal attacks/name calling will be removed. We are letting you, as well as other members, know what we are now expecting instead of removing old comments; we want to give members a chance to learn how our comment section will be run from now on before we start removing comments or potentially banning members if they violate certain policies or repeatedly violate the guidelines. We explained in our comment to Jstar that we expect everyone (including him) to be considerate to everyone and everything else that will not be tolerated.

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        Whoopsy-Whoops Mike says:

        “Hey admin you asked dave what his concerns were about Jstars comment and I chose to answer.”

        Oh, the irony!!! 😱😂

  13. Dazed SD says:

    @SA_Admin, As a very long time member of SA and an infrequent poster here on the Blogs. I have one comment regarding some of the posts, threads and actual SA web site. The Blogs should be the least of your worries. Yes there is some bickering here. opinions are like elbows, most of us have them. IMHO you need to focus more on the actual site then the blogs. Your site is now literally filled with Pro’s, scammers and girls that appear to be under age. I think you need to also protect us better. This site is not as secure as anyone says it is. I will not go into details here about it. But if you care to email me privately I will be more than happy to discuss. So my suggestion, again as a long time paying member, focus ALL your efforts on the actual SA site, not the blogs

    • SA_Admin says:

      Dear Dazed SD, thank you so much for your feedback – we truly do appreciate it and are always looking for ways to improve. I personally don’t work on SA’s website functionality/experience and am specifically in charge of this blog’s comment moderation, but I’m happy to take your concerns to the team. Also, if you could please fill out this page (click here) with all of the details you have, it will go directly to our support team that handles misconduct. We would really appreciate any and all details you have about anyone/anything violating the terms of our website so we can investigate and take action.

    • Anonymous says:

      Couldn’t have said it better thank you

  14. yougottabekiddingme says:

    Dave,

    Please may I ask what exactly it is you’re proposing or opposing?

    From what you’ve posted, it seems that you’re upset that abusive language is being restricted.

    Why, in your opinion, is that a bad thing?

    Why do you object to that?

    Also, do you mind sharing where—after you, the guys, and your team of doctors and lawyers pack up—you intend to go? Further, do you imagine that there will be guidelines there, like anywhere?

    Also curious to know where these Anonymous Alliance meetings are taking place. Is impressive that you’ve been able to summons such a responsive coalition.

    • Dave says:

      You have insidious motives yougottabefeedingme. If you don’t think a loose network of men congregate in meatspaces and IRL discussing these very same issues , then please carry on. As for my friends , I meet the children of retired executives in my place of employment and my own physicians and you better believe , the men , are agitated .

      • SA_Admin says:

        The entire point of the Community Guidelines is to make things better – here on this blog in the comment section. (To be clear, the guidelines are not for SA, these two things are separate). Less hateful/discriminatory language, more on-topic discussion, no gender bias (for both men & women), no members personally attacking each other, no trolling, no scams or spam and a place where everyone feels welcome to discuss the blog topics or ask questions – is there anything that we are missing that would make this blog comment section a better experience for you? We truly care about every user’s experience and are actively trying to make things better here.

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        Thanks for your reply, Dave.

        Not insidious. Really just trying to understand why you’re so angry, and why you’ve always been so angry in your postings here. You’ve been making the same points using the same abusive language for quite some time…unprovoked, by the way.

        The questions I posed pertain to this blog space. You said “we” referring to “multiple men” who have allegedly posted anonymously, are opposed to community guidelines that restrict abusive language, and that, subsequently, you and the gang were going to pack up and go to Whoseville, but not before your team of doctors and lawyers wage war in all the media outlets to fight for your belief that you ought be able to disparage people without restraint because you’re angry about your experience on the SA dating site, and apparently with women in the world in general.

        Please correct me if I’ve mispoken.

      • Dave says:

        dear SA admin , since men are supposed to have money and meet a certain standard , men also expect women to meet standards ? Do you not believe in equality ?

      • SA_Admin says:

        Dear Dave, in my last reply to you I mentioned that we are moderating this blog now with guidelines that have “no gender bias (for both men & women)…a place where everyone feels welcome to discuss the blog topics or ask questions,” in other words, a place where everyone is equal – so I am not sure what you mean by this.

    • Anonymous says:

      Yougottabekiddingme is a legend 😂

  15. Dave says:

    Boys, it’s time to pack up the bags

    • Anonymous says:

      Agree

    • yougottabekiddingme says:

      You could also just act right, Dave. That, too, is an option. xo

      • Anonymous says:

        You’re attacking Dave that’s a violation of the rules Dave doesn’t need to change for anyone just be you brother and enjoy life to the fullest. Positive comment learn from it 🙂

      • SA_Admin says:

        The Community Guidelines, which are much more specific than my comments, have not been posted yet. Until then, there are no violations. I have started letting people know about them as a headsup that comments will be moderated with specific guidelines in place very soon, so people have a chance to change their behavior, language, etc. before breaking a policy that can result in comment removal or user banning.

      • Dave says:

        And you, the SJW, who makes false accusations , is the example to follow ?

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        I never said anyone should follow me. And I never suggested that I speak on behalf on anyone as a self-appointed ambassador of the nonexistent. K?

        Really, though, I think you’re getting yourself all riled up over much of nothing. There is a very simple “play nice in the sandbox” principle that applies in most every social setting.

        Those who do not or can not play nice with others should stay at home, play with themselves, and spare the rest of us.

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        Yes, between you and me, SA is my zaddy. Don’t tell 👄.

    • Filtersrus says:

      Dave, you would serve us all better if you stayed and fought the good fight. I have seen my fair share of dating sites go to hell in a handbasket when caring members threw up their hands and said “eff it”. This place needs more people willing to fight to make things better. Granted, they cannot make us moderators for legal reasons I won’t explain here, but maybe we can work towards earning the next best thing.

      • SA_Admin says:

        The entire point of the Community Guidelines is to make things better – here on this blog in the comment section. (To be clear, the guidelines are not for SA, these two things are separate). Less hateful/discriminatory language, more on-topic discussion, no gender bias (for both men & women), no members personally attacking each other, no trolling, no scams or spam and a place where everyone feels welcome to discuss the topics – is there anything that we are missing that would make this blog comment section a better experience for you? We truly care about every user’s experience and are actively trying to make things better here.

      • Filtersrus says:

        Actually, there is something you could do that would immediately help. It would take a little coding effort on your part. but it IS quite doable. Give us a “flag” button in addition to the existing “reply” button. I just sent support a post where someone was soliciting on THIS blog where she obfuscated her phone number in the post. Took almost 3 weeks for you guys to take it down. A “flag ” button would not only immediately notify you of the offence, but also precisely WHERE the offence is located. You could wipe in almost real time what just took WEEKS. 😇😇

      • SA_Admin says:

        I’m not sure if that is possible, but we will look into it. I will personally be going through all comments and any phone numbers or identifying personal information (addresses, social media usernames, etc.) will be removed from the comment. I wasn’t here moderating three weeks ago 🙂

      • Filtersrus says:

        I understand that. The offending post stated. ” ” I have changed the number to a dummy number I don’t know exists, but that type post is commonplace on other dating websites and are always bots and frauds. Being able to flag such content in real time would be immensely helpful.

      • SA_Admin says:

        It may be a tough system to implement as it has the potential to be abused, we also use a third-party host for the blog so if their capabilities don’t include that, then there is unfortunately nothing we can do – but we will investigate the possibility of users being able to flag comments ASAP, in fact, I am personally asking someone about this right now. In the meantime though, as the new eyes of the blog, I will be on the lookout for these (and I’m sorry, but in case it is a real number I am going to have to remove it from your comment right now – bam, consistency!) – thank you!

      • Filtersrus says:

        No worries. It was a hypothetical number so moderating it doesn’t offend. Next time I will put ex’s so that if others see that kind of post or profile they KNOW that it is a bogus one

  16. Dave says:

    Dear SA admin ,I have 2 attorney friends and 3 doctor friends . Also the internet is very powerful . You keep discriminating against men and we I’ll post on BBB, yelp , Reddit, 4chan, disqus and tell men to walk away from SA. This is a war Brandon does not want .

    • SA_Admin says:

      Actually, our new Community Guidelines are specifically designed to prevent discrimination and/or personal attacks against everyone, men & women. All comments will be moderated fairly, regardless of the gender of the person. We have so many comments from past posts that it would be nearly impossible to catch up on and moderate, so from here on out and when the guidelines are posted – the comments will all be moderated according to them. Moreover, they aim to keep the discussions on our blog on-topic. Please hang tight and wait for them to be posted, let us know if you have any questions about them in the post’s comments. Thanks!

    • Anonymous says:

      Like

    • Anonymous says:

      SURE you have friends

    • Anonymous says:

      I want to share a lil bit of love with you Dave, it seems like u really need it, u re spending way too much of energy here. 🙂
      If something doesn’t work for you, move, you are not a tree. But I would hug you anymore.
      Have a nice day/evening.

  17. Dave says:

    Dear SA admin please reprimanding yougottabefeedingme for making false accusations . I always post as Dave with my honest opinions and facts I state as facts.

    • Anonymous says:

      Also reprimand ultimate sb for telling Dave to go suck a dick!

      • Anonymous says:

        Don’t be bias towards women they can use profanity and we can’t?

      • SA_Admin says:

        Using profanity is not against our Community Guidelines. Graphic descriptions of sexual acts and sexually demeaning language is. Hold tight for the guidelines to be posted and you can read the specifics. Thanks!

      • Anonymous says:

        So profanity is ok so I can call ultimatesb a Bitch? But calling a girl fat is not ok lol

      • SA_Admin says:

        Personal attacks on people won’t be tolerated – like calling someone a name – otherwise profanity is not something we worry about.

    • SA_Admin says:

      We have so many comments from past posts that it would be nearly impossible to catch up on and moderate, so from here on out and when the guidelines are posted – the comments will all be moderated according to them. Please hang tight and wait for them to be posted, let us know if you have any questions about them in the post’s comments. Thanks!

  18. Anonymous says:

    My last comment sa was a godsend when my friends introduced it to me made my busy life more fun. Now all of us are mad that this site caters to the women when we are paying you. And you can threaten to ban us but we will keep our money and move on to something better

  19. Anonymous says:

    Yougottabekidding me you’re wrong there are multiple men on here that are mad that after paying for a membership we have to put up with negative garbage on here hope that’s clean enough for you sa

    • Anonymous says:

      All we are doing is Sharing our opinions and experiences with fellow members. If it bothers you so deeply why not make a change in your life where you wouldn’t need a sugar daddy. But instead you will cry and shame men. You ask us to be honest and then get mad!

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        There is no we in you, Sir Anonymous.

        Sure there are multiple men who are displeased with certain aspects of the SA experiences. However, it’s predominantly you plus two who are abusive in your language.

        Not sure you can designate yourself the spokesperson of multiple men when it’s not been multiple men posting abusive comments, and then claiming free speech under Article 19 of the second amendment of the US Constitution. You do realize how ridiculous that is, no?

        Multiple men may agree with your frustrations with the site, and multiple men have demonstrated ability to express that in a way that is aligned with community guidelines and terms of use.

        Also, quite the flawed assumption that there must be something wrong with someone’s life if they’re in this space. Also flawed is the assumption that everyone here needs an sd. It will always be the case that I seek complementary and compatible relationships. Generosity is a natural progression when attraction and chemistry meet authenticity. Try it and be less angry, perhaps. xo

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        *first amendment

      • Anonymous says:

        Lol so at the end of the day you still want sugar lol reality is we all like different things and if you stopped trying to make us want what you want this Chatroom would be so much more friendlier. Agree to disagree move on already!

      • SA_Admin says:

        The thing is, this is not a chat room. This is a blog that has designated topics and what we are trying to do is keep the comments on-topic and welcoming to all. If you like the idea of a chat room, I’ll be sure to take that to our team.

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        Allow me to return your question…

        So at the end of the day, you still want sugar?

        😅

        Yes, let’s agree to disagree.

  20. Anonymous says:

    Hey guys look at anon and bessi in other article with 69 comments you can see her pic she’s fat asf

    • Anonymous says:

      Same girl replying different user names lol

    • SA_Admin says:

      Dear Anonymous, please note that we are about to enact new Community Guidelines for this blog within the next 24-48 hours and personal attacks of this nature will not be tolerated. Comments will be removed and the user is subject to banning for repeated violations. Thank you.

      • Anonymous says:

        I’m stating the obvious and I was being sensitive by saying African American so u want us not to comment at all ?

  21. Anonymous says:

    I’m not going to agree with new terms of service I’ll just keep my money lol

    • Mike says:

      It’s over for SA. They will go the way of Redbook in a year.

      • Dave says:

        Let’s walk fellas. I’ll make sure I let other guys know as well . I have attorney and doctor friends on this site and they will walk too .

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        Hate to see you and the fellas go, Dave. I was hoping things would work out.

      • dontbesouptight says:

        well damn where you guys going? im a female on this site and i can agree the scamming women are ruining it but why let them? anyways. ive found that going out to fancy bars and meeting classy men is more of the way to go. you can meet face to face and not have to talk about how you met from a sex site..

    • SA_Admin says:

      There are no new terms of service for SA. The Community Guidelines we have been mentioning are for the blog’s comment section only.

      • Filtersrus says:

        You should open up a discussion about site TOS as well, as evidenced by all this sturm and drang you are seeing all over these boards. I think most all of us understand that you want succinct and pertinent discussion here for the topics posted, but what I think is getting lost here is many of us would like to see changes on the actual SA site too. How about a blog post for that subject???

      • SA_Admin says:

        That is a wonderful idea…I assure you I am writing that down now to pitch to our team. Thanks!

      • Filtersrus says:

        Kinda like herding cats, huh??

  22. Nitemaresd says:

    Will “negative blanket-statements towards” the SA_Admin violate the new guidelines?

