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Tips for Dating Safely

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We want to make sure you stay safe during your online dating experience. Keep these tips in mind when you are talking/texting with someone or setting up a Meet & Greet.

When talking with someone online, don’t have a username with your full name. Just use your first name or create an innocuous email account with a random name. Come up with something fun to use.

Don’t use photos from your Facebook or Instagram in your online profile. They’re easy to trace. Don’t link any online dating sites to your social media sites – like Tinder or Instagram. It’s one of the fastest ways for someone to trace you and learn all about you, your friends and family.

It’s a good idea to get a glimpse of your date before meeting him or her. There are many ways to video chat (FaceTime, Google Hangouts, Skype and even Facebook). This could also help to reduce the risk of being “catfished” by someone claiming to be someone he or she is not.

If the online conversation becomes too much or makes you uncomfortable, stop the conversation and make sure you have ways to block and report this person.

Be logical. Don’t send photos right away, especially racy ones. Don’t give out your phone number (create a WhatsApp account or Google voice number or get a burner phone). When talking with someone be careful in describing your location, events you’ve been to recently, your workplace or anything else that can easily place you somewhere they may know. I understand you’re probably talking with someone in the neighborhood, but until you know for sure, better safe than sorry.

Never give anyone money or financial information online.

Never tell someone you don’t know or just met where you live or if you live alone. Never give out your physical address and have them meet you there. If you do decide to meet, make sure to meet in a popular public place and let friends know where you’ll be. You can even have a wingman (or woman) with you.

Don’t meet someone at their car, in the parking lot, a motel/hotel or anywhere you feel you can’t get away safely and quickly. ANY TIME you feel uncomfortable, go with your gut and get out of that situation. Do not hesitate. Consider carrying a can of pepper spray, just in case.

Pay attention to body language and facial expressions. Be observant. 

If you’re meeting in a bar, make sure you watch your alcohol, literally. Not just the quantity of alcohol you drink (not a lot), but never let the drink out of your sight. Roofies (among other drugs) are easy to administer and you’ll never know until it’s too late.

Make sure you have your own car, public transpo, friends to call or have an app to come get you. Do not accept a ride or walk back because 1) they’ll know where you live, and 2) who knows where you’ll be taken. 

Always have enough cash or a credit card on you to get home.

Your safety is important to us, and we want your dating experience to be a positive one. So focus on your common sense and listen to your gut. Happy dating!


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352 Responses to “Tips for Dating Safely”

  1. Frank says:

    Hey how come I can’t comment on the most recent post?

  2. Dave says:

    Single moms on SA = poor old fat guy

  3. Anonymous says:

    I really wish women would google how much pornstars make and then ask for a reasonable allowance! Majority of these girls have kids and want pornstar money. Please do your homework before asking us educated guys ridiculous allowance and I’m saying please lol

    • Anonymous says:

      Stop controlling men when you’re the ones asking and being paid the money!!!

    • Dave says:

      Hollyweird told single moms that they have value but never told then what they provide to men. Back when I was 20 years old single moms knew that they were just an easy lay for free . On SA they should be lucky to get $100 from 65 year old .

  4. Dave says:

    For feminists a man’s opinion is called bullying . They don’t believe in free speech . Leftist mentality

    • Sassy says:

      No, I just wish you would try and be a decent human being for once.

      • Anonymous says:

        Sassy get over yourself we are sharing facts not fictional stories!
        Dave said it really well why would you pay new car prices for a used up old car? If you’re thinking long term arrangement you want someone who you will want to continue to keep seeing. For example date a 21 year old For 5 yrs =26 date a 35 yr old for 5 years = 40 year old saggy droopy chick no thanks

      • Dave says:

        I wish women would like me for me and not for my career success and financial success and athleticism . Uh but wait sassy aren’t you on here to meet successful men ? You’re not very human

    • Sassy says:

      “If you’re a single mom, you’re not decent”. How is that not bullying?

      • Dave says:

        90 percent of the incarcerated come from.single mother homes . Single moms left good men reproduced with bad men .fact

      • Sassy says:

        That has nothing to do with me.

      • Sassy says:

        And the number of incarcerated people is probably about the same amount of rapes. 🙄. How many incarcerated came from single moms?

      • Sassy says:

        *How many non incarcerated people came from single mother homes?

      • Dave says:

        No different than when you girls say a poor Splenda daddy on SA is worthless . Everyone has a value on this site .

      • Anonymous says:

        And no offense but when a woman has a child that area there changes
        No thanks why would someone pay for a girl whose had kids? We are here to be picky and date girls we like not the ones you like! Stop trying to control men especially when they’re paying you!!!

      • Sassy says:

        Who am I trying to control, and how?

  5. Sassy says:

    Seriously, is there not anyone actually monitoring these blogs. It seems like they have gotten way out of control and most of it is just bullying.

    • Sassy says:

      I’ve been reading some from about a year ago and I was like, “Wow, it’s not all about Dave.”

    • Anonymous says:

      no offense if your serious about finding a sugar daddy you should be on the site looking for one you won’t find one on here the blog this is a place to express opinions as far as it being bulling i won’t comment on that Dave is the most vocal but a lot of men are angry because were tired of being ripped off and cheated and this site does nothing to protect or help us i would suggest you go over to lets talk sugar it’s more women friendly there good luck in your search

  6. Anonymous says:

    I agree with this blog. I don’t mind sexual stuff but I want to meet first in a bar to get a feel of them etc, same with them getting a feel with me too!

