Dating Trends
From the Seeking Blog
The Cool Girl Is Cancelled
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Say Hello to the Confident Woman Once upon a time, she was the gold standard—the chill girl who didn’t ever get mad, or ask for too much, and certainly never ordered the expensive wine. She was low-maintenance, zero-drama, and practically allergic to having an opinion.…
Success Is Hot – Why Stinginess Is a Red Flag
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In dating, generosity isn’t extra – it’s everything I need to get something off my chest: Let’s stop pretending stinginess is just “being practical.” In dating, being frugal is not a personality quirk. It’s a warning sign. There’s a difference between having boundaries and withholding,…
Split the Bill – Why Your Dating Dealbreakers Are the New Green Flags
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This isn’t an article about being difficult. It’s about being honest. Radical honesty—the kind that says, “I want someone generous, emotionally mature, and who doesn’t flinch at valet parking” isn’t just valid. It’s power. And while we’re at it, no more pretending. No more smiling…
Luxury Isn’t Shallow – It’s Intentional
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Stop Apologizing for Your Standards Somewhere along the way, “wanting more” has become a dirty phrase. We were told to stop being “extra.” Be low-maintenance. Ask for less, so we’re easier to deal with. Wanting a particular kind of lifestyle—or a specific type of partner—was…
Success Matters – There, We Said It
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Why Chemistry Requires Ambition Being kind—and most will agree on this—is a relationship baseline. It’s fuzzy, comforting, and undeniably a foundational component to any healthy relationship. But being nice alone isn’t enough. It doesn’t sustain intrigue. It doesn’t keep a spark alive. Nor does it…
Spotting a Bare Minimum Relationship and Moving On
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It happens fast. One moment, you’re wrapped up in an “us against the world” relationship, and the next, you feel you’re doing all the emotional heavy lifting. But how do you know when your partner is doing just enough to keep things from falling apart…