    • SA_Admin says:

      Personal attacks, inappropriate behavior, trolling, discrimination, hateful speech and off-topic comments will all be violations of the Community Guidelines. Please be on the lookout for them as they’ll be posted within the next 24-48 hours, and let us know if you have any questions.

      • Anonymous says:

        So if you try to explain something with an example let’s say books or cars in monetary value someone might get butt hurt that we are talking about objects instead of people. It seems like what you’re trying to do is publish articles and no one can chat about it at all or someone might get butt hurt lol

      • SA_Admin says:

        Please wait for our Community Guidelines to be posted, they will answer your specific questions. We ask that monetary value in regards to arrangements not be discussed, especially monetary values in regards to sex because that violates our terms of use and the user will immediately be banned. With these new guidelines, we are aiming to keep these discussions on-topic, related to the blog post. So yes, if someone randomly starts talking about what cars are worth on a blog post about dating safety, it may be removed since it is not on-topic.

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        Anonymous is sometimes the decoy that Dave and friend use to troll and throw tantrums or to post self-praise and the perception of alliance. Probably safe to assume that no dozen independent anonymous posters have spontaneously and simultaneously erupted to threaten boycotts should they not be permitted to abuse people. Safe to deduce that much of the noise comes from a minute few.

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        Also, I think I remember that “Anonymous” autopopulates if the poster doesn’t enter a name.

        Maybe SA could program a prompt that requires a typed-in name other than “Anonymous.”

        Might also consider posting a survey or open-dialogue blog post of sorts…Community Input: Creating a Fun and Engaging Blogspace or something. Many community members have shared recommendations and insight that might be worth considering. The top-down approach isn’t always best when you’re dealing with human interactions. Having consideration to the opinions and experiences on the ground level would serve SA well.

        Also, I’m not sure through what mechanism SA filters and moderates posts, but I think it has the unintended consequence of hampering productive dialogue at times. Maybe filters on words and phrases coupled with a max post per day cap. Though that probably wouldn’t deter some people from posting under multiple names. It’s too bad people can’t just be decent.
        Maybe allocating some of the budget to a live (human) moderator would better serve the nuance that computer programs might miss. Maybe even reputable guest moderators from LTS who have established presence and regard from the community.

        Anyway, thanks for making an effort to address this!

      • SA_Admin says:

        Hi yougottabekiddingme, I assure you – I am very much a live human! Our upcoming Community Guidelines post is intended to be just that – a place for input from the community, as well as facilitating the clean-up of this space a bit (along with the new addition of my moderation) so discussions are more on-topic, welcoming to all and rid of trolling. Thank you for those ideas, we will keep them in mind if things get out of control again.

        We have so many old comments that it would be impossible for me to get through, so with these guidelines it will be a new, fresh start and the start of any disciplinary actions.

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        SA_Admin

        Thanks for your reply. That’s great! I’m glad to know there will be the presence of a human moderator on the blog. I think many have felt disconnected from the Admins or any respresenative voice at SA as there has been no commentary or interaction aside from the initial posting of blog topics. Of course there is no perfect system, but I think this is a step in the right direction :).

      • SA_Admin says:

        Dear yougottabekiddingme,
        No problem – we are glad to hear it! All of us at SA are committed to creating the best experience where everyone feels welcome and able to have meaningful discussion, and I just so happen to be on the front line of that here on the blog comments, so I will do everything in my power to create a positive yet constructive environment. Every once in a while, comments will slip through before we get to make the final call on them so it probably won’t be perfect at first but we are confident that things will improve here.

    • Filtersrus says:

      Dude, don’t finger the arse of the tiger unless you are ready to deal with its teeth.. just sayin’

    • Anonymous says:

      Basically if you sneeze or say hi to someone they will ban you lol

  23. MIke says:

    Sugar Daddy is not Santa Claus

  24. Filtersrus says:

    To SA Administrator. Since this did not post the first time, I am rewording it. You need to incorporate into your guidelines behavior that happens away from the site like other sites do. One of the modus operandi of scammers is to redirect the user to chat applications like k1k, S-chat and others so that the pitch is done away from SA platform. I have had more solicitations via text. chat applications and others than I care to recall. At least with those applications you don’t lose the string when blocked and you can screen shoot the offense. That is not true here. Understand, the report features, like any other feature can be abused. I had contact with you not 4 months ago about a user who got banned for something they didn’t do and I knew for fact that they didn’t do it. You reinstated them, but if I had not intervened they still would be banned. There has GOT to be a better way to empower paying users to help keep the site clean while also providing consequences when they abuse their empowerment

    • SA_Admin says:

      Dear Filtersrus,
      Thank you very much for voicing your concerns. Unfortunately the Community Guidelines we have been mentioning here are just for the blog. We recommend to not take conversations away from SA in the beginning of an arrangement, as anyone with legitimate intentions should have no problem with this, plus we cannot control or moderate members’ behavior outside of SA. If someone is trying to scam you, or you suspect a scam, misconduct or fraud, and they block you so you cannot report them as usual – please contact our support team at this URL (click here) with any details you have about the encounter so we can investigate and take action. Again, thank you for voicing this, we take feedback like this very seriously, as we want our members to have the best experience possible, and we will address it (perhaps even make a blog post about it so more users are aware!)

      • Filtersrus says:

        Not to compare you to other dating sites, but those sites DO have projections in their TOS for their users for offsite behavior, such as stalking, extortion et al

      • Filtersrus says:

        And those sites WILL ban users who misbehave as a direct result of using their site to connect with the victim of the alleged abuse

      • Filtersrus says:

        Sometime you might want to check T1nder TOS and unacceptable behavior guidelines and you will see what I am referring to.

      • SA_Admin says:

        Our terms of use does state that by accepting our terms, members agree to not use our website to facilitate or engage in illegal activity of any kind. If you interact with members who are violating this, or that you suspect are violating this, we ask that you report this immediately (via the “Report” option or through this URL – click here) so we can investigate and take action. Again, thank you for your feedback, this is a concern we take seriously; and rest assured that this will be considered further.

      • Filtersrus says:

        What I am saying is that they DO have TOS guidelines that deal with offsite behavior.

    • Anonymous says:

      Most girls will not respond to how much is your arrangement they will send there textme number and or email

  25. Anonymous says:

    Hey Dave brother don’t stop commenting
    Your presenting true facts and your honest opinion if it ruffles the feathers oh well your not scamming or using profanity I actually enjoy sharing my experiences on here if this is going to be taken away I will permanently delete my account they can kiss my arse

    • Anonymous says:

      We live in a free country we can’t be controlled

      • SA_Admin says:

        Dear Anonymous, as the owners of this blog we have the right to moderate comments (approving and removing them) as well as banning users if they violate our Community Guidelines. They should be posted today so keep an eye out for them.

      • Anonymous says:

        It seems like your threatening us by saying you would ban us lol there are other sites that cater to sugar daddies so good luck with that it won’t affect us we will still have our money and will be enjoying it elsewhere

      • SA_Admin says:

        Being banned on this blog will not ban your SA membership – they are two separate entities.

  26. Filtersrus says:

    How do you report a user who exhibits escort behavior but blocks you first???

  27. Anonymous says:

    I would indeed leave a review on Amazon because that is an object. If I met with a woman and it turned out I didn’t find them attractive after all, I wouldnt ‘leave a review’ because attractiveness is subjective. Example, you find a single mother unattractive for whatever reason. Someone else, perhaps with kids, would find that attractive as they can relate and have good conversation and sense a maturity in her. You find ‘fresh out of high school’ attractive whereas I would be put off by that as I would feel like she was my equal and I would feel I was an adult looking down on her, resulting in me feeling a little creepy. Anyway, the point I make is that people are attracted to different things.

    • Dave says:

      Ever heard of yelp ? Not an object but people review experiences and places . We pay in order to meet a high quality woman . I want the most out of my time and money . If we allow cuckery like you advocate then let’s allow meth and crack addicts create profiles too . 90 percent of the incarcerated come from single mothers . Single mothers are never worth the time and they are no different than crack addicts . Plenty of fish exists for single moms . Sa does not exist for tatted up freaks with 3 different baby daddies who are hooked on narcotics . It is your type of cuckery and desperation that allow bad behavior to flourish .

      • SA_Admin says:

        Dave, we are about to post Community Guidelines that prohibit personal attacks on people or groups of people. Comments of that nature will be removed and users subject to banning with repeated violations. Thank you.

      • Anonymous says:

        Very sad to hear that you guys think that way about single mums. I am one single mum of a 23 and a 19 year old, both studding and working. I have my own business, I’m
        Educated and I’ve eased my children very well and with good manners. Not everyone is a as bad as you think, and yes some of them are what you say but not all of them. You might as why I’m on here, well, I work long hours and I don’t have tome for a relationship. I thought of finding someone with mutual interest to spend some adult time together, ones or e few times a week. It doesn’t mean I’m after someone’s money, or to get payed. Other websites don’t have much going on and you have to commit to a relationship, which I do t want at the moment. I hope you you change your view on single mums, at least on some of us that are genuine.

      • Dave says:

        Dear SA admin , I won’t state my opinions but facts are facts. My 90 percent statistics can be found on the CDC website. I won’t be mentioning it anymore but facts are statistical facts .

      • SA_Admin says:

        Attributed facts are fine as long as they are on-topic, but negative attacks on a group of people, negative blanket-statements towards a gender – anything that makes anyone feel unwelcome here – and off-topic comments will not be allowed under our community guidelines. We will be posting these within the next 24-48 hours, so just keep an eye out for them and let us know if you have any questions. Thanks!

    • Mike says:

      There is plenty you can review that is objective. Asked for money before meeting. Pictures out of date, was 30 lbs over weight. Wanted an arrangement then went Platonic but asked for a date fee.

      • SA_Admin says:

        We ask that any members report anyone who asks for money upfront before meeting in person. Thanks!

      • Filtersrus says:

        I think the point Mike is making is the profile that is obviously misrepresenting the facts. Photos show one thing and the user ends up being 5-10 years older than advertised, weighs 30-50 lbs more than the picture shows, OR the actual user is someone completely different than their pictures portrayed. even though their profile text is somewhat accurate

      • SA_Admin says:

        Unfortunately, like most dating sites, we cannot moderate photos to make sure they match the user. We suggest the use of video chat before meeting, so each member knows what to expect, especially if they are considering an agreement between them.

      • Filtersrus says:

        Misrepresentation is fraud. Granted there are grey areas, but catfishing is rampant on this site. People are paying good money for the opportunity to meet people, and they are being exploited in many cases by people who are not who they say they are. Catfishing should be a banning offence if it isn’t already

      • Anonymous says:

        I’ve never heard of platonic dating
        Has anyone ever dated someone and didn’t kiss them or hold their hands together? How is that dating lol watch someone will get mad for asking a question lol

    • Mike says:

      Reporting bad behavior is objective

      • Filtersrus says:

        And it is oftentimes too hard to prove to the site’s purveyors

      • SA_Admin says:

        Here are the situations that we ask members to report, in addition to scams:
        -Report members who request sexual offers in exchange for money.
        -Report members who identify themselves as escorts or prostitutes since this is strictly against our terms of use.
        -Report any member guilty of online harassment.
        -Report anyone who asks for money upfront and before meeting in person. This includes, but is not limited to sob stories asking for money, and individuals needing to pay their cell phone bills.
        -Report members who ask for your address so they can send you gifts.
        -Report members who ask for your bank account details, including account numbers or passwords.

      • Sassy says:

        So we can report Dave for saying that he wouldn’t give money to anyone who only ask for platonic? Technically that means he’s asking for sexual favors in exchange for $

      • SA_Admin says:

        We unfortunately cannot moderate innuendo or unclear intentions. Be on the lookout for our Community Guidelines post in the next 24-48 hours and let us know if you have any questions!

      • Sassy says:

        So how about where mike says “I’ll wait for the sex if they wait for the money”? I’m guessing that isn’t straight forward enough either?

      • SA_Admin says:

        That comment would be removed under our new Community Guidelines. If a member repeatedly violates the guidelines, they may also be subject to banning. Once we have them posted, you’ll see that we have a zero-tolerance policy for some behaviors, as well.

    • Filtersrus says:

      It would be nice to leave them here, BUT that puts SA in the same bowl as TBD TER and other review sites that the professional girls used to use. Federal law changed, and now those sites are defunct, or have restricted US users from access. I don’t think SA wants any part of that part of the market and that is a GOOD thing. Now if we can more effectively weed out the bad elements, this place would be great. What you are seeing here is a bit of a revolt because paying members have no way of knowing who is reputable and who makes free IDs as fast as their fingers can fly

    • Anonymous says:

      You need help!!! Sounds like a woman complaining again! What’s new lol

  28. Mary says:

    I want to find shuger dady

  29. Anonymous says:

    Dear adminsitrator if you would like to impose new guidelines wouldn’t that be a violation of freedom of speech and the women you’re protecting are the ones who try to scam us and join for free. We are paying members you should take care of us and get rid of the call girls on this site and we wouldn’t have to complain. Thanks

    • SA_Admin says:

      As owners of this blog, we have the right to remove comments and ban users as we see fit, according to our guidelines. Please keep an eye out for the guidelines, as we will be posting them shortly.

      • Anonymous says:

        So basically we have to pay you and follow your rules even though it violates our constitutional right of freedom of speech. I understand not using profanity but when sugar babies try to scam us and we report them they show back up the next morning with new profiles. I would fix that and watch we will never post negative comments

      • SA_Admin says:

        Like any forum or social media website, we moderate these comments to make sure it is a safe space for productive conversation. That being said, please report any scams, harassment and/or spam, users suspected of this will be addressed by the SeekingArrangement Misconduct Team and banned from our website – we want to ensure you have the best experience possible.

