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Dating tips, trends, stories, and more from Seeking.com

Exciting Changes Ahead on Seeking
A Message from Brandon Wade: When I founded Seeking.com in 2006, my vision was clear: create an extraordinary platform for successful individuals looking for meaningful relationships. In 2020, that vision personally became my reality when I met Dana. Despite our 30-year age gap, our connection was immediate, deep, and genuine, leading us to marry on…

Luxury Isn’t Shallow – It’s Intentional
Stop Apologizing for Your Standards Somewhere along the way, “wanting more” has become a dirty phrase. We were told to stop being “extra.” Be low-maintenance. Ask for less, so we’re easier to deal with. Wanting a particular kind of lifestyle—or a specific type of partner—was labeled as overtly materialistic. High standards? Gold-digging. Desire itself got…

Success Matters – There, We Said It
Why Chemistry Requires Ambition Being kind—and most will agree on this—is a relationship baseline. It’s fuzzy, comforting, and undeniably a foundational component to any healthy relationship. But being nice alone isn’t enough. It doesn’t sustain intrigue. It doesn’t keep a spark alive. Nor does it guarantee you’ll still be fascinated with each other in five…







