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As you may have noticed, Seeking has an entirely different angle than most dating sites. On Seeking, we don’t swipe, we don’t settle, and we Date Up. In other words, we are a luxury site composed of like-minded Attractives (female members) and Successfuls (male members) who want to elevate their dating lives. Yet Seeking has more than 44 million members around the globe so it’s fair to wonder what it takes to really stand out…

2022 has been real, but now it’s time to start manifesting an amazing 2023. We’re talking about going beyond the promises to get a Peleton and go Paleo — those resolutions are so 2019. And let’s be honest – Paleo sounds great and all, but no one wants a life without brunch at Bouchon. We’re talking about getting the most out of dating in 2023. Seeking is the world’s top luxury dating site, and it’s our…

You’re probably used to people saying that you’re too picky when it comes to dating. Your friends might frame this as a bad thing. However, the truth is, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being selective. In fact, we encourage it, because we know those traits actually lead to better dating experiences all around. No matter what people might say, it is possible to find the perfect companion without having to make any concessions. Here’s…

Once upon a time, changing yourself to impress a date was considered the norm. Blogs, books, and movies encouraged singles to dress differently, act a certain way, or pretend to be involved in hobbies they didn’t care about just to get someone’s attention. Those days are long gone, and have been replaced by “Main Character Energy,” the latest dating trend.Now that 2022 is coming to a close, the dating game has definitely changed, and so…

People might think luck has a lot to do with it, but we think meeting the right match on Seeking.com is more about being intentional, persistent, and selective. But just to be sure, we asked some of our most successful Attractive Members to share their secrets with other Attractives. Here’s what they said about how to succeed on Seeking: 1) Know what you want out of Seeking and make it clear on your profile. There…

We’ve all had ho-hum dating experiences, right? Ladies, remember the guy who wanted to “just meet for coffee” and then had the nerve to ask if you’d split the bill? Or the time you put on your sexiest little black dress and Louboutins – only to have him show up in board shorts and flip-flops? It might be time to Upgrade Your™ dating life. When we date up, we boost our expectations of how our…

Between work, more work, and, maybe even a round of golf with your buddies, your time is at a premium. And if you’re single, finding any time at all to devote to dating can seem impossible. But busy people do manage to have personal lives – it just takes knowing how to manage time, priorities, and expectations. Having a packed calendar doesn’t mean sacrificing a social life. Here are some dating tips for busy men…

Ready to make a connection and find your ideal partner? Seeking has a hypothetical question for you: What’s your idea of a perfect date?  Did you instantly imagine an intimate dinner at a fine-dining restaurant? Perhaps a movie with your hands both grabbing for the same pile of popcorn? Or even lying on the hood of a car and gazing up at the stars? It all sounds lovely. But you deserve more than a scene…

After the last couple of years, “comfort” has been somewhat of a novelty, am I right? From being stuck at home wondering if we really would run out of TP, to watching the Oscars turn into WWE, we’ve been subjected to some pretty harsh realities. It’s no wonder we have quietly retreated to routines and spaces we know—our comfort zones. We can only take so much upheaval, after all. Is there a good reason why…

You’re pretty sure your online crush is into you, they just haven’t asked you out yet. So, you’re patiently waiting, but waiting for what? Wait too long and your luck may run out! We’re here to help you figure out how to score a date with your ideal partner. Before the sparks fizzle, consider this pro Seeking tip: Make the lucky move and ask that Successful member out! Kickoff Women’s History Month with some fierce…