    • Filtersrus says:

      Contrary to popular belief, freedom of speech only applies to the government, as in they cannot make laws abridging it. As a private entity, if you walked into my store cussing your lungs out, I could tell you to leave and if you did not comply I can FORCE you to leave. Same applies here. Since this site is not a government entity, they can tell you to go pound sand simply because they want to and there is nothing you can legally do about it. It is their site, therefore their rules. Only thing you can do about it is vote with your dollars and go elsewhere. Thing is– they can do the same thing for the same reason

  30. Anonymous says:

    You are sad, sad men 😂

  31. Deciree says:

    Quiero un sugar daddy para q me consienta y consentirlo

    • SA_Admin says:

      If you are interested in Sugar dating, please visit our website and sign up for free!

    • Anonymous says:

      English! It’s the most common language in the world!!!

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        G00gle translate! It’s the most common translation site in the world!!!

        This is an international site with interface options in various languages.

        Get out of your backyard sometime, maybe.

      • Mike says:

        The SJW returns

      • Anonymous says:

        Well it’s good to know his anger gave me a hint of what origin they’re from definitely not american lol btw English is spoken in more than half the countries in the world the whole article is in English why would u bring ur Spanish crap in a English spoken chat room Deusche bag?

      • SA_Admin says:

        Dear Anonymous, we are about to post a set of Community Guidelines within the next 24-48 hours. Please note that this will include a zero-tolerance policy when it comes to hateful speech and/or discrimination based on someone’s race, nationality, sexuality, religion and/or gender, and any member who makes a comment of this nature will immediately be banned. Everyone is welcome here as long as they adhere to our guidelines. Please be on the lookout for when we post them, and let us know if you have any questions. Thanks!

  32. GuyInTheTower says:

    No doubt this will get a backlash from the guys, but guys, seriously, Dave and Co. WTF. What’s with all the women bashing, what century do you live in. I’ve not had problems on this site, in fact I’ve discovered more normal ladies here than on ‘traditional’ sites like tinder. You guys should just go back to the country, or the last century, and quit giving real men a bad name.

  33. Filtersrus says:

    For some reason, I am reminded of Davincis Notebook right now

  34. Anonymous says:

    Dear sa admin , yougottabefeeding , is committing sexual harassment by referring to mikes genitalia . Please apply equality on this blog . Thanks

    • Mike says:

      Thanks, but it doesn’t matter what she says, she isn’t a sugar baby, she’s an SJW on here just to harass the sugar daddies.

      • Dave says:

        That’s was my comment Mike. She got her b.s in indoctrination years ago

      • Mike says:

        I heard that she secretly likes teabagging, but her girlfriend doesn’t approve.

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        Teabagging…

        My favorite pastime. First I place the bags in a cup of near-boiling water, then I close my eyes, open my mouth, place said bags over my eyes until I feel rejuvenated and refreshed like a real princess should. Once my radiance has come to full fruition, I throw the depleted bags into the compost pile where they biodegrade into the earth for a second chance at proliferation as bean sprouts, maybe.

  35. Liv says:

    Wow. Some of you guys on here seem very insecure and like you have some deep rooted mommy issues. Super judgemental. Yikes!

  36. Angie says:

    Women get super sick of the Wanna-be’s and liars. If your profile says you have an annual income of $250K yet your photo shows popcorn ceiling and a Formica countertop… I can only assume your a poser.

    I might be one the rare females in this site that is a PAYING member. It’s only $19.95 a month, big deal. I’m genuinely seeking a rendezvous, a real arrangement. Men here are horrible! It’s not just the men who can complain. This place is not what it used to be 5 years ago.

    I’m here because I’m successful, too and think the pof, aff sites are even more pathetic.

    I don’t want platonic… I want a GOOD thing. Mutually beneficial turns me on. It’s a Win/Win. To the men questioning this type of relationship… “just looking for Fwb” try something else. At the end of the day, all that matters is that I made you happy AF and you did the same for me. Why is it so complicated?

    Women have to put up with all kinds of BS, too. Trust me

    • Anonymous says:

      Your comment made me laugh. I make 300k a year and have popcorn ceiling in my house. I don’t love it but it came with the house and I’d rather spend my extra money traveling and living the good life.

    • Dave says:

      “Why is it so complicated ?” Says woman concerned about popcorn ceilings

      • Anonymous says:

        Simple cuz she’s so materialistic she wants to see you post at a high end hotel next to a high end lambo lol instead you might be on vacation in a foreign country when you took that pic or visiting your grandparents house they don’t think they just judge

  37. Anonymous says:

    agreed dave, the cost if this site is ridicules for what you get and have to put up with..seems to be the norm from SB’s they want deep meaningful conversations and get paid for doing that or want someone to make them laugh…geez they must lead a sad life if thats wnat they want..thought they had GF’s to do all that with..

    • Filtersrus says:

      True story. The hottest SB I have met here is a lesbian, but a true hedonist at heart. She will bond with her girlfriends, but she doesn’t think twice about getting down with a straight man who knows what he is doing. I have been seeing her for quite a while now, but I know she won’t be a ATF. Now THOSE kind of SB’s are as rare as boobs on a bull. A whole lot of fun…

  38. Bart says:

    2 tips or guys from Bart Black:

    1) Buy a BURNER PHONE. The last thing you need is a lunatic, or scammer to have your phone number. In 5 minutes with the right app she can know everything about you and your life. Until trust is earned use a burner. Buy a Tracfone with CASH (Dollar General in the south), buy airtime cards with CASH, and activate the device on a FedEx PC using CASH. Now you have an untraceable phone you can use for first contacts.

    2) Beware of Catfish and “Wild Boars”. A common trick used by scammers is to create a hot fake profile. She’ll agree to meet you, but when you do it’s not the girl from the pics. Now this boar will demand things from you on the spot you promised online, or the boar will make a scene. Yes it’s real… To avoid this sit your your car, or some other place where you can see her walk in. If she has tusk and a razor back you’ve won!

  39. Steven says:

    Starting to think this site is a waste of time. Better off getting an escort. At least she’s a professional. Anyone actually had a good arrangement? First chick I met was jabba the hut. I’m talking to other ones but their expectations are up in the clouds. They do know we have options right. Wtf is going on. How do we reach out to the men that are shelling out too much and tell them to pull back because they are ruining the game for everyone

    • Dave says:

      I had a good arrangement with an 18 year old and a 25 year old pornstar . A third one 2 hat lasted 3 months until she got greedy .

    • J. says:

      I’m back to this site after a few successful long-term arrangements and agree with you. This is not what was used to be 3 years ago. Every second girl I got in touch wants ppm with upfront payment. Few girls didn’t show up.

    • Mike says:

      I’ve had a few good ones but it’s hit or miss and a huge time sink.

    • Anonymous says:

      Sa was awesome a few years ago but all the backpaige girls came on here they don’t follow the rules want to sell you pictures or deposit before meeting up and call you Splenda daddies for not giving them a $200 deposit without meeting up and when you voice your concerns they want to ban you!
      Sounds like this site needs to be reported to the authorities now. It’s not like they don’t know what’s going on. Girls who get there profile deleted they just open another one up the next day.

      • SA_Admin says:

        Seeking in no way, shape or form supports escorts or prostitutes using our website for personal gain. Profiles suspected of this usage will be addressed by the SeekingArrangement Misconduct Team and banned from our website. If you come across any profiles or users that you suspect of this, please report them. Thanks!

      • Anonymous says:

        Dear administrator only way for you to understand what I’m saying is by making a profile and watch 9 out of ten girls want Ppm 6 out of ten want online only and majority don’t even respond unless u look like someone they can take advantage of

      • SA_Admin says:

        We ask that you report any members who ask for money before meeting in person, if someone wants money online only, you may report them.

      • Mike says:

        Isn’t that the truth. SA has lost control. The site is overrun with scammers.

      • SA_Admin says:

        Please contact Customer Support (click here) with any details you have about scamming, member complaints, etc. so we can take action.

      • Anonymous says:

        Sa wants to act dumb as if they have no clue and want us to do their work of weeding out the crap
        By reporting them sounds like we have a new job do we get paid lol

      • SA_Admin says:

        Dear Anonymous, we monitor activity for millions of members and simply ask our community to let us know if they are experiencing issues, so we can work together to resolve them. Thanks!

      • Filtersrus says:

        That’s what we doing by having this open discussion

  40. TickleTrick says:

    Is someone paying Dave and Mike to write on this posts? :Đ

    • Mike says:

      I’m saving bags full of money by posting here instead of messaging the money for nothing girls on SA.

      • Dave says:

        The blog girls don’t realize that we became successful becuase we. Didn’t prioritize vagina in our lives and we spent that time making money .

      • Anonymous says:

        You’re exactly right Dave majority of teens and 20’s and early 30’s it was all about my education and business now I want to enjoy but not with self entitled brats

  41. Bobby says:

    How do you all filter out the women that are trying to scam and hustle men? I already filtered out the ones with the “platonic” tag but I can’t think of anything else. Is there a particular question you ask and based on the response? I just need a quick way to make sure I don’t talk to them. I was thinking of including some language in my description to to make sure they read and don’t respond in case I hit them up

    • Mike says:

      It isn’t easy. They are sly scammers. I ask simple questions and they weed out with their hostile replies. But some get through to the next step.

    • Nitemaresd says:

      If I post how to weed out the scammers, they will use that response to shift tactics and you won’t be able to weed them out.

  42. Frank says:

    Hey how come I can’t comment on the most recent post?

    • Anonymous says:

      they selectively block comments thats why

    • Mike says:

      they have blocked all comments on that blog, and they do seem to selectivity block comments usually. they also sent out a satisfaction survey.

      • Filtersrus says:

        Some they block entirely. Cannot get straight answers why either

      • Mike says:

        I think that they saw all of the talk about not renewing and locked comments and sent out the survey.

      • Dave says:

        When men put their foot down , quit simping to leftover females , and vote with our
        wallets , things will change .

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        They turned off comments because Dave ruins everything, as consistent with the history of this blog. Good work, Dave…and second fiddle/sweaty sac, Mike. Good work.

      • Anon says:

        They seem to comment excessively and constantly. I don’t think it’s actually two men logging in here multiple times a day everyday, seems a bit odd. Probably people who work for the site is all I can think

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        @Anon

        Dave has been known to comment from multiple screen names. He does it to provoke conversation to stoke his theories about women and millennials; validate his perspective and ego; and praise and talk to himself. It’s actually pretty sad. He’s been at it for a long time. The blog used to be really active, but abusive and demeaning language led to moderated posts and blocks on certain screen names. Does make you wonder why Dave’s posts aren’t moderated out, yet credible reference-supported responses are blocked. Maybe SA feels that any publicity is good publicity.

    • Anonymous says:

      It’s powered by women if you notice the other blog only women can post. Funny thing is we are the ones paying $90 bucks a month good job sa we appreciate your support!

  43. Dave says:

    Single moms on SA = poor old fat guy

    • Mike says:

      I’ve saved $3000 so far this month by ignoring them.

    • SingleSuccessfulMom says:

      I’m a single mom but not a single parent! I also have a graduate degree and I’m looking to do my doctorate. I’m on here because I’m looking for someone on the same wavelength. I have no time for games or to meet people traditionally so I’m here. Maybe the reason why you meet all these scammers escorts etc is because you ignore genuine profiles or because of your stereotypical mindset. I have also found difficulty meeting people on this site because the first thing they ask are to view your photos I addition I have removed my photo because well I can’t have ppl with my photos because they are ppl who come on this site and take your photo to catfish others or to scandalize your name. I’m sorry that you had such an experience but try bring more open minded don’t judge the single mothers. Remember because a woman doesn’t have a child isn’t mean she did not have multiple men nor pregnancies just meant she does not have a child.

  44. Anonymous says:

    I really wish women would google how much pornstars make and then ask for a reasonable allowance! Majority of these girls have kids and want pornstar money. Please do your homework before asking us educated guys ridiculous allowance and I’m saying please lol

    • Anonymous says:

      Stop controlling men when you’re the ones asking and being paid the money!!!

    • Dave says:

      Hollyweird told single moms that they have value but never told then what they provide to men. Back when I was 20 years old single moms knew that they were just an easy lay for free . On SA they should be lucky to get $100 from 65 year old .

    • alexaalex says:

      This is coming from porn addict! Seriously your comment is moronic at best. They are “porn stars” google the definition. There is no comparison with a educated girl next door type of girl or a fitness model or a model. you better off hiring a call I am sure they have a lot “porn stars “ lol

      • Filtersrus says:

        Those sites are not available to American consumers. Feds took care of that years ago. THAT SAID– I have enjoyed a number of porn stars in my almost 60 years and the point Dave makes is spot on. Time with an actual porn star is EXPENSIVE an can easily hit 4 figures. PSE ( porn star experience) is the most expensive dating you can do and I am sorry but there are not many on this site I would list in the same galaxy as porn star.. thus their allowance requests are a bit absurd

      • Anonymous says:

        Sounds like she a middle aged women with no future probably saggy with wrinkles lol so here’s a question why would you pay $140,000 for a 2010 Mercedes s class when you can get a 2019 for the same price ? Hopefully you can understand that we want something new and not old majority of pornstars are young so they can’t have a PhD. and if they did why would they be on here? If you’re a single mom stretched out nobody wants you let alone pay for you. Get a headboard with a cushion might help with your head trauma lol

      • SA_Admin says:

        Please note that we will soon be posting Community Guidelines for our blog comments, and any personal attacks are forbidden. Any comments of this nature will be removed and users subject to banning if the guideline is repeatedly violated.

      • Anonymous says:

        Sorry but teens can’t have a PhD they’re too young! And if a girl had a PhD why would she be on here? Who’s the moron now? It’s called simple math. go back to elementary school sweetheart!

  45. Dave says:

    For feminists a man’s opinion is called bullying . They don’t believe in free speech . Leftist mentality

    • Sassy says:

      “If you’re a single mom, you’re not decent”.
      “Single mothers are a danger to society”
      Might be freedom of speech but still bullying.

