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    Membership Prices Are Changing – But Yours Doesn’t Have To

    Big news, but no need for panic: Seeking is updating the pricing for Premium and Diamond memberships. This is the first price adjustment in years—and it reflects something important: the growing value of what we offer, and the even more intentional community we’re building. We’re not here to bury the lead. We’re here to explain…

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    Success Is Hot – Why Stinginess Is a Red Flag

    In dating, generosity isn’t extra – it’s everything I need to get something off my chest: Let’s stop pretending stinginess is just “being practical.” In dating, being frugal is not a personality quirk. It’s a warning sign. There’s a difference between having boundaries and withholding, between discernment and scarcity. And if you’ve ever been on…

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    You’re Not Too Much—You’re the Match Some Can’t Handle

    Some women were never meant to fade or play small. They move through the world without flinching at ambition, never softening their voice to make others comfortable, and they resist shrinking to resemble someone else’s idea of “enough.” These women are often described as “intimidating,” not because they lack kindness or tact, but because they…

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