  7. Dave says:

    If youre a single mom , you’re not decent . You reproduced with a bad boy or left a good man because of “much feelings ” successful men don’t want second hand vagina . Maybe the cucks on your face book tell you how beautiful you are but you dont want those guys .

    • Sassy says:

      And how would you know that? And btw, most likely you are getting second hand vagina no matter what, unless you are doing exams to see if they are virgins. 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • Sassy says:

      Oh, and there is actually the possibility of someone having a child because they got raped. Not really something that can be controlled.

      • Dave says:

        Feminist single mom detected . Even worse . Rape barely occurs 0.0001 percent in the USA . Single moms are societal lepers .they raise 90 percent of the incarcerated. It’s on the CDC website .

      • Anonymous says:

        It’s called plan b or abortion

    • Sassy says:

      If we are going to play this way… So you must have been the bad boy cuz you definitely could not have been the “good man”

      • Dave says:

        No logic to that whatsoever. Women initiate 70 percent of divorces .

      • Sassy says:

        Well yeah there is, because even if she initiated it, she was either with a bad boy or left a good man. By how you talk here, I would definitely say it’s not the later.

      • Dave says:

        If you chose a bad man that’s your fault . CDC website States that 90 percent of incarcerated come from single mother households

  8. Anonymous says:

    We should post all the usernames of girls who are asking for platonic online dating on here
    And start reporting them it will save all of us a lot of time and energy

    • Dave says:

      Better to let Father Time and poverty punish them .

      • Anonymous says:

        Lol your too nice Dave and I’m not being sarcastic but these materialistic retards need to learn sooner than later or else they will keep taking advantage of guys like a.x bragging about 2 sd and dating supposedly cute guys her own age

    • Sassy says:

      Reporting wouldn’t do much good since SA sort of encourages the platonic relationships.

      • Anonymous says:

        No sassy sa says that so they won’t get closed down like BPAGE

      • Anonymous says:

        Reporting would help us all men in the sense don’t even bother wasting your valuable time on this con artist! Like seriously do u think it’s ok to take money from a guy to have coffee with? How sad and or lonely is that guy? Or what disease does he have lol good luck with platonic you will meet a serial killer trying to get your info lol

    • Anonymous says:

      Platonic is fine but the ones that lie about it and take your money and ghost

  9. UncleCracker says:

    I am happy to see other guys on here talking and complaining about the same stuff. Girls that have no intention of meeting up. They just are here to see how many guys are interested in them, it’s a game for them. Why? Because SA is also FREE for them. If SA charged these girls even a $10 fee it would weed out a lot of these useless girls on here. Seriously.

    • Dave says:

      you’re an incel loser fat man who stinks of smelly poo rapist !!!

    • Sassy says:

      Apparently the few of us that are decent and will meet, are too old (35) and single mom leftovers. 🙄

      • Anonymous says:

        U killed it with single mom and 35 lol you know why we would rather pay to date a girl? No baggage and they’re young and down to have fun! Rather than come up with family emergency excuses or just being self entitled!

      • Dave says:

        Exactly why you would meet , your options are dwindling because well men don’t want to pay new car prices for a used car . That’s biology and preference . You watched too much sex and the city

      • Dave says:

        “i’m an independent , strong, empowered mother of a boy named Aiden . If you can’t handle me at my worst , you don’t deserve my best ” Every single mom

      • Sassy says:

        So single moms don’t like to have fun? And I have never had a “family emergency” when I have a meet planned. And as for the self entitled, that seems to be more you than me.

      • Sassy says:

        And btw Dave, I’ve never watched sex and the city. I can get a guy way better than you any day.

      • Dave says:

        Yeah sure , if you consider blue collar, with a regular job better , but we know you don’t , or else you wouldn’t be on here . You should go back to plenty of fish .

      • Sassy says:

        Better, as in one that actually respects women and not shallow as hell.

    • Anonymous says:

      They should make the girls pay the same price because they’re the ones making the money. The men should have free accounts.
      SA come up with a deposit system for men and have free membership

  10. Dave says:

    For the first time I read an actual , humble sweet profile … from an 18 year old girl , proving as women older they angrier and even more entitled .
    “I am a very fun positive person(: Open to traveling to you. Ive realized older men are better, they know what they want and that is very attractive.Let’s be honest, a man who takes care of himself is quite attractive. Something fun, genuine. i hope I can make you happy “

    Not a single mom , not an old bag of bones …18 years old .

    • Mike says:

      I found a nice one, and she messaged me back and I was arranging a meeting, then she say’s she’s out of town on a family emergency. How many times has that one happened. I can’t count them all.

      • Dave says:

        Many times they get on SA just for the attention and see what guys they are capable of getting with the intention of never meeting up . The only thing you can do is move on. Let them be stupid and indecisive until they hit 30 years old and broke , then nobody wants them but cucks

      • Nitemaresd says:

        It’s like the end of that Christmas movie classic – every time an SD messages, a family gets an emergency.

      • Nitemaresd says:

        But seriously – the pathology of so many of the “nice” sounding ones is a twisted hater just drawing you in for disappointment as their kick.