    • Sassy says:

      No, I just wish you would try and be a decent human being for once.

      • Anonymous says:

        Sassy get over yourself we are sharing facts not fictional stories!
        Dave said it really well why would you pay new car prices for a used up old car? If you’re thinking long term arrangement you want someone who you will want to continue to keep seeing. For example date a 21 year old For 5 yrs =26 date a 35 yr old for 5 years = 40 year old saggy droopy chick no thanks

      • Dave says:

        I wish women would like me for me and not for my career success and financial success and athleticism . Uh but wait sassy aren’t you on here to meet successful men ? You’re not very human

    • Sassy says:

      “If you’re a single mom, you’re not decent”. How is that not bullying?

      • Jeeezzzexcell says:

        Sassy, because he is archaic as he can be mummy like. A total loser, and misogynist. It’s best not reply to any of his “brilliant” comments because that putting oneself to his level.

      • Dave says:

        90 percent of the incarcerated come from.single mother homes . Single moms left good men reproduced with bad men .fact

      • Sassy says:

        That has nothing to do with me.

      • Sassy says:

        And the number of incarcerated people is probably about the same amount of rapes. 🙄. How many incarcerated came from single moms?

      • Sassy says:

        *How many non incarcerated people came from single mother homes?

      • Dave says:

        No different than saying a poor man on SA is worthless , which is true . You just hate reality . Enjoy the cats . I could care less but I’ll be damned if you try and stifle my free speech rights .

      • SA_Admin says:

        Please note that we are about to enact new Community Guidelines for this blog, and any personal attacks are forbidden. Comments that include such language are subject to removal and ultimately banning of the user if the policy continues to be violated. Thanks.

      • Dave says:

        No different than when you girls say a poor Splenda daddy on SA is worthless . Everyone has a value on this site .

      • Anonymous says:

        And no offense but when a woman has a child that area there changes
        No thanks why would someone pay for a girl whose had kids? We are here to be picky and date girls we like not the ones you like! Stop trying to control men especially when they’re paying you!!!

      • Sassy says:

        Who am I trying to control, and how?

      • Sassy says:

        Lol, and I’m probably tighter than 90% of the “young women” you’ve been with.

    • SingleSuccessfulMom says:

      I’m 30 I look like 18 if that much I’m beautiful attractive educated about 100 pounds and I’m here because I’m want to !eet a successful attractive man who came on this site because perhaps if he is willing to pay for a relationship maybe just maybe when he meets me and realize how genuine I am and what I am seeking and we have a connection he will be loyal to me I’m not looking for an allownce though I’ve had ppl msg and be like I’ll give you 1500 a week. No replies necessary cause that’s not what I want I read in forbes you can meet single successful people here. All I found so far are people who lie and fluff they profile and Im just looking for love in what I thought to be a hopeful place.

      • Anonymous says:

        I’ve actually met someone similar to you before and it’s very rare they just want a successful boyfriend rather than dating some loser. Look the shaming of men makes us mad and we retaliate but majority of us have signed up to have a good time stay positive and it will be all good.

  46. Jessica says:

    Wannabe Sugar Baby writes: “I’m looking for someone who will help me out so I can cater to my one month old twins, I have no job, I need to buy them diapers, wipes, clothing, car seats, cribs, diaper bags, but I don’t like to meet up.”

  47. Jessica says:

    I love this app

  48. Sassy says:

    Seriously, is there not anyone actually monitoring these blogs. It seems like they have gotten way out of control and most of it is just bullying.

    • Sassy says:

      I’ve been reading some from about a year ago and I was like, “Wow, it’s not all about Dave.”

    • Anonymous says:

      no offense if your serious about finding a sugar daddy you should be on the site looking for one you won’t find one on here the blog this is a place to express opinions as far as it being bulling i won’t comment on that Dave is the most vocal but a lot of men are angry because were tired of being ripped off and cheated and this site does nothing to protect or help us i would suggest you go over to lets talk sugar it’s more women friendly there good luck in your search

      • Dave says:

        She’s trying to stifle free speech .

      • Sassy says:

        I already have one, thank you. I appreciate the information though. Some of us actually want a decent relationship but are told that no one wants us because of an opinion.

      • Sassy says:

        I understand that Dave wants a young girl who will do whatever he wants, but not all the guys on the site are that self centered. He will scare away the young decent ones.

    • Anonymous says:

      I just read through majority of these comments. I’m so glad I stepped away from the online services from this platform and went to another interracial dating site. I found my SD in that manner because the men on this platform are narcissistic, obnoxious and outright rude (hence folks like Dave and Mike). My recommendation to SB, keep your options open. You can attract a SD in public (in person) and online. No real man past judgement like the Splenda dads on this site.

      • Anonymous says:

        Lol so you found a way to sell yourself and call smart guys Splenda daddies because we don’t pay your outrageous asking amounts lol

  49. Anonymous says:

    Bitter men, While you all are looking for someone to actually meet, I’m looking for someone who doesn’t want my login and password to do a check deposits. I have my own everything, I’m a real female willing to actually meet but only in Oahu, Hawaii. You men pay and still scamm try to scam the women on here. I want something long term not just your money from the beginning.. just saying…

  50. Anonymous says:

    I’m an attractive male Im deff not rich tho so I make a profile looking for a sugar mama and so far I get favorited and viewed often I even say looking for sugar mama so I get this lady saying she is gonna treat me like gold and pay me an allowance then she ask’s for my credit information lol like that’s not how money gets sent and how is my info gonna help you treat me like a king lol fucking scammers

    • SA_Admin says:

      Sorry to hear about your experience, please report any member that asks for bank and/or credit card information. Thanks!

      • Anonymous says:

        The majority of women on here are here to scam us they ask for PayPal cashapp and even after we report them. They just make a new profile within minutes. You guys need to have them scan their id so you guys have it in the system. Please make it safer to be on here.

      • SA_Admin says:

        Please report any members who ask for your bank and/or credit card information, as well as anyone who is harassing you.

  51. UltimateSB says:

    Some of you men on here seriously have anger issues. The men commenting complain that the SB don’t treat them the way they should be treated but what do you expect!? Look how you are acting. Dave comments as if he is this big shot but admitted the most he has given a girl is $300. I give an amazing experience to guys, I’m very pretty, graduated with a bachelors and can hold a conversation. My past SD’s have taken me on trips, given me $1000 just because on top of an allowance. They did those things because they treated me like a person and not some random. You get what you give. And the other men following along with Dave’s antics should just suck his dick since they are all up his ass. Just because you have had bed experiences doesn’t mean every does. And Dave you’re more of a Splenda daddy, I’m sure the girls only taking $300 just to put up with you are probably off the street corner or the scraps left over because you can’t afford to do anything else but bash women. Grow up. $300 is not bad to take but it is when there is a jack ass on the other end of it.

    • Anonymous says:

      Wow the sa admins ok with this girl telling guys to go suck dicks and most of the girls one here are street hookers lol and we are the ones who are being bad? Lol self entitled women they find one sucker and expect everyone else to be one too. $1000 bucks lol what a moron!

    • Anonymous says:

      Doesn’t this violate terms of rules lol

  52. Sandy says:

    I enjoy this site, and these were really great tips to read. Women do need to be safe on this site. I’ve thought about it myself when i furry sign up that you really don’t know what kind of person your going to meet. I hope women read this and stay safe because I would never want to hear about missing because of this site. I was asked to travel with a surgeon one weekend. I didn’t feel comfortable getting on an airplane with them and I had the thought in my head I could end up with sold organs or something. I do have that fear however I’ve been very safe with my arrangements, and made the best decisions when and how to meet so far.

  53. Anonymous says:

    I agree with this blog. I don’t mind sexual stuff but I want to meet first in a bar to get a feel of them etc, same with them getting a feel with me too!

  54. Dave says:

    If youre a single mom , you’re not decent . You reproduced with a bad boy or left a good man because of “much feelings ” successful men don’t want second hand vagina . Maybe the cucks on your face book tell you how beautiful you are but you dont want those guys .

    • Sassy says:

      And how would you know that? And btw, most likely you are getting second hand vagina no matter what, unless you are doing exams to see if they are virgins. 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • Sassy says:

      Oh, and there is actually the possibility of someone having a child because they got raped. Not really something that can be controlled.

      • Dave says:

        Feminist single mom detected . Even worse . Rape barely occurs 0.0001 percent in the USA . Single moms are societal lepers .they raise 90 percent of the incarcerated. It’s on the CDC website .

      • Sassy says:

        And what is the percentage of people that don’t report rape?
        You can’t find a number for that because obviously, they are too scared to report it.

      • Anonymous says:

        It’s called plan b or abortion

    • Sassy says:

      If we are going to play this way… So you must have been the bad boy cuz you definitely could not have been the “good man”

      • Dave says:

        No logic to that whatsoever. Women initiate 70 percent of divorces .

      • Sassy says:

        Well yeah there is, because even if she initiated it, she was either with a bad boy or left a good man. By how you talk here, I would definitely say it’s not the later.

      • Dave says:

        So it’s your fault for choosing a bad man and you think high value men want bad boy leftovers . You’re in for a rude awakening .

      • Dave says:

        If you chose a bad man that’s your fault . CDC website States that 90 percent of incarcerated come from single mother households

    • Hahaha says:

      A 2nd hand vagina. That’s hilarious. Where are you finding all the virgins on SA?

    • Evee says:

      Hey everyone look! This guy knows every single mom in the world!

      • Sassy says:

        But… 90% of the incarcerated…. 🙄. Apparently those are the only single mothers too. So I’m guessing the mothers of the incarcerated only amount to 10% of single mothers.

    • SingleSuccessfulMom says:

      Dave you are ignorant! Even marriages end gone are the days when a woman stays with a man simply because she has a child or family support. If I need to be with you for you to be a father to your kids then you’ve been raised wrong! An unhappy couple for more damage to a child. Sometimes you simply outgrow someone. If you were raised by a single mom who was unable to meet your needs I am sorry. I like I noted before have a graduate degree and in my profession work for no less than 150 an hour unless someone can’t afford it or I’m doing volunteer work.

  55. Anonymous says:

    We should post all the usernames of girls who are asking for platonic online dating on here
    And start reporting them it will save all of us a lot of time and energy

    • Dave says:

      Better to let Father Time and poverty punish them .

      • Anonymous says:

        Lol your too nice Dave and I’m not being sarcastic but these materialistic retards need to learn sooner than later or else they will keep taking advantage of guys like a.x bragging about 2 sd and dating supposedly cute guys her own age

    • Sassy says:

      Reporting wouldn’t do much good since SA sort of encourages the platonic relationships.

      • Anonymous says:

        No sassy sa says that so they won’t get closed down like BPAGE

      • Anonymous says:

        Reporting would help us all men in the sense don’t even bother wasting your valuable time on this con artist! Like seriously do u think it’s ok to take money from a guy to have coffee with? How sad and or lonely is that guy? Or what disease does he have lol good luck with platonic you will meet a serial killer trying to get your info lol

    • Anonymous says:

      Platonic is fine but the ones that lie about it and take your money and ghost

  56. yikes says:

    the hateful comments here exemplify why the safety guidelines above are necessary. y’all have PROBLEMS

  57. Mike says:

    “Looking for some help paying for college! Not interested if sex is involved. Would like a mentor and a friend who is loving and compassionate!”

    SA gives a free premium account to any woman with a school email and as a result the site is full of students wanting their tuition paid for nothing in return.

  58. Anonymous says:

    fyi, yesterday feel victim to this scam from a “sugar baby” on SA
    https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/8mh5dq/tifu_by_accepting_a_video_chat_from_a_stranger/

  59. Xalimo says:

    I gotta day that I don’t do most of these, but I’ve never had a bad experience on here.

  60. UncleCracker says:

    I am happy to see other guys on here talking and complaining about the same stuff. Girls that have no intention of meeting up. They just are here to see how many guys are interested in them, it’s a game for them. Why? Because SA is also FREE for them. If SA charged these girls even a $10 fee it would weed out a lot of these useless girls on here. Seriously.

    • Dave says:

      you’re an incel loser fat man who stinks of smelly poo rapist !!!

    • Sassy says:

      Apparently the few of us that are decent and will meet, are too old (35) and single mom leftovers. 🙄

      • Anonymous says:

        U killed it with single mom and 35 lol you know why we would rather pay to date a girl? No baggage and they’re young and down to have fun! Rather than come up with family emergency excuses or just being self entitled!

      • Dave says:

        Exactly why you would meet , your options are dwindling because well men don’t want to pay new car prices for a used car . That’s biology and preference . You watched too much sex and the city

      • Dave says:

        “i’m an independent , strong, empowered mother of a boy named Aiden . If you can’t handle me at my worst , you don’t deserve my best ” Every single mom

      • Sassy says:

        So single moms don’t like to have fun? And I have never had a “family emergency” when I have a meet planned. And as for the self entitled, that seems to be more you than me.

      • Sassy says:

        And btw Dave, I’ve never watched sex and the city. I can get a guy way better than you any day.

      • Dave says:

        Yeah sure , if you consider blue collar, with a regular job better , but we know you don’t , or else you wouldn’t be on here . You should go back to plenty of fish .

      • Sassy says:

        Better, as in one that actually respects women and not shallow as hell.

