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We’re Raising Membership Prices (And Why That’s Good for Everyone)
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Dear Seeking.com community, I want to be direct with you about something important: starting January 1, 2026, our subscription pricing is increasing. Additionally, our Premium membership tier will be renamed the Platinum membership tier or Gold membership tier, depending on your membership level and eligibility.…

The End of Fake Profiles?
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How Seeking is Changing the Dating Game Online dating should be exciting. It should be about making real connections, not worrying whether the person on the other side of the screen is even real. Unfortunately, for decades, scammers have made that difficult. They hide behind…

Standard, Premium, Or Diamond Membership: What’s The Difference?
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You Know What You Want. Let’s Start With What You Get. On Seeking, intentionality isn’t just part of your dating life. It’s part of your membership. Members can join for free, build a standout profile, explore connections in their area, and more. Connections start with…

The Cool Girl Is Cancelled
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Say Hello to the Confident Woman Once upon a time, she was the gold standard—the chill girl who didn’t ever get mad, or ask for too much, and certainly never ordered the expensive wine. She was low-maintenance, zero-drama, and practically allergic to having an opinion.…

The Power Move: Why Being Selective is Your Greatest Strength
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I’ve noticed a trend. Dating advice lately seems to echo a single, exhausting refrain: be open, be flexible, and most of all, be willing to compromise. Standards, we are told, are obstacles; desires, optional. And that success in love belongs to those who have learned…

Success Is Hot – Why Stinginess Is a Red Flag
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In dating, generosity isn’t extra – it’s everything I need to get something off my chest: Let’s stop pretending stinginess is just “being practical.” In dating, being frugal is not a personality quirk. It’s a warning sign. There’s a difference between having boundaries and withholding,…