    • Anonymous says:

      With your negative attitude you will lose the girl of your dreams. Girls will continue to play you and use you for being too biased.
      Good luck.

  11. Mike says:

    This site is so full of dipshit bitches.

  12. Mike says:

    About to get married to the best man ever next year. Having trouble with having money for our wedding but still trying our best. My man is letting me have a fun sugar to spoil me. I love going out and adventuring. Love going to the mall. Didn’t have the best life as child so I’m making life better. Just looking for fun people to meet and go to dinners or mall and spoil me or helping me with my wedding!

  13. Nitemaresd says:

    Someone that shall remain nameless needs a punctuation daddy.

  14. Dazed SD says:

    Now you talk about safe ! LOL

    I am 19 years old, I am in college to be a nurse. I am smart, outgoing, loving, and caring. I am only looking for someone who has money wants to spoil me without having to have sex or any intimacy.No strings attached No sugar, just a daddy. I want nothing serious. Just want the extra cash. Please help broke college girl. Do not message me if you want intimacy. It will not happen online preferred

  15. Anonymous says:

    I just like to have a good time, you all are too much drama

  16. yougottabekiddingme says:

    Dave says…

    “@yougottabefeedingme
    99.9999% of men DO NOT rape . We know what your true goal is . It’s not about stopping rape because
    there are laws in place that
    punishes rapists already . Secondly , go try telling actual rapists not
    to be one . Good luck there .This
    is about control. You want control
    over men . You don’t want a sugar
    daddy with the ability to hit it
    and quit it . About 90 percent of SB profiles state demand long term
    arrangements . But you can’t
    guarantee that . You Want to be able to cry rape if he gets laid
    and never calls you again . That’s
    what this is about . Problem is
    social engineering fails every
    time . Just ask the now defunct
    USSR. They tried that many times in
    80 years . They even tried to
    clone docile humans with genetic
    engineering. It didn’t work .”

    • Dave says:

      Don’t like facts yougottabefeedingme? Pure emotion only ?

      • Mike says:

        Women used to say that they didn’t want to hate themselves in the morning and they wouldn’t have hook up sex, now they get drunk and hook up and cry rape the next morning.

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        I think you’re pretty pathetic, but my response to you is not emotional. Your “facts” are simply garbage…dangerous, destructive, and a disservice to anyone who comes across then and takes them as truth.

        SA should be ashamed for allowing you to vomit about as you do.

        Karissa, you authored this blog…perhaps you can lend some commentary to Dave’s claims since my posts are being blocked?

      • Dave says:

        “According to the National Crime Victimization Survey, the adjusted annual per-capita victimization rate of rape has declined from about 2.4 per 1000 people (age 12 and above) in 1980 (that is, 2.4 persons from each 1000 people 12 and older were raped in 1980) to about 0.4 per 1000 people in 2003, a decline of about 85%” facts

      • Mike says:

        yougottabeshitting me is a full on SJW. A Marxist useful idiot. She thinks that rape culture is a real thing. She can’t follow the money.

  17. Dave says:

    Single mothers , pink hair , booger nose ring , tatts all over the body , so called curvy , old cougars are the equivalent of a fat bald old poor creepy guy. Let’s be equal here .

  18. Mike says:

    Posting on here instead of writing to wannabe sugar baby mooches has save me $1000 so far this month. Winning!

  19. Mike says:

    Legally prostitution is an explicit quid pro quo transaction.

    • Mike says:

      If I go out to dinner with a woman from here and later we are at my place and we get cozy and I give her some money legally it is not prostitution.

      • Mike says:

        However many women will refuse the advance but still want money for nothing and use the “I am not a prostitute” defense.

      • Mike says:

        For it to be prostitution they have to offer a sex act for a sum of money.

      • Mike says:

        If we talk about their financial situation and they tell me that they are struggling to pay rent and I thank them for the nice evening and give them money for rent it is not legally prostitution.

      • Mike says:

        If it was prostitution when men got sex and women got money while dating then all relationships would be prostitution.

      • Mike says:

        And only a marriage contract would make sex and money legal and then the woman would have access to all the money for nothing.

      • Anonymous says:

        no mike it is prostitution if you exchange money for sex it is prostitution doesn’t matter where you do it i don’t have a problem with that it fills a need but this is a sugar dating site your not paying for sex per say but a relationship out which sex should happen if both parties are happy it’s the theory here that a arrangement should be mutually beneficial but to me it’s a waste of time and money the juice is not worth the squeeze

      • Mike says:

        You are missing my point. I’m referring to the legal definition, Look it up. Women on here call it prostitution so that they never give sex but they want the money. If the money is given during the course of a relationship it is not prostitution.

      • Mike says:

        Prostitution is money for sex, it is not money for rent or money for a car payment even if sex occurs near to the time that money is exchanged.

      • Mike says:

        A relationship during which sex should happen is called dating. I don’t pay for that.

      • Mike says:

        The whole point of the money is to make the women happy, or else why give it?

      • Mike says:

        By that I mean happy enough to proceed with the relationship and stop crying prostitution.

      • Anonymous says:

        the definition for prostitution I’m seeing is the business or practice of engaging in sexual activities for money if you take someone out to dinner and later pay money for sex at your home or room it is prostitution but i agree if you pay money over the course of a relationship then it is not you can get around this by paying her bills directly rather to her such as the rent car payments tuition that way it’s not directly linked to her providing sex for that money you are in effect gifting her money rather than paying anything to her

      • Mike says:

        No one gets busted for what happens between to people in private. Busts happen with street decoys or in hotel rooms and apartments that the police rent and setup for a sting.