    • Anonymous says:

      They should make the girls pay the same price because they’re the ones making the money. The men should have free accounts.
      SA come up with a deposit system for men and have free membership

  61. duh says:

    I am so looking forward to the day (however unlikely) that SA ever would dare to stage a ‘Sugar Daddy Summit’ where it invites PAYING male users to discuss the (grim) realities of sugar dating .. of course they would never do this; they prefer to promote women and foster unrealistic female-centric concepts and behaviours so they can drive female membership levels. Male users are the funding for this site but all the PR/Marketing is aimed at a female membership. There are so many girls here now that it’s a buyer’s market, would be great to have some sort of forum where all these illusions could be exposed and dispelled. Someone needs to start a site where the emphasis is more balanced towards men and females also have to subscribe and pay even a small amount to use the site.. without investment of any kind women join free, get premium memberships free and have nothing to lose. The majority of female profiles now are just superfluous clutter, time to eliminate single mothers, ‘deserving’ princesses; findom scumbags, closet escorts, platonic parasites, I have even seen male/female couples advertising for an SD to fund their lifestyles – this isn’t a swinger site

  62. Chi Chi says:

    These comments are gold. Thank you for my evening entertainment.

  63. Ashney Phillips says:

    Will a sugar daddy ask for you financial info online? Such as asking you to purchase a gift card and getting cash app. I dont know but I did not do it because it didnt feel right

  64. Dave says:

    For the first time I read an actual , humble sweet profile … from an 18 year old girl , proving as women older they angrier and even more entitled .
    “I am a very fun positive person(: Open to traveling to you. Ive realized older men are better, they know what they want and that is very attractive.Let’s be honest, a man who takes care of himself is quite attractive. Something fun, genuine. i hope I can make you happy “

    Not a single mom , not an old bag of bones …18 years old .

    • Mike says:

      I had a similar, surprising experience. Usually when I ask a question and they think that I don’t see them as a princess, they just block me. However this one answered my question and updated her profile nicely and posted pretty pictures. Amazing. There might be hope.

    • Mike says:

      I had a similar, surprising experience. Usually when I ask a question they block me, but this one answered my question and updated her profile nicely and posted pretty pictures. Amazing. There might be hope.

    • Mike says:

      I found a nice one, and she messaged me back and I was arranging a meeting, then she say’s she’s out of town on a family emergency. How many times has that one happened. I can’t count them all.

      • Dave says:

        Many times they get on SA just for the attention and see what guys they are capable of getting with the intention of never meeting up . The only thing you can do is move on. Let them be stupid and indecisive until they hit 30 years old and broke , then nobody wants them but cucks

      • Nitemaresd says:

        It’s like the end of that Christmas movie classic – every time an SD messages, a family gets an emergency.

      • Nitemaresd says:

        But seriously – the pathology of so many of the “nice” sounding ones is a twisted hater just drawing you in for disappointment as their kick.

    • alexaalexa says:

      I just don’t imagine how miserable in life you are, thus, these horrid and misogynistic comments. If it is so horrible why are you even here ? Oh wait, because you want to engage in your ephebophilia but not all 18-19 years old are dumb. attracting “men” like you. Weirdo!

    • Anonymous says:

      With your negative attitude you will lose the girl of your dreams. Girls will continue to play you and use you for being too biased.
      Good luck.

  65. Mike says:

    This site is so full of dipshit bitches.

  66. Mike says:

    Someone is taking a very idealistic view. As if there are real sugar babies on here. They must have been reading the SA blogs. But the reality is this site is full of scammers.

    • Anonymous says:

      Amen to that brother
      Now they got sa admin blocking our opinions
      S
      T
      R
      I
      K
      E
      Teach them a lesson

      • SA_Admin says:

        Dear Anonymous, we will only be removing comments that violate our Community Guidelines. These will be posted within the next 24-48 hours. Keep an eye out for them and let us know if you have any questions. Thanks!

  67. DragonFairy says:

    These are good tips. Folks, please use common-sense and logic when doing online dating. I’ve dated someone for 5 years and it didn’t work out but he found out what college I was attending, which was a scary experience since he appeared in the middle of the night at my dorm one day. I also strongly stress no one night stands because STDS are very easy to catch if your just fooling around with random people. I don’t do one-nights and kissing may get viruses too so I substitute with a kiss on the cheek.

    On my other experience I dated an attorney and it was the most fun I had here yet. No pressure on the sexual part and we were able to have a logical conversation. I wouldn’t mind going out with him again!

  68. Mike says:

    About to get married to the best man ever next year. Having trouble with having money for our wedding but still trying our best. My man is letting me have a fun sugar to spoil me. I love going out and adventuring. Love going to the mall. Didn’t have the best life as child so I’m making life better. Just looking for fun people to meet and go to dinners or mall and spoil me or helping me with my wedding!

    • Anonymous says:

      The girls getting married and her future husband is ok with a sugar daddy hmmm
      Yea sounds like trailer park trash NEXT!

  69. Nitemaresd says:

    Someone that shall remain nameless needs a punctuation daddy.

  70. Dazed SD says:

    Now you talk about safe ! LOL

    I am 19 years old, I am in college to be a nurse. I am smart, outgoing, loving, and caring. I am only looking for someone who has money wants to spoil me without having to have sex or any intimacy.No strings attached No sugar, just a daddy. I want nothing serious. Just want the extra cash. Please help broke college girl. Do not message me if you want intimacy. It will not happen online preferred

  71. Anonymous says:

    I just like to have a good time, you all are too much drama

  72. yougottabekiddingme says:

    Dave says…

    “@yougottabefeedingme
    99.9999% of men DO NOT rape . We know what your true goal is . It’s not about stopping rape because
    there are laws in place that
    punishes rapists already . Secondly , go try telling actual rapists not
    to be one . Good luck there .This
    is about control. You want control
    over men . You don’t want a sugar
    daddy with the ability to hit it
    and quit it . About 90 percent of SB profiles state demand long term
    arrangements . But you can’t
    guarantee that . You Want to be able to cry rape if he gets laid
    and never calls you again . That’s
    what this is about . Problem is
    social engineering fails every
    time . Just ask the now defunct
    USSR. They tried that many times in
    80 years . They even tried to
    clone docile humans with genetic
    engineering. It didn’t work .”

    • yougottabekiddingme says:

      Dave,

      Am gonna guess you can see Russia from your back yard.

      You asked for help, you got it. Let’s start small with some reference-supported data as per w1kepedia (because aggregate data doesn’t get any simpler than that ).

      Please query “false accusations of rape w1kepedia” and refer to the studies that have been published on this matter.

      Please note that the studies that yielded the highest number of false allegations stemmed from those with the smallest sample sizes (no pun intended). As per the basic principles of research and statistics, studies with larger samples sizes are more transferable and generalizable to broader populations. At any rate, the validity of the studies depends on the methodology with which the data was collected, analyzed, and interpreted.

      As for your assertion of post-coitus, dump-and-dump regret…

      There’s no relationship I’ve ever had in any capacity that wasn’t ongoing. I don’t give per-meet desperados with shallow minds and shallower pockets such as yourself the time of day.

      Keep trying.

      As for control…Daddy has control. I’ve simply the power of the p**sy. Get it right.

    • Dave says:

      Don’t like facts yougottabefeedingme? Pure emotion only ?

      • Mike says:

        Women used to say that they didn’t want to hate themselves in the morning and they wouldn’t have hook up sex, now they get drunk and hook up and cry rape the next morning.

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        I think you’re pretty pathetic, but my response to you is not emotional. Your “facts” are simply garbage…dangerous, destructive, and a disservice to anyone who comes across then and takes them as truth.

        SA should be ashamed for allowing you to vomit about as you do.

        Karissa, you authored this blog…perhaps you can lend some commentary to Dave’s claims since my posts are being blocked?

      • Dave says:

        “According to the National Crime Victimization Survey, the adjusted annual per-capita victimization rate of rape has declined from about 2.4 per 1000 people (age 12 and above) in 1980 (that is, 2.4 persons from each 1000 people 12 and older were raped in 1980) to about 0.4 per 1000 people in 2003, a decline of about 85%” facts

      • Mike says:

        yougottabeshitting me is a full on SJW. A Marxist useful idiot. She thinks that rape culture is a real thing. She can’t follow the money.

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        Dear Dave,

        The National Crime Vicitimization Survey is published annually. Is there a reason you chose to reference data from 17 entire years ago?

        Also, I don’t think you understand how numbers work. Let’s consider for a moment the data you provided…0.4 per 1000 people. The current figure, by the way, according to the same source you referenced, is 2.4 per 1000 people, but we’ll go with the numbers you provided. Using the figure you provided, 0.4 per 1000 people equates to more than 130,000. The most current data would bring that figure to nearly 790,000.

        At any rate, your reference you provided does nothing to support any claim you’ve made thus far.

      • Mike says:

        Facts will trigger yougottabeshittingme and cause cognitive dissonance.

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        Dear Dave,

        The National Crime Vicitimization Survey is published annually. Is there a reason you chose to reference data from 17 entire years ago?

        Also, I don’t think you understand how numbers work. The statistic you’ve referenced does nothing to support your claim that rape is nonexistent in the US, and that rape culture is a farce propagated by Millennials, feminists, and social justice conspiracists. Let’s consider for a moment the data you provided…0.4 per 1000 people. The most recent data (2018) is 2.4 per 1000 people as per The National Crime Victimization Survey, your chosen and provided source of reference. But even considering 0.4 per 1000 people, that statistic, with respect to the US National population, comes out to more than 130,000 documented reports of rape. The most current data would bring that figure to nearly 790,000. The current report also outlines an increase in crime data across categories.

        You can’t just ramble off made up and misrepresented statistics, and call them facts. At any rate, your claims remain unsubstantiated.

        What other “facts” would you like to present?

    • yougottabekiddingme says:

      Not sure why I’m not able to post…didn’t even call you the p-word.

      Also not sure why you’ve jumped from Saudi Arabia to the USSR.

      Am gonna guess you can see Russia from your back yard.

      You asked for help, you got it. Let’s start small with some reference-supported data as per w1kepedia (because aggregate data doesn’t get any simpler than that).

      Please query “false accusations of rape w1kepedia” and refer to the studies that have been published on this matter.

      Please note that the studies that yielded the highest number of false allegations stemmed from those with the smallest sample sizes (no pun intended). As per the basic principles of research and statistics, studies with larger samples sizes are more transferable and generalizable to broader populations. At any rate, the validity of the studies depends on the methodology with which the data was collected, analyzed, and interpreted.

      As for your assertion of post-coitus, dump-and-dump regret…

      There’s no relationship I’ve ever had in any capacity that wasn’t ongoing. I don’t give per-meet desperados with shallow minds and shallower pockets such as yourself the time of day.

      Keep trying.

      As for control…Daddy has control. I’ve simply the power of the 👄. Get it right.

    • ygbkm says:

      Not sure why I’m not able to post…didn’t even call you the p-word.

      Also not sure why you’ve jumped from Saudi Arabia the USSR.

      Am gonna guess you can see Russia from your back yard.

      I don’t care much about most of what you talk about, but I do think it’s both dangerous and a disservice for you to just spew false information and made up statistics which you claim as fact.

      You asked for help, you got it. Let’s start small with some reference-supported data as per w1kepedia (because aggregate data doesn’t get any simpler than that).

      Please query “false accusations of rape w1kipedia” and refer to the studies that have been published on this matter.

      Please note that the studies that yielded the highest number of false allegations stemmed from those with the smallest sample sizes (no pun intended). As per the basic principles of research and statistics, studies with larger samples sizes are more transferable and generalizable to broader populations. At any rate, the validity of the studies depends on the methodology with which the data was collected, analyzed, and interpreted.

      As for your assertion of post-coitus, dump-and-dump regret…

      There’s no relationship I’ve ever had in any capacity that wasn’t ongoing. I don’t give per-meet desperados with shallow minds and shallower pockets such as yourself the time of day.

      Keep trying.

      As for control…Daddy has control. I’ve simply the power of the 👄. Get it right.

      yougottabekiddingme

    • yougottabekiddingme says:

      Dear Dave,

      The National Crime Vicitimization Survey is published annually. Is there a reason you chose to reference data from 17 entire years ago?

      Also, I don’t think you understand how numbers work. The statistic you’ve referenced does nothing to support your claim that rape is nonexistent in the US, and that rape culture is a farce propagated by Millennials, feminists, and social justice conspiracists. Let’s consider for a moment the data you provided…0.4 per 1000 people. The most recent data (2018) is 2.4 per 1000 people as per The National Crime Victimization Survey, your chosen and provided source of reference. But even considering 0.4 per 1000 people, that statistic, with respect to the US National population, comes out to more than 130,000 documented reports of rape. The most current data would bring that figure to nearly 790,000. The current report also outlines an increase in crime data across categories.

      You can’t just ramble off made up and misrepresented statistics, and call them facts. At any rate, your claims remain unsubstantiated.

      What other “facts” would you like to present?

  73. Dave says:

    Single mothers , pink hair , booger nose ring , tatts all over the body , so called curvy , old cougars are the equivalent of a fat bald old poor creepy guy. Let’s be equal here .

    • Dave says:

      I also forgot ..any girl who uses the words “princess, queen , and I deserve “

      • Anonymous says:

        Deserve? Answer nothing ! Work for it like we have they choose to open their legs while we opened books

      • [email protected]&them says:

        I think dave has women confused with his single drugged out trash of a single mother, his wife who stopped loving him 40 year ago, his daughter who pays him no mind, he just misses his single booger nosed tatted up moms tit being in his mouth. He cant get out of bed to do anything but troll the blogs he’s on government benefits and not the good one’s and any other money he has was passed down to him. He think he’s privileged or entitled to a woman’s time for free but he’s old and suffering from the crack he ingested while sucking his mom boob for 20 years after birth so pay him no mind it’s all an old unhappy unimportant irrelevant boy can do is rant on a blog cause he cant afford a membership on the site so he’s mad cause backpage was closed down and his boyfriend left him fir his wife and daughter. So dave instead of trying to bash women here you should tell your grandmother mother daughter and granddaughter how you really feel about them and then just get on with the rest of your lufe. No one cares about you or your emotional baggage. Thanks for the entertainment but its not worth a cent of mine so go tell your single coked out cracked out mother that she ruined you then tell your wife whom you support and take care of to give you a hand job i mean finger job cause you still puss on your balls and it cant get up but you want a virgin to F**k you lol tooooo funny. But good luck getting your single cracked out mother to love you but its to late the damage is done so no fixing you but i do have a 10 in that do your @$s some justice it’ll get you right and its what you really want but your 600 pound life has forbidden you [email protected] so all you can do is watch porn and watch your wife do the nice fit handsome wealthy man next door oops my bad actually you can’t cause you cant get your big miserable @$s out of bed. You’re a sorry sack of poop. I almost felt sorry for you but most if you have mummy issues and sucked the cracked out tatted tit for to long and it damaged your brain then mix that with your old age you’re just all messed up but its not not your fault who knew your uncle would f**k your mom and produce you. Lol lol lol

    • Karli says:

      Not all single moms is like that Dave.

