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All About Reporting
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Reporting an inappropriate member is highly encouraged and available to all Seeking users. If you are having a conversation with another member and they ask you for personal banking information, use derogatory language or send unsolicited private photos it may be time to consider reporting…
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Setting Boundaries
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All healthy relationships, whether platonic or romantic, require clear boundaries in order to function seamlessly. Often times people think of relationship boundaries as a controlling set of rules, but the reality is that boundaries aren’t about the other person, they are about you. Relationship boundaries…
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Tips for First Dates
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Meeting up for the first time can be nerve-racking or completely awkward, but it doesn’t have to be. From taking the time to find a solid prospect, to preparing conversation topics ahead of time, here are some tips for first dates. THE ASK If you’re…
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Why She Ghosted
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By seemingly disappearing into thin air, the act of “ghosting” has become the newest phenomenon in dating. Let’s face it, being ghosted sucks. You meet a girl and instantly connect, exchange texts with playful banter, have a few dates where the conversation never slows, you…
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The Perfect First Message
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Crafting a quality first message is an art. Coming up with the perfect amount of information, while maintaining some mystery is the balance you need to secure a date, and hopefully more. Here are some tips for creating the perfect first message. Information Overload One…
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How to Bring Up Your Kinks
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Let’s be honest, ever since 50 Shades of Grey exposed kink to the mainstream, women are opening up to ideas outside vanilla. With that being said, bringing up your kinks to a partner has become a lot less taxing over the years. Here is what…