      • Mike says:

        To get busted you have to offer or request a specific sex and for a specified some of money to an undercover police agent,.

      • Mike says:

        To get busted you have to offer or request a specific sex act for a specified some of money to an undercover police agent.

      • Mike says:

        I can’t type today. To get busted you have to offer or request a specific sex act for a specified sum of money to an undercover police agent.

      • Anonymous says:

        agreed you will not get busted for prostitution in your home no police force will waste resources trying to bust you in your home

    • Mike says:

      For me they had better be happy by the 2nd date or there is no need to proceed and I don’t pay for the first date.

      • Mike says:

        The point of the money is to make her comfortable being with an older guy.

      • Mike says:

        When I was younger the sex happened between the 1st to 3rd date, sugar dating is no different.

      • Anonymous says:

        no the point of the money is to free up time and reduce her stress if she has to work two or three jobs she won’t have much time for you if you have to pay her because your older than her and she doesn’t really want to date you because she’s not attracted to you i would just move on i don’t need those kind of women in my life this kind of dating is not a necessity we can do without it but we do it to add fun and excitement to our life if a sugar baby benefits from sharing some of that life more power to them there are women that like older men you don’t have to pay them to be with you but they do enjoy a good time and some help in life do you not remember how hard it was at that age i do everyone needs a little help

      • Mike says:

        Younger women do not go with older men who do not have money.

      • Mike says:

        I’m happy to give them the money and they can benefit from it in many ways. They just need to stop crying prostitution and asking for platonic.

      • Mike says:

        Yes it is entertainment for us, so the sugar babies had better make it entertaining if they want the money and stop giving me their sob stories.

      • Anonymous says:

        true women won’t go out with older men that don’t have money but they won’t go out with any man on this site that doesn’t have money that is what this web site is for to spoil a lady with cash and gifts that only a rich man can provide doesn’t matter the age of the man the only requirement is he be able to provide that lifestyle

      • Mike says:

        It’s kind of the other way around. They need to convince me that I’ll have a good time and then I reward them.

  20. Yo Mom says:

    Great article!! Thank you for the tips!

    As for the responses on this.. one person said it best.. “they are warnings, suckers.”

    I thought this website was for mature adults.
    Not, grown men who are belittling women and basically wanting prostitutes! 🖕

  21. Dave says:

    Single mothers are a danger to society and the second bubonic plague. Single mothers all claim they are the victims yet 70 percent of divorces are initiated by the woman in the West. Most think their value is equal to that of a fresh
    young girl . They raise 90 percent
    of the incarcerated.

  22. Anonymous says:

    I have yet to meet a woman that actually needs a sugar daddy. so far everything has been spoiled rotten to the core. I guess the only action here is quite expensive and not worth it.

  23. Anonymous says:

    Every time I try and post something I get told slow down you posting to quickly. .wtf are you kidding me..must be run by women..

  24. Mike says:

    For the blog that wreaked SA look here,

    www revelist com / user / KristinManna

  25. Nitemaresd says:

    Mike said:

    “Do not accept a ride or walk back because 1) they’ll know where you live,” One crazy women followed me in her car, when I was walking home, yelling at me to give her more money after I left because she showed up drunk and trampy looking.

    How much did drunk and trampy looking earn her?

  26. Anonymous says:

    Here is a very simple but effective dating idea..I brought a cheap alcatel phone for this one purpose..it has a feature on called dummy call..you program a name and number and time..it will call you..if you need to get away cuz the date isn’t going will this us an answer without feelong akward..I gave used it and it’s great..phone cost $50.00

  27. Kayla says:

    Every time I read a blog on here, I’m reminded exactly why you men are even on here. There’s always nothing but arguing between grown a** men and talking down on women. No wonder your wife sleeps with her boss and treats you like a coward, and that’s why you’re here. Therefore you need to quit the 1k-2k allowances. My presence should be appreciated and respected, and if not, then you should be fucking your wife instead of looking for a young woman.

    • Mike says:

      Talking down on women by point out what the ones on here are up to?

    • SDZombie says:

      Hmmm, what an odd post.

    • Yo Momma says:

      Great article!! Thank you for the tips!

      As for the responses on this.. one person said it best.. “they are warnings, suckers.”

      I thought this website was for mature adults.
      Not, grown men who are belittling women and basically wanting prostitutes! 🖕

    • Anonymous says:

      Who said we are married? And you get to decide allowances? You sound like a self entitled uneducated turd! Good luck with that attitude. Whoever pays you what you want will probably get you a incurable disease lol

  28. Dave says:

    If you pay for platonic , you’re paying some other guy to bang your sugar baby .

  29. Anonymous says:

    They say women never lie they are just good at it..what really annoys me is that a lot of these so called SBs are not from your city and play the feild a lot trolling for money..I watch a few of them changing cities weekly..

  30. Nitemaresd says:

    Is it possible to get an emotional support SB just to bring on the airplane?

  31. Ricky says:

    When meeting at a hotel …… if you are the one who arranged the room, never text the other person the room number to meet. Always simply meet in the lobby or outside and then go to the room together. I hope I don’t need to explain why this is good advice.

