Seeking Blog

  • Split the Bill?

    Split the Bill – Why Your Dating Dealbreakers Are the New Green Flags

    This isn’t an article about being difficult. It’s about being honest. Radical honesty—the kind that says, “I want someone generous, emotionally mature, and who doesn’t flinch at valet parking” isn’t just valid. It’s power. And while we’re at it, no more pretending. No more smiling through a date with someone who says they “don’t believe…

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  • Brandon and Dana

    Exciting Changes Ahead on Seeking

    A Message from Brandon Wade: When I founded Seeking.com in 2006, my vision was clear: create an extraordinary platform for successful individuals looking for meaningful relationships. In 2020, that vision personally became my reality when I met Dana. Despite our 30-year age gap, our connection was immediate, deep, and genuine, leading us to marry on…

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  • Couple on boat

    Luxury Isn’t Shallow – It’s Intentional

    Stop Apologizing for Your Standards Somewhere along the way, “wanting more” has become a dirty phrase. We were told to stop being “extra.” Be low-maintenance. Ask for less, so we’re easier to deal with. Wanting a particular kind of lifestyle—or a specific type of partner—was labeled as overtly materialistic. High standards? Gold-digging. Desire itself got…

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