  74. Mike says:

    Posting on here instead of writing to wannabe sugar baby mooches has save me $1000 so far this month. Winning!

    • Dave says:

      They’ve done a great job turning us off haven’t they ?

      • Filtersrus says:

        Stupendous

      • Anonymous says:

        There are new ones coming in every day. Some have high expectations and are therefore worth nothing. Some will accept help and it’s almost a relatively fair arrangement but not quite as good as what’s out there in other places if you know what I mean. I’ll let you know when something good goes through.

    • Anonymous says:

      Freaking awesome I didn’t renew my membership I’m keeping my $3000 this month haha dumbtards thats what u get for being greedy lol

  75. Mike says:

    Legally prostitution is an explicit quid pro quo transaction.

    • Mike says:

      If I go out to dinner with a woman from here and later we are at my place and we get cozy and I give her some money legally it is not prostitution.

      • Mike says:

        However many women will refuse the advance but still want money for nothing and use the “I am not a prostitute” defense.

      • Mike says:

        For it to be prostitution they have to offer a sex act for a sum of money.

      • Mike says:

        If we talk about their financial situation and they tell me that they are struggling to pay rent and I thank them for the nice evening and give them money for rent it is not legally prostitution.

      • Mike says:

        If it was prostitution when men got sex and women got money while dating then all relationships would be prostitution.

      • Mike says:

        And only a marriage contract would make sex and money legal and then the woman would have access to all the money for nothing.

      • Anonymous says:

        no mike it is prostitution if you exchange money for sex it is prostitution doesn’t matter where you do it i don’t have a problem with that it fills a need but this is a sugar dating site your not paying for sex per say but a relationship out which sex should happen if both parties are happy it’s the theory here that a arrangement should be mutually beneficial but to me it’s a waste of time and money the juice is not worth the squeeze

      • Mike says:

        You are missing my point. I’m referring to the legal definition, Look it up. Women on here call it prostitution so that they never give sex but they want the money. If the money is given during the course of a relationship it is not prostitution.

      • Mike says:

        Prostitution is money for sex, it is not money for rent or money for a car payment even if sex occurs near to the time that money is exchanged.

      • Mike says:

        A relationship during which sex should happen is called dating. I don’t pay for that.

      • Mike says:

        The whole point of the money is to make the women happy, or else why give it?

      • Mike says:

        By that I mean happy enough to proceed with the relationship and stop crying prostitution.

      • Anonymous says:

        the definition for prostitution I’m seeing is the business or practice of engaging in sexual activities for money if you take someone out to dinner and later pay money for sex at your home or room it is prostitution but i agree if you pay money over the course of a relationship then it is not you can get around this by paying her bills directly rather to her such as the rent car payments tuition that way it’s not directly linked to her providing sex for that money you are in effect gifting her money rather than paying anything to her

      • Mike says:

        No one gets busted for what happens between to people in private. Busts happen with street decoys or in hotel rooms and apartments that the police rent and setup for a sting.

      • Mike says:

        To get busted you have to offer or request a specific sex and for a specified some of money to an undercover police agent,.

      • Mike says:

        To get busted you have to offer or request a specific sex act for a specified some of money to an undercover police agent.

      • Mike says:

        I can’t type today. To get busted you have to offer or request a specific sex act for a specified sum of money to an undercover police agent.

      • Anonymous says:

        agreed you will not get busted for prostitution in your home no police force will waste resources trying to bust you in your home

      • Anon says:

        And Mike where I’m from the legal definition is different. So what now?

      • A says:

        well I’ll offer a different perspective as a student sb. I totally see this as prostituting myself. Unless I met a man I really fell for which is highly unlikely.

    • Mike says:

      For me they had better be happy by the 2nd date or there is no need to proceed and I don’t pay for the first date.

      • Mike says:

        In regular dating when I was younger the sex might happen on the first, second or third date. If it didn’t why date further, she just a dinner hoe.

      • Mike says:

        The point of the money is to make her comfortable being with an older guy.

      • Mike says:

        When I was younger the sex happened between the 1st to 3rd date, sugar dating is no different.

      • Anonymous says:

        no the point of the money is to free up time and reduce her stress if she has to work two or three jobs she won’t have much time for you if you have to pay her because your older than her and she doesn’t really want to date you because she’s not attracted to you i would just move on i don’t need those kind of women in my life this kind of dating is not a necessity we can do without it but we do it to add fun and excitement to our life if a sugar baby benefits from sharing some of that life more power to them there are women that like older men you don’t have to pay them to be with you but they do enjoy a good time and some help in life do you not remember how hard it was at that age i do everyone needs a little help

      • Mike says:

        Younger women do not go with older men who do not have money.

      • Mike says:

        I’m happy to give them the money and they can benefit from it in many ways. They just need to stop crying prostitution and asking for platonic.

      • Mike says:

        Yes it is entertainment for us, so the sugar babies had better make it entertaining if they want the money and stop giving me their sob stories.

      • Anonymous says:

        true women won’t go out with older men that don’t have money but they won’t go out with any man on this site that doesn’t have money that is what this web site is for to spoil a lady with cash and gifts that only a rich man can provide doesn’t matter the age of the man the only requirement is he be able to provide that lifestyle

      • Mike says:

        Right and they have to deserve that life style by keeping their sugar daddy happy. This isn’t a charity site.

      • Mike says:

        It’s kind of the other way around. They need to convince me that I’ll have a good time and then I reward them.

      • H says:

        Speak for yourself
        I’ve been with older men without the money element off the site because I liked them. I’m 19 they’ve been 20+ years older

    • Anon says:

      Still going on about that Mike from the other thread? I think everyone gets it now

    • A says:

      I’m a student sb and I see this as prostituting myself. Isn’t a bad thing, it is what it is.

  76. Yo Mom says:

    Great article!! Thank you for the tips!

    As for the responses on this.. one person said it best.. “they are warnings, suckers.”

    I thought this website was for mature adults.
    Not, grown men who are belittling women and basically wanting prostitutes! 🖕

  77. Dave says:

    Single mothers are a danger to society and the second bubonic plague. Single mothers all claim they are the victims yet 70 percent of divorces are initiated by the woman in the West. Most think their value is equal to that of a fresh
    young girl . They raise 90 percent
    of the incarcerated.

  78. Dave says:

    Dear SA, I have a safety concern . Single mothers are a danger to society and are a scourge to mankind , second to the bubonic plague. Single mothers all claim
    they are the victims yet 70 percent of all divorces are initiated by the woman in the West. After they become leftovers they still think their value is equal to that of a
    fresh young girl . They raise 90 percent of the incarcerated . This is safety concern for 2020.

    • SA_Admin says:

      Dear Dave, we do not condone hateful speech, personal attacks or gender bias and we will be removing any comments containing that language, and banning users that continually post comments of this nature.

  79. Stormcat says:

    Seems like we mostly have mike and dave here. Nitemaresd sounds kind of familiar.

  80. Anonymous says:

    I have yet to meet a woman that actually needs a sugar daddy. so far everything has been spoiled rotten to the core. I guess the only action here is quite expensive and not worth it.

    • Mike says:

      They have been reading this on Kristin Manna’s blog “That’s only $500 for sex. I feel like that’s really low-balling it, and if you are going to have sex with someone for money you should aim higher.”

    • Anonymous says:

      i don’t know what your experience is here but i agree it’s not worth it

    • Anna says:

      Unfortunately those girl make it harder for us girls who have life goals (mentorship, business ventures, etc.) to be taken seriously. We’d rather have a SD that’ll show us his way of success and won’t mind teaching, alongside the cute purses and shoes.
      snapchat✨✨: alynn.21

  81. Stormcat says:

    Well I’ve been around for many years. Back when all the bloggers here had avatars and we knew each other in person. The site seems hostile now. I thought I’d take a look here because some of my friends here remain in my mind and I wondered if I might be able to reconnect. I am Stormcat. Does anyone recognize me?

  82. Mia says:

    Hey, idk if this is the best place to do this, but I’m really scared of being scammed. I know most of the people one here won’t, but how do I know? If they want me to use a site to pay me and it wants me to put my bank info in should I? They aren’t asking for it directly, but its a payroll cite thing that I’m not used to. I am new to this so sorry if I sound stupid.

    • SA_Admin says:

      Do not give out any of your bank and/or credit card information to anyone, even if they are asking for it through a third-party site. Please report any members that ask you to do this. Thanks!

  83. Mike says:

    Oprah Winfrey was talking about this website on an episode of her show, so I figured I’d give it a try.

  84. Anonymous says:

    Every time I try and post something I get told slow down you posting to quickly. .wtf are you kidding me..must be run by women..

  85. Anonymous says:

    this blog is crap..cant even post more than once or if i do it doesnt show and i get a message saying you are posting to quick slow down..fuck sake that was my 1st post

  86. ST says:

    I met a woman for coffee in a cafe and when i got home about 10mins later this man appeared at the door ready to smack me around, wanting to know why i was meeting his wife and how long we been at it..i tried to explain it was the 1st time meeting her and no i didnt know she was married and best you take it up with her..he saw he in the cafe and followed me home..scary as that was

  87. Mike says:

    For the blog that wreaked SA look here,

    www revelist com / user / KristinManna

  88. rusty says:

    seems like they have some sort of telepathic signals going out to all women on this site and those joining…nearly every profile is the same..wanting banter, chatting, someone to make me laugh (god they must live a misable life) platonic only, emotional connection, no touching, kissing or the worst online only..and want big money for stuff all in return..

  89. Nitemaresd says:

    Mike said:

    “Do not accept a ride or walk back because 1) they’ll know where you live,” One crazy women followed me in her car, when I was walking home, yelling at me to give her more money after I left because she showed up drunk and trampy looking.

    How much did drunk and trampy looking earn her?

    • Mike says:

      I paid her some travel money to get her to go away but she got nasty. I reported her and gave them a screen shot of her text messages threatening me and they close her account.

    • Mike says:

      It got her account suspended after I uploaded a screen shot of the text messages threatening me.

    • Dave says:

      That’s why a few of them I threw out of my car before they had a chance to bitch at me .

  90. Anonymous says:

    Here is a very simple but effective dating idea..I brought a cheap alcatel phone for this one purpose..it has a feature on called dummy call..you program a name and number and time..it will call you..if you need to get away cuz the date isn’t going will this us an answer without feelong akward..I gave used it and it’s great..phone cost $50.00

  91. Kayla says:

    Every time I read a blog on here, I’m reminded exactly why you men are even on here. There’s always nothing but arguing between grown a** men and talking down on women. No wonder your wife sleeps with her boss and treats you like a coward, and that’s why you’re here. Therefore you need to quit the 1k-2k allowances. My presence should be appreciated and respected, and if not, then you should be fucking your wife instead of looking for a young woman.

    • Fanon says:

      Wives we pay to stay. You would be someone I would pay to LEAVE. If for one moment you think the balance of pay should be in your favor, you should hire the rescue squad to extricate your head from your own backside. Not gonna happen. Ain’t no lady parts worth that kind of money

    • Mike says:

      Talking down on women by point out what the ones on here are up to?

    • SDZombie says:

      Hmmm, what an odd post.

    • Yo Momma says:

      Great article!! Thank you for the tips!

      As for the responses on this.. one person said it best.. “they are warnings, suckers.”

      I thought this website was for mature adults.
      Not, grown men who are belittling women and basically wanting prostitutes! 🖕

    • Anonymous says:

      Who said we are married? And you get to decide allowances? You sound like a self entitled uneducated turd! Good luck with that attitude. Whoever pays you what you want will probably get you a incurable disease lol

      • Anonymous says:

        “Uneducated”…? -_- Says the person without adequate grammar. “Will probably get you ‘a’ incurable disease” … It’s “an” incurable moron. And I guarantee I’m younger and more feminine than you. -_-

  92. Dave says:

    If you pay for platonic , you’re paying some other guy to bang your sugar baby .

  93. Anonymous says:

    They say women never lie they are just good at it..what really annoys me is that a lot of these so called SBs are not from your city and play the feild a lot trolling for money..I watch a few of them changing cities weekly..

  94. Paleryder says:

    The advice says ‘Don’t link your dating sites to your social media’. But that’s exactly what SA ask you to do. Why? What’s the risk, if your social media FB is set to private, friends only?

  95. Anonon says:

    Picture how sad it must be to be Mike and Dave, commenting on every article just to get the attention every lady refuses to give to them (even when they offer money!!). Guys, no self respecting women will pay attention to men who treat women the way you both do, maybe that’s why they won’t reply to your messages (besides from the fact you are probably fugly). The sugar babies who take care of themselves, are young, beautiful students who have ambitions will want men who respect them. All those things come with great self steem and someone who is willing to date men who think rape most rape accusations are false and that single moms are “leftovers” (even if they are not single moms themselves) obviously doesn’t have a self steem. Maybe that’s why no one wants you.

  96. Nitemaresd says:

    Is it possible to get an emotional support SB just to bring on the airplane?

  97. Ricky says:

    When meeting at a hotel …… if you are the one who arranged the room, never text the other person the room number to meet. Always simply meet in the lobby or outside and then go to the room together. I hope I don’t need to explain why this is good advice.