    • Mike says:

      She showed up at my room and she was a fat ugly slag. What to do now?

    • Kayla says:

      Sounds like you’re looking for a low quality woman, because only a low quality woman would meet you straight in private. Don’t be mad when you get results you don’t like, when that’s what you are intentionally looking for

      • Dave says:

        Any women with the words ” I deserve, Princess, queen , I expect ” are low quality which pretty much eliminates 90 percent on the site .

      • Anonymous says:

        There are actually good quality girls on here who understand how things work and are actually sweet but it’s like the saying to find a prince you must kiss a frog well in this case we need to keep at it to find our arrangement sad but true!

    • Ricky says:

      I posted that tip not to avoid an ugly chick showing up but in the case of a chick showing up with 3 dudes who strong arm you in your room once you answer the door.

      • Mike says:

        The dude waits in the car. She asks for the money in advance and walks out. If you try to stop her he shows up.

      • Ricky says:

        That is not likely to happen as it would put her in a world of risk as in her getting her ass beat to hell before she got out of the room.

      • Mike says:

        It does happen. They are called a ROB. Rip off Bitch. Are you going to assault a woman over a few hundred dollars? I’m sure not going to risk getting arrested or beat by the pimp when he comes to the door looking for her?

      • Mike says:

        It happened to me once and this is why I never hand over the money upfront. She asked for it, and then just sat there and said that I was paying for her time. When I protested she started texting the pimp. I could hear his car outside. Then she ran out and they raced away.

  32. Yo says:

    Man these replies ain’t tips

  33. Anonymous says:

    You could offer car service. Uber or Lyft?

  34. Anonymous says:

    All the new girls that join write platonic lol
    Good luck with that one do you think we are dumb? and or haven’t heard of massage parlors or stripclubs lol money for coffee what a joke!

    • Dave says:

      And you must accept their hairy armpits you misogynist!!!

    • Anonymous says:

      yes they do ask for platonic when their new so what let them do without we don’t have to pay for something we don’t want but having said that i wish them no ill well i believe everyone should pursue what they want the only thing extra is that they need to be realistic in what to expect

  35. Mike says:

    Wannabe Sugar Baby writes: “I’m a single mom to two amazing kids. I dedicate all my time to my kids but need to start focusing on time for myself. I want to travel with my kids and also take a momcation. I’m not looking for a relationship at the moment, but definitely looking for friends.”

    Mike asks: Have you tried Meetup?

    • Dave says:

      Gawd single moms make me fvckin puke . Not only is she not at all bothered to bring her kids near another grown man , she acts as though a grown man , the SD, would be willing to pay for this waste of time and hang out with her bastard kids .

      • Anonymous says:

        Awesome couldn’t have said it better growing up it’s was frowned upon for Gavin kids without marriage now it’s wrong to frown upon them oh do I miss the good old days

      • Dave says:

        Gentlemen, we need to vote with out wallets . Don’t tolerate bad behavior and don’t accept single moms and women who have no fault divorced their husbands . Only accept hot young women into your life .

    • Dave says:

      She should be arrested for child abuse . I’m sure she’s a single mom because of muh patriarchy and the guy didn’t make her “happy “.

    • Mike says:

      If one of these women writes anything about what she is offering a potential SD I’ll fall out of my seat.

  36. Mike says:

    Wannabe Sugar Baby writes: “hello everyone, My name is Babylen I’m a beautiful 22 year old who just wants a friend and someone to talk to. NO intimate relationship…sorry.”

    Mike says: That’s what your girlfriend is for.

  37. Mike says:

    Wannabe Sugar Baby writes: “I’m looking for someone who will help me out so I can cater to my one month old twins, I have no job, I need to buy them diapers, wipes, clothing, car seats, cribs, diaper bags, but I don’t like to meet up.”

    Mike says: That person is called your husband.

  38. Mike says:

    Wannabe Sugar Baby writes: “I’m looking for someone to help pay for my college tuition & and living expenses while in college! No friends with benefits. Or sexual activity.”

    Mike says: That person is called your father.

  39. fivetats says:

    I have never read these blogs before but I will say, I was just very entertained reading the comments.

  40. Mike says:

    Do any SDs on here pay for “Platonic”? I’m seeing so many “Platonic” tagged profiles. They say they are looking for friendship, companionship, someone to talk to, and so on, but of course they want money.

    • Romantic_Bliss says:

      Yes, I met someone here when living in London. it was platonic because after learning more about me he decided i needed a friend to talk to. he paid for meals, trips, etc. and eventually proposed. I think its better than rushing into a sexual relationship given 1) emotional connection should be established and 2) the younger lady is probably in a more vulnerable position than you are. (socially, economically, and safety wise)

      • Filtersrus says:

        But what he is pointing out is that the profile already makes that choice FOR him. I see the same things. The person wants to be put through university (a responsibility for her PARENTS) but doesn’t want to do anything but “vibe ” or talk. What person in their right mind would through out THOUSANDS in tuition for someone who is no more interested in dating him than putting her hands through a buzzsaw?

      • Dave says:

        .. and next on Dr Phil vulnerable lady who slept with a convict with face tattoos after having a cautious dinner with a SD.

      • Mike says:

        That’s find but I’m not going to pay to be their friend.

    • SDZombie says:

      In my experience, girls who have platonic label are DTF. It’s just a “good girl” cover.

