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Standard, Premium, Or Diamond Membership: What’s The Difference?
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You Know What You Want. Let’s Start With What You Get. On Seeking, intentionality isn’t just part of your dating life. It’s part of your membership. Members can join for free, build a standout profile, explore connections in their area, and more. Connections start with…
The Cool Girl Is Cancelled
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Say Hello to the Confident Woman Once upon a time, she was the gold standard—the chill girl who didn’t ever get mad, or ask for too much, and certainly never ordered the expensive wine. She was low-maintenance, zero-drama, and practically allergic to having an opinion.…
The Power Move: Why Being Selective is Your Greatest Strength
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I’ve noticed a trend. Dating advice lately seems to echo a single, exhausting refrain: be open, be flexible, and most of all, be willing to compromise. Standards, we are told, are obstacles; desires, optional. And that success in love belongs to those who have learned…
Membership Prices Are Changing – But Yours Doesn’t Have To
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Big news, but no need for panic: Seeking is updating the pricing for Premium and Diamond memberships. This is the first price adjustment in years—and it reflects something important: the growing value of what we offer, and the even more intentional community we’re building. We’re…
Success Is Hot – Why Stinginess Is a Red Flag
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In dating, generosity isn’t extra – it’s everything I need to get something off my chest: Let’s stop pretending stinginess is just “being practical.” In dating, being frugal is not a personality quirk. It’s a warning sign. There’s a difference between having boundaries and withholding,…
You’re Not Too Much—You’re the Match Some Can’t Handle
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Some women were never meant to fade or play small. They move through the world without flinching at ambition, never softening their voice to make others comfortable, and they resist shrinking to resemble someone else’s idea of “enough.” These women are often described as “intimidating,”…