    • Mike says:

      She showed up at my room and she was a fat ugly slag. What to do now?

    • Kayla says:

      Sounds like you’re looking for a low quality woman, because only a low quality woman would meet you straight in private. Don’t be mad when you get results you don’t like, when that’s what you are intentionally looking for

      • Dave says:

        Any women with the words ” I deserve, Princess, queen , I expect ” are low quality which pretty much eliminates 90 percent on the site .

      • Anonymous says:

        There are actually good quality girls on here who understand how things work and are actually sweet but it’s like the saying to find a prince you must kiss a frog well in this case we need to keep at it to find our arrangement sad but true!

    • Ricky says:

      I posted that tip not to avoid an ugly chick showing up but in the case of a chick showing up with 3 dudes who strong arm you in your room once you answer the door.

      • Mike says:

        The dude waits in the car. She asks for the money in advance and walks out. If you try to stop her he shows up.

      • Ricky says:

        That is not likely to happen as it would put her in a world of risk as in her getting her ass beat to hell before she got out of the room.

      • Mike says:

        It does happen. They are called a ROB. Rip off Bitch. Are you going to assault a woman over a few hundred dollars? I’m sure not going to risk getting arrested or beat by the pimp when he comes to the door looking for her?

      • Mike says:

        It happened to me once and this is why I never hand over the money upfront. She asked for it, and then just sat there and said that I was paying for her time. When I protested she started texting the pimp. I could hear his car outside. Then she ran out and they raced away.

  98. Yo says:

    Man these replies ain’t tips

  99. Anonymous says:

    You could offer car service. Uber or Lyft?

  100. Reject Princess says:

    Love this!! Great tips. You may also want to include new scams and/or red flags.

    Haha aaand those comments, though…!! 🤣🤣🤣

  101. Anonymous says:

    All the new girls that join write platonic lol
    Good luck with that one do you think we are dumb? and or haven’t heard of massage parlors or stripclubs lol money for coffee what a joke!

    • Dave says:

      And you must accept their hairy armpits you misogynist!!!

    • Anonymous says:

      yes they do ask for platonic when their new so what let them do without we don’t have to pay for something we don’t want but having said that i wish them no ill well i believe everyone should pursue what they want the only thing extra is that they need to be realistic in what to expect

    • Primo says:

      The majority 18-29 year olds on here want an online and platonic arrangement. Yes I like to hear about all the experiences and advice you could impart on me that you have learned in the 18-20 years. I am sure I’ll be captivated. I thought the site was supposed to ban online arrangements. The site has evolved.

  102. Steve says:

    What is with the platonic no – meet up silliness? Where do these morons come from?

  103. Mike says:

    Wannabe Sugar Baby writes: “I’m a single mom to two amazing kids. I dedicate all my time to my kids but need to start focusing on time for myself. I want to travel with my kids and also take a momcation. I’m not looking for a relationship at the moment, but definitely looking for friends.”

    Mike asks: Have you tried Meetup?

    • Dave says:

      Gawd single moms make me fvckin puke . Not only is she not at all bothered to bring her kids near another grown man , she acts as though a grown man , the SD, would be willing to pay for this waste of time and hang out with her bastard kids .

      • Anonymous says:

        Awesome couldn’t have said it better growing up it’s was frowned upon for Gavin kids without marriage now it’s wrong to frown upon them oh do I miss the good old days

      • Dave says:

        Gentlemen, we need to vote with out wallets . Don’t tolerate bad behavior and don’t accept single moms and women who have no fault divorced their husbands . Only accept hot young women into your life .

    • Dave says:

      She should be arrested for child abuse . I’m sure she’s a single mom because of muh patriarchy and the guy didn’t make her “happy “.

    • Mike says:

      If one of these women writes anything about what she is offering a potential SD I’ll fall out of my seat.

  104. Mike says:

    Wannabe Sugar Baby writes: “hello everyone, My name is Babylen I’m a beautiful 22 year old who just wants a friend and someone to talk to. NO intimate relationship…sorry.”

    Mike says: That’s what your girlfriend is for.

  105. Mike says:

    Wannabe Sugar Baby writes: “I’m looking for someone who will help me out so I can cater to my one month old twins, I have no job, I need to buy them diapers, wipes, clothing, car seats, cribs, diaper bags, but I don’t like to meet up.”

    Mike says: That person is called your husband.

  106. Mike says:

    Wannabe Sugar Baby writes: “I’m looking for someone to help pay for my college tuition & and living expenses while in college! No friends with benefits. Or sexual activity.”

    Mike says: That person is called your father.

  107. Mike says:

    Can anyone recommend a supplement? Dealing with the entitled, moochy, scammy wannabes on here is causing my T level to drop.

  108. glucose says:

    This site and these blogs…da best! I love how these females say “platonic.” They offer great minds and great insight. Yes, please, 20 year old, I want your advice and thoughts because you already look like you make great decisions based on the fact that you are on this site and/or your awesome neck/thigh tattoo. Here is some money. thank you.

  109. fivetats says:

    I have never read these blogs before but I will say, I was just very entertained reading the comments.

  110. Larry says:

    I’m impressed with your service.

  111. Mike says:

    Do any SDs on here pay for “Platonic”? I’m seeing so many “Platonic” tagged profiles. They say they are looking for friendship, companionship, someone to talk to, and so on, but of course they want money.

    • Romantic_Bliss says:

      Yes, I met someone here when living in London. it was platonic because after learning more about me he decided i needed a friend to talk to. he paid for meals, trips, etc. and eventually proposed. I think its better than rushing into a sexual relationship given 1) emotional connection should be established and 2) the younger lady is probably in a more vulnerable position than you are. (socially, economically, and safety wise)

      • Filtersrus says:

        But what he is pointing out is that the profile already makes that choice FOR him. I see the same things. The person wants to be put through university (a responsibility for her PARENTS) but doesn’t want to do anything but “vibe ” or talk. What person in their right mind would through out THOUSANDS in tuition for someone who is no more interested in dating him than putting her hands through a buzzsaw?

      • Dave says:

        Nice try .. but he asked for an SDs opinion . You’re fairy tale is suspect at best . Did you copy it from jezebel.com ? Vulnerable ? We don’t buy that when a young lady these days will bang a convict with face tattoos in a heartbeat .

      • Dave says:

        .. and next on Dr Phil vulnerable lady who slept with a convict with face tattoos after having a cautious dinner with a SD.

      • Mike says:

        That’s find but I’m not going to pay to be their friend.

    • SDZombie says:

      In my experience, girls who have platonic label are DTF. It’s just a “good girl” cover.

      • Mike says:

        I’ll be testing that theory. I’ll down size their donation since they are platonic but then converting them to full experience after a couple glasses of wine.

      • Anonymous says:

        Idk I’ve been hoping that but these girls expect to be paid a couple hundred to have coffee forget dinner and fun I offered one $500 a week for non platonic she turned me down I was so surprised I should’ve bought a lottery ticket I would have better odds than finding a decent sugar baby lol

      • Mike says:

        That is not my experience.

  112. Mike says:

    Do any SDs on here pay for “Platonic”? I’m seeing so many “Platonic” tagged profiles. They say they are looking for friendship, companionship, someone to talk to, and so on, but of course they want money. I don’t pay my friends or people I just talk to. If I wanted an activity partner I might pay $15 – $35 depending on what they are good at. I won’t pay sugar baby rates for this kind of thing. Yet some of these women insist that they are getting sugar baby rates.

  113. SD with Open Eyes says:

    Always fun to see how many different handles that “Dave” controls and “argues” with himself with.

  114. Honey says:

    To Dave and Mike

    Sorry for whatever women broke your hearts. You guys need a lot of hugs based on these comments.

  115. Anonymous says:

    Yeah, just don’t be stupid and use some common sense. Meet in a public place. There’s risks for the guys on here, too. Lol

  116. Dave says:

    @yougottabefeedingme
    99.9999% of men DO NOT rape . We know what your true goal is . It’s not about stopping rape because
    there are laws in place that
    punishes rapists already . Secondly , go try telling actual rapists not
    to be one . Good luck there .This
    is about control. You want control
    over men . You don’t want a sugar
    daddy with the ability to hit it
    and quit it . About 90 percent of SB profiles state demand long term
    arrangements . But you can’t
    guarantee that . You Want to be able to cry rape if he gets laid
    and never calls you again . That’s
    what this is about . Problem is
    social engineering fails every
    time . Just ask the now defunct
    USSR. They tried that many times in
    80 years . They even tried to
    clone docile humans with genetic
    engineering. It didn’t work .

  117. Dave says:

    @A.x translation : you have a date with a Schnauzer watching Scooby Doo on Netflix and an ample supply of peanut butter

  118. Dave says:

    @yougottabefeedingme … All these years I had some respect for your witty response . You just said the words “rape culture ” yeah …let me guess you have pink hair and hate the patriarchy ?

    • yougottabekiddingme says:

      Yes, the culture around minimizing rape.

      Never, in the farthest stretch of my wildest imagination, would having your respect be an aspiration of mine.

      And, no…I’ve not pink hair, I’ve pink lips.

      • Dave says:

        Take your fake rape cause to Pakistan but you won’t because you’re “woke” to their culture even though rape is pervasive there .

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        Non sequitur.

        Try again.

      • Dave says:

        There have been more men’s lives ruined by false rape accusations in the last 15 years than there has been actual rapes in the West .

      • Mike says:

        Dave, yougottabekiddingme is not trying to make friends or help men. She likes being judgmental and daddy shaming

      • Sassy says:

        And Dave just likes to baby shame. 🤷🏼‍♀️

      • Dave says:

        Why would I pay new car prices for a used up car (single mom ) ? You’re not on here to try find a poor man are you ? There are cucks who want old single moms , 60 year olds .

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        “yougottabekiddingme is not trying to make friends or help men,” say they (Dave and/aka Mike) who do not play well with others.

        You do not present yourselves as the types anyone would want to make friends with, though you admittedly need help.

        Didn’t your inferably rape-proof mother teach you to play nicely?

      • Sassy says:

        Aren’t you pretty close to that?
        And if I wanted to be with an asshole just for the money, I’d go back to my ex.

      • Dave says:

        @sassy don’t get me wrong . I’d bang a single mom , but only on a Dutch date and I would never consider getting in a relationship with one . I make too much money and worked too hard in athletics to be the breadwinner for another man’s leftovers . In 45 and I’ll pay for youth and freshness

  119. A.x says:

    so true 😂 two old fogeys with nothing better to do hahaha

    • Dave says:

      How’s that broke , emcel life ? I’m sure there’s a minimum wage earner for you that drinks beer all day out there waiting to love you .

      • A.x says:

        hahah here’s how i see it- why spend my own money when i have an sd who’s been paying my rent for the last 2 years just for being pretty and showing up to dinner four times a month, and another who has been taking me travelling around the world for 9 months now. both invested in my online business, but neither are getting anything back but my company, which consists of insincere compliments, my fakest laugh and lots of stringing along. and all of this while I have normal relationships with cute guys my own age 😃😜 …while you two old sags have to pay naive and financially desperate young girls for sex.
        ps. only logged into today out of boredom and curiosity, not coming back for a while so dont expect any more replies. good bye my desperate, lonely darlings! xxxxx

      • Mike says:

        There you have it guys. Don’t give money for nothing.

      • Anonymous says:

        Lol so awesome

      • Anonymous says:

        Wow your pics of work a.x
        Robbing two guys and dating guys your own age what a piece of shiiit you are! I hope I find out who you are and report your earnings to a special 3 letter agency!

      • Anonymous says:

        *piece of work!

    • Mike says:

      Maybe I’ll get a dog and leave the scammers, flakes and twits to fend for themselves.

    • Mike says:

      Maybe I should get a dog.

      • Dave says:

        She’ll be at your place with peanut butter in hand . Can’t accuse a dog or rape , poor thing only barks and licks .

    • Mike says:

      I’m going to donate my millions to a dog rescue.

  120. Mike says:

    Before these texting apps existed I used to get a potential sugar babies phone number and Google it. I was surprised at how many times they showed up on Backpage with raunchy pictures and 1/2 hour rates, but on SA they claimed to be a struggling college student looking for a mutually beneficial arrangement.

    • Dave says:

      They all had “some college ” which doesn’t help their case . That means they are either drop outs and dumb or lazy and can’t finish what they started or they ran out of money from the last sugar daddy . The last reason is the worst reason to be on SA . No man is going to find a woman’s $60k college tuition. You ain’t that good in bed honey. Anyway you slice it, it’s a red flag .

    • Dazed SD says:

      @Mike, I’ve done that too and it is amazing how many.

  121. B says:

    Just had browse through some of SA’s posts for the first time. Mike and Dave, do you guys not have lives? You seem to comment quite often on a lot of these posts.

    • Dave says:

      I got a great career, I climbed my way up the ladder of a large industrial machinery company (20 years tenure ) i make 3 large decisions monthly, then the other time i’m in the gym working out ,and on my phone between sets . Those are the perks of sacrificing time , but thanks for your concern .

    • Mike says:

      Thank you for your concern. I have a great life. I was spending my time messaging potential sugar babies, but I got frustrated with that after so I decided to come here as it is more entertaining.

    • Mike says:

      Now that you’ve asked your question would you like to make a productive contribution to the discussion?

    • Mike says:

      In the last two days, 18 messages sent, 12 not read, 3 read with no reply, 3 replies, one wants a date fee, one wants travel money, the other I’m still talking with.

  122. Seetroughit says:

    This article and the comments are sad to read.
    We are all looking for deep connection, and so many hurt people trow up hurdles and abuse situations. Potential sugar daddy’s as well as ladies who seek company.
    The borders are so thin and standards yet unexplored with this new way of interacting. And personally i find it difficult to navigate as well. I love my time and my life, and it is valuable to me. If the date is amazing and i like the guy or when it is a dirty guy who is pushing to get into your skirt. Western society is pretty messed up that we got ourselves till here. If these girls knew and had the confidence that they could make the money on their own and feel save from man, and not needing protection. I doubt many woman would be on here.

