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Dating tips, trends, stories, and more from Seeking.com
Standard, Premium, Or Diamond Membership: What’s The Difference?
You Know What You Want. Let’s Start With What You Get. On Seeking, intentionality isn’t just part of your dating life. It’s part of your membership. Members can join for free, build a standout profile, explore connections in their area, and more. Connections start with clarity, including what you’re here for, and what you’re getting…
The Cool Girl Is Cancelled
Say Hello to the Confident Woman Once upon a time, she was the gold standard—the chill girl who didn’t ever get mad, or ask for too much, and certainly never ordered the expensive wine. She was low-maintenance, zero-drama, and practically allergic to having an opinion. But lately, the myth of the Cool Girl has been…
The Power Move: Why Being Selective is Your Greatest Strength
I’ve noticed a trend. Dating advice lately seems to echo a single, exhausting refrain: be open, be flexible, and most of all, be willing to compromise. Standards, we are told, are obstacles; desires, optional. And that success in love belongs to those who have learned how to round down their dreams without making too much…