      • Mike says:

        I’ll be testing that theory. I’ll down size their donation since they are platonic but then converting them to full experience after a couple glasses of wine.

      • Anonymous says:

        Idk I’ve been hoping that but these girls expect to be paid a couple hundred to have coffee forget dinner and fun I offered one $500 a week for non platonic she turned me down I was so surprised I should’ve bought a lottery ticket I would have better odds than finding a decent sugar baby lol

      • Mike says:

        That is not my experience.

  41. SD with Open Eyes says:

    Always fun to see how many different handles that “Dave” controls and “argues” with himself with.

  42. Honey says:

    To Dave and Mike

    Sorry for whatever women broke your hearts. You guys need a lot of hugs based on these comments.

  43. Anonymous says:

    Yeah, just don’t be stupid and use some common sense. Meet in a public place. There’s risks for the guys on here, too. Lol

  44. Dave says:

    @yougottabefeedingme
    99.9999% of men DO NOT rape . We know what your true goal is . It’s not about stopping rape because
    there are laws in place that
    punishes rapists already . Secondly , go try telling actual rapists not
    to be one . Good luck there .This
    is about control. You want control
    over men . You don’t want a sugar
    daddy with the ability to hit it
    and quit it . About 90 percent of SB profiles state demand long term
    arrangements . But you can’t
    guarantee that . You Want to be able to cry rape if he gets laid
    and never calls you again . That’s
    what this is about . Problem is
    social engineering fails every
    time . Just ask the now defunct
    USSR. They tried that many times in
    80 years . They even tried to
    clone docile humans with genetic
    engineering. It didn’t work .

  45. Dave says:

    @yougottabefeedingme … All these years I had some respect for your witty response . You just said the words “rape culture ” yeah …let me guess you have pink hair and hate the patriarchy ?

    • yougottabekiddingme says:

      Yes, the culture around minimizing rape.

      Never, in the farthest stretch of my wildest imagination, would having your respect be an aspiration of mine.

      And, no…I’ve not pink hair, I’ve pink lips.

      • Dave says:

        Take your fake rape cause to Pakistan but you won’t because you’re “woke” to their culture even though rape is pervasive there .

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        Non sequitur.

        Try again.

      • Dave says:

        There have been more men’s lives ruined by false rape accusations in the last 15 years than there has been actual rapes in the West .

      • Mike says:

        Dave, yougottabekiddingme is not trying to make friends or help men. She likes being judgmental and daddy shaming

      • Sassy says:

        And Dave just likes to baby shame. 🤷🏼‍♀️

      • Dave says:

        Why would I pay new car prices for a used up car (single mom ) ? You’re not on here to try find a poor man are you ? There are cucks who want old single moms , 60 year olds .

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        “yougottabekiddingme is not trying to make friends or help men,” say they (Dave and/aka Mike) who do not play well with others.

        You do not present yourselves as the types anyone would want to make friends with, though you admittedly need help.

        Didn’t your inferably rape-proof mother teach you to play nicely?

      • Sassy says:

        Aren’t you pretty close to that?
        And if I wanted to be with an asshole just for the money, I’d go back to my ex.

      • Dave says:

        @sassy don’t get me wrong . I’d bang a single mom , but only on a Dutch date and I would never consider getting in a relationship with one . I make too much money and worked too hard in athletics to be the breadwinner for another man’s leftovers . In 45 and I’ll pay for youth and freshness

  46. A.x says:

    so true 😂 two old fogeys with nothing better to do hahaha

    • Dave says:

      How’s that broke , emcel life ? I’m sure there’s a minimum wage earner for you that drinks beer all day out there waiting to love you .

      • A.x says:

        hahah here’s how i see it- why spend my own money when i have an sd who’s been paying my rent for the last 2 years just for being pretty and showing up to dinner four times a month, and another who has been taking me travelling around the world for 9 months now. both invested in my online business, but neither are getting anything back but my company, which consists of insincere compliments, my fakest laugh and lots of stringing along. and all of this while I have normal relationships with cute guys my own age 😃😜 …while you two old sags have to pay naive and financially desperate young girls for sex.
        ps. only logged into today out of boredom and curiosity, not coming back for a while so dont expect any more replies. good bye my desperate, lonely darlings! xxxxx

      • Mike says:

        There you have it guys. Don’t give money for nothing.

      • Anonymous says:

        Lol so awesome

      • Anonymous says:

        Wow your pics of work a.x
        Robbing two guys and dating guys your own age what a piece of shiiit you are! I hope I find out who you are and report your earnings to a special 3 letter agency!

      • Anonymous says:

        *piece of work!

    • Mike says:

      Maybe I should get a dog.

      • Dave says:

        She’ll be at your place with peanut butter in hand . Can’t accuse a dog or rape , poor thing only barks and licks .

  47. Mike says:

    Before these texting apps existed I used to get a potential sugar babies phone number and Google it. I was surprised at how many times they showed up on Backpage with raunchy pictures and 1/2 hour rates, but on SA they claimed to be a struggling college student looking for a mutually beneficial arrangement.

    • Dave says:

      They all had “some college ” which doesn’t help their case . That means they are either drop outs and dumb or lazy and can’t finish what they started or they ran out of money from the last sugar daddy . The last reason is the worst reason to be on SA . No man is going to find a woman’s $60k college tuition. You ain’t that good in bed honey. Anyway you slice it, it’s a red flag .

