You Know What You Want. Let’s Start With What You Get.
On Seeking, intentionality isn’t just part of your dating life. It’s part of your membership. Members can join for free, build a standout profile, explore connections in their area, and more. Connections start with clarity, including what you’re here for, and what you’re getting in return.
Every member on Seeking may browse with basic search, but meaningful connection takes more. If you’re serious about dating with transparency and standards, upgrading unlocks the total experience. Here’s how each membership level is designed to help you find exactly what you want: faster, smarter, and with clear intentions.
Standard Membership
Make an impression. Standard Membership on Seeking allows you to do just that. Enjoy free selfie verification to build trust, optimize your profile for maximum visibility, and upload high-quality photos that reflect your best self. You’ll have unlimited access to browse, search, and view profiles, and go ahead: favorite as many members as you like. It’s everything you need to start the dating process with directness and confidence.
Seeking Premium Membership
The best things in life aren’t free. Not when it comes to dating with standards, anyway. If you’re here for transparency, confidence, and a connection that aligns with your goals, free only gets you so far. Seeking Premium members aren’t just browsing. They’re invested, intentional, and ready to meet someone on their level. That’s why the most sought-after daters know: if you want luxury love, it’s worth showing you’re serious.
Premium Badge
A statement. A flex. A visual cue that says: I know what I’m doing here.
Send Unlimited Messages
No caps. No pauses. No “message limit reached.” Just connection: uninterrupted.
Advanced Search Filters
Swipe culture is chaos. Filters are strategy. Search like someone who values time.
In-App Video Chat
More than a face. It’s a vibe check. A filter for energy before you meet.
Member Notes
Your private intel. Make a note. Pick it up later. Clarity is key.
All Search & Inbox Filters
Sort. Filter. Focus. Say goodbye to noise and hello to what matters.
Advanced Privacy Options
Disappear when needed. Reappear on your terms. Total visibility control = ultimate power.
Add Multiple Locations
Jet-setter? Bi-coastal? Nomadic at heart? Match where the mood (or mileage) moves you.
Seeking Diamond Membership
Diamond is more than a membership. It’s a signal. For those who qualify and know exactly what they want (and aren’t shy about getting it), Seeking Diamond unlocks exclusive perks, elevated visibility, and unmatched access to the most intentional daters on Seeking. It’s not only about status, it’s also about standards.
All the member benefits of Seeking Premium
Seeking Diamond builds upon the already excellent benefits of Seeking Premium, offering greater visibility and access.
Prioritized Profile
Top of the list. Front of the line. Get seen where it counts, before the scroll gets noisy.
First Look Advantage
New profiles. First access. Be the first to see new members as soon as they join. Connect before anyone else does, because in luxury dating, timing is the edge.
