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    The Power Move: Why Being Selective is Your Greatest Strength

    I’ve noticed a trend. Dating advice lately seems to echo a single, exhausting refrain: be open, be flexible, and most of all, be willing to compromise. Standards, we are told, are obstacles; desires, optional. And that success in love belongs to those who have learned how to round down their dreams without making too much…

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    Membership Prices Are Changing – But Yours Doesn’t Have To

    Big news, but no need for panic: Seeking is updating the pricing for Premium and Diamond memberships. This is the first price adjustment in years—and it reflects something important: the growing value of what we offer, and the even more intentional community we’re building. We’re not here to bury the lead. We’re here to explain…

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    Success Is Hot – Why Stinginess Is a Red Flag

    In dating, generosity isn’t extra – it’s everything I need to get something off my chest: Let’s stop pretending stinginess is just “being practical.” In dating, being frugal is not a personality quirk. It’s a warning sign. There’s a difference between having boundaries and withholding, between discernment and scarcity. And if you’ve ever been on…

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