    • Dazed SD says:

      @Mike, I’ve done that too and it is amazing how many.

  48. B says:

    Just had browse through some of SA’s posts for the first time. Mike and Dave, do you guys not have lives? You seem to comment quite often on a lot of these posts.

    • Dave says:

      I got a great career, I climbed my way up the ladder of a large industrial machinery company (20 years tenure ) i make 3 large decisions monthly, then the other time i’m in the gym working out ,and on my phone between sets . Those are the perks of sacrificing time , but thanks for your concern .

    • Mike says:

      Thank you for your concern. I have a great life. I was spending my time messaging potential sugar babies, but I got frustrated with that after so I decided to come here as it is more entertaining.

    • Mike says:

      In the last two days, 18 messages sent, 12 not read, 3 read with no reply, 3 replies, one wants a date fee, one wants travel money, the other I’m still talking with.

  49. A says:

    as a young girl I’ve had to show ID to some men which is fair, but then I get friend requests on FB which isn’t fair.
    Had a man threaten me because I missed my coach, said he’d have me beat up and he had a family of police officers so no one would believe me

    • A says:

      Same man threatened to have me kicked out of my sixth form. I’ve had a few men make passes unwanted and another fracture my finger cause he was so heavy on top of me also unwanted, apparently I’m a tease so that’s good reason for those nut jobs

    • A says:

      Also there’s this surge of men asking to meet abroad. I’m not sure that’s safe for anyone man or woman. Then giving out your number is becoming annoying because some SDs, especially the photo less ones give it to other people and suddenly you have weird men messaging

    • A says:

      Then there’s the weirdos who just wont quit. You have to block them and hope they don’t find your email
      One SD went through my phone to see if I had other SDs, thought it was ok because he admitted it. I said it’s fine then blocked him when I got home
      I think this site needs to regulate better, keep the crazy people out, men and women

    • A says:

      But…the majority of men on the site super cool to me that’s just my experience with the crazy ones

    • James says:

      You gotta read red flags better sweetheart. People like that, you can usually tell before meeting something is off.

  50. SDZombie says:

    Reading these comments is relieving. Glad to see I’m not the only one noticing that there are a huge amount of seedy women on here. I thought perhaps it was my just my state.

  51. Ricky says:

    Never as a SD invite these girls over to your house. You are at risk of strong armed robbery at the least … and being murdered at the worst. Search SA Oregon …..

  52. Mike says:

    I just got this message. “Initial date to determine compatibility is $250…” She wants me to drive to her, pay for dinner and give her $250 to see if she likes me. She’s 35. I had a 25 year old over to my place for dinner last week and we drank wine and had play time for $250.

    • Mike says:

      I’m at a lack for words to reply to her. Like someone was saying, they don’t know their competition.

      • Dave says:

        Sex and the city told then that they have value over 35 . I’ve found that oder women are just as entitled as younger women and can act even worse , so why pay for an old bag ?

    • Anonymous says:

      Asian girls pull this crap all the time
      Lookskill that girl wants $250 just to meet up for compatibility test it’s like wow she started off with $400 lol

    • Johnny says:

      Can I ask where you guys live? Just curious as I usually get lovely young ladies for $200 to come over for dinner and drinks and play time… but I noticed in NYC, they wont even consider anything less than $400. Do you find the same experience, city girls demand more?

  53. Dave says:

    Statistics show that REAL rape occurs about 0.01% in Western societies . Young women will make babies with convicts becoming a single and 90 percent of rapists and the incarcerated come from single mother homes. Yet us men who have advanced degrees , stem education and come from nuclear families are the real danger . Yeah

    • Mike says:

      And we are the ones with something to lose. All I need is some crazy beotch seeing where I live and trying to extort me or else she will call the PD say that I touched her.

      • Filtersrus says:

        I can tell you how to fix that one. Had it happen to me and I fixed her little red wagon really quick

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        Public Service Announcement:

        Rape is rape.

      • Dave says:

        Nobody’s arguing that yougottabefeedingme . You like talking in loops ?

      • Sassy says:

        Not sure where you guys live but seems like you have more crazy women in your area.

      • Mike says:

        I’ve just been doing this for a long time and met all types.

      • Sassy says:

        Well I’m in the middle of Iowa. Seems like there are more down to earth people here.

      • Mike says:

        Yeah and lying is lying.

      • Mike says:

        yougottabekiddingme is another SJW come on here to protect the victims.

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        Yes, Mike, as a matter of fact I did. Minimizing rape culture is dangerous for your daughters, and your mother, and your sisters, and those of others.

        Don’t give yourself away so easily.

      • Mike says:

        yougottabekiddingme you are clearly in indoctrinated SJW and a victim of a liberal college education. Rape culture is a fraud perpetuated by America hating Marxist college professors. The USA is about the safest country in the world and now is the safest time we have ever known. Almost all men would protect a women from rape.

      • Mike says:

        yougottabekiddingme you are clearly not a potential SB, so you can go now. If you want to experience rape culture go to Saudi Arabia or India.

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        Thanks for clarifying, Mike.

        The U.S. is less rapey than it used to be, and even less rapey than Saudi Arabia. Got it. Way to set the bar for your daughters.