  123. A says:

    as a young girl I’ve had to show ID to some men which is fair, but then I get friend requests on FB which isn’t fair.
    Had a man threaten me because I missed my coach, said he’d have me beat up and he had a family of police officers so no one would believe me

    • A says:

      That same man said he’d write a letter to my mum, and get me kicked out of school. He was a nut job. Some need psych evaluations before joining

    • A says:

      Same man threatened to get me kicked out of school. Apparently nice people attract the crazies

    • A says:

      Same man threatened to have me kicked out of my sixth form. I’ve had a few men make passes unwanted and another fracture my finger cause he was so heavy on top of me also unwanted, apparently I’m a tease so that’s good reason for those nut jobs

    • A says:

      Also there’s this surge of men asking to meet abroad. I’m not sure that’s safe for anyone man or woman. Then giving out your number is becoming annoying because some SDs, especially the photo less ones give it to other people and suddenly you have weird men messaging

    • A says:

      Then there’s the weirdos who just wont quit. You have to block them and hope they don’t find your email
      One SD went through my phone to see if I had other SDs, thought it was ok because he admitted it. I said it’s fine then blocked him when I got home
      I think this site needs to regulate better, keep the crazy people out, men and women

    • A says:

      But…the majority of men on the site super cool to me that’s just my experience with the crazy ones

    • James says:

      You gotta read red flags better sweetheart. People like that, you can usually tell before meeting something is off.

  124. A says:

    I’ve got stories too with crazy SDs. I’ve had to send pics of my ID to men. Which is fair enough. Then suddenly I’m getting friend requests on FB, not fair. I’ve been threatened by a police officers uncle just because I missed my coach, he told me he’d get people to sort me out. He was a nut job, said he’d send a letter to my mum and get me kicked out of school.

    • SA_Admin says:

      We strongly advise against ever giving out your personal information, such as an ID, as this can lead members to know where you live and gain even more information. Please report members asking for personal information like this that includes your address.

  125. SDZombie says:

    Reading these comments is relieving. Glad to see I’m not the only one noticing that there are a huge amount of seedy women on here. I thought perhaps it was my just my state.

  126. Ricky says:

    Never as a SD invite these girls over to your house. You are at risk of strong armed robbery at the least … and being murdered at the worst. Search SA Oregon …..

    • SDZombie says:

      You’re not kidding. I notice many of these girls have men looming in the background.

      • Anonymous says:

        I always meet up for drinks and show up early or late this puts me in the advantage point I always tip the waitress and tell her to let me know if she sees anything funny $20 bucks and ur golden

    • Anonymous says:

      and don’t believe them because they say they are 18 and are on the site if they look too young they are likely they are too young

    • SDZombie says:

      If I have any doubts, I ask to see ID at M&G.

  127. Ricky says:

    My number one tip ? Have the SB take a snap holding up a sign saying … “Hi Rick”

    If she won’t move on ….

  128. Mike says:

    I just got this message. “Initial date to determine compatibility is $250…” She wants me to drive to her, pay for dinner and give her $250 to see if she likes me. She’s 35. I had a 25 year old over to my place for dinner last week and we drank wine and had play time for $250.

    • Mike says:

      I’m at a lack for words to reply to her. Like someone was saying, they don’t know their competition.

      • Dave says:

        Sex and the city told then that they have value over 35 . I’ve found that oder women are just as entitled as younger women and can act even worse , so why pay for an old bag ?

    • Kat says:

      Sounds like you met a pro. I thought that’s not what this site was about? #norespect

    • Anonymous says:

      Asian girls pull this crap all the time
      Lookskill that girl wants $250 just to meet up for compatibility test it’s like wow she started off with $400 lol

    • Johnny says:

      Can I ask where you guys live? Just curious as I usually get lovely young ladies for $200 to come over for dinner and drinks and play time… but I noticed in NYC, they wont even consider anything less than $400. Do you find the same experience, city girls demand more?

  129. Dave says:

    Statistics show that REAL rape occurs about 0.01% in Western societies . Young women will make babies with convicts becoming a single and 90 percent of rapists and the incarcerated come from single mother homes. Yet us men who have advanced degrees , stem education and come from nuclear families are the real danger . Yeah

    • Mike says:

      And we are the ones with something to lose. All I need is some crazy beotch seeing where I live and trying to extort me or else she will call the PD say that I touched her.

      • Filtersrus says:

        I can tell you how to fix that one. Had it happen to me and I fixed her little red wagon really quick

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        Public Service Announcement:

        Rape is rape.

      • Dave says:

        Nobody’s arguing that yougottabefeedingme . You like talking in loops ?

      • Sassy says:

        Not sure where you guys live but seems like you have more crazy women in your area.

      • Mike says:

        I’ve just been doing this for a long time and met all types.

      • Sassy says:

        Well I’m in the middle of Iowa. Seems like there are more down to earth people here.

      • Mike says:

        Yeah and lying is lying.

      • Mike says:

        yougottabekiddingme is another SJW come on here to protect the victims.

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        Yes, Mike, as a matter of fact I did. Minimizing rape culture is dangerous for your daughters, and your mother, and your sisters, and those of others.

        Don’t give yourself away so easily.

      • Mike says:

        yougottabekiddingme you are clearly in indoctrinated SJW and a victim of a liberal college education. Rape culture is a fraud perpetuated by America hating Marxist college professors. The USA is about the safest country in the world and now is the safest time we have ever known. Almost all men would protect a women from rape.

      • Mike says:

        yougottabekiddingme you are clearly not a potential SB, so you can go now. If you want to experience rape culture go to Saudi Arabia or India.

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        Thanks for clarifying, Mike.

        The U.S. is less rapey than it used to be, and even less rapey than Saudi Arabia. Got it. Way to set the bar for your daughters.

        I don’t recall voicing any interest in a potential sugar relationship with you or anyone in this space. Also, this is a community blog, not a self-promotion platform. Am not here to pretend your sterile comments are climactic, nor am I here to stroke your flaccid thoughts and fragile ego.

        Try again.

      • Mike says:

        If the USA is so rapey why don’t liberals want women to carry guns?

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        Wow, that was a leap.

        Rape culture is the culture of thought that suggests that the solution to rape is that women carry guns, rather than that men should stop raping and assaulting women.

        Way to go, Mike. You’re on a roll.

      • Mike says:

        Rape culture is a feminist construct where women shirk responsibility for their actions and blame all men for everything so that they can gain political power.

      • Mike says:

        Yes this is a community blog and clearly you are not here to contribute to the community. You are here to promote divisive feminist propaganda and turn women against men for your political goals.

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        😂

      • Sassy says:

        Mike, doesn’t look like you are contributing anything at all except to put down anyone who comments.

    • Jane says:

      That’s not a real statistic and it can’t be until people of all genders can feel safe about coming forward. Rape happens more than we all know and most of the information we have on the subject is tainted because of people victim blaming. What you just did is shameful and I hope you feel it.

    • Mike says:

      Rape culture promoting college professors classify next morning regret as rape.

    • Dave says:

      You’re a single mom leftover , that’s not down to earth . So hate to burst your bubble , you’re no better . Im in a large city BTW

      • Sassy says:

        Divorced. You are the one that said there’s a difference. I have a pretty solid life though. Almost done with school and a full time job in my field. The guys I go out with keep coming back so they must not have a problem with me having a kid and being 35. 🤷🏼‍♀️

      • Sassy says:

        Divorced. You are the one who said there’s a difference

      • Sassy says:

        I’m good with where I am. Almost done with school and working full time in my field. The guys I go out with still come back so they must not have a problem with me having a kid and being 35.

      • Dave says:

        Ahh no I didn’t . I would give widows a chance but if you’re a single mom you either reproduced with a bad boy or left a good man . But of course in womansplaining land neither could make you happy . Regardless Single mom = leftovers

      • Sassy says:

        Wow. Who’s entitled?

      • Dave says:

        Entitled ? You’re the one who made the mistake not me ? That’s called a standard . Not wasting time on ugghh a single mom…. Hotdog down the hallway and over 30 ugghhh

      • Sassy says:

        Yes, I’m a single mom. At least I don’t lie about it and I don’t expect anyone to provide for my daughter but me.

      • LadyBird says:

        Sassy, you go girl! I am so proud of you! 💓 You got out of the wrong relationship, you manage to have your daughter by yourself. Ignore Dave, he is not worth your time! There are plenty of people who are :)))

    • Anonymous says:

      I know this one girl very well she broke up with her boyfriend went to the bar with a friend got drunk made out with him they had sex then she cried rape and made him look like a rapist in front of everyone and got back with her boyfriend lol wtf?

  130. Mike says:

    “Consider carrying a can of pepper spray, just in case.” One women I met had the pepper spray at the ready while we were having lunch. I asked her to please not spray me while I was eating.

  131. Mike says:

    “Never give anyone money or financial information online.” I had a women ask me for a date fee and in advance online no less. I never met her.

    • Dave says:

      I got the same thing from a girl .so I got revenge . Isn’t her on a 2 hour drive to a restaurant and told her that i would pay her cash instead at dinner . I also told her to order me the cucina paradiso and a bottle of house wine before I got there . I never showed up .

    • Ruby says:

      What about the supposed SDs that demand money or bank info on first message “because they want to send an allowance right now”? Or the SDs that demand sex on the first date? Both sides of the coin can be seedy and both parties need to be safe.

    • Mia says:

      Hi, this may be a stupid question and I know that most guys on here aren’t trying to scam, but I don’t want to be scammed. A guy sent me to a site that wants me to put my bank info into it. He isn’t like asking for the info in chat, but idk. Sorry if I’m just being paranoid, I just am cautious.

      • SA_Admin says:

        Never give out your bank and/or credit card information directly to another member or through a third-party site, as there is no way to monitor who has that access to that information. Please report any member who is asking for this type of information in any capacity, whether it is asking directly or asking you to use a third-party site.

  132. Mike says:

    “Do not accept a ride or walk back because 1) they’ll know where you live,” One crazy women followed me in her car, when I was walking home, yelling at me to give her more money after I left because she showed up drunk and trampy looking.

  133. Mike says:

    “Always have enough cash or a credit card on you to get home.” I have them asking for for gas money in advance, like $50 or more. You know that they will never show.

  134. Mike says:

    “You can even have a wingman (or woman) with you.” Once time I met this woman at a place for lunch and she brought her short fat butch girlfriend with her. I excused myself to go to the toilet and got in my car and left.

  135. Mike says:

    Sometimes I find their FB and they have pics of them with a boyfriend with gang tats and a couple of kids they didn’t mention.

    • Dave says:

      They don’t think twice about reproducing with a convict but grip onto that can of pepper spray ready to use it on a date with a gentlemen .

      • Anonymous says:

        They follow their instincts they love the trailer park trash but aren’t comfortable with the clean cut money making machines

    • Sassy says:

      I’m pretty sure I still have pics of my ex on my Facebook, but that’s because I have a kid with him.

    • Sassy says:

      I have pics of my ex still on mine. But it is my daughter’s father.

      • Dave says:

        Single mom garbage alert . You should go back to plenty of fish .

      • Sassy says:

        Dave, you know nothing about me. 5 years into my marriage, he started abusing me, so I got out and made him get help. Keep your rude comments to yourself.

      • Dave says:

        Sure … He either was a bad boy or you nagged him . Im sure he has a side I’d like to hear . Don’t care . My money goes to young fresh women not leftovers

      • Sassy says:

        And you sound exactly like him. I’m sure you would get along great. Go knock someone up while you are at it then say it’s not yours. I learned from my mistakes.

      • Anonymous says:

        Sassy your 35 and have a kid and u want a sugar daddy when you’re already a mommy ? Does that even make sense ? Guys want a young vibrant girl with no baggage or else we would date girls and even then I wouldn’t date a girl with a kid just cuz I will never be the real father and they will just be an issue in the relationship kids are not easy to raise especially if they’re not your own

      • Sassy says:

        Doesn’t really matter if you would, and I don’t bring her around the men I see. That would only happen if it’s a serious relationship. She already has a dad.

      • Sassy says:

        And I’m with a 47 yo sugar daddy at the moment so your opinion is your own. Not all sugar daddies want what you want.

      • Anonymous says:

        47 yr old lmfao I don’t believe any real sugar daddy would want a 35 yr old lol are u sure he isn’t 87 lol

  136. Mike says:

    Sometimes I find their Facebook and they have pics of them with a boyfriend with gang tats and a couple of kids they didn’t mention.

  137. Mike says:

    These tips make the women all paranoid. If they won’t treat me like a regular guy I won’t see them.

    • Dave says:

      But the tattoo artist with 4 actual rape charges and gang insignia is “hawt”

    • Mike says:

      Many times I’ve had them agree to meet for dinner and they don’t have a car but won’t accept a ride to the restaurant from me. I think that excludes the possibility of them agreeing to come to my place, so no need for a date.

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        You’re doing it wrong.

        This isn’t Mayberry, Sir.

      • Mike says:

        I think I know what I’m doing in weeding out the date fee mooching scammers.

      • Mike says:

        I think I know how to weed out the date fee mooching scammers. The real sugar babies accept the ride to the restaurant. I’ve been doing this for 10 years.

      • Mike says:

        Yeah you tell me how. I’ve been on here for 10 years. I know how to weed out the flakes. The real SBs want the ride to meet me.

      • Sassy says:

        That’s a hard situation though. We’ve always been told not to have a guy pick you up that you haven’t met. I might depending on how long we’ve been talking. But I also haven’t been without a car so it’s never been a problem.

      • Sassy says:

        I wouldn’t want someone I had never met, picking me up. But might depend on how much I had talked to them.

      • Sassy says:

        Ugh… won’t let me comment

Top