        I don’t recall voicing any interest in a potential sugar relationship with you or anyone in this space. Also, this is a community blog, not a self-promotion platform. Am not here to pretend your sterile comments are climactic, nor am I here to stroke your flaccid thoughts and fragile ego.

        Try again.

      • Mike says:

        If the USA is so rapey why don’t liberals want women to carry guns?

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        Wow, that was a leap.

        Rape culture is the culture of thought that suggests that the solution to rape is that women carry guns, rather than that men should stop raping and assaulting women.

        Way to go, Mike. You’re on a roll.

      • Mike says:

        Rape culture is a feminist construct where women shirk responsibility for their actions and blame all men for everything so that they can gain political power.

      • Mike says:

        Yes this is a community blog and clearly you are not here to contribute to the community. You are here to promote divisive feminist propaganda and turn women against men for your political goals.

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        😂

      • Sassy says:

        Mike, doesn’t look like you are contributing anything at all except to put down anyone who comments.

    • Mike says:

      Rape culture promoting college professors classify next morning regret as rape.

    • Dave says:

      You’re a single mom leftover , that’s not down to earth . So hate to burst your bubble , you’re no better . Im in a large city BTW

      • Sassy says:

        Divorced. You are the one who said there’s a difference

      • Dave says:

        Ahh no I didn’t . I would give widows a chance but if you’re a single mom you either reproduced with a bad boy or left a good man . But of course in womansplaining land neither could make you happy . Regardless Single mom = leftovers

      • Sassy says:

        Wow. Who’s entitled?

      • Dave says:

        Entitled ? You’re the one who made the mistake not me ? That’s called a standard . Not wasting time on ugghh a single mom…. Hotdog down the hallway and over 30 ugghhh

      • Sassy says:

        Yes, I’m a single mom. At least I don’t lie about it and I don’t expect anyone to provide for my daughter but me.

    • Anonymous says:

      I know this one girl very well she broke up with her boyfriend went to the bar with a friend got drunk made out with him they had sex then she cried rape and made him look like a rapist in front of everyone and got back with her boyfriend lol wtf?

  54. Mike says:

    “Consider carrying a can of pepper spray, just in case.” One women I met had the pepper spray at the ready while we were having lunch. I asked her to please not spray me while I was eating.

  55. Mike says:

    “Never give anyone money or financial information online.” I had a women ask me for a date fee and in advance online no less. I never met her.

    • Dave says:

      I got the same thing from a girl .so I got revenge . Isn’t her on a 2 hour drive to a restaurant and told her that i would pay her cash instead at dinner . I also told her to order me the cucina paradiso and a bottle of house wine before I got there . I never showed up .

  56. Mike says:

    “Do not accept a ride or walk back because 1) they’ll know where you live,” One crazy women followed me in her car, when I was walking home, yelling at me to give her more money after I left because she showed up drunk and trampy looking.

  57. Mike says:

    “Always have enough cash or a credit card on you to get home.” I have them asking for for gas money in advance, like $50 or more. You know that they will never show.

  58. Mike says:

    “You can even have a wingman (or woman) with you.” Once time I met this woman at a place for lunch and she brought her short fat butch girlfriend with her. I excused myself to go to the toilet and got in my car and left.

  59. Mike says:

    Sometimes I find their FB and they have pics of them with a boyfriend with gang tats and a couple of kids they didn’t mention.

    • Dave says:

      They don’t think twice about reproducing with a convict but grip onto that can of pepper spray ready to use it on a date with a gentlemen .

      • Anonymous says:

        They follow their instincts they love the trailer park trash but aren’t comfortable with the clean cut money making machines

    • Sassy says:

      I have pics of my ex still on mine. But it is my daughter’s father.

      • Dave says:

        Single mom garbage alert . You should go back to plenty of fish .

      • Sassy says:

        Dave, you know nothing about me. 5 years into my marriage, he started abusing me, so I got out and made him get help. Keep your rude comments to yourself.

      • Dave says:

        Sure … He either was a bad boy or you nagged him . Im sure he has a side I’d like to hear . Don’t care . My money goes to young fresh women not leftovers

      • Sassy says:

        And you sound exactly like him. I’m sure you would get along great. Go knock someone up while you are at it then say it’s not yours. I learned from my mistakes.

      • Anonymous says:

        Sassy your 35 and have a kid and u want a sugar daddy when you’re already a mommy ? Does that even make sense ? Guys want a young vibrant girl with no baggage or else we would date girls and even then I wouldn’t date a girl with a kid just cuz I will never be the real father and they will just be an issue in the relationship kids are not easy to raise especially if they’re not your own

      • Sassy says:

        Doesn’t really matter if you would, and I don’t bring her around the men I see. That would only happen if it’s a serious relationship. She already has a dad.

      • Sassy says:

        And I’m with a 47 yo sugar daddy at the moment so your opinion is your own. Not all sugar daddies want what you want.

      • Anonymous says:

        47 yr old lmfao I don’t believe any real sugar daddy would want a 35 yr old lol are u sure he isn’t 87 lol

  60. Mike says:

    These tips make the women all paranoid. If they won’t treat me like a regular guy I won’t see them.

    • Mike says:

      Many times I’ve had them agree to meet for dinner and they don’t have a car but won’t accept a ride to the restaurant from me. I think that excludes the possibility of them agreeing to come to my place, so no need for a date.

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